Before I got married, I used several dating sites. The ones that are set up primarily for trans people attract those that will treat us like objects. I found it better to go with ordinary dating sites.
If you are privileged, you might want to go with something like "matchdotcom" where you pay for the service and probably get better matches.
If you are not so privileged, you might want to try something like "okcupiddotcom" which is free. I found my husband there after more than a year of diligence and weeding out catfish and various others.