You could try plenty of fish. I was on there in guy mode several years ago. I'm not sure how you would set up your account, maybe some of the other girls here would be helpful with that. I have a profile on FetLife as cd/tv and I had to set my orientation to lesbian so the dick pick people would leave me alone. That is not a site for dating. Once you pop up looking feminine you will be amazed at the rude messages you'll get. This is what cisgendered women have to put up with. It's really an eye opener. Be careful with whom you meet and good luck.