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MiaSanchez:
For the sake of this board I'll go by Mia.  I am new here and looking for some help to clear my confusion and some direction.  Since I was 7 yo, I have cross dressed.  I loved the feeling of being feminine.  I struggled in traditional relationships because many women want a manly man.  I lost a 23 year marriage because I discussed my desires with my ex-wife.  I have met an amazing alpha female who adores my feminine nature.  She loves my kindness, emotions and even accepts that I enjoy both men and women.  She's an ideal partner.  She was even open to me dressing and we tried it.  She said, it wasn't for her but wanted to give it a shot for me.  I don't want to live as a woman 24/7, but dressing grounds me.  We are not yet married but plan to marry soon.  But, I feel like I must bury this part of me in order to be with her.  She has been so understanding but the dressing seems to be a deal breaker for her.  I love her with all of me.  I don't want to let her go but I also don't want to hide dressing.  I can't let dressing go because it's been a part of me for most of my life.  She loves a feminized man but seems to be more ok with me being  her "gay husband" than a husband who likes to dress.  I would love some direction and advice.  Thanks in advance.

Maid Marion:
Hi Mia,

Welcome.

Hiding the need for dressing usually ends in disaster.
It is something that most of us can't change.

Marion

Northern Star Girl:
@MiaSanchez
Dear Mia
****Please know that I am not trying to hijack your post and your thoughts and comments but first I wish to Officially Welcome YOU to Susan's Place.
    I am happy to see that you have signed up as a member of Susan's Place last year and just now have submitted your first posting. 

    As you post here on the forums you will be able to exchange thoughts and comments with others that are experiencing many of the same things that you wrote about.
 
    This is the right place for you to be to find out what others may have to say that may have been in your circumstances and with your questions and concerns.
    There are a lot of members here that will be able to identify with your situation as you continue to feel free to share it.
 
    I want to warmly WELCOME you to Susan's Place. 
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.

    As you are certainly aware you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other like-minded members.  When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
     ***There is a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new like-minded friends here. 

    Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.   Other members will be along shortly to give you their thoughts about your questions and concerns that you mentioned in your very first posting.
   
    There is information and important LINKS that I have included below.   You will find information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.   
Please look closely at the LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask....

Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle

Here are some links to the site rules and stuff that all new members should be familiar with:
 
Things that you should readSite Terms of Service & Rules to Live ByStandard Terms & DefinitionsPost Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar)Cautionary NoteReputation rulesNews posting & quoting guidelinesPhoto, avatars, & signature images policyMembership Agreement

Northern Star Girl:
@MiaSanchez
Dear Mia:

   One more thing........
....If you feel so inclined please feel free to stop by the Introductions Forum to tell more members about yourself!
    With more exposure to more members here you will be able to get more responses to your questions and concerns.
    Wishing your well as you continue to be involved in the forums.

****NOTE: Now, after all of this Greeting and Welcoming stuff, I will give you and your readers your thread back so you can get some answers from other members.

If you have any questions please feel free to email me at  northernstargirl@susans.org

Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle
Global Moderator

MiaSanchez:

--- Quote from: Maid Marion on November 15, 2021, 04:20:04 pm ---Hi Mia,

Welcome.

Hiding the need for dressing usually ends in disaster.
It is something that most of us can't change.

Marion

--- End quote ---

Yeah, I understand but I don't know what to do.

Mia

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