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NSFW (is this normal?)
« on: December 05, 2021, 11:13:43 am »
I have a really weird question and I can't find any answers on Google but I have been on hrt for about four years and the way I feel arousal has completely changed, I no longer feel anything really in my penis, instead I feel a tingling in my pelvis.
It's like the feeling moved to internally.
Is this normal or should I bring this up to my doctor?
I don't want too unless I'm absolutely sure it's not normal because who the heck wants to talk about this in a a doctor's office?

Any feedback is appreciated! Thanks lovelies!

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Re: NSFW (is this normal?)
« Reply #1 on: December 05, 2021, 11:21:51 am »
I have a really weird question and I can't find any answers on Google but I have been on hrt for about four years and the way I feel arousal has completely changed, I no longer feel anything really in my penis, instead I feel a tingling in my pelvis.
It's like the feeling moved to internally.
Is this normal or should I bring this up to my doctor?
I don't want too unless I'm absolutely sure it's not normal because who the heck wants to talk about this in a a doctor's office?

Any feedback is appreciated! Thanks lovelies!
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Re: NSFW (is this normal?)
« Reply #2 on: December 05, 2021, 11:35:10 am »
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Re: NSFW (is this normal?)
« Reply #3 on: December 05, 2021, 11:58:12 am »


I have a really weird question and I can't find any answers on Google but I have been on hrt for about four years and the way I feel arousal has completely changed, I no longer feel anything really in my penis, instead I feel a tingling in my pelvis.
It's like the feeling moved to internally.
Is this normal or should I bring this up to my doctor?
I don't want too unless I'm absolutely sure it's not normal because who the heck wants to talk about this in a a doctor's office?

Any feedback is appreciated! Thanks lovelies!

Your Mileage Will Vary, of course, but so many people report feelings very similar to yours: less genitally-oriented, more full-body or at least relocated internally.

Totes common.

There's nothing wrong with bringing it up with your doctor, either. You're partners in this. It's good to report new changes.
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Re: NSFW (is this normal?)
« Reply #4 on: December 05, 2021, 12:26:12 pm »

Your Mileage Will Vary, of course, but so many people report feelings very similar to yours: less genitally-oriented, more full-body or at least relocated internally.

Totes common.

There's nothing wrong with bringing it up with your doctor, either. You're partners in this. It's good to report new changes.

Thank you!
I remember at first it was like "this hits a little different now" but it's it's went into crossing a line where my genitals aren't useful in any sexual context which can be frustrating when I want to top a pretty lady! x.x
I just don't know if that's a bug or a feature basically

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Re: NSFW (is this normal?)
« Reply #5 on: December 05, 2021, 12:36:47 pm »
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Re: NSFW (is this normal?)
« Reply #6 on: December 05, 2021, 09:31:33 pm »



I just don't know if that's a bug or a feature


Depends on how you look at it. 
"It's not really a choice. Because we're not choosing to transition...we're choosing to be happy." -- SarahC

"Freedom comes at a high price. But I have paid that price, and I am free." -- Muhammad Ali

"Have a gentle manner ❤️" -- Chrissy Ryan
"Working on it" -- Battle Goddess

"When going through hell, best keep moving." -- Old & KIA

“Darling,” She said, “it doesn’t matter. You have only one choice. You can walk farther along the path or not. It is a narrow path. You may be scared about lifting your foot up to take your next step. It doesn’t matter. You don’t have to step very far. It’s up to you.
"But all you get to do is choose. Your anxieties, your fears, your courage, your happiness, your rage: go ahead and feel them all you want. They don’t matter. What matters is what you choose.
“I can promise you a long and fascinating road. I’ll give you tools along the way. I’ll be with you every step.
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Re: NSFW (is this normal?)
« Reply #7 on: December 08, 2021, 10:59:18 am »
I so glad you posted this because it has totally happens(ed) to me.  For me this fits the pattern of "this is how it's supposed to be" feelings.  It does make me want full GCS--it's tough having an itch you just cannot scratch.  :-)
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Re: NSFW (is this normal?)
« Reply #8 on: December 15, 2021, 02:43:29 am »
I so glad you posted this because it has totally happens(ed) to me.  For me this fits the pattern of "this is how it's supposed to be" feelings.  It does make me want full GCS--it's tough having an itch you just cannot scratch.  :-)

I'm so relieved it isn't just me!
It's exactly how you describe it! I feel arousal but it's IN my pelvis so there's nothing I can do about it!

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Re: NSFW (is this normal?)
« Reply #9 on: December 22, 2021, 04:03:47 pm »
Wohhhh... can't believe im reading this! I have too!!!

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Re: NSFW (is this normal?)
« Reply #10 on: December 22, 2021, 06:25:35 pm »
I was on HRT for almost 3.5 years before having GCS. I think at about the 3 or 4 month mark my genitals were useless. I wanted to have sex mentally but physically I was done. 

  After I had GCS I wanted to have sex but was scared I would break something. Eventually I had sex and now I am very active. The glands penis was used for the clit and it definitely has a wonderful use now.
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