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Offline ronniekylie90

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Trans women and straight men
« on: February 28, 2022, 01:09:56 am »
What's your experience when it comes to being a trans woman and dealing with men. Particularly straight men?

As a trans woman, who's attracted to men, I have to say that my experience has been pretty mixed so far. Some really don't seem to be THAT bothered about having people know that they are dating a trans woman, while some others are very cagey about it and keep it super on the down low and want discretion.

I have also found, that I tend to have a preference for men who have little to no experience with women like us.

I find it really panicky, dealing with situations that come from everyday life tho, say you meet somebody outside who takes interest, and he might not know I'm trans and it's just finding out the right time on when and if to tell them. I only ever do if somehow we get to the stage of getting involved sexually and if I'm interested in the guy.

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Re: Trans women and straight men
« Reply #1 on: February 28, 2022, 02:03:50 am »
@ronniekylie90
I had documented my experiences dating straight men on my blog back in early 2018...
...you might be interested in reading the various postings in my blog thread...

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Offline ronniekylie90

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Re: Trans women and straight men
« Reply #2 on: February 28, 2022, 02:50:45 am »
@ronniekylie90
I had documented my experiences dating straight men on my blog back in early 2018...
...you might be interested in reading the various postings in my blog thread...

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hey lovely, I did read a few of your posts, they were quite interesting and can totally relate :) How are things atm? Did you find a boyfriend or are you still navigating the dating world?

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Re: Trans women and straight men
« Reply #3 on: February 28, 2022, 03:42:26 am »
I was a dirty secret they didn't want anyone else to find out.

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Re: Trans women and straight men
« Reply #4 on: March 04, 2022, 11:41:30 pm »
I have only dated straight men that have had no experience with trans women. Of course, some freaked out and rejected me. But, that was no reason to change my preferences. At present, I have been married for over 6 years to the last one I dated.
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Re: Trans women and straight men
« Reply #5 on: May 19, 2022, 09:00:14 am »
I have only dated straight men that have had no experience with trans women. Of course, some freaked out and rejected me. But, that was no reason to change my preferences. At present, I have been married for over 6 years to the last one I dated.
Same here, I've been married to a straight man for over 10 years, he knows my trans history but we never discuss it, we're now just an ordinary husband and wife team, he does all the husband/guy stuff, I do all the wife stuff, housekeeping cooking etc life is just so normal.
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