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Curious Individual needing advice
Devlyn:
--- Quote from: Cwillytr on October 23, 2022, 12:15:38 pm ---Hi everyone, I’m not sure if this is the right group but I’m going to give it a go. I’m a 24 y/o cisgender male as of now and lately I have been more and more curious about myself. I’ve recently wondered what it would be like to be with a man. However, I have at times pictured myself as a woman in these thoughts as well as just a “femboy”. Additionally, I have grown more attractive to feminine looking males, but I believe it may just be due to jealously of them living a life that I may want myself. I’ve started to try more feminine things lately including painting my nails and wearing female clothing. I am curious if there are others like me who have gone through similar situations and have advice for me.
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Hi Cwillytr, welcome to Susan's Place! You'll make lots of friends here. :)
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Hugs, Devlyn
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Northern Star Girl:
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Dear Cwillytr
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Cwillytr:
--- Quote from: Devlyn on October 23, 2022, 03:12:08 pm ---Hi Cwillytr, welcome to Susan's Place! You'll make lots of friends here. :)
You can't follow the link yet because the Sexuality subforum is a post count restricted area. That will open up to you as you make more posts. Here's the welcome pamphlet we give to all new members. See you around the site!
Hugs, Devlyn
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Thank you for the welcome!! Also, yes I will look to get involved with that forum when the time comes as my sexuality is also seemingly changing as well as I have only been with straight women in my life, but as has been said am starting to become more in touch with my feminine side and in turn believe that I may be more attracted to men.
XOXO, Nicky
Cwillytr:
--- Quote from: Northern Star Girl on October 23, 2022, 03:38:45 pm ---@Cwillytr
Dear Cwillytr
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members a little about yourself so that they will be aware of your arrival here on Susan's Place.
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thread back to you and others so the conversation can continue.
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Danielle,
Thank you so much for the welcome girl!! I feel the love and welcome here!
Cwillytr:
--- Quote from: Sephirah on October 23, 2022, 02:26:33 pm ---Okay sweetie. Thank you for your answer. *hugs*
The advice I'm going to give you is this: try and get in touch with a professional who you can talk to face to face and discuss this. Someone trained in gender issues. I have a gut feeling that the way you feel isn't linked to sexuality, or who you are or aren't attracted to. I think it goes deeper than that. And I think it's something you need to find your own answers for.
You need to examine why you felt good about yourself, and what it means for you. When you take other people out of the equation and focus on you and how you feel about you, that's what matters most.
I think that you can find your own answers, sweetie. For who you are. Not linked to sexuality. That will fall into place as a consequence of understanding yourself, okay?
You can do this, I believe in you. <3 Focus on who you are first, and the rest of the world will become apparent relative to that.
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I do believe that you have a good point in saying that I need t find out more about that side of me and why it felt good. Although I do think I need to explore the other side of my sexuality as well as more and more I find myself thinking about what it would be like as well as it occurring in my dreams.
XOXO, NICKY
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