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MoonTheBean:
I'm feeling better. No anger or hatred, or bad thoughts about it.
I decided, after not thinking about it for a bit, and going unlabeled for a bit, to use the label Demiboy.
However, this is only an experiment to see if:
1. It fits and is right
2. It makes me happy
3. It's comfortable
My pronouns change, but right now could you please use He/they pronouns.
I decided that I would like to bind, and am considering top surgery (which, if I have to admit, would be nice, and I can't yet do any of this though, so my own little journey will have to wait), and maybe, just maybe, bottom surgery, although I think I don't want it, and i'm not gonna do something I'm not ready for, or don't want.
I'll make another post once I've decided this is the right label for me. <3
I wish you a good day! :)

Northern Star Girl:
@MoonTheBean
Dear Moon:
Your feelings and your thoughts that you shared are all yours that you have to make decisions about.  Might I suggest again that you seek a gender therapist, or lacking that, at least find a therapist that helps you to navigate your life changing decision making process.
Regarding pronouns and labeling that you wish to be used involving yourself, these are things that you can directly decide upon and can control....
     HOWEVER
regarding surgeries, think long and hard about what you do, hopefully with the counseling of your doctor and therapist....  the surgeries that you described can not be undone, so you must make the correct decision for YOU and YOU alone.

I will continue following your postings and updates around the Forums as you feel comfortable sharing.
Best wishes and happiness are what is needed for you.
Danielle


--- Quote from: MoonTheBean on March 22, 2023, 03:47:37 pm ---I'm feeling better. No anger or hatred, or bad thoughts about it.
I decided, after not thinking about it for a bit, and going unlabeled for a bit, to use the label Demiboy.
However, this is only an experiment to see if:
1. It fits and is right
2. It makes me happy
3. It's comfortable
My pronouns change, but right now could you please use He/they pronouns.
I decided that I would like to bind, and am considering top surgery (which, if I have to admit, would be nice, and I can't yet do any of this though, so my own little journey will have to wait), and maybe, just maybe, bottom surgery, although I think I don't want it, and i'm not gonna do something I'm not ready for, or don't want.
I'll make another post once I've decided this is the right label for me. <3
I wish you a good day! :)

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