Would you want to know what people REALLY thought of you, your passability, how well you are perceived as your gender or would you prefer to think whatever you think currently?

I'd love to know what they think!
18 (37.5%)
I'd like to know, but that's a hard decision
11 (22.9%)
I'd probably not want to know but that's a hard decision
5 (10.4%)
No way! I don't care, I'm happy not knowing!
14 (29.2%)

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Offline V M

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Re: What Are People Thinking About You???
« Reply #20 on: April 11, 2009, 08:32:47 pm »
If I started to care about what people were thinking about me, I'd either go nuts or take over the world. Obviously, I don't really care much about that anymore. But I did catch some of you not bowing to Goddess Virginia  :laugh: >:-) :laugh:
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Re: What Are People Thinking About You???
« Reply #21 on: April 15, 2019, 08:07:13 am »
One of the things that helped me a lot during the early phases of transition was this thought:

"What other people think or say about me is none of my business."  It applies at several layers of being.


I agree with this above and heard the same thing years ago. This phrase seems to have made it's way through the word space quite a bit...

It's like "free your mind instead"

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Re: What Are People Thinking About You???
« Reply #22 on: April 15, 2019, 08:27:05 am »
I have to say I am not to bothered most of the time what they think...some days it gets to me but on the whole I am who I am and what others think is really of no consequence. Women and Men come in all shapes and sizes and we all have flaws.... ;)
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