Hi there Ladies, I have just joined this lovely site although I have been popping in and out of reading the Forums for a few months.
I am a 61 year old male, I live in Dorset and married to my lovely wife for the past 28 years, I wish to dress as often as possible if I had the chance. I love short skirts and dresses which show off my stocking clad legs and high heels. I have both ear pierced and like to wear earrings all the time.
I have worn ladies underwear and stockings for many years now under my normal male work clothes, I have also now been wearing bras under my work clothes. Was fairly hairy but love to be completely hair free and silky smooth so have had full body Laser hair removal but need some more to finish off and face needs Electrolysis. Currently allowed to dress in the house once or twice a week but I'm told that I break that rule and have now fully dressed with makeup but no wig in front of the wife, as she thought the wig was to much for her to handle.
Love to have my nails done, but would really love them coloured, do have my toes coloured most of the time. Also have eyelashes tinted and brows waxed and shaped.
I always wear stockings and co ordinated lingerie.
I am a brown eyed brunette, 6ft 4ins tall, size 22/24 and cuddly 42D breasts, good legs I think.
Not much free time, I have been out in local area dressed to have my nails and hair done. Have once been out dressed when working away from home.
Looking forward to chatting with like minded ladies.
Jean x
Hi Jean :icon_wave:
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Hugs
V M
@Jean57 Hello Jean,
Thank you for introducing yourself. Please know that I am not trying to hijack your thread but first things first.
I see that you are new here and may have questions and concerns, this is the right place for you to be to find out what others have done that may have been in your situation.
Be aware that there are lots of members here that can identify with what you brought up in your introduction posting.
I see that our member @V M has already sent you an official welcome message but please allow me to also WELCOME you to Susan's Place. You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.
It is nice that you have signed up so you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other members.
When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new friends here.
Please come in and get involved at your own pace.
Be sure to look at the Links that @V M posted below her welcome message, there is information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.
Pay special attention to the LINKS IN RED...
...answers to questions that many new members have can be found there.
Again, Welcome.
Danielle
Hello, I just joined today too! It's very nice to meet you.
Hehehe... that rhymed.
Hi Jean, Hi Sally,
Nice to meet you both. My name is Moni. Jean we are the same age. Not sure where Dorset is. Sounds like you have worked out some compromises which is really nice. Maybe over time things will get freer for you and less worrisome for your SO. Anyway, hope to see ya's around.
Hi Sally
Thank you for your welcome, wishing you all the best here.
Jean x
Hi Moni, thank you for your welcome, it's great to be here. Dorset is a County on the south coast of England, we live 300 yards from the beach in Bournemouth.
Jean x
Hi Jean 🙋♀️ Welcome to Susan's Place, I'm Jessica! You are the age I was when i started hrt.
Dorset you say, I'm on the other side of the globe from you in California, but I understand that there are a number of Susan's members in the UK. Get to know em!
I sounds to me that you have an understanding wife, but with issues about it all. She may be thinking that the time she "allows" you, to be open with your feelings, is enough to quell your desires. It may be, but maybe not. 28 years of marriage, of sharing, of loving, of future dreams can create a strong bond that can withstand and be flexible. Is she open to talk about more freedom for yourself? Would she consider couples therapy or even by herself?
With myself, I've found that the more I have felt the pull of who I am, the more I want to be her.
Hugs a smiles, Jess
Hi Jess, thank you for the welcome. My wife has seen a therapist but they knew nothing about cross dressing and Transgenderism so see stop as it was not helping her.
On Saturday I asked what we were doing on Sunday as I wanted to dress and go out somewhere for a nice day together and go to see Mama Mia in and town, it would have meant leaving the flat in male mode and getting changing in toilets somewhere her idea as she does not want anyone in our block to know about my other side. She wanted to see the film but not with me dressed and the cinema in the other town did not have the nice seat that we have in our cinema.
In the end we did not go out but I did wear a dress all day at home but did not do makeup or wig etc.
On 30th October we are going to Las Vegas with family for a wedding then they go on to Mexico and we stay an extra day in Las Vegas and I would like to dress that day and go out about in the town, so need to ask her if that would be possible.
Jean x