LOL, speaking of work...my boss finally bought some correctly cut shirts for me. The only issue is they are made of a material that I feel I am certain will be destroyed in short order, but the effort is nice :)
Quote from: Kendra on April 14, 2018, 01:38:48 PMI was able to simply show up one day as my true self. No big meetings or email announcements necessary.
Honestly this is exactly what I plan on doing. I only heard one other person, Gage a youtuber (works in retail and has been promoted to manager now I believe), mention doing the exact same thing. Thanks for sharing, I didn't know this was your approach.
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I still have no plans to become much of an activist, but I've found my voice a bit and am trying to start speaking up on social media.
I survived another round of facial electrolysis. And my first round of surgical prep electrolysis. I was terrified that I wouldn't be able to complete my first round, but I did - and it wasn't as horrible as I expected it to be.
Vanilla ice cream [emoji4]
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I'm exhausted and sore from transition stuff, but I'm also realizing how amazing it is to not hide anymore.
Approval for genital hair removal through my insurance came! My laser center admin contacted me and they received written auth to proceed. That means I get a bunch of zapping on the 27th as it is my last facial session and the start of genital region. I put in for the day off so the area has time to cool down.
It is amazing the directions life will take when we focus intent. Transition is a long process and I knew that it would be one step at a time, but I never imagined it would this amazing!
Thank you, every one of you for the support you have given :)
They attempted the patch with me. I have oily skin and it lasted all of a day before falling off. I think skin type might have an effect on the effectiveness of the patch. For me the patch had zero effect.
To all, 16 Apr 2018
As I viewed the posts on this thread and looked at the photos, I saw absolute beauty in every single one of them. I'm relatively new to TG and older than most on this planet, I hope I can attain at least 10% of the beauty I see here, and elsewhere on Susan's Place.
Thanks for allowing me to be here; it's an honor and privilege to be a member of the neatest and most interesting group of people on Spaceship Earth.
What makes me happy today? YOU ALL.
Best always; love
Christine
My parents! They made me happy today. I actually cried tears. I'm 56, my dad is 88. I just got divorced and I gave my ex everything. Therefore I'm living pretty much paycheck to paycheck with some limited savings.
They offered to gift me enough for a down payment on a condo instead of throwing all my money into a rental. The other thing is, they gendered me 90% correctly this whole weekend. They deserve a special place.
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Quote from: Denise on April 16, 2018, 01:51:36 PM
My parents! They made me happy today. I actually cried tears. I'm 56, my dad is 88. I just got divorced and I gave my ex everything. Therefore I'm living pretty much paycheck to paycheck with some limited savings.
They offered to gift me enough for a down payment on a condo instead of throwing all my money into a rental. The other thing is, they gendered me 90% correctly this whole weekend. They deserve a special place.
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Denise, that's so wonderful - your parents are absolutely precious! I'm so happy for you. That's proof that we all deserve a second chance at having the lives we're supposed to have and that it IS possible! Happy condo hunting, girlfriend!
Hugs,
Sarah from ChiTown
Quote from: Denise on April 16, 2018, 01:51:36 PM
My parents! They made me happy today. I actually cried tears. I'm 56, my dad is 88. I just got divorced and I gave my ex everything. Therefore I'm living pretty much paycheck to paycheck with some limited savings.
They offered to gift me enough for a down payment on a condo instead of throwing all my money into a rental. The other thing is, they gendered me 90% correctly this whole weekend. They deserve a special place.
Your parents are amazing.
I finally emailed a private clinic and hopefully will have a consultation soon. :) Plus it was sunny today and I was working from home so I had my lunch outside in my garden wearing one of my favourite dresses which is just wonderful.
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Quote from: Denise on April 16, 2018, 01:51:36 PM
My parents! They made me happy today. I actually cried tears. I'm 56, my dad is 88. I just got divorced and I gave my ex everything. Therefore I'm living pretty much paycheck to paycheck with some limited savings.
They offered to gift me enough for a down payment on a condo instead of throwing all my money into a rental. The other thing is, they gendered me 90% correctly this whole weekend. They deserve a special place.
You have awesome parents. I'm so happy they are so supportive! <3
This was last night but @Jayne01 kept me up past my bedtime.
Those that have read my verbal crap know about me & mirrors, also know that I put in a larger mirror for my wife despite how they affect me.
Last night, while I was in there to remove my face, I looked in the mirror and Faith was looking back. She's old and wrinkled but she was there. I teared up, for some unknown reason, and almost broke down. I had to look away before I lost it and ruined the moment .. but it was a good moment.
Quote from: Faith on April 17, 2018, 06:19:43 AMLast night, while I was in there to remove my face, I looked in the mirror and Faith was looking back. She's old and wrinkled but she was there. I teared up, for some unknown reason, and almost broke down.
Oh Faith Faith Faith... you know why it was emotional. I clearly remember the first time I saw
her looking back at me. At first she was smiling, then she was crying. With very few exceptions she has always been there to great me with a happy grin ever since.
She seems like a nice girl, even if she's so much older and more wrinkledy than you.
- Stephanie
Quote from: ToriJo on April 14, 2018, 07:30:15 PM
I survived another round of facial electrolysis. And my first round of surgical prep electrolysis. I was terrified that I wouldn't be able to complete my first round, but I did - and it wasn't as horrible as I expected it to be.
I applause your courage to take on electrolysis! I went to a consultation and was scared off by the process. I think I would need general anesthesia. Good luck in getting rid of those nasty man hairs :) I can't wait to look in the mirror and not see them.
Lindy
At Montreal Airport to update my Nexus Card since I got a new Passport last year. Both Nexus Card and Passport Show "Male"...
The officer asks: "How are you related to this person?" Later calls me back "Madam" and gave me a full paper of instructions how to get my gender updated for "whenever the new papers come"....
I have tears in my eyes ruining my makeup....
Quote from: Denise on April 16, 2018, 01:51:36 PM
My parents! They made me happy today. I actually cried tears. I'm 56, my dad is 88. I just got divorced and I gave my ex everything. Therefore I'm living pretty much paycheck to paycheck with some limited savings.
They offered to gift me enough for a down payment on a condo instead of throwing all my money into a rental. The other thing is, they gendered me 90% correctly this whole weekend. They deserve a special place.
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Denise, 17 Apr 18
Congratulations! You are very lucky to have such fine and generous parents; not everyone is so fortunate. Good luck finding your dream condo. I'm sure you will have fun looking, finding and moving in.
Tell your folks I said Thank You for making you happy.
Best always,
Christine
Quote from: Roll on April 14, 2018, 06:18:46 PM
I still have no plans to become much of an activist, but I've found my voice a bit and am trying to start speaking up on social media.
I still tell people that I am an educator, not an activist. I enlighten when I can, but I don't have the time or patience for those who do not wish to listen. For many I am one of the few, if not only, transgender persons they know. Just being a much better version of myself had a softening effect on people's views.
Quote from: amberwaves on April 18, 2018, 11:51:13 AM
I still tell people that I am an educator, not an activist. I enlighten when I can, but I don't have the time or patience for those who do not wish to listen. For many I am one of the few, if not only, transgender persons they know. Just being a much better version of myself had a softening effect on people's views.
Amber, I like that... educator, not an activist.... much closer to what I try to be. The word activist can be a red flag and a turn-off for those that you want to "educate"
Well, yes, in my case also, I am the only trans-woman that these people in my town have ever seen.... so I am trying to make very certain that it is a positive experience for them. .... and for me!!!!
Danielle
Quote from: amberwaves on April 18, 2018, 11:51:13 AM
I still tell people that I am an educator, not an activist. I enlighten when I can, but I don't have the time or patience for those who do not wish to listen. For many I am one of the few, if not only, transgender persons they know. Just being a much better version of myself had a softening effect on people's views.
I absolutely love that line! I'm gonna steal it. ;D
I hate the idea of pushing for politics or arguing with people over stuff, I just want to express my personal happiness, comfort others if at all possible, and help people understand that this isn't about an agenda or beliefs, just people trying to be better people.
Received a call from my therapists office that my surgery letter is ready to be picked up! :D
Quote from: Trisity on April 18, 2018, 04:13:07 PM
Received a call from my therapists office that my surgery letter is ready to be picked up! :D
Hi Trisity, 18 Apr 18
Congratulations; I'm sure you are very happy. Best wishes for a happy transition.
Best Always,
Christine
So just a few hours ago I get a message from an old coworker. She was amazed about my transition. We talked about our past working together and I found out she thought I was hot as a male and loved the way I made her laugh and feel we both flirted with each other back than. She than said from the pics she has seen of me she still thinks I am hot. I told her that I thought she was hot too. She said that she would like to meet up and go for drinks. It made me feel good as I am always been self conscious about myself and the fact she is 5 years younger than me made me feel good too.
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on April 18, 2018, 11:25:31 PM
So just a few hours ago I get a message from an old coworker. She was amazed about my transition. We talked about our past working together and I found out she thought I was hot as a male and loved the way I made her laugh and feel we both flirted with each other back than. She than said from the pics she has seen of me she still thinks I am hot. I told her that I thought she was hot too. She said that she would like to meet up and go for drinks. It made me feel good as I am always been self conscious about myself and the fact she is 5 years younger than me made me feel good too.
Natalie, 19 April 2018
WOW, sounds like a beautiful relationship in the budding stages; go for it.
I'm envious.
Best of luck to you both,
Christine
It's probably just a passing thought, but I'm having fun embracing my femininity. Seeing changes to my body and face finally is shocking yet I don't want it to stop. I'm not saying I'm where I wanna be but it's something.
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It's my birthday! :)
Quote from: SiobhánF on April 19, 2018, 03:22:25 AM
It's my birthday! :)
Happy Birthday Siobhán
Quote from: Allison S on April 19, 2018, 03:09:54 AM
It's probably just a passing thought, but I'm having fun embracing my femininity. Seeing changes to my body and face finally is shocking yet I don't want it to stop. I'm not saying I'm where I wanna be but it's something.
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Go for it Allison you look wonderful
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Natalie, 19 April 2018
WOW, sounds like a beautiful relationship in the budding stages; go for it.
I'm envious.
Best of luck to you both,
Christine
Thank you,I may see where this is going to go I am just happy we both work at separate places
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on April 19, 2018, 07:01:13 AM
Thank you,I may see where this is going to go I am just happy we both work at separate places
Lol yes that's important. Sounds like a good date night at least and a chance to doll up and have fun!!
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Quote from: SiobhánF on April 19, 2018, 03:22:25 AM
It's my birthday! :)
Happy birthday! Hopefully the day goes fantastic for you
Happy Birthday!
My day went okay, but tomorrow I get to see my endo earlier than I expected. Such a good feeling. ^_^
Quote from: SiobhánF on April 20, 2018, 01:52:47 AM
My day went okay, but tomorrow I get to see my endo earlier than I expected. Such a good feeling. ^_^
Happy Birthay Siobhán, and good luck with your endo!
Sonja
Thanks, Sonja!
I started my hormones today! Patch and spiro. Happiness all over today.
SiobhánF, congrats on starting HRT! :)
Quote from: SiobhánF on April 20, 2018, 06:35:37 PM
Thanks, Sonja!
I started my hormones today! Patch and spiro. Happiness all over today.
A great birthday present for the Birthday Girl! :)
Happy Belated Birthday!
Quote from: SiobhánF on April 20, 2018, 06:35:37 PM
Thanks, Sonja!
I started my hormones today! Patch and spiro. Happiness all over today.
Congratulations :)
Today I had fun being the boom operator for my fiend's short film he's making. Was feeling pretty down prior but he kinda last minute told me that he was shooting today and asked me if I could boom and I did and it made me feel better and it was fun. I was using a rented Sennheiser mkh 416 p48 microphone on a boom pole with a blimp and dead cat (that's what you all the fluffy thing that goes on a mic) and brought my backpack that I wore on my chest to put all the cables in and set my Zoom H4n Pro inside. I don't own an actual professional audio bag but it worked out so that was good and felt like a real audio hero.
I am wearing a comfy, but not a particularly feminine blouse and hadn't touched my face for 8 hours or so, no jewelry, no padding, etc - basically not any particular effort to appear as a woman. A delivery driver stopped by - so I answered the door. The driver starts to say "Thank you, sir" but stops mid "sir" and goes "Thank you, si....ooooooo much!"
Usually, I rely on cues I add to my body to help people gender me - I didn't have much of that for this, it was just some relatively boring (but comfortable!) clothes, and I was wearing very minimal makeup from the morning, not the full face I have been wearing. So that I'm not looking obviously super male is wonderful - I want to cry happy tears.
Thru my first full day on my eligard injection. Heading for castrate levels in prep for orchi in just over 3 months. I'm so excited
Quote from: SiobhánF on April 20, 2018, 06:35:37 PM
Thanks, Sonja!
I started my hormones today! Patch and spiro. Happiness all over today.
Congrats and welcome to another step along your journey! :eusa_dance:
Seeing some of my closest friends get engaged and having a lovely BBQ with them :) I've also booked a session with with a clinic to see if I can speed things up a bit.
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Quote from: kaitylynn on April 21, 2018, 10:44:04 PM
Congrats and welcome to another step along your journey! :eusa_dance:
Thank you thank you! ^_^
having a simple chat with my female work counterpart, she's never made a big deal out of my changes.
anyway, subject of dessert came up, I made mention of dinner last night (because of cheesecake dessert, yum).
I summed up the story I posted in my progress thread about and then I mentioned that I'd likely never pass as a woman in any case (when I referred to the older balding guy commenting on my hair).
She simply said, "Oh I don't know, I think you'll pass just fine" and then continued on with our conversation.
Well now, don't that beat all. :D
Quote from: Faith on April 26, 2018, 12:31:20 PM
having a simple chat with my female work counterpart, she's never made a big deal out of my changes.
anyway, subject of dessert came up, I made mention of dinner last night (because of cheesecake dessert, yum).
L
I summed up the story I posted in my progress thread about and then I mentioned that I'd likely never pass as a woman in any case (when I referred to the older balding guy commenting on my hair).
She simply said, "Oh I don't know, I think you'll pass just fine" and then continued on with our conversation.
Well now, don't that beat all. :D
Well,
@Faith... that is a great affirmation of how you are doing in your transition journey. It certainly helps boost your self-confidence as you continue toward your goal.
I love hearing good news like what you just reported!!! I am very happy for you.
Hugs,
Danielle
After 6 months of cock ups and delays I am at last Davina Martina
Snap-snap-snap goes the laser as the clearing of the lower region begins! First laser session in prep for hopefully not too distant surgery. It will take several more sessions, but it is a start. The application is going in next month. Still have to get my second letter, but insurance will be providing referal to my clinical therapist, have a fee standing letter from my primary therapist and endocrinologist.
Started living 100% as me after my legal gender marker change, could stand to lose a could of pounds, but otherwise...all criteria met or very soon to be.
For all the standards of care and medical professional stuff being important though, that I am ready in all regards within myself to step forward to making myself whole is the most awesome! Hard to believe that I have arrived here after so many years surrendering to my fears, prejudice and denial.
Thanx everyone!
Quote from: kaitylynn on April 27, 2018, 01:13:49 PM
Snap-snap-snap goes the laser as the clearing of the lower region begins! First laser session in prep for hopefully not too distant surgery. It will take several more sessions, but it is a start. The application is going in next month. Still have to get my second letter, but insurance will be providing referal to my clinical therapist, have a fee standing letter from my primary therapist and endocrinologist.
Started living 100% as me after my legal gender marker change, could stand to lose a could of pounds, but otherwise...all criteria met or very soon to be.
For all the standards of care and medical professional stuff being important though, that I am ready in all regards within myself to step forward to making myself whole is the most awesome! Hard to believe that I have arrived here after so many years surrendering to my fears, prejudice and denial.
Thanx everyone!
That's wonderful! I will get there someday. :)
Simply being who I want to be. I smile at everyone I cross even when they seams to be confused or shocked looking at me. And then I think: this is better than not being seen at all... [emoji4][emoji4]
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I had a heart to heart the other day with a co-worker because I'm going through a bit of a rough patch. She already knew I'm a lesbian and I outed myself as trans because it was crucial to the issue. As the conversation wound down we got to talking about kids and, like the proud mama I am, I gushed over our son.
She asked if Randi carried him or I did!
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Quote from: Dee Marshall on April 28, 2018, 06:14:52 AM
She asked if Randi carried him or I did!
Too funny! :D She seems to have no trouble understanding the lesbian part. Might be having a little trouble comprehending the trans part. Sounds like a win, though!
Quote from: KathyLauren on April 28, 2018, 06:27:59 AM
Too funny! :D She seems to have no trouble understanding the lesbian part. Might be having a little trouble comprehending the trans part. Sounds like a win, though!
She knows the basics of what trans means, she just can't conceptualize me as ever having appeared to be a man or being capable of fathering a child.
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Pudding for breakfast :) xx
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Quote from: MollyPants on April 28, 2018, 08:17:34 AM
Pudding for breakfast :) xx
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Hello MollyPants, 28 Apr 2018
What flavor, cooked or instant?
My favorite is Jello orange flavor tapioca pudding, the cooked variety. Unfortunately, it's no longer available, so I flavor it myself with frozen OJ added while cooking; doesn't take much.
Best always,
Christine
Quote from: davina61 on April 27, 2018, 12:51:32 PM
After 6 months of cock ups and delays I am at last Davina Martina
Congratz Davina, Go girl Go
Myself I had test patch on IPL yesterday and its cleared whole area on neck with no marking and l level of 18 whatever that is, so booked in next week for full face first time.. £90 for full face which I think is good if it works. Consultant says she thinks I will get good results as my facial hair is slow growing but is dark enough - and about time as well I think )
Katie Jade
Quote from: christinej78 on April 28, 2018, 11:19:37 AM
Hello MollyPants, 28 Apr 2018
What flavor, cooked or instant?
My favorite is Jello orange flavor tapioca pudding, the cooked variety. Unfortunately, it's no longer available, so I flavor it myself with frozen OJ added while cooking; doesn't take much.
Best always,
Christine
It was Tiramisu, my partner is on nights so it was actually her evening meal... Which totally makes it ok. Lol! Tiramisu is my joint favourite alongside trifle!!!
I've never actually tried tapioca, I've only ever heard stories about it being served at schools before my time...
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I was watching TV with my wife when someone rang the door. Being the morning, I hadn't shaved yet, had no makeup, etc, although I was wearing a female T-shirt and jeans. But nothing particularly gendered.
But, what the heck, I'll get the door. It's my house after all. It was a politician who looked at me, looked at his list of names, looked at me, looked at his list of names, and just looked really, really confused. I know he was there for me, not my wife, but he never said my name once - I think he really couldn't figure out if I was the (female) on his list or not. Oh, and no "sir" or "mister" either - which is awesome considering there was definitely some stubble.
I felt so good afterwards that I'm no longer appearing 100% male to everyone. Maybe I'm starting to look like the person I am.
All the friends here on Susans...
Quote from: MollyPants on April 28, 2018, 05:28:57 PM
It was Tiramisu, my partner is on nights so it was actually her evening meal... Which totally makes it ok. Lol! Tiramisu is my joint favourite alongside trifle!!!
I've never actually tried tapioca, I've only ever heard stories about it being served at schools before my time...
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Hi MollyPants, 28 April 2018
I love Tiramisu so much I could make a meal of it. I have considered going to an Italian Restaurant and ordering Tiramisu for dinner and Tiramisu for desert. It's a rich desert; I imagine the calorie count would be quite high if I ever do it.
Never heard of Trifle; looked it up and it looks like a desert to die for. Now all I have to do is find someplace that has it. Any suggestions short of making it myself?
I used to live in Mexico and developed a love of Flan. There's a restaurant chain there by the name of Vip's, (pronounced Beep's) where I used to eat quite often. Almost always had Flan for desert.
Now I have a new mission in life, find a source for Trifle so I can try it. From the looks of what I saw on the Web I know I'll love it. Thanks for providing the nudge I needed for my new mission.
Best Always,
Christine
Three big things!
Came out to my mom, it went alright. She was mostly surprised as most of my transgender identity developed in college. She seems confused and perhaps scared of losing me, but i think with time she'll know I'm still me.
I got new femme clothes from my friend!They dont present femme much anymore so they gave me a lot of cute bras and tops. They are also goung to help me learn to sew and I am ecstatic for that.
I told my favorite manager i wear lady clothes. Not in any kind of confessional manner, just mentioned I like lady clothes cause they are nice and she complimented me on being confident. Even though she knows nothing of my gender, its nice to know people accept me as I am.
Busy day for me, definitely a good one :)
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Quote from: ToriJo on April 28, 2018, 10:25:11 PM
I was watching TV with my wife when someone rang the door. Being the morning, I hadn't shaved yet, had no makeup, etc, although I was wearing a female T-shirt and jeans. But nothing particularly gendered.
But, what the heck, I'll get the door. It's my house after all. It was a politician who looked at me, looked at his list of names, looked at me, looked at his list of names, and just looked really, really confused. I know he was there for me, not my wife, but he never said my name once - I think he really couldn't figure out if I was the (female) on his list or not. Oh, and no "sir" or "mister" either - which is awesome considering there was definitely some stubble.
I felt so good afterwards that I'm no longer appearing 100% male to everyone. Maybe I'm starting to look like the person I am.
Oh wow that happened to me at the phone store. He basically was like is "your name (dead name)?!" and just seemed in disbelief like I had told him something awful was going to happen lol
I just looked up at him from my phone and nodded my head.. yes I'm ashamed of it too and I don't think it suits me at all
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GROWTH SPURT!! Okay, I'm still an A cup, but it's now a fuller A. If it keeps up, I might make it to a small B. I tried on my 38B bra (that I used to stuff before I started HRT), and there isn't as much empty space as there was. ;D
Quote from: KathyLauren on April 29, 2018, 06:48:08 AM
GROWTH SPURT!! Okay, I'm still an A cup, but it's now a fuller A. If it keeps up, I might make it to a small B. I tried on my 38B bra (that I used to stuff before I started HRT), and there isn't as much empty space as there was. ;D
Congrats! When I got the bras, I was very happy try it under a sweater and look femme. They are still completely empty for me but I feel sexy in them which is the important part right?
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Yeah, so a lot has really changed in the last few months. I'm only online at random due to no internet at my fiancés home, and having to use fast food places for the net. I've posted a few times about a new job and other random bits, but time for the deluge of things.
The children at my new job are great!! A couple asked if I was a boy or a girl, and what my name was. By the way it is Ms. Labus to them as per company policy. The kids made me a card after only being there a couple weeks. The one who I was told was a handful and didn't respond well to instruction has been responding well to me. She even asked to be my helper the other day, something no other counselor has had her do. My fiancé met my brother, sister in law, and niece for the first time, and it went great, my niece showed my fiancé how to water plants, and made my fiancé read to her. My parents like her. She also gets along with my exwife and my puppy likes her. My puppy had a hematoma and a cyst removed during a surgery, and she is doing well now. Doing well in school.....well mostly. I absolutely HATE graphing and don't understand why I need to learn how to make graphs perpendicular to another graph and all based off of mathematical equations rather than set figures, I have no clue. Especially considering I'm going for clinical psychology.
Last thing. I don't know if it's a happy thing or not yet, still trying to figure it out for sure. My fiancé told me this morning that she wants me to quit my job and focus on school and taking care of the housework while she works to pay all of the bills. This was brought on because I got sick after trying to take care of her while doing homework and working. I don't know exactly how I feel about it. Being a housewife while going to school has a certain allure to it, but I've never not worked to pay my own bills before.
Quote from: christinej78 on April 28, 2018, 11:01:02 PM
Hi MollyPants, 28 April 2018
I love Tiramisu so much I could make a meal of it. I have considered going to an Italian Restaurant and ordering Tiramisu for dinner and Tiramisu for desert. It's a rich desert; I imagine the calorie count would be quite high if I ever do it.
Never heard of Trifle; looked it up and it looks like a desert to die for. Now all I have to do is find someplace that has it. Any suggestions short of making it myself?
I used to live in Mexico and developed a love of Flan. There's a restaurant chain there by the name of Vip's, (pronounced Beep's) where I used to eat quite often. Almost always had Flan for desert.
Now I have a new mission in life, find a source for Trifle so I can try it. From the looks of what I saw on the Web I know I'll love it. Thanks for providing the nudge I needed for my new mission.
Best Always,
Christine
Haha! I'm glad I'm spreading the glory of trifle. It's quite similar to tiramisu! You need a nice bowl (it's all about the layers) and then line the bottom with some cake and sprinkle some licquer over (I usually use a hazelnut one) and then add a layer of custard and then a layer of freshly whipped cream and top with grated chocolate. You can add fruit and mix up the flavours however you fancy :) x
PS I am down with tiramisu for more than one course!
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TRIFLE nectar of the gods, make it the UK way. chunks of sponge to line your bowl soaked in sherry, tin of fruit cocktail or canned fruit of your choice covered in jelly (jelo ?to you) flavour of your choice to go with fruit . set in fridge then cover with custard (cold or it will run the jelly) then a layer of cream topped with hundreds and thousands and maybe some nuts
Today I turned 62. My wife has known that I identify as gender fluid since last May. She gave me this card this morning.
(https://i.imgur.com/lDYkweJ.jpg)
She does understand me!
And I cried tears of joy.
Awwww that's heart-wrenchingly sweet [emoji14]
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Quote from: Jessica on April 29, 2018, 04:58:10 PM
Today I turned 62. My wife has known that I identify as gender fluid since last May. She gave me this card this morning.
(https://i.imgur.com/lDYkweJ.jpg)
She does understand me!
Happy birthday, Jessica! Aw, lovely card!
Quote from: Jessica on April 29, 2018, 04:58:10 PM
Today I turned 62. My wife has known that I identify as gender fluid since last May. She gave me this card this morning.
(https://i.imgur.com/lDYkweJ.jpg)
She does understand me!
And I cried tears of joy.
Hi Jessica, 29 Apr 2018
First off: HAPPY BIRTHDAY and many more to come! Tell your wife I think she's a great lady and very creative.
I envy you and all of the ladies here that still have your wives; it is a testament to the love you share.
It seems that a couple where one is transgender that stays together has to have a greater love for each other than most cis couples. In the cis world, relationships / marriages are like Depends underwear; disposable.
Best Always,
Christine
PS;
I like it better here in the trans world, all real people.
My partner and I bought our wedding dresses today!!!!!! Squeeeeeeeee!!!!!! I put mine on and when I saw myself in the mirror I broke down in tears, my god, all I saw was a beautiful woman living her dream and it was all I could do not to start sobbing all over my beautiful gown. It didn't help that Deb, the shop owner and her assistant were all crying with me.......wow!
They're going to the chapel and they're going to get married......
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on April 29, 2018, 08:30:20 PM
My partner and I bought our wedding dresses today!!!!!! Squeeeeeeeee!!!!!! I put mine on and when I saw myself in the mirror I broke down in tears, my god, all I saw was a beautiful woman living her dream and it was all I could do not to start sobbing all over my beautiful gown. It didn't help that Deb, the shop owner and her assistant were all crying with me.......wow!
They're going to the chapel and they're going to get married......
Tia Anne
So happy for y'all! Brought me to tears reading your post! You are so lucky! Hugs, Kelly.
Quote from: Anne Blake on April 29, 2018, 08:30:20 PM
My partner and I bought our wedding dresses today!!!!!! Squeeeeeeeee!!!!!! I put mine on and when I saw myself in the mirror I broke down in tears, my god, all I saw was a beautiful woman living her dream and it was all I could do not to start sobbing all over my beautiful gown. It didn't help that Deb, the shop owner and her assistant were all crying with me.......wow!
They're going to the chapel and they're going to get married......
Tia Anne
I am still not sure whether i will be ready for a dress by our wedding. I'm glad that you have had success and are happy. Nothing is more affirming to me then somebody else living ther life and being perfectly happy doing it :)
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Finally going to my endocrinologist appointment that keeps getting canceled and asking to start the OHIP paperwork for SRS. Will be a long 2.5 hour drive without a car radio thankfully I have music on my Cell phone and bluetooth speaker
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Finally going to my endocrinologist appointment that keeps getting canceled and asking to start the OHIP paperwork for SRS. Will be a long 2.5 hour drive without a car radio thankfully I have music on my Cell phone and bluetooth speaker
Hell yeah, podcasts are a great, free way to pass a long drive if you have listened to any. My Brother, My Brother and Me is like an advice column sourced from listeners and yahoo answers. The three brothers are
hilarious. If you want a sample, just search mbmbam on youtube. Glass shark is one of the best XD
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Even if I have nothing planned and a rainy day out there, I did beautify myself. I really like my new eyelash extensions. I think they really highlight my eyes, isn't it?(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180430/e62f837d07566d2efe31955237b399ba.jpg)
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Even if I have nothing planned and a rainy day out there, I did beautify myself. I really like my new eyelash extensions. I think they really highlight my eyes, isn't it?(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180430/e62f837d07566d2efe31955237b399ba.jpg)
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Yes, your eyes look gorgeous. Its amazing how a little pop makes them look so nice.
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Dizz - you look like a younger version of my sister in-law! LOL
Many things make me happy every day, some big some little. My wife picked up a new nail polish for me. Little things like that are very affirming for me and really make me feel good.
Quote from: dizz on April 30, 2018, 07:58:10 AM
Even if I have nothing planned and a rainy day out there, I did beautify myself. I really like my new eyelash extensions. I think they really highlight my eyes, isn't it?(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180430/e62f837d07566d2efe31955237b399ba.jpg)
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Beautiful!
Quote from: dizz on April 30, 2018, 07:58:10 AM
Even if I have nothing planned and a rainy day out there, I did beautify myself. I really like my new eyelash extensions. I think they really highlight my eyes, isn't it?(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180430/e62f837d07566d2efe31955237b399ba.jpg)
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Dizz you are very Beautiful. :)
Thank you all for those compliments. I know many people are severe with themselves but I don't think I still pass... Anyway, being a woman is not an option anymore, it is a must before I go crazy after 25+ years of being depressive. Now I feel good.
Sabrina
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Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on April 30, 2018, 04:16:30 AM
Finally going to my endocrinologist appointment that keeps getting canceled and asking to start the OHIP paperwork for SRS. Will be a long 2.5 hour drive without a car radio thankfully I have music on my Cell phone and bluetooth speaker
Good luck Nattie! Please let us know how it goes! Oh and hope that nickname is ok [emoji4]
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Quote from: dizz on April 30, 2018, 09:02:03 AM
Thank you all for those compliments. I know many people are severe with themselves but I don't think I still pass... Anyway, being a woman is not an option anymore, it is a must before I go crazy after 25+ years of being depressive. Now I feel good.
Sabrina
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Looking at your picture, I don't see why you would not pass! You look really pretty! Positive attitude girl! Hugs, Kelly
Quote from: islandgirl on April 30, 2018, 01:27:42 PM
Looking at your picture, I don't see why you would not pass! You look really pretty! Positive attitude girl! Hugs, Kelly
Yes I will try positive attitude! It's like if I am looking for any look at me that confirm that I am a male disguised... I shouldn't but time will give me more self confidence. Thanks
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Well first assessment in and done for SRS now to find another doctor for assessment 2 than see if OHIP approves.
Quote from: dizz on April 30, 2018, 09:02:03 AM
Thank you all for those compliments. I know many people are severe with themselves but I don't think I still pass... Anyway, being a woman is not an option anymore, it is a must before I go crazy after 25+ years of being depressive. Now I feel good.
Sabrina
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Hi Sabrina/ dizz, 30 April 2018
I'd say you look, oh, greater than fantastic; WOW! "...still pass..." no you passed+++!!!
Be kind to the beautiful you.
Best Always,
Christine
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Hi Sabrina/ dizz, 30 April 2018
I'd say you look, oh, greater than fantastic; WOW! "...still pass..." no you passed+++!!!
Be kind to the beautiful you.
Best Always,
Christine
So kind of you. Every comments here help me getting more confidence. I went to Walmart today someone called me Mrs and also I think the cashier thought I was a woman. I did not see any question marks in her eyes. This made my day! [emoji4]
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Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on April 30, 2018, 03:58:25 PM
Well first assessment in and done for SRS now to find another doctor for assessment 2 than see if OHIP approves.
You are on your way now! Often one assessor will give a reference to another. That is how it worked for me. I know our system is different than yours. Hopefully you will be able to get the next one soon. Hugs, Kelly
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Well first assessment in and done for SRS now to find another doctor for assessment 2 than see if OHIP approves.
Good, I hope everything will goes like you want.
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Thank you Allison, Islandgirl and dizz, I am so happy I can't believe this is actually happening and Dizz you look wonderful yes totally female there is no doubt in mind that is what people see a female. :)
I seem to have hit a point shaving after the 3 laser sessions I've had so far where even a casual, quick shave is getting close to invisible and is extremely smooth. Made my morning realizing how much better it is even just after 3!
Making plans to see @Maybebaby56 aka Terri this weekend! If you're reading this, girl...I'm stoked!
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Even if I have nothing planned and a rainy day out there, I did beautify myself. I really like my new eyelash extensions. I think they really highlight my eyes, isn't it?(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180430/e62f837d07566d2efe31955237b399ba.jpg)
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@dizz My, my, my....
Hmm, just who is that beautiful young woman in the picture that you posted in your reply post ???
You look absolutely terrific!!!
Thanks for sharing your photo with all of us.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: yayo on May 01, 2018, 01:59:21 PM
Making plans to see Maybebaby56 aka Terri this weekend! If you're reading this, girl...I'm stoked!
@yayo It is always a wonderful experience to meet others that you have an important common denominator with.
Be certain to update us with a followup posting and perhaps a picture... or 2... or 3...
I trust that you will have a great meetup with Terri.
Hugs,
Danielle
Wore a sports bra and actually have something there for one. My friends told me it looks like I have boobs at dinner last night.
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Wore a sports bra and actually have something there for one. My friends told me it looks like I have boobs at dinner last night.
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I can't wait to be at that point. Congrats! ^_^
Quote from: SiobhánF on May 01, 2018, 06:14:57 PM
I can't wait to be at that point. Congrats! ^_^
Thanks! [emoji4] you will get there! Hrt is handy
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Quote from: Allison S on May 01, 2018, 06:05:20 PM
Wore a sports bra and actually have something there for one. My friends told me it looks like I have boobs at dinner last night.
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So cool congratulations you can see them in your pics too. :D
I told a Therapist i had Gender Thoughts and it made me feel really happy i went to the shops after and i couldnt stop smiling
I told another living soul face to face, and i didnt take it back
We are going to talk more about it next session that kinda scares me abit
Quote from: Christy Lee on May 02, 2018, 09:11:32 AM
I told a Therapist i had Gender Thoughts and it made me feel really happy i went to the shops after and i couldnt stop smiling
I told another living soul face to face, and i didnt take it back
We are going to talk more about it next session that kinda scares me abit
After my first session, the relieved feeling had me floating on a cloud for days.
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Wore a sports bra and actually have something there for one. My friends told me it looks like I have boobs at dinner last night.
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Hi Allison, 02 May 2018
Congratulations; you just gave me hope! How long did it take before noticeable boobs presented themselves?
Best Always,
Christine
Quote from: christinej78 on May 02, 2018, 09:32:03 AM
Hi Allison, 02 May 2018
Congratulations; you just gave me hope! How long did it take before noticeable boobs presented themselves?
Best Always,
Christine
Hi Christine, well I jusr hit 7 months on hrt a few days ago. I always a little fat there, but at about 3 months it was noticable to me. I think somewhere between 6-7 months is when other people started noticing.
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Quote from: Allison S on May 02, 2018, 09:58:23 AM
Hi Christine, well I jusr hit 7 months on hrt a few days ago. I always a little fat there, but at about 3 months it was noticable to me. I think somewhere between 6-7 months is when other people started noticing.
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Thanks Allison, you have given me hope. Been on HRT one month and five days and post orchi 2 weeks and five days. Had a blood test for my hormones Monday so I should know the results sometime this week. I hope "T" is at the female level.
Thanks again, if any
things pop up, I'll let you know.
Best Always,
Christine
Quote from: christinej78 on May 02, 2018, 10:25:57 AM
Thanks Allison, you have given me hope. Been on HRT one month and five days and post orchi 2 weeks and five days. Had a blood test for my hormones Monday so I should know the results sometime this week. I hope "T" is at the female level.
Thanks again, if any things pop up, I'll let you know.
Best Always,
Christine
Sounds great!! Congrats on starting hrt and having an orchi! [emoji4]
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Quote from: Christy Lee on May 02, 2018, 09:11:32 AM
I told a Therapist i had Gender Thoughts and it made me feel really happy i went to the shops after and i couldnt stop smiling
I told another living soul face to face, and i didnt take it back
We are going to talk more about it next session that kinda scares me abit
Congrats Christy! It does feel very different after you tell people compared to before.
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Got my appointment with my MPP to sign my oath for my name change form monday may 7. Got my tax debt down by half so I should be able to change my name now
I have received a retirement visa for Thailand. I can stay here till at least June 2019. Yesterday I went for a want completely dress as I should be dress. Like the woman I was meant to be. I also bought 2 pairs of earrings. What a fantastic day.
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Today my SIL got off work early and took her car to the shop for brakes. She called me to come and get her and also take a friend of hers home. When Thelma {her friend} got in my truck she 'eyeballed' me for about a second, then I was just one of the girls! We had a big ol' time driving her home. It really is so nice to finally be 'just one of the girls'.
Got a HER and a SHE of a lady customer, also tonight its warm enough to wear a skirt and thin top with my A cup bra with obvious boobage
Good on you Davina. It is nice to hear those small confirmations.
I was in a grocery store the other night and walk by where a manager was holding a department work group pep talk when he stops talking a says to me, "Good even Ma'am, How are you tonight?" I replied that I was doing good with a smile and went on about my business as he returned to his talk.
Good isn't it
It does feel great being properly addressed when it happens. Sure is happening more often for me lately
Quote from: christinej78 on May 02, 2018, 10:25:57 AM
Thanks Allison, you have given me hope. Been on HRT one month and five days and post orchi 2 weeks and five days. Had a blood test for my hormones Monday so I should know the results sometime this week. I hope "T" is at the female level.
Thanks again, if any things pop up, I'll let you know.
Best Always,
Christine
I would imagiine your T should be done by now, I had my injection 10 days ago and after a spike I felt the change hit again on Thursday with a wave of happy and the heaviness lifted. I noticed good gains in the bust at about 5 month on spiro and dutatriside and now with just over 4 months on E they are really taking off.
Quote from: Donna on May 05, 2018, 04:46:45 PM
I would imagiine your T should be done by now, I had my injection 10 days ago and after a spike I felt the change hit again on Thursday with a wave of happy and the heaviness lifted. I noticed good gains in the bust at about 5 month on spiro and dutatriside and now with just over 4 months on E they are really taking off.
Buenos noches Donna, 05 May 2018
What am I doing up this late? Oh, I know, answering a friend/buddy.
My "T" was at 10 this past Monday and Estradiol was at 58. My endo was happy and so was I. Libido is history, no more distractions.
Went to our monthly MTF group meeting today; it's always interesting and fun. Yes, I'm always the oldest.
All is going well, I noticed my nipples were a little sensitive the other day when I was washing them with an SOS pad. Only kidding about the SOS, it occurred when I was washing my chest with a wash cloth. This had never happened before. They told me at the meeting this is a good sign that they are groooowing, big I hope. Well, not too big but big enough to play with. Remembering back to my Mom and sister, they both had trouble filling a training bra; doesn't bode well for me.
Aren't you already at DD? I'll be doing good if I can hit a "B." I remember an old saying back when I was a young horn toad: "Anyhay hingtay ouyay an'tcay etgay inhay ouryay outhmay ishay ahay asteway." I hope this passes the censors. I'm going to modify it into Pig Latin; DONE!!! It should pass now.
Short Pig-Latin story: A friend and fellow sailor and I were on a train going from Estoril to Lisbon, Portugal. The two guys who were sitting in the seats in front of us were obviously tuned into our conversation. We decided to speak in Pig-Latin, figuring they wouldn't have a clue. Sure enough, once we started you could see the obvious bewilderment. We kept it up the whole 25km trip. Two young sailors playing a joke on a couple Portuguese citizens. That was 52 years ago; seems like yesterday.
What does all that have to do with Transgender issues? Nothing but Us!
Glad all is going well on your journey. I hope it continues and you get where you want to be when you want to be there.
Remembered I forgot to retrieve my mail from the mail box. Went out and got it. My Estradiol patches from the VA were in there.Opened the package and found they sent the wrong dosage. Have to call them Monday. it's a good thing I still have plenty from my last refill. Probably just a simple mistake.
Have to crash mis amiga; luego.
Best Always,
Christine
Yea my girls are growing like weeds. I'm a DD and pushing that boundary. My mind was set on being a DD one day, just never expected it so soon. Now I have a bunch of 40C bras to get rid of.
Only buying one at a time until I know what is next now that my T is dropping even more (7.4) in March. Now with the injection it's typical to hit .75-1.7 within 2-5 weeks. Sensitive nips can be a good sign, that is how mine started out and then the entire breast got sore and is still sore. When I start getting the zaps and tingles I know they are growing again. Been getting that every few days lately.
There is a group meeting here tomorrow after noon I'd like to get too.
You will have a great adventure on the E and we all want to continue hearing about it.
First time with other trans at the trans pride day Montreal and also first night out [emoji4]
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Calgary's pride parade
Is in September, I'm planning for that this year.
Flew all three of my quadcopters in a local field. Met some really cool people, one out walking his dog and another rode by on a mule (yes...the furry type with legs). Perfect gentlemen and it was nice to see the admiration in their eyes, a girl practicing to master a rather intense sport.
Went out as a woman for the first time! I went to a LGBT social as a woman before, but this is my first time in public. We went to see the new Infinity War movie. It was fun.
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I have an aunt that I've always liked but haven't heard from in a long time. She sent me a really nice text earlier after hearing about my transition, it was really sweet!
Quote from: Maddie86 on May 07, 2018, 04:44:27 PM
I have an aunt that I've always liked but haven't heard from in a long time. She sent me a really nice text earlier after hearing about my transition, it was really sweet!
Hi Maddie, 07 may 2018
That is really fantastic and reaffirming. I bet it really felt wonderful receiving her text; happy for you.
You are a very beautiful young lady, I wish you all the best life has to offer.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
Quote from: christinej78 on May 07, 2018, 05:13:24 PM
Hi Maddie, 07 may 2018
That is really fantastic and reaffirming. I bet it really felt wonderful receiving her text; happy for you.
You are a very beautiful young lady, I wish you all the best life has to offer.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
yes, the text was great and made me smile, and your comment made me smile too, thank you! you're really sweet :)
I have been beating my head against the wall for nearly two weeks trying to get PayPal to update my name. I sent four emails, uploaded scans of my drivers license and court order (twice), and called them twice. Today I called again, and the third time was the charm. I finally reached someone who could update the name on my account!!! After asking a few verification questions she made the change. I logged in just to be sure, and it now says 'Hi again, Jessica'! Yesssss!
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I have been beating my head against the wall for nearly two weeks trying to get PayPal to update my name. I sent four emails, uploaded scans of my drivers license and court order (twice), and called them twice. Towasday I called again, and the third time was the charm. I finally reached someone who could update the name on my account!!! After asking a few verification questions she made the change. I logged in just to be sure, and it now says 'Hi again, Jessica'! Yesssss!
Congratulations! I haven't started fighting that fight yet. They allow a "minor spelling correction" of up to two letters, so I was able to change my first name to "Steph," which is good enough for now. I'm fatigued from making all the other changes. I'll get to that one later.
Stephanie
Had great girl time with my sister!! I finally have all my clothes organized and hung up since I'm no longer hiding, and so we just had a ton of sisterly fun going through them and figuring out outfits and chatting about the different style options! It also gave me the opportunity to get some tips from her in general! Was just super affirming! :D
Quote from: Jessica_Rose on May 08, 2018, 06:21:03 PM
I have been beating my head against the wall for nearly two weeks trying to get PayPal to update my name. I sent four emails, uploaded scans of my drivers license and court order (twice), and called them twice. Today I called again, and the third time was the charm. I finally reached someone who could update the name on my account!!! After asking a few verification questions she made the change. I logged in just to be sure, and it now says 'Hi again, Jessica'! Yesssss!
Jessica, how did you manage to get them to accept your name change? I tried forever and they finally told me that I would have to cancel my old account and start a new one but they can't do that since I have regular subscriptions to Susan's on it. Sort of a catch 22.
Quote from: Roll on May 08, 2018, 08:39:35 PM
Had great girl time with my sister!! I finally have all my clothes organized and hung up since I'm no longer hiding, and so we just had a ton of sisterly fun going through them and figuring out outfits and chatting about the different style options! It also gave me the opportunity to get some tips from her in general! Was just super affirming! :D
Ellie, I am so happy to hear of the closeness of your sister to sister relationship. My sister has become one of my bigger supporters and we get so much enjoyment out shopping together. Our relationship was always good but it changed and got amazingly better after coming out to her. I am glad to hear when others are able to gain closeness with accepting sisters.
Tia Anne
Today I got to be camera 2 on a music video shoot. I got to operate the gimbal because I was the only one of my crew who had experience with it and knew how to set it up :p
But overall it was fun, I missed psychology class for it but I feel like I needed it. It cheered me up as I was feeling a little down prior.
Quote from: Anne Blake on May 08, 2018, 10:54:18 PM
Jessica, how did you manage to get them to accept your name change? I tried forever and they finally told me that I would have to cancel my old account and start a new one but they can't do that since I have regular subscriptions to Susan's on it. Sort of a catch 22.
Since Tia and I are probably not the only ones with PayPal accounts, this is what I did to get my name changed:
1 - Log in to your PayPal account and select 'Account overview'
2 - Select the 'gear' symbol next to 'Log out' in the upper right of your screen
3 - Your profile will appear on the upper left of the screen, select 'update' in the profile box
4 - You should now see a name change menu, select 'legal name change'
5 - Follow the instructions and upload a scan (or photo) of your new drivers license and court order
6 - Bang your head against a wall for a few days, then send a note to 'compliance@paypal.com'
7 - If you don't get a response, call PayPal at 1-888-221-1161.
Be nice (no matter how frustrated you may be), all of the support folks I talked to were courteous and professional. They will ask you for the name on the account, then your current name. Once I told them my current name, they used it throughout the conversation. Explain the situation, and ask for someone who can help complete the name change. They will eventually ask some identifying questions about vehicle registrations, places you have lived, and maybe even your SSN. It only took 10 - 15 minutes on the phone. They updated my name while I was talking to them, so I was able to verify it before I hung up. I thanked the representative profusely.
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Since Tia and I are probably not the only ones with PayPal accounts, this is what I did to get my name changed:
1 - Log in to your PayPal account and select 'Account overview'
2 - Select the 'gear' symbol next to 'Log out' in the upper right of your screen
3 - Your profile will appear on the upper left of the screen, select 'update' in the profile box
4 - You should now see a name change menu, select 'legal name change'
5 - Follow the instructions and upload a scan (or photo) of your new drivers license and court order
6 - Bang your head against a wall for a few days, then send a note to 'compliance@paypal.com'
7 - If you don't get a response, call PayPal at 1-888-221-1161.
Be nice (no matter how frustrated you may be), all of the support folks I talked to were courteous and professional. They will ask you for the name on the account, then your current name. Once I told them my current name, they used it throughout the conversation. Explain the situation, and ask for someone who can help complete the name change. They will eventually ask some identifying questions about vehicle registrations, places you have lived, and maybe even your SSN. It only took 10 - 15 minutes on the phone. They updated my name while I was talking to them, so I was able to verify it before I hung up. I thanked the representative profusely.
Thank you. Followed these instructions just now. We'll see how it goes.
I work as a Physical Therapist and I have a somewhat new patient who is an amputee male from below the right knee. Well today he said today it is great to a a beautiful female therapist who kicks my butt into shape everyday. It certainly made my day.
Quote from: Artesia on May 09, 2018, 10:33:05 AM
Thank you. Followed these instructions just now. We'll see how it goes.
Same here. PayPal isn't going to know what hit them! [emoji16]
Quote from: Artesia on May 09, 2018, 10:33:05 AM
Thank you. Followed these instructions just now. We'll see how it goes.
That's what I did a couple of months ago, and it worked pretty hassle-free.
It takes you by surprise but had to go to the paint shop next door and as I left walked past a one way window and this woman looked back, brain still hasn't caught up yet ( its not the same as looking in a shaving mirror)
Quote from: davina61 on May 09, 2018, 03:18:14 PM
It takes you by surprise but had to go to the paint shop next door and as I left walked past a one way window and this woman looked back, brain still hasn't caught up yet ( its not the same as looking in a shaving mirror)
I love that feeling. It's enough to make me happy all day long :)
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Yes had a spring (skip?) in my step for a good while See my diary for the spoiler.
Quote from: RoRo on May 09, 2018, 11:10:52 AM
I work as a Physical Therapist and I have a somewhat new patient who is an amputee male from below the right knee. Well today he said today it is great to a a beautiful female therapist who kicks my butt into shape everyday. It certainly made my day.
That's wonderful! I love hearing stuff like that. :)
What made me happy today? I reached out for advice on these forums today and received multiple caring, intelligent responses. I love Susan's Place!!!!!
xoxoxoxo
Alyssa
MEntioned this in my thread but felt like mentioning here too! ;D Got my lab results back today, and even on low dose my estrogen is already up to 131. My doctor was shocked. T down to 137 from the insane high start point of 1480. Apparently when my body does hormones, it does them to extremes.
Quote from: Jessica_Rose on May 09, 2018, 05:29:58 AM
Since Tia and I are probably not the only ones with PayPal accounts, this is what I did to get my name changed:
1 - Log in to your PayPal account and select 'Account overview'
2 - Select the 'gear' symbol next to 'Log out' in the upper right of your screen
3 - Your profile will appear on the upper left of the screen, select 'update' in the profile box
4 - You should now see a name change menu, select 'legal name change'
5 - Follow the instructions and upload a scan (or photo) of your new drivers license and court order
6 - Bang your head against a wall for a few days, then send a note to 'compliance@paypal.com'
7 - If you don't get a response, call PayPal at 1-888-221-1161.
Be nice (no matter how frustrated you may be), all of the support folks I talked to were courteous and professional. They will ask you for the name on the account, then your current name. Once I told them my current name, they used it throughout the conversation. Explain the situation, and ask for someone who can help complete the name change. They will eventually ask some identifying questions about vehicle registrations, places you have lived, and maybe even your SSN. It only took 10 - 15 minutes on the phone. They updated my name while I was talking to them, so I was able to verify it before I hung up. I thanked the representative profusely.
Awesome. Haven't tried with them yet since I got legal. Did you get the name of the person that finally helped?
I tried to change it to just my initials before my legal change since they are the same and got the bit about two letter misspelling updates allowed. I asked them why I couldnt get changed to just my initials and basically they said tough, I'd have to wait until it's legal. It's legal know but I ha ent tried yet. I don't think I can even get to the right spot on the phone app so will have try with them when I get on my laptop.
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QuoteQuote from: Roll on May 09, 2018, 11:11:13 PM
MEntioned this in my thread but felt like mentioning here too! ;D Got my lab results back today, and even on low dose my estrogen is already up to 131. My doctor was shocked. T down to 137 from the insane high start point of 1480. Apparently when my body does hormones, it does them to extremes.
That is just fantastic! Congrats!!
xoxoxoxo
Alyssa
Had another one of my happy "dream come true" moments this morning when I looked in the mirror and saw my long blond hair, perky boobs and California Girl bikini tan lines 💕
I so wish I could go back in time and tell 12 year old me that yes...your dreams will come true, just be patient 😉
Quote from: Michelle G on May 10, 2018, 11:26:48 AM
Had another one of my happy "dream come true" moments this morning when I looked in the mirror and saw my long blond hair, perky boobs and California Girl bikini tan lines [emoji177]
I so wish I could go back in time and tell 12 year old me that yes...your dreams will come true, just be patient [emoji6]
I wish I could go back and tell my clueless 12 year old self why she was growing boobs even though everyone, including her, thought she was a boy.
Today I looked in the mirror and thought, "did I forget to put on makeup?" So far no one has noticed or misgendered me.
Picture of me below at ~14. I had no idea how feminine I looked.(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180510/f140c18fdcb2579cfd1e85f1b5a3eb48.jpg)
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Quote from: Lady Love on May 07, 2018, 01:12:08 AM
Went out as a woman for the first time! I went to a LGBT social as a woman before, but this is my first time in public. We went to see the new Infinity War movie. It was fun.
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Congrats sister! This is a big step.
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Well, my endocrinologist decreased my Estradiol. My E was too high in her opinion, 264pg/mL. I need to ask her what I should be at next time. According to the results page the VA provides, I am average for mid-cycle. My dosage of E is pretty low as well.
I had my first dinner party with my new job. They do them once a year apparently. Anyway, my school won best dressed. I received a few compliments on how well I looked. I had a great time! My team has been remarkably accepting of me, and the kids are great. I don't wear a lot of makeup with them, to hot when chasing/following kids around a playground for an hour; it tends to melt right off. They all use Ms Labus for my name; it is an amazing feeling.
Today is "Pajama Day" at work. I'm wearing my Star Wars T-shirt and pajama pants.....and brought my Boba Fett Build A Bear to complete the bedtime look. The kids thought it was great!
I'll try to get pictures up of my group at the party, and my bedtime ensamble later. I just want to share because it makes me happy.
Got all the correct paper work together and processed and all the fees paid for Donna to be officially recognized and my gender marked changed.
That is great, Donna! So exciting! How long is the next part of the process?
Quote from: Donna on May 11, 2018, 12:20:13 PM
Got all the correct paper work together and processed and all the fees paid for Donna to be officially recognized and my gender marked changed.
That's awesome Donna! I'm so happy for you. :) I cant wait to do the same.
Hugs,
Chelsea
Quote from: islandgirl on May 11, 2018, 12:36:27 PM
That is great, Donna! So exciting! How long is the next part of the process?
Hopefully it will all be here in the mail within two weeks. Then I can change my name in everything else. Bank, health care etc
Quote from: Donna on May 11, 2018, 12:20:13 PM
Got all the correct paper work together and processed and all the fees paid for Donna to be officially recognized and my gender marked changed.
That is awesome Donna! Unfortunately it means a lot more paperwork in your future. I changed my name in early Feb this year and I am still trying to get everything updated, but it is soooo worth it! I hope it goes smoothly, and I wish you the best of luck in your journey!
Quote from: Michelle G on May 10, 2018, 11:26:48 AM
Had another one of my happy "dream come true" moments this morning when I looked in the mirror and saw my long blond hair, perky boobs and California Girl bikini tan lines 💕
I so wish I could go back in time and tell 12 year old me that yes...your dreams will come true, just be patient 😉
So fantastic! That must have felt just....incredible!
QuoteQuote from: Donna on May 11, 2018, 12:20:13 PM
Got all the correct paper work together and processed and all the fees paid for Donna to be officially recognized and my gender marked changed.
Super awesome! I cannot wait for that day!
xoxoxo
Alyssa
Quote from: Donna on May 11, 2018, 01:57:36 PM
Hopefully it will all be here in the mail within two weeks. Then I can change my name in everything else. Bank, health care etc
Congrats Donna. I submitted mine about a week ago and was told it will take 3 - 4 weeks to get my court date in the mail here in Oregon. I'm still not sure how I feel about it myself but I know I need to do this.
Hugs,
Laurie
Laurie, getting your name legally changed is an awesome feeling! But be warned, seeing your old name on stuff may get progressively more painful as time passes. I don't like seeing, typing, or (most painful of all) saying my old name anymore. Once you get the legal part done I highly recommend that you start updating everything as soon as you can. Initially I did not think it would bother me too much, but having to repeat my dead name multiple times during a conversation is the only thing that brings back my anger. This could be ymmv, but based on my experience get it done as soon as you can. Oh, and congratulations on getting the process started!!!
Thank you Jessica. I had a bit of panic a few days before going to do it. No issue when I did though. We'll see how it goes when I get a court date.
In Colorado I did not need to have a court hearing, which not only sped things up quite a bit (I think it only took one week for me), but it also helped me from becoming too anxious. This is a tremendous change for anyone who goes through with it. Not only does it obviously signal a commitment to transitioning, but for me it signaled a new beginning. It took a while to sink in, and I am still not used to it, but hearing and seeing your new legal name is simply awesome! While you are waiting I suggest creating a list of all the places you will need to change your name along with the documentation they require. A search on 'name change checklist' will probably turn up some useful lists.
One more thing, as much as you may want to keep your old email address I suggest you create a new one. On many email apps your old name will be associated with your old email address, and unless each individual updates the name on all of their devices your old email address will always show your old name. Choosing a new email address will force everyone's hand to see your new name whenever they send or receive email.
QuoteQuote from: Jessica_Rose on May 11, 2018, 08:36:43 PM
In Colorado I did not need to have a court hearing, which not only sped things up quite a bit (I think it only took one week for me), but it also helped me from becoming too anxious. This is a tremendous change for anyone who goes through with it. Not only does it obviously signal a commitment to transitioning, but for me it signaled a new beginning. It took a while to sink in, and I am still not used to it, but hearing and seeing your new legal name is simply awesome! While you are waiting I suggest creating a list of all the places you will need to change your name along with the documentation they require. A search on 'name change checklist' will probably turn up some useful lists.
One more thing, as much as you may want to keep your old email address I suggest you create a new one. On many email apps your old name will be associated with your old email address, and unless each individual updates the name on all of their devices your old email address will always show your old name. Choosing a new email address will force everyone's hand to see your new name whenever they send or receive email.
Jessica,
I am in Colorado as well and from what information I have been able to gather up to this point, a legal name change required FBI and CBI background checks, publishing a notice in a newspaper three times and going to court. Do you know if it is fairly standard that the actual court hearing is not required? Is my info out of date? I would LOVE not to have to explain myself to a judge who probably doesn't care one way or the other lol.
xoxoxo
Alyssa
I am in El Paso County (Colorado Springs). Sometimes different counties have different rules, but my name change petition was accepted without a court hearing. As long as your background checks are clean and you are truthful about why you want a name change (something like 'I am transgender and am transitioning from male to female'), then it is possible your county may also skip the court hearing. To keep from possibly boring the non-Colorado readers, I'll send you a PM with the steps I took.
Wonderful information! Thank you again so much Jessica!!
xoxoxo
Alyssa
Decided to randomly go to some garage sales. There was an estate sale in a really expensive area. Found a $300 Brighton suitcase with this cute silver heart design on the front and handle, got it for only $15.
Also, found a joke stocking stuffer from a few years ago that was a power puff girls keychain that says "GIRLS ROCK". It's no longer a joke item to me. ;D
Me, my wife and SIL went to Goodwill for fun shopping and afterward went to Sonic for dinner. While ordering the woman inside couldn't hear me and said what ma'am, then when I finished our order {speaking louder, which usually gives me away} she said 'thank you ma'am! Not One Sir the whole time! Living the dream ;D ;D ;D
When I changed my name here in Tennessee a couple of months ago I just had to talk to the Chancellor for a few minutes and tell him I wasn't running from debt{hosp. bills}. That and days like today make life worth living!
I was asked for the first time if I was male or female yesterday. Granted it was from a picture, but it made me happy. Now just got to figure out how to get that look in person. I still get sir-ed 100% of the time.
Bari Jo
Today I was trying on some summer dresses I bought at Target. I was modeling one for my wife, and she said something I never in my life thought I would hear... "Honey, isn't that a little short?" We both started laughing!
Just had a really awesome date and he's a doctor and totally dug me. Pretty happy with my day :x
Quote from: KittyKat on May 12, 2018, 11:04:51 PM
Just had a really awesome date and he's a doctor and totally dug me. Pretty happy with my day :x
Kitty Kat, I'm envious beyond belief, and living vicariously!
Though I wasn't able to wear my breasts today, I feel like I finally have my walking/stances down. And let me tell you it's just weirdly wonderful that something as subconscious and mundane as 'walking' is filled with purpose and joy!
I am truly high on life right now! ;D
Today I was waiting on my partner; she was in the fitting room. I was asked if I was waiting for my mom [emoji23] I'm 32, and my partner is 31 (she doesn't look old). I asked if I really look that young, and I was told yes. It was kinda awkward, but kind of funny. It made me feel good.
Although, now that I'm typing this and thinking about it a bit more, I'm kind of wondering how young I look. I really hope it's not like 15 or something [emoji19]
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Today, I noticed that my body hair is beginning to thin and my nipples are slightly tender. I also had my third laser appointment, this past Saturday.
Today someone told me: hey lady, do you know where I can take the subway? When I responded with my big voice because he was far he kinda looked at me a strange way [emoji23] this is how I looked for my second round interview. I think I did well and I will have news by Friday. [emoji4](https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180515/5b4e1b89e734c8d63135c96541218308.jpg)
Quote from: Jessica_Rose on May 09, 2018, 05:29:58 AM
Since Tia and I are probably not the only ones with PayPal accounts, this is what I did to get my name changed:
1 - Log in to your PayPal account and select 'Account overview'
2 - Select the 'gear' symbol next to 'Log out' in the upper right of your screen
3 - Your profile will appear on the upper left of the screen, select 'update' in the profile box
4 - You should now see a name change menu, select 'legal name change'
5 - Follow the instructions and upload a scan (or photo) of your new drivers license and court order
6 - Bang your head against a wall for a few days, then send a note to 'compliance@paypal.com'
7 - If you don't get a response, call PayPal at 1-888-221-1161.
Be nice (no matter how frustrated you may be), all of the support folks I talked to were courteous and professional. They will ask you for the name on the account, then your current name. Once I told them my current name, they used it throughout the conversation. Explain the situation, and ask for someone who can help complete the name change. They will eventually ask some identifying questions about vehicle registrations, places you have lived, and maybe even your SSN. It only took 10 - 15 minutes on the phone. They updated my name while I was talking to them, so I was able to verify it before I hung up. I thanked the representative profusely.
I sent the request with attached documents on May 9th, and this morning got notification (sent to Stephanie) that my name's been changed. Verified! That was easy. Thanks Jessica Rose!
Stephanie
Quote from: Steph2.0 on May 15, 2018, 06:38:50 AM
I sent the request with attached documents on May 9th, and this morning got notification (sent to Stephanie) that my name's been changed. Verified! That was easy. Thanks Jessica Rose!
Stephanie
So you jumped the line on me.
Sent mine stuff in also on the 9th but it still had the old name up there when I used it this morning to send my brother some money.
I think it said a week so guess I wait a few days to complain.
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Quote from: TonyaW on May 15, 2018, 07:17:12 AM
So you jumped the line on me.
Sent mine stuff in also on the 9th but it still had the old name up there when I used it this morning to send my brother some money.
I think it said a week so guess I wait a few days to complain.
Oooops! Didn't mean to cut in in on you! I thought you were still trying to decide what to order (the triple shot mocha is good).
Maybe they're taking us in alphabetical order?
Stephanie
B
I was asked yesterday if I dated girls in high school. You know, cause there's no way I could be dating girls now:) This made me smile for some odd reason. I am definitely more into men right now so no offense taken, just smiled and said, yes and that I've dated girls and anything and everything before.
Bari Jo
Follow up with the Dr. yesterday, she told me how good I looked, how clear my skin was and how impressed she was with. My levels, after 5 months of hrt, I'm at great levels. Add to that, my wife told me how much she loves my boobs. Obsessed was the word she used. 😬 Yay!
Quote from: Christyn on May 15, 2018, 01:27:54 PM
Follow up with the Dr. yesterday, she told me how good I looked, how clear my skin was and how impressed she was with. My levels, after 5 months of hrt, I'm at great levels. Add to that, my wife told me how much she loves my boobs. Obsessed was the word she used. [emoji51] Yay!
For you: [emoji16]
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Hi Christyn, 15 May 2018
I saw your signature at the bottom of your post; I was also in the Navy and never had the opportunity to serve with a Chief as beautiful as you. If I had, I might have stayed in and made a career of trying to catch her. I would have said you but you're too young to have been in then; you had yet to be born.
Looking fantastic you are.
Best Always,
Christine
Yesterday I had vocal surgery and the nurse in the pre-op insisted I take a pregnancy test and pee in a cup. I kept insisting I can not get pregnant. I even said I am 100% sure I am not pregnant several times. She followed me into the bathroom and insisted I pee in the cup. I said I am trans and she said oh you do not need to do the test.
I was so happy.
Quote from: Rachel on May 15, 2018, 04:44:47 PM
Yesterday I had vocal surgery and the nurse in the pre-op insisted I take a pregnancy test and pee in a cup. I kept insisting I can not get pregnant. I even said I am 100% sure I am not pregnant several times. She followed me into the bathroom and insisted I pee in the cup. I said I am trans and she said oh you do not need to do the test.
I was so happy.
That rocks Rachel! I'd smile so big it would be seen into the next week.
Quote from: Steph2.0 on May 15, 2018, 07:26:48 AM
Oooops! Didn't mean to cut in in on you! I thought you were still trying to decide what to order (the triple shot mocha is good).
Maybe they're taking us in alphabetical order?
Stephanie B
Heard from them a little while ago. They claim they need a photo ID.. I sent it with the court order so not sure what the problem is. So sent it again. Don't understand why they need a picture when all I needed to get that picture was the court order.
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Quote from: TonyaW on May 15, 2018, 08:57:05 PM
Heard from them a little while ago. They claim they need a photo ID.. I sent it with the court order so not sure what the problem is. So sent it again. Don't understand why they need a picture when all I needed to get that picture was the court order.
Strange. Sounds like you did exactly what I did - attached the court order and my drivers license. Hopefully this time will work for you!
Stephanie
Quote from: Rachel on May 15, 2018, 04:44:47 PM
Yesterday I had vocal surgery and the nurse in the pre-op insisted I take a pregnancy test and pee in a cup. I kept insisting I can not get pregnant. I even said I am 100% sure I am not pregnant several times. She followed me into the bathroom and insisted I pee in the cup. I said I am trans and she said oh you do not need to do the test.
I was so happy.
That is just to damn funny. You must have had a huge grin after that
Quote from: Rachel on May 15, 2018, 04:44:47 PM
Yesterday I had vocal surgery and the nurse in the pre-op insisted I take a pregnancy test and pee in a cup. I kept insisting I can not get pregnant. I even said I am 100% sure I am not pregnant several times. She followed me into the bathroom and insisted I pee in the cup. I said I am trans and she said oh you do not need to do the test.
I was so happy.
Yay!
I write about this in my own thread, but on my first visit to my primary care doctor after I had them change my records, the intake nurse was running through the standard questions on the computer. Any back pain, shortness of breath, etc. etc. Then, "When was your last menstrual period?"
I sat there with my mouth open, and eventually outed myself. I figured it was in the records in front of her.
Even better, I went back for another appointment about 3 months later. Same nurse, same questions except she stopped and gave me a puzzled look. "Enlarged prostate?? OH, that's right!!" She'd forgotten already.
Big grin!!
Stephanie
Today was a great day. I got a 2fer. My quickly developing friendship with my vocal coach and my electrologist , and I visited both today. What lovely ladies. You know each time I visit I step a little further out. I still look around to see if anyone is watching. It's a little unnerving, especially when there are kids waiting to go up the elevator and they always seem to have questions.
Quote from: Rachel on May 15, 2018, 04:44:47 PM
Yesterday I had vocal surgery and the nurse in the pre-op insisted I take a pregnancy test and pee in a cup. I kept insisting I can not get pregnant. I even said I am 100% sure I am not pregnant several times. She followed me into the bathroom and insisted I pee in the cup. I said I am trans and she said oh you do not need to do the test.
I was so happy.
Hi Rachel, 16 May 2018
I have an endoscopy and colonoscopy coming up 04 June. I sure hope they pull that on me. I'll squat down, pee in their cup and then let them see Willy and his empty nut case.
Best Always,
Christine
I got gendered correctly today, just after lunch. Granted this was by a homeless man, and maybe not with the best eyesight. Still he made my day. Thank you random homeless man.
Bari Jo
I was nominated for my 2nd term as president of our union again. I will be CUPE's second open Transgender President ever I have been told. May 28 is election day so I will know than
Good luck with the election and hope you get in. That will be a great accomplishment
2 years HRT today so guess it counts as my Traniversary!!!
Congrats on the traniversary. Well done
Saw my brother for the first time in 3 years. It was not my disphoria that caused not seeing him, another reason for a fight. But when he learned that I am going to live as a woman he contacted me. When he saw me ( as a woman btw ) he gave me a big hug and cryed. He told me he don't mind if I am a woman, the important thing is that I am happy. [emoji7] Thank you bro... But now you have to call me sis... [emoji23]
Sabrina
Quote from: dizz on May 16, 2018, 11:20:17 PM
Saw my brother for the first time in 3 years. It was not my disphoria that caused not seeing him, another reason for a fight. But when he learned that I am going to live as a woman he contacted me. When I he saw me ( as a woman btw ) he gave me a big hug and cryed. He told me he don't mind if I am a woman, the important thing is that I am happy. [emoji7] Thank you bro... But now you have to call me sis... [emoji23]
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Hi Dizz, 16 May 2018
Congratulations!!! Your brother has a nice heart and so do you.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
That's great news Dizz. Acceptance is so wonderful and having him back in your life is great
Quote from: ElizabethK on May 16, 2018, 08:57:16 PM
2 years HRT today so guess it counts as my Traniversary!!!
Congrats [emoji847]
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Congratulations Dizz!
I am grinning ear to ear....can't sleep...3:30 in the morning...staring at two prescription bottles full of Estradiol and Spironolactone. I start HRT today!!!!
xoxoxo
Alyssa
Alyssa Bree, that is awesome! Congrats on finally getting your ticket to ride the E-Train! You may encounter some beautiful, unexpected emotions along the way, but if you stay on the train you will eventually arrive at your destination. Enjoy the ride!
Thank you Jessica! I have a feeling I will. ;)
xoxoxo
Alyssa
Quote from: Alyssa Bree on May 17, 2018, 04:40:27 AMI am grinning ear to ear....can't sleep...3:30 in the morning...staring at two prescription bottles full of Estradiol and Spironolactone. I start HRT today!!!!
Awesome, Alyssa!
May 17th, 2018. You will remember this day the rest of your life.
Happy RebirthDay!
- Stephanie
Quote from: Alyssa Bree on May 17, 2018, 04:40:27 AM
Congratulations Dizz!
I am grinning ear to ear....can't sleep...3:30 in the morning...staring at two prescription bottles full of Estradiol and Spironolactone. I start HRT today!!!!
xoxoxo
Alyssa
@Alyssa Bree Mark this date down in your journal or on your calendar.... this will be a memorable time in your transition journey.
Now that you have announced this to all of the Susan's Place members on the Forums you will have to keep us all updated with your progress... there will be things for you to tell us about, your successes, your frustrations, your good times and your bad times but do know that as your journey continues you will become the "new you" given enough time for the HRT to do it's work in your body.
For some, HRT will work more quickly and result in quicker and more significant body changes... and for some HRT can work more slowly and produce slower and less significant results .... it is all up to your own unique body. So what you read about others HRT results may likely not be your own experience.
One thing that I tell everyone that starts HRT is that "patience is required" ... usually nothing happens very quickly with HRT, or at least not a quickly as we all desire.
Our human nature says "We want it all and we want it NOW" ...
...so again be patient and stay the course, soon enough you will start becoming the new you.
Thank you for posting your happy report and good news.
Again, please keep us all updated.
Hugs and wishing you well,
Danielle
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on May 16, 2018, 07:23:35 PM
I was nominated for my 2nd term as president of our union again. I will be CUPE's second open Transgender President ever I have been told. May 28 is election day so I will know than
@natalie.ashlyne .... well, that is really great news.... now you have done it, we will all be waiting impatiently for you to post the results of the election on May 28th. Your must have done a great job for your first term since they want you to run again!!!
I am very happy for you. Continue to show those that you are among that being a trans-woman is a thing that is to be accepted and not shunned.
Hugs and per-congratualations on your 2nd term.
Danielle
My Paypal person said that my picture was too blurry for the legal name change form. I replied with sending it again and telling them that it was scanned by a librarian and it was the best they would be able to get. They apparently need glasses because they also said they need a photo ID, and that I needed to send it. I sent it with the legal name change form. I guess it depends on who looks at your request for how long it takes to fix.
Quote from: dizz on May 16, 2018, 11:20:17 PM
Saw my brother for the first time in 3 years. It was not my disphoria that caused not seeing him, another reason for a fight. But when he learned that I am going to live as a woman he contacted me. When he saw me ( as a woman btw ) he gave me a big hug and cryed. He told me he don't mind if I am a woman, the important thing is that I am happy. [emoji7] Thank you bro... But now you have to call me sis... [emoji23]
Sabrina
@dizz Dear Sabriana, Wow, that is certainly wonderful news and it was nice that you posted your reply on this thread so we could all celebrate with you.
What you described is a moment that you will always remember... acceptance by family members it a key element in our transition story.
I noticed that you have been a member here on Susan's Place a little over a year (since March 2017) and in the past you have posted some wonderful and terrific pictures of yourself.... more posts and more pictures are always welcome here.
Please keep us all informed with your updates and pictures as you feel comfortable doing that.
Hugs and wishing you well...
Danielle
Quote from: Alyssa Bree on May 17, 2018, 04:40:27 AM
Congratulations Dizz!
I am grinning ear to ear....can't sleep...3:30 in the morning...staring at two prescription bottles full of Estradiol and Spironolactone. I start HRT today!!!!
xoxoxo
Alyssa
Hi Alyssa,
This is such good news, you must be so excited! Judging by the posts from some of our sisters, your sharing this fun step is bringing back such positive memories (for me too). Enjoy the ride and hang on, it is quite the roller coaster.
Hugs and blessings sister,
Tia Anne
Quote from: Alyssa Bree on May 17, 2018, 04:40:27 AM
Congratulations Dizz!
I am grinning ear to ear....can't sleep...3:30 in the morning...staring at two prescription bottles full of Estradiol and Spironolactone. I start HRT today!!!!
xoxoxo
Alyssa
Nothing really great happened to me yesterday. But seeing this really brightened my day!
Congratulations, Alyssa! Im so excited for you!
Much love,
Eryn
Thank you everybody! And Danielle I will absolutely keep all of that in mind. Thanks for the info. I will update my Alyssa Chat thread later today to make note of the day.
xoxoxo
Alyssa
It is a happy day for sure Alyssa, Congrats! You have joined the rollercoaster club. Fasten your seat belt and keep your arms and legs inside the car. The ride is about to begin, sit back and enjoy this ride.
Squeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
Hugs,
Laurie
Thank you Laurie! Hee hee.
xoxoxo
Alyssa
Sitting in a little garden after it rained (and dried up). Makes it kinda worth having allergies
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I'm a couple of days late but I'm still freaking out in a good way that I got my dreadlocks put in! Puts a smile on my face when I see them or touch them!
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About to get ready to go meet up with my best friend from childhood (well, as much as up to the age of 20 still counts as childhood) after finding the courage to reach out recently all these years later. I'm nervous but excited! Hopefully still a happy today thread item when I'm back. ;D
Found that DSW has another pair of my favorite sandals in a different color... Oh, and they are called Sarah 😁 Guess where I will be this morning???
Quote from: sarah1972 on May 19, 2018, 07:46:59 AM
Found that DSW has another pair of my favorite sandals in a different color... Oh, and they are called Sarah [emoji16] Guess where I will be this morning???
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Quote from: Artesia on May 17, 2018, 08:15:50 AM
My Paypal person said that my picture was too blurry for the legal name change form. I replied with sending it again and telling them that it was scanned by a librarian and it was the best they would be able to get. They apparently need glasses because they also said they need a photo ID, and that I needed to send it. I sent it with the legal name change form. I guess it depends on who looks at your request for how long it takes to fix.
They never told me what the issue was with the first copy of the photo ID I had sent. I sent it again and .....
Yay; they finally did it. Got the "responded to your message" email this morning.
Funny part was they told me I needed to make sure my name matched on my bank account or I would have issues transferring money. Name on my bank account has been changed for 8 weeks now.
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Quote from: Laurie on May 17, 2018, 12:51:41 PM
It is a happy day for sure Alyssa, Congrats! You have joined the rollercoaster club. Fasten your seat belt and keep your arms and legs inside the car. The ride is about to begin, sit back and enjoy this ride.
Squeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
Hugs,
Laurie
Pretty sure there are no seat belts on this ride. It can be terrifying and exhilarating and some times both at the same time.
Lots of waiting in a freaking long queue too.
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Quote from: TonyaW on May 19, 2018, 09:13:04 AM
They never told me what the issue was with the first copy of the photo ID I had sent. I sent it again and .....
Yay; they finally did it. Got the "responded to your message" email this morning.
Funny part was they told me I needed to make sure my name matched on my bank account or I would have issues transferring money. Name on my bank account has been changed for 8 weeks now.
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Hi TonyaW, 19 may 2018
Canned responses; responses from customer service reps when talking to them on the phone are read from a script.
The world we live in.
Best Always,
Christine
Quote from: christinej78 on May 19, 2018, 09:23:46 AM
Hi TonyaW, 19 may 2018
Canned responses; responses from customer service reps when talking to them on the phone are read from a script.
Your message is important to us. Please hold and we will read it in the order received.
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- Stephanie
It's so irritating when there are issues when others are soooooo easy.
I had one place I have a loan from did the change within an hour of when I emailed customer service. Some have done it over internet chat help sessions without needing the court order.
My pharmacist lisence was updated the same day I sent the notice.
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Quote from: TonyaW on May 19, 2018, 09:41:26 AM
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My pharmacist lisence was updated the same day I sent the notice.
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Does this mean you are a drug dealer; I believe it "dose" in a positive way. Congratulations.
Best Always,
Christine
Quote from: christinej78 on May 19, 2018, 09:51:57 AM
Does this mean you are a drug dealer; I believe it "dose" in a positive way. Congratulations.
Best Always,
Christine
I tell people I have a license to sell drugs. I don't work retail anymore so I don't actually do any of the selling part.
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Quote from: TonyaW on May 19, 2018, 09:58:36 AM
I tell people I have a license to sell drugs. I don't work retail anymore so I don't actually do any of the selling part.
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Tonya, 19 May 2018
I have friends here in Fort Worth that are my drug dealers; they own a pharmacy and I do all my dealing there. I'm sure they would like to have you on their staff. If you ever decide to relocate to a "cooler not" climate. this is a good place and I'm sure they would be happy to have you. Everyone there knows about my transition. On the 27 of March, my endocrinologist electronically sent my prescription for Estradiol to them. I walked in about a half hour later and my friend said "What's going on." I said "Just what it looks like" or something to that affect. I told him exactly what is going on and asked him to "splain" it to all his employees.
Best Always,
Christine
I had a sort of unique passing validation last evening. We stayed at a motel along the Missouri river, one totally filled with good old boy red neck fishermen out on holiday and ate at a restaurant packed full of more of the same but moderately intoxicated to boot. Not one of them gave us a second glance and only references of ma'am or ladies were heard. Got to love it though I do admit to a high level of concern/fear surrounding what might have happened if that group of drunk rednecks on holiday had read me. We stopped in a truck stop restaurant in Cheyanne for a bite to eat. The only woman's restroom open was on the far side of the truckers lounge area. Both heading in and heading out, not a glance or comment. I don't know if I will ever get used to passing but hopefully I will never get complacent while traveling through risky environments.
Tia Anne
I Had an appointment this morning at the eye clinic at the VA in Portland. I had braced myself for another series of being summoned by my now defunked male name. I have not had a chance to get it changed yet. This has been normal for all previous visits there. Much to my surprise The firs of three to sommon me called out "Laurie" I aske how she knew to call me that and she replies there was a note in their system with the information. She said the next to summon would not know unless she passed the info on to them. Two more times I was summoned as Laurie and correct use of name an pronouns was used the whole visit.
After I was finished I went to the local grocery store where I was promptly misgendered in tyhe meat department with a "Can I help you, Sir?" Dang and I was on a roll too!
Hugs,
Laurie
Quote from: Laurie on May 19, 2018, 08:21:01 PM
> after I was finished I went to the local grocery store where I was promptly misgendered in the meat department with a "Can I help you, Sir?" Dang and I was on a roll too!
Another reason I switched to vegetarian. Problem solved. :P
Quote from: Kendra on May 19, 2018, 09:34:44 PM
Another reason I switched to vegetarian. Problem solved. :P
You want slapped when you get home don't you?
Yes to vegetarianism! The produce people are usually really nice! Ever notice that there are mostly women in the produce section? I am now over 20 years as a vegetarian. Not for everyone, but really good for me! We had a very nice vegetable stir fry tonight, with brown rice and I had seared tofu. Very good!
Quote from: Anne Blake on May 19, 2018, 08:05:24 PM
I had a sort of unique passing validation last evening. We stayed at a motel along the Missouri river, one totally filled with good old boy red neck fishermen out on holiday and ate at a restaurant packed full of more of the same but moderately intoxicated to boot. Not one of them gave us a second glance and only references of ma'am or ladies were heard. Got to love it though I do admit to a high level of concern/fear surrounding what might have happened if that group of drunk rednecks on holiday had read me. We stopped in a truck stop restaurant in Cheyanne for a bite to eat. The only woman's restroom open was on the far side of the truckers lounge area. Both heading in and heading out, not a glance or comment. I don't know if I will ever get used to passing but hopefully I will never get complacent while traveling through risky environments.
Tia Anne
Hi Tia,
I am glad you and Deb encountered no problems during your stay and travels through redneck environs. I experienced that feeling of on guard nervousness when I was driving down south through Texas, Mississippi, Alabama.
I was trying to get a nap in one of those roadside rests in Texas when a long 18 wheeler pulled in and parked behind me. One look and I decided to move on. Not my kind of country.
Edit: I am not anti-Christian or most religions for that matter. Given the part of the country I was traversing and the remoteness of the place I was parked, it made me nervous. I am not a member of any religion myself, but have no problems attending church with friends. Religion is a personal choice. I made mine long ago. I apologize to anyone my post may offend. It it does offend please let me know and I will fix it.
Hugs,
Laurie
(https://i.imgur.com/vu06eyk.jpg)
I'm a Christian but all I can do is 🤦♀️ when I see that.
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Hi Laurie,
As you well know, Deb and I are devout believers but that truck talks far more about people with anger and hate than about God. It would make me very uncomfortable as well. And yes, Texas and the South are places I try not to spend too much time in. That said, I will be down in Dallas in another week or so.
Love you girl,
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on May 20, 2018, 08:35:20 AM
Hi Laurie,
As you well know, Deb and I are devout believers but that truck talks far more about people with anger and hate than about God. It would make me very uncomfortable as well. And yes, Texas and the South are places I try not to spend too much time in. That said, I will be down in Dallas in another week or so.
Love you girl,
Tia Anne
Yes Tia, I am well aware you and Deb are believers. That is fine with me. I know that your beliefs are part of the great friends you two are. I will go one record here to say that should I be visiting with you two on a day of church I would be honored to go with you to experience your church with you two. May God, as you understand him, her or whatever, bless you both.
Love you both,
(officially) Laurie
Quote from: Anne Blake on May 20, 2018, 08:35:20 AM
Hi Laurie,
As you well know, Deb and I are devout believers but that truck talks far more about people with anger and hate than about God. It would make me very uncomfortable as well. And yes, Texas and the South are places I try not to spend too much time in. That said, I will be down in Dallas in another week or so.
Love you girl,
Tia Anne
Hi Anne, 20 May 2018
Welcome to the Great State of Texas; I've been here 40 years and have not seen the bigotry here I saw in that SH I came from called Ohio. There are bigots everywhere and if you look for them you will find them on both sides of the fence. I've lived and worked all over this country and world; I don't want to say this too loudly, but this is the best place on earth.
Please don't think I am criticizing what you said, cause I'm not. I was able to accomplish, transgender wise, in 5 weeks and one day what it takes others years to do that live elsewhere. Why, because everything you could want is right here and there are people here that will help you do it. The "LBGQTXYZ Anything You Wanna Be" population is quite large and hardly anyone says boo. No matter what you want to do there will always be someone that will have an issue with it.
Please let me know when you will be here because I'd like to meet you if you would like. I will PM you with details of how to contact me. I live in the Fort Worth area, just west of the north west corner of DFW Airport, about 15 minutes away if the traffic is reasonable. I'm usually available 24x7 with enough notice. Thursday 31 May I have a full day with the VA; new hearing contraptions, and my relocation to the Women's Clinic, all in one day. 04 June I have a funday Monday, which will consume the day. I'm having two freight trains take a trip, one down my throat and the other up my ..., you guessed it, so I'll be whacked out on "Milk of Amnesia" (Propofol) for a short while. That'll be an interesting day as I have already outed myself to my gastroenterologist's PA (female). I think I'll do a "Show and Tell" for everyone in the procedure room. It'll be interesting to see how many have seen a woman with an empty nut sack... and water spout.
Have a safe and enjoyable trip to Texas, my home sweet home. Looking forward to meeting you.
Best Always,
Christine
PS: I am also a believer.
Sorry Christine, didn't mean to ding your adopted state. Yes, the larger Dallas area (as well as much of Austin) are friendly to those in the rainbow community and I enjoy the area. But you may be willing to admit that there are some other areas of Texas, west Texas from Dumas down to El Paso that are not always as open and accepting.....or that may just be my paranoid interpretation.
Now lets give this thread back to what made folks happy lately.
No insult meant,
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on May 20, 2018, 02:54:48 PM
Sorry Christine, didn't mean to ding your adopted state. Yes, the larger Dallas area (as well as much of Austin) are friendly to those in the rainbow community and I enjoy the area. But you may be willing to admit that there are some other areas of Texas, west Texas from Dumas down to El Paso that are not always as open and accepting.....or that may just be my paranoid interpretation.
Now lets give this thread back to what made folks happy lately.
No insult meant,
Tia Anne
Hi Tia Anne, 20 May 2018
Your PM made me very happy today. You might think I'm a tad bit defensive of this place. No insult taken as I know none was intended. One of the things that also make me happy is that it seems the younger generation is much more accepting than mine and those preceding.
Since my start on HRT and the orchie, I feel a million times better and I think I am becoming a better person because of it. I sure hope so cause I don't want to go back.
Nice thing about orchies, you can't reverse them and that also makes me happy.
How's that, three happy's in one post!
Best Always,
Christine
So my happy today is two parts. First I had a great big ole cry fest with my wife this morning and she told me about her counseling session. She finally understands why the huge interest I have in everything that's happening to me, she thought I was being vain and obsessive. Her therapist made it so simple to understand and I didn't even realize it. She is living with a teen going thru puberty and I'm no different than any other teen except my first puberty was stolen from me. This is in fact my first puberty. We had such a wonderful and enlightening exchange and now she is way more comfortable about everything. We are moving forward as girlfriends, partners and life companions. She is my heart and soul and I hers.
Second part was we had her 90 year old dad over for supper tonight and he has been hugely accepting. I picked him up wearing a new blouse, skirt and a new wig and a pair of sandals.
He said with no hesitation "you look pretty tonight". Just blew my mind, I'm so damn happy with my life.
@Donna and
@Alaskan Danielle Thank you both for the for the nice words and wishes on my 2nd term I definitely will keep it updated May 28 I have just been swapped with work alot to finish up everything just incase
Quote from: Donna on May 21, 2018, 12:20:13 AM
So my happy today is two parts. First I had a great big ole cry fest with my wife this morning and she told me about her counseling session. She finally understands why the huge interest I have in everything that's happening to me, she thought I was being vain and obsessive. Her therapist made it so simple to understand and I didn't even realize it. She is living with a teen going thru puberty and I'm no different than any other teen except my first puberty was stolen from me. This is in fact my first puberty. We had such a wonderful and enlightening exchange and now she is way more comfortable about everything. We are moving forward as girlfriends, partners and life companions. She is my heart and soul and I hers.
Second part was we had her 90 year old dad over for supper tonight and he has been hugely accepting. I picked him up wearing a new blouse, skirt and a new wig and a pair of sandals.
He said with no hesitation "you look pretty tonight". Just blew my mind, I'm so damn happy with my life.
This is great Donna! I'm so happy for you and hang on to that little lady. :)
Hugs,
Chelsea
Went and picked up my meds tonight (patches) from chemists and she said do you pay or on social to which I said no its free at my age (over 60) told here I was 63 and she said you don't look it!!!!! Me I just said its the patches and got a broad smile. Not to self read recipe before starting as made pork and mushrooms tonight ,by the time it was all prepped it was 6.45 seal the pork, fry onions and put pork back in . Add stock and cook slowly for 1 1/2 hrs , blast 1 1/2 hrs and then add coconut cream . Stock didn't reduce either so had to boil it down for 15 mins and got to eat at 8.30.
You are quite the cook! As for paying for meds, I hope to hit the magic marker this summer. Here it is 65 before I can get the reduced rate. I don't think anything is free! Have a great dinner!
I did it. I finally did it. I went outside dressed as me!!! Took a very long walk with my sister and her dog, covered a few neighborhoods and saw plenty of people. No one gave me a second glance even when I was talking or singing (yes, singing).
Quote from: Roll on May 21, 2018, 07:51:38 PM
I did it. I finally did it. I went outside dressed as me!!! Took a very long walk with my sister and her dog, covered a few neighborhoods and saw plenty of people. No one gave me a second glance even when I was talking or singing (yes, singing).
Way to go! You are so cute! Just shows what can happen when you let your true self out! All the Best! Hugs, Kelly
Quote from: Roll on May 21, 2018, 07:51:38 PM
I did it. I finally did it. I went outside dressed as me!!! Took a very long walk with my sister and her dog, covered a few neighborhoods and saw plenty of people. No one gave me a second glance even when I was talking or singing (yes, singing).
Hi Ellie, 21 May 2018
Is that you in your new avatar? You sure do look fantastic. Way to go young lady. Congratulations. There should be a medal awarded for such a great transition.
Best Always,
Christine
Congratulations Ellie, a big step....yet the first time out of many to come. Remember this day! And enjoy the journey, it will be a long and enjoyable one.
Tia Anne
Quote from: Roll on May 21, 2018, 07:51:38 PM
I did it. I finally did it. I went outside dressed as me!!! Took a very long walk with my sister and her dog, covered a few neighborhoods and saw plenty of people. No one gave me a second glance even when I was talking or singing (yes, singing).
Ellie, you are so awesome, and that look suits you, so cute.
I have a stupid thing that made me super happy today. Sony announced its discontinuing physical cartridges for the Vita. This means there will be a cap to the number of games I have to collect. I'm at 198 now and really did not want this to go on forever!
Oh, and on the trans front I am still getting sir-ed, but I do see people running it through their mind questioning if they used the correct pronoun. Sheesh!
Bari Jo
Quote from: Roll on May 21, 2018, 07:51:38 PM
I did it. I finally did it. I went outside dressed as me!!! Took a very long walk with my sister and her dog, covered a few neighborhoods and saw plenty of people. No one gave me a second glance even when I was talking or singing (yes, singing).
Way to go Ellie. That's fantastic. I'm looking forward to the day I finally go out as myself once my transition progresses a bit more.
With Love,
Noelle
Quote from: Roll on May 21, 2018, 07:51:38 PM
I did it. I finally did it. I went outside dressed as me!!! Took a very long walk with my sister and her dog, covered a few neighborhoods and saw plenty of people. No one gave me a second glance even when I was talking or singing (yes, singing).
That so wonderful girl. I does feel great doesn't it.
I got just the best great big happy going on today.
My name change documents arrived in the mail today.
I am so thrilled to officially be recognized as Donna Ashley B now
This is way better than getting hit on by a cute guy. Lol
Congrats, Donna! Exciting times!
I got some makeup lessons after work yesterday, then I got an unexpected invite to join some of my friends (male) to go out for the evening, I wasn't sure I had the courage to go out as Nicole with full makeup on, especially at night, I have been out as Nicole a lot during the day but on to friends houses at night were I feel safe, anyway I didn't want to give into my fears so I went out and had a great time and glad I did.
Today was my last day of college and so I decided to stop being afraid and I went to school in my favorite women's outfit as I've already been slowly coming out to my class and professor. And it went just fine today. We went out to eat today so got public exposure even more there. Didn't even get strange looks, actually got complimented by a few people, and realized there wasn't really anything to have been afraid of.
I'm upset I didn't do this sooner, but I'm glad I did finally do it. Additionally, I will be getting free counseling through the school for the summer starting tomorrow. I'm nervous, but also ready for it. Today was a good experience in my life.
(ps since I said it was my last day of college if you were wondering, I graduated with an Associates Degree in Video Production)
Congratulations! And Congratulations again! (One time for graduating and one time for having the courage to wear your favorite outfit!)
Quote from: Evienne on May 23, 2018, 09:51:05 PM
Today was my last day of college and so I decided to stop being afraid and I went to school in my favorite women's outfit as I've already been slowly coming out to my class and professor. And it went just fine today. We went out to eat today so got public exposure even more there. Didn't even get strange looks, actually got complimented by a few people, and realized there wasn't really anything to have been afraid of.
I'm upset I didn't do this sooner, but I'm glad I did finally do it. Additionally, I will be getting free counseling through the school for the summer starting tomorrow. I'm nervous, but also ready for it. Today was a good experience in my life.
(ps since I said it was my last day of college if you were wondering, I graduated with an Associates Degree in Video Production)
That's so awesome. Two graduations in one day. Your doing well
Quote from: sarah1972 on May 23, 2018, 10:02:19 PM
Congratulations! And Congratulations again! (One time for graduating and one time for having the courage to wear your favorite outfit!)
Thank you ^^ (thank you too Donna). I've been really trying to finally do something about transitioning so been taking small steps and learning to overcome fears. I don't want to hit 25 and still not be on HRT. That has been a goal I set for myself and it with a friend have been pushing me to reach it. I'm nervous but I'm ready.
Evienne I am so proud of you. Two graduations at once.
Franklin Roosevelt said the only thing we have to fear is fear itself. There weren't many openly transgender individuals in 1933. I'd modify his words to say the only thing we have to fear is ourselves, as many people in most areas of the world are actually quite positive about people being their true selves, or don't care and wander by looking at their phone. A few might stop, stare or deliberately misgender us - the same imbeciles who make negative remarks to mixed-race couples and people with disabilities. Those who refuse to understand or at least accept those of us living as our true selves are increasingly falling behind. They are on the wrong side of history. We are winning.
Kendra
Quote from: Kendra on May 24, 2018, 02:17:05 AM
Evienne I am so proud of you. Two graduations at once.
Franklin Roosevelt said the only thing we have to fear is fear itself. There weren't many openly transgender individuals in 1933. I'd modify his words to say the only thing we have to fear is ourselves, as many people in most areas of the world are actually quite positive about people being their true selves, or don't care and wander by looking at their phone. A few might stop, stare or deliberately misgender us - the same imbeciles who make negative remarks to mixed-race couples and people with disabilities. Those who refuse to understand or at least accept those of us living as our true selves are increasingly falling behind. They are on the wrong side of history. We are winning.
Kendra
Thank you Kendra. I very much agree with you. And that's what I'm slowly finding out. I've lived too long believing the wrong things about the world because of where I grew up. I've been deeply controlled by the spotlight effect bias. It took 22 years to realize the errors of my thinking and I'm at the point where I want to correct it all. And I've been gathering support and finding this site very helpful as well. I really appreciate how emotionally helpful everyone has been here. Thank you again ^^
Yay!! Paypal finally fixed my name. Now to tackle the cars title, the car loan, my best buy credit card, and my birth certificate. Some places make it far more difficult than it should and others are easy. My Payless shoes account got changed by a wonderful woman at one of their stores, at the register, no papers required. I ended up with free no show socks and a $10 coupon to top it off!
On a side note, I like the Han Solo movie. Saw it last night. There are a few things that seemed off, but it was a fun movie anyway. The things that were off were probably my nerdiness showing.
I saw my first ever trans girl at work today. I'm not the only one, yay! I didn't out her, just smiled.
Bari Jo
This weeks happy, my pre-op appointment for the orchi was cancelled for July 23, it's now reset for June 14 due to a cancellation. Only 19 days to go and then I'll have the date. 💗💕💗💕💗💕
Quote from: Donna on May 26, 2018, 10:30:23 AM
This weeks happy, my pre-op appointment for the orchi was cancelled for July 23, it's now reset for June 14 due to a cancellation. Only 19 days to go and then I'll have the date. 💗💕💗💕💗💕
Dear Donna, 26 May 2018
Congratulations; I think once you have the orchi, you will be happier than ever. Enjoy that day because it's a once in a lifetime event, unless you do them "one at a time."
Best Always, Love,
Christine
Hi Everyone, 26 May 2018
This didn't happen today but has happened over the past week. First two friends, one @ male female, noticed my boobs. That means they are a "growin." Then later in the week as I was walking into WallyWorld pushing a cart, I noticed a guy looking at me, but not my face, my chest; confirmation; made me smile.
It was a good week. Hope everyone here at Susan's Place have good weeks forever.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
Thanks Christine but I'll pass on doing them one at a time. I'd like nothing more than to make it a three way but it won't happen. So the stem of my bladder will stay for a bit.
Glad your being noticed and enjoying it. I love having doors held open for me. It's kind of neat
The last few years, I have shaved my legs in the winter. I was able to cover up my bare legs by always wearing pants during the colder months.
Yesterday I shaved my legs and I don't think that I'm ever looking back. I'm over my fears about others judging me. Worrying about what people think about my outward appearance is something that I am gradually overcoming.
I am so excited to go out and about with my soft/smooth legs.
This really made me happy today.
With Love,
Noelle
Quote from: Nova_Noelle on May 27, 2018, 09:27:25 AM
I'm over my fears about others judging me. Worrying about what people think about my outward appearance is something that I am gradually overcoming.
Yay, Noelle! That is indeed something to be happy about. :)
Quote from: Nova_Noelle on May 27, 2018, 09:27:25 AM
The last few years, I have shaved my legs in the winter. I was able to cover up my bare legs by always wearing pants during the colder months.
Yesterday I shaved my legs and I don't think that I'm ever looking back. I'm over my fears about others judging me. Worrying about what people think about my outward appearance is something that I am gradually overcoming.
I am so excited to go out and about with my soft/smooth legs.
This really made me happy today.
With Love,
Noelle
That is so great! I'm happy for you in doing this as I'm still trying to overcome the same fear.
Hugs,
Chelsea
Thanks ladies for your kind words! I truly appreciate them!
Quote from: Chelsea on May 27, 2018, 10:06:17 AM
That is so great! I'm happy for you in doing this as I'm still trying to overcome the same fear.
Hugs,
Chelsea
You can do it Chelsea. Just go at your own pace and slow and steady progress always helps.
With Love,
Noelle
Quote from: Nova_Noelle on May 27, 2018, 09:27:25 AM
The last few years, I have shaved my legs in the winter. I was able to cover up my bare legs by always wearing pants during the colder months.
Yesterday I shaved my legs and I don't think that I'm ever looking back. I'm over my fears about others judging me. Worrying about what people think about my outward appearance is something that I am gradually overcoming.
I am so excited to go out and about with my soft/smooth legs.
This really made me happy today.
With Love,
Noelle
Yes the early stages can cause the rise of fears! I remember in my first few months of transition, I was trying to be some what androgynous. I was playing tennis with a group of men and one of them asked if I was a cyclist because I had shaved my legs. My answer was a simple no. It wasn't to long after this that I decided to go full time and so no more men's doubles!
All the Best in your transition. The path will have hills and valleys! Stay positive and believe in the girl inside and you will prevail!
Hugs,
Kelly
I was on a video conference call at work and my face was on a large screen. One of the guys in the room messaged me and said you are gettting younger and younger, what are you doing? I told him I died the grays. That is true but there is s lot more going on.
The process of losing weight has also allowed me to get off of blood pressure medicine. This might be saving my life. High blood pressure runs in my family.
That could be very true lasergirl, my BO meds have been cut in half with weight lose and HRT.
Actually too low today 98/56
Typical is 116/63 for me now
Before it was a constant 150/80 with spikes
Transitioning can save your life should be a PSA
Yesterday, I went to the movies and a couple stores wearing a sports bra in broad daylight for the first time. It felt really good. I have worn one briefly under the cover of darkness or covered by layers of clothing during colder weather.
It was about 85 degrees yesterday where I live. I wore a t-shirt with a sports bra underneath and khaki shorts (I got to show off my freshly shaved legs too, yay!) with a thong underneath them This was the most feminine that I have ever dressed in public to date (even though most of my female attire was out of sight.) It made me so happy. Baby steps can be so huge when you first take them.
Also, over the last few weeks, I have added a lot to my wardrobe and have acquired a lot of typically female items that I have always wanted to have: female razors, shaving gel, moisturizer, body wash, makeup, bras, panties, other clothes etc. Over the years I have bought some of these things online but recently I have built up the courage to buy these items in person at a store. Something that has been huge for me is the availability of self-checkout. Goodbye anxiety at the checkout line, lol. :D
With Love,
Noelle
PS
The movie that I saw was "Solo: A Star Wars Story." I'd give it a 7/10. I thought that the actors were great (Alden Ehrenreich and Donald Glover were total hotties and Emilia Clarke looked gorgeous, I want the earrings she was wearing in much of the film.) I just felt like the script could have been better. Sometimes I would find myself thinking "okay why are they doing this again?" I would still recommend it to anyone that has enjoyed the previous Star Wars movies though.
Quote from: Donna on May 27, 2018, 07:02:44 PM
That could be very true lasergirl, my BP meds have been cut in half with weight lose and HRT.
Actually too low today 98/56
Typical is 116/63 for me now
Before it was a constant 150/80 with spikes
Transitioning can save your life should be a PSA
Well Today well yesterday now was the union elections and I am officially got elected for my second term as President of our Union Which make me the second open Transgender female ever first one to Transition as President.
I began with those babies step me too. I wore dresses and bras under my ample men clothes many time even at job. 5 weeks ago I decided be full time and I would never go back... You have to be proud of what you are. You are a person like any other. Trans is beautiful !!
Sabrina
Quote from: Nova_Noelle on May 28, 2018, 09:45:58 PM
Yesterday, I went to the movies and a couple stores wearing a sports bra in broad daylight for the first time. It felt really good. I have worn one briefly under the cover of darkness or covered by layers of clothing during colder weather.
It was about 85 degrees yesterday where I live. I wore a t-shirt with a sports bra underneath and khaki shorts (I got to show off my freshly shaved legs too, yay!) with a thong underneath them This was the most feminine that I have ever dressed in public to date (even though most of my female attire was out of sight.) It made me so happy. Baby steps can be so huge when you first take them.
Also, over the last few weeks, I have added a lot to my wardrobe and have acquired a lot of typically female items that I have always wanted to have: female razors, shaving gel, moisturizer, body wash, makeup, bras, panties, other clothes etc. Over the years I have bought some of these things online but recently I have built up the courage to buy these items in person at a store. Something that has been huge for me is the availability of self-checkout. Goodbye anxiety at the checkout line, lol. :D
With Love,
Noelle
PS
The movie that I saw was "Solo: A Star Wars Story." I'd give it a 7/10. I thought that the actors were great (Alden Ehrenreich and Donald Glover were total hotties and Emilia Clarke looked gorgeous, I want the earrings she was wearing in much of the film.) I just felt like the script could have been better. Sometimes I would find myself thinking "okay why are they doing this again?" I would still recommend it to anyone that has enjoyed the previous Star Wars movies though.
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Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on May 28, 2018, 11:42:58 PM
Well Today well yesterday now was the union elections and I am officially got elected for my second term as President of our Union Which make me the second open Transgender female ever first one to Transition as President.
Wow. Natalie, congratulations!
There's another type of Presidential office you might consider running for in the future. Never know till ya try.
Quote from: Nova_Noelle on May 28, 2018, 09:45:58 PM
Yesterday, I went to the movies and a couple stores wearing a sports bra in broad daylight for the first time. It felt really good. I have worn one briefly under the cover of darkness or covered by layers of clothing during colder weather.
It was about 85 degrees yesterday where I live. I wore a t-shirt with a sports bra underneath and khaki shorts (I got to show off my freshly shaved legs too, yay!) with a thong underneath them This was the most feminine that I have ever dressed in public to date (even though most of my female attire was out of sight.) It made me so happy. Baby steps can be so huge when you first take them.
Also, over the last few weeks, I have added a lot to my wardrobe and have acquired a lot of typically female items that I have always wanted to have: female razors, shaving gel, moisturizer, body wash, makeup, bras, panties, other clothes etc. Over the years I have bought some of these things online but recently I have built up the courage to buy these items in person at a store. Something that has been huge for me is the availability of self-checkout. Goodbye anxiety at the checkout line, lol. :D
With Love,
Noelle
That's awesome to hear! I technically haven't gone out in girls clothes yet except to work, and yeah, thank goodness for those self-checkouts! I really want to wear a thong, too...can't seem to find them at Walmarts. Would it be too daring to walk into Victoria's Secret and try to buy a thong? lol
Though for me, when I decided to buy a bra I happen to be at like the only Walmart I know that doesn't keep the self-checkout open late, so I had to go through a regular cashier, heh heh
It's small, but I guess what made me happy(recently) was the eye shadow palettes that my wife ordered for me came in the mail. What will make me REALLY happy is when she decides to help me put some on! xD
I start laser hair removal today :)
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Quote from: MollyPants on May 29, 2018, 05:55:52 AM
I start laser hair removal today :)
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Great! So eager to start... Within a month I will start facial laser for sure
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Thank you AshleyP and Kendra, yes I always wanted to enter politics and I would be more on the side President Obama's policies. I always said by the time I hit 40 I want to run in a political office whether it me city regional provincial or federal but only time will tell.
Two things! One, yesterday I went out fully dressed female for the second time, and didn't even feel the need to put on makeup my beard shadow after fourth laser settled in is so faint. I didn't go anywhere really, just dog for walk. It was memorial day so I was expecting to run into a lot of people, but oddly none! It was sort of disappointing, I wanted to see reactions.
Second thing, just got word just now that my step mother's surgery to remove the cancer in her colon went very well, and they saw no signs of it having spread at all. Still have to wait on results from lymph nodes that should be back by Thursday, but it's extremely positive news.
Quote from: dizz on May 29, 2018, 06:10:24 AM
Great! So eager to start... Within a month I will start facial laser for sure
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Yowzer did it sting! But I feel great now it's over. I can't wait until it's starts falling out! Only another 7 to go haha
That's great news! Best of luck!
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Quote from: Roll on May 29, 2018, 08:43:25 AM
Two things! One, yesterday I went out fully dressed female for the second time, and didn't even feel the need to put on makeup my beard shadow after fourth laser settled in is so faint. I didn't go anywhere really, just dog for walk. It was memorial day so I was expecting to run into a lot of people, but oddly none! It was sort of disappointing, I wanted to see reactions.
Second thing, just got word just now that my step mother's surgery to remove the cancer in her colon went very well, and they saw no signs of it having spread at all. Still have to wait on results from lymph nodes that should be back by Thursday, but it's extremely positive news.
The first one is amazing :) that sounds like a lovely day! The second bit sounds promising, I'm really glad it went well.
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Well it might seem little but I made strides even if they where only here talking with people and getting a 'network' setup, other than that it was a blah day but it made me happy ^^
It happened Monday, but I just now got a chance to post it:
(https://farm2.staticflickr.com/1750/42404902772_76a2ffca63_m.jpg) (https://flic.kr/p/27Bbdej)IMG_0310 (https://flic.kr/p/27Bbdej) by Claire Labus (https://www.flickr.com/photos/150862552@N05/), on Flickr
I went out to the pool!
Aside from the sunburn I got; I had a great time with my fiancé, one future daughter, and four future grandkids. My fiance told me last night that her daughter was checking me over to see if she could tell. Good news, She thinks I look totally like a woman!
The only bad thing is when I had to shut down for a minute due to the heat. I laid in a shaded area near the corner of a fence and a building. Then some creepy guy sat next to me in the shade, and started bugging me. After telling him, repeatedly, I'm engaged my fiance finally came and rescued me from him, and found us a different shaded spot. He kept offerring me a granolla bar. Sorry bud, I don't take stuff from strangers. When out and about, pick an area that has multiple ways out. It could have ended badly, we weren't in the most open of places. I won't make that mistake again!
I was walking around my house, naked, after my shower, and noticed that my was jiggled when I walked.
So been out twice now around neighborhood to walk dog. Today, I went further. Went to visit my step mom in hospital, passed tons of people, nurse in room kept walking right by me, etc. Not a single person even gave me a second glance, though I hid behind hair a bit and was super terrified on my own.
Was really hoping to then grab dinner like that, but most people didn't want to leave her room (despite the fact she had expressly requested alone time and my dad was being spineless about telling people to go home/leave) except my step brother, who... uhhh. Wow, he was not doing a bang up job on name and gender, and I didn't really want to go eat with just him saying JOHN at the top of his lungs repeatedly. (He has volume control issues.) So I chickened out / was practical and removed makeup and wig in car and just went as I was with a hat (clothes were neutral).
My wife's youngest sister came by with her new boyfriend from Utah. He is a super nice guy and even though I do like her current husband They are like oil and water.
They are also both named Dave. Not so confusing I guess.
Anyways this was also the first time we have got together since Donna arrived and she thought I looked beautiful and said she had expected a guy in a dress and not the woman that walked in, she said she would have walked right past me on the street and not recognized me
Hugs and more hugs all the way around and a big acceptance of me.
It feels greats And I know my wife is happy for her sisters support and that makes me happy
Quote from: Roll on May 30, 2018, 07:45:16 PM
So been out twice now around neighborhood to walk dog. Today, I went further. Went to visit my step mom in hospital, passed tons of people, nurse in room kept walking right by me, etc. Not a single person even gave me a second glance, though I hid behind hair a bit and was super terrified on my own.
Was really hoping to then grab dinner like that, but most people didn't want to leave her room (despite the fact she had expressly requested alone time and my dad was being spineless about telling people to go home/leave) except my step brother, who... uhhh. Wow, he was not doing a bang up job on name and gender, and I didn't really want to go eat with just him saying JOHN at the top of his lungs repeatedly. (He has volume control issues.) So I chickened out / was practical and removed makeup and wig in car and just went as I was with a hat (clothes were neutral).
Your very cute in your pic, just go for it and be yourself. Stay dressed and enjoy. Hope your step
Mom feels better soon. Really have to dislike that volume challenge people either with your other name or the sirs. Gets old so fast
Another milestone today. Randi works for a retreat center and we're staying there between apartments. This week we're camping.
Tonight we decided to use the facilities in the sauna, but not the sauna itself. I was a little nervous but I managed to take a shower, pee, and brush my teeth without hearing "OMG, there's a man in here!"
I pass pretty well, but no way I'd pass naked!
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
It's a few days past (since this weekend), but I went through a drive-thru as myself. My wife wanted me to go to walgreens to get her ice cream, but I wasn't too comfy getting out of my car to do it. So, I opted to compromise and go through the drive-thru at Sonic, since it had been a long while from when she had an oreo blast. It was so good and the girl at the window said that she hoped I have a good night. Good times.
I have met my father and step-mother for the first time as me. He said it was strange at the beginning. Then we talked about it and many other things. Just before I Ieave he gaves me a big hug. [emoji16] It was easier than I thought. They only want me to be happy and they don't want me to injure myself as I did 2 times. I have never been so happy!!(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180531/ec96f633270f8d9d90bed3fb807e65ff.jpg)
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Quote from: dizz on May 31, 2018, 01:56:30 PM
I have met my father and step-mother for the first time as me. He said it was strange at the beginning. Then we talked about it and many other things. Just before I Ieave he gaves me a big hug. [emoji16] It was easier than I thought. They only want me to be happy and they don't want me to injure myself as I did 2 times. I have never been so happy!!(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180531/ec96f633270f8d9d90bed3fb807e65ff.jpg)
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Hi Dizz, 31 May 2018
Congratulations, you look absolutely beautiful. Happy your folks are happy and that you are happy as well. That's a lot of Happies in one sentences; I think you deserve more so HAPPY X 1000.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
Happy days all round!! Went shopping wearing my denim skirt and butterfly blouse . A few stares but nothing much,just ignored them. Then the nearly ex came round to pick up a curry and she was OK and got a nice skirt and dress this morning . Some earrings as well, cant beat a bit of dangle
Quote from: SiobhánF on May 31, 2018, 01:32:03 PM
It's a few days past (since this weekend), but I went through a drive-thru as myself. My wife wanted me to go to walgreens to get her ice cream, but I wasn't too comfy getting out of my car to do it. So, I opted to compromise and go through the drive-thru at Sonic, since it had been a long while from when she had an oreo blast. It was so good and the girl at the window said that she hoped I have a good night. Good times.
Hi Siobhan, 31 may 2018
As soon as I saw
Sonic and
Oreo blast I figured you had to be from the great southwest. I imagine it's a bit cool ;) where you are.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
OMG , you have such a sweet and nice smile - like it so much. Ill hug you from here. (Hugz)
Good to see you had a nice reaction, so pleased for you so keep going girl, its good now and gets better -
Hugz Again
Katie
Quote from: dizz on May 31, 2018, 01:56:30 PM
I have met my father and step-mother for the first time as me. He said it was strange at the beginning. Then we talked about it and many other things. Just before I Ieave he gaves me a big hug. [emoji16] It was easier than I thought. They only want me to be happy and they don't want me to injure myself as I did 2 times. I have never been so happy!!(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180531/ec96f633270f8d9d90bed3fb807e65ff.jpg)
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Quote from: Roll on May 30, 2018, 07:45:16 PM
So been out twice now around neighborhood to walk dog. Today, I went further. Went to visit my step mom in hospital, passed tons of people, nurse in room kept walking right by me, etc. Not a single person even gave me a second glance, though I hid behind hair a bit and was super terrified on my own.
Was really hoping to then grab dinner like that, but most people didn't want to leave her room (despite the fact she had expressly requested alone time and my dad was being spineless about telling people to go home/leave) except my step brother, who... uhhh. Wow, he was not doing a bang up job on name and gender, and I didn't really want to go eat with just him saying JOHN at the top of his lungs repeatedly. (He has volume control issues.) So I chickened out / was practical and removed makeup and wig in car and just went as I was with a hat (clothes were neutral).
Ellie, I think you are so empathic and brave that you sacrificed your own true feelings for a while to someone who it seems needed some support - Well done - You are quite an inspiration and really so nice a person for what you do on occasions. Give your Sis a big hug as well for her support.
Take care and Have fun
Katie
:angel: :angel: :angel:
Quote from: christinej78 on May 31, 2018, 04:42:06 PM
Hi Siobhan, 31 may 2018
As soon as I saw Sonic and Oreo blast I figured you had to be from the great southwest. I imagine it's a bit cool ;) where you are.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
I wish it was cool lol. But, yeah, I'm in AZ, at the moment, originally from TX. We do have Sonics in TX too, so maybe it's a south-southwest thing(?).
Quote from: SiobhánF on May 31, 2018, 06:00:39 PM
I wish it was cool lol. But, yeah, I'm in AZ, at the moment, originally from TX. We do have Sonics in TX too, so maybe it's a south-southwest thing(?).
We had Sonic here in NY for a little while but it didn't take. They only lasted a year or two. We had Dickie's Barbeque for a while, too. That I miss even though they couldn't match up with some of the really good barbeque we have here.
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Quote from: Dee Marshall on May 31, 2018, 06:20:30 PM
We had Sonic here in NY for a little while but it didn't take. They only lasted a year or two. We had Dickie's Barbeque for a while, too. That I miss even though they couldn't match up with some of the really good barbeque we have here.
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Now I want barbecue. :3
Hello! I'm almost 2 months post op gcs, today was especially difficult feeling down that my fibrin isn't falling off like its supposed to and my surgeons staff recommended me take 3 sitz baths a bath instead of 2. Feeling defeated and exhausted mentally from this recovery i told my boyfriend about he spent the whole day sending me sweet messages and took me out for dinner then we cuddled in bed for a bit.
Started out crappy but ended perfectly
Anja
Quote from: SiobhánF on May 31, 2018, 06:00:39 PM
I wish it was cool lol. But, yeah, I'm in AZ, at the moment, originally from TX. We do have Sonics in TX too, so maybe it's a south-southwest thing(?).
Hi Siobhán, 31 May 2018
Sonic's are a fixture here in Texas and headquartered in Oklahoma City Oklahoma. Personally, I like Braum's Dairy Stores for Ice cream. They're headquartered in Tuttle, Oklahoma. They have several farms totaling 40,000 acres. Here's a link: https://www.braums.com/tour-braums/
If you ever visit here, their Ice cream, IMO, is as good as it gets. Almost reads like a commercial. Thanks for the check Mr. Braum; won't say a word to nobody.
It's fairly warm here 88°, 56% humidity at 2257 hrs CDT. Too humid and not warm enough. I'm in the Fort Worth area in a town called Southlake. They really should rename it Taxlake; property taxes are out of sight. The only reason I'm still here is I am like crabgrass, impossible to get rid of. Been here so long they ignore me.
Where in Tejas are you from? Plan on coming back?Some of the Dickie's restaurants are corporate owned and some are franchise operations. The corporate Dickie's are much better than the franchise operations. The latter do a lot of skimping that doesn't happen with the corp. units.
There's another one in this area called Spring Creek BBQ. Pretty good food and usually piled high. Their baked potatoes are some of the largest tatters I have ever seen. They're so large they must have been grown in Texas (sarc).
At one time we had the dubious distinction of having more Hummers per capita than any where else on Space Ship Earth. They have now been replaced by soccer Mom Jeeps.
Our transgender population took a huge jump this year; increased 100%... went from One to Two; we are making strides. Haven't a clue as to the identity of the latest individual; all I know is they are MTF and old, like ancient.
Best Always, Love
Christine
Went to the mall before they opened to walk our dog. Just three chikas walking around, it is nice to just sort of blend in. Heading out to an art walk downtown and then Heather and I are headed to a drag show that our friends are performing in. Busy day, but looking forward to being out and about.
It was a bit interesting, so I started my new diet today promised I would walk more. So in the afternoon I decided to go to my local park and go for a walk (walked there lol). About 1/2 to 3/4ths of the way before I decided to call it a day I was walking past one of the side streets when someone had let go of a bunch of graduation balloons. It was perfect I was passing by as the sun peeked out from behind one of the clouds and these balloons flow by. Its the small things sometimes.
My son gets married next year. My future daughter in law is making plans for us to go pick out her wedding dress. Then we go for formal dresses for my partner and I. A dream come true.
Quote from: HappyMoni on June 04, 2018, 09:59:15 PM
My son gets married next year. My future daughter in law is making plans for us to go pick out her wedding dress. Then we go for formal dresses for my partner and I. A dream come true.
@HappyMoni Well, that is certainly exciting good news to hear. Yes, certainly a dream come true.
Of course we will all want you to post pictures of your formal dress choice... with you wearing it of course.
Remember the rule here on the forums....
"Pictures or it didn't happen"
Looking forward to your updates...
Hugs,
Danielle
grats to everyone who were happy with their days in this thread.
mine was finally trying a bra, 32 A cup size, under my tight fit shirt for the first time to protect my slowly growing breasts and it felt so liberating. it's really not that noticeable, the bra bulge lest i stuck my chest out. i know i've gotten the looks and whispers but it felt good.
even went shopping with my mom with the same get up (came from work, didn't bother changing, momentum was there)
even talked to my supervisor at work about it (female) and she's cool with it and impressed with my new lifestyle
Three things for me yesterday.
At lunch I sat with three ladies. When one of them misgendered me the other two corrected her.
I posted on Facebook that my birthday was coming up and what I wanted was for people to find a transgender person other than me and tell them that they love and support them,... and mean it!
I changed the spelling of my first name on Facebook from "Dion" to "Dione" as an early birthday present.
D
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
I have to say that I feel like I work in one of the best places. As this is pride month the management and staff all wore a ribbon with the transgender flag colours for me I just had a week of vacation days and came pack to that. It is very nice to feel appreciated and accepted made me want to cry.
While I've made a handful of jaunts out now walking dog and then walking through a hospital, I have yet to have face to face interaction with anyone and have hid behind wig a lot. Well, tonight I went out without hiding my face, speaking to people directly, and was just... me. For hours. Right off the bat at dinner I was ma'am'd, and no one misgendered me the entire evening. (Mostly no one said anything that required gendering me so except for that first one off the cuff it didn't really come up I suppose.)
Quote from: Roll on June 05, 2018, 10:56:50 PM
While I've made a handful of jaunts out now walking dog and then walking through a hospital, I have yet to have face to face interaction with anyone and have hid behind wig a lot. Well, tonight I went out without hiding my face, speaking to people directly, and was just... me. For hours. Right off the bat at dinner I was ma'am'd, and no one misgendered me the entire evening. (Mostly no one said anything that required gendering me so except for that first one off the cuff it didn't really come up I suppose.)
Hi Ellie, 06 June 2018
If that is you in your avatar I don't know how anyone, under any circumstances, could misgender you; you are absolutely beautiful and look in your early 20's and 100% female.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
I shaved properly today after a few days of not being able to because emy skin was sore after the laser. My face hasn't been this smooth and soft in so long! It's amazing.
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Hi Everyone, Wednesday 06 June 2018
It's only 0255 hrs CDT so not much happening; I guess being on the green side of the grass is something to be happy about.
Monday was a happy day; I had my endoscopy and colonoscopy Monday morning. Results: everything is fine; come back in five years. That was good news and I'll take it. Gad zooks, I'll be 83.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
Quote from: HappyMoni on June 04, 2018, 09:59:15 PM
My son gets married next year. My future daughter in law is making plans for us to go pick out her wedding dress. Then we go for formal dresses for my partner and I. A dream come true.
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!
What fun.
Picking out my wardrobe for Astoria Pride and the big Gayla! Wheeee!
Quote from: christinej78 on June 06, 2018, 02:46:42 AM
Hi Ellie, 06 June 2018
If that is you in your avatar I don't know how anyone, under any circumstances, could misgender you; you are absolutely beautiful and look in your early 20's and 100% female.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
<3 It is indeed me, but it is admittedly an extraordinarily good picture of me. ;D It sets ideas a bit higher than the reality for sure. :P But apparently even the reality is pretty solid, at least from a gendering perspective, I am starting to accept. (The young thing is weird, I have always looked really young since I have never smoked, drunk, used drugs, been outside in the sun, etc., though it was hidden behind other stuff in the past. IE: balding was sort of a deciding factor in people judging my age. But with the wig on (or hat on not dressed female), and having a bit of a baby face now I have beard removal 80% done, everyone keeps thinking I'm in my early 20s and it's weirding me out. :P
Quote from: Roll on June 06, 2018, 05:09:54 PM
<3 It is indeed me, but it is admittedly an extraordinarily good picture of me. ;D It sets ideas a bit higher than the reality for sure. :P But apparently even the reality is pretty solid, at least from a gendering perspective, I am starting to accept. (The young thing is weird, I have always looked really young since I have never smoked, drunk, used drugs, been outside in the sun, etc., though it was hidden behind other stuff in the past. IE: balding was sort of a deciding factor in people judging my age. But with the wig on (or hat on not dressed female), and having a bit of a baby face now I have beard removal 80% done, everyone keeps thinking I'm in my early 20s and it's weirding me out. :P
Hi Ellie, 06 Jun 2018
I have a friend that moved away from Ohio not long after I did in 1979. I came to Southlake, Texas and he and his wife moved to Detroit and then a few years later to Atlanta. Eventually we were able to get together again when I was working in Atlanta. I hadn't seen them both in 20 years though I did see him while he was in the Dallas area on business. It was around 1995 when I saw them both. His wife looked exactly the same as she did when I last saw her in Ohio. The only thing different was that she had a little gray streaking in her hair. I asked her how she managed to stay so young looking. Her answer was quite simple: "Stay out of the sun" and eat healthy, no smoking, no drugs, no alcohol and get a good nights sleep. Be proud that you have never succumbed to those destructive behaviors; you are reaping the rewards of living right.
I would hazard a guess the baby face caused you some anxiety due to taunts by your peers during your high school days. Don't be
"weirded"out because of looking younger, revel in it. You now have the last laugh.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
Today, I wore my wig the entire day. Not only that, but I went to three--you heard right, three--drive thrus today without makeup or shaving and my hair pulled back. It felt good to get out, even though I didn't get out of the car. One step at a time. Yesterday, I got to help some trans sisters with wig resources. Apparently, mine looks like my own hair. I felt so, so happy about that.
We have some really cute tiny girls working in construction. So while I'm installing I'm getting dysphoric just being around them. I'm also noticing how much smaller their work boots are than mine. I'm going to solve this, I say in my mind. I immediately go to red wing shoes and boot barn after work. There I learned I'm a 7.5-8 -8 men or 9.5-10 women's. Also, the stores don't stock below size 8 in men's work boots. That was a weirdly affirming moment for me.
BTW, I started at 9-10 mens before hrt and losing weight.thats my happy for the day.
Bari Jo
I looked at myself in the mirror this morning--no makeup, no wig, no shaving--and I swear I'm becoming more feminine in the face. I'm loving the changes. :)
It sneaks up on you , looking good girl
The electrologist cut my session short today because she ran out of hairs to treat in the prepared area. :D
Quote from: davina61 on June 08, 2018, 02:42:05 PM
It sneaks up on you , looking good girl
Yes, it does! Thanks love! <3
Quote from: KathyLauren on June 08, 2018, 03:16:19 PM
The electrologist cut my session short today because she ran out of hairs to treat in the prepared area. :D
That's wonderful. I can't wait until I don't need to have anything removed. Congrats! :)
Spent a few hours at Out At The Fair in Del Mar with some family from San Diego. We are headed back in a few hours to see a kewl Drag Kings show!
Quote from: KathyLauren on June 08, 2018, 03:16:19 PM
The electrologist cut my session short today because she ran out of hairs to treat in the prepared area. :D
@KathyLauren Well, that is certainly very good news.
How many more sessions are you likely to have??
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: SiobhánF on June 08, 2018, 02:34:38 PM
I looked at myself in the mirror this morning--no makeup, no wig, no shaving--and I swear I'm becoming more feminine in the face. I'm loving the changes. :)
@SiobhánF I remember my happiness as that happened to me ....
...certainly a wonderful feeling, and something to make note of in your transition journal.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Bari Jo on June 07, 2018, 07:57:05 PM
We have some really cute tiny girls working in construction. So while I'm installing I'm getting dysphoric just being around them. I'm also noticing how much smaller their work boots are than mine. I'm going to solve this, I say in my mind. I immediately go to red wing shoes and boot barn after work. There I learned I'm a 7.5-8 -8 men or 9.5-10 women's. Also, the stores don't stock below size 8 in men's work boots. That was a weirdly affirming moment for me.
BTW, I started at 9-10 mens before hrt and losing weight.thats my happy for the day.
Bari Jo
@Bari Jo I can completely understand why you were happy about not finding men's work boots in you new smaller size.... for sure it is a wonderful affirming moment of your transition progress. I am certain that you are also noticing and experiencing other very affirming body changes as well.
Thanks for posting and please continue with your updates.
Hugs,
Danielle
gz to everyone having a great day/afternun/night
today, i had a meet up with my hormone supplier and she said i look so different now than when we first met. i look like girly now per her which made me cover myself with my loose long sleeve in giggles :D
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on June 09, 2018, 04:27:39 PM
@KathyLauren Well, that is certainly very good news.
How many more sessions are you likely to have??
Hugs,
Danielle
Oh, I don't think I am in countdown mode yet. It is hard to tell how many hairs are still lying dormant. But I think we're gaining ground on them. Perhaps in a month or two, I'll be able to switch from weekly to monthly appointments.
Well, after a far harsher than expected day following my hair transplants on Friday (either the after effects are undersold or Valium doesn't like me), then a not horrible but still way worse than I was expecting day yesterday (Saturday), I'm now feeling rested and recovered. Still limits on what I can and cannot do just to not mess up the grafts, but I am no longer feeling messed up and weak. Itching is getting really annoying, but no pain or anything.
Attended a meeting with the Tacoma Rainbow Club where there was lively conversation and a group of people that declared the meeting as a meeting with family. We then went to the Harmon Brewery and were accepted with open arms by the staff there. I'm not too sure about some of the customers but that's their problem not ours.
Booked hotel room for UK Meetup in Sept
Hi, everybidy!
This will be really old hat for almost everyone, but everyone also had a ton of firsts themselves.
Today I spent all afternoon ( indoors, I don't get present out as myself) in my house dressed properly! Except for the gaff/ underwear, over which I wore boyshorts, women's pants and a sports bra for a top.
Feels so right, and drives away the grey dysphoria!
Seven weeks to hormones!
Hope everyone s having a great day. My world is opening up so much, it is incredible.
Cheers!
Bibi
Quote from: Bibi on June 10, 2018, 07:33:58 PM
Hi, everybidy!
This will be really old hat for almost everyone, but everyone also had a ton of firsts themselves.
Today I spent all afternoon ( indoors, I don't get present out as myself) in my house dressed properly! Except for the gaff/ underwear, over which I wore boyshorts, women's pants and a sports bra for a top.
Feels so right, and drives away the grey dysphoria!
Seven weeks to hormones!
Hope everyone s having a great day. My world is opening up so much, it is incredible.
Cheers!
Bibi
Wonderful!
Don't feel guilty about staying inside. Go at your own pace.
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
I bought a sports bra last night. I hope it fits because I'm tired of my boobie buds hurting everytime they bounce when I run. :P
After an awesome day at Out at the Fair yesterday, Heather and I were up early to throw ourselves together and out the door. We headed to Idlewyld for services at the Mountain Zen Center. It was a really nice drive. I am exhausted...2 days of busy has me looking forward to relaxing with my love and taking it easy this evening. Hope everyone is having a most excellent Sunday!
I finally opened up to two of my cousins, I've always been close to them so it felt good to finally let them know. They both said more or less the same thing, just be you and everything else can (not is such nice words but lol) just buzz off lol
I wore a bikini to the beach! :)
Quote from: Lynn42 on June 11, 2018, 12:57:42 AM
I wore a bikini to the beach! :)
Congratulations! Feels nice, doesn't it?
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
hello hello lovelies and gz on having a happy day :D
today i found myself attracted to a picture i've taken of myself at work and a fellow forum user told me it's a positive thing and assured me it's me accepting the new me. this cleared things up for me coz i did kind of sort of freaked out wanting to do myself hard (insert buffalo bill quote) >_<
edit: and i can finally post pics, yay!!!
@DawnOday wrote:
QuoteWe then went to the Harmon Brewery and were accepted with open arms by the staff there. I'm not too sure about some of the customers but that's their problem not ours.
The craft brew scene can be...ummm...odd at times. While it appeals to all age groups that love good beer, in my opinion it tends to have a "geeky nerdy" crowd that's on the conservative side of things. But I'm glad you had fun. Next time we're up that way we're going to have to check them out.
Getting asked by the proprietor of a clothing store if my wife and I were sisters! :D
Kathy , waving flags and cheering.
Vehicle registration now says Donna as well as my holiday trailer and work trailer. Health care card is sent to be changed to Donna and female.
Drivers licence now says Donna and due to a policy change on Friday it also has an F on it. Now all you have to do here is ask for it to be changed. No more paperwork.
Got called Lady, ma'am and miss all in one shopping trip and got accused of lying about being trans gender. I was actually accused of being a ciswoman based on my pictures. I really loved that part. Lol
Quote from: Dee Marshall on June 05, 2018, 10:18:59 AM
Three things for me yesterday.
...
I changed the spelling of my first name on Facebook from "Dion" to "Dione" as an early birthday present.
D
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
A follow up on this. My Facebook friends just picked up on it seemlessly, even my nieces and sister! No muss, no fuss! Without being pre-warned or even having me post anything about it. One old friend (I mean really old, I've known him 40 years or so) sent me a private message about it, but he was completely supportive.
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
greetings and good vibes to everyone here
today, even during a gloomy, cold stormy weather i feel pretty in my getup and have this crazy high confidence that strutting in the mall felt so great. a comfy bra helped a mile too :D
Yesterday I went to my very first peer support get together. It was a very different experience. There where three trans men and 15 trans women there and the most notable part for me is the couple beside me and a couple across from me are both transmen that have a trans woman SO. It was very nice to be with others at different level and points in transitioning. It was also refreshing to hear how open everyone was about talking. Nothing but politics and religion are off limits and the moderator lady curtailed any talk like that right away.
Doc bumped my estra and spiro dosages
Well, my dad used my name today...a bit stunned!
That is fantastic, kaitylynn!
Quote from: kaitylynn on June 17, 2018, 09:29:01 PM
Well, my dad used my name today...a bit stunned!
@kaitylynn : That is wonderful news. I would be more than stunned... my dad has said very few words to me since I announced my transtion over 4 years ago... he has only said my name a few times since then and it is my old dead name. My mom, on the phone, just recently said
"goodby Danielle I love you" as we finished our conversation... that was a first from her... and i was stunned.
Thanks for posting your good report.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on June 18, 2018, 04:24:30 PM
@kaitylynn : That is wonderful news. I would be more than stunned... my dad has said very few words to me since I announced my transtion over 4 years ago... he has only said my name a few times since then and it is my old dead name. My mom, on the phone, just recently said "goodby Danielle I love you" as we finished our conversation... that was a first from her... and i was stunned.
Thanks for posting your good report.
Hugs,
Danielle
A truly wonderful feeling! My dad had been consistently dead-naming me for the past 3 years, even when everyone else has figured it out and gets it right. This is a first and even if it is a small victory...it carries a lot of import. I lost my mom a few years ago. She was the first person I ever told my feelings to when I was about 10. There was no such words to describe what I had said, but it had an effect that I feel is just as good...
She began allowing me to participate in the lessons she was teaching my sister. This allowed me to learn about womanhood under her guidance and WOW, what a difference I feel it made!!!
It warms my heart Danielle, to hear that your mom acknowledged you in that way! Validating beyond anything our therapists can bestow, at least in my hierarchy of transitional happenings :)
Quote from: islandgirl on June 17, 2018, 10:20:40 PM
That is fantastic, kaitylynn!
Thanx IslandGirl! Most certainly a big smile moment! :D
Went to my regular Dr office for a routine appointment told her how I just started hormones but had to go with the patch cuz the shots are on backorder since Sept 2017 but she told me when the shot is available her office would gladly give it to me so I don't have to stick myself she also wants to be in more contact with my endo so she can keep checking for anything that might go wrong with the estrogen
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That is awesome Arianna! My GP was the first to know and set up my appts with my Endo. It is good to have them both on the same page :)
I have had great results using only patches, so I would think you will have no issues until the injectibles are available again.
Quote from: kaitylynn on June 18, 2018, 08:13:07 PM
That is awesome Arianna! My GP was the first to know and set up my appts with my Endo. It is good to have them both on the same page :)
I have had great results using only patches, so I would think you will have no issues until the injectibles are available again.
Mine was the exact same way my therapist couldn't do it so my GP referred me
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the one thing that made me happy today was that while I was on the phone I kept getting called ma'am
Quote from: Southergirlsam on June 18, 2018, 08:51:34 PM
the one thing that made me happy today was that while I was on the phone I kept getting called ma'am
Congrats that always feels great
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I just got my latest lab results. T is still too low to measure (< 0.087 nmol/l); E is in the target range (558 pmol/l) and slightly up from last time. So I'm good hormonally for 12 months now.
Quote from: KathyLauren on June 19, 2018, 07:10:07 AM
I just got my latest lab results. T is still too low to measure (< 0.087 nmol/l); E is in the target range (558 pmol/l) and slightly up from last time. So I'm good hormonally for 12 months now.
That is awesome news congratulations [emoji16]
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What made me happy certainly wasn't the $500 to replace my a.c. compressor on my truck but the fact that I go to the place I always go he knows my name calls me she and her or by my name no matter who he's talking to about my car [emoji2]
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Going for a routine CT scan, and being asked if I was pregnant or lactating.
Quote from: Susan H on June 19, 2018, 02:05:23 PM
Going for a routine CT scan, and being asked if I was pregnant or lactating.
@Susan H Hello Susan Anne, I see that you had just become a member of Susan's Place last weekend on June 16... and somehow I missed your very first posting on the Forums as a new member here, now you have since then posted and shared 17 times... so First things First, please allow me to give you my Official Welcome.
I am glad that you have taken the step to become a member of Susan's Place and that you have shared your thoughts with other members here on your first posting and thread.
I am thinking that you may lots of questions and concerns, this is the right place for you to be to find out what others have done that may have been in your circumstances.
Be aware that there are lots of members here that can identify with what you may be going through.
Please allow me me now to WELCOME you to Susan's Place. You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.
It is nice that you had signed up so you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other members.
When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new friends here.
Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.
Below, I posted Important LINKS that will tell you about Susan's Place. Included there is information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.
Again, Welcome.
Danielle
Here are some links to the site rules and stuff that all new members should be familiar with:
Things that you should read
Site Terms of Service & Rules to Live By (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html) | Standard Terms & Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html) | Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.) | Cautionary Note (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,82221.0.html) |
Reputation rules (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,18960.0.html) | News posting & quoting guidelines (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,174951.0.html) | Photo, avatars, & signature images policy (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,59974.msg383866.html#msg383866) | Membership Agreement (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,216851.0.html) |
Quote from: Susan H on June 19, 2018, 02:05:23 PM
Going for a routine CT scan, and being asked if I was pregnant or lactating.
@Susan H Oh, and another thing Susan Anne ... to let more members here know of your arrival and therefore you will receive more involvement in sharing information of interest to you with others.
If you would, please go to the Introductions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,8.0.html) Forum to tell the members about yourself!
Again, Welcome to Susan's Place,
Danielle
https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/world/who-removes-trandergenderism-from-mental-illness-list/ar-AAyTFEx?ocid=spartandhp
This made me happy today.
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on June 19, 2018, 01:58:07 PM
What made me happy certainly wasn't the $500 to replace my a.c. compressor on my truck but the fact that I go to the place I always go he knows my name calls me she and her or by my name no matter who he's talking to about my car [emoji2]
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@Arianna Valentine .... YES, I agree with you and am happy that you get gendered correctly... very affirming and confidence building....
...and of course the $500 A.C. Compressor this time of year is a
must do repair and any repair shop knows that and some may take advantage of that, particuarly with a woman customer or a clueless male customer.....
The business man at the shop is a smart cookie... treats his customers with respect and courtesy...
Even if his shop charged a little more than somewhere else, it is the personal customer service that is most appreciated and keeps his customers making a decision to return.
Thanks for posting... and stay cool, we have a hot summer on the way... I can't handle the high heat and high humidity... than is why I like where I am living.
Hugs and well wishes...
Danielle
Came home from work and my partner gave me a dress and swimsuit she found while thrifting! Totally my styles and colors :)
I just realized that I have forgotten how to post pictures...blonde moments abound!
Quote from: kaitylynn on June 20, 2018, 06:24:02 PM
Came home from work and my partner gave me a dress and swimsuit she found while thrifting! Totally my styles and colors :)
I just realized that I have forgotten how to post pictures...blonde moments abound!
@kaitylynn .... What a very nice surprise for you... new clothes you can wear and show off.
You will very soon have NO excuse about how to post pictures.
You know the rule here, "pictures or it didn't happen!"
***I am in the process of sending you a PM with simple instructions right now.
But post pictures ONLY if you feel comfortable doing it.Hugs,
Danielle
Weirdly nothing, but I feel great lol. Hope I can keep this going lol. I do have a group therapy session this Friday and I'm excited and scared lol
Got me a better-fitting sports bra with no wiring. Girrrl, it's like a snug hug for my chest. I was so happy running today. Usually it's, "bounce, ow, bounce, ouch." But, this time, I was like, "this is really nice and secure." ^_^
I was eating breakfast this morning and got some hair in my mouth, yuck! Then I realized it was mine, and the other end was still attached! Until I started this journey my hair was never more than an inch long, every day sets a new length record!
After MUCH ADO, and being denied, having my claim mishandled, faxing documents repeatedly, etc., I just got a call from my nurse case manager at my insurance company and she said that she had just gotten notification that they are paying my facial electrolysis bills. And, since I have already met my max-out-of-pocket for the year (yes, I am high maintenance) I will be getting the rest of my electro this year at no cost from me. Looks like I will be spending as much time in the chair as possible until Dec 31st!! w00t!
I feel great today because I woke up from my GRS surgery. I had both Grs and breast implants. The happy pills work great and I have re-awokened everyday since Tuesday. Yay me!
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Had an email from DVSA ( for the ones not in UK Driver and vehicle standards agency) to say they were looking at changing my name on system (for vehicle inspections, MOT) and when I logged on the system this morning it said Davina Martina , that's another dead name down and I get to see it(new name) every time I do a test!!!!!!
Quote from: cdhd2001 on June 22, 2018, 02:28:57 PM
I feel great today because I woke up from my GRS surgery. I had both Grs and breast implants. The happy pills work great and I have re-awokened everyday since Tuesday. Yay me!
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Congrats on your surgeries! Having both done at once is quite the undertaking! The pills help but just knowing that you have reached that very important place on your journey will also get you through the pain! All the best with your recovery!
Hugs,
Kelly
Quote from: davina61 on June 22, 2018, 02:34:09 PM
Had an email from DVSA ( for the ones not in UK Driver and vehicle standards agency) to say they were looking at changing my name on system (for vehicle inspections, MOT) and when I logged on the system this morning it said Davina Martina , that's another dead name down and I get to see it(new name) every time I do a test!!!!!!
That's really great. I forgot about that as one of the things I will have to do for my licence. As you do MOTs do we get a discount? Would be good to see your name as the tester..
Katie
;D ;D ;D ;D :angel: ;D ;D ;D
Only shows initials on certificate , if you can make it to Worcester can do Family and friend discount!!!!!!
Not sure if this counts, but apparently I'm lactating. lol
Wow so much I just needed to do it all at once.
It's an 18 to 30 month wait for a transition doc here in Calgary and it's a bummer. Well a new doctor has opened shop and I got in the day after I phoned for an appointment. I now have a full blown wonderfully cheery doctor that is already getting it set up for my two opinions to get on the health care wait list( 4 yrs wait currently).
She is redoing my E and has already gotten in contact with my therapist
Started laser this week and love it. Got four life long moles removed from my face.
Went and had a new bra fitting and I'm down a band size to 38 and DDD cup. I just love it 😍
Bought a LBD and new skorts.
What a wonderful week
Quote from: SiobhánF on June 23, 2018, 08:57:19 AM
Not sure if this counts, but apparently I'm lactating. lol
Lol. Went thru that at the first of the year, leaking clear fluid but it has stopped now.
Quote from: Donna on June 23, 2018, 10:42:40 AM
Lol. Went thru that at the first of the year, leaking clear fluid but it has stopped now.
My doctor warned me of that possibility if my prolactin got too high. She's been monitoring it, and it was back down to a good level on my last checkup.
I was able to convince a friend to overcome his self image issues and go swim with me and have fun. Says he wants to do it again. :)
Trans wise, im glad that I pass 100% at the pool and that my tape job held. oh and that duct tape comes in clear now at walmart. :)
This is the outfit I put together for my neice's wedding with a close-up of the shoes. I still need to accessorise. Please ignore my clumsy pose and lack of smile. My lack of makeup, too. I just got out of the shower. I'm really looking forward to this. I love the outfit but I still wish I could have found a dress.(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180624/7d121432d6a5f3e46724bc88dc1e645f.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180624/aced2b35b693716f9281081b24fc5483.gif)
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Today was my first pride parade! Went to concert last night, went to parade and festival today, and was dancing and waving flags with the best of them! Trans & Pan flag capes on and blowing in the wind too. ;D I feel like an entirely different person.
Quote from: Donna on June 23, 2018, 10:42:40 AM
Lol. Went thru that at the first of the year, leaking clear fluid but it has stopped now.
I thought so. Not everybody has it, but I blame that for my nipples being so tender. My wife went through the same thing when she was pregnant, so I just figured that I was lactating. lol. I don't see it as a bad thing unless it starts to come out brown or red.
An evening at the beach with some of my trans sisters.
Quote from: KathyLauren on June 24, 2018, 06:59:50 AM
An evening at the beach with some of my trans sisters.
Honestly wish I had real life trans friends to hang out with and gossip and such but can't seem to find any don't know where to really start looking around me either
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on June 24, 2018, 09:55:00 AM
Honestly wish I had real life trans friends to hang out with and gossip and such but can't seem to find any don't know where to really start looking around me either
Depending on region, the local LGBT center is a good place to start. I am in Southern Cali, so we are more in the open in this area so a little easier to find. Any largish city should have a center and often they post their group schedules in their web sites.
Quote from: kaitylynn on June 24, 2018, 10:03:41 AM
Depending on region, the local LGBT center is a good place to start. I am in Southern Cali, so we are more in the open in this area so a little easier to find. Any largish city should have a center and often they post their group schedules in their web sites.
Yeah I'm in the country so it's tougher I did find one for transgender but it's for FtM not MtF
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on June 24, 2018, 10:30:49 AM
Yeah I'm in the country so it's tougher I did find one for transgender but it's for FtM not MtF
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I have never created a meetup or anything, but I would think if there is a group for FTM there would almost have to me one for MTF! A lot of times also, FTM's may share a different side of our world...but they still share it and would likely know of support structures for MTF as well.
I meet three FtM a week ago and two of them have a SO that is MtF. They were just no different than any other of us at the meeting other than numbers. They have the same concerns and issue and where there for the same reason the rest of us where.
I've meet one MtF for coffee and been stood up by two others but hey. It happens and I'm not going to hold it against them. Eventually we all will meet others in due time
Today is my 2 year hrt anniversary! Awesome and neat.
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on June 24, 2018, 10:05:16 PM
Today is my 2 year hrt anniversary! Awesome and neat.
Tia Anne
Congrats that is awesome
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on June 24, 2018, 09:55:00 AM
Honestly wish I had real life trans friends to hang out with and gossip and such but can't seem to find any don't know where to really start looking around me either
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@Arianna Valentine Regarding hanging out with trans-friends.... I understand about feeling isolated and not being able to find any anywhere nearby. I live in such a small and conservative town that when I came out to the townspeople they told me that I was the very first transwoman that they had even seen or know about in our town. There are none others around here so that is why I like the Susan's Forums so much.... you all are my trans friends... and we are like-minded in our experiences and goals and can communicate freely with each other and we can support each other..... we can thank
@Susan for the successful gathering place here that we all need and enjoy.
Again, congratulations on your 2 years !!! I always enjoy following your posts around the forums.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Anne Blake on June 24, 2018, 10:05:16 PM
Today is my 2 year hrt anniversary! Awesome and neat.
Tia Anne
@Anne BlakeDear Tia Anne: .... Wishing you a heartfelt congratulations on your 2 year anniversary, this a memorable and important event in your transition for sure.
Wishing you well....
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on June 24, 2018, 11:20:33 PM
@Arianna Valentine
Regarding hanging out with trans-friends.... I understand about feeling isolated and not being able to find any anywhere nearby. I live in such a small and conservative town that when I came out to the townspeople they told me that I was the very first transwoman that they had even seen or know about in our town. There are none others around here so that is why I like the Susan's Forums so much.... you all are my trans friends... and we are like-minded in our experiences and goals and can communicate freely with each other and we can support each other..... we can thank @Susan for the successful gathering place here that we all need and enjoy.
Again, congratulations on your 2 years !!! I always enjoy following your posts around the forums.
Hugs,
Danielle
That sounds somewhat like my town but it's a lil bigger I imagine and there are some trans ppl I just don't know them or how to get in contact with them and yes everyone here is my friend as well but personal contact voices facial expressions would be so much better
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I shaved my legs and don't know if it's the short time I've been on hormones or not but no razor bumps for the first time ever feels great even if I did cut my ankle a tiny bit
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got Ma'am 'ed today and Im still no where near where I want to be. I am wearing bright salmon pink nail polish so it does stick out, its nice. Not sure what color is next but I have a open job interview tomorrow so I have to present professional lol. might just remove it and put something else on after I get home. Veterans are (well for the most part) nice people and caring.
I am starting to pass consistently and that has me super excited! Today I got ma'am all day, was out with my mom and it was "can I help you ladies" from the server, my dad was in the hospital and they asked if he recognized his daughter (me) and I got hit on at kohls. Ok I could live without the last one but not one sir or sideways look, my mom even comment on how things are "coming together"
Possibly one of the best days recently for validation, which is really wonderful for self esteem.
Quote from: jill610 on June 26, 2018, 08:14:42 PM
I am starting to pass consistently and that has me super excited! Today I got ma'am all day, was out with my mom and it was "can I help you ladies" from the server, my dad was in the hospital and they asked if he recognized his daughter (me) and I got hit on at kohls. Ok I could live without the last one but not one sir or sideways look, my mom even comment on how things are "coming together"
Possibly one of the best days recently for validation, which is really wonderful for self esteem.
That's really wonderful! :)
Quote from: Amaki on June 26, 2018, 06:34:12 PM
got Ma'am 'ed today and Im still no where near where I want to be. I am wearing bright salmon pink nail polish so it does stick out, its nice. Not sure what color is next but I have a open job interview tomorrow so I have to present professional lol. might just remove it and put something else on after I get home. Veterans are (well for the most part) nice people and caring.
That's quite awesome, either way. I can't wait to get ma'am'd without them thinking about it.
Catching up on Susans posts after about two months of neglect. Checking in with everyone's progress, seeing the beautiful pictures in the fabulous and before and after threads, and just generally reorienting myself to the wonderful community here.
My current schedule still eats so much of my time it will be another few weeks before I can even begin to return to mass posting like I was, so don't worry, you are all still safe from my random spamming of dumb comments until the second week of July or so.
Cant wait as random spamming of dumb comments is far better than the TV though very similar !!!!!!!!
Quote from: Roll on June 27, 2018, 09:42:17 AM
Catching up on Susans posts after about two months of neglect. Checking in with everyone's progress, seeing the beautiful pictures in the fabulous and before and after threads, and just generally reorienting myself to the wonderful community here.
My current schedule still eats so much of my time it will be another few weeks before I can even begin to return to mass posting like I was, so don't worry, you are all still safe from my random spamming of dumb comments until the second week of July or so.
So need an update from you hun.
Hows the 'head work' (bad phrase I know) coming along?
Also Davina 'queen of the random posts' what are you on about, her posts are well focussed relevant and accurate, well compared to many of mine that is...
Lov n Hugz
Katie
:angel: :angel: :angel: :angel: :angel: :angel: :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*
I break into the 'Roll' posting for a bit of self-interest happy news.
I finally got my Spiro prescription :icon_joy:
Faith WHAAAAAYYYYY.
Quote from: Katie Again on June 27, 2018, 04:07:51 PM
So need an update from you hun.
Hows the 'head work' (bad phrase I know) coming along?
If you mean the transplants and not the horn I had installed, so far so good. I actually haven't shed a good bit of the hairs, they are just sorta growing like normal hair already. Not sure what portion of it is, doctor said it wasn't all of them by any means, but still a nice headstart (pun intended) on growth. Crown still worries me, but ... I'm getting used to that. Worst case scenario I get more done in 2 years and just have to wear wig longer than I'd hoped.
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I break into the 'Roll' posting for a bit of self-interest happy news.
I finally got my Spiro prescription :icon_joy:
CONGRATS!!
Quote from: Faith on June 27, 2018, 04:13:55 PM
I break into the 'Roll' posting for a bit of self-interest happy news.
I finally got my Spiro prescription :icon_joy:
Woooo!! Hooray!!
I have my first appointment for laser hair removal this morning! Yahoo! I've been reluctant to take this step for far too long, worrying that this is me finally crossing over and letting go of my "male/me." But I'm ready. I've got 3 months of HRT behind me, tiny boobs under my blouse and a big smile :) :) :)
Lindy
Quote from: Lindy on June 28, 2018, 08:35:45 AM
I have my first appointment for laser hair removal this morning! Yahoo! I've been reluctant to take this step for far too long, worrying that this is me finally crossing over and letting go of my "male/me." But I'm ready. I've got 3 months of HRT behind me, tiny boobs under my blouse and a big smile :) :) :)
Lindy
Good luck Lindy. I found it hurt a lot but not for too long as it's nice and quick. In the couple weeks after my first session my face hasn't been so smooth and clear. The results will be worth it :)
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Had my second laser session Wednesday and loving it. Going for electrolysis assessment today. May have a new laser source coming up. A friend of mine is buying a brand new machine. They have offered me microblading for the brows for free if I agree to photos for their shop Facebook page. Yes of course.
It is so nice finally to start caring for and about my body and appearance as he never took care of it
Quote from: MollyPants on June 28, 2018, 08:39:37 AM
Good luck Lindy. I found it hurt a lot but not for too long as it's nice and quick. In the couple weeks after my first session my face hasn't been so smooth and clear. The results will be worth it :)
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Thanks MollyPants. It felt like 30 tiny bee stings. I was so pleased with myself for following through and can't wait to go back. I wish I didn't have to wait 4 weeks!
Hope you have a wonderful weekend.
Lindy
Quote from: Donna on June 29, 2018, 07:08:39 AM
Had my second laser session Wednesday and loving it. Going for electrolysis assessment today. May have a new laser source coming up. A friend of mine is buying a brand new machine. They have offered me microblading for the brows for free if I agree to photos for their shop Facebook page. Yes of course.
It is so nice finally to start caring for and about my body and appearance as he never took care of it
Good luck with your electrolysis assessment, Donna. I had mine 6 weeks ago and decided to switch to laser, though I may have to face the scary machine in the future - yikes! I can truly understand your comment about caring for yourself. My old male/me did so little. All that's changed and now EVERYTHING is important.
Big hugs,
Lindy
Well this is a big one for me and us.
I have not been spoken too by either of my wife's boys since December. Neither of us have seen the 6 grandkids in the time either. We have talked to some of them and one granddaughter ask to see me on face time. Didn't know who she was asking for and it was early days so he popped on to say hi. I wonder why she would ask as it's not the usual routine.
Anyways my wife got a call that both boys and all 6 grandkids are coming to the house on Tuesday we don't know what time and the question of whether or not I would be there never came up. I'm hoping this is a step to them believing I still have the same spirit inside and still love them all regardless.
I actually have a light work day that day and will be done at noon so here is hoping beyond hope it goes as I can only hope it does and we become one big family again.
Quote from: Lindy on June 29, 2018, 08:17:47 AM
Good luck with your electrolysis assessment, Donna. I had mine 6 weeks ago and decided to switch to laser, though I may have to face the scary machine in the future - yikes! I can truly understand your comment about caring for yourself. My old male/me did so little. All that's changed and now EVERYTHING is important.
Big hugs,
Lindy
Thanks Lindy.
Even my wife has noticed so much primping and preening. He was never like that. She says I remind her of her kids in puberty where every hair and piece of clothing had to be perfect and body fragrances flowed freely. I have never in my life so enjoyed a
Long hot shower and caring for all of me, body and health.
A mixed morning, but a good morning! Received an email from someone I dated briefly in 1999...yep, almost 20 years ago. She apparently never moved on and harbors a lot of resentment...this after dating for about 2 months. I was able to answer it and move on. This is a good thing.
Went for a walk with Heather at the mall to get a latte and stroll around. We took our pupalita with us and we all enjoyed being social butterflies :) What a wonderful way to start a day!
Heather's long time friend, Denise, is having a house warming party with a 100 person confirmed guest list. I am invited, but really not sure that large a gathering is anything I would be comfortable in. I can happily relax at home and get a few things picked up around here and Heather can go and rep our fam :)
What made me happy today I went to a fast food restaurant Dairy Queen to get my dad a milkshake got out of my car walking into Dairy Queen I had some guy who'd holler and whistle at me walking out of Dairy Queen the same guy who'd hollering and whistling at me and even though I'm not into guys that made me feel real good
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Love compliments, they make me so happy. I got a great one while doing electrolysis. The tech asked for the name of the surgeon that did my augmentation. She couldn't see the scars and said the girls looked perfect and want the same. The look on her face was priceless when she heard they are real.
So I went to the water park and I got asked out on a date I was wearing a two piece bikini so he knows all about my transitioning and everything and he still asked me out made me I don't even know how happy excited just everything I got asked out on a date and I'm so excited
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Got complemented on my nail colour by a female customer, metallic plumb Boots no7
Yesterday, actually: I got complimented on my bracelet and my skirt by my pharmacist. Long story detailed in my personal thread, but we ended up on a first name basis.
Stephanie
My upper lip is officially hair-free! Whoopee! (Well, unless some new rogue hairs start growing there.)
Got told by my therapist that she enjoys talking to me. That certainly made my day today. :)
Quote from: SiobhánF on July 13, 2018, 10:05:18 PM
Got told by my therapist that she enjoys talking to me. That certainly made my day today. :)
That's awesome it's always great when your therapist enjoys your sessions as much as you do lol mine is the same we have so much fun during our sessions
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Quote from: KathyLauren on July 10, 2018, 11:35:28 AM
My upper lip is officially hair-free! Whoopee! (Well, unless some new rogue hairs start growing there.)
Congrats I'm still doing laser hair removal but am really starting to question rather or not the place I go to is just ripping me off or not
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My wife made me happy today, we went shopping for makeup and she picked out some essentials for me. I have a friend who's husband is a drag artist and he coming round to help with makeup, he's going to help me find a natural look that matches my skin tone. My initial attempts at nails today also made my wife happy. By happy I mean she laughed her ass off at me.
So the people round me and my wife who have been supportive and happy for me. Made me happy.
Quote from: NC_Rose on July 13, 2018, 11:14:37 PM
My wife made me happy today, we went shopping for makeup and she picked out some essentials for me. I have a friend who's husband is a drag artist and he coming round to help with makeup, he's going to help me find a natural look that matches my skin tone. My initial attempts at nails today also made my wife happy. By happy I mean she laughed her ass off at me.
So the people round me and my wife who have been supportive and happy for me. Made me happy.
@NC_Rose This is such a happy and good news report... wonderful for all of us to read.
...I am so very glad that your wife is positively supporting your transition efforts.... you are very fortunate indeed.
I will be on the lookout for your updates as you continue in your transition journey.
Thank you for posting your happy thoughts.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: Steph2.0 on July 07, 2018, 04:04:57 PM
Yesterday, actually: I got complimented on my bracelet and my skirt by my pharmacist. Long story detailed in my personal thread, but we ended up on a first name basis.
Stephanie
@Steph2.0Dear Stephanie: This is definitely a good report that is worth sharing.
Yes, I did indeed read your "long story" about your pharmacist adventure on your personal thread.
I hung on to every word... very encouraging for you and very encouraging for your readers too.
Thanks for your post.
Hugs,
Danielle
I ran down a flight of stairs this morning and felt my tiny, 4-month-old boobs bounce :) :)
Lindy
Quote from: Lindy on July 14, 2018, 08:22:58 AM
I ran down a flight of stairs this morning and felt my tiny, 4-month-old boobs bounce :) :)
Lindy
Hee-hee! That's a great sign! Pretty soon, the bouncing will get old and you'll either want a bra or you'll change the way you walk down stairs. :D
Quote from: Lindy on July 14, 2018, 08:22:58 AM
I ran down a flight of stairs this morning and felt my tiny, 4-month-old boobs bounce :) :)
Lindy
Great! Yeah, I remember when mine started doing that too, only mine kinda hurt when they bounce. Awesome stuff. Congrats! :)
This was not from today but yesterday, it still counts. Yesterday I attended a Pride fair in Northern Colorado and met a family of four; cis parents and brother (I believe) and a beautiful young daughter, probably upper teens. What stuck me was that this family was together laughing and enjoying time together and that this young woman was being raised, loved and nurtured by a fully committed family.......just the way every child should be. It was so awesomely proper and right that it brought tears to my eyes, literally crying for joy while watching what is best about this world we live in. It gave me more hope for our world than I have felt in a long time.
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on July 15, 2018, 09:41:06 PM
This was not from today but yesterday, it still counts. Yesterday I attended a Pride fair in Northern Colorado and met a family of four; cis parents and brother (I believe) and a beautiful young daughter, probably upper teens. What stuck me was that this family was together laughing and enjoying time together and that this young woman was being raised, loved and nurtured by a fully committed family.......just the way every child should be. It was so awesomely proper and right that it brought tears to my eyes, literally crying for joy while watching what is best about this world we live in. It gave me more hope for our world than I have felt in a long time.
Tia Anne
That sounds truly wonderful just reading it made me tear up it's great when you see a family that loves cares and supports one another no matter what
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Quote from: KathyLauren on July 14, 2018, 09:47:35 AM
Hee-hee! That's a great sign! Pretty soon, the bouncing will get old and you'll either want a bra or you'll change the way you walk down stairs. :D
I can't imagine needing bra one day! I'm very thin and anticipate always having tiny boobs. I'll love them nonetheless :)
Lindy
After just two sessions with a therapist I got my letter. I have my first appointment with an endocrinologist on the 1st of August. I'm so excited!
Congrats! A very big step along your path! Only two weeks to go!
Quote from: Thea on July 17, 2018, 10:14:44 AM
After just two sessions with a therapist I got my letter. I have my first appointment with an endocrinologist on the 1st of August. I'm so excited!
It is definitely always good to get that validation from somebody else in this case your therapist that you're making the right step in your life and it's it's definitely a big step and I promise you already going to enjoy every minute of it it is just wonderful
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Copied from my blog, but too happy not to share...
Today I learned the phrases. "Your shirt has darts and you have boobs. People will notice that.". Predictably, I then had the biggest smile on my face!
Bari Jo
Went to my therapist for the first time today WITHOUT my doctor's mask! And it was an unusual time for me, seemed like there were LOTS of people at the clinic!
My new full lace wig. I am so happy and when I look at me in the mirror I can now see a woman.(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180718/bee6c3be0f29c80b5eeb7ae3bd3c8b50.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180718/b11207ee7d35486ef73eb5de5ba3cb6f.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180718/8fc64cce903043eccc8af93619990627.jpg)
Your new wig looks great, dizz! I think that the colour and style really suits you!
Hugs,
Kelly
Quote from: islandgirl on July 18, 2018, 08:10:23 AM
Your new wig looks great, dizz! I think that the colour and style really suits you!
Hugs,
Kelly
Thank you so much. I am really happy with the style and color. It was a special order and very expensive but it worth it...
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As far as wigs go, you do get what you pay for! I started out with a less expensive model. I found that the better, more expensive ones, last longer, fibres hold their form and therefore look better. My latest one is a heat model and can handle being styled with a flat iron or heat rollers. That is as long as the temps can be controlled and be with in the expectable range.
All the best!
Hugs,
Kelly
I had my 3 month endo appointment today... AND I went as myself. When they took my blood pressure, it was elevated, I think because of how nervous I was. So, my bloodwork came back amazingly! My estrogen is at 71 pg/ml, up from 19.5, and my testosterone dropped from 474 to 56 ng/dl. Good news! Happiest I've been in a while.
Quote from: SiobhánF on July 18, 2018, 08:22:39 PM
I had my 3 month endo appointment today... AND I went as myself. When they took my blood pressure, it was elevated, I think because of how nervous I was. So, my bloodwork came back amazingly! My estrogen is at 71 pg/ml, up from 19.5, and my testosterone dropped from 474 to 56 ng/dl. Good news! Happiest I've been in a while.
That is awesome news and great change in levels I do hope mine has a dramatic change on my 3 month appointment as well
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on July 18, 2018, 08:25:37 PM
That is awesome news and great change in levels I do hope mine has a dramatic change on my 3 month appointment as well
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Thank you! If not so big of a change, just be patient. I was prepared to say, well, at least it went down some. lol
Quote from: SiobhánF on July 18, 2018, 09:58:13 PM
Thank you! If not so big of a change, just be patient. I was prepared to say, well, at least it went down some. lol
OMG I am exactly the same way but I was mentally preparing myself ahead of time so my doctor said my levels were a bit different you know estrogen was a little higher testosterone was a little lower than normal and she said it was probably from my mental preparation but she's not a hundred percent sure I never really tried self-medicating so I know what I ain't that but yes I agree and he is still change
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on July 18, 2018, 10:03:31 PM
OMG I am exactly the same way but I was mentally preparing myself ahead of time so my doctor said my levels were a bit different you know estrogen was a little higher testosterone was a little lower than normal and she said it was probably from my mental preparation but she's not a hundred percent sure I never really tried self-medicating so I know what I ain't that but yes I agree and he is still change
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Now, that's interesting. Maybe that's a baseline for you? Who knows. But, that's cool. I hope to hear about your progress soon. :)
Quote from: SiobhánF on July 19, 2018, 12:43:25 AM
Now, that's interesting. Maybe that's a baseline for you? Who knows. But, that's cool. I hope to hear about your progress soon. :)
Definitely I go for my 3 months and September or maybe it was October I probably better check that now but it is somewhere around September or October but I will definitely let you know how my levels are
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on July 19, 2018, 12:48:36 AM
Definitely I go for my 3 months and September or maybe it was October I probably better check that now but it is somewhere around September or October but I will definitely let you know how my levels are
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Can't wait. ^_^
During the past week I have found the courage to come out to my colleagues. They were wonderful. I was invited out with the girls for dinner and drinks - nothing was weird in the slightest. One of my bosses when I told them replied, "we couldn't care less if you're male or female, you're a wonderful human being". Very nearly cried there and then.
After nearly 50 years of self-loathing, feeling like a freak and living in fear... I thank all those who have gone before me. You made it possible. XX
Quote from: Sienna Grace on July 19, 2018, 08:43:00 AM
During the past week I have found the courage to come out to my colleagues. They were wonderful. I was invited out with the girls for dinner and drinks - nothing was weird in the slightest. One of my bosses when I told them replied, "we couldn't care less if you're male or female, you're a wonderful human being". Very nearly cried there and then.
After nearly 50 years of self-loathing, feeling like a freak and living in fear... I thank all those who have gone before me. You made it possible. XX
Wow, that's awesome! Who could ask for more acceptance than that? Warm congratulations!
Stephanie
Sienna this is awesome. You will forever remember this as a huge turning point - you did it!
What made me Happy Today? Waking up on the Green side of the lawn was awesome; makes me smile every time.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
Quote from: christinej78 on July 19, 2018, 11:54:02 AM
What made me Happy Today? Waking up on the Green side of the lawn was awesome; makes me smile every time.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
@christinej78 Dear Christine: Well, I have heard it said, it is a good day when you wake up and you can see yourself in the mirror.... and also when you read the obituary section of the newspaper you don't see your picture there.
Hugs and well wishes... you are only as old as you feel???? ????
Oh, and thank you for putting up your Avatar/Profile picture ... It is nice to see it again.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Sienna Grace on July 19, 2018, 08:43:00 AM
During the past week I have found the courage to come out to my colleagues. They were wonderful. I was invited out with the girls for dinner and drinks - nothing was weird in the slightest. One of my bosses when I told them replied, "we couldn't care less if you're male or female, you're a wonderful human being". Very nearly cried there and then.
After nearly 50 years of self-loathing, feeling like a freak and living in fear... I thank all those who have gone before me. You made it possible. XX
Hi Sienna Grace, 19 July 2018
Congratulations BIG Time; That was a wonderful gift from your co-workers and boss.
The world is changing, people are becoming less judgmental and more accepting, thank God. There will always be the idiots. They are stupid people and unfortunately, they are too stupid to realize they're stupid and stupid cannot be fixed.
Your last comment brought tears to my eyes. It's an absolutely beautiful statement straight from the heart; thank you so much for posting it:
"After nearly 50 years of self-loathing, feeling like a freak and living in fear... I thank all those who have gone before me. You made it possible. XX"Wishing you all the best that life has to offer. God Bless.
Best Always, All My Love,
Christine
I got my 5th laser treatment on my face and neck. I should be free and clear by the end of the year.
Quote from: gingerViktorKay on July 19, 2018, 10:41:21 PM
I got my 5th laser treatment on my face and neck. I should be free and clear by the end of the year.
Very nice congrats
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Quote from: Sienna Grace on July 19, 2018, 08:43:00 AM
During the past week I have found the courage to come out to my colleagues. They were wonderful. I was invited out with the girls for dinner and drinks - nothing was weird in the slightest. One of my bosses when I told them replied, "we couldn't care less if you're male or female, you're a wonderful human being". Very nearly cried there and then.
After nearly 50 years of self-loathing, feeling like a freak and living in fear... I thank all those who have gone before me. You made it possible. XX
I know that it could not have been easy for you to hide your true self for over 50 years even I had trouble hiding it for 38 years. I do know that even though it had to be horrible it also made you so much stronger than anyone could possibly realize and just by posting here you lend your strength to all of the lovely ladies here including myself and I thank you for that.
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Quote from: Sienna Grace on July 19, 2018, 08:43:00 AM
During the past week I have found the courage to come out to my colleagues. They were wonderful. I was invited out with the girls for dinner and drinks - nothing was weird in the slightest. One of my bosses when I told them replied, "we couldn't care less if you're male or female, you're a wonderful human being". Very nearly cried there and then.
After nearly 50 years of self-loathing, feeling like a freak and living in fear... I thank all those who have gone before me. You made it possible. XX
Hello Sienna Grace
I think we have corresponded before on the Transgender Talk Board.
Congratulations on coming out at work and for the wonderful reaction afterwards.
I must say I am most moved by your post above.
I know how difficult it is to hide for so long; I only took action at 62 when I could take the GD no longer.
I note from your other posts you have been on HRT 9 months.
You may wish to take a look at "MTF HRT for Older" Thread on HRT Board.
Wishing you further happiness and success.
Hugs
Pamela
Quote from: SiobhánF on July 18, 2018, 08:22:39 PM
I had my 3 month endo appointment today... AND I went as myself. When they took my blood pressure, it was elevated, I think because of how nervous I was. So, my bloodwork came back amazingly! My estrogen is at 71 pg/ml, up from 19.5, and my testosterone dropped from 474 to 56 ng/dl. Good news! Happiest I've been in a while.
I'm so happy for you!! You're clearly on your way. I can see why you're so pleased with your testosterone AND estrogen levels - estrogen at 71 is awesome. The woman inside is emerging :) :) :)
Hugs
Lindy
Seeing the scales 70lb or 5 stone lighter than last year
Quote from: Shambles on July 20, 2018, 08:17:56 AM
Seeing the scales 70lb or 5 stone lighter than last year
Wow that's incredible! Congratulations!
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Quote from: Shambles on July 20, 2018, 08:17:56 AM
Seeing the scales 70lb or 5 stone lighter than last year
That is amazing! That effort is something to be very proud of! All the Best!
Hugs,
Kelly
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Hi Dizz, 20 July 2018
Somehow I managed to miss this post on the 18th. Well, here I am and seeing your photos for the first time.
WOW, you are a very beautiful woman and can be very proud of yourself. Whatever you are doing, keep doing it; it is working fantastically.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
Apartment application approved! I am officially moving to Atlanta 9/21. More resources, huge trans pop, and one of the biggest prides in the country.
Congrats! Exciting to work toward a new experience!
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Hi Dizz, 20 July 2018
Your photos reminded me of an actress, whose name escaped me when I wrote my previous post. You look like Jamie Lee Curtis, except you are much prettier.
By the way, you made my day.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
Quote from: christinej78 on July 20, 2018, 02:46:39 PM
Hi Dizz, 20 July 2018
Your photos reminded me of an actress, whose name escaped me when I wrote my previous post. You look like Jamie Lee Curtis, except you are much prettier.
By the way, you made my day.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
I considered Jamie-Lee to be one of the most attractive women in Hollywood at the time. Take a look at A Fish Called Wanda with Jamie-Lee and John Cleese.
Dizz I agree with Christine, you remind me a lot of Jamie-Lee and every bit as beautiful.
You go girl xx
I'm happy today because I realized that I am out to everyone who matters to me. And because of this freedom I actually changed my avatar to a picture of me. No makeup or anything else. Just me as is.
Quote from: gingerViktorKay on July 20, 2018, 04:21:12 PM
I'm happy today because I realized that I am out to everyone who matters to me. And because of this freedom I actually changed my avatar to a picture of me. No makeup or anything else. Just me as is.
Awesome G :)
The freedom to be ourselves, that simple action that so many people take for granted and never consider, is so empowering.
You go girl.
Si
Xx
Quote from: gingerViktorKay on July 20, 2018, 04:21:12 PM
I'm happy today because I realized that I am out to everyone who matters to me. And because of this freedom I actually changed my avatar to a picture of me. No makeup or anything else. Just me as is.
Hi gingerViktorKay, 20 July 2018
Congratulations, being out sure removes a stress point. You look fantastic so keep doing whatever it is you're doing.
I'm not the Welcome Wagon Gal, she has probably already welcomed you. I'd just like to extend another Welcome.
From your signature I am thinking the next time you encounter the alien abductors, please send them my way; I could use a bit of probing.
Enjoy your new self; being happy is something everyone has a right to be.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
Quote from: christinej78 on July 20, 2018, 07:41:24 PM
Hi gingerViktorKay, 20 July 2018
Congratulations, being out sure removes a stress point. You look fantastic so keep doing whatever it is you're doing.
I'm not the Welcome Wagon Gal, she has probably already welcomed you. I'd just like to extend another Welcome.
From your signature I am thinking the next time you encounter the alien abductors, please send them my way; I could use a bit of probing.
Enjoy your new self; being happy is something everyone has a right to be.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
If they let me say anything I'll send them your way.
Quote from: Lindy on July 20, 2018, 07:54:53 AM
I'm so happy for you!! You're clearly on your way. I can see why you're so pleased with your testosterone AND estrogen levels - estrogen at 71 is awesome. The woman inside is emerging :) :) :)
Hugs
Lindy
*Hugs* Yes, and she's becoming more public with her apperances too. ;) Thank you!
So, today, I went to the pharmacy with my kids to get my non-covered prescription that was supposed to be $85 and the guy who took my order applied a GoodRx coupon to make it $20. Woo! Then, because my kids were so well-behaved, I took them to get large sodas from McD's. They were pretty happy. :)
Quote from: christinej78 on July 20, 2018, 02:46:39 PM
Hi Dizz, 20 July 2018
Your photos reminded me of an actress, whose name escaped me when I wrote my previous post. You look like Jamie Lee Curtis, except you are much prettier.
By the way, you made my day.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
Wow what a great compliment. You have made my day too... [emoji4]
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Quote from: Sienna Grace on July 20, 2018, 04:14:54 PM
I considered Jamie-Lee to be one of the most attractive women in Hollywood at the time. Take a look at A Fish Called Wanda with Jamie-Lee and John Cleese.
Dizz I agree with Christine, you remind me a lot of Jamie-Lee and every bit as beautiful.
You go girl xx
Thank you very much [emoji4]
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Quote from: islandgirl on July 18, 2018, 08:10:23 AM
Your new wig looks great, dizz! I think that the colour and style really suits you!
Hugs,
Kelly
Wow, you look so beautiful!
Congratulations!
To Everyone here at Susan's Place, 21 July 2018
What made me happy today? You-all did and you make me Happy everyday!!! Thank you so very much.
Best Always, All My Love,
Christine
Today I remembered that a few months ago, at a place where I did not come out, someone told me that when I'm done transitioning I'm going to look like Lillian Munster.
Here is a picture of her https://i.pinimg.com/originals/73/7b/79/737b795e0c0b96325f954f631acec24b.jpg (https://i.pinimg.com/originals/73/7b/79/737b795e0c0b96325f954f631acec24b.jpg)
That and my TV is two inches smaller than I am tall. ;) I'm feeling kinda spoiled today.
Quote from: gingerViktorKay on July 21, 2018, 04:30:24 PM
Today I remembered that a few months ago, at a place where I did not come out, someone told me that when I'm done transitioning I'm going to look like Lillian Munster.
Here is a picture of her https://i.pinimg.com/originals/73/7b/79/737b795e0c0b96325f954f631acec24b.jpg (https://i.pinimg.com/originals/73/7b/79/737b795e0c0b96325f954f631acec24b.jpg)
That and my TV is two inches smaller than I am tall. ;) I'm feeling kinda spoiled today.
Hi Ginger, 21 July 2018
That was a great and deserving compliment. Yvonne De Carlo aka "Lilly Munster" was a fabulously beautiful woman. Keep on going and no stopping.
Spoiled today? You have every right to be. You can be very proud of yourself, you are a very beautiful woman.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
Christine
I like both your last 2 comments; you are so inspiring.
Great memories: 2 great US comedies from 60s and 70s and occasionally repeated on UK television today - The Munsters and the Beverley Hillbillies.
Hugs
Pamela
I had a dead on serious crush on Lillian Munster. Beautiful woman.
I woke up to a world of happy this morning. Injection day and I get my orchi date today.
I'm going to wear my new bright purple dress with flowers and be the most beautiful and happiest lady in the waiting room. Lol.
Just fun thinking about sitting there in a clinic on injection day full of guys waiting for their T blocker shots and being the only lady there besides Julia ( she's beautiful too) the receptionist. I'll sit proudly front and center and float to the treatment room. Girl power rules.
I found this waiting for me at my desk today. You might remember I had a dream months ago where I was given one of these at a company meeting. Well this wasn't at a meeting, but I still teared up. I haven't yet come out to all my coworkers, but this is another step where more people know:)
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/5c6636ws1te642s/DSC_0305.jpg?raw=1)
Bari Jo
Way Cool! I love the stars.
I submitted my change of name and gender application this morning, they say it takes 2-3 weeks to get the certificate, 1 step closer to Nicole [emoji16][emoji16]
Quote from: Nicole70 on July 23, 2018, 08:51:04 PM
I submitted my change of name and gender application this morning, they say it takes 2-3 weeks to get the certificate, 1 step closer to Nicole [emoji16][emoji16]
OMG I remember when I got my name changed of course I change my first and last name but oh my God such a relief I just felt so right and so free you're going to love it congratulations
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Got my eligard shot to keep me at castrate T levels. Also got my surgery date of August 24 2018.
That's my date so far with a secondary date in October. My surgeon may bump me if a cancer case comes in for surgery. I'm hoping and praying that doesn't happen.
I gained an inch in my bust! :icon_dance: :icon_joy:
Quote from: KathyLauren on July 24, 2018, 04:32:35 PM
I gained an inch in my bust! :icon_dance: :icon_joy:
@KathyLauren Dear Kathy:
Good news indeed.... I have gone through a lot of bra sizes over the years as my bust filled out.... it is a very good thing to spend money on....
new bras because the old ones don't fit any longer!!!
Hugs,
Danielle
Donna, that is fantastic news. I hope your GCS goes as planned and is uneventful. Good luck.
Quote from: KathyLauren on July 24, 2018, 04:32:35 PM
I gained an inch in my bust! :icon_dance: :icon_joy:
That's great KathyLauren. It's something I'm a little envious over too:)
Bari Jo
Squats have been paying off. I've got a booty, y'all!
Quote from: SiobhánF on July 24, 2018, 08:41:17 PM
Squats have been paying off. I've got a booty, y'all!
That is awesome news now Imma gave to find out what a squat is and start doing them
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on July 24, 2018, 08:44:10 PM
That is awesome news now Imma gave to find out what a squat is and start doing them
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These, except I go fully down, "ass to grass," on my squats.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1xMaFs0L3ao
Quote from: SiobhánF on July 25, 2018, 12:21:24 AM
These, except I go fully down, "ass to grass," on my squats.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1xMaFs0L3ao
You know I found an app on Google Play It's called butt workout or Butt Lift workout or something like that it's 15 minutes and it's a lot of different exercises including squats to exercise your butt and it's supposed to increase the size of your butt
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on July 25, 2018, 12:40:44 AM
You know I found an app on Google Play It's called butt workout or Butt Lift workout or something like that it's 15 minutes and it's a lot of different exercises including squats to exercise your butt and it's supposed to increase the size of your butt
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Go for it, dear! Couldn't hurt to try. :)
What made me happy today?
I had a dinner date with a very beautiful and young lady last night; that made me Very Happy.
Gotta go; have a tile to replace.
Best Always, Love,
Christine "Dirty old Lady"
Quote from: SiobhánF on July 25, 2018, 03:29:30 AM
Go for it, dear! Couldn't hurt to try. :)
Doesn't hurt the day you try; it's the next one.
What I enjoy most about a workout:
When it's Over.Best Always, Love,
Christine
Flowers!
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From @Laurie, who seems to always find a way to surprise me and make me happy.
Laurie, I do love you!
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Quote from: Michelle_P on July 25, 2018, 11:35:20 AM
Flowers!
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From @Laurie, who seems to always find a way to surprise me and make me happy.
Laurie, I do love you!
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@Michelle_P Dear Michelle: Oh, my oh my..... that is so sweet... thank you for posting your happy picture with the beautiful red roses from
@Laurie.... she is certainly very thoughtful for sure.
You are a lucky woman... so far I have not gotten that many red roses yet from any of my suitors, I have gotten heart shaped chocolate however.
This is all very encouraging for you of course but also for all that have read and seen your post and picture...
...and Kudos to you
@Laurie... I think that you have just made some bonus points with
@Michelle_PHugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: Michelle_P on July 25, 2018, 11:35:20 AM
Flowers!
Very nice! You get flowers and I get stuck on the fridge. It shows where I am on the totem pole.
That's okay, I'm sure we both earned what we got. [emoji6]
Stephanie
Quote from: Steph2.0 on July 25, 2018, 04:06:39 PM
Very nice! You get flowers and I get stuck on the fridge. It shows where I am on the totem pole.
That's okay, I'm sure we both earned what we got. [emoji6]
Stephanie
@Steph2.0Dear Stephanie.... at least you get stuck on the fridge....
I am nowhere to be found, hiding in a corner perhaps.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on July 25, 2018, 04:25:54 PM
@Steph2.0
Dear Stephanie.... at least you get stuck on the fridge....
I am nowhere to be found, hiding in a corner perhaps.
Hugs,
Danielle
I'm sure there are plenty of totem poles where you are. I suspect you're up near the top somewhere!
Stephanie
Quote from: Steph2.0 on July 25, 2018, 04:43:09 PM
I'm sure there are plenty of totem poles where you are. I suspect you're up near the top somewhere!
Stephanie
@Steph2.0Dear Stephanie... the problem is that the bears can climb trees.
Well, I have my plate full up here with my friends and suitors so no worries....
So are you stuck
on the fridge... or
on top of the fridge...
if I recall from previous posts, I think that
@Laurie would put you on top of the fridge.
Just wondering???? What do you have to do to get taken off of the fridge????
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Michelle_P on July 25, 2018, 11:35:20 AM
Flowers!
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From @Laurie, who seems to always find a way to surprise me and make me happy.
Laurie, I do love you!
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Hi Michelle_P and Laurie, 24 July 2018
Congratulations to both of you. This is the best news I have seen in many a moon and so courageous of you both for letting everyone on Susan's Place know of your love for each other. You have my eternal admiration.
Wishing you both the happiest lives together and the best life has to offer.
Best Always, All My Love,
Christine
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on July 25, 2018, 04:50:53 PM
@Steph2.0
Dear Stephanie... the problem is that the bears can climb trees.
Well, I have my plate full up here with my friends and suitors so no worries....
So are you stuck on the fridge... or on top of the fridge...
..f I recall from previous posts, I think that @Laurie would put you on top of the fridge.
Just wondering???? What do you have to do to get taken off of the fridge????
Hugs,
Danielle
Pretty sure I'm under the fridge so don't feel bad lol
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Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on July 25, 2018, 04:50:53 PM
@Steph2.0
Just wondering???? What do you have to do to get taken off of the fridge????
Well, don't tell
@Laurie, but I sneak down to go clothes shopping. Shhhh!
Stephanie
Well I have not posted stuff like I used to as I had a lot going on way to much to deal with and I was at the point of a break down. Well I am happy that I tentatively negotiated our collective agreement and meet this guy online and we are going to meet tonight. I don't know why I am having strong feelings for him already there is very few people I have felt this strong for, ever in my life that I meet in person. We both have had similar child hoods, experiences and we like all the same stuff so far. I think he is totally hot and he is 31 years old so close to my age. We are planning to get something to eat tonight have a bonfire than cuddle and watch a movie. hehe. So happy
what made me happy today? hmmmm, how to answer that one.....well, this guy I have a small crush on invited me to play duos in fortnite so I guess its something. and he invited me out on Saturday somewhere.....sad thing is, im pretty sure im the larger person, and I am a pencil, so idk how this will go. but to hell with it, im gonna see how it goes with him.
Lilly
Quote from: Lilly G on July 26, 2018, 09:22:11 PM
what made me happy today? hmmmm, how to answer that one.....well, this guy I have a small crush on invited me to play duos in fortnite so I guess its something. and he invited me out on Saturday somewhere.....sad thing is, im pretty sure im the larger person, and I am a pencil, so idk how this will go. but to hell with it, im gonna see how it goes with him.
Lilly
Girl just rock what you got show off your attitude and I'm sure he will love you
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Today marks the first day as Faith at work. The world didn't explode.
I also received my first work-related reply from a vendor to the update:
QuoteFaith,
Of course this will not affect our working relationship at all. I have updated all of your contact information in my system with your new name. But all of your licenses would stay under xxxxx for now. I can have them updated to Faith when each of the renewals comes up.
I hope the name change goes smoothly for you.
ps, I am sitting here in a skirt as I type this .. first time ever wearing one @ work :)
Quote from: Faith on July 27, 2018, 08:00:59 AM
Today marks the first day as Faith at work. The world didn't explode.
I also received my first work-related reply from a vendor to the update:
ps, I am sitting here in a skirt as I type this .. first time ever wearing one @ work :)
SQUEEEEEEE!!!
Stephanie
Faith, reading this just made my day. Awesome!!
Quote from: Faith on July 27, 2018, 08:00:59 AM
Today marks the first day as Faith at work. The world didn't explode.
I also received my first work-related reply from a vendor to the update:
ps, I am sitting here in a skirt as I type this .. first time ever wearing one @ work :)
I'll second Stepahie's "Squeee"! I am so proud of you for taking this step!
Quote from: Faith on July 27, 2018, 08:00:59 AM
Today marks the first day as Faith at work. The world didn't explode.
I also received my first work-related reply from a vendor to the update:
ps, I am sitting here in a skirt as I type this .. first time ever wearing one @ work :)
Faith, this is awesome! Congratulations, and I am so happy to see this level of acceptance.
Yes, this made ME happy today. Well done, Faith!
You all are great with your support, I don't know that I'm deserving of it. I am happy that my happy made you happy .. um, yeah, .... :D
I passed the big boss in the hallway, either he ignored me or didn't recognize me. I wonder which would be better :P
Quote from: Faith on July 27, 2018, 08:00:59 AM
Today marks the first day as Faith at work. The world didn't explode.
I also received my first work-related reply from a vendor to the update:
ps, I am sitting here in a skirt as I type this .. first time ever wearing one @ work :)
@Faith This is really great news for you.... you took a bold step and found that it was not the big problem that you were thinking it might be perhaps....
..this is all very affirming for you and is building your self-confidence....
now, onward to more good things that are going to happen in your journey.
Thank you for sharing this tidbit about your life and your transition.
Hugs,
Danielle
Spent a few great days in sunny San Francisco this last week! We went to a couple amazing Phish shows at the Bill Graham and spent an afternoon at Delores Park working on my bikini tan lines 👙
SF is great this time of year, it was 100deg at our house neat Tahoe and brrr cold in The City...it felt great 😊
Hi Folks, 29 July 2018
I no longer have a difficult time knowing, "What made me happy Today." I am now happy every day.
Recently, I received an early birthday present; a beautiful young lady friend has entered my life. I am happier now than I have ever been. Thank you Dear, from the bottom... to the top of my heart.
Wishing everyone eternal happiness, you all deserve it and more.
Best Always, All My Love, Always,
Christine
Quote from: Michelle G on July 29, 2018, 09:51:27 AM
SF is great this time of year, it was 100deg at our house neat Tahoe and brrr cold in The City...it felt great 😊
Nobody is sure if it's authentic, but this thought has been attributed to Mark Twain: "The coldest winter I ever spent was a summer in San Francisco."
Admittedly, not strictly today but I've been on a bit of a media blitz :) 14 weeks until my transition date and I made it into the national media (both The Herald and BBC Radio Scotland) :)
http://www.heraldscotland.com/news/16356100.scots-worker-puts-transgender-on-the-agenda-for-amazon/
Quote from: itsApril on July 29, 2018, 02:00:50 PM
Nobody is sure if it's authentic, but this thought has been attributed to Mark Twain: "The coldest winter I ever spent was a summer in San Francisco."
It is very true April!
The hot summer air in the Central Valley rises and in turn pulls the cooler ocean air inland with a pretty good force creating fog and a very cold wind as it funnels into San Francisco Bay.
On the other hand though, the winters in San Francisco can be quite warm and pleasant since the reverse scenario happens and we have spent Christmas and winter days on the beach in shorts and tank tops ☀️
There is so much great news on this thread - much of it earned through persistence and long term effort.
Quote from: sophie1904 on July 29, 2018, 02:20:31 PM
Admittedly, not strictly today but I've been on a bit of a media blitz :) 14 weeks until my transition date and I made it into the national media (both The Herald and BBC Radio Scotland) :)
http://www.heraldscotland.com/news/16356100.scots-worker-puts-transgender-on-the-agenda-for-amazon/
And Sophie I am so proud to see your post!
I respect those who transition in secret to whatever degree is the best for each individual, but people like Sophie who are open about the challenges and achievements of transition are actively chipping away at obsolete social norms and building a better world for all of us. Sophie you are making that mountain a little bit less steep to climb. Not just for you, but for all of us.
Kendra
Quote from: Kendra on July 30, 2018, 05:42:12 PM
There is so much great news on this thread - much of it earned through persistence and long term effort.
Quote from: sophie1904 on July 29, 2018, 02:20:31 PM
Admittedly, not strictly today but I've been on a bit of a media blitz :) 14 weeks until my transition date and I made it into the national media (both The Herald and BBC Radio Scotland) :)
http://www.heraldscotland.com/news/16356100.scots-worker-puts-transgender-on-the-agenda-for-amazon/
And Sophie I am so proud to see your post!
I respect those who transition in secret to whatever degree is the best for each individual, but people like Sophie who are open about the challenges and achievements of transition are actively chipping away at obsolete social norms and building a better world for all of us. Sophie you are making that mountain a little bit less steep to climb. Not just for you, but for all of us.
Kendra
So very true persistence?stubborn? really the same thing in the end LOL
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Daughters and a cousin
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Grandchildren!
They all accept me and love me as me!!!!!!
I get to see my speech therapist Emily. She offers so much encouragement and I makes me feel good about the progress I'm making. It seems maybe you can teach an old dog new tricks after all.
I had my first visit with my endocrinologist today. She gave me prescriptions for starting dosages of Estradiol and Spironolactone! ;D
Yay!!!
Okay all this happened but Sunday I still feel happy about it I went to have my bellybutton check to see if I could get it pierced if it would cause any problems and I told the woman that was checking that I didn't have much of a belly button she poked me in the belly button and said it was a cute bellybutton though lol
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Found out for sure that my HRT is being covered by medicaid! Picked them up for 50 cents per earlier. Makes me mad that my cowardice at not wanting to face the pharmacist in person cost me 300 bucks paying out of pocket online. ;D
She asked "Are these new medications?" with a weird look (not like... bad, just like maybe seemed really high starting dose?), and I just smiled and said nope, been on for going on months and she just happily said "Okay then". She knew what was up and was cool about it. ;D
Quote from: Roll on August 01, 2018, 09:20:22 PM
Found out for sure that my HRT is being covered by medicaid! Picked them up for 50 cents per earlier. Makes me mad that my cowardice at not wanting to face the pharmacist in person cost me 300 bucks paying out of pocket online. ;D
She asked "Are these new medications?" with a weird look (not like... bad, just like maybe seemed really high starting dose?), and I just smiled and said nope, been on for going on months and she just happily said "Okay then". She knew what was up and was cool about it. ;D
I really find most pharmacist's are not to judging and very understanding and usually don't judge in fact they are usually more concerned about your health and thast your taking the right meds for you.
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Quote from: Roll on August 01, 2018, 09:20:22 PM
Found out for sure that my HRT is being covered by medicaid! Picked them up for 50 cents per earlier. Makes me mad that my cowardice at not wanting to face the pharmacist in person cost me 300 bucks paying out of pocket online. ;D
She asked "Are these new medications?" with a weird look (not like... bad, just like maybe seemed really high starting dose?), and I just smiled and said nope, been on for going on months and she just happily said "Okay then". She knew what was up and was cool about it. ;D
@Roll Dear Ellie:
Way to go.... be brave and know what you want... the pharmacists are usually required to give consultation with new or changed meds, etc... so they were doing what they were supposed to be doing I would think.
Continue on and keep us all updated... more happy times are ahead for you.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 01, 2018, 07:38:54 PM
Okay all this happened but Sunday I still feel happy about it I went to have my bellybutton check to see if I could get it pierced if it would cause any problems and I told the woman that was checking that I didn't have much of a belly button she poked me in the belly button and said it was a cute bellybutton though lol
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@Arianna Valentine Aweee, gee whiz... a cute belly button. That would make anyone happy. What kind of belly button piercing are you considering?
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Thea on August 01, 2018, 06:37:02 PM
I had my first visit with my endocrinologist today. She gave me prescriptions for starting dosages of Estradiol and Spironolactone! ;D
Yay!!!
@Thea YAY for sure. Congratualtions on starting HRT. We will be looking forward to reading your updates as you feel comfortable posting them. Hang on for an exciting and sometimes challenging ride...
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: DawnOday on August 01, 2018, 01:30:56 PM
I get to see my speech therapist Emily. She offers so much encouragement and I makes me feel good about the progress I'm making. It seems maybe you can teach an old dog new tricks after all.
@DawnOdayDear Dawn: Certainly great news. Voice is so important for trans-women, I hope and trust that you progress toward your goal quickly.
Please keep us updated as you feel so led.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on August 02, 2018, 12:58:47 AM
@Arianna Valentine
Aweee, gee whiz... a cute belly button. That would make anyone happy. What kind of belly button piercing are you considering?
Hugs,
Danielle
I'm not sure I was definitely thinking like a diamond and you know it kind of dangles down a little bit so not sure though I definitely do want shiny though
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I got my new perfumes from Avon and wore it yesterday to work. Oh, I smelled great. Kept sniffing myself. If y'all want some perfumes to try, Avon sells theirs for $30 each. I wore one called "Today" yesterday. Today, I'll be wearing the one called "Tomorrow." They're part of a series called "Today, Tomorrow, and Forever." Delightful smells. :)
I just got my ears pierced today! I had them pierced years ago but I let them close. I'm loving it.
Quote from: Donica on August 03, 2018, 02:58:58 PM
I just got my ears pierced today! I had them pierced years ago but I let them close. I'm loving it.
Congrats! Earrings are the best! Did not expect to love them as much as I do, I never take mine out at this point. ;D
Quote from: SiobhánF on August 03, 2018, 11:29:08 AM
I got my new perfumes from Avon and wore it yesterday to work. Oh, I smelled great. Kept sniffing myself. If y'all want some perfumes to try, Avon sells theirs for $30 each. I wore one called "Today" yesterday. Today, I'll be wearing the one called "Tomorrow." They're part of a series called "Today, Tomorrow, and Forever." Delightful smells. :)
After seeing your post about the perfumes I had to find the Amazon today one and letting you know Amazon has it a hundred mL bottle or 3.4 Oz for $22.95 so when you do go to buy it again you can just buy it off Amazon and yeah the waiting sucks but I also bought a really cute pair of shoes that I will show when I get them but thank you for the advice about the perfume I need a new one
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 03, 2018, 08:00:41 PM
After seeing your post about the perfumes I had to find the Amazon today one and letting you know Amazon has it a hundred mL bottle or 3.4 Oz for $22.95 so when you do go to buy it again you can just buy it off Amazon and yeah the waiting sucks but I also bought a really cute pair of shoes that I will show when I get them but thank you for the advice about the perfume I need a new one
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Ooh, thank you! Yeah, I know I could have gone the Amazon route (I usually do), but I bought mine from a friend who sells it and she told me about the special going on that allowed me to buy two of them for $38. I couldn't pass it up. Can't wait to see those new shoes! :)
Oh, and I made a mistake about the series name. It's called, "Today, Tomorrow, and Always." Easy mistake. lol
Quote from: Donica on August 03, 2018, 02:58:58 PM
I just got my ears pierced today! I had them pierced years ago but I let them close. I'm loving it.
@Donica Dear Donica: This is exciting for you... once the studs are out and your ear is healed, what kind of earrings do you prefer? Personally, I like the dangley earrings and small hoops... but not the great big hoops, they get in the way.
Pictures when you feel free to post them would be great.
Thanks for keeping us up to date.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on August 04, 2018, 09:13:02 AM
@Donica
Dear Donica: This is exciting for you... once the studs are out and your ear is healed, what kind of earrings do you prefer? Personally, I like the dangley earrings and small hoops... but not the great big hoops, they get in the way.
Pictures when you feel free to post them would be great.
Thanks for keeping us up to date.
Hugs,
Danielle
Hi Danielle! I soooo love silver with diamond studs. I too like the small hoops. I've had a pair of them for years but couldn't wear them. I also have a couple pairs of dangley earrings too. My favorites are anything silver with diamonds, but not to big as you mentioned. Gold is nice but I've never found them to be as attractive to me as silver. My current studs are stainless steel with only a tiny diamond, but they still look really cute. Three weeks and I get to change them out. I'll post some pictures. I can't wait!
two things.
A simple "excuse me, ladies" at the laundromat with Lori. Ma'am never happens and lady/ladies only when I'm with Lori. But, I'll take it
I saw HER in the mirror today at my nieces house and she didn't disappear when I stopped to take a longer look.
Quote from: Faith on August 04, 2018, 06:32:37 PM
two things.
A simple "excuse me, ladies" at the laundromat with Lori. Ma'am never happens and lady/ladies only when I'm with Lori. But, I'll take it
I saw HER in the mirror today at my nieces house and she didn't disappear when I stopped to take a longer look.
@Faith Wow... compared to what you had recently mentioned on your personal thread this is really wonderful news!!!!
Stay positive and upbeat... things are getting better.
Thanks for posting.
Hugs and well wishes as always.
Danielle
We pretty much coverd a lot of our start up costs at the the convention this weekend
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I was "missed" today. As in "miss, your pizza is ready". Get ma'am mostly always these days but being fiftghjklm., miss is different.
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So I put on a pair of shorts today that I've had for a while at least for 5 months and they don't fit as good as they used to they're actually too small now slightly too small
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I am attracted to women for the moment. I am pre-hrt. One my friend from high school told me that he is in love with me. Even if he is married with a CIS woman he didn't felt that much feeling for someone for the last 20 years. That made my day but at the same time I don't know if I will ever be attracted to males...
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Quote from: SiobhánF on August 04, 2018, 08:25:05 AM
Ooh, thank you! Yeah, I know I could have gone the Amazon route (I usually do), but I bought mine from a friend who sells it and she told me about the special going on that allowed me to buy two of them for $38. I couldn't pass it up. Can't wait to see those new shoes! :)
Oh, and I made a mistake about the series name. It's called, "Today, Tomorrow, and Always." Easy mistake. lol
So somehow by magic I got my perfume "today" it was delivered today so I got to smell what you were talking about and OMG it's so elegant, beautiful and a feminine smell I'm loving it so much
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Quote from: dizz on August 05, 2018, 02:10:59 AM
I am attracted to women for the moment. I am pre-hrt. One my friend from high school told me that he is in love with me. Even if he is married with a CIS woman he didn't felt that much feeling for someone for the last 20 years. That made my day but at the same time I don't know if I will ever be attracted to males...
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Hi Dizz, 05 August 2018
What I'm about to tell you is about me and will not make me look good. It's a part of my life as a male that I am ashamed of, regret and cannot justify.
I married for the first time when I was almost 30. I had a beautiful and loving wife; I couldn't have dreamt of a better wife, lady and lover. She treated me like a king.
To shorten the story, I started to cheat; I ran around like a Tomcat; I lied to my wife, everyone around me and of all people, I lied to myself. Eventually we got divorced and I ended up marrying one of the women I was running around with. That really worked out great; I couldn't trust her and she couldn't trust me. Great foundation for a relationship that ultimately self destructed.
Speaking about me back then: I was a married man that went out and hit on woman; I wasn't worth the time of day. I wrecked several lives including my own. The damage I did was not instantly apparent to me because I continued to lie to myself. Eventually, I came to the realization that what I had done was devastating to my first wife, and several other people. I had messed up lives I had no right to harm. The realization of the severity of my wanton destruction of innocent lives became my own private hell.
In 2007 after I made it known that I wished to apologize to her; she reached out and contacted me. We talked for a long time; I apologized for what I had done and told her that none of what happened was her fault. I was solely to blame for everything. The next thing that she said hit me like a punch to the face from Mike Tyson; she said for the 30+ years that had passed she always thought it was her fault. She had spent that time in a prison of my making.
In the ensuing years we talked quite often, every week. I could almost set my watch by her calls. Then one day the expected call didn't come. I started worrying; a week later she called. I told her I was worried about her. Her response was the coup de gras I deserved. She said: "When you left, I sat by the phone every night for two years waiting for you to call... you never did." At that moment I felt like the lowest piece of scum on earth. I came to the full realization of the severity of my selfish actions and there was nothing I could do to justify or rectify what I had done. Even though she forgave me, I cannot escape the living hell I made, nor do I want to; I owe it to her. I cannot forgive myself, but I can make absolutely sure I will never do it again and I haven't.
She passed away in 2012; I feel responsible for that also (another story).
The whole story would take up too much space and this isn't the correct thread to tell it. My sole purpose in posting this here is to caution everyone about having relationships while being married or having them with someone who is. Rarely will it ever lead to good, innocent lives will be harmed. No one has a right to harm anyone else.
Many of us in this community have been harmed to some degree by others who had no right to do so. We don't like it and neither does anyone else;
"Do No Harm."Wishing all here a wonderful happy life.
Last but not least, you are looking absolutely beautiful Dizz, keep going and best of luck.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
Two things for me:
Someone called me "ma'am" on the phone today and I've had no voice lessons :)
I'm a bike rider and rode wearing a skirt for the first time this afternoon. I loved having the breeze caressing my legs :)
Lindy
Quote from: christinej78 on August 05, 2018, 03:48:21 PM
Hi Dizz, 05 August 2018
What I'm about to tell you is about me and will not make me look good. It's a part of my life as a male that I am ashamed of, regret and cannot justify.
I married for the first time when I was almost 30. I had a beautiful and loving wife; I couldn't have dreamt of a better wife, lady and lover. She treated me like a king.
To shorten the story, I started to cheat; I ran around like a Tomcat; I lied to my wife, everyone around me and of all people, I lied to myself. Eventually we got divorced and I ended up marrying one of the women I was running around with. That really worked out great; I couldn't trust her and she couldn't trust me. Great foundation for a relationship that ultimately self destructed.
Speaking about me back then: I was a married man that went out and hit on woman; I wasn't worth the time of day. I wrecked several lives including my own. The damage I did was not instantly apparent to me because I continued to lie to myself. Eventually, I came to the realization that what I had done was devastating to my first wife, and several other people. I had messed up lives I had no right to harm. The realization of the severity of my wanton destruction of innocent lives became my own private hell.
In 2007 after I made it known that I wished to apologize to her; she reached out and contacted me. We talked for a long time; I apologized for what I had done and told her that none of what happened was her fault. I was solely to blame for everything. The next thing that she said hit me like a punch to the face from Mike Tyson; she said for the 30+ years that had passed she always thought it was her fault. She had spent that time in a prison of my making.
In the ensuing years we talked quite often, every week. I could almost set my watch by her calls. Then one day the expected call didn't come. I started worrying; a week later she called. I told her I was worried about her. Her response was the coup de gras I deserved. She said: "When you left, I sat by the phone every night for two years waiting for you to call... you never did." At that moment I felt like the lowest piece of scum on earth. I came to the full realization of the severity of my selfish actions and there was nothing I could do to justify or rectify what I had done. Even though she forgave me, I cannot escape the living hell I made, nor do I want to; I owe it to her. I cannot forgive myself, but I can make absolutely sure I will never do it again and I haven't.
She passed away in 2012; I feel responsible for that also (another story).
The whole story would take up too much space and this isn't the correct thread to tell it. My sole purpose in posting this here is to caution everyone about having relationships while being married or having them with someone who is. Rarely will it ever lead to good, innocent lives will be harmed. No one has a right to harm anyone else.
Many of us in this community have been harmed to some degree by others who had no right to do so. We don't like it and neither does anyone else; "Do No Harm."
Wishing all here a wonderful happy life.
Last but not least, you are looking absolutely beautiful Dizz, keep going and best of luck.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
Thank you for telling a part of of life. My friend told me he would not cheat his wife and break up to be with me. He is not happy with her anymore. I told him maybe with time and hrt I could change my mind but for now I am attracted to women.
Sabrina
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Quote from: dizz on August 05, 2018, 07:38:10 PM
Thank you for telling a part of of life. My friend told me he would not cheat his wife and break up to be with me. He is not happy with her anymore. I told him maybe with time and hrt I could change my mind but for now I am attracted to women.
Sabrina
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Hi Sabrina, 05 Aug 2018
Thank you, I'm happy that you and he are not going down the path I took. You, like I am attracted to woman. If you follow you heart and don't do anything to harm someone else, you and your partner will be fine, male or female. I think you have a great attitude; you will be successful in finding the right person.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
Today I was wearing my raindiw blouse with a new maxi skirt and helping my wife with her medical needs. She had the community paramedic in to do and IV and all her vitals etc.
After she set up the IV we had time to sit and chat. I really have not done anything with my voice so it usually gives me away. The paramedic commented that it was so nice that as marilyn's younger sister I would take the time to help out so much. It like um nope. We asked how old she thought I was and she figured 40. Oh wow the look on our faces was priceless and she caught that and asked what was up and had she said something wrong. I just said thank you and I'm 62.5. We said we where not sisters so she asked if we where partners or a couple. We told her we were a couple, a husband and wife couple. She actually had no clue at all and was totally shocked. I on the other hand was smiles from ear to ear and so very happy to have talked to a cis woman for an hour and she never caught on. After ward Marilyn called me a bitch and we both had a great laugh again.
Quote from: Donna on August 05, 2018, 11:54:48 PM
Today I was wearing my raindiw blouse with a new maxi skirt and helping my wife with her medical needs. She had the community paramedic in to do and IV and all her vitals etc.
After she set up the IV we had time to sit and chat. I really have not done anything with my voice so it usually gives me away. The paramedic commented that it was so nice that as marilyn's younger sister I would take the time to help out so much. It like um nope. We asked how old she thought I was and she figured 40. Oh wow the look on our faces was priceless and she caught that and asked what was up and had she said something wrong. I just said thank you and I'm 62.5. We said we where not sisters so she asked if we where partners or a couple. We told her we were a couple, a husband and wife couple. She actually had no clue at all and was totally shocked. I on the other hand was smiles from ear to ear and so very happy to have talked to a cis woman for an hour and she never caught on. After ward Marilyn called me a bitch and we both had a great laugh again.
Hi Donna, 06 Aug 2018
I like that blouse; it lights you up. I hope Marilyn is feeling better. Seems like you have no worries about passing. I couldn't pass the oinker test. Put lipstick on me and what do you have? A pig wearing lipstick, and an old one at that.
Take care mis amigas.
Best Always, All My Love,
Christine
Quote from: Donna on August 05, 2018, 11:54:48 PMI on the other hand was smiles from ear to ear and so very happy to have talked to a cis woman for an hour and she never caught on.
Hee-hee, what a great story, Donna! :D
First day at work!! So happy [emoji16](https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180806/983a662678fdfe12ce3d64a2adad6e59.jpg)
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BADGES?
WE DON'T NEED NO STINKING, oh wait apparnetly you need a stinking badge.
Looking good!
So I've been getting laser hair removal done on my face for 8 treatments now and is like a month in between each treatment so for a while now and it did not seem to be working and I got up today and walked in the mirror so I can go shave and I looked under my chin and it was bald I looked at my chin it was virtually bald still a little bit there but that shows me that this is actually working it wasn't a waste of money and that makes me very happy
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Quote from: Colleen_definitely on August 06, 2018, 11:41:52 AM
BADGES?
WE DON'T NEED NO STINKING, oh wait apparnetly you need a stinking badge.
Looking good!
Hi Colleen 16 Aug 2018
Hope all is well.
Last time I needed a badge was when I was a cop.
Sabrina / Dizz sure looks fantastic...
and so do you.
Are you two gals keeping the formula for looking fantastic secret? If you are, please let me in on it; I promise I won't tell a soul.
Best Always, Love,
Christine
I wish I knew, because I'm in full from home working the tech support line mode. Sweatpants, t-shirt, hair tie, and I definitely don't look fabulous right now. ;D
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on August 06, 2018, 02:30:02 PM
I wish I knew, because I'm in full from home working the tech support line mode. Sweatpants, t-shirt, hair tie, and I definitely don't look fabulous right now. ;D
@Colleen_definitely Dear Colleen: What you are doing and what your are wearing working while at your work at home job is called REAL LIFE.
You could post a picture of yourself right now and no one here would be critical of it, in fact, we would all love to see you no matter what...
Until I started my own business I always had a job that required a badge...
...a paycheck is obviously much better than that!!! LOL ... the badge is just a necessity at some jobs.
Hugs,
Danielle
Well in most of life I actually put a little bit of effort into my appearance, lol. It's tech support, I have precisely zero people to impress and I'm enjoying that fact.
But you are right, the people here are great and have been a big help for me and so many others. And now that I think of it, I do have a badge for work. I just haven't been to home base in something like two years and it still shows some weirdo with a beard and a vaguely familiar name.
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on August 06, 2018, 11:41:52 AM
BADGES?
WE DON'T NEED NO STINKING, oh wait apparnetly you need a stinking badge.
Looking good!
This is not a badge. This is a micro chip to open doors. [emoji4] With my dress that doesn't have pockets this is the only place I could clip it.
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Just back from a ceilidh (scottish country dancing) tonight and one of my good female friends when we were dancing the gay gordons asked if I wanted to be the woman for the dance.
I'm still presenting male but it was a really nice, thoughtful thing to offer. As it turns out, I don't know how to dance as a woman so one more thing to add to the list :)
Quote from: sophie1904 on August 06, 2018, 05:46:38 PM
Just back from a ceilidh (scottish country dancing) tonight and one of my good female friends when we were dancing the gay gordons asked if I wanted to be the woman for the dance.
I'm still presenting male but it was a really nice, thoughtful thing to offer. As it turns out, I don't know how to dance as a woman so one more thing to add to the list :)
[emoji848] women dance a different way?
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I didn't know how to dance as a male so I dance better as a woman because I don't care anymore about people watching me [emoji23]
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Quote from: dizz on August 06, 2018, 06:01:13 PM
I didn't know how to dance as a male so I dance better as a woman because I don't care anymore about people watching me [emoji23]
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So what you're really trying to say is dance like no one's watching or like you just don't care LOL
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Ceilidh dancing is semi formal so man on left / woman on right, woman spins under mans arm, waltz type holds etc :)
So yes, sometimes men and women have different roles when dancing :)
Quote from: sophie1904 on August 06, 2018, 05:46:38 PM
Just back from a ceilidh (scottish country dancing) tonight and one of my good female friends when we were dancing the gay gordons asked if I wanted to be the woman for the dance.
I'm still presenting male but it was a really nice, thoughtful thing to offer. As it turns out, I don't know how to dance as a woman so one more thing to add to the list :)
That is cool! I do Scottish country dancing, too. When I transitioned, I had to learn the other side of all the dances. Now, I don't dare dance the men's parts (even though many women do due to a shortage of men) because switching back confuses the heck out of me!
So there is multiple things that made me happy today I went out on a wonderful date with a great guy paid for lunch and everything setting apart staring at the lake and just talked then I went to the grocery store to pick up some groceries and I was waiting in line to check out and didn't notice there was an open laying next to me and one of the employees behind me said so and when I turned around he apologized and said I'm sorry ma'am there's an open Lane right next to you it was so great today has been perfect today was so great that there was a little old lady behind me and one of the scooter things and I helped her put her groceries on the belt and that made me even feel better
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 07, 2018, 05:10:49 PM
So there is multiple things that made me happy today I went out on a wonderful date with a great guy paid for lunch and everything setting apart staring at the lake and just talked then I went to the grocery store to pick up some groceries and I was waiting in line to check out and didn't notice there was an open laying next to me and one of the employees behind me said so and when I turned around he apologized and said I'm sorry ma'am there's an open Lane right next to you it was so great today has been perfect today was so great that there was a little old lady behind me and one of the scooter things and I helped her put her groceries on the belt and that made me even feel better
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@Arianna Valentine wow... that is really good news especially when your experience good news in your life that comes in multiples!!!!
On a wonderful date with a great guy that paid for lunch
Being gendered correctly at the grocery store
... and helping the little old lady
It is difficult to have a better day than what you experienced!!!!
I am so happy for you.
Hugs and hugs,
Danielle
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@Arianna Valentine
wow... that is really good news especially when your experience good news in your life that comes in multiples!!!!
On a wonderful date with a great guy that paid for lunch
Being gendered correctly at the grocery store
... and helping the little old lady
It is difficult to have a better day than what you experienced!!!!
I am so happy for you.
Hugs and hugs,
Danielle
Thanks Danielle and yes it coming in groups feels great
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Sounds amazing Arianna! I wanna go on a date like that. ;D <3
Anywho! So my thing: I noticed all of a sudden now im at the 2 month post hair transplant mark my hair just got radically thicker over a few days. If this is only a fraction of what the final result is like its supposed to be (roughly about 10% per month starting at 3 months), I am going to be beyond ecstatic. GROW GROW GROW! ;D
I found out what a small world we live in. Randy lives in Colorado Springs and I thought I would ask if she knew my ex that also lives there. I can't believe it Randy's daughter and Wendy my ex's daughter Sam are friends. I am amazed what I find on Susan's, I am so blessed.
My wonderful spouse brought me coffee in bed before she left for work. :laugh:
I feel great to my new job. All my colleague refer to me as the right gender. No one know my old name except HR. I even have my plate and email with the correct name. This is all before my official name change at government so it makes me very happy to have such a supportive employer. [emoji4](https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180808/54046c5e214c313f321715a3815cd642.jpg)
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Quote from: dizz on August 08, 2018, 09:28:48 AM
I feel great to my new job. All my colleague refer to me as the right gender. No one know my old name except HR. I even have my plate and email with the correct name. This is all before my official name change at government so it makes me very happy to have such a supportive employer. [emoji4](https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180808/54046c5e214c313f321715a3815cd642.jpg)
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@dizz This is so very exciting for you...
....and here on the forums, all of us are so very happy to read your happy news posting.
Being gendered correctly, having your correct name in all the right places at your company...
...and getting your legal name changed with all of the government agencies, companies that you deal with, bills that you pay, etc, etc...
This is all very affirming and certainly boosts self-confidence.... and I would think that these things brings many smiles to your face.
Thank you for keeping us all updated. We are your biggest fans wishing you success in your life.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: BrianaJ on August 08, 2018, 09:17:45 AM
My wonderful spouse brought me coffee in bed before she left for work. :laugh:
@BrianaJ Oh, very nice.... you made me envious because I live alone so I have to wake up, get out of bed, and make my own coffee in the morning.
I do enjoy going to my office early in the morning and I occasionally have workers and friends at the next door coffee shop that, without asking, will bring me my favorite espresso and perhaps a baked good.... that always is a wonderful experience for sure.
Thank you for posting your happy update here.
***Oh, by the way, I love your "tag line" on your profile...
"Be Kind"... along those lines, more kindness is needed in the world and among all of us.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: DawnOday on August 07, 2018, 09:23:14 PM
I found out what a small world we live in. Randy lives in Colorado Springs and I thought I would ask if she knew my ex that also lives there. I can't believe it Randy's daughter and Wendy my ex's daughter Sam are friends. I am amazed what I find on Susan's, I am so blessed.
I love these connections we find. How can it be, amongst the billions of people on the planet? But we really belong to smaller communities of like-minded people. I often joke that when I meet a new person, we usually know each other at least two different ways. Now Dawn and I know each other two different ways!
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I feel great to my new job. All my colleague refer to me as the right gender. No one know my old name except HR. I even have my plate and email with the correct name. This is all before my official name change at government so it makes me very happy to have such a supportive employer. [emoji4](https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180808/54046c5e214c313f321715a3815cd642.jpg)
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Hi Sabrina. 08 August 2018
You are a wonderful role model for everyone here at Susan's; thanks for posting and allowing all of us to partake in your life and its successes. You deserve all the great things life has to offer; you have earned them.
CONGRATULATIONS!!!Best Always, Love
Christine
I know it's been a long time since I posted. Shame on me lol.
Today was absolutely, positively, the most bestest day of my life. As some of you know I have a (kind of) adopted son who has a learning disability. I have been trying to help him get his driver's licence for the past 2 years. Well today he got his licence and I am so proud of him. :D
So I have a few things that made me happy today for one I have a boyfriend super happy I went to Victoria's Secret they help me figure out what bra size I was and panties and I tried on some to figure out what I like and then I spent $95 then I went and did the best and craziest thing I have ever done I went and got my belly button pierced it's so cute and it did not hurt as bad as I thought it would but it made me really happy. Oh I also wanted to add the ladies at Victoria's Secret were super nice to me treating me exactly like a woman and like I have never been treated so good before so for all my sisters out there Victoria Secret they are wonderful to us.
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Oh, you are so brave!
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Oh, you are so brave!
Surprisingly enough I think getting my eyebrows waxed hurt more than getting my bellybutton pierced LOL
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 08, 2018, 09:05:07 PM
Surprisingly enough I think getting my eyebrows waxed hurt more than getting my bellybutton pierced LOL
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Threading my brows is definitely more painful than getting my nose pierced was.
I saw my primary care doctor today and asked for a letter supporting the change of gender marker on my birth certificate, as well as a referral for my orchie. I left her office 20 minutes later with both the letter & a referral in hand!!
Quote from: RoryL on August 08, 2018, 10:25:34 PM
I saw my primary care doctor today and asked for a letter supporting the change of gender marker on my birth certificate, as well as a referral for my orchie. I left her office 20 minutes later with both the letter & a referral in hand!!
Wonderful! I'm sure you were smiling ear to ear 🌸🌸🌸
Quote from: RoryL on August 08, 2018, 10:25:34 PM
I saw my primary care doctor today and asked for a letter supporting the change of gender marker on my birth certificate, as well as a referral for my orchie. I left her office 20 minutes later with both the letter & a referral in hand!!
@RoryL This is wonderful news...
...this is certainly a happy moment that is very appropriate for this thread.
Please keep up posted regarding your progress.
Thank you for sharing with us here......
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 08, 2018, 08:27:04 PM
So I have a few things that made me happy today for one I have a boyfriend super happy I went to Victoria's Secret they help me figure out what bra size I was and panties and I tried on some to figure out what I like and then I spent $95 then I went and did the best and craziest thing I have ever done I went and got my belly button pierced it's so cute and it did not hurt as bad as I thought it would but it made me really happy. Oh I also wanted to add the ladies at Victoria's Secret were super nice to me treating me exactly like a woman and like I have never been treated so good before so for all my sisters out there Victoria Secret they are wonderful to us.
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@Arianna Valentine This is very exciting... your Victoria's Secret shopping experience and the piercing.... all of this is very affirming and is great for your self confidence!!!
Thank you for posting your good and happy report.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Bobbie Ann on August 08, 2018, 06:27:40 PM
I know it's been a long time since I posted. Shame on me lol.
Today was absolutely, positively, the most bestest day of my life. As some of you know I have a (kind of) adopted son who has a learning disability. I have been trying to help him get his driver's licence for the past 2 years. Well today he got his licence and I am so proud of him. :D
@Bobbie Ann This is a great report. I am happy for you that this makes you happy.
Oh, and please post again soon... don't be dormant for so long.
Thank you for your posting.
Danielle
Quote from: christinej78 on August 08, 2018, 02:00:10 PM
Hi Sabrina. 08 August 2018
You are a wonderful role model for everyone here at Susan's; thanks for posting and allowing all of us to partake in your life and its successes. You deserve all the great things life has to offer; you have earned them.
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Best Always, Love
Christine
Thank you very much. You are so kind. Sure I have a lot of self confidence but I don't think it makes me a model. I will take the compliment anyway. Thank you again. So proud to be here. Everyone are so supportive with me.
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Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on August 08, 2018, 09:40:59 AM
@dizz
This is so very exciting for you...
....and here on the forums, all of us are so very happy to read your happy news posting.
Being gendered correctly, having your correct name in all the right places at your company...
...and getting your legal name changed with all of the government agencies, companies that you deal with, bills that you pay, etc, etc...
This is all very affirming and certainly boosts self-confidence.... and I would think that these things brings many smiles to your face.
Thank you for keeping us all updated. We are your biggest fans wishing you success in your life.
Hugs,
Danielle
Thank you very much Danielle. If you were closer I would give you real hugs. [emoji4]
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Quote from: RoryL on August 08, 2018, 10:25:34 PM
I saw my primary care doctor today and asked for a letter supporting the change of gender marker on my birth certificate, as well as a referral for my orchie. I left her office 20 minutes later with both the letter & a referral in hand!!
Hi RoryL, 09 August 2018
I see we are neighbors. Best wishes for your transition. I had my orchie 13 April 18, 17 days after I started HRT sans AAs. Have felt great ever since. When I was waiting for my turn in the surgical suite, I could hardly wait to get in there and have it done. I felt great afterwards and as time has gone on I have been feeling even better. Testosterone fueled aggression is gone, I'm more patient, happier, and my emotions are more feminine. I like me better and so do my Dogs. Learned aggression has nothing to do with hormones. It has to be dealt with differently. One just has to teach one self to stifle it.
From your Signature:"The best mind-altering drug is the truth." - Lily Tomlin It's also the easiest to remember.Best Always, Love
Christine
I certainly did have a smile from ear to ear when I left that appointment! :)
OMG so I took a picture in the mirror in just a bra and panties for my boyfriend I have a but now I am so happy I am completely shocked I took a side picture and oh my God it sticks out I am so happy I actually have junk in the trunk
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 09, 2018, 01:20:37 PM
OMG so I took a picture in the mirror in just a bra and panties for my boyfriend I have a but now I am so happy I am completely shocked I took a side picture and oh my God it sticks out I am so happy I actually have junk in the trunk
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@Arianna Valentine Please help me to understand your "Happy" post.....
So now that in your new bra and panty side picture that you took for your BF, you see "junk in the trunk" ....
... I am thinking shouldn't that bad news? ???
Please forgive me for being confused about how you worded your post. I could be way off base here.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on August 09, 2018, 01:28:48 PM
@Arianna Valentine
Please help me to understand your "Happy" post.....
So now that in your new bra and panty side picture that you took for your BF, you see "junk in the trunk" ....
... I am thinking shouldn't that bad news? ???
Please forgive me for being confused about how you worded your post. I could be way off base here.
Hugs,
Danielle
Hi Danielle,
Far be it for me to speak for another person, butt (pun intended 😂) what I think Arianna Valentine means is that she has some 'loot in the boot' so to speak... In many parts of the world we refer to a car's trunk as 'the boot'. As an English teacher I am fascinated by word etymology - so I'm guessing that 'boot' grew out of 'booty' or vice versa. I'm surmising that AV now has some weight in her butt, as opposed to some undesirable 'junk' in the context of transition.
Have an awesome day. Remember the world is a more beautiful because you are in it.
💋
Sienna
Quote from: Sienna Grace on August 09, 2018, 02:47:55 PM
Hi Danielle,
Far be it for me to speak for another person, butt (pun intended 😂) what I think Arianna Valentine means is that she has some 'loot in the boot' so to speak... In many parts of the world we refer to a car's trunk as 'the boot'. As an English teacher I am fascinated by word etymology - so I'm guessing that 'boot' grew out of 'booty' or vice versa. I'm surmising that AV now has some weight in her butt, as opposed to some undesirable 'junk' in the context of transition.
Have an awesome day. Remember the world is a more beautiful because you are in it.
💋
Sienna
@Sienna Grace Dear Sienna: Thank you for the very plausible explanation.... I guess I need to have more coffee this afternoon to get my mind working properly.
...... oh, and
@Arianna Valentine I am so sorry that I was confused, please forgive me for having
brain fog when I read your happy posting earlier.
All is very clear to me now as I am sipping my double shot espresso.
Hugs to both of you,Danielle
Quote from: Sienna Grace on August 09, 2018, 02:47:55 PM
Hi Danielle,
Far be it for me to speak for another person, butt (pun intended 😂) what I think Arianna Valentine means is that she has some 'loot in the boot' so to speak... In many parts of the world we refer to a car's trunk as 'the boot'. As an English teacher I am fascinated by word etymology - so I'm guessing that 'boot' grew out of 'booty' or vice versa. I'm surmising that AV now has some weight in her butt, as opposed to some undesirable 'junk' in the context of transition.
Have an awesome day. Remember the world is a more beautiful because you are in it.
💋
Sienna
@Sienna GraceDear Sienna: Oh no, you are an English Teacher!!!
Now I know that I need be very careful from now on about my spelling and grammar, and my word usage as I will now try harder to compose clearly understood and properly constructed comments and posts.
I certainly don't want my hand slapped by your ruler.
Thank you dear teacher.
Again, thanks for your posting.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on August 09, 2018, 01:28:48 PM
@Arianna Valentine
Please help me to understand your "Happy" post.....
So now that in your new bra and panty side picture that you took for your BF, you see "junk in the trunk" ....
... I am thinking shouldn't that bad news? ???
Please forgive me for being confused about how you worded your post. I could be way off base here.
Hugs,
Danielle
lol I'm glad you got it figured out but yes this makes me very happy so happy I came to get my nails done
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I just had my first visit with my electrolysis for facial hair removal last night. She's a lovely European lady who just got back from vacation to see her family in London.
I was surprised that I didn't climb the walls during the hour of treatment. In fact, I put the numbing cream on my chin and with my two index fingers, asked if she would do the area between my fingers. She thought I was pointing to my lower cheeks. So she did a 1 inch area on both cheeks, which didn't have any numbing cream lol.
My next visit will be for 2 hours to do my chin and upper lip. Although I didn't climb the walls, I will make sure she only works on the area with the numbing cream. Ouch!! ;).
My wife was on the phone with someone trying to sell her some kind of health product and they asked her about insurance and if she was covered on her husband's plan. She told them not exactly, it's my wife's insurance.
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Realized one big thing missing in my presentation, and took all of the pads out of all my sports bras and bralettes, put one on and used all of the padding. Holy crap, proportional boobs really are everything. I feel so much more confident about the look, how did I not do this sooner?
So I went on another date this time a picnic at a park by the lake lol so fun and he was such a gentleman here's my dress I wore with sandles lol(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180811/8da581068d9de48a1dd98e4f26e4907e.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180811/e36a41499c1e53ac111c11d1de2d123e.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180811/51c19fcd660de1a5812c852e6ab956c2.jpg)
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 11, 2018, 03:55:20 PM
So I went on another date this time a picnic at a park by the lake lol so fun and he was such a gentleman here's my dress I wore with sandles lol(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180811/8da581068d9de48a1dd98e4f26e4907e.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180811/e36a41499c1e53ac111c11d1de2d123e.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180811/51c19fcd660de1a5812c852e6ab956c2.jpg)
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@Arianna Valentine I know from personal experience that dates for "us" and others like us can be quite fun and exciting and sometimes scary and frightening.... all at the same time.
Thanks for your posting.... and in your pictures that you just posted you look absolutely terrific and beautiful in your dress....
.... Oh, and your pictures without you wearing your ubiquitous sunglasses... thanks for showing us your eyes.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on August 11, 2018, 04:25:20 PM
@Arianna Valentine
I know from personal experience that dates for "us" and others like us can be quite fun and exciting and sometimes scary and frightening.... all at the same time.
Thanks for your posting.... and in your pictures that you just posted you look absolutely terrific and beautiful in your dress....
.... Oh, and your pictures without you wearing your ubiquitous sunglasses... thanks for showing us your eyes.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Thank you so much and this date is actually even more fun not only because I'm transgender but because he is female to male transgender as well so we both have opposite sides of the coin but it works so well with us we get along great I even went to message him and tell him thank you for how good he treats me and everything and I started tearing up I almost started crying just for telling him how good he treats me and respects me and how happy he makes me lol tears of joy. He was even afraid to kiss me he's so shy lol it's cute
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I have saw ( sorry for my English with verb tenses ) my children a full day for the first time since my transition. To make a long story short my ex wife teaches them to hate me. I went to the beach and played with them in the lake. This was also the first close contacts with them because they were climbing on me in the inflatable boat. They asked me to wear man clothes but since I don't have any I went for neutral short and t-shirt. Also no wig but my hair are slowly growing and the are colored like my wig. I did keep all my piercings, toenails polish and my woman sunglasses. This was a really nice day. I will keep adding things progressively so they get used to my new appearance without thinking they are loosing their dad. They called me daddy all day and I don't mind if they keep this name even if I am a woman. I will do anything to keep them in my life.
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Quote from: dizz on August 12, 2018, 12:06:54 AM
I have saw ( sorry for my English with verb tenses ) my children a full day for the first time since my transition. To make a long story short my ex wife teaches them to hate me. I went to the beach and played with them in the lake. This was also the first close contacts with them because they were climbing on me in the inflatable boat. They asked me to wear man clothes but since I don't have any I went for neutral short and t-shirt. Also no wig but my hair are slowly growing and the are colored like my wig. I did keep all my piercings, toenails polish and my woman sunglasses. This was a really nice day. I will keep adding things progressively so they get used to my new appearance without thinking they are loosing their dad. They called me daddy all day and I don't mind if they keep this name even if I am a woman. I will do anything to keep them in my life.
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First of all I want to say it's awesome that you got to hang out with your kids I also want to say despite what your ex-wife does it's ultimately going to be up to your kids to decide what they think so I do hope that your kids will know that even though you are transitioning to become who you were meant to be but they still have you in their life and they should be happy about that and I'm sure even though it will take time they will realize this come to appreciate that they still have you and accept it. good luck and please keep us informed.
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Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on August 09, 2018, 03:06:04 PM
@Sienna Grace
Dear Sienna: Oh no, you are an English Teacher!!!
Now I know that I need be very careful from now on about my spelling and grammar, and my word usage as I will now try harder to compose clearly understood and properly constructed comments and posts.
I certainly don't want my hand slapped by your ruler.
Thank you dear teacher.
Again, thanks for your posting.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Hi Danielle,
I promise to never correct any person's grammar in this or any other Susan's board 😂
As for smacking hands with a ruler... well darling girl, that is the eminent domain of evil maths and science teachers. In English depts we have much more subtle and effective punishments for the incorrigible xx
Have a lovely day and as always thank you for making the world a little brighter.
Si 😎
Quote from: dizz on August 12, 2018, 12:06:54 AM
I have saw ( sorry for my English with verb tenses ) my children a full day for the first time since my transition. To make a long story short my ex wife teaches them to hate me. I went to the beach and played with them in the lake. This was also the first close contacts with them because they were climbing on me in the inflatable boat. They asked me to wear man clothes but since I don't have any I went for neutral short and t-shirt. Also no wig but my hair are slowly growing and the are colored like my wig. I did keep all my piercings, toenails polish and my woman sunglasses. This was a really nice day. I will keep adding things progressively so they get used to my new appearance without thinking they are loosing their dad. They called me daddy all day and I don't mind if they keep this name even if I am a woman. I will do anything to keep them in my life.
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Hi Dizz,
Hang in there honey. It will all work out. Perhaps not in the way you might have hoped but in a better as yet unimaginable way. You are brave and your children will see that in you. They will both love and respect you for your honesty. Be kind and gentle with them while being yourself and the world will be kind to you.
Take care always.
Si xx
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 11, 2018, 03:55:20 PM
So I went on another date this time a picnic at a park by the lake lol so fun and he was such a gentleman here's my dress I wore with sandles lol(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180811/8da581068d9de48a1dd98e4f26e4907e.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180811/e36a41499c1e53ac111c11d1de2d123e.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180811/51c19fcd660de1a5812c852e6ab956c2.jpg)
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You look lovely Arianna! I love that dress. Sandals too. So glad you had fun.
Hugs!
Donica.
Quote from: dizz on August 12, 2018, 12:06:54 AM
I have saw ( sorry for my English with verb tenses ) my children a full day for the first time since my transition. To make a long story short my ex wife teaches them to hate me. I went to the beach and played with them in the lake. This was also the first close contacts with them because they were climbing on me in the inflatable boat. They asked me to wear man clothes but since I don't have any I went for neutral short and t-shirt. Also no wig but my hair are slowly growing and the are colored like my wig. I did keep all my piercings, toenails polish and my woman sunglasses. This was a really nice day. I will keep adding things progressively so they get used to my new appearance without thinking they are loosing their dad. They called me daddy all day and I don't mind if they keep this name even if I am a woman. I will do anything to keep them in my life.
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That's wonderful new Dizz. That makes me happy to hear that too. I have two kids in their mid 20's. I spent the afternoon with my daughter shopping for clothes and makeup. We also went to her favorite Beauty Salon where I got my eyebrows done. It make my heart soar to have our kids still in our lives.
Hugs!
Donica.
Quote from: dizz on August 12, 2018, 12:06:54 AM
I have saw ( sorry for my English with verb tenses ) my children a full day for the first time since my transition. To make a long story short my ex wife teaches them to hate me. I went to the beach and played with them in the lake. This was also the first close contacts with them because they were climbing on me in the inflatable boat. They asked me to wear man clothes but since I don't have any I went for neutral short and t-shirt. Also no wig but my hair are slowly growing and the are colored like my wig. I did keep all my piercings, toenails polish and my woman sunglasses. This was a really nice day. I will keep adding things progressively so they get used to my new appearance without thinking they are loosing their dad. They called me daddy all day and I don't mind if they keep this name even if I am a woman. I will do anything to keep them in my life.
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Hi Sabrina, 12 August 2018
Your English is fine, I love the accent.
You are beautiful, courageous and a winner. Do all you can to keep your children in your life; they should be of paramount importance to you. It's obvious to me your wife puts her own interests ahead of the children's. Ultimately, she will lose big time and you will win; you have already won, she's too engrossed in her hate to realize the reality and it will consume her. Sorry you have to endure this bump in the road; it will disappear in time and make you stronger; the children will see through her and it will cost her dearly.
This one statement you made says it all; you are a great parent:
"They called me daddy all day and I don't mind if they keep this name even if I am a woman. I will do anything to keep them in my life."Take care young lady; you have my admiration. God Bless you and your children.
Best Always, Love
Christine
PS:
Keep the accent, I love it.
I'm sorry Sabrina! That's the second time today I got a name wrong. Please forgive me. That's what I get for not reading the whole post >:(. muffled muffled foot in muffled muffled shoe horn muffled muffled!!!
Hugs and more hugs!
Donica.
Quote from: Donica on August 12, 2018, 03:06:47 PM
I'm sorry Sabrina! That's the second time today I got a name wrong. Please forgive me. That's what I get for not reading the whole post >:(. muffled muffled foot in muffled muffled shoe horn muffled muffled!!!
Hugs and more hugs!
Donica.
Don't worry, dizz is my nickname and I think we cannot change it. I registered here before I became Sabrina. [emoji4]
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Quote from: dizz on August 13, 2018, 07:56:44 AM
> Don't worry, dizz is my nickname and I think we cannot change it. I registered here before I became Sabrina. [emoji4]
To show which member names are currently registered there's a Search For Members (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?action=mlist;sa=search) function in the menu.
If you want to change your registered name to one that's available the Changing my name on the forum (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,196460.200.html) thread can help. ;)
Happy! For the first time ever I had a gel mani-pedi today. Loved it!
The rain makes me happy today..[emoji4]
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Yesterday I wore my bra in public for the first time. Today I'm on the beach enjoying some fun in the sun!
So I went over to my boyfriend's house today and spend a couple hours watching movies and just relaxing and cuddling oh my God cuddling was amazing but I I looked him in the eyes after kissing him and I had said I think I love you and he looked at me smiled kissed me and said I think I love you too I have been so giddy ever since and it's actually kind of funny I was driving home from his house and for some reason well I know what it was I started crying tears of joy so today has been a very good day
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 14, 2018, 10:23:18 PM
So I went over to my boyfriend's house today and spend a couple hours watching movies and just relaxing and cuddling oh my God cuddling was amazing but I I looked him in the eyes after kissing him and I had said I think I love you and he looked at me smiled kissed me and said I think I love you too I have been so giddy ever since and it's actually kind of funny I was driving home from his house and for some reason well I know what it was I started crying tears of joy so today has been a very good day
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Hi Arianna, 16 August 2018
That had to be a fantastic moment; congratulations. Best wishes to both of you for a wonderful loving future.
I love to hear stories such as yours; gives me hope for the future.
Best Always, Love
Christine
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Hi Arianna, 16 August 2018
That had to be a fantastic moment; congratulations. Best wishes to both of you for a wonderful loving future.
I love to hear stories such as yours; gives me hope for the future.
Best Always, Love
Christine
Thank you very much Christine and yes I believe that there is always hope for the future even if sometimes it does take a while like 38 years for it to come to fruition but I do hope that you find exactly what you want and what you're looking for and that it's everything you hoped it would be and if you already got it I hope it just gets better for you
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 15, 2018, 01:45:05 AM
Thank you very much Christine and yes I believe that there is always hope for the future even if sometimes it does take a while like 38 years for it to come to fruition but I do hope that you find exactly what you want and what you're looking for and that it's everything you hoped it would be and if you already got it I hope it just gets better for you
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Hi Arianna, 16 August 2018
Thank you Dear; I'm working on it; I have her all picked out, just have to behave myself. Been known to do stupid things once in a while. I have a feeling it'll work. I'm more committed than ever and she is a beautiful, super intelligent, wonderful person. Hope she doesn't find out I'm 78.
I hope she doesn't see me outing my age here. I can't find my eraser. Take care young lady. Your happiness made me happy today.
Best Always, Love
Christine
My electrologist said that I'm making really good progress.
She has another client who is at the same stage of clearance as me but she's had roughly twice as many treatments. Although I did feel bad for the other client, but we are all different I guess.
Had 4 hours this week 2 Monday and 2 Tuesday and I think it's really too much for me as I really struggled in the last half hour yesterday. I think 2 hours a week is more sensible as I look quite swollen today. ::)
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Hi Arianna, 16 August 2018
Thank you Dear; I'm working on it; I have her all picked out, just have to behave myself. Been known to do stupid things once in a while. I have a feeling it'll work. I'm more committed than ever and she is a beautiful, super intelligent, wonderful person. Hope she doesn't find out I'm 78.
I hope she doesn't see me outing my age here. I can't find my eraser. Take care young lady. Your happiness made me happy today.
Best Always, Love
Christine
You know I don't think age is really going to be an issue like my boyfriend is 46 I'm going to be 38 so I mean I know there's not a big age difference there but there's still in the age difference there that is noticeable
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 15, 2018, 03:57:33 AM
You know I don't think age is really going to be an issue like my boyfriend is 46 I'm going to be 38 so I mean I know there's not a big age difference there but there's still in the age difference there that is noticeable
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Hi Arianna, 15 August 2018
Our age gap isn't much more than yours and your boyfriend's. When you boil it all down, all that really matters is that you love each other, are both happy, you communicate with each other openly, no secrets, enjoy many of the same things, respect each other; I could go on and on. I know you get it, but there are a few that need reminding.
You mentioned "cuddling," which is really important, probably as much as, or more so than the sex act because you can do it as often and as long as you desire; the sex act has a beginning, middle and an end, it won't last all day, where cuddling can. Don't get me wrong, the sex act is the icing on the cake; there's just a finite limit to it.
Wishing you and your Boyfriend all the best life has to offer. You made me Happy again, thank you.
Best Always, Love
Christine
Quote from: christinej78 on August 15, 2018, 02:04:13 PM
Hi Arianna, 15 August 2018
Our age gap isn't much more than yours and your boyfriend's. When you boil it all down, all that really matters is that you love each other, are both happy, you communicate with each other openly, no secrets, enjoy many of the same things, respect each other; I could go on and on. I know you get it, but there are a few that need reminding.
You mentioned "cuddling," which is really important, probably as much as, or more so than the sex act because you can do it as often and as long as you desire; the sex act has a beginning, middle and an end, it won't last all day, where cuddling can. Don't get me wrong, the sex act is the icing on the cake; there's just a finite limit to it.
Wishing you and your Boyfriend all the best life has to offer. You made me Happy again, thank you.
Best Always, Love
Christine
I am glad I could help you in any way possible that is one thing I want is to help all of her sisters realize what they want achieve what they want and be happy that's what we all want and sometimes a little bit of help and that's what I like to come in and ask her who you're after like you said there's not much that's about the same age difference as me and my boyfriend go for it girl
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Quote from: VickyS on August 15, 2018, 03:40:14 AM
My electrologist said that I'm making really good progress.
Great to hear that!
This week, my electrologist said that I need to start preparing larger areas for her to zap, because the hair is thinning out so much. And the last couple of time she has worked on my upper lip, I have been able to handle it without a dental block.
Well for one I bought a tube top and I work outside today I went and saw my therapist and I told her about my boyfriend she proves but she also is happy for me but shows concern which is what she does so yeah so far life is great I awesome had to go to BestBuy to buy something for my dad and called my boyfriend and I was like hey if you want to grab lunch my treat so he raced down from his house to meet me for lunch so great day(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180816/c0f23b41d9ada917fef1d963908eebe1.jpg)
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Quote from: KathyLauren on August 15, 2018, 05:52:08 PM
Great to hear that!
This week, my electrologist said that I need to start preparing larger areas for her to zap, because the hair is thinning out so much. And the last couple of time she has worked on my upper lip, I have been able to handle it without a dental block.
Hi Kathy! Thank you. Yes, mine said the same thing as my cheeks were getting thinned out and she wanted to go for a good clearing on a larger area which is what she did. 2 hours on the right cheek on monday and 2 hours on the left cheek on tuesday. I'm a bit swollen and have been told I look a bit like a hamster at the moment. lol.
Great news on your upper lip! My electrologist wants to work on my upper lip and chin next tuesday and I'll be honest I'm dreading it. Last time my eyes watered so much it was running into my ears! Had 2 treatments on the upper lip so far so this will be the third. I have also changed from Emla cream to LMX4 which does not require covering but I'm not sure it has the same power as the emla. I changed to it because my electrologist said some of her clients said it was better than the emla...
You have so positive events here :) I'm glad for all of you :)
Mine a bit smaller. I just had a nice conversation while expressing me as female. Always loved such moments. Haven't much of it in my life :)
So my neighbor who sees me all the time saw me yesterday in my sundress and she did not know who I was she did not recognize me at all that was truly an amazing feeling for someone who's seen me everyday off and on for the past 3 years to not know who I was
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Quote from: VickyS on August 16, 2018, 04:51:16 AM
Hi Kathy! Thank you. Yes, mine said the same thing as my cheeks were getting thinned out and she wanted to go for a good clearing on a larger area which is what she did. 2 hours on the right cheek on monday and 2 hours on the left cheek on tuesday. I'm a bit swollen and have been told I look a bit like a hamster at the moment. lol.
Great news on your upper lip! My electrologist wants to work on my upper lip and chin next tuesday and I'll be honest I'm dreading it. Last time my eyes watered so much it was running into my ears! Had 2 treatments on the upper lip so far so this will be the third. I have also changed from Emla cream to LMX4 which does not require covering but I'm not sure it has the same power as the emla. I changed to it because my electrologist said some of her clients said it was better than the emla...
That's awesome.
I think my session yesterday was the first since she started working on my upper lip that she finished there and spent more of the hour elsewhere. Not quite ready to call the upper lip clear but I did have to leave it unshaven for 5 days for there to be enough this last session.
I switched to the emla from various otc 4% creams or gel. The emla has been a bit better for me.
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Quote from: TonyaW on August 16, 2018, 12:35:20 PM
That's awesome.
I think my session yesterday was the first since she started working on my upper lip that she finished there and spent more of the hour elsewhere. Not quite ready to call the upper lip clear but I did have to leave it unshaven for 5 days for there to be enough this last session.
I switched to the emla from various otc 4% creams or gel. The emla has been a bit better for me.
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Thank you Tonya! Sounds like you are really progressing well. I might switch back to the emla. Nice to know that it works better than the others for some people! Thank you. ;D
While in male mode I talked to a neighbor down the hall in my building. I live alone, but she said she thought there were two women living with me! I smiled, but then she corrected herself and realized I live alone Oh well. I definitely have the other residents a bit confused as I dress in all possible combinations lol. Not sure why this makes me happy, but I smile inwardly at sowing a bit of harmless chaos...
Last night I started on my upper lip with self electrolysis... getting my technique better... this morning ran my first 9 miler :D
Today marks one year on HRT for me. Yay - it's my first hormone-iversary!
Quote from: RandyL on August 17, 2018, 09:56:20 AM
While in male mode I talked to a neighbor down the hall in my building. I live alone, but she said she thought there were two women living with me! I smiled, but then she corrected herself and realized I live alone Oh well. I definitely have the other residents a bit confused as I dress in all possible combinations lol. Not sure why this makes me happy, but I smile inwardly at sowing a bit of harmless chaos...
you show them the world's different points of view even if it's just your little small section of the world you let them see so many different sides that there are actual people really makes you happier because you're opening their mind to other possibilities
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Quote from: Donica on August 03, 2018, 02:58:58 PM
I just got my ears pierced today! I had them pierced years ago but I let them close. I'm loving it.
One more week and I get to change out my studs for some danglies.
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Quote from: Donica on August 17, 2018, 01:21:53 PM
One more week and I get to change out my studs for some danglies.
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Wal-Mart lol cheap earrings but pretty
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 17, 2018, 01:37:48 PM
Wal-Mart lol cheap earrings but pretty
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Oh dear dear Arianna! These are actually $100 stainless steel and diamond piercing studs. The Walmart earrings will go in next week lol ;D.
Yeah I like my cheap stuff like I can break and I don't care that I broke it LOL
Quote from: Donica on August 17, 2018, 02:22:50 PM
Oh dear dear Arianna! These are actually $100 stainless steel and diamond piercing studs. The Walmart earrings will go in next week lol ;D.
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I told my mom I need to have a talk with her. She knows I'm trans and I've given many hints, but it's time to be direct. I'm ready for the backlash and I feel at ease about it no matter what happens. My life is in my hands only... I'm tired of messing it up.
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Quote from: Allison S on August 17, 2018, 02:38:33 PM
I told my mom I need to have a talk with her. She knows I'm trans and I've given many hints, but it's time to be direct. I'm ready for the backlash and I feel at ease about it no matter what happens. My life is in my hands only... I'm tired of messing it up.
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Good luck sweetie I hope it turns out just absolutely perfect for you hopefully she does fully understand or even partially and accepts it
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Quote from: Allison S on August 17, 2018, 02:38:33 PM
I told my mom I need to have a talk with her. She knows I'm trans and I've given many hints, but it's time to be direct. I'm ready for the backlash and I feel at ease about it no matter what happens. My life is in my hands only... I'm tired of messing it up.
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@Allison S Dear Allision: Wishing your well and my best wishes for you regarding your impending conversation with your mom.
Frankly, no matter how this turns our and no matter how she reacts and responds, this is good news for you.
Getting all of this on the table and out in the open will relieve you of much of the stress of pent up emotions regarding your mother's acceptance.
Again, I am wishing you well, and I will be looking for your update and report on how all of this turned out... I would also certainly enjoy reading a PM from you if you would like to update me that way as well.
Hugs and hugs and well wishes as always,
Danielle
Quote from: Allison S on August 17, 2018, 02:38:33 PM
I told my mom I need to have a talk with her. She knows I'm trans and I've given many hints, but it's time to be direct. I'm ready for the backlash and I feel at ease about it no matter what happens. My life is in my hands only... I'm tired of messing it up.
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Good luck Allison S. I really hope that it goes well for you.
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Hi, Arianna, Danielle and Molly
Thank you all very much. Your replies are very nice and help uplift me [emoji4]
I don't know when I'll open up to her. I think I've enjoyed having my little "secret" of taking hrt for the past 11 months. I think it's help me grown as a person somehow.
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Quote from: Allison S on August 17, 2018, 05:41:29 PM
Hi, Arianna, Danielle and Molly
Thank you all very much. Your replies are very nice and help uplift me [emoji4]
I don't know when I'll open up to her. I think I've enjoyed having my little "secret" of taking hrt for the past 11 months. I think it's help me grown as a person somehow.
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@Allison S Dear Allison: No matter what you decide you absolutely should know that we are all supporting you.
Please, if you will, keep us updated.
We are your biggest fans and are always wishing your sucess and wishing you well.
Hugs,
Danielle
Two things mad me happy yesterday (there we're many but these two stand out)
I'm finally met @charlie.nicki in person. It was a day of trains, planes, and automobiles but it was/is worth it! She's as awesome I'm person as she is online. (Kisses girl)
The other thing was being mis-aged by decades! And this was from someone I spent most of a very long way with. (Thanks @Kendra I'll remember that with fondness forever.)
I hope everyone can post here at the end of today!
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Two months post op. Discovered I self lubricate and am orgasmic. :)
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Stopping progesterone for me I think has helped stabilize my mood swings (so far, 2 days without it..)
Also sleeping, eating, opening up to family.. Or trying to at least. It's very hard for me
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Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on August 17, 2018, 05:56:05 PM
@Allison S
Dear Allison:
No matter what you decide you absolutely should know that we are all supporting you.
Please, if you will, keep us updated.
We are your biggest fans and are always wishing your sucess and wishing you well.
Hugs,
Danielle
Thank you Danielle [emoji173]
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Quote from: Allison S on August 18, 2018, 10:31:13 AM
Stopping progesterone for me I think has helped stabilize my mood swings (so far, 2 days without it..)
Also sleeping, eating, opening up to family.. Or trying to at least. It's very hard for me
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@Allison S Dear Allison:
Severe mood swings can affect a person in very dramatic and usually quite detrimental ways, especially when dealing with others that we come across in our daily lives... both personal relationships and in our jobs.
I am so very glad that you are getting that under control.
Regarding opening up to your family, I know that you mentioned in an earlier posting that you were going to have a "conversation" with your mom...... when are you expecting or hoping to do that??? I would love to be supporting you in my thoughts and well wishes as that is taking place. Please keep me updated.
Hugs and well wishes as always,
Danielle
Quote from: StealthStilettos on July 10, 2013, 02:23:04 PM
I finally worked up the courage to register and stop just lurking. I'm pre everything currently but hope to change that soon. I would like to also say thank you to everyone that has shared their stories and experiences. It gives me hope that I can stop living a lie and live as I truly see myself. I'm working right now so can't chat too much but just wanted to say hi!
Maybe not much today but in the last month. So, I made this post over 5 years ago, just to say hi and say out loud somewhere I was trans. And while I wouldn't generally say 5 years is soon, last month I had my first doctors visit, labs came back good and in 10 short days I go back for an appointment that will allow me to start hrt! I'm so excited and anxious, actually have been having a little trouble sleeping lol. And I know I know, its a hurry up to wait situation. But I can't express how good it feels to finally get this ball rolling. :D
So there's several things I find something that made me happy and spend the night with my boyfriend last night love. I'm also going to spend the night with him tonight as well and oh my God his dog is so adorable but she snores like a grown man. Oh and I was talking to him about Rings not to get married but kind of a promise ring or the same hey I'm with somebody and don't try to hit on me so he gave me a ring I'm so happy. Oh and there's also our first couple photo(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180818/ef35fd057b050da8818a2e4989772626.jpg)
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 18, 2018, 01:28:53 PM
So there's several things I find something that made me happy and spend the night with my boyfriend last night love. I'm also going to spend the night with him tonight as well and oh my God his dog is so adorable but she snores like a grown man. Oh and I was talking to him about Rings not to get married but kind of a promise ring or the same hey I'm with somebody and don't try to hit on me so he gave me a ring I'm so happy. Oh and there's also our first couple photo(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180818/ef35fd057b050da8818a2e4989772626.jpg)
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Dear Arianna, 18 August 2018
A handsome Boyfriend, a Beautiful Ring and a Beautiful You: You are one lucky lady.
Your post brought me tears of joy; I am so happy for you both. God Bless you both; He wants you to be happy and to help others be happy as well.
You both made me Happy today; Thank you both.
Best Always, Love
Christine
Quote from: StealthStilettos on August 18, 2018, 12:34:11 PM
Maybe not much today but in the last month. So, I made this post over 5 years ago, just to say hi and say out loud somewhere I was trans. And while I wouldn't generally say 5 years is soon, last month I had my first doctors visit, labs came back good and in 10 short days I go back for an appointment that will allow me to start hrt! I'm so excited and anxious, actually have been having a little trouble sleeping lol. And I know I know, its a hurry up to wait situation. But I can't express how good it feels to finally get this ball rolling. :D
Hi D, 18 Aug 2018
Welcome back to Susan's. I'm not the official "Welcome Wagon Lady" just the old "Good Humor Lady" ...and not very good at it either.
Lots of great help here. No idea of your age; it's never to late too start, unless they are shoveling dirt over us. Transition is a fantastic journey, mostly smooth but with a few bumps thrown in to add character to the new real us.
Enjoy the trip, the end justifies the trials and tribulations of the journey.
I officially began my journey at 77; I'm now 78 and happier than I have ever been.
Best Always, Love
Christine
Thank you, I may have had a slight detour, but its good to be back. I'm 35, wish I would have started 5 years ago, but wasn't in the cards at that time, oh well, what can ya do. But I try to focus on the positive.
Side question how many posts do I need to make before I can do things like edit my profile and add an avatar, maybe even change my name?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 18, 2018, 01:28:53 PM
So there's several things I find something that made me happy and spend the night with my boyfriend last night love. I'm also going to spend the night with him tonight as well and oh my God his dog is so adorable but she snores like a grown man. Oh and I was talking to him about Rings not to get married but kind of a promise ring or the same hey I'm with somebody and don't try to hit on me so he gave me a ring I'm so happy. Oh and there's also our first couple photo(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180818/ef35fd057b050da8818a2e4989772626.jpg)
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That is great news Arianna!!! Wow, A ring! That is so wonderful. Your boyfriend looks very loving and caring. I wish you all the best. Have a great weekend girl.
Hugs,
Donica.
Quote from: Donica on August 18, 2018, 03:01:49 PM
That is great news Arianna!!! Wow, A ring! That is so wonderful. Your boyfriend looks very loving and caring. I wish you all the best. Have a great weekend girl.
Hugs,
Donica.
He is truly the most amazing man and he makes me just as amazing
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At the pawnshop to buy my dad a laptop and the cashier called me pretty lady [emoji16](https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180818/edc20d8a3404483a6315cddd5fcbd6a8.jpg)
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@Arianna Valentine Wow-whee.... an absolutely beautiful picture of you two, and of the very nice ring.
Your story and words are most heartfelt and brought a tear... perhaps several tears to my eyes.
You look wonderful, beautiful and amazing in your posted picture.... :) ;)
Thank you for sharing this special moment with all of us here.
Hugs, and well wishes and many more happy moments for your and your boyfriend.
Danielle
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 18, 2018, 01:28:53 PM
So there's several things I find something that made me happy and spend the night with my boyfriend last night love. I'm also going to spend the night with him tonight as well and oh my God his dog is so adorable but she snores like a grown man. Oh and I was talking to him about Rings not to get married but kind of a promise ring or the same hey I'm with somebody and don't try to hit on me so he gave me a ring I'm so happy. Oh and there's also our first couple photo(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180818/ef35fd057b050da8818a2e4989772626.jpg)
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 18, 2018, 03:06:10 PM
At the pawnshop to buy my dad a laptop and the cashier called me pretty lady [emoji16](https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180818/edc20d8a3404483a6315cddd5fcbd6a8.jpg)
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@Arianna Valentine Aweee, you are a nice daughter to think of buying your dad a laptop computer. .... and being called a "nice lady" by the cashier was a big bonus... and very affirming...
I am certain that you had that big smile on your face for quite a long time after that.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: StealthStilettos on August 18, 2018, 02:45:04 PM
Thank you, I may have had a slight detour, but its good to be back. I'm 35, wish I would have started 5 years ago, but wasn't in the cards at that time, oh well, what can ya do. But I try to focus on the positive.
Side question how many posts do I need to make before I can do things like edit my profile and add an avatar, maybe even change my name?
Hi, StealthStilettos!
Welcome back to Susan's.
You can find information about minimum post counts, etc., in the links below.
Please feel free to stop by the Introductions forum (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,8.0.html) to tell the members about yourself. Here is some information that we like to share with new members:
Things that you should read
Site Terms of Service & Rules to Live By (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html) | Standard Terms & Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html) | Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.) |
Reputation rules (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,18960.0.html) | Cautionary Note (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,82221.0.html) | Photo, avatars, & signature images policy (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,59974.msg383866.html#msg383866) |
Quote from: StealthStilettos on August 18, 2018, 12:34:11 PM
Maybe not much today but in the last month. So, I made this post over 5 years ago, just to say hi and say out loud somewhere I was trans. And while I wouldn't generally say 5 years is soon, last month I had my first doctors visit, labs came back good and in 10 short days I go back for an appointment that will allow me to start hrt! I'm so excited and anxious, actually have been having a little trouble sleeping lol. And I know I know, its a hurry up to wait situation. But I can't express how good it feels to finally get this ball rolling. :D
@StealthStilettos Dear StealthStilettos
Wow, I see that you first became a member back in July of 2013, more that 5 years ago... and this is your first posting after that. I am glad that you became a member of Susan's Place and that you have shared your postings with other members here on the Forums.
I am thinking that you may lots more questions and concerns, this is the right place for you to be to find out what others have done that may have been in your circumstances.
Be aware that there are a lot of members here that can identify with your situation..
I see that our beautiful member @KathyLauren has just given you an Official Welcome message... but please allow me to also warmly WELCOME you to Susan's Place.
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes. When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new friends here.
Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.
In her Welcome Message KathyLauren included Important LINKS that will tell you about Susan's Place. Included there is information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.
Please look closely at the LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask. Please don't be a stranger, we want to share postings and thoughts with you.
Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle
@StealthStilettosOh and another thing StealthStilettos:
Please be certain to go to LINK that @KathyLauren provided for you in her Welcome Message to visit the Introductions forum (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,8.0.html) to tell the members about yourself.
Thank you again for re-joining Susan's Place.....
Danielle
To all the readers and followers of this thread......
OK now, this interruption is over...
....we just had to stop for a moment and Welcome our new Member....
NOW, back to our regularly scheduled programming......
"What made you happy today? For mtF members only, please. 4.0"
Please continue on and post about your happiness and other good things happening to you today.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on August 18, 2018, 03:09:41 PM
@Arianna Valentine
Aweee, you are a nice daughter to think of buying your dad a laptop computer. .... and being called a "nice lady" by the cashier was a big bonus... and very affirming...
I am certain that you had that big smile on your face for quite a long time after that.
Hugs,
Danielle
Sweetie I have to say this is the best weekend of my life at this point lol
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Quote from: StealthStilettos on August 18, 2018, 02:45:04 PM
Thank you, I may have had a slight detour, but its good to be back. I'm 35, wish I would have started 5 years ago, but wasn't in the cards at that time, oh well, what can ya do. But I try to focus on the positive.
Side question how many posts do I need to make before I can do things like edit my profile and add an avatar, maybe even change my name?
Hi D, 18 August 2018
You might want to ask
Alaskan Danielle as she is an Official Greeter and can give you all the info. I don't think it's too many posts before you can do everything any member can do.
Gee, 35, I turned that age in August 1975, just a couple of years ago.
Best Always, Love
Christine
Quote from: christinej78 on August 18, 2018, 04:01:06 PM
Hi D, 18 August 2018
You might want to ask Alaskan Danielle as she is an Official Greeter and can give you all the info. I don't think it's too many posts before you can do everything any member can do.
Gee, 35, I turned that age in August 1975, just a couple of years ago.
Best Always, Love
Christine
@StealthStilettos cc: @christinej78 The answers you are looking for regarding posting Avatar/profile photos, editing your profile, and changing your name are all found in the LINKS IN RED that our member @KathyLauren posted at the end of her Welcome Message to you.
Here is the specific LINK that might interest you.
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.
Any other questions please ask......
Again, Welcome back to Susan's Place after your 5 year absence.
Danielle
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 18, 2018, 03:58:15 PM
Sweetie I have to say this is the best weekend of my life at this point lol
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@Arianna Valentine I am thinking that things in your life will only get better and happier for you as you continue on.
Thank you for posting about your life events... especially the happy ones!!! :)
Please continue to keep us all updated.
Hugs,
Danielle
As for me, I've been at the beach on vacation for the past week. While here I've gone out in public wearing my trans pride shirt and bra underneath, which is a first for me; gained a little more confidence dressing as myself; and getting a lot of quiet time on my vacation. This morning I was dressed as myself and managed to walk out to my car for a joyride. I was nervous about people seeing me dressed, but I did it anyway. Of course, nobody knows me here at my vacation spot, so that helps, but still I managed to overcome that fear and that makes me happy today.
Aside from that, turned off Facebook, email accounts, and the phone. When I get back home I'll reconnect everything, but until then I've been enjoying some time away from it all!
Had a nice dinner with
@Laurie,
@Michelle_P,
@Jessica_Rose and Susan. It was my first meeting with all but Laurie...so wonderful to meet in real life with friendly, like minded people. And our waiter ma'm-ed and lady-ed us throughout :)
Quote from: RandyL on August 18, 2018, 10:29:26 PM
Had a nice dinner with @Laurie, @Michelle_P, @Jessica_Rose and Susan. It was my first meeting with all but Laurie...so wonderful to meet in real life with friendly, like minded people. And our waiter ma'm-ed and lady-ed us throughout :)
@RandyL That must have been so exciting for you to finally meet those that you have only met online here on the Forums....
.... and to be ma'm-ed and lady-ed the entire time when you all went to dinner.
Were there any pictures??? We all love to see pictures here.
The old and true saying here on the forums is:
"Pictures or it didn't happen" ;) :)
Thanks for sharing and posting....
Hugs,
Danielle
@RandyL Whoops, I just saw the picture of all of you at dinner...
it was posted my
@Michelle_P on the "You Look Fabulous Darling" thread.
Very nice photo of everyone!!!
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on August 18, 2018, 10:56:42 PM
@RandyL
That must have been so exciting for you to finally meet those that you have only met online here on the Forums....
.... and to be ma'm-ed and lady-ed the entire time when you all went to dinner.
Were there any pictures??? We all love to see pictures here.
The old and true saying here on the forums is: "Pictures or it didn't happen" ;) :)
Thanks for sharing and posting....
Hugs,
Danielle
Yup, really encouraging to meet all of them. And they all looked so great! See here (
@Michelle_P posted the picture for us)
Quote from: Michelle_P on August 18, 2018, 10:08:58 PM
Wheee! "photos or it didn't happen!"
LOL! Good times, ladies. Have fun!
Meanwhile, @Laurie, @Jessica_Rose, Susan, @RandyL, and Michelle_P were out on the town enjoying some good Italian dining.
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So me and my boyfriend decided seeing how we can't afford to go to Olive Garden for my birthday I went to the grocery store bought a frozen lasagna and some garlic bread and I called him up after I got out of the pawn shop yesterday and told him to dress nice wearing a pair of dress pants and a dress shirt that I had a surprise for him well he did and I went home and I put on my purple dress this is the first time I've ever wore it other than to try it on like it was time for the tags to come off and did my makeup up really fancy and nice and did my hair and I was pulling up to his house and I'm like he said that he was waiting outside on the front porch and I was like no you need to go back inside and no peeking out the windows so he opened the door and saw me and my beautiful purple dress black thigh high nylons pearl necklace gold dangly earrings with diamonds in them and we stayed there at his place to celebrate my birthday dinner even though it's a couple weeks away we had a nice lasagna dinner with garlic bread and we slow dance to some music that I put on my cell phone thank you YouTube and we cuddled all night long it was amazing... all day & night yesterday he was complimenting me and today out of nowhere foot massage love love love... [emoji7][emoji7][emoji7][emoji4][emoji4][emoji4]
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@Arianna Valentine There is no way that there would be any comment that I could make on your surprise birthday update to make it any sweeter or more heartfelt that the way that you wrote it.......
Very, very lovely.
The only thing missing, a picture of you all dressed up as you described in your post.
Thank you for sharing your wonderful and joyous life events with all of us.
Hugs and hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on August 19, 2018, 11:39:00 AM
So me and my boyfriend decided seeing how we can't afford to go to Olive Garden for my birthday I went to the grocery store bought a frozen lasagna and some garlic bread and I called him up after I got out of the pawn shop yesterday and told him to dress nice wearing a pair of dress pants and a dress shirt that I had a surprise for him well he did and I went home and I put on my purple dress this is the first time I've ever wore it other than to try it on like it was time for the tags to come off and did my makeup up really fancy and nice and did my hair and I was pulling up to his house and I'm like he said that he was waiting outside on the front porch and I was like no you need to go back inside and no peeking out the windows so he opened the door and saw me and my beautiful purple dress black thigh high nylons pearl necklace gold dangly earrings with diamonds in them and we stayed there at his place to celebrate my birthday dinner even though it's a couple weeks away we had a nice lasagna dinner with garlic bread and we slow dance to some music that I put on my cell phone thank you YouTube and we cuddled all night long it was amazing... all day & night yesterday he was complimenting me and today out of nowhere foot massage love love love... [emoji7][emoji7][emoji7][emoji4][emoji4][emoji4]
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Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on August 19, 2018, 01:52:06 PM
@Arianna Valentine
There is no way that there would be any comment that I could make on your surprise birthday update to make it any sweeter or more heartfelt that the way that you wrote it.......
Very, very lovely.
The only thing missing, a picture of you all dressed up as you described in your post.
Thank you for sharing your wonderful and joyous life events with all of us.
Hugs and hugs,
Danielle
I too wish I took a picture but I forgot and my high heels killing me they hurt the toes... LOL I think I was a little too involved in the moment to worry about a picture or anything I was just enjoying the moment...
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Hi everyone!
I have an appointment with my therapist this morning. It's time to make everything official. I originally made this appointment to get a referral for voice feminization therapy. But now I also want to officially begin my RLE, legally change my name and gender marker. I am also going to start the ball rolling for GCS. I have already started presenting as female so I will be in full dress. I'm so happy!!! I will give you all an update when I get back.
Wish me luck!
Hugs,
Donica.
Hi Donica,
Congratulations on taking such a big step. So many things hinging from this point, celebrate it well. And of course, best of luck throughout this day and as your journey progresses. Please keep us updated.
Tia Anne
The cool breeze feels so nice and the strong coffee. I think today will be wonderful.
Quote from: Anne Blake on August 20, 2018, 08:25:51 AM
Hi Donica,
Congratulations on taking such a big step. So many things hinging from this point, celebrate it well. And of course, best of luck throughout this day and as your journey progresses. Please keep us updated.
Tia Anne
Hi Tia Anne, 20 August 2018
I just saw your avatar for the first time. You and Deb look fabulous; I'm envious big time.
Looking forward to seeing you and hopefully Deb on your next visit to Texas.
Best Always, All My Love, Always
Your Sister Christine
Boobs ... I know, nothing really new, I've had them for a while now (plus recent burst) but this morning ....
I was all dressed, finalizing my lunch gathering to head to work, Lori was standing there. I looked down and back up at her and I said, "I have boobs". She replied simply, "yes you do". I almost giggled. I'm still up from it 6 1/2 hours later.
I hope it never gets old, I don't want to 'get used to them' ... just sayin'
Quote from: Donica on August 20, 2018, 08:05:49 AM
Hi everyone!
I have an appointment with my therapist this morning. It's time to make everything official. I originally made this appointment to get a referral for voice feminization therapy. But now I also want to officially begin my RLE, legally change my name and gender marker. I am also going to start the ball rolling for GCS. I have already started presenting as female so I will be in full dress. I'm so happy!!! I will give you all an update when I get back.
Wish me luck!
Hugs,
Donica.
Donica, Wow!! An entire set of decisions you've made, and so much to be happy for! Congratulations.
Quote from: Donica on August 20, 2018, 08:05:49 AM
Hi everyone!
I have an appointment with my therapist this morning. It's time to make everything official. I originally made this appointment to get a referral for voice feminization therapy. But now I also want to officially begin my RLE, legally change my name and gender marker. I am also going to start the ball rolling for GCS. I have already started presenting as female so I will be in full dress. I'm so happy!!! I will give you all an update when I get back.
Wish me luck!
Hugs,
Donica.
@Donica This is wonderful news... wishing your well with your appointment this morning.
I hope that you are aware of a
very important RULE here on the Forums.
Updates are always required after a member posts a good-news message regarding an upcoming appointment.
Thank you for sharing and for posting.....
Hugs and well wishes with your appointment...
Danielle
Quote from: Faith on August 20, 2018, 11:23:39 AM
Boobs ... I know, nothing really new, I've had them for a while now (plus recent burst) but this morning ....
I was all dressed, finalizing my lunch gathering to head to work, Lori was standing there. I looked down and back up at her and I said, "I have boobs". She replied simply, "yes you do". I almost giggled. I'm still up from it 6 1/2 hours later.
I hope it never gets old, I don't want to 'get used to them' ... just sayin'
@Faith This is wonderful news and very wonderful to hear from you.... as you gain more confidence in your transition journey I can see already your much more positive attitude about heading for you goals.
Thank you for your "happy" post and I am looking for more of them to come from you.
Hugs,
Danielle
Hi everyone!!!
An update for this mornings appointment with my therapist. I have great news. My therapist has sent a referral for voice feminization therapy. And because I have been presenting as Donica for a little more than a month, He set the start date for my RLE to July 15, 2018. He gave me all the paper work I need to legally change my name and gender markers, plus to apply for a new birth certificate. I also learned a few other very importent things about my insurance coverage. As well as GCS, they also cover tracheal shave, BA and FFS :o. I had no idea so i've never looked into FFS. So I need to do the research, but my therapist has sent in a referral for FFS. I'm a little unsure about it but I'm sure I will benifit from it.
I am soooo much happerier now, so that I stopped by the grocery store to stock up on food. No one even batted an eye at me and check out lady was very very polite. I didn't get a "ma'am, but I didn't get a sir either. Oh yes, I learned something about wearing ankle length shirts. You can't walk up and down stairs with your hands full of groceries lol ;).
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I'm so very happy. I'm on my way :D.
Lots of hugs,
Donica.
Quote from: Donica on August 20, 2018, 02:17:09 PM
Hi everyone!!!
An update for this mornings appointment with my therapist. I have great news. My therapist has sent a referral for voice feminization therapy. And because I have been presenting as Donica for a little more than a month, He set the start date for my RLE to July 15, 2018. He gave me all the paper work I need to legally change my name and gender markers, plus to apply for a new birth certificate. I also learned a few other very importent things about my insurance coverage. As well as GCS, they also cover tracheal shave, BA and FFS :o. I had no idea so i've never looked into FFS. So I need to do the research, but my therapist has sent in a referral for FFS. I'm a little unsure about it but I'm sure I will benifit from it.
I am soooo much happerier now, so that I stopped by the grocery store to stock up on food. No one even batted an eye at me and check out lady was very very polite. I didn't get a "ma'am, but I didn't get a sir either. Oh yes, I learned something about wearing ankle length shirts. You can't walk up and down stairs with your hands full of groceries lol ;).
(https://i.imgur.com/Gcyg6O5.jpg)
I'm so very happy. I'm on my way :D.
Lots of hugs,
Donica.
That is an amazing update I am so happy for you and good luck on the rest of your journey enjoy every step of it [emoji16][emoji16][emoji16]
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Quote from: Donica on August 20, 2018, 02:17:09 PM
Hi everyone!!!
An update for this mornings appointment with my therapist. I have great news. My therapist has sent a referral for voice feminization therapy. And because I have been presenting as Donica for a little more than a month, He set the start date for my RLE to July 15, 2018. He gave me all the paper work I need to legally change my name and gender markers, plus to apply for a new birth certificate. I also learned a few other very importent things about my insurance coverage. As well as GCS, they also cover tracheal shave, BA and FFS :o. I had no idea so i've never looked into FFS. So I need to do the research, but my therapist has sent in a referral for FFS. I'm a little unsure about it but I'm sure I will benifit from it.
I am soooo much happerier now, so that I stopped by the grocery store to stock up on food. No one even batted an eye at me and check out lady was very very polite. I didn't get a "ma'am, but I didn't get a sir either. Oh yes, I learned something about wearing ankle length shirts. You can't walk up and down stairs with your hands full of groceries lol ;).
(https://i.imgur.com/Gcyg6O5.jpg)
I'm so very happy. I'm on my way :D.
Lots of hugs,
Donica.
Go Donica go! Wow, I wish I had your insurance! All mine covers is GCS. Congratulations!
Stephanie
Quote from: Faith on August 20, 2018, 11:23:39 AM
Boobs ... I know, nothing really new, I've had them for a while now (plus recent burst) but this morning ....
I was all dressed, finalizing my lunch gathering to head to work, Lori was standing there. I looked down and back up at her and I said, "I have boobs". She replied simply, "yes you do". I almost giggled. I'm still up from it 6 1/2 hours later.
I hope it never gets old, I don't want to 'get used to them' ... just sayin'
Faith, isn't that just so much fun, so neat! Mine have been growing (slowly) for a couple of years and have just had a little growth spurt.....wow, I can so relate to your excitement. And I agree, I never want to "get used to them"! BTW, Debi used to say that hers were just another body part, the magic had gotten old. With my enjoyment of my girls, she is beginning to love her breasts again. She says that so many things that are magic and new to me are reminding her about the magic of her own femininity. It must be contagious.
Enjoy your bumps (I know that I am loving mine),
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on August 20, 2018, 05:29:39 PMWith my enjoyment of my girls, she is beginning to love her breasts again. She says that so many things that are magic and new to me are reminding her about the magic of her own femininity. It must be contagious.
Oh, that is lovely! I have a big smile on my face now. :D
Quote from: KathyLauren on August 20, 2018, 07:03:30 PM
Oh, that is lovely! I have a big smile on my face now. :D
Me Too :D So much so that I made certain that Lori read Tia Anne's reply as well.
Thank you everyone for your warm well wishes. One thing that caught me by surprise was I can't get approval for genital hair removal until one year of RLE? So it looks like it will be at least 1-1/2 years before I get my GCS. Oh well, I have enough on my plate for now. I'm sure I will need the extra half year.
Faith! Congratulations on your boobs!!!
Hugs,
Donica.
Quote from: Faith on August 20, 2018, 11:23:39 AM
Boobs ... I know, nothing really new, I've had them for a while now (plus recent burst) but this morning ....
I was all dressed, finalizing my lunch gathering to head to work, Lori was standing there. I looked down and back up at her and I said, "I have boobs". She replied simply, "yes you do". I almost giggled. I'm still up from it 6 1/2 hours later.
I hope it never gets old, I don't want to 'get used to them' ... just sayin'
Isn't it awesome? Beats the crap out of "I kinda of think I can sorta see something."
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Quote from: gingerViktorKay on August 20, 2018, 08:49:01 AM
The cool breeze feels so nice and the strong coffee. I think today will be wonderful.
This! Good morning :D
Yesterday while hiking in Sedona, an older gent coming the other way on the trail stopped to try and chat up Laurie and I. I think he was making a bit of a pass at Laurie.
Nothing came of it, but it was a very affirmative experience.
My mom complimented me out of the blue... It was very random but nice
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Quote from: Allison S on August 25, 2018, 06:26:53 PM
My mom complimented me out of the blue... It was very random but nice
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@Allison S Dear Allison:
That indeed is a very happy and nice thing to happen.... I am certain that felt good coming from your mother.
I have not been so fortunate to have any acceptance from my mom and dad... yet.... I say yet because i am not giving up.... but the good and happy news for me is the acceptance that I am getting where I am now.
I am a happy camper for sure.
Again, thanks for your "happy" post today... such wonderful thing regarding your mom and you.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Allison S on August 25, 2018, 06:26:53 PM
My mom complimented me out of the blue... It was very random but nice
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Random nice comments...lovely to get but even more special when they come from your Mom. :D
Got out to pick up prescriptions and a few groceries and do some walking with out the boys hanging around any more. Feels wonderful having the extra room and when the swelling goes down it should look great in tight pants.
My wife put me in for a free makeup consultation with someone trying to build up their portfolio. The makeup consultant was so sweet and helped me learn contouring and highlighting. I was so frickin happy with the outcome. Went to my group and got lots of looks lol. Then, I got to see a friend from FB who is also part of SPART*A. She just got her GCS and is in recovery mode. She finally got to get up and walk around today. What a nice day. :)
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on August 25, 2018, 09:24:03 PM
@Allison S
Dear Allison:
That indeed is a very happy and nice thing to happen.... I am certain that felt good coming from your mother.
I have not been so fortunate to have any acceptance from my mom and dad... yet.... I say yet because i am not giving up.... but the good and happy news for me is the acceptance that I am getting where I am now.
I am a happy camper for sure.
Again, thanks for your "happy" post today... such wonderful thing regarding your mom and you.
Hugs,
Danielle
I think you will get there sooner than you think... You're the kindest person around... I'm happy you have people around you who are loving and supportive. [emoji173]
Quote from: LizK on August 25, 2018, 10:26:33 PM
Random nice comments...lovely to get but even more special when they come from your Mom. :D
Yes! It was definitely nice and special in the moment [emoji4] one that I'll remember..
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Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on August 25, 2018, 09:24:03 PM
Hugs,
Danielle
What makes me happy today. Seeing Danielle continue to directly care and support so many of us with her positive personality and smile. Her wonderful posts are everywhere. There are people who make the world a better place for all.
Quote from: Kendra on August 26, 2018, 11:09:41 AM
What makes me happy today. Seeing Danielle continue to directly care and support so many of us with her positive personality and smile. Her wonderful posts are everywhere. There are people who make the world a better place for all.
@Kendra Dear Kendra...
Aweee... gee whiz... thank you for your way too kind words.
I am blushing big time and I am so appreciative of you and also all the members here on the Forums... you all are "family" to me.
Thank you for all for your support.
I feel the ❤️ love for sure and I am very appreciative.
I AM SO VERY HAPPY TO BE HERE!!!
Hugs and best wishes to all.
Danielle
Quote from: SiobhánF on August 26, 2018, 12:56:40 AM
My wife put me in for a free makeup consultation with someone trying to build up their portfolio. The makeup consultant was so sweet and helped me learn contouring and highlighting. I was so frickin happy with the outcome. Went to my group and got lots of looks lol. Then, I got to see a friend from FB who is also part of SPART*A. She just got her GCS and is in recovery mode. She finally got to get up and walk around today. What a nice day. :)
@SiobhánF - That is awesome! - and you look beautiful in your avatar photo - is that from the makeup session when you were taught or you did this yourself? What a lovely thing your wife did for you.
Sonja.
This morning's staff meeting at work included one of the founders of the local Transgender Resource Center presenting an excellent Trans 101 to around a hundred of my fellow employees. Also, I finally completed, assembled, and mailed off the required paperwork to get the gender marker on my birth certificate corrected to "female"!
Yay!!!!!!!!
I recently straightened my hair so I've been wearing it straight while I interview for jobs... But I kinda miss my natural hair. I was looking at this pic, even though it's short and not styled in anyway, I like how it air dried here... It gives me hope I may like my hair (most of my hair... I have hair loss at my hairline..). Don't mind the alien face lol they're everywhere [emoji23](https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180829/6c3a14950010d10b08f7270d8eeb998a.jpg)
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@Allison S Dear Allison:I for one, love your curly dark hair... those with straight hair like myself always envy those with curly hair...
... and those with curly hair like yourself seem to envy straight hair.... I guess that the old saying "The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence" is so very true.
You are looking good Allison, but your Alien looking face in your picture that you posted will draw possibly unwanted attention to yourself. LOL ;)
Hugs, and well wishes, and thank you for posting your comment and picture.
DanielleQuote from: Allison S on August 28, 2018, 07:56:38 PM
I recently straightened my hair so I've been wearing it straight while I interview for jobs... But I kinda miss my natural hair. I was looking at this pic, even though it's short and not styled in anyway, I like how it air dried here... It gives me hope I may like my hair (most of my hair... I have hair loss at my hairline..). Don't mind the alien face lol they're everywhere [emoji23](https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180829/6c3a14950010d10b08f7270d8eeb998a.jpg)
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Lol everyone was telling me to straighten my hair so I had my sister do it for me the first time. Well I wish my hair stayed like that in my photo but it just becomes a huge drizzy mess later in the day and especially the next day... Lately I just wanna look presentable I guess
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Quote from: Allison S on August 29, 2018, 05:10:34 AM
> I wish my hair stayed like that in my photo but it just becomes a huge drizzy mess later in the day and especially the next day
I solved this with "Brazilian Blowout" chemical straightening at a salon every few months - basically a reverse perm. Also sometimes called Liscio or Japanese Hair Straightening, popular in regions with high humidity.
Quote from: Kendra on August 29, 2018, 11:07:40 AM
I solved this with "Brazilian Blowout" chemical straightening at a salon every few months - basically a reverse perm. Also sometimes called Liscio or Japanese Hair Straightening, popular in regions with high humidity.
Ohh yes thanks! My hair actually does stay straight enough and easy to maintain usually... I meant that I wish my natural wavy/curly hair stays looking good longer after it air dries.. I know I could use products and maybe even hairspray so that my hair holds before it "poofs", but I'd rather not use all that since my hair is fairly soft... But yes I think when my hair gets longer if it's harder to manage and keep straight when I want that I'll turn to the brazilian blowout [emoji4]
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Quote from: Sonja on August 27, 2018, 07:06:45 PM
@SiobhánF - That is awesome! - and you look beautiful in your avatar photo - is that from the makeup session when you were taught or you did this yourself? What a lovely thing your wife did for you.
Sonja.
Yes, that is from the session. I agree, she did such a lovely thing for me and I'm forever grateful. Thank you! ^_^
I went to the pharmacy today and there were two older gentleman in front of me one of them invited me to church as a woman said I could go to the ladies meeting the other one asked me if I was a mother I said yes and he told me a joke but what made me happy about it is he automatically assumed I was a mother didn't say Sir asked me if I was a guy or anyting just ask me if I was a mother and if I had any children lol felt so good
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Quote from: Allison S on August 28, 2018, 07:56:38 PM
I recently straightened my hair so I've been wearing it straight while I interview for jobs... But I kinda miss my natural hair. I was looking at this pic, even though it's short and not styled in anyway, I like how it air dried here... It gives me hope I may like my hair (most of my hair... I have hair loss at my hairline..). Don't mind the alien face lol they're everywhere [emoji23](https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180829/6c3a14950010d10b08f7270d8eeb998a.jpg)
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It takes a LOT of effort to make my naturally straight hair do that. And it never stays for long.
Ah the duality of womanhood...
I just went to my first trans support group meeting last Thursday night. It was so wonder to finally meet and talk with other trans people in person. This group meet weekly and I will definitely be going back. I will also be checking out another trans support group that meets twice a month. I sure could of used this after this mornings events. But I posted about that in another thread. I'm still waiting for my VFT and FFS approvals but after speaking with folks in the group, I understand now why it's taking so long.
Hugs,
Donica.
Quote from: Donica on August 31, 2018, 02:34:07 PM
I just went to my first trans support group meeting last Thursday night. It was so wonder to finally meet and talk with other trans people in person. This group meet weekly and I will definitely be going back. I will also be checking out another trans support group that meets twice a month. I sure could of used this after this mornings events. But I posted about that in another thread. I'm still waiting for my VFT and FFS approvals but after speaking with folks in the group, I understand now why it's taking so long.
Hugs,
Donica.
@Donica Dear Donica:
Well, this is great news about your support group and even another support group that you may be attending...
Of course we all need as much support as we can get..... that is the exact reason that you, I and other Susan's Place forums members are here, for support from each other.
Regarding your other post regarding your less pleasant day, I have read your post on the "unhappy" thread and have replied to your comment there.
Waiting for your VFT and FFS approvals can indeed take more time than the patience that any of us have. Hang in there, in due time you will get your answers.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
It's not yet noon, but so far...
Waking up next to my beautiful, supportive partner started today in the happiest way. Our love has made this journey so much more fruitful and bearable than it would have been otherwise :icon_love:
Quote from: Allison S on August 29, 2018, 05:10:34 AM
Lol everyone was telling me to straighten my hair so I had my sister do it for me the first time. Well I wish my hair stayed like that in my photo but it just becomes a huge drizzy mess later in the day and especially the next day... Lately I just wanna look presentable I guess
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Uuuuugh I feel your pain. This hair is naturally thin, curly/wavy, frizzy, and tangles when someone sneezes from across the room.
I have found a few techniques that work, but if I'm not planning to straighten it then letting it dry in a braid is the best. I'm still experimenting with various products/combinations to make it as maintainable as possible.
Quote from: ds1987 on September 01, 2018, 11:17:26 AM
Uuuuugh I feel your pain. This hair is naturally thin, curly/wavy, frizzy, and tangles when someone sneezes from across the room.
I have found a few techniques that work, but if I'm not planning to straighten it then letting it dry in a braid is the best. I'm still experimenting with various products/combinations to make it as maintainable as possible.
I just tried dove shampoo and conditioner and honestly I have to say it works pretty well. At least for my hair. I tried because a lot of people I came across suggested it... I'm kind of suprised my hair isn't a big poof ball yet lol I washed it yesterday..
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Had a great full day in my only dress and it was the best day I've had in a very long time. My wife and I took our boys out for our son's birthday celebration at the movies and IHOP. I even got ma'am'd while being handed my food. Ooh, I'm over the moon about it. :)
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Hi Folks, 02 September 2018
What made me happy today? My Best Friend!!!
Best Always, Love
Chris
Quote from: SiobhánF on September 01, 2018, 08:50:31 PM
Had a great full day in my only dress and it was the best day I've had in a very long time. My wife and I took our boys out for our son's birthday celebration at the movies and IHOP. I even got ma'am'd while being handed my food. Ooh, I'm over the moon about it. :)
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Whoohoo SiobhánF! How wonderful to enjoy you son's birthday as you. Wow! Why wouldn't they ma'am you. You look fabulous!
Hugs,
Donica.
Today is still young, so being able to breath and put my feet on the floor this morning is my happy so far today. [emoji2]
As for yesterday, I bought my first real wig and a new dress and necklace. I actually had enough confidence to go shopping, even without makeup, shaving legs, or close shave of the shadow.
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This truly made me happy! I was on cloud nine!
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Quote from: KellyMarieinAZ on September 02, 2018, 01:28:29 PM
As for yesterday, I bought my first real wig and a new dress and necklace. I actually had enough confidence to go shopping, even without makeup, shaving legs, or close shave of the shadow.
Yay Kelly Marie! I need to get a new wig, and haven't been able to bring myself to do it yet. Way to go, and without obsessing about makeup, shaving... You are doing it (and you look great in your new wig)!
@SiobhánF
Hi Siobhán, That is so lovely, a great day with your family indeed, and you look positively singular!
Take care,
Sonja.
Quote from: RandyL on September 02, 2018, 04:00:53 PM
Yay Kelly Marie! I need to get a new wig, and haven't been able to bring myself to do it yet. Way to go, and without obsessing about makeup, shaving... You are doing it (and you look great in your new wig)!
@RandyL Well, just what are you waiting for.... after you get your new wig we are all going to be eager to see your new picture
with you wearing it !!!!!!!! :)
Thanks for your heads up.... we will all be waiting. ;)
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
@SiobhánFHey girl, you are looking terrific... I love how you look in your "only" dress. Oh, and getting ma'am'd at the restaurant...
...that must have made your feel quite good. How did your wife react to that???
Hmm, soon it may be time to get some more dresses and warmer dresses as the colder weather starts arriving.
Thank you for posting your great pictures and for your encouraging comments.
Please continue with your updates.
Hugs,
Danielle Quote from: SiobhánF on September 01, 2018, 08:50:31 PM
Had a great full day in my only dress and it was the best day I've had in a very long time. My wife and I took our boys out for our son's birthday celebration at the movies and IHOP. I even got ma'am'd while being handed my food. Ooh, I'm over the moon about it. :)
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@KellyMarieinAZ What you reported is really good news... getting out there fully presenting as a female is quite an adventure... initially of course it can not only be exciting but also very scary. As you do it more and more, and build your confidence it then becomes easier as you refine your look and your body movements....
Thanks for your post and for your picture.... keep on keeping on...
I will be looking for more of your posts and updates.
Hugs, and well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: KellyMarieinAZ on September 02, 2018, 01:28:29 PM
Today is still young, so being able to breath and put my feet on the floor this morning is my happy so far today. [emoji2]
As for yesterday, I bought my first real wig and a new dress and necklace. I actually had enough confidence to go shopping, even without makeup, shaving legs, or close shave of the shadow.
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This truly made me happy! I was on cloud nine!
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Quote from: RandyL on September 02, 2018, 04:00:53 PM
Yay Kelly Marie! I need to get a new wig, and haven't been able to bring myself to do it yet. Way to go, and without obsessing about makeup, shaving... You are doing it (and you look great in your new wig)!
Thanks Randy. Go for the wig. You won't regret what it will do for your confidence, especially getting one that isn't the cheap costume wigs from the Halloween store. I've tried those in the past and never really felt like they helped the look. This one, OTOH, feels natural and looks amazing.
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Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on September 02, 2018, 05:45:26 PM
@KellyMarieinAZ
What you reported is really good news... getting out there fully presenting as a female is quite an adventure... initially of course it can not only be exciting but also very scary. As you do it more and more, and build your confidence it then becomes easier as you refine your look and your body movements....
Thanks for your post and for your picture.... keep on keeping on...
I will be looking for more of your posts and updates.
Hugs, and well wishes,
Danielle
Thanks for the kind words, Danielle. I think I'll be starting up a transition thread soon to track my progress.
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Quote from: RandyL on September 02, 2018, 04:00:53 PM
Yay Kelly Marie! I need to get a new wig, and haven't been able to bring myself to do it yet. Way to go, and without obsessing about makeup, shaving... You are doing it (and you look great in your new wig)!
Randy, I don't know what is available for wig sources in C'Springs but if you make it up to Littleton at all, Hana Designs has a great selection and Hana is very trans friendly.
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on September 02, 2018, 07:14:45 PM
Randy, I don't know what is available for wig sources in C'Springs but if you make it up to Littleton at all, Hana Designs has a great selection and Hana is very trans friendly.
Tia Anne
Thanks Tia. That advice is about the best way to get me off dead-in-the-water with the sails luffing. I'll go up there after my backpack trip :)
Randy
Thanks, y'all! I appreciate that! ^_^
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on September 02, 2018, 05:38:25 PM
@SiobhánF
Hey girl, you are looking terrific... I love how you look in your "only" dress. Oh, and getting ma'am'd at the restaurant...
...that must have made your feel quite good. How did your wife react to that???
Hmm, soon it may be time to get some more dresses and warmer dresses as the colder weather starts arriving.
Thank you for posting your great pictures and for your encouraging comments.
Please continue with your updates.
Hugs,
Danielle
Oh, my wife didn't even notice, but whatever. lol. Speaking of getting more dresses, I went out and got another one, but much shorter (it's friggin hot here in AZ!), and some jeans.
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Quote from: SiobhánF on September 02, 2018, 08:24:16 PM
Thanks, y'all! I appreciate that! ^_^
Oh, my wife didn't even notice, but whatever. lol. Speaking of getting more dresses, I went out and got another one, but much shorter (it's friggin hot here in AZ!), and some jeans.
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GIRL! You look amazing!
It's definitely hot here in AZ. Thankfully, we're heading into cooler temps.
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Quote from: KellyMarieinAZ on September 02, 2018, 09:58:05 PM
GIRL! You look amazing!
It's definitely hot here in AZ. Thankfully, we're heading into cooler temps.
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Yeah! It is. I felt it last night before I went on a run. It's getting closer to fall. :3
Quote from: SiobhánF on September 02, 2018, 11:01:37 PM
Yeah! It is. I felt it last night before I went on a run. It's getting closer to fall. :3
@SiobhánF LOL - I just had a massive blonde moment, So I'm looking at your new photos thinking you look great in your new Dress! it looks very cute on you! jeans look great too! - BUT why does she look different, she's done something, I'm studying your hair, hmmmm, after ages - OH You're not wearing glasses in your pic!!! Yes - you look great! Summer dresses could really help you in hot weather - how hot does it get where you live?
Take care,
Sonja.
Quote from: Sonja on September 02, 2018, 11:29:13 PM
@SiobhánF LOL - I just had a massive blonde moment, So I'm looking at your new photos thinking you look great in your new Dress! it looks very cute on you! jeans look great too! - BUT why does she look different, she's done something, I'm studying your hair, hmmmm, after ages - OH You're not wearing glasses in your pic!!! Yes - you look great! Summer dresses could really help you in hot weather - how hot does it get where you live?
Take care,
Sonja.
Lol! Yeah, that'll do it. The highest it's gotten this year is 115° F. Even if it hasn't gotten that hot recently, it still gets hot af. Not very comfy to be walking around. Took my kids to Marshalls and Ross, and the short walk to the store made me hot. Even inside the store, it was not very comfortable. That blue dress is long and traps heat. Oof.
Thanks for the compliments. I appreciate that. :)
Just got home from Doctor. Got my first hormone shot. Now the slow change starts.
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got mistaken for my female coworker while on the phone today
Quote from: Faith on September 04, 2018, 01:16:56 PM
got mistaken for my female coworker while on the phone today
@Faith Dear Faith:WOW, this is absolutely great news.... there is not much that is more affirming than a "blind" passing test.... on the phone, they could not see you but your voice was obviously feminine and passing as female!!!!!
Write this down in your journal!!! Terrific news for sure.
Thanks for posting and sharing.
Hugs and hugs and hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Faith on September 04, 2018, 01:16:56 PM
got mistaken for my female coworker while on the phone today
Cool! Now THAT is some pretty potent validation, Faith!
Congratulations
Michelle & Laurie
Quote from: Faith on September 04, 2018, 01:16:56 PM
got mistaken for my female coworker while on the phone today
... they can not only see "her" but now they can even hear "her"!!!! :)
This isn't transition related, but I walked 5 miles today. This booty is tired.
I visited my Endocrinologist for the first time today, just waiting for a few lab results before I get my first Estradiol injection sometime next week, can't wait! I've been waiting like, basically my whole life for this ^_^
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Quote from: gingerViktorKay on September 04, 2018, 07:24:14 PM
This isn't transition related, but I walked 5 miles today. This booty is tired.
I don't think this topic has to have something to do with transitioning if walking makes you feel good then it made you happy today and congratulations the furthest I've ever made it was 4 miles lol
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Well after my Doctor retired back in July I got a call that he did refer me to another doctor and I have an appointment February 25 2019, so that worked out.
Quote from: CuriousCat94x on September 05, 2018, 10:53:00 PM
I visited my Endocrinologist for the first time today, just waiting for a few lab results before I get my first Estradiol injection sometime next week, can't wait! I've been waiting like, basically my whole life for this ^_^
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CuriousCat94x -
OOH Exciting!!!!! How is the name hunt coming along?
Take care,
Sonja.
I just got my first appointment for voice therapy this morning for the 18th of this month. I also made contact with transgender care and sent in my facial profile pictures for FFS. This day has just turned into A 10.
Hugs,
Donica.
Quote from: Sonja on September 06, 2018, 04:22:25 AM
CuriousCat94x - OOH Exciting!!!!!
How is the name hunt coming along?
Take care,
Sonja.
Yes Sonja, very exiting, at one point I was answering one of her questions and mid sentence I forgot what I was saying, I was just very exited to be there! [emoji846] actually I think that happened a lot throughout my visit haha I had a bunch of questions to ask, but my excitement got the better of me and I only remembered a few. Now I have them written down for my next appointment.
I'm still really trying to figure out the name thing, sometimes I wonder if I should change my name at all. Then I realize that my name only has a masculine variant and I feel like crying because it's not easy. Crying won't help so I continue the search, it's somewhere in my mind, I just need to find it. I have about 6 months because after that I'll look more and more feminine [emoji846]
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Quote from: CuriousCat94x on September 06, 2018, 01:01:21 PM
> Then I realize that my name only has a masculine variant
Names have a cultural meaning or history that isn't always clear and there may be several correct answers. If you've run into this, step back and think about the root-origin of your past/present name and see if that translates into another language... something connected to your ethnic heritage, or maybe not.
My previous name (Ken) was chosen by my parents because it's both western and Japanese - there's a Kanji character for Ken. I was a bit hesitant to lose that unique aspect. But I am half Welsh and my new name has Welsh origins. Just some ideas.
I stopped at the store to get a sweet tea and I held the door open for an older gentleman so he could walk out and then he said well now it's my turn to hold the door for you go on ahead young lady [emoji16] I am rocking it like a prom date today lol (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180907/6ad386c58f1502bc9bd020c34b3f52fa.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180907/f9f6aa906a677fe1bcc053739b0eb129.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180907/33cba04448c365dd29e12bd4b2666ca8.jpg)
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I spent the morning at the courthouse filing all my legal documents for name and gender change. It took all morning but I got it done. Wow!
Hugs,
Donica.
Quote from: Kendra on September 06, 2018, 01:18:53 PM
Names have a cultural meaning or history that isn't always clear and there may be several correct answers. If you've run into this, step back and think about the root-origin of your past/present name and see if that translates into another language... something connected to your ethnic heritage, or maybe not.
My previous name (Ken) was chosen by my parents because it's both western and Japanese - there's a Kanji character for Ken. I was a bit hesitant to lose that unique aspect. But I am half Welsh and my new name has Welsh origins. Just some ideas.
Not sure if we should continue this conversation in this thread, but anyways I figured out that my name means wolf, a famous one at that lol Now it's time to lookup names about wolves, in female edition haha. I prefer cats though, felines in general so.... maybe I'll transition from canine to feline as well? [emoji81]
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Quote from: CuriousCat94x on September 07, 2018, 04:44:21 PM
> I prefer cats though, felines in general so.... maybe I'll transition from canine to feline as well? [emoji81]
I did that with the help of Dr. Ley at the Meltzer Clinic.
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/iwkj80z7hx36z5t/2018-07-09%2008.24.38.jpg?raw=1)
Quote from: Kendra on September 07, 2018, 05:18:34 PM
I did that with the help of Dr. Ley at the Meltzer Clinic.
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Wow you are so very beautiful, congratulations! [emoji846]
I'm not sure I'm following correctly, but yes I do plan on changing that too [emoji6]
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Awww - thank you! <blushing>
I stopped at Kohl's on a whim and had a lovely conversation with the woman at the jewelry counter. Then, I browed the women's department and found two t-shirts that I just had to buy. I recently discovered V-neck t-shirts, and I love them; previously, all my t-shirts have been crew-necked. One is short-sleeved and plain white, which I find elegant; often, I think, less is more. The other is long-sleeved and has a complex pattern in pleasing colors and sparkles! I can't wait for an excuse to wear them.
First Pride event (Derby), but too late for parade (Nails made me late.... and they still messed up..pah!!!) but the rest of it was really good and made loads of friends that I know will stand the passing of time.
Loving it all
Luv n Hugz
Katie
:angel: :angel: :angel: :angel: :angel: :-* :-* ;D ;D ;D :angel:
Quote from: Katie Jade on September 08, 2018, 05:09:50 PM
First Pride event (Derby), but too late for parade (Nails made me late.... and they still messed up..pah!!!) but the rest of it was really good and made loads of friends that I know will stand the passing of time.
Loving it all
Luv n Hugz
Katie
:angel: :angel: :angel: :angel: :angel: :-* :-* ;D ;D ;D :angel:
That's great Katie. I wish we could have one a little closer to where I live (half way between San Francisco and San Diego). It's an expensive weekend ordeal for me. Perhaps one day.
Oh dear!!! Where's my head? I just missed the LA Pride 2018 in West Hollywood. That's close enough to drive out both days. I'll definitely be going to next years event.
Donica.
Quote from: Kendra on September 07, 2018, 05:18:34 PM
I did that with the help of Dr. Ley at the Meltzer Clinic.
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Hay! It's Kendra's birthday today!
Happy Birthday Kendra!Warm birthday hugs girl!
Donica.
Kendra's birthday !!!! Happy Birthday dear XXXXXX and hugs
I'm pretty excited that I'll be petitioning for my name change and getting my ears pierced this week. I got in touch with someone who does most of the leg work and just has me fill in information. Of course, I'll have to go to the court thing to get it finalized, but I'm taking steps in the direction I want to go. So, I'm pretty happy about all of this.
@Kendra - Happy Birthday!! :icon_birthday:
@SiobhánF - OOH Exciting!!
its my birthday this month and 4 hours ago I plucked up the courage to email my wife (at work) what I really want for my birthday, after some back and forth conversation on facebook messenger - and checking out my choices she said "Ok cool, order them", so I did - 2 dress's on sale ordered!!, one black tea dress, one floral wrap casual dress.........!!!!!!!!!!! I AM SO EXCITED!!! - My wife is buying me 2 dresses for my birthday!!!!! and possibly a pair of new heels or flats but we'll see.
Sonja.
I had an appointment at my endo's office today for my 3-month checkup and all my labs were good. But the best part was hearing nurses and my doctor call me by my female name :) :)
Lindy
Life
I have, in the past, posted in the unhappy thread a similar response ... life
I am happy to say that it does not apply anymore. I was practically bouncing last night when my wife and I took an evening walk. Even the threat of rain didn't dampen it.
I've found myself singing tunes. I've found myself singing tunes TO my wife. Those that know may wonder about that since I do sing on stage and at jams. That is not the same as impromptu singing to one person with no music.
life is good.
Quote from: Faith on September 14, 2018, 08:55:54 AM
Life
I have, in the past, posted in the unhappy thread a similar response ... life
I am happy to say that it does not apply anymore. I was practically bouncing last night when my wife and I took an evening walk. Even the threat of rain didn't dampen it.
I've found myself singing tunes. I've found myself singing tunes TO my wife. Those that know may wonder about that since I do sing on stage and at jams. That is not the same as impromptu singing to one person with no music.
life is good.
@Faith Dear Faith:I was just about bouncing myself when I read your "Happy" post.
Yes indeed,
life includes ups and downs for all of us...
I am so glad to hear that you have found your "happy place" in your life lately.
As the old saying goes:
"When life gives you lemons, make lemonade."It is not only our good times that define us but it is also how we personally deal with our not so good times.
All of these things can be summed up as "Life Happens"
Life is indeed good .... life is better than the alternative.
Thank you for posting and sharing.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
I decided to walk somewhere after work today, I passed by this guy in a car and he gets my attention and asks if I need a ride. I declined, of course, and said I was fine. But lately I've been questioning if I appear or act feminine enough and I took that as my answer that I don't need to worry about that so much.
Wow!!! What a ride!!!
I don't know what it was today. This sort of bothered me a bit too (at first). I wrote about it in the "unhappy" thread earlier... I was wearing an outfit similar to the one in my profile pic here. Well, I wasn't showing nearly as much of the "chest area"- it wasn't as low of a cut top... but my outfit was well fitted to my curves... I still think I look fairly masculine overall. But I didn't really have any issues, now that I look back on my day. I noticed guys were nice... They told me to have a "great" day and were somewhat helpful at the dmv. I guess it was alright.
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Quote from: Allison S on September 17, 2018, 06:02:22 PM
I don't know what it was today. This sort of bothered me a bit too (at first). I wrote about it in the "unhappy" thread earlier... I was wearing an outfit similar to the one in my profile pic here. Well, I wasn't showing nearly as much of the "chest area"- it wasn't as low of a cut top... but my outfit was well fitted to my curves... I still think I look fairly masculine overall. But I didn't really have any issues, now that I look back on my day. I noticed guys were nice... They told me to have a "great" day and were somewhat helpful at the dmv. I guess it was alright.
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@Allison S:As you know I did read your other post in the "Unhappy" thread and suggested to you that the day is young and it could get better.
Well.... isn't it wonderful that it got a lot better!!!
Thanks for posting your good news, I was hoping that things would improve for you.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on September 17, 2018, 06:36:07 PM
@Allison S:
As you know I did read your other post in the "Unhappy" thread and suggested to you that the day is young and it could get better.
Well.... isn't it wonderful that it got a lot better!!!
Thanks for posting your good news, I was hoping that things would improve for you.
Hugs,
Danielle
Yes, I saw! It was actually the same incident(s) earlier from the day. I just felt very insecure in myself honestly...
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Oddest things catch you unaware sometimes.
Lori was at the kitchen counter (she makes my lunch daily so that I have time to fix my face) and we were talking about my choice of work clothes. I had mentioned thinking of wearing a skirt and opted for slacks. She said, without thinking, "We need to find you another dress similar to that other one". The other one being the slinky one that showed my bloated belly .. anyways .., She said it and then paused and looked up at me (I am still taller!!) and said, "There's something I never thought I'd be saying" :D
disclaimer:
events and depictions have been paraphrased from a faulty memory
@Faith Dear Faith: Wow, that was certainly a "good event" for you having your Lori give you positive pointers about how you should dress for work. ... ... and I love her reply to you as she stated:
"There's something I never thought I'd be saying" That must have made your day for sure.
Thanks for sharing your happy news on this "happy" thread.
Hugs and well wishes,
DanielleQuote from: Faith on September 18, 2018, 11:34:06 AM
Oddest things catch you unaware sometimes.
Lori was at the kitchen counter (she makes my lunch daily so that I have time to fix my face) and we were talking about my choice of work clothes. I had mentioned thinking of wearing a skirt and opted for slacks. She said, without thinking, "We need to find you another dress similar to that other one". The other one being the slinky one that showed my bloated belly .. anyways .., She said it and then paused and looked up at me (I am still taller!!) and said, "There's something I never thought I'd be saying" :D
disclaimer:
events and depictions have been paraphrased from a faulty memory
I had a funny one happen while I was out walking this afternoon. At a signal/crosswalk, a couple came up next to me. The woman looked me up and down, and said, "That's a great looking dress!"
The dress is black and white patterned, with a red pattern band near the hem. She started trying to guess the designer with her husband...
I interjected, "It's from COSTCO". "No way!" Yes, way!
The dress was a $12.99 Mario Serrani from the COSTCO bargain tables. [emoji4]
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Quote from: Michelle_P on September 18, 2018, 04:46:03 PM
I had a funny one happen while I was out walking this afternoon. At a signal/crosswalk, a couple came up next to me. The woman looked me up and down, and said, "That's a great looking dress!"
The dress is black and white patterned, with a red pattern band near the hem. She started trying to guess the designer with her husband...
I interjected, "It's from COSTCO". "No way!" Yes, way!
The dress was a $12.99 Mario Serrani from the COSTCO bargain tables. [emoji4]
(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180918/404cf0c8305775056a2f5a21f3f083c7.jpg)
@Michelle_P Dear Michelle:Yes indeed, your bargain table dress really looks nice on you. You look so very beautiful in the picture that you just posted in that dress...
Unfortunately I do not have a Costco anywhere near so I have to wait for my every other month big city shopping trip with a few of my gal friends.... we usually plan at least one overnight stay because of the long 6 or 7 hour drive each way. I have never seen a "bargain table" at my Costco.... I will make a concerted effort to look for it on my next trip.
Again Michelle, you look absolutely wonderful ... I am glad that your recovery is going so well.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: Michelle_P on September 18, 2018, 04:46:03 PM
I had a funny one happen while I was out walking this afternoon. At a signal/crosswalk, a couple came up next to me. The woman looked me up and down, and said, "That's a great looking dress!"
The dress is black and white patterned, with a red pattern band near the hem. She started trying to guess the designer with her husband...
I interjected, "It's from COSTCO". "No way!" Yes, way!
The dress was a $12.99 Mario Serrani from the COSTCO bargain tables. [emoji4]
(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180918/404cf0c8305775056a2f5a21f3f083c7.jpg)
She was absolutely right!!! It is a great looking dress...maybe not as good as the gal inside of it ;)
Well, what made me happy last night was my electrologist saying that I have really feminine arms and hands - small wrists and feminine shaped arms, and that no way would she ever think they belonged to a male. She then said I should have done this years ago... well, yeah! ::)
Sometimes it's the little things... ;D
I've started my journey with gender GP in the UK. They've been really helpful so far :)
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Quote from: Michelle_P on September 18, 2018, 04:46:03 PM
I had a funny one happen while I was out walking this afternoon. At a signal/crosswalk, a couple came up next to me. The woman looked me up and down, and said, "That's a great looking dress!"
The dress is black and white patterned, with a red pattern band near the hem. She started trying to guess the designer with her husband...
I interjected, "It's from COSTCO". "No way!" Yes, way!
The dress was a $12.99 Mario Serrani from the COSTCO bargain tables. [emoji4]
(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180918/404cf0c8305775056a2f5a21f3f083c7.jpg)
Good find!
Today, the Nova Scotia government introduced amendments the the Vital Statistics Act including several gender-related changes. They will allow "X" as a gender on birth certificates. But the big one for me is that they will allow foreign-born people to change their official gender without having to amend their birth certificates.
Woo-hoo!!
The changes go into effect in January, so I won't have to wait for the darned Brits to change my birth certificate, which I can't do until July. I'll be able to get my "F" on my driver's license.
Quote from: KathyLauren on September 19, 2018, 03:18:37 PM
Today, the Nova Scotia government introduced amendments the the Vital Statistics Act including several gender-related changes. They will allow "X" as a gender on birth certificates. But the big one for me is that they will allow foreign-born people to change their official gender without having to amend their birth certificates.
Woo-hoo!!
The changes go into effect in January, so I won't have to wait for the darned Brits to change my birth certificate, which I can't do until July. I'll be able to get my "F" on my driver's license.
Oh yes! Fantastic! Can a passport be far behind?
Stephanie
Quote from: Steph2.0 on September 19, 2018, 04:39:15 PM
Oh yes! Fantastic! Can a passport be far behind?
Stephanie
Yes, a passport will definitely be on the paperwork list. Then, I'll have to think of places to visit. Ireland, maybe. >:-)
Quote from: KathyLauren on September 19, 2018, 05:04:18 PM
Yes, a passport will definitely be on the paperwork list. Then, I'll have to think of places to visit. Ireland, maybe. >:-)
Awwwww...
I scheduled my name change hearing for the 16th of October. I'm gonna get my name officially changed. Yay! ^_^
Quote from: SiobhánF on September 19, 2018, 08:06:36 PM
I scheduled my name change hearing for the 16th of October. I'm gonna get my name officially changed. Yay! ^_^
@SiobhánF - Fantastic! And what an awesome name to have - it rocks!
Sonja.
Knowing I can sleep, and if I wake up things may change [emoji4]
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being called gorgeous
I think they need their eyes tested. Still, it felt good :)
Quote from: Faith on September 20, 2018, 07:51:38 AM
being called gorgeous
I think they need their eyes tested. Still, it felt good :)
Oh, I think it's less a problem with their eyes, and more a problem with your perception. As the line goes in
Cool Hand Luke,"You got to git yer mind right."
You
are gorgeous, hon.
Stephanie
Getting a few minutes of free time and hopping on Susan's and reading this by Ashley C. --> https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,240999.0.html (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,240999.0.html)
Very uplifting and such an infectious, positive outlook.
I went to the beach today, as myself.
That was a dream for me when I was a child but an unfortunate detail crushed that for several decades. Since I was about 10 years old I started making excuses to go do something else and not have fun. For too many years I avoided things like the beach, not wanting constant reminders I was the wrong gender, the wrong life. I hated myself. And then gradually started realizing why, and fixing what I can by myself and with the help others. And now that has all changed. I can finally be myself.
So I went to the beach today as myself. A spur of the moment trip, wandering through small towns along the road in southern Italy. All those small and large decisions, countless hours of electrolysis and everything else... and now it's payback time. Time to enjoy life. Discover and then pursue your dreams.
I wish the same for all of us.
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/lxrkqxg04so0r94/2018-09-19%2013.57.58.jpg?raw=1)
Positano, Amalfi coast
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/kdsjyoev7skhhv4/2018-09-20%2013.48.13.jpg?raw=1)
Polignano a Mare, Apulia coast
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/3c66ubi31ag9331/2018-09-20%2014.45.20.jpg?raw=1)
the Adriatic Sea
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/pqowhdo3jv887ri/2018-09-20%2015.30.04.jpg?raw=1)
@Kendra Dear Kenda:This is very exciting for all us to read and to see you fantastic pictures.... I can testify to the fact that when we can pass without question that it is so affirming to be ourselves, even in swimwear and other ultra feminine attire.
Yes indeed, it is payback time and time to enjoy life.......
For you, it appears that LIFE IS GOOD !!!!
Your great advice of "Discover and then pursue your dream" is something that all of us need to get a hold of.
Thank you for posting and keeping us undated and envious of your pictures.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
@Kendralooking good Kendra, out living the life ..woot! :)
I hadn't seen or spoke to a long time good friend (accepting) and last night we chatted. First was the questioning when I answered my phone, he wanted to make sure that it was me. I didn't ask but I don't think he recognized my voice. I do answer the phone differently now, lots of practice at work.
My happy moment is pure vanity.
I told him I'd send some pictures, so I did. His reply: ... WOW ... then a followup reply: Can I say that?
Absolutely he can say that. It's one thing to have a stranger comment on looks but to have a close friend be surprised into a WOW. Yep, made me feel good. :)
I may have to start carrying a stick. heeheeheeheehee :D shhh :P
I'm single again don't know if I'm happy or sad yet
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on September 21, 2018, 11:56:25 AM
I'm single again don't know if I'm happy or sad yet
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@Arianna Valentine I have been single for most of my adult life... I did have a few serious relationships along the way but here I am, 38 years old, relocated a long way away from most of the people that I knew... and I am still single but I am having the time of my life, especially in my "new" roll as a full-time trans-woman...
...exploring relationships ... aquaintences, clients, friends and some more serious...
with both males and females, all new experiences that are very enjoyable.
Embrace where you are in your life and what you have become.... and make the most of it, and try to stay positive about your future.
I will be looking for your future reports and updates.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on September 21, 2018, 12:07:15 PM
@Arianna Valentine
I have been single for most of my adult life... I did have a few serious relationships along the way but here I am, 38 years old, relocated a long way away from most of the people that I knew... and I am still single but I am having the time of my life, especially in my "new" roll as a full-time trans-woman...
...exploring relationships ... aquaintences, clients, friends and some more serious...
with both males and females, all new experiences that are very enjoyable.
Embrace where you are in your life and what you have become.... and make the most of it, and try to stay positive about your future.
I will be looking for your future reports and updates.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Well I'm spent the last three years being single then I met Kris fell in love dated for a month and he just broke up with me today because he still in love with his ex
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Quote from: Kendra on September 20, 2018, 08:22:53 PM
I went to the beach today, as myself.
That was a dream for me when I was a child but an unfortunate detail crushed that for several decades. Since I was about 10 years old I started making excuses to go do something else and not have fun. For too many years I avoided things like the beach, not wanting constant reminders I was the wrong gender, the wrong life. I hated myself. And then gradually started realizing why, and fixing what I can by myself and with the help others. And now that has all changed. I can finally be myself.
So I went to the beach today as myself. A spur of the moment trip, wandering through small towns along the road in southern Italy. All those small and large decisions, countless hours of electrolysis and everything else... and now it's payback time. Time to enjoy life. Discover and then pursue your dreams.
I wish the same for all of us.
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/lxrkqxg04so0r94/2018-09-19%2013.57.58.jpg?raw=1)
Positano, Amalfi coast
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/kdsjyoev7skhhv4/2018-09-20%2013.48.13.jpg?raw=1)
Polignano a Mare, Apulia coast
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/3c66ubi31ag9331/2018-09-20%2014.45.20.jpg?raw=1)
the Adriatic Sea
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/pqowhdo3jv887ri/2018-09-20%2015.30.04.jpg?raw=1)
Wow! Southern Italy looks beautiful! Looking good Kendra!
Dear Arianna! I here you! My marriage was a mistake from the begining. I am free to transition now and I'm very happy!
Hugs everyone!
Donica.
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on September 21, 2018, 08:06:11 PM
Well I'm spent the last three years being single then I met Kris fell in love dated for a month and he just broke up with me today because he still in love with his ex
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@Arianna Valentine I read your reply and my heart goes out to you.... breaking up is never easy, especially for the one that is being left behind.
About all that ll I can suggest is for you to stay busy, do things that you enjoy doing, keeping your mind on more pleasant things. Also, get involved or continue to be involved in activities and groups where there are other relationship prospects. There are times that in everyday activities, relationships will find you before you find them.
I will be following your transition journey and wishing you well.
Hugs and well wishes as always,
Danielle
Another happy day moment. I spent the day with my wife, just two women hitting the mall.
Details in my progress (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,230421.msg2177480.html#msg2177480) thread for the curious. :)
Life is coming together bit by bit.
Quote from: Faith on September 22, 2018, 04:07:25 PM
Another happy day moment. I spent the day with my wife, just two women hitting the mall.
Details in my progress (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,230421.msg2177480.html#msg2177480) thread for the curious. :)
Life is coming together bit by bit.
@Faith Dear Faith: I was just at your "My Progress" thread, read your upbeat and happy report and I left my comment there for you to read.
Yes, for sure it absolutely appears that your life is coming together bit by bit... and by leaps and bounds!!!
Thanks for keeping us all updated,
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
@DanielleAs we were walking the dogs tonight I came to realize something
Before I transition, I came to recognize that there was a girl inside wanting out
As I'm transitioning I put the girl on the outside and wonder on the inside. knowing, not quite feeling
Today, as I was out with Lori. I didn't 'realize', I didn't wonder, I just was.
the only reminder was one quick misgender and that quickly passed, a fleeting moment in the process of just being.
Yes, a very good day :)
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on September 22, 2018, 04:13:10 PM
Dear Faith:
I was just at your "My Progress" thread, read your upbeat and happy report and I left my comment there for you to read.
Yes, for sure it absolutely appears that your life is coming together bit by bit... and by leaps and bounds!!!
Thanks for keeping us all updated,
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
I bought my first pair of women's jeans today! They fit great! More pairs to come! I was worried about not finding something that fit me as I'm still far from my ideal body shape (still pre-HRT).
As the weather turns cooler, I really wanted to switch over to wearing women's jeans. I'm madly in love with my first pair. Yay!!
With Love,
Noelle
Quote from: Nova_Noelle on September 23, 2018, 05:22:12 PM
I bought my first pair of women's jeans today! They fit great! More pairs to come! I was worried about not finding something that fit me as I'm still far from my ideal body shape (still pre-HRT).
As the weather turns cooler, I really wanted to switch over to wearing women's jeans. I'm madly in love with my first pair. Yay!!
With Love,
Noelle
Yes, they are the best. I wear them all the time. But now you have to develop a solution to carry around all the stuff you used to put in your pockets! I use a gender-neutral fanny pack when I'm not in femme mode.
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Got a good workout this weekend, plus a lot of things done.
Chrissy
Walking around an exhibition today with my wife, and we were addressed mostly as "ladies" by the vendors. The only exception was one who called us "guys", which is annoying, but doesn't mean anything. So, even if I don't pass 100%, I certainly pass well enough.
Spent last evening watching the grand kids. At bedtime they said they wanted me to do the honors since nana put them to bed the last time. Never saw that coming!
Judi
Quote from: KathyLauren on September 23, 2018, 08:09:23 PM
Walking around an exhibition today with my wife, and we were addressed mostly as "ladies" by the vendors. The only exception was one who called us "guys", which is annoying, but doesn't mean anything. So, even if I don't pass 100%, I certainly pass well enough.
Hi Kathy, 24 September 2018
"The only exception was one who called us "guys", which is annoying, but doesn't mean anything." It does mean one thing: The idiot that uttered it is stupid and a jerk.
You and your wife both look fantastic. It makes me
happy that you both have each other.
Best Always, Love
Chris
I went to a free makeup class yesterday. My first makeover. I think I can almost look at this picture without disgust. I don't like the lipstick. I think a more burgundy or brown color would be better.
(https://i.imgur.com/zSk9GUd.jpg)
@DonicaI meant to respond in your thread. It is a very complimentary photo. The make-up accents the more feminine features very well. I agree on the lipstick, I can't do the brighter reds either, a more natural coloring works best for me and probably you as well.
Quote from: KathyLauren on September 23, 2018, 08:09:23 PM
Walking around an exhibition today with my wife, and we were addressed mostly as "ladies" by the vendors. The only exception was one who called us "guys", which is annoying, but doesn't mean anything. So, even if I don't pass 100%, I certainly pass well enough.
I agree, "guys" in that context is a generic term and applies to all genders. Unless it was a pointed comment, "you...
guys" it means the same as "you folks."
Stephanie
Lori and I got "guy'd" a few times on Saturday, by gals and guys ... <<-- see what I did there? :D ... both. It was definitely used as a gender-neutral expression. I do it myself but I avoid it on the forums.
Quote from: Faith on September 24, 2018, 10:56:01 AM
Lori and I got "guy'd" a few times on Saturday, by gals and guys ... <<-- see what I did there? :D ... both. It was definitely used as a gender-neutral expression. I do it myself but I avoid it on the forums.
LOL :D I heard someone arguing in favour of "guys" as a gender-neutral form of address. She said, "I have heard both girls and guys use it that way. ... Oh!"
I had a discussion with my Girl friend and we both agreed that sometime down the track marriage wasn't a silly idea. :) Lots of stuff to deal with first but... its a step in the right direction.
Quote from: krobinson103 on September 24, 2018, 11:55:28 AM
I had a discussion with my Girl friend and we both agreed that sometime down the track marriage wasn't a silly idea. :) Lots of stuff to deal with first but... its a step in the right direction.
Wow, congratulations!
Yay! I just had a handsome gentleman hold the door for me while entering the bank this morning. I said "Thank you so much". He said "My pleasure" with a nice smile. Big smiles at the gas station too. That made my whole day!!!
Quote from: krobinson103 on September 24, 2018, 11:55:28 AM
I had a discussion with my Girl friend and we both agreed that sometime down the track marriage wasn't a silly idea. :) Lots of stuff to deal with first but... its a step in the right direction.
That is good news. Congratulations!
Quote from: Donica on September 24, 2018, 10:44:18 AM
I went to a free makeup class yesterday. My first makeover. I think I can almost look at this picture without disgust. I don't like the lipstick. I think a more burgundy or brown color would be better.
Donica, just catching up here... Like you I generally favor the less bright red lipsticks, but in this context with the red highlights in the blouse, it looks great on you. Don't be afraid to accent when you want to. You look great!
Randy
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Thank you Randy. You are too kind. The more I look at it the more It looks to me like that scary old lady in the dark and scary old house at the end of the street lol.
Quote from: Donica on September 24, 2018, 01:26:28 PM
That is good news. Congratulations!
Its far from certain but we both share the same vision for the future (5-10) years out and I do love her to bits. It just centers on how to sort out support for my family and still have money for me to live on. Simple - I think not but not impossible. People told me transition was impossible, its not. Just a good plan and lots of steps in the right direction.
I started my degree at University today :) I was bit nervous about getting back into early starts as I left my job a while ago and have been doing part time work since! It's very exciting!
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How to say this with minimal details.
I'll try this:
A new co-worker, same department so more direct interaction. Anyways, I felt a distancing/uncomfortable feeling and I didn't want that with someone that I work with. So, since day one I had intended to tell her that it was OK to ask questions, I'm fine with answering educationally, not for the perversely curious. You know what I mean.
Anyways, today I finally got the chance and approached her. Her response? "I just thought you were an older woman and didn't want to insult you by saying anything. I did have a feeling because I'm pretty good at recognizing my own kind but I wasn't sure"
O.O
Wait a minute .. OLDER? .. ok, I am old. But for someone that's a lifer (one that has known since single digits and living it) to wonder but decide I'm an older woman .. I'll take it. I am .. amazed? shocked? .. in wonder?? I don't know what to say.
We had a good long talk about things, our different perspectives and approaches, with that underlying "I understand" beneath it all. She was a bit shocked that it's only been a year (almost) of self-awareness for me with only ~7 months HRT.
I think my world is coming together.
yep, Happy moment
Quote from: Faith on September 25, 2018, 01:14:47 PM
How to say this with minimal details.
I'll try this:
A new co-worker, same department so more direct interaction. Anyways, I felt a distancing/uncomfortable feeling and I didn't want that with someone that I work with. So, since day one I had intended to tell her that it was OK to ask questions, I'm fine with answering educationally, not for the perversely curious. You know what I mean.
Anyways, today I finally got the chance and approached her. Her response? "I just thought you were an older woman and didn't want to insult you by saying anything. I did have a feeling because I'm pretty good at recognizing my own kind but I wasn't sure"
O.O
Wait a minute .. OLDER? .. ok, I am old. But for someone that's a lifer (one that has known since single digits and living it) to wonder but decide I'm an older woman .. I'll take it. I am .. amazed? shocked? .. in wonder?? I don't know what to say.
We had a good long talk about things, our different perspectives and approaches, with that underlying "I understand" beneath it all. She was a bit shocked that it's only been a year (almost) of self-awareness for me with only ~7 months HRT.
I think my world is coming together.
yep, Happy moment
It just gets better and better! Yays Faith!
Stephanie
Wait, what? Am I reading that right that your co-worker is trans but gendered you as a cis woman (albeit "older")? That is awesome, Faith! SQUEEEEEEEE!!
Quote from: Steph2.0 on September 25, 2018, 01:20:12 PM
It just gets better and better! Yays Faith!
Stephanie
YAYS !!!!
Quote from: KathyLauren on September 25, 2018, 01:32:58 PM
Wait, what? Am I reading that right that your co-worker is trans but gendered you as a cis woman (albeit "older")? That is awesome, Faith! SQUEEEEEEEE!!
Exactly that .. yes .. Big SQUEEEEEEEEEEEE !!!!!!!!!!!!!
For myself, I had just a passing thought, a very passing fleeting thought about her but also immediately went, nah, just a big gal. Because she is a big gal, pretty too.
Quote from: Faith on September 25, 2018, 01:36:05 PM
YAYS !!!!
Exactly that .. yes .. Big SQUEEEEEEEEEEEE !!!!!!!!!!!!!
For myself, I had just a passing thought, a very passing fleeting thought about her but also immediately went, nah, just a big gal. Because she is a big gal, pretty too.
So you're not the first!
Quote from: Steph2.0 on September 25, 2018, 01:46:12 PM
So you're not the first!
Well, she transitioned sooner, yes, I've worked here longer. She just started. NYAH!
Scheduled a consultation appointment for GRS for Nov. 6th ... SQUEEEE
Quote from: Faith on September 25, 2018, 01:54:17 PM
Well, she transitioned sooner, yes, I've worked here longer. She just started. NYAH!
So who has Señora T?
Quote from: sarah1972 on September 25, 2018, 02:00:35 PM
Scheduled a consultation appointment for GRS for Nov. 6th ... SQUEEEE
@sarah1972 Dear Sarah:Well, for sure ....
SQUEEEE !!!This is very exciting news.... as always I will be following your thread to keep updated about what your plans are and when additional appointments are planned....
I am rooting for your success and especially your happiness.
Hugs and hugs and as always, well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: Steph2.0 on September 25, 2018, 02:02:51 PM
So who has Señora T?
well, from the looks I have more T :P
Quote from: Faith on September 25, 2018, 01:36:05 PM
For myself, I had just a passing thought...
Well now you see others have that same "passing" thought about you! A wonderful experience Faith.
Judi
Quote from: sarah1972 on September 25, 2018, 02:00:35 PM
Scheduled a consultation appointment for GRS for Nov. 6th ... SQUEEEE
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
SQUEEE for sure Sarah
Hugs,
Laurie
Been a long time since I have been in this site. I am new in ways to transgender, especially when it comes to clothing. and today, for the first time (after 8 months of HRT) I have dressed in what I consider full female regalia. What really makes this special is I am wearing my first pair of nylon-like stockings, 3/4 length, with lacey frill around my thighs. Such a little thing, stockings, but today it really made my day... Don't overlook the little things!
Had a temp manager today, used to work with me and got dead named all morning . Kept correcting him and by the afternoon he got my name right!!!!
Quote from: davina61 on September 26, 2018, 03:25:18 PM
Had a temp manager today, used to work with me and got dead named all morning . Kept correcting him and by the afternoon he got my name right!!!!
Sometimes persistance pays off! Good Job Davina!
Hugs,
Laurie
I am finally starting to look a bit better proportioned.
It does seem like when I do lose some weight
it comes off mostly from everywhere, but when
I put on a little weight, it is going to the
right places. ::)
Chrissy
Today at Goodwill, at the checkout, a lady started a conversation with me by saying ,"Have we met before at <some location> we had a lot of fun". I was like, not me, I'm only just now starting to have fun.
After a brief pause she struck more conversation. Responding that I'm a work in progress she said that she has several friends transitioning. I told her how long it's been (short time) and her response was, "It's working for you, you're very pretty" .... squeee .... (small squee, I don't want to get in trouble with Steph by exploding).
already a bouncy day that really set me off .. WOOOOO! :D
disclaimer:
paraphrased, my CRS prevents verbatim recitations
Quote from: Faith on September 29, 2018, 01:35:47 PM
squeee .... (small squee, I don't want to get in trouble with Steph by exploding).
PUBLIC NOTICE:
Due to the high costs incurred by all the litigation, and in order to have more time for her family, Stephanie has put the term "Squeeesplosion" into the public domain. Attribution is appreciated but not required.
TL;DR: Knock yourself out.
Stephanie
Thank you Stephanie. I was so worried that I might accidently let that slip out on occasion.
OMG! Have I really missed a whole page in this thread? Where the heck was I? Oh no :o, am I missing some time here? I didn't see any flying saucers? I don't feel violated? This thread has gone viral over the past day.
This is what made me happy today. Reading all of these happy post. It makes my day.
Hugs everyone!
Donica.
This was technically last week, but it was fairly affirming. Sunday I took my girlfriend out to dinner, and had a typical outfit on. Tank top, jeans, light make-up. So we got to the restaurant, and I was just about to open the door when a guy just behind us said, "let me get that."
I went shopping today in 'boy mode' (all fairly baggy male clothing except for women's jeans, no makeup, etc.) but I was addressed as 'ma'am' anyway. :) That's 2 weeks in a row now that I've gotten no 'sir's and a few clear male fails! :)
Quote from: Lisa on September 30, 2018, 03:21:00 AM
I went shopping today in 'boy mode' (all fairly baggy male clothing except for women's jeans, no makeup, etc.) but I was addressed as 'ma'am' anyway. :) That's 2 weeks in a row now that I've gotten no 'sir's and a few clear male fails! :)
That's awesome! I can't wait for that. :)
I dont know if its male fail or people in Atlanta simply being cognizant of trans people, but even in neutral mode I've gotten quite a few ma'ams. My favorite though was when I was with my girlfriend and we got "ladies" ;D
I know I've had lots of happy the past few and a lot all at one this weekend. That should be enough.
Prior to going out to listen to my old band, I had sent my friend (who is in the band) some pictures (he said WOW :P). I asked him if he'd shown his wife, what did she think? He said no, he couldn't find them. He said he told her that I was a very good looking woman. Her response was, "Of course she is, she was a good looking man too". Yes, she said she.
I had to resend them because computers hate him. Tonight I got a response:
"She says that you're gorgeous"
Yeah, I broke down. People keep telling me, I have trouble seeing it. This time I took it to heart and I fell apart. Lori caught me crying about it so I got some nice hugging out of it too.
He closed off his email with:
"I'm glad u ladies came on sat night"
One of the best friends that I have. When I hugged him good night that night it wasn't a 'man hug' he hugged me the way that he hugged my wife. I could tell the difference since we've hugged before I came out (bunch of huggers) and it was always the 'man hug'
Quote from: Roll on October 01, 2018, 08:26:02 AM
I dont know if its male fail or people in Atlanta simply being cognizant of trans people, but even in neutral mode I've gotten quite a few ma'ams. My favorite though was when I was with my girlfriend and we got "ladies" ;D
That is super! I hear that Atlanta is a very "international" city.
You do realize that your good feminine appearance causes those comments, don't you? Enjoy the recognition, it is desirable and good! I am happy for you and your girlfriend, I wish you two much happiness and fun.
Chrissy
Seems like I spent all day driving, but half an hour of that day and the reason for the drive was an appointment with a psychiatrist to get my second surgery letter. Woo-hoo! I'm getting it! No further appointments necessary, it will be in the mail as soon as she can dictate it and get it typed up.
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!
Great news Kathy! Squeeee indeed.
Donica.
Congratulations on the good news Kathy!!!! Well done, so what is the next step on your journey?
Tia Anne
Quote from: KathyLauren on October 02, 2018, 02:10:15 PM
Seems like I spent all day driving, but half an hour of that day and the reason for the drive was an appointment with a psychiatrist to get my second surgery letter. Woo-hoo! I'm getting it! No further appointments necessary, it will be in the mail as soon as she can dictate it and get it typed up.
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!
@KathyLauren Dear Kathy:Happy news from you!!!!
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!! indeed!!!!
This is all a very exciting update, now all we need to hear is the proposed date for your consultation with the surgeon... where would that be? ... another long drive? ... or perhaps a flight?
We want to start the count-down timer so please keep us all tuned into your planned future transition events.
Hugs and as always, well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on October 02, 2018, 04:41:32 PM
This is all a very exciting update, now all we need to hear is the proposed date for your consultation with the surgeon... where would that be? ... another long drive? ... or perhaps a flight?
Brassard in Quebec?
Quote from: Steph2.0 on October 02, 2018, 05:03:48 PM
Brassard in Quebec?
@KathyLauren Dear Kathy:Is Brassard in Montreal the surgeon that others on here have mentioned?
Is that a very long drive or even a long flight for you.
Montreal is a beautiful "European style" city... I have been there quite a few times in the past.
Lots of fun things and very good food to enjoy.
Is there a date for all of this floating around in your mind as of yet?
Hugs and hugs,
Danielle
I went to court and at 11am today Oct 2nd 2018
I became Bobbie LeAnn ***** sex female.
Legally!
It is official
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Quote from: Steph2.0 on October 02, 2018, 05:03:48 PM
Brassard in Quebec?
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on October 02, 2018, 05:19:56 PM
@KathyLauren
Is Brassard in Montreal the surgeon that others on here have mentioned?
Yes, it will be Dr. Brassard, in Montreal. No dates yet. He has his own long waiting list, since he is currently the only surgeon in Canada that is approved by the provincial health systems for GRS. My next step (once I have the letter) is to apply to our insurance for funding. Once that is approved, then I can talk to Brassard and see about consultation, etc. It's a cumbersome system, but that's how it works here.
Quote from: Bobbie Ann on October 02, 2018, 07:52:00 PM
I went to court and at 11am today Oct 2nd 2018
I became Bobbie LeAnn ***** sex female.
Legally!
It is official
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Congratulations, Bobbie LeAnn (female)!!
Quote from: KathyLauren on October 02, 2018, 07:53:20 PM
Congratulations, Bobbie LeAnn (female)!!
And congratulations to you too Kathy
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Quote from: Bobbie Ann on October 02, 2018, 07:52:00 PM
I went to court and at 11am today Oct 2nd 2018
I became Bobbie LeAnn ***** sex female.
Legally!
It is official
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Congratulations Bobbie Ann!
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I've nearly finished all the things I need to do to be seen by the gender clinic. I'm so excited to be able to take a few steps forward at last!
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What made me happy today? Getting my vaginoplasty scheduled! Yeah, this girl is getting one on January 10th!
Yesterday was officially my first birthday as me. My coworkers came out and sang happy birthday to me and used my true name for the first time EVER in a birthday song. I was so happy! They made me cry, it was an amazing feeling to hear my name sang. My fiancé gave me orchids for my birthday, they're my favorite flower. My nephews made it to their first birthday, after being born early.
Quote from: Artesia on October 03, 2018, 11:24:49 AM
Yesterday was officially my first birthday as me. My coworkers came out and sang happy birthday to me and used my true name for the first time EVER in a birthday song. I was so happy! They made me cry, it was an amazing feeling to hear my name sang. My fiancé gave me orchids for my birthday, they're my favorite flower. My nephews made it to their first birthday, after being born early.
'
@Artesia This is certainly a reason for me to give you my
CONGRATULATIONS on your first birthday as Artesia
:icon_birthday:
... and the orchids that you received from your fiancé.... that was just the frosting on the cake.
I am so very happy for you.
Thank you for sharing your good news with us all.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: MollyPants on October 03, 2018, 05:55:08 AM
I've nearly finished all the things I need to do to be seen by the gender clinic. I'm so excited to be able to take a few steps forward at last!
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@MollyPants This is certainly wonderful news for you....
May I ask? What are your planned and/or proposed dates that you are considering ???
Please continue to keep us all in the loop about your transition journey.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: Bobbie Ann on October 02, 2018, 07:52:00 PM
I went to court and at 11am today Oct 2nd 2018
I became Bobbie LeAnn ***** sex female.
Legally!
It is official
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
@Bobbie Anne
Dear Bobbie LeAnn:Welcome to your new LEGAL name, now there are no more secrets that you hold inside when giving your name out for the various things that require it. What a big weight off of your shoulders... no more explaining regarding that emotional issue.
Thank you for your wonderful report, perfect post here for the "Happy" thread.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: Yuusui on October 03, 2018, 11:09:24 AM
What made me happy today? Getting my vaginoplasty scheduled! Yeah, this girl is getting one on January 10th!
@Yuusui This is wonderful news, another milestone that you can check off on your transition journey.
Please make certain that as that date approaches that you keep us filled in on any other transition related developments that you would feel comfortable to share on the Forums.
Thank you for sharing your good and happy news.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on October 03, 2018, 11:52:24 AM
@MollyPants
This is certainly wonderful news for you....
May I ask? What are your planned and/or proposed dates that you are considering ???
Please continue to keep us all in the loop about your transition journey.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Thank you Danielle! It'll be a little while before I have any dates confirmed and there's one major thing I need to sort out before I can start treatment but I have now answered all their questions and confirmed I want to go ahead. I'm so excited that this is happening :) xx
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Quote from: Bobbie Ann on October 02, 2018, 07:52:00 PM
I went to court and at 11am today Oct 2nd 2018
I became Bobbie LeAnn ***** sex female.
Legally!
It is official
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Congrats on this wonderful news, Bobbie LeAnn!!! Now you'll feel a moment of joy every time you see this name in print before you. Hope you did something fun to celebrate :)
Big Hugs
Lindy
This is minor compared to the life-changing news above me, but today I dyed my hair for the very first time in my life. I can't believe how different it makes me feel about myself. It's like the woman inside has surfaced. My sister, one of my biggest supports, did the handiwork for me ... I'm so lucky to have her :)
Lindy
Quote from: Lindy on October 03, 2018, 01:34:01 PM
This is minor compared to the life-changing news above me, but today I dyed my hair for the very first time in my life. I can't believe how different it makes me feel about myself. It's like the woman inside has surfaced. My sister, one of my biggest supports, did the handiwork for me ... I'm so lucky to have her :)
Lindy
@Linda Dear Lindy:You are bringing up a wonderfully positive aspect to being a woman.... different hair colors, various hair length and all the varieties of feminine styles available.... It sure beats the more mundane men's hair options.
Thanks for sharing and posting your happy news.
Danielle
Quote from: MollyPants on October 03, 2018, 05:53:58 AM
Congratulations Bobbie Ann!
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Thank you Molly
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on October 03, 2018, 12:00:12 PM
@Bobbie Anne
Dear Bobbie LeAnn:
Welcome to your new LEGAL name, now there are no more secrets that you hold inside when giving your name out for the various things that require it. What a big weight off of your shoulders... no more explaining regarding that emotional issue.
Thank you for your wonderful report, perfect post here for the "Happy" thread.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Thank you Danielle
It is a wonderful feeling using my new name. I wasted no time and went and got my drivers licence changed to my new name and where it says "Sex" there is the most wonderful "F" next to it.
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Quote from: Lindy on October 03, 2018, 01:29:33 PM
Congrats on this wonderful news, Bobbie LeAnn!!! Now you'll feel a moment of joy every time you see this name in print before you. Hope you did something fun to celebrate :)
Big Hugs
Lindy
Thank you Lindy
I do plan on celebrating just don't know in what way yet. I don't normally drink but I did go out for drinks and ordered a "Slippery Nipple"
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Quote from: Bobbie Ann on October 02, 2018, 07:52:00 PM
I went to court and at 11am today Oct 2nd 2018
I became Bobbie LeAnn ***** sex female.
Legally!
It is official
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
That is GREAT Bobbie LeAnn fantastic even!
Quote from: Lindy on October 03, 2018, 01:34:01 PM
This is minor compared to the life-changing news above me, but today I dyed my hair for the very first time in my life. I can't believe how different it makes me feel about myself. It's like the woman inside has surfaced. My sister, one of my biggest supports, did the handiwork for me ... I'm so lucky to have her :)
Lindy
Lindy,
Whatever make us feel like we have always wanted to feel like is a big deal. Whether it be dyeing our hair or changing our name or getting a surgery we need. It is all important.
Ain't it great to be a woman and let her out?
congrats to you Lindy.
Hugs,
Laurie
I got told yesterday in my guy clothes that I looked like Geena Davis from a league of their own. I'm unsure if it was meant as a compliment being that I was in guy clothes, but I'll take it. 😊
I don't see that, but at least she's a woman and not a man and I do see the woman :)
hmm, I'd do a thumbs-up but I don't see one
Quote from: Faith on October 04, 2018, 08:15:28 AM
I don't see that, but at least she's a woman and not a man and I do see the woman :)
hmm, I'd do a thumbs-up but I don't see one
:icon_dance:
Quote from: Harley Quinn on October 04, 2018, 08:19:15 AM
:icon_dance:
YAY! I
can do happy dance ... :icon_dance: :icon_dance: :icon_dance: :icon_dance: :icon_dance: :icon_dance:
Potential girlfriend alert! I met another transgirl on a discord server and our minds couldn't be more similar. Both of us are very lewd, but tone it down for the rest. Heavy flirting and we really like each other. Since we live in the same city, we thought a meet up was in order, so we'll be meeting on the 13th for group, then go shopping for more clothes for her and a top for me because I don't have one for my skirt. Following that is makeup shopping and then back to her place for movies and snuggles. Couldn't have found a better potential for a relationship. I'm excited! ^_^
Actually seeing (and feeling) a noticeable thinning out of facial hair thanks to my amazing electrologist! ;D
Quote from: SiobhánF on October 05, 2018, 02:00:26 AM
Potential girlfriend alert! I met another transgirl on a discord server and our minds couldn't be more similar. Both of us are very lewd, but tone it down for the rest. Heavy flirting and we really like each other. Since we live in the same city, we thought a meet up was in order, so we'll be meeting on the 13th for group, then go shopping for more clothes for her and a top for me because I don't have one for my skirt. Following that is makeup shopping and then back to her place for movies and snuggles. Couldn't have found a better potential for a relationship. I'm excited! ^_^
Awww, have fun, you two lovebirds!
Hugs, Devlyn
I have company staying with me. SQUEEEEEEEEEEE!
Quote from: Michelle_P on October 05, 2018, 10:10:00 AM
I have company staying with me. SQUEEEEEEEEEEE!
YAY!! .. Is pole-dancing involved? Nevermind, I don't want to know .......
Quote from: Michelle_P on October 05, 2018, 10:10:00 AM
I have company staying with me. SQUEEEEEEEEEEE!
What company are they with? Honey Badgers R Us?
Hopefully not polecats!
Quote from: Michelle_P on October 05, 2018, 10:10:00 AM
I have company staying with me. SQUEEEEEEEEEEE!
Ah Michelle, that's good news. Glad to here the house is noisy again. SQUEEEEE. How long are they staying?
Hugs girl!
Donica.
Quote from: VickyS on October 05, 2018, 09:11:29 AM
Actually seeing (and feeling) a noticeable thinning out of facial hair thanks to my amazing electrologist! ;D
I'm so happy for you, Vicky! The change is very rewarding, isn't it?!! I've been getting laser for a while and will switch to electrolysis soon. One day we'll look in the mirror and see smooth, perfect skin :)
Hugs
Lindy
Quote from: Laurie on October 03, 2018, 11:03:22 PM
Lindy,
Whatever make us feel like we have always wanted to feel like is a big deal. Whether it be dyeing our hair or changing our name or getting a surgery we need. It is all important.
Ain't it great to be a woman and let her out?
congrats to you Lindy.
Hugs,
Laurie
Thanks, Laurie. I did not anticipate the effect a $9 box of hair dye would have on my perceptions of myself. Not only do I look more feminine but I FEEL more feminine. It's both weird and very very wonderful :)
Hugs from the chilly Midwest,
Lindy
Quote from: Michelle_P on October 05, 2018, 10:10:00 AM
I have company staying with me. SQUEEEEEEEEEEE!
@Michelle_P Dear Michelle: I am assuming that you are talking about
@Laurie ...
with saying, I am so very happy for you two... I am very glad that she arrived safely.
Might I suggest that you keep your distance away from the fridge while she is there. ;)
How long is the visit
"Planned" for...
I know, I know, I am taking a big change writing out the
"P" word ......
Hugs to both of you,
Danielle
i have my new first name narrowed down to 3 choices ;-)
Quote from: Lindy on October 05, 2018, 12:25:04 PM
I'm so happy for you, Vicky! The change is very rewarding, isn't it?!! I've been getting laser for a while and will switch to electrolysis soon. One day we'll look in the mirror and see smooth, perfect skin :)
Hugs
Lindy
Hi Lindy,
Yes it's very rewarding! It's easy to get down if we can't see much progress but we must keep at it to get that smooth hair free skin we want so much ;D ;D
You'll have to let us know how you get on with the electrolysis once you switch over!
Vicky x
Quote from: RetroTS on October 05, 2018, 01:20:05 PM
i have my new first name narrowed down to 3 choices ;-)
Congratulations. That isn't an easy feat! Probably the most difficult part of transition in my humble opinion. 😉
While practicing my voice I seemed to hit a spot which showed some promise of a usable female voice and I just couldn't shut up until my voice got tired and I still can't stop smiling.
My voice has been holding me back for years, if I can crack that one I'll be on my way to apply for a name and gender marker change as soon as possible.
Yay! Keep at it, practice makes perfect!
Yesterday one of my partners and I began planning for the future together. We had done some of this over the past couple of months, but we started to put more specific goals in place with timeframes, to combine households and move to a place that will work for us and her kids.
This is huge for me as less than a year ago I suddenly lost relationships with my kids, as my spouse decided to move on and they just have not wanted to be a part of my life. I love this woman and it feels like I have a family again. So I've felt pretty happy today ;D
Quote from: RobynD on October 05, 2018, 04:59:25 PM
Yesterday one of my partners and I began planning for the future together. We had done some of this over the past couple of months, but we started to put more specific goals in place with timeframes, to combine households and move to a place that will work for us and her kids.
This is huge for me as less than a year ago I suddenly lost relationships with my kids, as my spouse decided to move on and they just have not wanted to be a part of my life. I love this woman and it feels like I have a family again. So I've felt pretty happy today ;D
@RobynD Well, now this is great news.
I trust that your plans are going well with the union of your two households.
As details unfold it would be great if you could keep us all updated.... we want to rejoice with you.
Hugs,
Danielle
Enjoyed a refreshing spa facial and the esthetician said that I had nice looking skin.
Of course, she may just say that to most anyone she serves, one never really knows.
I just thought it might be a good idea to "clean out the facial pores" so I decided to go for a facial. It was restful.
Chrissy
One other thing, Got my order in from Torrid today, and i finally have a real pair of girly flip flops that fit, look cute and are super comfy.
It's the little things you know ;)
Quote from: RetroTS on October 05, 2018, 05:43:28 PM
One other thing, Got my order in from Torrid today, and i finally have a real pair of girly flip flops that fit, look cute and are super comfy.
It's the little things you know ;)
That's really nice! Thanks for sharing! Little things count. We can get "warm fuzzies" from them!
Chrissy
Had a fun thing happen today. I was heading out for breakfast and a workout at the gym, dressed in my workout togs and a denim skirt and on a whim decided to ride Sweet Rose (my scooter) for the trip. So I threw on a pair of boots and a riding jacket....this was the first time I ever rode my bike in a skirt. It was good enough that I got honked at by a passing driver....sweet and it doesn't happen often for this grandma.
I know, picture or it didn't happen.
(https://i.imgur.com/4K9ITCk.jpg)
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on October 05, 2018, 10:17:23 PM
Had a fun thing happen today. I was heading out for breakfast and a workout at the gym, dressed in my workout togs and a denim skirt and on a whim decided to ride Sweet Rose (my scooter) for the trip. So I threw on a pair of boots and a riding jacket....this was the first time I ever rode my bike in a skirt. It was good enough that I got honked at by a passing driver....sweet and it doesn't happen often for this grandma.
I know, picture or it didn't happen.
(https://i.imgur.com/4K9ITCk.jpg)
Tia Anne
@Anne Blake Dear Tia Anne:This is most certainly a fun thing that happened to you while riding your bike.
You look wonderful and terrific and very pretty in your picture of you on your bike... it is no wonder that you got all the guys honking at you. Your bike, Sweet Rose is very pretty too.
Thank you for sharing and posting this fun picture.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: Anne Blake on October 05, 2018, 10:17:23 PM
Had a fun thing happen today. I was heading out for breakfast and a workout at the gym, dressed in my workout togs and a denim skirt and on a whim decided to ride Sweet Rose (my scooter) for the trip. So I threw on a pair of boots and a riding jacket....this was the first time I ever rode my bike in a skirt. It was good enough that I got honked at by a passing driver....sweet and it doesn't happen often for this grandma.
I know, picture or it didn't happen.
(https://i.imgur.com/4K9ITCk.jpg)
Tia Anne
Great picture, Tia. You sure are a hot mama!
Quote from: Anne Blake on October 05, 2018, 10:17:23 PM
Had a fun thing happen today. I was heading out for breakfast and a workout at the gym, dressed in my workout togs and a denim skirt and on a whim decided to ride Sweet Rose (my scooter) for the trip. So I threw on a pair of boots and a riding jacket....this was the first time I ever rode my bike in a skirt. It was good enough that I got honked at by a passing driver....sweet and it doesn't happen often for this grandma.
I know, picture or it didn't happen.
(https://i.imgur.com/4K9ITCk.jpg)
Tia Anne
Wow, that's beautiful! So is the bike!
Stephanie
Quote from: Anne Blake on October 05, 2018, 10:17:23 PM
Had a fun thing happen today. I was heading out for breakfast and a workout at the gym, dressed in my workout togs and a denim skirt and on a whim decided to ride Sweet Rose (my scooter) for the trip. So I threw on a pair of boots and a riding jacket....this was the first time I ever rode my bike in a skirt. It was good enough that I got honked at by a passing driver....sweet and it doesn't happen often for this grandma.
I know, picture or it didn't happen.
(https://i.imgur.com/4K9ITCk.jpg)
Tia Anne
Come on Tia! Who wouldn't honk at that? And the sweet ride too! Love the digs.
Donica.
Yard work sweating and a cool breeze and I am happy today plus the still looking cute(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181006/841504a48b223e5723b5e6db558d6a25.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181006/f62fd193eca14fe9243124bdcd8dc243.jpg)
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Oh I also went to a place called at Charlotte Russe in the mall $60 got me a dress a very nice pair of boots and a leather jacket and right now all their shoes are 50% off if they were yesterday oh and I shrunk 4 inches since starting hormones of course I could have been off on my height in the first place lol(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181006/4112d9efc5228b6d6bac64e48f6a4d33.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181006/756359a12c598cacc9c05789adadc491.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181006/81c58dd3161f0004a0b3d24ef843af44.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181006/00485290a7a9533b1b6a8f71233c4a87.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181006/924a686f8091efbbd9ec93f662d79712.jpg)
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I had my first electrolysis appointment today. Started with the upper lip as I was told it was more painful than other areas so wanted to have it over and done with. Plus, it should make the rest a cake walk. It did sting a little but I wasn't going to let that stop me, even without the numbing cream. I couldn't find any but she told me where to get some for next time.
I think the 4 advil's helped.
I am so excited and happy that my wife is on board with this. Last year when I brought it up, not so much. I have to take things slow with her, so I will (hopefully). Can't wait for the day when I don't have to look in the mirror and grab the stupid razor for my face.
Quote from: Charlene2017 on October 06, 2018, 07:33:49 PM
I had my first electrolysis appointment today. Started with the upper lip as I was told it was more painful than other areas so wanted to have it over and done with. Plus, it should make the rest a cake walk. It did sting a little but I wasn't going to let that stop me, even without the numbing cream. I couldn't find any but she told me where to get some for next time.
I think the 4 advil's helped.
I am so excited and happy that my wife is on board with this. Last year when I brought it up, not so much. I have to take things slow with her, so I will (hopefully). Can't wait for the day when I don't have to look in the mirror and grab the stupid razor for my face.
I'm so glad you're now taking steps to get rid of your facial hair, Charlene! You seem to have a great attitude about getting it done, one hair at a time :) I've been getting laser and will switch to electrolysis soon. The numbing cream really helps; hope you can get some. And I will be sure to take my advils too.
I'm also glad that you have the support of your wife. A true blessing.
Hugs and three cheers for a hairless face!
Lindy
For me it's something very small.
Waking up this morning and I slid my legs past each other. (I shaved them yesterday.)
I was struck by, even though I'm very early in my transition, how silky & smooth they were against each other. It felt / feels SOOO RIGHT!!!!
Kate
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Quote from: Anne Blake on October 05, 2018, 10:17:23 PM
Had a fun thing happen today. I was heading out for breakfast and a workout at the gym, dressed in my workout togs and a denim skirt and on a whim decided to ride Sweet Rose (my scooter) for the trip. So I threw on a pair of boots and a riding jacket....this was the first time I ever rode my bike in a skirt. It was good enough that I got honked at by a passing driver....sweet and it doesn't happen often for this grandma.
I know, picture or it didn't happen.
Tia Anne
psst, Lori says that you have to ride, or bring, it down with you. We can do some cruisin'
the one caveat, I don't ride so I'd be a new passenger behind Lori. Maybe we should practice first .... scary ....
Quote from: Faith on October 08, 2018, 09:09:15 AM
psst, Lori says that you have to ride, or bring, it down with you. We can do some cruisin'
I heard that airlines allow you to check sporting equipment...
Quote from: Faith on October 08, 2018, 09:09:15 AM
psst, Lori says that you have to ride, or bring, it down with you. We can do some cruisin'
the one caveat, I don't ride so I'd be a new passenger behind Lori. Maybe we should practice first .... scary ....
I would love to but riding to Florida in January is more than I can handle and while I can check two 70 lb bags for free, my scooter is about 500 lbs over that limit.....and the Rose only has a solo saddle.
Both Deb and I are still really looking forward to visiting with you but it will be using a rental car.
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on October 08, 2018, 04:22:47 PM
I would love to but riding to Florida in January is more than I can handle and while I can check two 70 lb bags for free, my scooter is about 500 lbs over that limit.....and the Rose only has a solo saddle.
Both Deb and I are still really looking forward to visiting with you but it will be using a rental car.
Tia Anne
I totally understand that. It was one of those wistful, never happen, kind of statements. We are looking forward to January'ish. **
hoping nothing interferes**
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on October 06, 2018, 02:50:45 PM
Yard work sweating and a cool breeze and I am happy today plus the still looking cute(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181006/841504a48b223e5723b5e6db558d6a25.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181006/f62fd193eca14fe9243124bdcd8dc243.jpg)
Nothing better than just being yourself. Looking good.☺
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Ok so maybe not all today per se, but on 10-2 my girlfriend officially proposed to me, was our 8 year anniversary, but can officially call her my fiancee now, and her as well, was super cute, she used a plastic sizing ring to propose, and I love it, cause I hate the thought of gem stones. Also almost 6 weeks into hrt and I've been stupid happy, but wow actually feeling anything is simply amazing! Taking my pills every day makes me stupid giddy, cant help it lol. Fiancee asked me if I wanted her to fix my toe nails, I sheepishly said yes, but now they are a beautiful sparkly pink. Also I love to cuddle her now, which is a huge change as I used to hate being touched. Only thing I'm missing now is friends, does anyone have the line app, if so please pm me. But seriously, damn never thought life would feel this good! And she says I have a boob now lol, lefty is growing like its the last day on Earth lol.
So, I'm a day late. This was for yesterday. I had the day off from work so I smoked a tri tip on my offset smoker. I know that might seem like something trivial to most people but I haven't smoked anything in 6 weeks. I have been so obsessed with my gender identity that little things in life have just stopped. This seemed like the perfect thing to try to get my life back to some kind of normalcy. We had a nice dinner and I was able to enjoy some wafting pecan smoke again. It was a beautiful day and I smiled. Love and faith.
Gabrielle
Got me a girlfriend. We're at about the same place in transition and we like the same stuff, as well as think a lot alike. Now, for our first date and shopping. I can tell it's gonna be a long-lasting relationship. UwU
Quote from: SiobhánF on October 09, 2018, 05:21:14 PM
Got me a girlfriend. We're at about the same place in transition and we like the same stuff, as well as think a lot alike. Now, for our first date and shopping. I can tell it's gonna be a long-lasting relationship. UwU
@SiobhánF
Oh WOW Siobhán that's great news, Hope your date goes well!
@StealthStilettos - Congratulations on your engagement!
Take care,
Sonja.
Quote from: SiobhánF on October 09, 2018, 05:21:14 PM
Got me a girlfriend. We're at about the same place in transition and we like the same stuff, as well as think a lot alike. Now, for our first date and shopping. I can tell it's gonna be a long-lasting relationship. UwU
@SiobhánFWell, this is wonderful news.... don't keep us in suspense, your followers will want more details (discrete of course) as things start progressing.... we want to definitely read about your first date and shopping trip together....
Thank you for sharing.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: StealthStilettos on October 09, 2018, 03:00:38 AM
Ok so maybe not all today per se, but on 10-2 my girlfriend officially proposed to me, was our 8 year anniversary, but can officially call her my fiancee now, and her as well, was super cute, she used a plastic sizing ring to propose, and I love it, cause I hate the thought of gem stones. Also almost 6 weeks into hrt and I've been stupid happy, but wow actually feeling anything is simply amazing! Taking my pills every day makes me stupid giddy, cant help it lol. Fiancee asked me if I wanted her to fix my toe nails, I sheepishly said yes, but now they are a beautiful sparkly pink. Also I love to cuddle her now, which is a huge change as I used to hate being touched. Only thing I'm missing now is friends, does anyone have the line app, if so please pm me. But seriously, damn never thought life would feel this good! And she says I have a boob now lol, lefty is growing like its the last day on Earth lol.
@StealthStilettos Wowzers !!! This is fantastic news that you bring to us.
Also it is great to hear about your HRT progress in just 6 weeks.... at that point in your HRT regimen things will start happening more quickly and more significantly... but patience is still definitely required. Changes with HRT are usually not as fast as we want, but changes will happen as you continue your journey.... Patience is required.
.... and now you have another journey with your new
fiancée.
CONGRATULATIONS !!!Thank you for sharing with all of us. I will be eagerly looking for your updates as you feel so led to post them.
Hugs, and well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: Bobbie Ann on October 02, 2018, 07:52:00 PM
I went to court and at 11am today Oct 2nd 2018
I became Bobbie LeAnn ***** sex female.
Legally!
It is official
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Quote from: Bobbie Ann on October 03, 2018, 09:21:16 PM
Thank you Danielle
It is a wonderful feeling using my new name. I wasted no time and went and got my drivers licence changed to my new name and where it says "Sex" there is the most wonderful "F" next to it.
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
@Bobbie Ann Dear Bobbie LeAnn:
Have you come down from cloud nine yet over have your legal name and gender on important documents? ???
It is so affirming to have this important milestone checked-off in your transition journey.
I am so very, very happy for you and am singing the "happy song" with you.
Hugs and hugs,
Danielle
Ahh thank you, these last few months have been a bit of a whirlwind, from me starting a new job after 4 years of being a stay at home parent, starting hrt by getting lucky and filling a dropped appointment that allowed me to start in just a couple months with informed consent, to the fiance just starting a new gig as well after being in a job she hated for the last few years. So tons of changes to improve our lives, and believe me when I say I have plenty of patience, at times it actually feels everything has been going at warp speed, which has been exhilarating and some what scary at the same time. Seems my body is just soaking up the E, even at what's basically a starter dose. It's hard not to feel so unprepared for all of this at times, but on the same hand its something I felt I needed since I was a teen, and actually being on the hormones and having that fog lifted thoroughly confirmed it. I've read so many accounts that mirror my current state, but nothing does it justice as experiencing it yourself. It is indeed quite a ride, and I'm just getting started.
Yay, figured out the ticker, that counts as making me happy right?!?! XD
Also serious about if anyone has the Line app, please pm me, super fun messaging app that I use for gaming, but would be great if I had some other girls to chat with, not to deter from this amazing site, just something I use consistently daily. Plus stickers!!!
Quote from: Artesia on October 03, 2018, 11:24:49 AM
Yesterday was officially my first birthday as me. My coworkers came out and sang happy birthday to me and used my true name for the first time EVER in a birthday song. I was so happy! They made me cry, it was an amazing feeling to hear my name sang. My fiancé gave me orchids for my birthday, they're my favorite flower. My nephews made it to their first birthday, after being born early.
@Artesia Happy Birthday to the "true" you.
WOW... this is fantastic news regarding your coworkers...
...and certainly is very affirming and confidence building for you.
... and your reported more fantastic news about your fiancé giving you ochids....
and also your nephews first birthday...
A day can't get much better than that!!! I am so very happy for you.
Thanks for sharing your wonderful and joyous day with all of us.
Hugs,
Danielle
It's been a good week so far. HRT is progressing, girlfriend has mentioned more changes she's noticed. I was dealing with a lot of dysphoria about my hair earlier, but now I have a haircut scheduled! I ran into a cousin of my mom last month at pride (I don't know why the local one is in September). She went thru cosmetology school and did my mom's hair for her a lot, so I reached out. Feeling good, hoping I can quiet some of the stress after this.
My girlfriend and I confessed our love tonight. What a relief! My heart can rest now because we've both been saying it about the other at night before we sleep. It just became too unbearable to hold it in any longer and we both wanted so badly to say it before this Saturday. Ugh! This feeling is unreal. <3
Quote from: SiobhánF on October 11, 2018, 01:01:06 AM
My girlfriend and I confessed our love tonight. What a relief! My heart can rest now because we've both been saying it about the other at night before we sleep. It just became too unbearable to hold it in any longer and we both wanted so badly to say it before this Saturday. Ugh! This feeling is unreal. <3
congrats! I agree, the intense feeling are ..
intense :D
This was last night, too late to post as I was going to bed
I recounted my DMV visit (HERE (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,230421.msg2183439.html#msg2183439)) with my eldest daughter. When I mentioned them asking if 'he' was here, her reply was, "Well, they weren't expecting a pretty lady".
**heart melt**
:icon_cry:
Quote from: Faith on October 11, 2018, 06:04:29 AM
This was last night, too late to post as I was going to bed
I recounted my DMV visit (HERE (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,230421.msg2183439.html#msg2183439)) with my eldest daughter. When I mentioned them asking if 'he' was here, her reply was, "Well, they weren't expecting a pretty lady".
**heart melt**
:icon_cry:
@Faith Dear Faith:
Yes indeed, the comment that you mentioned....
"Well, they weren't expecting a pretty lady". would indeed make your
heart melt, especially coming from your daughter [emoji173] and for sure hearing that from anyone would be a most welcome and self-affirming thing to hear.
Thank you for sharing this really good and HAPPY report.
Hugs,
Danielle
I survived my first electrolysis appointment! And to my surprise it was completely tolerable! (Of course Motrin and numbing cream helped :)) My technician was very friendly and welcoming, and I can't wait to return. I never thought I'd admit this but it was no worse than the laser I've been getting. There are so many lessons for us, aren't there? Now if I can just find a pair of cute girl shoes to fit me I will be so very happy.
Big hugs to everyone,
Lindy
Quote from: SiobhánF on October 11, 2018, 01:01:06 AM
My girlfriend and I confessed our love tonight. What a relief! My heart can rest now because we've both been saying it about the other at night before we sleep. It just became too unbearable to hold it in any longer and we both wanted so badly to say it before this Saturday. Ugh! This feeling is unreal. <3
@SiobhánF
Hey Siobhán Thats awesome!
Sonja.
I came out today to a long time friend of mine. He's the only gay person out of my old crowd back home, so it was kind of important to me for him to know. As of now that makes two people from my old scene that I'm out to. Not a lot, but it's sure a start.
Quote from: cassiebythesea on October 12, 2018, 01:03:18 AM
I came out today to a long time friend of mine. He's the only gay person out of my old crowd back home, so it was kind of important to me for him to know. As of now that makes two people from my old scene that I'm out to. Not a lot, but it's sure a start.
every step is a step forward in the right direction, each one as important as the one before. You can't take a next step without having a previous one.
I had a great 2nd week of transition:
* 2nd therapy session
* Came out to 2nd person
* Bought first clothes - and I liked how I looked in a dress
* Had first laser session - beard and chest.
Not bad for being in this transition thing for only 10 days. :)
Starting to put together a long-term transition timeline / plan. It's coming into shape, but there are definitely some conflicts / tradeoffs that I'm going to have to resolve between my transition and the rest of my life. I just want transition to be over ASAP, but I am starting to understand why it never goes as fast as you want.
I received a push-up plunge bra that I ordered through Torrid, and it fits perfectly. That's always a nice feeling. Now I have a good bra to wear with a low-cut top that will show some cleavage. :)
I have two weeks of vacation coming up this month and I decided to spend that time testing if being full-time could work. I started preparing for that by buying a new epilator, a lot of nail polish and make-up and a few clip-on earrings. I would have never thought that a little make-up and a pair of earrings will make me like what I see in the mirror when my hair is in a pony tail.
It was actually on Friday but I've only just got round to posting it...
I went out in one of my favourite dresses from my house to my friends house. It's the first time I've left my house dressed in something nice not just neutral! My friend also invited me to her hen do!! :)
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So I met up with some ladies from trans women National yesterday never thought that I'd. Be in that scene cuz I was trying to keep myself solo I guess but it turned out to be a lot of fun and I probably over dressed for the occasion but I had fun and I look good doing it I think(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181014/9c8c7d6d30ce879e99a9672e7ca46c34.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181014/fa8177c6804d1378aeebf3005964e689.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181014/49bb99bf3a2f1039580fa51338299807.jpg)
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Texted my cousin a bit today... he says he wants to preserve our relationship and doesn't want to fight about my nature. He says he'll read some more about transsexuality, and wants to discuss it without fighting anymore.
*Crossing fingers*
Sarah
Quote from: Sarah1979 on October 14, 2018, 04:37:14 PM
Texted my cousin a bit today... he says he wants to preserve our relationship and doesn't want to fight about my nature. He says he'll read some more about transsexuality, and wants to discuss it without fighting anymore.
*Crossing fingers*
Sarah
Even starting to have an open mind is an improvement I'm sure he will get to a place to where you two are comfortable with each other
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Yes it is, I'm so happy just thinking of him being ok with me. :D
Hugs,
Sarah
I know it's silly, but I got my ears pierced yesterday.
To this point, I have worn the hoops that look like your ears are pierced, but they are a bit hard on the ear lobes.
I have wanted to have them pierced since I was 13, which was a very long time ago...
Kate
Quote from: KatieP on October 16, 2018, 01:27:41 AM
I know it's silly, but I got my ears pierced yesterday.
To this point, I have worn the hoops that look like your ears are pierced, but they are a bit hard on the ear lobes.
I have wanted to have them pierced since I was 13, which was a very long time ago...
Kate
Nothing silly about that in my opinion, getting your ears pierced is a big step, it's something that is visible and a sure sign of change. I can imagine how happy this makes you, I wanted to have them pierced for more than 20 years now, it will be my gift for myself when I go full-time.
I got my first male fail today :D
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Quote from: MollyPants on October 16, 2018, 02:39:33 PM
I got my first male fail today :D
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Based on your avatar I'm surprised this was your first one :) It's a great feeling, but it can be annoying when for example they don't let you pay with your own credit card because "you can't pay with your husband's card!" :D
Quote from: Lynne on October 16, 2018, 02:43:35 PM
Based on your avatar I'm surprised this was your first one :) It's a great feeling, but it can be annoying when for example they don't let you pay with your own credit card because "you can't pay with your husband's card!" :D
Thank you! Oh gosh that's going to be an interesting situation! I hadn't even thought it might be an issue! Haha
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Had my first conversation with my 'Transition Coach!!!!!'
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Got myself put on a waiting list for MTF GRS with DR. Marcie Bowers. Things are really starting to come together.
Quote from: MollyPants on October 16, 2018, 02:52:43 PM
Thank you! Oh gosh that's going to be an interesting situation! I hadn't even thought it might be an issue! Haha
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Many credit card companies will let you get a second card in another name, or so I'm told. I don't use them so I haven't tried it. Probably a good idea to get a picture ID from somewhere with that name on it if you can.
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Quote from: Lynne on October 16, 2018, 02:43:35 PM
Based on your avatar I'm surprised this was your first one :) It's a great feeling, but it can be annoying when for example they don't let you pay with your own credit card because "you can't pay with your husband's card!" :D
I had a similar experience, Lynne. I was at a grocery store and the cashier asked for my license because I was using a credit card. She studied the picture then looked at me and said, "Who's this?!" Like I had stolen the card. I haven't changed my name yet and can pass some days, so I explained the photo was of the "old me." She smiled :)
Let's celebrate the little things :)
Amie June
Quote from: MollyPants on October 16, 2018, 02:39:33 PM
I got my first male fail today :D
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I'm so happy for you, Molly Pants! I still feel tingly inside when it happens :)
Amie June
Quote from: jkredman on October 16, 2018, 07:10:40 PM
Had my first conversation with my 'Transition Coach!!!!!'
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ooooo...I like the term "transition coach" a lot better than therapist! It works for me because that's kinda how the relationship is between me and my
therapist, I mean
coach!
got my paycheck early today :)
My hips and bottom have been getting slightly wider without me gaining any weight. :)
There is a skosh bit more room at the waist too.
I noticed several of my pants being a bit tighter down there and my pants seem to ride up a bit more, so I may need to get a longer length or otherwise go for a better fit. Maybe these will turn out to be usable ankle pants, you never know!
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on October 17, 2018, 01:49:50 PM
My hips and bottom have been getting slightly wider without me gaining any weight. :)
There is a skosh bit more room at the waist too.
I noticed several of my pants being a bit tighter down there and my pants seem to ride up a bit more, so I may need to get a longer length or otherwise go for a better fit. Maybe these will turn out to be usable ankle pants, you never know!
Chrissy
That's really exciting Chrissy!
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Quote from: MollyPants on October 17, 2018, 01:58:35 PM
That's really exciting Chrissy!
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Thanks. The pants cannot go up too much more because of the hot dog and his two nutty friends :) sorta in the way, but perhaps there is a little inseam or rise slack left for a little more upward slippage.
Chrissy
The 3 skirts I ordered (Navy, Black, & Red). were delivered today. They fit great and I really like how I look in the Red one.
Now to find a top to go with it.
Kate
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Quote from: Amie June on October 17, 2018, 08:47:51 AM
I had a similar experience, Lynne. I was at a grocery store and the cashier asked for my license because I was using a credit card. She studied the picture then looked at me and said, "Who's this?!" Like I had stolen the card. I haven't changed my name yet and can pass some days, so I explained the photo was of the "old me." She smiled :)
Let's celebrate the little things :)
Amie June
All of the little things can lead up to a great big happy life
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Quote from: jkredman on October 17, 2018, 04:03:11 PM
The 3 skirts I ordered (Navy, Black, & Red). were delivered today. They fit great and I really like how I look in the Red one.
Now to find a top to go with it.
Kate
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Kate,
That is fantastic that they fit well.
I might try to find a nice white top first, as it could be a versatile neutral addition to your wardrobe, but just go pick something you really like for the red skirt. Have fun!
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on October 17, 2018, 01:49:50 PM
My hips and bottom have been getting slightly wider without me gaining any weight. :)
There is a skosh bit more room at the waist too.
I noticed several of my pants being a bit tighter down there and my pants seem to ride up a bit more, so I may need to get a longer length or otherwise go for a better fit. Maybe these will turn out to be usable ankle pants, you never know!
Chrissy
I really hope I am able to get hips...Right now I am a 38" waist and 42" hip. But I'm losing weight fast, and just hope that 42" hangs in there. If I can get down to 32-40, I'll be happy.
I got my name changed! I'm officially Bridget Siobhán Flanery. The commissioner was such a sweetheart too. I had my girlfriend with me, as well. Ooh! I can't wait until I get to be there for her name change hearing. ^_^
edit: I forgot to post a photo of my order. lol
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Quote from: SiobhánF on October 17, 2018, 08:55:06 PM
I got my name changed! I'm officially Bridget Siobhán Flanery. The commissioner was such a sweetheart too. I had my girlfriend with me, as well. Ooh! I can't wait until I get to be there for her name change hearing. ^_^
@SiobhánFHello Bridget Siobhán Flanery,
I kinda thought that you would like to be addressed by your new full and legal name.
A very pretty name for sure!! Congratulations to you on getting your name officially changed.
Certainly very exciting news and is one more thing that you can check off on your transition "to-do" list.
Thanks for posting your wonderful news.
Hugs,
Danielle
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@SiobhánF
Hello Bridget Siobhán Flanery,
I kinda thought that you would like to be addressed by your new full and legal name.
A very pretty name for sure!! Congratulations to you on getting your name officially changed.
Certainly very exciting news and is one more thing that you can check off on your transition "to-do" list.
Thanks for posting your wonderful news.
Hugs,
Danielle
Thank you, Danielle! :D
Quote from: SiobhánF on October 17, 2018, 08:55:06 PM
I got my name changed! I'm officially Bridget Siobhán Flanery. The commissioner was such a sweetheart too. I had my girlfriend with me, as well. Ooh! I can't wait until I get to be there for her name change hearing. ^_^
edit: I forgot to post a photo of my order. lol
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That's great news Bridget. Congratulations. A very affirming moment in your life.
Hugs,
Donica.
Quote from: Donica on October 18, 2018, 02:41:46 PM
That's great news Bridget. Congratulations. A very affirming moment in your life.
Hugs,
Donica.
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Congratulations Bridget Doesn't it feel good? Strange but good.
I am still trying to remember who I am.... that could just be old age I guess.
Hugs,
Laurie
@SiobhánF
Congratulations Bridget! Surely this deserves a celebratory song...let me pick one out for you..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4p1k6YIc1U
Sonja.
Quote from: Laurie on October 18, 2018, 09:45:26 PM
Congratulations Bridget Doesn't it feel good? Strange but good.
It does!
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@SiobhánF
Congratulations Bridget! Surely this deserves a celebratory song...let me pick one out for you..
Thanks, love! ^_^
I went to a spa and received a facial and a neck, arms, hands and face massage. My face is brightened up. :D
I sure have been paying a growing amount of attention to good skin care, diet, and overall appearance.
Chrissy
My therapist told me he is going to be working on my gender marker change letter over the weekend :)
Sarah
Quote from: Sarah1979 on October 19, 2018, 03:05:18 PM
My therapist told me he is going to be working on my gender marker change letter over the weekend :)
Sarah
That is awesome news congrats!!!
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on October 19, 2018, 03:11:43 PM
That is awesome news congrats!!!
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Thank you, I've been floating all day :D
Hugs,
Sarah
Quote from: Sarah1979 on October 19, 2018, 03:05:18 PM
My therapist told me he is going to be working on my gender marker change letter over the weekend :)
Sarah
Sarah,
That is so good news! Great!
Chrissy
OK here is something simple but it really made me feel great. I shaved my legs for the first time in my life. They aren't as smooth as I had hoped for but it really made my day. Love and faith.
Gabrielle
Quote from: Gabrielle66 on October 19, 2018, 09:34:33 PM
OK here is something simple but it really made me feel great. I shaved my legs for the first time in my life. They aren't as smooth as I had hoped for but it really made my day. Love and faith.
Gabrielle
It is very tricky to get your legs to come out as smooth as you want them to be what I usually do is go against the grain or against the hair flow and it does tend to get a closer shave but if you are doing something like this I would suggest a really good razor I myself like the Gillette fusion blue here's a picture of it works really good plus it has a edger/trimmer for those tricky areas the third picture you can barely tell it but there is a single blade trimmer and it works very very well on ears directly underneath your nose where a normal razor can't get(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181020/021b34a859f2f30c93c6e5c5e641e38c.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181020/a50cb6b80f241617134edb997d7a45f7.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181020/648c0d87265da968d5739fa92aac00b5.jpg)
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Nothing too big, but it's the small steps that count. As of tonight, I'm now out to almost all of my closest friends. Most of the people I've known for years that I would count as much a part of my family as my own relatives, are now aware and in my corner. Feels almost unbelievable after all these years of hiding that I'm finally able to not only tell my friends about this, but that they'd all be fully supportive.
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Nothing too big, but it's the small steps that count. As of tonight, I'm now out to almost all of my closest friends. Most of the people I've known for years that I would count as much a part of my family as my own relatives, are now aware and in my corner. Feels almost unbelievable after all these years of hiding that I'm finally able to not only tell my friends about this, but that they'd all be fully supportive.
Cassie,
That is truly awesome! I can only hope to have a fraction of that success with my friends and family when the time comes. Love and faith.
Gabrielle
I continue my counseling and am starting to feel better about myself and my gender thoughts and feelings.
Chrissy
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on October 19, 2018, 10:24:05 PM
It is very tricky to get your legs to come out as smooth as you want them to be what I usually do is go against the grain or against the hair flow and it does tend to get a closer shave but if you are doing something like this I would suggest a really good razor I myself like the Gillette fusion blue here's a picture of it works really good plus it has a edger/trimmer for those tricky areas the third picture you can barely tell it but there is a single blade trimmer and it works very very well on ears directly underneath your nose where a normal razor can't get(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181020/021b34a859f2f30c93c6e5c5e641e38c.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181020/a50cb6b80f241617134edb997d7a45f7.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181020/648c0d87265da968d5739fa92aac00b5.jpg)
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Arianna,
Thank you for the suggestion. I think that I may not have taken enough time to do the job right. I do have a pretty good razor from the dollar shave club that I feel works really well. It also has that nice single blade for tight places, so I am with you there. That extra blade is super handy. My legs feel pretty nice today. I definitely like them smooth. I'm thinking it might be interesting to try having them waxed sometime for a super smooth sensation. I've decided not to allow society to dictate how I look anymore. If I want to be smooth that's my business. I will definitely make sure to run against the grain the next time I decide to shave my legs. Love and faith.
Gabrielle
Quote from: Gabrielle66 on October 20, 2018, 09:51:30 AM
Arianna,
Thank you for the suggestion. I think that I may not have taken enough time to do the job right. I do have a pretty good razor from the dollar shave club that I feel works really well. It also has that nice single blade for tight places, so I am with you there. That extra blade is super handy. My legs feel pretty nice today. I definitely like them smooth. I'm thinking it might be interesting to try having them waxed sometime for a super smooth sensation. I've decided not to allow society to dictate how I look anymore. If I want to be smooth that's my business. I will definitely make sure to run against the grain the next time I decide to shave my legs. Love and faith.
Gabrielle
That is great news that you finally got them as smooth as you like I know shaving is tough for a lot of us because we're not used to shaving other areas other than our faces so it's definitely trial-and-error for me it's worse because I have psoriasis all over my legs and the Fusion razor doesn't seem to cut up my legs as bad which is nice also as far as Society dictating how you look you do realize that professional athletes shave their legs wrestlers on WWE a world known product shave all of their body hair male and female athletes who swim shave all their body hair the men even go as far as to shave their heads and this is socially acceptable so don't feel like you shaving your legs is socially unacceptable because it's not it's socially normal oh also one issue that I had once or twice shaving Against the Grain or even with it is shaving before the hair had enough time to grow out far enough and it ends up pulling the hair follicles out ripping them out and there's usually a bit of blood or at least for me there is
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This is going to sound odd to be happy about but I went to the Urgent Care cuz I hurt my shoulder and what made me happy about it is the Doctor Who was older gentleman kept calling me Miss and her
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on October 21, 2018, 02:58:03 PM
This is going to sound odd to be happy about but I went to the Urgent Care cuz I hurt my shoulder and what made me happy about it is the Doctor Who was older gentleman kept calling me Miss and her
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That's awesome! ^_^
Quote from: SiobhánF on October 17, 2018, 08:55:06 PM
I got my name changed! I'm officially Bridget Siobhán Flanery. The commissioner was such a sweetheart too. I had my girlfriend with me, as well. Ooh! I can't wait until I get to be there for her name change hearing. ^_^
edit: I forgot to post a photo of my order. lol
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Congratulations Bridget Siobhán - a great Irish name ;D
Quote from: tarabel on October 22, 2018, 11:42:44 PM
Congratulations Bridget Siobhán - a great Irish name ;D
Thank you! ^_^
Cleavage! After 12 months of titrated hormones, this morning I saw genuine cleavage! I felt so happy I nearly danced out the door on my way to work.
Quote from: Sienna Grace on October 23, 2018, 06:25:47 AM
Cleavage! After 12 months of titrated hormones, this morning I saw genuine cleavage! I felt so happy I nearly danced out the door on my way to work.
That is wonderful
Chrissy
It's the little things, more often than not. Today I was uploading my new photo to an online site and somehow ended up with a "similar images" search page. Every picture (save one of a nondescript man wearing eyeglasses similar to mine) was of other women.
I guess I basically "pass" when it comes to internet image search engines, and that makes me feel more confident (and happy!) about my appearance at this point in my transition!
Quote from: RoryL on October 23, 2018, 02:24:40 PM
It's the little things, more often than not. Today I was uploading my new photo to an online site and somehow ended up with a "similar images" search page. Every picture (save one of a nondescript man wearing eyeglasses similar to mine) was of other women.
I guess I basically "pass" when it comes to internet image search engines, and that makes me feel more confident (and happy!) about my appearance at this point in my transition!
You are right. It is often about the little things that can make you smile.
I love wearing my diamond (cubic zirconia) stud earrings almost to the point I never want to take them off!
They just seem to brighten up your face. These might be overkill when wearing Ts and jeans but
I almost, but not quite completely, just do not care, unless I was going to play some contact sports.
They are not huge, just pretty.
Chrissy
I bought some new clothes. Some leggings and a couple shirts.
Quote from: AoifeB on October 23, 2018, 03:47:54 PM
I bought some new clothes. Some leggings and a couple shirts.
@AoifeB It is definitely fun to shop for clothing that was a mystery in the past.
This is only the beginning, consider this a warmup to more clothes shopping....
... the favorite pass time for women.
Danielle
Quote from: Sienna Grace on October 23, 2018, 06:25:47 AM
Cleavage! After 12 months of titrated hormones, this morning I saw genuine cleavage! I felt so happy I nearly danced out the door on my way to work.
@Sienna Grace Thank you for sharing your good news...
...and do know that this is just the beginning, there will be more changes coming as you continue your journey.
Please keep posting your updates so we can rejoice with you as you notice more changes.
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on October 23, 2018, 03:59:59 PM
@AoifeB
It is definitely fun to shop for clothing that was a mystery in the past.
This is only the beginning, consider this a warmup to more clothes shopping....
... the favorite pass time for women.
Danielle
Oh, I've gotten very familiar with retail therapy. Been building up my closet and having lots of fun. Even bought a dress.
Quote from: RoryL on October 23, 2018, 02:24:40 PM
It's the little things, more often than not. Today I was uploading my new photo to an online site and somehow ended up with a "similar images" search page. Every picture (save one of a nondescript man wearing eyeglasses similar to mine) was of other women.
I guess I basically "pass" when it comes to internet image search engines, and that makes me feel more confident (and happy!) about my appearance at this point in my transition!
I'm not sure about the algorithmic machinations of internet search engines, but to my very human eyes you look 100% beautifully female Rory 🌞
I finally received my HRT for the next 3 years
I went out today wearing my Halloween costume I got smiles and thank you for making people's days and thumbs up everybody loves my Halloween costume and it makes me feel good(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181024/89a5e8018e1bf49518b74b46b1bae025.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181024/87dac86e2a132c5551d06998b5ffbf9d.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181024/e9d957ebb3536e8ddddeb875c3dd719b.jpg)
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I went out today wearing my Halloween costume I got smiles and thank you for making people's days and thumbs up everybody loves my Halloween costume and it makes me feel good(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181024/89a5e8018e1bf49518b74b46b1bae025.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181024/87dac86e2a132c5551d06998b5ffbf9d.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181024/e9d957ebb3536e8ddddeb875c3dd719b.jpg)
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@Arianna Valentine It is so nice to see your happy face.... great photos....
... and it is nice to see a halloween costume that is not meant to be scary or frightning...
Happy is much better. You must have had a fun time going out and about.
Thanks for sharing.
Hugs,
Danielle
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I went out today wearing my Halloween costume I got smiles and thank you for making people's days and thumbs up everybody loves my Halloween costume and it makes me feel good(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181024/89a5e8018e1bf49518b74b46b1bae025.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181024/87dac86e2a132c5551d06998b5ffbf9d.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181024/e9d957ebb3536e8ddddeb875c3dd719b.jpg)
That is a nice costume! It was great that you could make some people smile!
Chrissy
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@Arianna Valentine
It is so nice to see your happy face.... great photos....
... and it is nice to see a halloween costume that is not meant to be scary or frightning...
Happy is much better. You must have had a fun time going out and about.
Thanks for sharing.
Hugs,
Danielle
Thank you very much I had so much fun even though I was only out for a couple hours it was still a great time
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Well it was yesterday but I had a customer whom I've visited at least once a year for the past four years ask "So what happened to deadname? Did you take over for him?"
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on October 24, 2018, 04:06:22 PM
Well it was yesterday but I had a customer whom I've visited at least once a year for the past four years ask "So what happened to deadname? Did you take over for him?"
Wow. That is cool.
Chrissy
I was pretty happy for sure. My good old boy customer from the backwoods of Kentucky on the other hand didn't seem so pleased with the explanation.
But if he was hateful about it, he didn't do it to my face. He needed me there more than I needed to be there.
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on October 24, 2018, 08:47:29 PM
I was pretty happy for sure. My good old boy customer from the backwoods of Kentucky on the other hand didn't seem so pleased with the explanation.
But if he was hateful about it, he didn't do it to my face. He needed me there more than I needed to be there.
Okay now that brings me to a question are you from Kentucky and if so what part?
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No, have a few customers to visit in Louisville and Lexington from time to time. Well until the end of next month when my resignation takes effect.
I'm from California and Arizona, though I did live at Fort Knox for about 18 weeks in the summer and fall of 1999.
I got my size 9 Made in England Vintage 1460 Doc Martens today! Not the best winter boots, but I have wool socks.
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https://www.drmartens.com/us/en/p/12308001 (https://www.drmartens.com/us/en/p/12308001)
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on October 24, 2018, 09:00:43 PM
No, have a few customers to visit in Louisville and Lexington from time to time. Well until the end of next month when my resignation takes effect.
I'm from California and Arizona, though I did live at Fort Knox for about 18 weeks in the summer and fall of 1999.
Oh okay I was just curious cuz I actually live in Crestwood Kentucky which is just outside of Louisville and LaGrange
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Aah gotcha. I wish I had time to visit on this trip but it was the definition of a low sleep whirlwind trip since I had to be back home to visit the University of Kansas today and tomorrow. (which really is the norm and they wonder why I'm tired of this gig...)
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on October 24, 2018, 09:35:33 PM
Aah gotcha. I wish I had time to visit on this trip but it was the definition of a low sleep whirlwind trip since I had to be back home to visit the University of Kansas today and tomorrow. (which really is the norm and they wonder why I'm tired of this gig...)
No problem maybe next time you get around Kentucky we can go out and do lunch or something I'd be good with that
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My therapist sent me the rough draft for my gender marker change letter today
:)
HUGS,
Sarah
Quote from: Sarah1979 on October 26, 2018, 04:32:48 PM
My therapist sent me the rough draft for my gender marker change letter today
:)
HUGS,
Sarah
Sarah,
That is wonderful!
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on October 26, 2018, 04:38:26 PM
Sarah,
That is wonderful!
Chrissy
Thank you Chrissy,
:D I'm nonstop squeeing inside
Hugs,
Sarah
My mom offered to cover the fee for my name change the other day. She's been really supportive thru this.
Quote from: AoifeB on October 26, 2018, 07:10:11 PM
My mom offered to cover the fee for my name change the other day. She's been really supportive thru this.
That is absolutely amazing news and it is so good that you have so much support from your mother congratulations
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Quote from: Sarah1979 on October 26, 2018, 04:32:48 PM
My therapist sent me the rough draft for my gender marker change letter today
:)
HUGS,
Sarah
Great news, Sarah.
One thing to remember is that if you need it for a passport change, it has to be worded exactly like they want. There are a couple of threads about that.
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I have been feeling a bit down about current events lately. We were in one of our favourite second-hand clothing stores for some retail therapy, and got talking to the shopkeeper about those current affairs. The subject rolled around to how lucky we are to live where we do. The circumstances seemed appropriate, so I thought I would tell her about how well I have been received in our little village.
I started out by saying, "Well, I am probably the first trans person that they have ever met..." There was a hesitation in her eyes as she processed that, and then her face lit up in a big smile.
So, not only was I right in guessing that she would be supportive, but she hadn't read me at all, not even my voice. :D
That is my personal dream Kathy, how did you nail the voice?. My best voice goes from full baritone to " soft baritone".
Imagine passing and conversing as a woman. Please tell me how good that is !
Kind regards, Kirsten
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Thanks, Kirsten. Yes it feels really good!
I took voice lessons a couple of years ago. I was a poor student, but I still keep those lessons in the back of my mind. I learned quickly that I would never be able to raise my voice the full octave that the "books" said I needed to. But I did find that I could raise it a fifth without strain.
So, I keep three things in my mind while speaking. It is not like I focus on them; more like they are now a habit. One is to keep my pitch up. The second is to make my speech more musical. The third is not to let my pitch drop at the end of a sentence. I seldom succeed with all of them. Sometimes, I don't succeed with any of them. But the overall effect seems to be working.
My former voice teacher is acting in the play that I am currently working on at the community theatre, so I see her a lot, and I have motivation to have my voice sound good. :)
I bet you have good intonation amongst those other good habits you mentioned. Do you find yourself naturally adding female phrases as well?
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Quote from: Kirsteneklund7 on October 27, 2018, 07:49:29 AM
I bet you have good intonation amongst those other good habits you mentioned. Do you find yourself naturally adding female phrases as well?
I wouldn't say my intonation is good. It's not bad, though, I guess. Female phrases?? I am not sure I know any!
Quote from: KathyLauren on October 27, 2018, 07:16:18 AM
Thanks, Kirsten. Yes it feels really good!
I took voice lessons a couple of years ago. I was a poor student, but I still keep those lessons in the back of my mind. I learned quickly that I would never be able to raise my voice the full octave that the "books" said I needed to. But I did find that I could raise it a fifth without strain.
So, I keep three things in my mind while speaking. It is not like I focus on them; more like they are now a habit. One is to keep my pitch up. The second is to make my speech more musical. The third is not to let my pitch drop at the end of a sentence. I seldom succeed with all of them. Sometimes, I don't succeed with any of them. But the overall effect seems to be working.
My former voice teacher is acting in the play that I am currently working on at the community theatre, so I see her a lot, and I have motivation to have my voice sound good. :)
@KathyLauren Practice, practice, practice, practice, practice ... and more practice.... yes, speaking with your new voice must become a habit as you stated and no longer need to focus on it every time you speak. It sounds like that you are aware of many of the things that need to be addressed with presenting with a female voice.
It is so easy to slip up with one's voice when stressed, surprised or making a quick response. Think and concentrate before you speak.
I am sure that you will do well... especially with your former voice teacher being there... at least you will have good support!!!
Hugs,
Danielle
Better than ma'amed, I got missed.
Returned my cart to the cart corral at Costco and the cart wrangler was there hauling them back inside and he said "thank you miss".
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I bought a nice blouse. :)
I will continue to work on my voice. This in my mind is something that I really want to be natural with. Pitch, tone, variance, word choice, enunciation, and body language. While perfection is not expected, I would like anyone listening to my female voice and to watch me speak to feel comfortable that they are hearing and talking with a woman.
I would also feel much, much more comfortable. Could it even become a melodic voice that one enjoys listening to? Well, you never know!
This is one "fork in the road" in my mind that I think that I should successfully navigate before I take more serious steps in mtf transitioning, instead of remaining both male and female in my mind and heart. Maybe I will always be both. I will let nature take its course and will see what happens, one day at a time.
Chrissy
Being accepted.
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Quote from: Denise on October 28, 2018, 01:01:42 PM
Being accepted.
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That is always truly the greatest thing in the world acceptance
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I donated a lot of my male clothing this weekend.
Still have a lot though. Whatever was in the closet I thought that I would never wear again is gone.
Someone can get good use out of them, a not for profit can receive some funds by selling them,
plus that helps to keep the thrift store employees employed. Maybe some are volunteers, and that allows them to give of their time. They likely receive a lot of clothing and goods to sort through.
Chrissy
Went to the social security office today to get my name changed to be able to get IDs and stuff in my name.
This was me waiting in line, amid the stares, long wait, and having to pee really bad (thanks spiro!):
(https://i.imgur.com/hKUMHvg.jpg)
Then, the nice lady handling my change gave me the official stamp on my receipt:
(https://i.imgur.com/QACSj8o.jpg)
Also, I got ma'am'd at McDonalds at the drive-thru. Today was a good day.
Quote from: SiobhánF on October 30, 2018, 09:50:15 PM
Went to the social security office today to get my name changed to be able to get IDs and stuff in my name.
This was me waiting in line, amid the stares, long wait, and having to pee really bad (thanks spiro!):
(https://i.imgur.com/hKUMHvg.jpg)
Then, the nice lady handling my change gave me the official stamp on my receipt:
(https://i.imgur.com/QACSj8o.jpg)
Also, I got ma'am'd at McDonalds at the drive-thru. Today was a good day.
I think the over peeing is the worst part of it all lmao thx Spiro [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]
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Haha! Yeah. 0_0
My friend got me some new boots online as she had some credit with a company she didn't want to buy anything from. They look lovely and even better they fitted. I have no idea how. But they do! She also invited me to her hen do! :)
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Quote from: ChrissyRyan on October 28, 2018, 01:34:08 PM
I donated a lot of my male clothing this weekend.
Still have a lot though. Whatever was in the closet I thought that I would never wear again is gone.
Someone can get good use out of them, a not for profit can receive some funds by selling them,
plus that helps to keep the thrift store employees employed. Maybe some are volunteers, and that allows them to give of their time. They likely receive a lot of clothing and goods to sort through.
Chrissy
You are a hero!! I am not able to do that at the moment. My psychologist wanted me to start with it, but I put my claws out and bared my teeth ready to fight her down the last drop of blood!
I always was a cloth (and shoe) shop-o-manic. I have some shirts which I never ever have worn, the same applies to some shoes. It would kill me to just give the stuff away! I think I have to go on vacation and have my son doing this (he did it with my suits a few years ago).
Anyway, congrats, now you have lots of space to fill it up again with girly stuff!
Quote from: SiobhánF on October 30, 2018, 09:50:15 PM
Went to the social security office today to get my name changed to be able to get IDs and stuff in my name.
This was me waiting in line, amid the stares, long wait, and having to pee really bad (thanks spiro!):
Also, I got ma'am'd at McDonalds at the drive-thru. Today was a good day.
You say "amid the stares" but I cannot believe people were staring at you, at least not in any sort of bad way. You are super cute. Any stares would have been people wondering where that beautiful woman came from...
And, CONGRATULATIONS on the SSA change!!
Kate
Quote from: SiobhánF on October 30, 2018, 09:50:15 PM
Went to the social security office today to get my name changed to be able to get IDs and stuff in my name.
This was me waiting in line, amid the stares, long wait, and having to pee really bad (thanks spiro!):
(https://i.imgur.com/hKUMHvg.jpg)
Then, the nice lady handling my change gave me the official stamp on my receipt:
(https://i.imgur.com/QACSj8o.jpg)
Also, I got ma'am'd at McDonalds at the drive-thru. Today was a good day.
You got stares for being super cute! That's the only feasible reason.
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Oh, I'm quite certain they were staring because of how tall I am and how not passing I am. But, I did enjoy that I wasn't nervous anymore. I was having anxiety about going in, but my mental motto is, "if I don't do this, the cis win." lol. or something to that effect.
This happened yesterday, I hope it's still ok to post it...
I visited my psychology professor during her office hours because this was my first semester attending as a woman and I wanted to ask her if she could tell I was trans.
I wasn't surprised when she told me she could tell and to her it was pretty obvious. Oh well, I'm still early in my transition, and that was the feeling I was getting around campus anyways. I asked her how she could tell and she said that my chin is pretty square. That makes total sense, and this was really good feedback to get! My friends and family always just tell me I look good, but I knew this professor would be candid; that's her style.
We chatted for about an hour about trans stuff, religion, her military background. It was really good! She used to be in private practice and she's really easy to open up to. I'm so glad I decided to visit her! :D
Quote from: SiobhánF on October 31, 2018, 03:28:07 PM
Oh, I'm quite certain they were staring because of how tall I am and how not passing I am. But, I did enjoy that I wasn't nervous anymore. I was having anxiety about going in, but my mental motto is, "if I don't do this, the cis win." lol. or something to that effect.
Hi SiobhánF, 31 October 2018
If your avatar is actually you, there is no way you were being misgendered.
You are beautiful and Hot. That's what they were looking at. Keep it going.
Best Always, Love
Chris
Quote from: SiobhánF on October 31, 2018, 03:28:07 PM
Oh, I'm quite certain they were staring because of how tall I am and how not passing I am. But, I did enjoy that I wasn't nervous anymore. I was having anxiety about going in, but my mental motto is, "if I don't do this, the cis win." lol. or something to that effect.
You pass so much better than I do you look extremely naturally feminine
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Quote from: Angela H on October 31, 2018, 05:06:21 PM
This happened yesterday, I hope it's still ok to post it...
I visited my psychology professor during her office hours because this was my first semester attending as a woman and I wanted to ask her if she could tell I was trans.
I wasn't surprised when she told me she could tell and to her it was pretty obvious. Oh well, I'm still early in my transition, and that was the feeling I was getting around campus anyways. I asked her how she could tell and she said that my chin is pretty square. That makes total sense, and this was really good feedback to get! My friends and family always just tell me I look good, but I knew this professor would be candid; that's her style.
We chatted for about an hour about trans stuff, religion, her military background. It was really good! She used to be in private practice and she's really easy to open up to. I'm so glad I decided to visit her! :D
Awesome! I need something like that. A critical eye that tells it like it is. :)
Quote from: christinej78 on October 31, 2018, 05:50:39 PM
Hi SiobhánF, 31 October 2018
If your avatar is actually you, there is no way you were being misgendered. You are beautiful and Hot. That's what they were looking at. Keep it going.
Best Always, Love
Chris
That's actually me, but I'm really tall, so I imagine that's what they notice the most. lol
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on October 31, 2018, 05:51:59 PM
You pass so much better than I do you look extremely naturally feminine
It's the wig that does it, but I'm happy that it works for me. Thanks, love.
Quote from: SiobhánF on October 31, 2018, 06:45:24 PM
Awesome! I need something like that. A critical eye that tells it like it is. :)
That's actually me, but I'm really tall, so I imagine that's what they notice the most. lol
It's the wig that does it, but I'm happy that it works for me. Thanks, love.
I honestly had no idea that was a wig
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on October 31, 2018, 06:46:20 PM
I honestly had no idea that was a wig
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Yeah, if you can get one, get a lace front. They're so nice and comfy and you can wear it while you wait for your hair to grow out. ;)
Quote from: SiobhánF on October 31, 2018, 06:48:13 PM
Yeah, if you can get one, get a lace front. They're so nice and comfy and you can wear it while you wait for your hair to grow out. ;)
That I honestly don't think I need even if my hair doesn't agree with me it's still pretty decent length(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181031/909beecfa654b5f3586c4eff7fc65f79.jpg)
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Quote from: SiobhánF on October 31, 2018, 03:28:07 PM
Oh, I'm quite certain they were staring because of how tall I am and how not passing I am. But, I did enjoy that I wasn't nervous anymore. I was having anxiety about going in, but my mental motto is, "if I don't do this, the cis win." lol. or something to that effect.
Tall isn't necessarily a deal breaker. I was shopping and an elderly woman asked me to get something from a top shelf. As I did I quipped, "being tall has to be good for something. I was never pretty enough to be a model." She just laughed.
Even at 5'10" I don't get clocked unless I dress too butch and even then it's a 50/50 shot.
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Quote from: SiobhánF on October 31, 2018, 06:45:24 PM
It's the wig that does it, but I'm happy that it works for me. Thanks, love.
Um. OK. The hair IS great. But I think the super cute face helps a lot...
;D
Kate
I was today at the endocrinologist for the first time. When he saw me, he said I don't even need to do any extra testing, you are as Klinefelter as they come. The blood test and everything was in all ready, and yes, I am XXY, the girl is hiding inside the male! He did not liek my sugar levels that much and I have a little kidney problems . He feels it was my diabetes medication that did the thing to the kidneys. I got new medication prescribed for that, and I found out that the stupid health insurance has it as a Tier 1 medication with a $58 copay for a 30 day supply!
But he prescribed estrogen! I don't know what brand, but they are supposed patches and I am supposed to wear one each on each upper arm. I have to wait for them because they are a controlled substance and they come through the mail.
This mean, in about a week I will be on the forced road to womanhood, and not that little dabbling what the XXY stuff was doing! The girl inside of me plans to send the boy to the junk yard. His job is done, now the girls power will take over!
Hi, Dietlind. It must be a relief to have the doubt replaced by certainty. Congratulations on starting HRT!
Quote from: Dietlind on November 01, 2018, 04:52:04 PMThe girl inside of me plans to send the boy to the junk yard.
Ha ha! "Junk yard" is such an appropriate name for it, don't you think? ;)
Quote from: KathyLauren on November 01, 2018, 05:03:39 PM
Hi, Dietlind. It must be a relief to have the doubt replaced by certainty. Congratulations on starting HRT!
Ha ha! "Junk yard" is such an appropriate name for it, don't you think? ;)
I think that was a typical Freudian slip! But whatever place we can send that guy to, is fine, as long as it is far away and ugly!
I keep seeing a strange woman at the end of the hallway in my apartment. I just get a glimpse our of the corner of my eye. She's sort of cute in an older woman's sort of way.
I finally managed to confront her head on in the bathroom this morning...
I broke down, crying with happiness. I'm here. I'm real and complete, after so many decades of being buried alive.
(It takes a while for self-image to catch up with reality, but when it does... Wow. And I do cry easily. Just ask my girlfriend.)
Quote from: Michelle_P on November 01, 2018, 08:52:04 PM
I keep seeing a strange woman at the end of the hallway in my apartment. I just get a glimpse our of the corner of my eye. She's sort of cute in an older woman's sort of way.
I finally managed to confront her head on in the bathroom this morning...
I broke down, crying with happiness. I'm here. I'm real and complete, after so many decades of being buried alive.
(It takes a while for self-image to catch up with reality, but when it does... Wow. And I do cry easily. Just ask my girlfriend.)
That was an absolutely beautiful and touching experience Michelle. I am so happy for you.
Thank you for sharing.
Chrissy
My petition for name and gender change has been granted and my FFS has been approved.
Woo-hoo! That is great news, Donica!
Quote from: Donica on November 02, 2018, 01:43:00 PM
My petition for name and gender change has been granted and my FFS has been approved.
Congratulations just remember don't let it bother you when people call you by your dead name because it will happen quite a bit it still happens to me lol
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Quote from: Donica on November 02, 2018, 01:43:00 PM
My petition for name and gender change has been granted and my FFS has been approved.
Congrats! What is required to get that petition approved?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 02, 2018, 02:16:03 PM
Congratulations just remember don't let it bother you when people call you by your dead name because it will happen quite a bit it still happens to me lol
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That is why I am training them today already. My new name is not that different to my old name, and I hope it will sink in fast!
Quote from: Dietlind on November 02, 2018, 02:48:42 PM
That is why I am training them today already. My new name is not that different to my old name, and I hope it will sink in fast!
That is an awesome idea training them but I do hope that they take to it quickly to there's nothing worse than being constantly called by your dead name
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Quote from: Dietlind on November 02, 2018, 02:47:23 PM
Congrats! What is required to get that petition approved?
It all depends on which state or region you live in but pretty much, for the lower 48, it just requires a few legal document to be filled out and filed with your local Superior Court. They are very strict about being filled out properly and presented in the right order as well. In California, Once all the document have been filed with the Hall Of Justice Civil clerk and about $435 dollars later, they are sent to a judge for review and approval. As of 09/01/2018, California no longer requires a hearing before a judge and no longer requires a Declaration of physician for name and gender change. As stated in Document SB-179.
Once the Judge has signed you court order, You will need 3 or 4 certified copies at about $25 dollars a piece. These certified copies and a few more forms are then taken to the SSA, DMV, Banks, Employer, Health care etc... and in that order as well. The SSA and the DMV both have their separate forms that must be filled out.
All of these forms can be easily found online.
Hope this helps!
Donica.
Thanks Donica. If all get like planned, I hope I also will be in that position. in the nearer future! I hope that my intersex thing speeds everything up a little!
I got myself a new phone today
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Arrived in Marbella for my facial feminisation surgery on Tuesday :)
New birth certificate arrived last week as well and I started presenting full-time at work with no issues whatsoever.
It's been a good few weeks <3
Quote from: sophie1904 on November 03, 2018, 05:48:19 PM
Arrived in Marbella for my facial feminisation surgery on Tuesday :)
New birth certificate arrived last week as well and I started presenting full-time at work with no issues whatsoever.
It's been a good few weeks <3
congratulation! I would not mind to be in Marbella without any surgeries planned, just be there and enjoy it!
I think I am becoming a woman, and slowly be leaving my guy behind! Two of my girlfriends took me to the Edison Mall in fort Myers to shop with me for woman,s stuff. I found some real nice stuff in a small boutique, an elegant flowing panst skirt that goes all the way to my feet, and a nice lacy top for it. I can now go to any gala! I also bought a pair of leggings with a miniskirt attached, and a long cardigan type of sweater. I now know that pants for me need to be L and tops need to be XL. And we went shoe shopping. My ideal ladies shoe size is 10 1/2, and if I wear those nylon liners in them, I can wear an 11.
To op the day of, I got my ears piercend and am wearing now some rhinestone studs in them. We went to Macy's and found some nice necklaces and some cologne!
Now I have to wait what estrogen will be doing to my body before I buy anything else to wear!
Both of my friends feel that i should be full time from now on. The only person who identified me as male was the young lady punching holes into my poor ear lobes, but she needed to see my ID! Everybody else called me ma'm (or honey or sweety).
I am now split, because I hate to wear my rather cheap (but supposedly good looking) wig, because I wanted to wait until my hair has grown enough to make some kind of a female hairdo with it.
I would put some pics up, but I have no idea how to do this (stupid Medicis)
I went out and found the type of sweater that I have always wanted but could never wear due to not having transitioned yet but I'm wearing it is so warm and fuzzy and yes the pants are the pre ripped jeans which I swore I would never wear but oh my God they are so comfortable I think I got him a size bigger than what I needed though(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181104/401e5df1f6a90f66ae1852d294a507e3.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181104/7a16877fa8fac85ea28e1e6e5390ceab.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181104/d0e265993a8336b6679ff5bdb8c8950f.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181104/38e421c5614dc4b5203a54d1023bfcf9.jpg)
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Quote from: Dietlind on November 03, 2018, 07:54:30 PM
I think I am becoming a woman, and slowly be leaving my guy behind! Two of my girlfriends took me to the Edison Mall in fort Myers to shop with me for woman,s stuff. I found some real nice stuff in a small boutique, an elegant flowing panst skirt that goes all the way to my feet, and a nice lacy top for it. I can now go to any gala! I also bought a pair of leggings with a miniskirt attached, and a long cardigan type of sweater. I now know that pants for me need to be L and tops need to be XL. And we went shoe shopping. My ideal ladies shoe size is 10 1/2, and if I wear those nylon liners in them, I can wear an 11.
To op the day of, I got my ears piercend and am wearing now some rhinestone studs in them. We went to Macy's and found some nice necklaces and some cologne!
Now I have to wait what estrogen will be doing to my body before I buy anything else to wear!
Both of my friends feel that i should be full time from now on. The only person who identified me as male was the young lady punching holes into my poor ear lobes, but she needed to see my ID! Everybody else called me ma'm (or honey or sweety).
I am now split, because I hate to wear my rather cheap (but supposedly good looking) wig, because I wanted to wait until my hair has grown enough to make some kind of a female hairdo with it.
I would put some pics up, but I have no idea how to do this (stupid Medicis)
I think putting up pics with the app itself Tapatalk is actually a lot easier but I'm sure when Alaskan Danielle sees your post she's pretty good at advising how to post pictures from your computer as are a few of the other ladies
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 03, 2018, 09:02:37 PM
I think putting up pics with the app itself Tapatalk is actually a lot easier but I'm sure when Alaskan Danielle sees your post she's pretty good at advising how to post pictures from your computer as are a few of the other ladies
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I hope so. I am on Amazon Photo, but that seems not to link into this forum software
It's a small thing but someone at the store called me a lady :) I had a little makeup on but pretty modest/androgynous clothes. Plus I'm super tall and not on HRT yet so I don't necessarily expect people to see me that way but it's nice to be wrong sometimes!
Quote from: Kati P on November 05, 2018, 12:36:08 PM
It's a small thing but someone at the store called me a lady :) I had a little makeup on but pretty modest/androgynous clothes. Plus I'm super tall and not on HRT yet so I don't necessarily expect people to see me that way but it's nice to be wrong sometimes!
Oh that sounds really nice! Good for you. :)
Chrissy
First HRT injection. Oww that stuff is thick and hurts.
Quote from: Kati P on November 05, 2018, 12:36:08 PM
It's a small thing but someone at the store called me a lady :)
I disagree. That's a huge thing! Congratulations!
Stephanie
I got my SS card in the mail today. It's so official! ^_^
Well this was actually yesterday, but I am still happy about it today!
I call my parents every Sunday. For the first time ever, my dad got my name right during our entire conversation! I gave both my parents a 'lifetime pass' on getting it right, they are in their mid-80's and just their acceptance was enough for me. Knowing they are trying, and succeeding, in getting it right means the world to me!
Quote from: Jessica_Rose on November 05, 2018, 07:03:14 PM
Well this was actually yesterday, but I am still happy about it today!
I call my parents every Sunday. For the first time ever, my dad got my name right during our entire conversation! I gave both my parents a 'lifetime pass' on getting it right, they are in their mid-80's and just their acceptance was enough for me. Knowing they are trying, and succeeding, in getting it right means the world to me!
That was a very nice story to hear, thank you for sharing that with us. Plus thank you for all of your other sharing, including your recent at work video... very inspirational and touching.
Chrissy
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 03, 2018, 09:01:30 PM
I went out and found the type of sweater that I have always wanted but could never wear due to not having transitioned yet but I'm wearing it is so warm and fuzzy and yes the pants are the pre ripped jeans which I swore I would never wear but oh my God they are so comfortable I think I got him a size bigger than what I needed though(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181104/401e5df1f6a90f66ae1852d294a507e3.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181104/7a16877fa8fac85ea28e1e6e5390ceab.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181104/d0e265993a8336b6679ff5bdb8c8950f.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181104/38e421c5614dc4b5203a54d1023bfcf9.jpg)
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Hi Arianna, 05 November 2018
The photo in the middle right corner says it all:
!!! HAPPY !!! It's nice to see you so happy and progressing well.
That's one beautiful SMILE
ma'am.
Best Always, Love
Chris
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Photo placement changed after I finished posting this.
Quote from: christinej78 on November 05, 2018, 08:06:37 PM
Hi Arianna, 05 November 2018
The photo in the middle right corner says it all: !!! HAPPY !!! It's nice to see you so happy and progressing well.
That's one beautiful SMILE ma'am.
Best Always, Love
Chris
Edit Note:
Photo placement changed after I finished posting this.
Thank you very much
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I had a little fun today. I went out with my newly acquired rhinestone ear studs in, a nice necklace on and a pretty feminine t-shirt with guys pants and metro looking shoes on. But no makeup and no wig on, just with my grey relatively short hair. and I went shopping for lady's shoes and underwear.
There were enough people having a look on their face like "what the <not allowed> is that?" The checkout lady did not say either ma'm nor sir, she just nodded her head friendly!
I think I have to do that again, it was kind of fun! Now that I know that I can wear and find female shoes without any real problem, big chunk of my dysphoria is gone, and as long as I don't talk much, I seem to have hardly any dysphoria left!
I feel pretty good!
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I had to take my father to the VA pharmacy and the valet called me lady I was not really paying attention while I was what I thought waiting in line and a valet looked at me and said lady I need your ticket please
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So exciting! I remember the nervous energy as I waited in the B and B, in Montreal, prior to my surgery! I found it hard to sleep! All the Best! Hugs!
Kelly
Being invited to a girls night out
Booked a room for two for a week, next year...
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A week in lower Alaska, away from TV news, with someone to snuggle with!
We won't be anywhere near Danielle or my brother Paul, alas.
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I got a wonderful 30-minute Therapeutic Massage and scheduled myself for an hour next month
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 03, 2018, 09:01:30 PM
I went out and found the type of sweater that I have always wanted but could never wear due to not having transitioned yet but I'm wearing it is so warm and fuzzy and yes the pants are the pre ripped jeans which I swore I would never wear but oh my God they are so comfortable I think I got him a size bigger than what I needed though(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181104/401e5df1f6a90f66ae1852d294a507e3.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181104/7a16877fa8fac85ea28e1e6e5390ceab.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181104/d0e265993a8336b6679ff5bdb8c8950f.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181104/38e421c5614dc4b5203a54d1023bfcf9.jpg)
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@Arianna Valentine
Hey Arianna - Looking great! love that sweater it really looks good on you! and you look very happy to have found it :-)
And yeah skinny stretch jeans have become my favourite too.
@Michelle_P
Make sure you get lots of photos! It looks like its gonna be awesome!
Sonja.
Quote from: Michelle_P on November 08, 2018, 04:09:56 PM
Booked a room for two for a week, next year...
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A week in lower Alaska, away from TV news, with someone to snuggle with!
We won't be anywhere near Danielle or my brother Paul, alas.
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That trip sounds nice!
Chrissy
Well my bff got us tickets and we got the day off of work to go see Magic Mike at L8 club in Niagara Falls. I cant wait
Got my first four weeks supply of estrogen patches today. I am sporting the first one already, and wonder what the stuff will do to me!
Quote from: Dietlind on November 08, 2018, 11:26:35 PM
Got my first four weeks supply of estrogen patches today. I am sporting the first one already, and wonder what the stuff will do to me!
Hi Deitlind, 09 November 2018
Mind if I call you Miss Kitty? Your avatar made me think of it.
I can't tell you what it'll do for you as everyone is different and may experience different changes. I can tell you this much, things will change.
I can also tell you some of what I have and am experiencing. I was 77 years young when I started HRT sans AA's (spiro). I was prescribed patches for Estradiol on 27 March 2018. I started them that day. Remember I'm a tad more seasoned than most folks that start HRT and I had problems with my prostate. Normally it should be the size of a walnut, mine was the size of a cocoanut. That made it very difficult to pee. I had been on Flomax for several years without much luck. Four days on the Estradiol patches and I was peeing like I did 20 years ago. Then I started to notice I was happier than I had been in many a moon. As time went on happiness kept increasing. About 16 days after starting HRT I had my orchiectomy. Thing started getting even better. I lost most of the male aggression I had been plagued with most of my life. I still had some residual aggression, the learned kind. That's going away as I unlearn these harmful traits. My boobs have started developing and I love having them. They are noticeable and I love it, even though I still look male. I'm having fun outing myself and it's fun watching folks look at me with confused looks on on their faces. Sometimes I think I'm having more fun than I deserve.
Enjoy the ride; be proud and happy for who and what you are. You have every right and responsibility to be happy. No one has the right to expect you to be otherwise. Yes, there will be those that don't like us; they don't even like themselves so don't concern yourself with those idiots, just smile and go on your way. One other item, quit worrying about passing; I can't pass, except maybe for the south end of a mule heading north. I'm too weather beaten with too many miles on the clock to ever be attractive. I now have "Character Lines" instead of wrinkles.
I am enjoying my life more than I ever have because of someone very special in my life; I love her more than I have ever loved anyone on this earth.
Wishing everyone in our community a wonderful transition and a very happy life.
Best Always, Love
Chris
I finally managed to come out to my Mother. Just need come out to my dad and the brothers now.
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Made a downpayment and locked in a date for surgery in April 2019 ;D
Quote from: Dietlind on November 08, 2018, 11:26:35 PM
Got my first four weeks supply of estrogen patches today. I am sporting the first one already, and wonder what the stuff will do to me!
Congratulations Dietlind!
I am so happy that you are able to start HRT sooner than you thought! It is so exciting!
Lacy
Quote from: sarah1972 on November 09, 2018, 08:13:36 AM
Made a downpayment and locked in a date for surgery in April 2019 ;D
@sarah1972 Dear Sarah:
Very, very exciting news and the countdown has begun... this is a day that should be entered in your personal transition journal.
This important task can soon be checked off in your list of things that you want to do as you get closer to your transition goals.
Please keep us all updated as I am sure that you will.
Hugs,
Danielle
I lost another pound over the course of the day yesterday bringing me down to 229.6 pounds. Over the last two weeks by cutting sugar and pop but otherwise keeping my habits the same outside of walking more I have lost a total of 6.1 pounds. My target weight is 160-170.
Quote from: NatalieRene on November 09, 2018, 09:30:14 AM
I lost another pound over the course of the day yesterday bringing me down to 229.6 pounds. Over the last two weeks by cutting sugar and pop but otherwise keeping my habits the same outside of walking more I have lost a total of 6.1 pounds. My target weight is 160-170.
Way to go! That is very exciting!
Lacy
Thank you. The first few days where the hardest. My body was screaming for skittles and Dr. Pepper. I'm not craving those things as much anymore. I've also rediscovered that feeling of being full so that's when I stop.
I just hope the weight loss can keep up with the pace set so far. I would love to be able to try on and wear all my old cloths again.
Wow, all of us had some nice success feeling the last few days!
@NatalieRene, hang in there! Several years ago I was 265 lbs and 6" tall. Even the most friendly minded person would have called me pretty fat. I made it down to about 200 lbs with lots of exercise and calorie counting.
I plateaued for few years at years at 200 lbs. Now I want to loose another 25 to 30 lbs. I plan to apply my successful system of moving (walking 3 to 5 miles every day) and calorie counting again. This way the loss is slow enough that one can get used to a life style change, which in turn allows one to remain at the targeted weight, and not do the ping pong type of dieting.
Quote from: Dietlind on November 09, 2018, 12:32:52 PM
Wow, all of us had some nice success feeling the last few days!
@NatalieRene, hang in there! Several years ago I was 265 lbs and 6" tall. Even the most friendly minded person would have called me pretty fat. I made it down to about 200 lbs with lots of exercise and calorie counting.
I plateaued for few years at years at 200 lbs. Now I want to loose another 25 to 30 lbs. I plan to apply my successful system of moving (walking 3 to 5 miles every day) and calorie counting again. This way the loss is slow enough that one can get used to a life style change, which in turn allows one to remain at the targeted weight, and not do the ping pong type of dieting.
Thank you for the support. So far losing the weight has been easy but in my opinion not fast enough. However I don't want to risk my health so I'm taking it slow and steady.
So far it's only been candy and pop,that I've given up plus I started walking again. I can do that for the rest of my life. :) I am never going to get this heavy ever again.
Quote from: MollyPants on November 09, 2018, 06:44:20 AM
I finally managed to come out to my Mother. Just need come out to my dad and the brothers now.
Oh my!! A huge congrats, Molly!!
How did she take it? How did YOU take how she took it? Did she have any advice about how it might work with your dad and brothers? (Probably, your brothers have always wondered a bit about you. They are not likely to be completely surprised...)
Anyway, one step at a time. Great job!!
Kate
Quote from: KatieP on November 09, 2018, 04:32:44 PM
Oh my!! A huge congrats, Molly!!
How did she take it? How did YOU take how she took it? Did she have any advice about how it might work with your dad and brothers? (Probably, your brothers have always wondered a bit about you. They are not likely to be completely surprised...)
Anyway, one step at a time. Great job!!
Kate
Thank you Kate :) she was really good. She said it was a shock but once she thought about it. It made sense. It's been a bit of a theme with people over told... Maybe I wasn't as good at hiding it as I thought!
She said that they would be absolutely fine with it. I hope they are :)
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Quote from: MollyPants on November 10, 2018, 12:55:26 AM
Thank you Kate :) she was really good. She said it was a shock but once she thought about it. It made sense. It's been a bit of a theme with people over told... Maybe I wasn't as good at hiding it as I thought!
She said that they would be absolutely fine with it. I hope they are :)
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Yaaay! That's really wonderful that she had a good reaction to the news. Whatever happens at least you know for sure you have her support now :)
So I don't know where take this as a good thing or a bad thing but it kind of makes me happy but I have had this insatiable craving for dill pickles that would put a pregnant woman to shame I've already had three jars two of them were like the big gallon jars or whatever
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 10, 2018, 02:03:14 AM
So I don't know where take this as a good thing or a bad thing but it kind of makes me happy but I have had this insatiable craving for dill pickles that would put a pregnant woman to shame I've already had three jars two of them were like the big gallon jars or whatever
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Salt craving? I think some HRT can affect that.
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Left the hotel room for the first day after facial surgery.
Admittedly, my transplants still look sore and my face is bruised and swollen so the idea I "pass" is probably questionable but as it turns out I do - I just pass as a badly injured woman :)
I followed my shopoholic drive, and went out and bought some more woman's clothing (and opened up a Marshall's credit card account - how much more girl can one become??).
I found these beautiful lacy long pants, in salmon color, and a fitting top it. I was looking for stuff I could wear for my sons wedding next year, and I found it today! I love it so much , I could sleep in it tonight.
I am absolutely in love with my girly clothing! And I said I would want to stay gender fluid as long as possible, I hardly go gender fluid anymore at all. That girl inside me is pushing really hard to express herself!
Quote from: RandyL on November 10, 2018, 03:33:41 PM
Salt craving? I think some HRT can affect that.
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I am honestly not sure if it's a salt craving at all really I'm not for sure what it is I've just been craving dill pickles by the hundreds here's an example(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181110/a6d417db26ea867ef1515004aa283c17.jpg)
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Quote from: sophie1904 on November 10, 2018, 03:36:20 PM
Left the hotel room for the first day after facial surgery.
Admittedly, my transplants still look sore and my face is bruised and swollen so the idea I "pass" is probably questionable but as it turns out I do - I just pass as a badly injured woman :)
@sophie1904 Dear Sophie:
This is wonderful news to have completed your surgery...
...one more thing you now can check off of your transition list.
Whoa... sounds awfully quick to be out and about... be careful out there as you are still very much in the healing mode. You will probably get a lot of sympathy from onlookers... like you stated, you may look like a badly injured woman.
My thought is that, at least for me, I would perhaps stay in and rest and heal more but you are the one that has to determine that.
So, tell us, are you happy with your surgeon and what was decided upon about things that you wanted to have done?
I will be eagerly looking for more updates as you feel comfortable posting them.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: RandyL on November 10, 2018, 03:33:41 PM
Salt craving? I think some HRT can affect that.
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 10, 2018, 02:03:14 AM
So I don't know where take this as a good thing or a bad thing but it kind of makes me happy but I have had this insatiable craving for dill pickles that would put a pregnant woman to shame I've already had three jars two of them were like the big gallon jars or whatever
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@RandyL @Arianna Valentine For sure, HRT can make us crave salty things like dill pickles, chips, french fries, salted nuts, etc.
Usually as a result of Spiro and perhaps other meds that can act as a diuretic... while taking meds like that including HRT our bodies will want salt!!!!
Your body knows it needs to stay hydrated and therefore the craving for thirst and for salt.
It is important to keep very hydrated. The salt intake helps with retaining water but also will help with resolving night time muscle cramps. In the middle of the night if I have leg cramps that do not easily go away, I go out to my refrigerator and take a few sips of dill pickle juice... usually takes care of the cramps in just a few minutes.
I go though lots of jars of dill pickles... usually one big jar a week... and I am not pregnant either.
Thanks for sharing and posting.
Hugs,
Danielle
Surgery was on Tuesday so it's been a few days (hospital on Wednesday / Thursday).
There's only so long one can stay in a hotel room without going a bit crazy - everything is healing up pretty nicely. I'm honestly not sure what my expectations for facial surgery were but i'm happy when I look in the mirror which I suppose is the acid test?
I need to write a post FFS thread up at some point but honestly, couldn't really have had a better experience with FacialTeam - my body apparently heals pretty well so very limited bruising or swelling which was awesome :)
Quote from: sophie1904 on November 10, 2018, 04:02:15 PM
Surgery was on Tuesday so it's been a few days (hospital on Wednesday / Thursday).
There's only so long one can stay in a hotel room without going a bit crazy - everything is healing up pretty nicely. I'm honestly not sure what my expectations for facial surgery were but i'm happy when I look in the mirror which I suppose is the acid test?
I need to write a post FFS thread up at some point but honestly, couldn't really have had a better experience with FacialTeam - my body apparently heals pretty well so very limited bruising or swelling which was awesome :)
@sophie1904 Dear Sophie:
Well, it sounds like you are doing great... so glad to hear that you are feeling so well this soon after surgery.
As your bruises start going away I am certain that you will even be more pleased when you look at yourself in the mirror.
And YES... a "Post FFS thread" would be so nice for all of us to read and to see...
Thank you for sharing and posting.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 10, 2018, 04:00:26 PM
@RandyL @Arianna Valentine
For sure, HRT can make us crave salty things like dill pickles, chips, french fries, salted nuts, etc.
Usually as a result of Spiro and perhaps other meds that can act as a diuretic... while taking meds like that including HRT our bodies will want salt!!!!
Your body knows it needs to stay hydrated and therefore the craving for thirst and for salt. It is important to keep very hydrated. The salt intake helps with retaining water but also will help with resolving night time muscle cramps. In the middle of the night if I have leg cramps that do not easily go away, I go out to my refrigerator and take a few sips of dill pickle juice... usually takes care of the cramps in just a few minutes.
I go though lots of jars of dill pickles... usually one big jar a week... and I am not pregnant either.
Thanks for sharing and posting.
Hugs,
Danielle
Oh my God so you do feel my pain I'm going through like one big jar in a period of 24 hours and it's not a like small jar it's the biggest jar I can find LOL
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Quote from: sophie1904 on November 10, 2018, 04:02:15 PM
couldn't really have had a better experience with FacialTeam - my body apparently heals pretty well so very limited bruising or swelling which was awesome :)
Sounds really good how well you are doing!
Busing and swelling is partly do to the way the surgical team handles you. If you have very little, it shows that they did a fine job!
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 10, 2018, 03:46:21 PM
I am honestly not sure if it's a salt craving at all really I'm not for sure what it is I've just been craving dill pickles by the hundreds here's an example(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181110/a6d417db26ea867ef1515004aa283c17.jpg)
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I don't know if this carving is from the HRT meds. I can eat pickles in larger quantities day and night. I just like them, and eat some every day!
Quote from: Dietlind on November 10, 2018, 04:22:03 PM
I don't know if this carving is from the HRT meds. I can eat pickles in larger quantities day and night. I just like them, and eat some every day!
They are good LOL
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 10, 2018, 04:22:32 PM
They are good LOL
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They are the ultimate low calorie food that fill the belly and taste good! (and I need to loose weight)
Quote from: Dietlind on November 10, 2018, 04:31:24 PM
They are the ultimate low calorie food that fill the belly and taste good! (and I need to loose weight)
It definitely wouldn't hurt me to lose some weight
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Quote from: Dietlind on November 10, 2018, 04:22:03 PM
I don't know if this carving is from the HRT meds. I can eat pickles in larger quantities day and night. I just like them, and eat some every day!
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 10, 2018, 04:22:32 PM
They are good LOL
pickles .. yuuch .. hated them before, hate them now
!!! OLIVES !!! I can't keep them in the fridge
Quote from: Faith on November 10, 2018, 05:07:52 PM
pickles .. yuuch .. hated them before, hate them now
!!! OLIVES !!!
I can't keep them in the fridge
Well, while as I have mentioned in many other post replies around the Forums that I love and I crave Dill Pickles....
and I also like Olives... the small green olives with the little stuffed red pimento inside are my favorite... and very, very salty which is what I crave... the black olives are my favorite olive however, I end up drinking the Olive Juice every time I open a can.
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 10, 2018, 05:13:14 PM
Well, while as I have mentioned in many other post replies around the Forums that I love and I crave Dill Pickles....
and I also like Olives... the small green olives with the little stuffed red pimento inside are my favorite... and very, very salty which is what I crave... the black olives are my favorite olive however, I end up drinking the Olive Juice every time I open a can.
Danielle
I actually really love the purple Italian olives but I do like the green and black ones as well
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Quote from: sophie1904 on November 10, 2018, 04:02:15 PM
Surgery was on Tuesday so it's been a few days (hospital on Wednesday / Thursday).
There's only so long one can stay in a hotel room without going a bit crazy - everything is healing up pretty nicely. I'm honestly not sure what my expectations for facial surgery were but i'm happy when I look in the mirror which I suppose is the acid test?
I need to write a post FFS thread up at some point but honestly, couldn't really have had a better experience with FacialTeam - my body apparently heals pretty well so very limited bruising or swelling which was awesome :)
Sophie, I'm so glad your experience has been so good. I will be on the table at FacialTeam on December 4th. My experience via email and four different Skype consultations has been nothing short of excellent. While I'm nervous about getting my face cut up, I completely trust the team, and I'm looking forward to getting it done. I'll be staying at the Guadalpin Banus, where I assume you were. And hints or tips you could pass my way would be really helpful!
Congratulations on being gendered correctly already! I can't wait until that happens for me.
Stephanie
Quote from: Faith on November 10, 2018, 05:07:52 PM
pickles .. yuuch .. hated them before, hate them now
!!! OLIVES !!!
I can't keep them in the fridge
Same here. Can't stand pickles. Keep a jar of blue cheese stuffed olives in the fridge at home and at work. Kalamata olives work good too.
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I know this has got to sound so trivial to so many of you women.
Yesterday after a shower, at home, I was dressed really casually, wearing no bra or anything on top. I reached sideways a bit across the table, without lifting my arm much at all, for the pepper shaker and something seemed to be in the way. I realized it was my right boob! I had to lift my arm over it!
I guess this might become a future nuisance but I did smile and did say, "Wow, that's never happened before!"
Okay, go ahead and laugh! :)
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on November 11, 2018, 09:11:02 AM
I know this has got to sound so trivial to so many of you women.
Yesterday after a shower, at home, I was dressed really casually, wearing no bra or anything on top. I reached sideways a bit across the table, without lifting my arm much at all, for the pepper shaker and something seemed to be in the way. I realized it was my right boob! I had to lift my arm over it!
I guess this might become a future nuisance but I did smile and did say, "Wow, that's never happened before!"
Okay, go ahead and laugh! :)
Chrissy
No laughing here, Chrissy! I still love my limited range of motion. Congratulations!
Stephanie
Whoo-hooo! I'm back! The fires have disabled the cable and internet for the last two days. Cellphone service has been limited. Catching up on local news before the fires take out communications again. It seems the fires have retreated a bit. I can already hear winds increasing outside again this morning. They are expected to continue through Tuesday.
It feels good to be back and safe.
Hugs,
Donica.
Welcome back!
Todays news for me was an interview with the BBC which should broadcast towards the end of the week for transgender week of awareness here in the UK - fingers crossed I come across well! :)
Congratulations! I'm sure you did well Sophie. Fingers crossed here in the US too.
Unfortunately it was a snowy day
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Quote from: RandyL on November 11, 2018, 10:29:14 PM
Unfortunately it was a snowy day
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I am used to snow (from Minnesconsin, or Minnesnowta, whatever you prefer), I would have come if you would have told me. That looks delicious!
Quote from: Dietlind on November 11, 2018, 10:35:37 PM
I am used to snow (from Minnesconsin, or Minnesnowta, whatever you prefer), I would have come if you would have told me. That looks delicious!
Lol I went to college in Minnesconsin, er no, that's where my family is all from, er no, it's the big mitten. Oh well, I love "Minnesnowta". Thanks
Quote from: RandyL on November 11, 2018, 10:54:35 PM
Lol I went to college in Minnesconsin, er no, that's where my family is all from, er no, it's the big mitten. Oh well, I love "Minnesnowta". Thanks
Did you go to the Mooh U in River Falls? My wife used to teach there.
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 10, 2018, 05:13:14 PM
Well, while as I have mentioned in many other post replies around the Forums that I love and I crave Dill Pickles....
and I also like Olives... the small green olives with the little stuffed red pimento inside are my favorite... and very, very salty which is what I crave... the black olives are my favorite olive however, I end up drinking the Olive Juice every time I open a can.
Danielle
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 10, 2018, 03:46:21 PM
I am honestly not sure if it's a salt craving at all really I'm not for sure what it is I've just been craving dill pickles by the hundreds here's an example(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181110/a6d417db26ea867ef1515004aa283c17.jpg)
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OMG! I am glad someone posted about this! After the first week on HRT I started drinking so much more water (I feel thirsty all the time) and I have craved pickles and olives so much!
I told my wife about it and credited it to the HRT. She may not be thrilled about the HRT, but she has sweetly filled the fridge with multiple jars of both pickles and green olives w/pimentos! I am keeping those industries in business! She also picked up a jar of Kalamata olives from Trader Joe's. So salty!
So good!
Lacy
Quote from: RealLacy on November 12, 2018, 10:43:10 AM
OMG! I am glad someone posted about this! After the first week on HRT I started drinking so much more water (I feel thirsty all the time) and I have craved pickles and olives so much!
So good!
Lacy
do you feel that HRT causes you to be thirsty? I was wondering why I am so thirsty lately. I could be drinking non stop!
I always was into pickles that has no changed, but my thirst definitely is increased. I did not really watch when that happened, but it sure did start at some point not to long ago.
Quote from: Dietlind on November 12, 2018, 10:50:17 AM
do you feel that HRT causes you to be thirsty? I was wondering why I am so thirsty lately. I could be drinking non stop!
I always was into pickles that has no changed, but my thirst definitely is increased. I did not really watch when that happened, but it sure did start at some point not to long ago.
It started by me having to go to the bathroom a LOT more. Waking up in the middle of the night, which I never used to do. And then just craving water all day err day! Like water specifically, not just any liquid.
Spiro is a diuretic, so I am assuming that is the culprit!
Lacy
Ah, the joys of Spiro side effects!
What's making me happy today - first day out at work!
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Quote from: RealLacy on November 12, 2018, 10:58:17 AM
It started by me having to go to the bathroom a LOT more. Waking up in the middle of the night, which I never used to do. And then just craving water all day err day! Like water specifically, not just any liquid.
Spiro is a diuretic, so I am assuming that is the culprit!
Lacy
I don't take any Spiro, just Finasteride and an estrogen patch. Thirst and frequent urination is not listed as a side effect of Finasteride. I take Finasteride for more than 6 years now, but the thirst is rather new. Maybe Finasteride in combination with estrogen may cause it? Who knows!
Quote from: RoryL on November 12, 2018, 11:19:02 AM
Ah, the joys of Spiro side effects!
What's making me happy today - first day out at work!
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Looking good! Is that your natural hair? This length or a little more (shoulder length) is what I am trying to get. The speed with which mine seems to grow, tells me I have to wait another 100 years or so to get there!
Quote from: RoryL on November 12, 2018, 11:19:02 AM
What's making me happy today - first day out at work!
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Rory!
You look so good! Happy first day! I bet you are on cloud 9 right now!
Lacy
I'm thankful for the continued weight loss. Im now down to 227 pounds from just shy of 235 pounds 15 days ago. The weight loss has slowed though but now I know I'm burning fat and not just the water weight that accompanies burning the stored sugar in the body.
I have updated my daily step count goal from 700 to 850 or basically burning 720 calories a day. The closer I can get to burning 3500 calories a day the more weight I can lose quickly. It just stinks because now it's getting cold so I think I need to join a gym to use the treadmill and stationary bikes.
Quote from: RoryL on November 12, 2018, 11:19:02 AM
Ah, the joys of Spiro side effects!
What's making me happy today - first day out at work!
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hugsWhat a great day! Congratulations. Being out at work is a huge milestone.
Quote from: NatalieRene on November 12, 2018, 12:03:14 PM
I'm thankful for the continued weight loss. Im now down to 227 pounds from just shy of 235 pounds 15 days ago. The weight loss has slowed though but now I know I'm burning fat and not just the water weight that accompanies burning the stored sugar in the body.
I have updated my daily step count goal from 700 to 850 or basically burning 720 calories a day. The closer I can get to burning 3500 calories a day the more weight I can lose quickly. It just stinks because now it's getting cold so I think I need to join a gym to use the treadmill and stationary bikes.
Keep it up! You are inspiring with your level of commitment! Burning 720 calories a day by walking is over 14k steps! I got to pick up my game!
Lacy
Quote from: RealLacy on November 12, 2018, 12:13:54 PM
Keep it up! You are inspiring with you level of commitment! Burning 720 calories a day by walking is over 14k steps! I got to pick up my game!
Lacy
Hmm my Apple Watch asked me to set my move goal and I bumped it up 150 steps per day but it wasn't in the four digits. It must calculating other things for calories burned. I have also started using the stairs instead of the elevator. Seven floors up in the morning, one down and up for lunch and seven down at the end of the day plus one down and up for the parking garage.
Last weekend I walked serval miles around the apartment instead of driving to go to things very close by. It saves me money and gives me exercise so it's a win win.
Going back and looking, wow on Sunday I walked 10,741 steps and 9,514 on Saturday. Last week I walked a total of 64,275 steps.
Quote from: Dietlind on November 12, 2018, 01:36:46 AM
Did you go to the Mooh U in River Falls? My wife used to teach there.
No sorry, I was in Appleton. Back in the 70's, back when we thought snow was fun. Well, it can still be fun, but now we have to clear the driveway (Happy when it's done!) :)
Quote from: RealLacy on November 12, 2018, 10:43:10 AM
OMG! I am glad someone posted about this! After the first week on HRT I started drinking so much more water (I feel thirsty all the time) and I have craved pickles and olives so much!
I told my wife about it and credited it to the HRT. She may not be thrilled about the HRT, but she has sweetly filled the fridge with multiple jars of both pickles and green olives w/pimentos! I am keeping those industries in business! She also picked up a jar of Kalamata olives from Trader Joe's. So salty!
So good!
Lacy
Hot peppers, too! Today's lunch was boxed Mac and cheese with chopped manzanilla olives and pickled jalapenos. Mmmmm!
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Quote from: Dee Marshall on November 12, 2018, 03:03:42 PM
Hot peppers, too! Today's lunch was boxed Mac and cheese with chopped manzanilla olives and pickled jalapenos. Mmmmm!
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Unfortunately I can't do much in the way of jalapenos except for jalapeno poppers with cream cheese my God the love is all I got to say the love LMAO
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Peppers are life. I pickled some yellow (Santa Fe grande variety) peppers from my garden this year and they are horrifyingly addictive.
"Oh a pepper sounds good"
<5 minutes later>
"How did I eat the entire jar?"
At least they're low calorie...
Thanks everybody! It's my hair in the sense that I paid for it, lol. It's my new topper. :-)
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on November 12, 2018, 03:53:02 PM
Peppers are life. I pickled some yellow (Santa Fe grande variety) peppers from my garden this year and they are horrifyingly addictive.
"Oh a pepper sounds good"
<5 minutes later>
"How did I eat the entire jar?"
At least they're low calorie...
Are they hot peppers? Do you pickle them or freeze them, or just stick them in the refrigerator?
Chrissy
They are generally less spicy than a jalapeno, though there is the occasional extra spicy one. I pickle and can them in mason jars using an old fashioned boiling water bath. They stay sealed and edible for a long time this way but I do refrigerate them after opening a jar.
What happened today that made me happy? I transitioned my wallet. I decided to abandon my male wallet which I've used for years and use this cute pink girl's wallet that has a heart pendent on it. I'm a little nervous about using it in public as I still present as male, but I'm determined to let a little more of the real me out.
Danielle
Quote from: Danielle Kristina on November 12, 2018, 04:58:08 PM
What happened today that made me happy? I transitioned my wallet. I decided to abandon my male wallet which I've used for years and use this cute pink girl's wallet that has a heart pendent on it. I'm a little nervous about using it in public as I still present as male, but I'm determined to let a little more of the real me out.
Danielle
Yay that is awesome and PINK OMFG I LOVE PINK!!!!!
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Quote from: Danielle Kristina on November 12, 2018, 04:58:08 PM
What happened today that made me happy? I transitioned my wallet. I decided to abandon my male wallet which I've used for years and use this cute pink girl's wallet that has a heart pendent on it. I'm a little nervous about using it in public as I still present as male, but I'm determined to let a little more of the real me out.
Danielle
Good for you!
Many women's wallets seem to be like small portfolios, except for the small ones.
(They need to be small if you have to use those small pockets often found on the rear of women's pants!)
Chrissy
I think that either American woman's billfold and even more so American guy's billfolds are somethings that should not even carry the name wallet!
I still use my absolutely gender neutral, continental European wallets. The always have a compartment for coins, compartments for all kinds of cards, compartments for different bills and fold nicely down to not look like an overstuffed purse. I do not need to carry my wallet or anything in the rear pocket of my jeans, because I am an older lady who has a purse along, or in guy mode I wear cargo pants.
i always wonder how many young women with those tight jeans can keep their cell phone in their back pocket from breaking in half! ???
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 12, 2018, 05:05:26 PM
Yay that is awesome and PINK OMFG I LOVE PINK!!!!!
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I love it! It was cheap and purchased at Wal-Mart, but it is so cute!!!
Flirting with my teacher... I know, I know. Not a very "smart" thing to do. But he makes me laugh so easily and when he talks directly to me while lecturing, I can't help but listen intently to every word... I know the girl I'm friends with in the class likes him too. She told me she does after I opened up to her. I've seen her a few times after class stick around to talk to him.
Well, if he's meant to be with her or someone else then I just want him to he happy. I'm not even sure why I have these feelings...
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Came out to my youngest sister in law today, via cell phone. She lives in Texas, and wanted to see how I am doing. My son gets married next year (up in te Nort Lant of Minnesooda), and I told her she should not be surprised to see me looking a little different. We have not seen each other for several years now. She started to probe, and i told her eerything.
Her reaction was "cool, than all of us girls can go shopping together" (she and the other sister, my ex and I).
I am so lucky with my relatives! All of them are super supportive, and want that we all feel good, and be a happy family, no matter how I am dressed!
Quote from: Dietlind on November 12, 2018, 09:38:39 PM
Came out to my youngest sister in law today, via cell phone. She lives in Texas, and wanted to see how I am doing. My son gets married next year (up in te Nort Lant of Minnesooda), and I told her she should not be surprised to see me looking a little different. We have not seen each other for several years now. She started to probe, and i told her eerything.
Her reaction was "cool, than all of us girls can go shopping together" (she and the other sister, my ex and I).
I am so lucky with my relatives! All of them are super supportive, and want that we all feel good, and be a happy family, no matter how I am dressed!
That is amazing news it is always good when family is accepting congratulations and trust me go on a shopping trip it is so fun having a girls day out shopping
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 12, 2018, 09:42:17 PM
That is amazing news it is always good when family is accepting congratulations and trust me go on a shopping trip it is so fun having a girls day out shopping
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An interesting thing with the sisters of my ex and her is that the parents were extremely conservative, and somehow that caused all their three kids (all girls) to be very liberal in all aspects of their lives!
Each of the sisters has a daughter of whom one should think they would be conservative, by their profession. But they are not, they are as liberal as they come. One of the girls is a mayor in the US air force, and the other one is a Methodist pastor.
I am blessed with a great family (actually my ex wife is, but I am still considered to be part of it)
Quote from: Dietlind on November 12, 2018, 09:51:50 PM
An interesting thing with the sisters of my ex and her is that the parents were extremely conservative, and somehow that caused all their three kids (all girls) to be very liberal in all aspects of their lives!
Each of the sisters has a daughter of whom one should think they would be conservative, by their profession. But they are not, they are as liberal as they come. One of the girls is a mayor in the US air force, and the other one is a Methodist pastor.
I am blessed with a great family (actually my ex wife is, but I am still considered to be part of it)
Well that is awesome that they still consider you part of the family and everything and that they're all so open-minded my older brother is a Christian or Baptist preacher I don't remember which one honestly I don't see a difference but he was also ex-military plus and his late forties so I thought for sure he was not going to accept me transitioning I thought he was going to hate me because of it + how he reacted when his daughter came out to him as lesbian they literally stopped talking for many many years but he was fully accepting of me of course I get the gay jokes now which don't bother me because it makes me laugh because that's the kind of person I am but do me a favor and thank the one that is in the Air Force for her service that is a big deal plus being a mayor that's just like wow but again congratulations to you and thank you for sharing your happy day because it actually cheered me up and made me happy too
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I'm a little giddy right now, just took my first dosage of HRT! Got prescribed androcur and estrogen patches :D :D :D
I can't believe how nervous I was while waiting for my appointment (which was an hour late, go figure!), I could feel my heart beating rapidly. This is pretty much the culmination of three years of waiting and being sent between psychologists. Was worried something would go wrong at the last moment, but once I got in there everything was sorted in no time at all :laugh:
Congrats, now the way can continue, and I hope you will feel great!
I had my first electro appointment yesterday and I go back tomorrow for another session. 8 laser treatments and an electro session down, I'm that many follicles closer to freedom. lol
As before continued weight loss has made my happy. I'm below 227 pounds now so I'm very happy.
Quote from: Anastasia E on November 13, 2018, 07:08:18 AM
I'm a little giddy right now, just took my first dosage of HRT! Got prescribed androcur and estrogen patches :D :D :D
I can't believe how nervous I was while waiting for my appointment (which was an hour late, go figure!), I could feel my heart beating rapidly. This is pretty much the culmination of three years of waiting and being sent between psychologists. Was worried something would go wrong at the last moment, but once I got in there everything was sorted in no time at all :laugh:
Congratulations!
Quote from: SiobhánF on November 13, 2018, 01:10:35 PM
I had my first electro appointment yesterday and I go back tomorrow for another session. 8 laser treatments and an electro session down, I'm that many follicles closer to freedom. lol
YAY! and OUCH!
Beauty is pain. That is exciting to be so far along with hair removal. Did they give you any idea how much more electrolysis you will need?
Lacy
Quote from: Anastasia E on November 13, 2018, 07:08:18 AM
I'm a little giddy right now, just took my first dosage of HRT! Got prescribed androcur and estrogen patches :D :D :D
I can't believe how nervous I was while waiting for my appointment (which was an hour late, go figure!), I could feel my heart beating rapidly. This is pretty much the culmination of three years of waiting and being sent between psychologists. Was worried something would go wrong at the last moment, but once I got in there everything was sorted in no time at all :laugh:
@Anastasia ETaking that very first dose of your HRT regimine is so very exciting and perhaps causes a little apprehension as well.
Mark this day down on your calendar and make note of it in your journal.
Hang on now for a very exciting ride... lots to come your way.
Please keep us updated as you feel comfortable doing so.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
My happy day shopping plus I'm going to a party at GameStop its an early release party for a game that I pre-ordered(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181113/3e60993d5f74fbf29bc8f77fad0d0d63.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181113/bb1881118638ce2dbb0a522cfad3153e.jpg)
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 13, 2018, 02:38:35 PM
My happy day shopping plus I'm going to a party at GameStop its an early release party for a game that I pre-ordered(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181113/3e60993d5f74fbf29bc8f77fad0d0d63.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181113/bb1881118638ce2dbb0a522cfad3153e.jpg)
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Are there Womanzanilla olives too? :) or just Manzanilla olives?
Regardless, do enjoy your treats!
Chrissy
OMG... last night I stole pickles from my coworkers plates [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 13, 2018, 02:38:35 PM
My happy day shopping plus I'm going to a party at GameStop its an early release party for a game that I pre-ordered(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181113/3e60993d5f74fbf29bc8f77fad0d0d63.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181113/bb1881118638ce2dbb0a522cfad3153e.jpg)
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Quote from: sarah1972 on November 13, 2018, 04:16:59 PM
OMG... last night I stole pickles from my coworkers plates [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]
[emoji50] no still pickles I'll share with you LOL
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 13, 2018, 02:38:35 PM
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@Arianna Valentine:Perfect lunch... or anytime snack. I love your choices, dill pickle and the little stuffed green olives.... those should satisfy your salt cravings for sure. I have both of those items in my refrigerator all the time and extras in the pantry cupboards, although I always buy the bigger jars of both things.
Thanks for sharing,
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: sarah1972 on November 13, 2018, 04:16:59 PM
OMG... last night I stole pickles from my coworkers plates [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]
@sarah1972 Dear Sarah:I am glad that I am not the only one that does that. When I eat lunch dinner with others, I notice that if they are not eating their pickles that come with a sandwich or perhaps olives on a salad that I ask for them.
Also since I am well know at most of the eating places here where I live, I don't even have to ask any more, then they bring my hamburger, they automatically put lots more pickles on my plate.
Thanks for sharing this tidbit about your life!!!
Hugs,
Danielle
I went shopping at [women's clothing chain] dressed en femme, the clerk was super helpful and addressed me as Jennifer. Now, if only I could do something about my addiction to clothes I don't need...
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 13, 2018, 06:07:24 PM
@Arianna Valentine:
Perfect lunch... or anytime snack. I love your choices, dill pickle and the little stuffed green olives.... those should satisfy your salt cravings for sure. I have both of those items in my refrigerator all the time and extras in the pantry cupboards, although I always buy the bigger jars of both things.
Thanks for sharing,
Hugs,
Danielle
I honestly thought that the pickles were going to satisfy my craving as well but they're vegan pickles with low sodium and they taste like water and vinegar cucumbers they do not taste like pickles to Fresh tasting they didn't ferment long enough for whatever
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Quote from: Jennifer M on November 13, 2018, 06:13:34 PM
I went shopping at [women's clothing chain] dressed en femme, the clerk was super helpful and addressed me as Jennifer. Now, if only I could do something about my addiction to clothes I don't need...
OMG I have the same problem I have like a dozen dresses I literally have only wore most of them just to try them on lol
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Quote from: Jennifer M on November 13, 2018, 06:13:34 PM
I went shopping at [women's clothing chain] dressed en femme, the clerk was super helpful and addressed me as Jennifer. Now, if only I could do something about my addiction to clothes I don't need...
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 13, 2018, 06:29:12 PM
OMG I have the same problem I have like a dozen dresses I literally have only wore most of them just to try them on lol
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@Jennifer M
@Arianna ValentineIt is no wonder that most women have a shopping addiction.... so many choices, such fun looking clothes, so much fun to try everything on and look at yourself.....
Just be careful to watch your budget... it can get out of hand so easily when shopping for women's clothes and shoes.
Thanks for sharing,
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Jennifer M on November 13, 2018, 06:13:34 PM
I went shopping at [women's clothing chain] dressed en femme, the clerk was super helpful and addressed me as Jennifer. Now, if only I could do something about my addiction to clothes I don't need...
That sounds like a wonderful shopping experience. :)
Enjoy the fun of shopping for all the cute and stylish clothing.
Savor the purchases of those things that look so good on you and are also on sale! Double win!
Chrissy
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 13, 2018, 02:15:54 PM
@Anastasia E
Taking that very first dose of your HRT regimine is so very exciting and perhaps causes a little apprehension as well.
Mark this day down on your calendar and make note of it in your journal.
Hang on now for a very exciting ride... lots to come your way.
Please keep us updated as you feel comfortable doing so.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Thanks everyone! I'm really excited, even though I know it'll probably be a few weeks before I notice anything different :D
Probably the first time in my life I've been able to sympathize with people who say they wish they could close their eyes and have a few months pass by without having to live them :)
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 13, 2018, 06:11:41 PM
@sarah1972
Dear Sarah:
I am glad that I am not the only one that does that. When I eat lunch dinner with others, I notice that if they are not eating their pickles that come with a sandwich or perhaps olives on a salad that I ask for them.
Also since I am well know at most of the eating places here where I live, I don't even have to ask any more, then they bring my hamburger, they automatically put lots more pickles on my plate.
Thanks for sharing this tidbit about your life!!!
Hugs,
Danielle
What is it about pickles? I love them and lemons. I'm always stealing them too.
Quote from: Anastasia E on November 13, 2018, 07:14:36 PM
Thanks everyone! I'm really excited, even though I know it'll probably be a few weeks before I notice anything different :D
Probably the first time in my life I've been able to sympathize with people who say they wish they could close their eyes and have a few months pass by without having to live them :)
Be careful with that kind of wish or you might end up like Sdam Sandler's character in Click.
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 13, 2018, 06:39:39 PM
@Jennifer M
@Arianna Valentine
It is no wonder that most women have a shopping addiction.... so many choices, such fun looking clothes, so much fun to try everything on and look at yourself.....
Just be careful to watch your budget... it can get out of hand so easily when shopping for women's clothes and shoes.
Thanks for sharing,
Hugs,
Danielle
I don't know if it's the fun the pretty the sexy some of them are even thinning but I love dresses and skirts by the way forgot to say before I love your new profile picture you are absolutely gorgeous girl
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Quote from: NatalieRene on November 13, 2018, 07:48:10 PM
What is it about pickles? I love them and lemons. I'm always stealing them too.
@NatalieReneSalt cravings are a part of HRT especially if the HRT regimen includes Spironolactone ... which is not only a necessary T-Blocker but it is also a diuretic, a water pill which eliminates water (and salt) in the body, therefore your body then wants to replace those things... thirst and salt cravings ensue....
Also, when dehydrated, you are more subject to muscle cramps, particularly in your legs, and unfortunately at night when you are trying to sleep... many nights I when I wake up with leg cramps I will go get a large glass of water, eat a pickle or two... and if the cramps continue I will even take a small drink of pickle juice... it really does help.
When taking HRT or any meds it is very important to stay hydrated, drink lots of water and fluids even if you don't feel excessively thirsty... this helps to flush toxins out of your body.
My salt cravings include not only dill pickles, but also olives, potato chips, salty nuts and salty foods in general....
Danielle
Well I am off work for 2 days and going thursday to see MMR Canada in niagara falls with my bff I can't wait I am so excited still trying to figure out what I am going to wear
Quote from: Jennifer M on November 13, 2018, 06:13:34 PM
I went shopping at [women's clothing chain] dressed en femme, the clerk was super helpful and addressed me as Jennifer. Now, if only I could do something about my addiction to clothes I don't need...
Welcome in the clothing shopping til you drop club!
A fear fell of my shoulders alte this afternoon. My neighbors across the street (there are only a very few houses here, mot of everything is jungle) are from Cuba. And I always scooted into my garage to make sure they would not see me in my girls mode. I was concerned with them being Latinos (extremely nice neighbors), they might have difficulties with me tuning into a woman. Well my neighbor caught me today, and came over for a talk. I explained everything to him and he had the top of the cool reactions! he said great, now that you are a woman and need help for some stuff, just let me know, and I will help you! That was it, no drama, no climax, just a very nice and comforting reaction!
And I felt bad about my thoughts about Latino, etc. I was clearly racist without realizing it! Because of my Jewish mother, I try to be as anti racist as I can, and here I fell into the racist trap!
While presenting as basically male today, two ladies at break at a workshop told me that they liked my colorful socks. One said that she would wear them at times as they would go well with some of her pants and jeans. So the three of us sat down and talked about the socks a bit. Then we talked about shoes some, including why many ladies have so many pairs of them and styles. It was a fun and livey conversation! :)
They did not say anything about my female button-up office/business wear solid color blouse under my guy sweater, I gather it or my cami was not obvious. Without the sweater, the ladies likely would have noticed my blouse, as it has bust darts to give me some more room up there, and it has back seams for gentle curve shaping.
The open bust cami shapewear, if placed right, actually squashes down my boobs a bit, like a binder. Placed another way, the cami shapewear pushes my boobs up, even when I am not wearing a bra. Very nice!
Chrissy
I went to pick up a dress that I had to have repaired from the cleaner repair place and the gentleman behind the counter kept referring to me as ma'am and he said it about a dozen times just to emphasize that he was saying ma'am I guess or just to let me know that he sees I'm a woman but it made me really happy
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 14, 2018, 07:16:34 PM
I went to pick up a dress that I had to have repaired from the cleaner repair place and the gentleman behind the counter kept referring to me as ma'am and he said it about a dozen times just to emphasize that he was saying ma'am I guess or just to let me know that he sees I'm a woman but it made me really happy
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Arianna,
That was very nice.
Chrissy
I went some more cloth, shoes, purse and necklace shopping. I was dressed femle, but had no make up on just my normal male face with my rather short hair kind of female done. The lady who controlled the changing rooms pointed to the guys changing rooms, but I told her that I was going to the ladies ones, and she said "of course". A young man at the checkout called me ma'm. 50/50 passing with a male head an top of female clothing is not all that bad (I think)
Today was also the first day ever in my entire life that I wore a skirt. Definitely a new and somewhat different feeling. I am not sure whether I like it to be fully exposed to the elements down at my parts!
That's how I went today (I hope this link will work) san's my doggy
https://imgur.com/sRcpqDa
Dietlind you look great! I also found skirts took a few times to get used to but really like them now.
Quote from: Dietlind on November 13, 2018, 11:14:57 PM
I was concerned with them being Latinos (extremely nice neighbors), they might have difficulties with me tuning into a woman.
Being from a Latino family, they usually have no problems at all with others being LGBTQ, as long as it's not in their family.
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 13, 2018, 06:39:39 PM
Just be careful to watch your budget... it can get out of hand so easily when shopping for women's clothes and shoes.
Yes...the half-dozen pairs of boots will attest to that. And yet neither Wal-Mart nor Target is carrying tall-boot holders anymore.
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 13, 2018, 08:24:32 PM
When taking HRT or any meds it is very important to stay hydrated, drink lots of water and fluids even if you don't feel excessively thirsty... this helps to flush toxins out of your body.
My salt cravings include not only dill pickles, but also olives, potato chips, salty nuts and salty foods in general....
I'm not a pickle or nut person, and potato chips will be fattening. Would Gatorade be a potential substitute when taking spiro?
Quote from: Dietlind on November 12, 2018, 11:35:00 AM
Looking good! Is that your natural hair? This length or a little more (shoulder length) is what I am trying to get. The speed with which mine seems to grow, tells me I have to wait another 100 years or so to get there!
Thanks! I'm wearing a human hair topper, so most of what you see is mine by right of purchase only, LOL. My (colored to match) natural hair is blended throughout the sides & back.
Quote from: RealLacy on November 12, 2018, 11:46:52 AM
Rory!
You look so good! Happy first day! I bet you are on cloud 9 right now!
Lacy
Thanks, Lacy. Feeling good, that's for sure! I'm also wondering why it took so long for me to take this latest step, but it was important for me to do it on my own timetable. I was definitely ready, lol!
Quote from: KarynMcD on November 15, 2018, 10:41:44 AM
Being from a Latino family, they usually have no problems at all with others being LGBTQ, as long as it's not in their family.
So, you tell me, I should not get adopted by a Latino family? Well, it is good enough for me that they continue to be my friends!
https://www.bbc.com/news/technology-46153007
This happened today :) Awkward interview 5 days after facial surgery but comes across pretty well!
Great job Sophie! You did come across very well, and you look awesome! Going public isn't easy for many of us, but those who do help make the world a bit more accepting. Thank you! :eusa_clap:
Love always -- Jessica Rose
Quote from: sophie1904 on November 15, 2018, 08:55:31 PM
https://www.bbc.com/news/technology-46153007
This happened today :) Awkward interview 5 days after facial surgery but comes across pretty well!
That is amazing news
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Quote from: Jennifer M on November 15, 2018, 11:10:40 AM
Yes...the half-dozen pairs of boots will attest to that. And yet neither Wal-Mart nor Target is carrying tall-boot holders anymore.
I'm not a pickle or nut person, and potato chips will be fattening. Would Gatorade be a potential substitute when taking spiro?
Gatorade and the like have potassium in them also and can be a problem if taking spironolactone. Depending on your potassium levels you most likely don't have to stay away completely but not a good choice as a regular beverage.
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Quote from: TonyaW on November 15, 2018, 10:43:55 PM
Gatorade and the like have potassium in them also and can be a problem if taking spironolactone. Depending on your potassium levels you most likely don't have to stay away completely but not a good choice as a regular beverage.
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I was actually told that exact same thing by my doctor she said to stay away from Gatorade and Powerade
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SOPHIE!!! Wow - I am in awe. So glad you did this!
Quote from: sophie1904 on November 15, 2018, 08:55:31 PM
https://www.bbc.com/news/technology-46153007
This happened today :) Awkward interview 5 days after facial surgery but comes across pretty well!
OMG I just had sex for the first time in over 2 years and it was by a really hot stripper I can't believe I just did that. It felt so good I am still shaking. He is the first guy I have had sex with since I transitioned
Well if I had sex for the first time in over 2 years, I think 'happy' would be a gross understatement! I am ecstatic for you!!! :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap:
The blouse I have wanted went on sale today and my store pickup order is confirmed for pickup in my size and color. It is nice to get a better price, isn't it? :)
Chrissy
Quote from: Dietlind on November 14, 2018, 11:26:02 PM
I went some more cloth, shoes, purse and necklace shopping. I was dressed femle, but had no make up on just my normal male face with my rather short hair kind of female done. The lady who controlled the changing rooms pointed to the guys changing rooms, but I told her that I was going to the ladies ones, and she said "of course". A young man at the checkout called me ma'm. 50/50 passing with a male head an top of female clothing is not all that bad (I think)
Today was also the first day ever in my entire life that I wore a skirt. Definitely a new and somewhat different feeling. I am not sure whether I like it to be fully exposed to the elements down at my parts!
That's how I went today (I hope this link will work) san's my doggy
https://imgur.com/sRcpqDa
You're looking good. You have an adorable dog too.
For me I'm thankful for the continued weight loss. I'm down to a flat 225.
Quote from: Jessica_Rose on November 16, 2018, 05:27:53 AM
Well if I had sex for the first time in over 2 years, I think 'happy' would be a gross understatement! I am ecstatic for you!!! :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap:
@Jessica_Rose Thank you I am ecstatic I can't believe I did it that I had the chance and took it. I still have a fat lip from it lol. I can't get his smell out of my mind wow.
Actually yesterday: My Bestie gave me a beautiful jacket for no specific reason other than I loved it but didn't want to spend the money. I love her so much!!
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Stephanie
Quote from: NatalieRene on November 16, 2018, 08:26:41 AM
You're looking good. You have an adorable dog too.
For me I'm thankful for the continued weight loss. I'm down to a flat 225.
Thanks! And my doggy also thanks you. It is a Rottweiler/Great Dane mix, and she was a rescue from a dog fighting outfit!
Keep on going down, the rewards are great (I want to loose another 20 Lbs). The slimmer you are, the larger the selection on really cool clothing items is waiting for you!
Quote from: Steph2.0 on November 16, 2018, 10:46:40 AM
Actually yesterday: My Bestie gave me a beautiful jacket for no specific reason other than I loved it but didn't want to spend the money. I love her so much!!
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Stephanie
Looks great on you!
Quote from: Steph2.0 on November 16, 2018, 10:46:40 AM
Actually yesterday: My Bestie gave me a beautiful jacket for no specific reason other than I loved it but didn't want to spend the money. I love her so much!!
(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181116/2937bfdcb24419ba7b7777f5524d0592.jpg)
Stephanie
@Steph2.0 Dear Stephanie:
You look so very beautiful in your picture and your new jacket... but sunglasses in November??? I know, I know, your Florida weather is still kinda like summertime. ...
...but here the days are getting quite short now and it has been
C_O_L_DThis morning when I woke up it was -2 deg F (-19 C) !!!
BurrrrrrSunrise will be just before 9:40AM this morning ... and Sunset at 3:40PM and they will keep getting shorter through winter solstice Dec 21, 2018 ........... no sunglasses needed here for a while.
Thank you for sharing...
Hugs and well wishes,
Daniel
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 16, 2018, 11:13:35 AM
@Steph2.0 ...your Florida weather is still kinda like summertime. ...
did someone say weather?
(https://i.imgur.com/9KBANsM.jpg)
It's nasty out, 67 deg, brrr, I'm staying inside
Faith
ps.
Lookin' good Steph!
Quote from: Faith on November 16, 2018, 11:36:37 AM
did someone say weather?
(https://i.imgur.com/9KBANsM.jpg)
It's nasty out, 67 deg, brrr, I'm staying inside
Faith
ps.
Lookin' good Steph!
I have to go to my electrolysis session in Fort Myers. I am debating whether I should wear my down coat or not. We want to go to the Music Walk in Fort Myers tonight, and I might have to dig out my skiing stuff to make sure I don't freeze to death!
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 16, 2018, 11:13:35 AM
@Steph2.0
Dear Stephanie:
You look so very beautiful in your picture and your new jacket... but sunglasses in November??? I know, I know, your Florida weather is still kinda like summertime. ...
...but here the days are getting quite short now and it has been C_O_L_D
This morning when I woke up it was -2 deg F (-19 C) !!! Burrrrrr
Sunrise will be just before 9:40AM this morning ... and Sunset at 3:40PM and they will keep getting shorter through winter solstice Dec 21, 2018 ........... no sunglasses needed here for a while.
Thank you for sharing...
Hugs and well wishes,
Daniel
I had seen that jacket at Ross when @SassyCassie and I were out shopping last weekend. I tried it on but decided I'd already spent too much money.
Last night we attended the TDOR ceremony in Orlando, and she asked me whether I'd be warm enough with just the cardigan I'd brought. I told her that I'd tough it out, and she said, "You'll be warm enough now," and handed me a bag. Squeeee!!
Oh, and yes, sunglasses. You'll need them too, for the short times the sun is out, with snow on the ground. And even after dark, they serve as cool factor.
Stephanie
Quote from: Steph2.0 on November 16, 2018, 10:46:40 AM
Actually yesterday: My Bestie gave me a beautiful jacket for no specific reason other than I loved it but didn't want to spend the money. I love her so much!!
(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181116/2937bfdcb24419ba7b7777f5524d0592.jpg)
Stephanie
Wow Stephanie! I like your jacket!
Chrissy
This week was male fail week. Went to HR to sign my holiday papers with my co-worker, security guard greets us with "Good day, ladies", went to get car parts.. "Good day ma'am", waiting behind a guy to get on the bus.. "Ladies first", finalized my recent apartment purchase(a thing to be happy about in itself).. "Are you here on behalf of [male name]?"
Lynne,
Congratulations on your week of male fails!
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on November 16, 2018, 04:16:01 PM
Lynne,
Congratulations on your week of male fails!
Chrissy
Thanks Chrissy! To top it off, I just painted my nails light blue with glitter finish for the weekend, I guess this will be a girly weekend.
Quote from: Lynne on November 16, 2018, 04:28:29 PM
Thanks Chrissy! To top it off, I just painted my nails light blue with glitter finish for the weekend, I guess this will be a girly weekend.
Lynne,
Have fun this weekend.
I have not tried any nail glitter, just clear polish or buffing with a board or block to a nice shine.
Maybe I should try some colors out.
Chrissy
Went out to town with a few girl friends tonight (Music Walk in Fort Myers), totally decked out in new stuff bought yesterday at TJ Max. One of my friends did my make up and my nails, and we were ready to go!
Not a single male fail the entire evening. Several waiters and waitresses called me ma'm. While waiting to get seated, another female patron waiting in line said " ma'm, this is a very beautiful sweater you wear".
All in all, a very nice evening with a big ego boost!
Quote from: sophie1904 on November 15, 2018, 08:55:31 PM
https://www.bbc.com/news/technology-46153007
This happened today :) Awkward interview 5 days after facial surgery but comes across pretty well!
@sophie1904
Hi Sophie - You did a great job, well done brave lady you are an inspiration.
Take care,
Sonja.
Quote from: Dietlind on November 16, 2018, 11:25:11 PM
> Not a single male fail the entire evening. Several waiters and waitresses called me ma'm. While waiting to get seated, another female patron waiting in line said " ma'm, this is a very beautiful sweater you wear".
All in all, a very nice evening with a big ego boost!
And more good news: now that this has happened you'll find this is the case on a more regular basis. It's a feedback loop... being gendered correctly builds self-confidence, and that self-confidence makes it more likely others will gender you correctly. Look forward to many more great experiences.
For work, we had a yearly gathering of the 75 of us in this hemisphere who have my same title. I had told my manager and his manager that I intended to participate in internal-only calls and meetings as Kate, and that I was coming to this event dressed as Kate. We are a very casual dress company, but a female co-worker had advised me to dress business professional, which is what she does, in spite of all the jeans and T-shirts.
So, I brought 4 skirts, and 4 nice tops, and attended all functions completely as Kate.
And, it was a total non-event. Several people who knew the old me, gave me VERY encouraging words, and several people who didn't know the old me really didn't do anything besides treat me like another woman on the team. (Well, there are only 3 women on this team, so we all sort of stand out.) In one case, a co-worker, who did know the old me, came into a room to find me. There were only two of us in the room, when the co-worker came in. He looked around, right past me, and walked out again. Later, he told me he thought I was just a new woman on the team he hadn't met.
Late in the week, I told people, who knew the old me, that the first day of meetings was the best day at work in the more than 23 years I have been there.
While virtually all of my clothes are women's clothes, I do not have nearly enough "business professional" women's clothes to do my job every day. My Best Day At Work in 23 years is going to have some very expensive ramifications in my shopping budget...
Kate
Wonderful! I am glad that your business gathering this turned out so well! Congratulations!
Chrissy
Kate, awesome! I've also found it's good to dress a bit better than the guys (I work at a software company) and I don't often wear a suit but found Calvin Klein makes nice ladies' suits (https://www.calvinklein.us/en/two-button-suit-jacket-14702689) and business-wear tops at a reasonable price. With mens' suits price wasn't as critical because it's mostly one dark color to buy. With ladies' suits there's a ton of color combinations so I have to keep the cost down to buy more than one, and the coat/blazer looks nice over jeans or a more casual skirt. I've found suit sizes are almost impossible to guess online... in my case the coat is 2 or 3 sizes larger than the matching skirt, sounds odd but looks fine. Bought one at retail, the rest mail order once I had the correct size for each brand.
Color really changes the look of clothes. A black motorcycle jacket looks ready for a biker bar, but the same jacket in pure white can be worn in a nice restaurant.
Quote from: Kendra on November 17, 2018, 12:41:43 PM
And more good news: now that this has happened you'll find this is the case on a more regular basis. It's a feedback loop... being gendered correctly builds self-confidence, and that self-confidence makes it more likely others will gender you correctly. Look forward to many more great experiences.
Thanks! And your answer, too, is an ego boost!
Quote from: KatieP on November 17, 2018, 12:47:34 PM
In one case, a co-worker, who did know the old me, came into a room to find me. There were only two of us in the room, when the co-worker came in. He looked around, right past me, and walked out again. Later, he told me he thought I was just a new woman on the team he hadn't met.
Kate
Congrats (and condolences to your poor pocket book!
Wasn't that a great feeling with the coworker? I had something similar last night. We ran into a couple who knows me a little and another of the girls well. They did not recognize me and asked the other girl who I am! My friend told them that I am a new friend in their circle, and they left us with telling me "was nice meeting you", not realizing that they met me about 10 or so times prior to last night (twice briefly in their own home)!
Transgender can also be trans hiding!
I bought a beautiful new winter coat:
https://www.tedbaker.com/uk/Womens/Clothing/Jackets-and-Coats/SANDRA-Midi-wool-wrap-coat-Deep-Purple/p/147603-DP-PURPLE
Expensive but gorgeous - fingers crossed it fits!
Quote from: sophie1904 on November 17, 2018, 02:40:06 PM
I bought a beautiful new winter coat:
https://www.tedbaker.com/uk/Womens/Clothing/Jackets-and-Coats/SANDRA-Midi-wool-wrap-coat-Deep-Purple/p/147603-DP-PURPLE
Expensive but gorgeous - fingers crossed it fits!
That is a wonderfuuul coat. So jealous.
I'm a little early in transition to splurge on that, even though with my weight loss, all my current coats are way too big for me. But next winter, I'm definitely going to get a nice wool coat - this is one to watch!
Quote from: sophie1904 on November 17, 2018, 02:40:06 PM
I bought a beautiful new winter coat:
https://www.tedbaker.com/uk/Womens/Clothing/Jackets-and-Coats/SANDRA-Midi-wool-wrap-coat-Deep-Purple/p/147603-DP-PURPLE
Expensive but gorgeous - fingers crossed it fits!
That store has some very nice jackets. *added to bookmarks*
I got correctly gendered at the grocery store and I got ma'am.
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 17, 2018, 07:25:53 PM
I got correctly gendered at the grocery store and I got ma'am.
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Great! :)
Chrissy
Quote from: sophie1904 on November 17, 2018, 02:40:06 PM
I bought a beautiful new winter coat:
https://www.tedbaker.com/uk/Womens/Clothing/Jackets-and-Coats/SANDRA-Midi-wool-wrap-coat-Deep-Purple/p/147603-DP-PURPLE
Expensive but gorgeous - fingers crossed it fits!
Very elegant, I love elegant clothing. Too bad we don't need winter stuff here in SW Florida, because the only way i could wear such a coat around here, would be carrying over my arm!
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 17, 2018, 07:25:53 PM
I got correctly gendered at the grocery store and I got ma'am.
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Congrats!
It feels kind of good, doesn't it?
On the other hand, it does not really smash me down if I am misgendered. I just take it without any problem, because those poor people don't know better, i do!
Quote from: sophie1904 on November 17, 2018, 02:40:06 PM
I bought a beautiful new winter coat:
https://www.tedbaker.com/uk/Womens/Clothing/Jackets-and-Coats/SANDRA-Midi-wool-wrap-coat-Deep-Purple/p/147603-DP-PURPLE
Expensive but gorgeous - fingers crossed it fits!
Wow!! That is beautiful!! Great taste...
Let us know how the fit works out.
Based on the sizing chart, I am pretty sure I would have to stitch two of them together to get into it...
Kate
I'm glad my apartment building didn't burn down last night. The fire alarm went off at 3:30am last night. Everyone gathered in the common room in their robes and pajamas waiting for the fire department to arrive. On smell of smoke, the fire chief reset the alarm and sent his crew through the building. All clear, no fire. Our fire detection system is old. This is the second time this year it has gone off for no reason. UGH! ::)
Quote from: Donica on November 18, 2018, 02:11:04 PM
I'm glad my apartment building didn't burn down last night. The fire alarm went off at 3:30am last night. Everyone gathered in the common room in their robes and pajamas waiting for the fire department to arrive. On smell of smoke, the fire chief reset the alarm and sent his crew through the building. All clear, no fire. Our fire detection system is old. This is the second time this year it has gone off for no reason. UGH! ::)
I am glad it did not burn too! Better safe than sorry though.
Chrissy
So my brother came out from Arkansas and decided to do Thanksgiving today for our whole family and I went fully dressed up with my cute little sweater and black pants but I was fully accepted by everybody of course my dad didn't go because he wasn't feeling up to it and he's the one person that does not accept me transitioning but it was a great day everybody was happy to see me and everybody was wondering where I bought my sweater from(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181118/56b573d1f34b09539ef933dc05851707.jpg)
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 18, 2018, 03:52:12 PM
So my brother came out from Arkansas and decided to do Thanksgiving today for our whole family and I went fully dressed up with my cute little sweater and black pants but I was fully accepted by everybody of course my dad didn't go because he wasn't feeling up to it and he's the one person that does not accept me transitioning but it was a great day everybody was happy to see me and everybody was wondering where I bought my sweater from(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181118/56b573d1f34b09539ef933dc05851707.jpg)
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You look very nice. I'm glad that you had a great day. That is such a perfect experience. ;D
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 18, 2018, 03:52:12 PM
So my brother came out from Arkansas and decided to do Thanksgiving today for our whole family and I went fully dressed up with my cute little sweater and black pants but I was fully accepted by everybody of course my dad didn't go because he wasn't feeling up to it and he's the one person that does not accept me transitioning but it was a great day everybody was happy to see me and everybody was wondering where I bought my sweater from(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181118/56b573d1f34b09539ef933dc05851707.jpg)
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Great!
May you have many more nice gatherings too!
Chrissy
Thank you so much Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on November 18, 2018, 04:34:27 PM
Great!
May you have many more nice gatherings too!
Chrissy
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 18, 2018, 03:52:12 PM
everybody was wondering where I bought my sweater from
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Much to give thanks for in that event. Congratulations!!!
And, BTW, where DID you get that sweater from???
Kate
Quote from: KatieP on November 18, 2018, 06:38:39 PM
Much to give thanks for in that event. Congratulations!!!
And, BTW, where DID you get that sweater from???
Kate
Charlotte Russe they do have an online store
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Quote from: KatieP on November 17, 2018, 12:47:34 PM
For work, we had a yearly gathering of the 75 of us in this hemisphere who have my same title. I had told my manager and his manager that I intended to participate in internal-only calls and meetings as Kate, and that I was coming to this event dressed as Kate. We are a very casual dress company, but a female co-worker had advised me to dress business professional, which is what she does, in spite of all the jeans and T-shirts.
So, I brought 4 skirts, and 4 nice tops, and attended all functions completely as Kate.
And, it was a total non-event. Several people who knew the old me, gave me VERY encouraging words, and several people who didn't know the old me really didn't do anything besides treat me like another woman on the team. (Well, there are only 3 women on this team, so we all sort of stand out.) In one case, a co-worker, who did know the old me, came into a room to find me. There were only two of us in the room, when the co-worker came in. He looked around, right past me, and walked out again. Later, he told me he thought I was just a new woman on the team he hadn't met.
Late in the week, I told people, who knew the old me, that the first day of meetings was the best day at work in the more than 23 years I have been there.
While virtually all of my clothes are women's clothes, I do not have nearly enough "business professional" women's clothes to do my job every day. My Best Day At Work in 23 years is going to have some very expensive ramifications in my shopping budget...
Kate
@KatieP
Hey Kate,
Thats a great story thank you for sharing it, business professional womens clothes are another exciting purchase I found - because you feel feminine AND professional! just make sure you take photos once you've got some good collections going because I would love to see! Hey or even just a description would be fun!
Take care,
Sonja.
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 18, 2018, 03:52:12 PM
So my brother came out from Arkansas and decided to do Thanksgiving today for our whole family and I went fully dressed up with my cute little sweater and black pants but I was fully accepted by everybody of course my dad didn't go because he wasn't feeling up to it and he's the one person that does not accept me transitioning but it was a great day everybody was happy to see me and everybody was wondering where I bought my sweater from(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181118/56b573d1f34b09539ef933dc05851707.jpg)
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Nice sweater and great out coming result!
I will never ever have the chance to wear stuff like this, because I would die of a heat stroke down here in southern Florida. It was 84 today and is supposed to get warmer again!
Just because they were pretty and I've always wanted a pair I bought me some new house slippers Unfortunately they didn't have little bunny rabbit house slippers or anything like that so you get what you can right(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181119/c9c6d3b6cf51a99b7639369c904cd1ec.jpg)
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Finding a cashmere coat with label that says made for HARRODS in a charity shop for £5, its below the knee length and dark blue/black and it is a ladies coat Put it on as left shop and needed it with the cold wind from the east.
Stopped by the Post Office to pick up our mail and for the 2nd time in two weeks an elderly man practically broke a hip racing to the door to hold it open for me. Apparently, I'm a hit with old duffers, LOL
Went to the nail salon and decided to try dips for the first time(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181119/d2688dc0e31217f907650fa368beae11.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181119/239b7471a38c07df6e6215e35039c027.jpg)
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Washing machine ate my favorite thong, so Eve took me shopping for new panties!
@Arianna ValentineDear Arianna:
You are turning into quite a fashionista...
New fuzzy and furry slippers ... your new nail salon manicure
... and you selected a beautiful color for your nails too!
You are looking wonderful indeed.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 19, 2018, 03:24:14 PM
Went to the nail salon and decided to try dips for the first time(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181119/d2688dc0e31217f907650fa368beae11.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181119/239b7471a38c07df6e6215e35039c027.jpg)
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 19, 2018, 03:24:14 PM
Went to the nail salon and decided to try dips for the first time(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181119/d2688dc0e31217f907650fa368beae11.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181119/239b7471a38c07df6e6215e35039c027.jpg)
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Nice! That's my favorite color: blood red. :3
Quote from: SiobhánF on November 19, 2018, 03:55:53 PM
Nice! That's my favorite color: blood red. :3
Yes it's my favorite too I actually went to Walmart and bought color red call Valentine red and it actually looked like my fingernails were bleeding
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Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 19, 2018, 03:37:45 PM
@Arianna Valentine
Dear Arianna:
You are turning into quite a fashionista...
New fuzzy and furry slippers ... your new nail salon manicure
... and you selected a beautiful color for your nails too!
You are looking wonderful indeed.
Hugs,
Danielle
Thank you very much Danielle
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Quote from: Jin on November 19, 2018, 03:36:11 PM
Washing machine ate my favorite thong, so Eve took me shopping for new panties!
Sorry about you losing your favorite thong but shopping hello worth it now you can turn around and buy 10 of your favorite lol
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 19, 2018, 04:16:37 PM
Yes it's my favorite too I actually went to Walmart and bought color red call Valentine red and it actually looked like my fingernails were bleeding
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@Arianna Valentine
Wow Arianna sounds perfect!! nails Looking great!!
Sonja.
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 19, 2018, 04:16:37 PM
Yes it's my favorite too I actually went to Walmart and bought color red call Valentine red and it actually looked like my fingernails were bleeding
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Bleeding cuteness!
Love the color!
Lacy
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 19, 2018, 03:24:14 PM
Went to the nail salon and decided to try dips for the first time(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181119/d2688dc0e31217f907650fa368beae11.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181119/239b7471a38c07df6e6215e35039c027.jpg)
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You have the same color I have on my nails!
Quote from: Dietlind on November 19, 2018, 09:46:56 PM
You have the same color I have on my nails!
It was somebody has to have good taste right I guess it's up to me and you LOL
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 19, 2018, 09:54:09 PM
It was somebody has to have good taste right I guess it's up to me and you LOL
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You say it sister, you say it!
I've taken another step towards starting HRT :) fingers crossed I'll be able to get everything done in time for Christmas.
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Quote from: MollyPants on November 20, 2018, 06:25:13 AM
I've taken another step towards starting HRT :) fingers crossed I'll be able to get everything done in time for Christmas.
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Terrific!
Chrissy
Quote from: MollyPants on November 20, 2018, 06:25:13 AM
I've taken another step towards starting HRT :) fingers crossed I'll be able to get everything done in time for Christmas.
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I hope everything goes well for you!
In the past two days, I got my HRT appointment with my new primary care physician and first electrolysis appointment set for the beginning of January.
I am so excited - this is happening!
Quote from: sarahc on November 20, 2018, 10:03:07 AM
In the past two days, I got my HRT appointment with my new primary care physician and first electrolysis appointment set for the beginning of January.
I am so excited - this is happening!
Sarah,
I can see why you are excited! That is wonderful news!
Chrissy
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 19, 2018, 04:18:05 PM
Sorry about you losing your favorite thong but shopping hello worth it now you can turn around and buy 10 of your favorite lol
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Arianna, yes it was worth it. The old one was getting a bit ragged anyhow. She bought me a 3-pack very similar (why can you never find the exact style next trip?), one very lacy 'Date Night' hot pink number, and let me pick out some everyday microfibers. I chose pink, lavender, and baby blue. I have the pink on today.
Keep on keeping on Honey, we love you!
Having my first session of laser tomorrow! Just had an initial consult and got to try the laser on my neck. It stung and I could smell hair burning, which is reassuring. It honestly wasn't as painful as I expected, but I imagine the little jabs add up! But they were really nice and very supportive of trans clients (which makes sense I guess, we do pay their wages :D).
Just having my face done for now, but if I am happy with the result I am planning a session on chest and legs for next month.
It's pretty hard on my budget, but so worth it.. body hair is definitely my biggest source of dysphoria.
Quote from: Anastasia E on November 20, 2018, 12:25:48 PM
Having my first session of laser tomorrow! Just had an initial consult and got to try the laser on my neck. It stung and I could smell hair burning, which is reassuring. It honestly wasn't as painful as I expected, but I imagine the little jabs add up! But they were really nice and very supportive of trans clients (which makes sense I guess, we do pay their wages :D).
Just having my face done for now, but if I am happy with the result I am planning a session on chest and legs for next month.
It's pretty hard on my budget, but so worth it.. body hair is definitely my biggest source of dysphoria.
hey @Anastasia E
That's great, from all my research and the professional outfit I'm signed up with in NZ for this, you want to do at least 8 sessions before evaluating further IE electrolysis for stubborn/light hairs. spaced 6 weeks apart. Is your plan something similar?
Take care,
Sonja.
Quote from: Sonja on November 20, 2018, 03:33:01 PM
hey @Anastasia E
That's great, from all my research and the professional outfit I'm signed up with in NZ for this, you want to do at least 8 sessions before evaluating further IE electrolysis for stubborn/light hairs. spaced 6 weeks apart. Is your plan something similar?
Take care,
Sonja.
They recommended 4 weeks between each session for the face, and I am planning 8-12 sessions depending on how effective it is. Hoping for at least ~90% reduction before I resort to electrolysis for the remainder (fingers crossed for good results!).
I think electrolysis to some degree is definitely necessary. From what I understand it's not possible to get every stubborn hair with laser even under ideal conditions.
I blew a brake hose in my car the reason I'm happy is I was parked when it happened and looked and the other side is about to blow to
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 20, 2018, 03:56:58 PM
I blew a brake hose in my car the reason I'm happy is I was parked when it happened and looked and the other side is about to blow to
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@Arianna Valentine:
Yes, you should be quite happy that this did not happen when you were traveling down the road and eventually needed to stop... happy and fortunate for sure.
Safety items like brakes, steering and tires can not be fooled around with...
I am very glad that you are OK... sounds like you may need a complete brake overhaul include brake lines.
Safety first.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 20, 2018, 04:15:38 PM
@Arianna Valentine:
Yes, you should be quite happy that this did not happen when you were traveling down the road and eventually needed to stop... happy and fortunate for sure.
Safety items like brakes, steering and tires can not be fooled around with...
I am very glad that you are OK... sounds like you may need a complete brake overhaul include brake lines.
Safety first.
Hugs,
Danielle
Yeah my nephew came up and drove it to the auto repair shop with a block away and they looked at it both front hoses leading to the calipers are bad one went out the other had a crack in it and was about to go out so they replace both of them for 250 bucks and they checked all the other lines and everything else looked good
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I played with FaceApp for a few hours to see what I would look like with blond hair and now I'm laughing like an idiot for the last hour because I could totally pull off the mindless bimbo look, which would be great fun at my next programming exam in front of an international committee :D It would throw them off a little bit at the beginning I think :D
Quote from: Anastasia E on November 20, 2018, 03:43:04 PM
They recommended 4 weeks between each session for the face, and I am planning 8-12 sessions depending on how effective it is. Hoping for at least ~90% reduction before I resort to electrolysis for the remainder (fingers crossed for good results!).
I think electrolysis to some degree is definitely necessary. From what I understand it's not possible to get every stubborn hair with laser even under ideal conditions.
As most of you know, I have not super much hair in my face, and none on my body. I had laser done last week, and they recommend two more sessions, 4 weeks apart each. After that electrolysis is for the final cleanup.
The laser did not hurt all that bad, just the upper lip section was a little on the challenging side.
I had microneedeling done yesterday, talking about pain! It was really bad today, once my nerves could feel anything again! They were in a constant shock condition today!
I don't now if I want to have that done ever again! I had the face and neck done, the neck was worse than the face!
I dashed into Payless at the mall and the clerk said she loved my earrings!
Oh, and this happened. (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,242527.msg2196738.html#msg2196738)
Quote from: Anastasia E on November 20, 2018, 03:43:04 PM
They recommended 4 weeks between each session for the face, and I am planning 8-12 sessions depending on how effective it is. Hoping for at least ~90% reduction before I resort to electrolysis for the remainder (fingers crossed for good results!).
Yeah, about that... I had Session #28 yesterday.
As I've posted in the forums already, I came out at work a couple of weeks ago. Part of my job involves running teleconferences, so a few times every week I appear (along with the rest of my team) on video screens around our state & sometimes around the country. That's a routine experience that I was worried about before coming out. It's basically been a non-issue.
That being said, a clinician who attends one of my weekly teleconferences is a friend of mine from the queer community (specifically, from my time among the Radical Faeries (http://"https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Radical_Faeries")). I'd been meaning to send him a personal message about my coming out at work as trans, so yesterday I did. This morning I got his response.
It turns out that although he saw me on screen as Rory last week it didn't register for him that I'm trans. He just thought it was some woman named Rory that he didn't know, who was covering my teleconference duties last week. That has made my morning! Well, that, and he called me a rockstar, LOL ;D
Quote from: RoryL on November 21, 2018, 11:27:08 AM
As I've posted in the forums already, I came out at work a couple of weeks ago. Part of my job involves running teleconferences, so a few times every week I appear (along with the rest of my team) on video screens around our state & sometimes around the country. That's a routine experience that I was worried about before coming out. It's basically been a non-issue.
That being said, a clinician who attends one of my weekly teleconferences is a friend of mine from the queer community (specifically, from my time among the Radical Faeries (http://"https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Radical_Faeries")). I'd been meaning to send him a personal message about my coming out at work as trans, so yesterday I did. This morning I got his response.
It turns out that although he saw me on screen as Rory last week it didn't register for him that I'm trans. He just thought it was some woman named Rory that he didn't know, who was covering my teleconference duties last week. That has made my morning! Well, that, and he called me a rockstar, LOL ;D
Yay! Wonderful!
Chrissy
I know it's stupid to have this be something to be happy about but I don't have to take my nephew to work today he found a ride
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Quote from: RoryL on November 21, 2018, 11:27:08 AM
As I've posted in the forums already, I came out at work a couple of weeks ago. Part of my job involves running teleconferences, so a few times every week I appear (along with the rest of my team) on video screens around our state & sometimes around the country. That's a routine experience that I was worried about before coming out. It's basically been a non-issue.
That being said, a clinician who attends one of my weekly teleconferences is a friend of mine from the queer community (specifically, from my time among the Radical Faeries (http://"https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Radical_Faeries")). I'd been meaning to send him a personal message about my coming out at work as trans, so yesterday I did. This morning I got his response.
It turns out that although he saw me on screen as Rory last week it didn't register for him that I'm trans. He just thought it was some woman named Rory that he didn't know, who was covering my teleconference duties last week. That has made my morning! Well, that, and he called me a rockstar, LOL ;D
That is simply amazing and so wonderful it makes me happy just reading it and he's right you are a rockstar
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I don't know if that counts as being happy, but he pain caused by that microneedeling is slowly going away. I hope that I turn out unbeliebte beautiful from it! Face lifting might have been less painfull!
I got my first real ma'am today at the grocery store. <<<SQUEEE>>>
Quote from: Donica on November 21, 2018, 02:35:52 PM
I got my first real ma'am today at the grocery store. <<<SQUEEE>>>
Awesome congratulations that is always the best feeling in the world just remember if somebody does misgender you don't let it bring you down it happens
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Quote from: Donica on November 21, 2018, 02:35:52 PM
I got my first real ma'am today at the grocery store. <<<SQUEEE>>>
Terrific! That is wonderful!
Chrissy
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 21, 2018, 04:00:13 PM
I think that may go for all of us.
Reminds me..
A very minor thing and happened last week, but I happened to read my doctor's notes after my HRT visit (all medical history is accessible to patients in my country).
It started something like "30 year old biologically born male..." and then went on with "
she was approved for hormone treatment".
I still generally present male, so this is probably the first time anyone in official capacity has referred to me with female pronouns. I couldn't stop smiling, it feels good to be acknowledged.
Quote from: Anastasia E on November 21, 2018, 04:37:26 PM
Reminds me..
A very minor thing and happened last week, but I happened to read my doctor's notes after my HRT visit (all medical history is accessible to patients in my country).
It started something like "30 year old biologically born male..." and then went on with "she was approved for hormone treatment".
I still generally present male, so this is probably the first time anyone in official capacity has referred to me with female pronouns. I couldn't stop smiling, it feels good to be acknowledged.
Anastasia,
That is so nice to hear. :)
Chrissy
Quote from: Donica on November 21, 2018, 02:35:52 PM
I got my first real ma'am today at the grocery store. <<<SQUEEE>>>
@Donica Dear Donica:When I hear this from any of our Forums members I get very happy!
This is so very affirming... any of us would be gleefully happy indeed when it happens to us.
I have been 100% passing for over 2 years and I still get very happy whenever I am addressed with female pronouns and greetings. I think that may go for all of us.
Thanks for reporting your very good news.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Donica on November 21, 2018, 02:35:52 PM
I got my first real ma'am today at the grocery store. <<<SQUEEE>>>
Congratulations! That is great!
I think the length of the hair does do a lot for the passing!
I was out without my wig and no makeup today, shopping some female tops, and the checkout person did not really know how to address me. She looked at me a few times, as if she did not know how to place me, but did not say a word!
:icon_dance:
Went for my new passport today - approved, should be here in a week :)
While waiting, one of the woman was talking to a colleague and I laughted a little at something she said to which she replied "don't laugh at that madam!" :D
Also, on the train to/from the appointment and nothing happened - I was completely ignored and in a weird way, that was so satisfying from a passing perspective - just another woman going about her day. I know I'm fortunate to pass but the anxiety of being harassed is dissipating (4 weeks full time / 0 negative events so far).
I just wanted to say Happy Thanksgiving to all you lovely ladies out there I hope you have a good holiday and have a good time
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Happy Thanksgiving y'all! Yes, we all have much to be thankful for. Sometimes we need to look harder to find it, but we are here!
Hugs,
Kelly
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 22, 2018, 12:07:17 PM
I just wanted to say Happy Thanksgiving to all you lovely ladies out there I hope you have a good holiday and have a good time
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
@Arianna Valentine:
Dear Arianna:
Yes indeed, I will have a good time, it is still quite early where I am, it is only 10:30AM, I am finishing up on baking the dinner rolls and making the Deviled eggs... I made the Apple Pie last night.... I will be bringing that good stuff there for Thanksgiving Dinner with the family that invited me and my guest (Toothfairy
#4)... at about noon I will shower up and clean up and wait for
#4 to pick me up to go there.
What you stated is so very true:
"If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?"This applies to everyone, not just transgenders.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Hugs,
Danielle
I'm sharing a Thanksgiving with a large group that includes many older single folks who would otherwise be alone, and some folks in need, up at my local church. I'll be delivering my garnet yam casserole (sweet potatoes to many folks) as well.
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My girlfriend @Laurie picked out a lovely dress for me online and suggested I try it. I believe she likes the jacket as a complement to an older dress I have.
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The older dress that may also work with the jacket...
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Quote from: Michelle_P on November 22, 2018, 12:52:09 PM
I'm sharing a Thanksgiving with a large group that includes many older single folks who would otherwise be alone, and some folks in need, up at my local church. I'll be delivering my garnet yam casserole (sweet potatoes to many folks) as well.
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My girlfriend @Laurie picked out a lovely dress for me online and suggested I try it. I believe she likes the jacket as a complement to an older dress I have.
(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181122/7ad8d7749290a245f68c6ae88ab59d93.jpg) (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181122/f65978d1b157770df14555c24d827502.jpg)
The older dress that may also work with the jacket...
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@Michelle_P cc:
@Laurie Dear Michelle:Wow-whee..... ...you look absolutely beautiful, I really love your outfit that you
(and @Laurie) have chosen to wear for your festivities today. I am thinking that all eyes will be on you when you step into the room. Is
Laurie going to be with you today?
.... and your yam casserole that you have prepared looks so tasty. Where I grew up we always said Yams, and not Sweet Potatoes.... I don't care what we call it, it is so very good and is a standard entree at winter time holiday meals. If you don't mind sharing could you sharing, what do you use for spicing it... cinnamon for sure but anything else perhaps???
Again, Michelle, you look absolutely beautiful...
...thank you for sharing your very lovely pictures.
Hugs and Happy Thanksgiving.
Danielle
"I'm sharing a Thanksgiving with a large group that includes many older single folks who would otherwise be alone, and some folks in need, up at my local church. I'll be delivering my garnet yam casserole (sweet potatoes to many folks) as well."
Michelle,
I hope that this will be a good time for all. I bet your yam casserole is tasty. They will like it, I am sure. :)
You are dressed very nicely. Have a wonderful time!
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on November 22, 2018, 01:19:44 PM
"I'm sharing a Thanksgiving with a large group that includes many older single folks who would otherwise be alone, and some folks in need, up at my local church. I'll be delivering my garnet yam casserole (sweet potatoes to many folks) as well."
Michelle,
I hope that this will be a good time for all. I bet your yam casserole is tasty. They will like it, I am sure. :)
You are dressed very nicely. Have a wonderful time!
Chrissy
@ChrissyRyan Dear Chrissy:You are so very right, it is nice when gatherings of singles and others without nearby families can all get together for the big holiday celebrations. I always love the potluck dinner gatherings, so many good cooks in the groups that I am involved in.
I can imagine that your
Yam Casserole is very good based on a lot of your food postings and pictures that you have posted in the past. I will ask the same question to you that I had asked
@Michelle_P.... how do you spice your yam casserole??? I always use cinnamon as my main spice ingredient.
Wishing you a very
Happy Thanksgiving....
...I trust that you will have a wonderful day.
Thank you for sharing and posting your thoughts.
Hugs and hugs,
Danielle
Oh, I won't be wearing that dress into the kitchen and dinner service! Out of place and it would likely be damaged!
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 22, 2018, 01:15:23 PM
Where I grew up we always said Yams, and not Sweet Potatoes.... I don't care what we call it, it is so very good and is a standard entree at winter time holiday meals. If you don't mind sharing could you sharing, what do you use for spicing it... cinnamon for sure but anything else perhaps???
This one is actually a vegan and gluten-free dish.
Nine pounds of yams were baked at 375 for an hour and 15 minutes.
The peeled yams are mixed with two cups of unsweetened vanilla almond milk, 4 tbsp of vanilla extract, and mashed together. Add 4 tbsp of melted virgin coconut oil, 1 1/2 tsp cinnamon, 1 1/2 tsp salt, and 1 tsp nutmeg. Mix until fairly smooth.
Taste and add salt or white pepper as needed. Transfer to a baking dish or dishes and smooth with a rubber spatula or large spoon.
For the topping, mix together 2 2/3 cups of rolled oats, 2 cups coarsely chopped pecans (not toasted), 1 cup almond meal or almond flour, 1/2 tsp cinnamon, 1/2 tsp salt, 3/4 cup melted coconut oil, and 2 tbsp pure maple syrup.
Spread the topping evenly over the yams we prepared earlier.
Bake until the topping is toasted and the casserole is warmed through, about 20-30 minutes at 375 degrees.
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 22, 2018, 01:27:29 PM
@ChrissyRyan
Dear Chrissy:
You are so very right, it is nice when gatherings of singles and others without nearby families can all get together for the big holiday celebrations. I always love the potluck dinner gatherings, so many good cooks in the groups that I am involved in.
I can imagine that your Yam Casserole is very good based on a lot of your food postings and pictures that you have posted in the past. I will ask the same question to you that I had asked @Michelle_P.... how do you spice your yam casserole??? I always use cinnamon as my main spice ingredient.
Wishing you a very Happy Thanksgiving....
...I trust that you will have a wonderful day.
Thank you for sharing and posting your thoughts.
Hugs and hugs,
Danielle
Danielle,
I simply copied a part of Michelle's message relating to her casserole and outing, and pasted it at the start of my message in quotes, rather than use the site's quote function, then edit. I guess I should not have done it that way, as it led to confusion. My apologies.
I do not have a yam casserole but it does sound good.
Cinnamon is a logical spice to use for the yam recipe.
Have a wonderful time with your friends today! Happy Thanksgiving!
Chrissy
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 22, 2018, 12:48:19 PM
@Arianna Valentine:
Dear Arianna:
Yes indeed, I will have a good time, it is still quite early where I am, it is only 10:30AM, I am finishing up on baking the dinner rolls and making the Deviled eggs... I made the Apple Pie last night.... I will be bringing that good stuff there for Thanksgiving Dinner with the family that invited me and my guest (Toothfairy #4)... at about noon I will shower up and clean up and wait for #4 to pick me up to go there.
What you stated is so very true:
"If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?"
This applies to everyone, not just transgenders.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Hugs,
Danielle
I am so glad that you like that quote I was little bit worried that people might take it the wrong way but thank you also we did chili for dinner because we did Thanksgiving Sunday and unfortunately I made it a little too spicy so every time you go to take a bite of it you have to cough LOL
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 22, 2018, 05:17:51 PM
I am so glad that you like that quote I was little bit worried that people might take it the wrong way but thank you also we did chili for dinner because we did Thanksgiving Sunday and unfortunately I made it a little too spicy so every time you go to take a bite of it you have to cough LOL
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
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Arianna,
If you have enough extra chili base ingredients to add your hot chili base, you can neutralize the "excess heat" somewhat by adding those unhot ingredients, thereby diluting the "heat" in your chili. You will not need to add more bean, meat, or noodles. Just add more tomatoey base or if you used canned chili, add more of that. It does make sense that the heat would be diluted, because the hot peppers, if you used them, is now spread over more of the other ingredients and your chili should be milder.
That might work, providing you did not make the chili super hot, otherwise the amount of extra base needed would be proportionally greater to make the chili milder. You can try this to a couple of portions of your existing chili if you do not want to simply put it in the big pot and maybe mess it up with this ingredient adding experiment. This technique often works for me, but your taste preference may differ, so you may not like the results any more than your hot chili!
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on November 22, 2018, 05:40:49 PM
Arianna,
If you have enough extra chili base ingredients to add your hot chili base, you can neutralize the "excess heat" somewhat by adding those unhot ingredients, thereby diluting the "heat" in your chili. You will not need to add more bean, meat, or noodles. Just add more tomatoey base or if you used canned chili, add more of that. It does make sense that the heat would be diluted, because the hot peppers, if you used them, is now spread over more of the other ingredients and your chili should be milder.
That might work, providing you did not make the chili super hot, otherwise the amount of extra base needed would be proportionally greater to make the chili milder. You can try this to a couple of portions of your existing chili if you do not want to simply put it in the big pot and maybe mess it up with this ingredient adding experiment. This technique often works for me, but your taste preference may differ, so you may not like the results any more than your hot chili!
Chrissy
Unfortunately I have an allergy to certain tomato products so I can't use them
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Okay so this might seem a little odd to be happy around but I'm laying in bed and my hair keeps going in my eyes going on my nose going in my mouth and it just made me so giddy and happy because of how long it's getting I used to wear my hair in a crew cut so I'm pretty excited that it's growing at a decent rate
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 23, 2018, 03:48:49 AM
Okay so this might seem a little odd to be happy around but I'm laying in bed and my hair keeps going in my eyes going on my nose going in my mouth and it just made me so giddy and happy because of how long it's getting I used to wear my hair in a crew cut so I'm pretty excited that it's growing at a decent rate
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Eating my hair is the most frustrating thing I've ever gotten satisfaction from. ;D
Hugs, Devlyn
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 23, 2018, 03:48:49 AM
Okay so this might seem a little odd to be happy around but I'm laying in bed and my hair keeps going in my eyes going on my nose going in my mouth and it just made me so giddy and happy because of how long it's getting I used to wear my hair in a crew cut so I'm pretty excited that it's growing at a decent rate
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
How long did it take to get that long?
I am awake for another reason, my entire face is itching because my skin is peeling after the microneedeling procedure I had done last Monday. It feels like the peeling of skin after a gigantic sun burn.
I don't know if that is positive or negative, because the new skin should be beautiful (at least I was promised it would be). Currently it just itches like crazy!
Quote from: Dietlind on November 23, 2018, 03:54:38 AM
How long did it take to get that long?
I am awake for another reason, my entire face is itching because my skin is peeling after the microneedeling procedure I had done last Monday. It feels like the peeling of skin after a gigantic sun burn.
I don't know if that is positive or negative, because the new skin should be beautiful (at least I was promised it would be). Currently it just itches like crazy!
I hope that your itching subsides. Itching seems like a minor malady, but if you are experiencing it, it can be uncomfortable. Peeling itself would annoy me more until that is over with.
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on November 23, 2018, 06:57:35 AM
I hope that your itching subsides. Itching seems like a minor malady, but if you are experiencing it, it can be uncomfortable. Peeling itself would annoy me more until that is over with.
Chrissy
The itching stole most of the night away from me, I could sleep for about three hours only.
Yes, the peeling is bad, too. I certainly do not look like a beauty queen. The biggest problem for the looks is the fact that not all the facial surfaces peel at the same time, and my face looks like a version of a skin colored Dalmatien dog!
I better look unbelievable beautiful, once everything is done and over!
Quote from: Dietlind on November 23, 2018, 08:08:00 AM
The itching stole most of the night away from me, I could sleep for about three hours only.
Yes, the peeling is bad, too. I certainly do not look like a beauty queen. The biggest problem for the looks is the fact that not all the facial surfaces peel at the same time, and my face looks like a version of a skin colored Dalmatien dog!
I better look unbelievable beautiful, once everything is done and over!
I wish you the best results!
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on November 23, 2018, 09:18:12 AM
I wish you the best results!
Chrissy
Thank you so much Chrissy!
Today in the shower I noticed I still had some gunky oily stuff on my hands that I missed while cleaning up earlier. I was holding my hands straight out in front of me so I could see them, and scrubbed them. Then I looked and saw my breasts jiggling and I had the biggest smile.
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on November 23, 2018, 10:58:13 AM
Today in the shower I noticed I still had some gunky oily stuff on my hands that I missed while cleaning up earlier. I was holding my hands straight out in front of me so I could see them, and scrubbed them. Then I looked and saw my breasts jiggling and I had the biggest smile.
Chrissy
@ChrissyRyan Definitely well worth being happy about and having a big smile on your face....
.... and it just gets better and better as HRT continues to do it's thing.
Thank you for sharing this very happy report.
Hugs and hugs,
Danielle
I have an appointment for a CT Facial scan for FFS today.
Quote from: Michelle_P on November 22, 2018, 12:52:09 PM
I'm sharing a Thanksgiving with a large group that includes many older single folks who would otherwise be alone, and some folks in need, up at my local church. I'll be delivering my garnet yam casserole (sweet potatoes to many folks) as well.
(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181122/d2d626b1b7164958ec4c5f0bbe2c99f6.jpg)
My girlfriend @Laurie picked out a lovely dress for me online and suggested I try it. I believe she likes the jacket as a complement to an older dress I have.
(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181122/7ad8d7749290a245f68c6ae88ab59d93.jpg) (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181122/f65978d1b157770df14555c24d827502.jpg)
The older dress that may also work with the jacket...
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Wow Michelle! So very lovely! Laurie was right. They look great on you.
Hugs,
Donica.
Wow, awesome, Donica! Best of luck today
Chrissy, congrats on the jiggle - it's wonderful, isn't it?
Michelle, that yam casserole sounds yummy, I'll have to try your recipe. You look wonderful in your pics. I love the jacket - classy & so versatile!
Quote from: Donica on November 23, 2018, 11:46:03 AM
I have an appointment for a CT Facial scan for FFS today.
@DonicaDear Donica: WOW, this is really great news for you...
... this is obviously an important next step for your transition.
I will be eager to see your followup reports...
... and, of course, when the date is finally set for surgery
then we can all count down the days with you.
Happy days ahead.
Thank you for sharing and posting.
Hugs and hugs,
Danielle
I wish you ladies lots of fun with the breast jiggle, and good luck with the skull scan!
I was out today without my wig (I hate that thing). But my hair is now getting slowly beyond that short male style into a short woman hair length. And I dried it to look nice and fluffy. I had to return some stuff at a store, and the lady at the customer service desk said: I really like the way you do your hair ma'm. This was the first time eve that my hair passed as female! It's getting there, slowly but surly, but way to slow for my taste!
Oh Danielle!!! After I got home from my CT Facial for FFS, I found my new driver's license for me in my mailbox. I was so worried about my picture, put it came out great. I look feminine. Squeeeeetears. It's really me!!!!!!
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on November 23, 2018, 12:06:06 PM
@Donica
Dear Donica:
WOW, this is really great news for you...
... this is obviously an important next step for your transition.
I will be eager to see your followup reports...
... and, of course, when the date is finally set for surgery
then we can all count down the days with you.
Happy days ahead.
Thank you for sharing and posting.
Hugs and hugs,
Danielle
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Quote from: Dietlind on November 23, 2018, 05:41:47 PM
I wish you ladies lots of fun with the breast jiggle, and good luck with the skull scan!
I was out today without my wig (I hate that thing). But my hair is now getting slowly beyond that short male style into a short woman hair length. And I dried it to look nice and fluffy. I had to return some stuff at a store, and the lady at the customer service desk said: I really like the way you do your hair ma'm. This was the first time eve that my hair passed as female! It's getting there, slowly but surly, but way to slow for my taste!
Great news!
Chrissy
Quote from: Donica on November 23, 2018, 07:39:39 PM
Oh Danielle!!! After I got home from my CT Facial for FFS, I found my new driver's license for me in my mailbox. I was so worried about my picture, put it came out great. I look feminine. Squeeeeetears. It's really me!!!!!!
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@Donica Dear Donica:
Good news is happening for you in a big way.... yes indeed, getting documents like Driver's Licenses, Car Titles, Passports, Bank Accounts, Credit Cards, etc.... showing your "Donica" picture and with a correct Gender is so very affirming and confidence building.
I am so very happy for you regarding how things are progressing in your transition.
Thanks for sharing.
Hugs and well wishes as always,
Danielle
Quote from: Dietlind on November 23, 2018, 05:41:47 PM
I wish you ladies lots of fun with the breast jiggle, and good luck with the skull scan!
I was out today without my wig (I hate that thing). But my hair is now getting slowly beyond that short male style into a short woman hair length. And I dried it to look nice and fluffy. I had to return some stuff at a store, and the lady at the customer service desk said: I really like the way you do your hair ma'm. This was the first time eve that my hair passed as female! It's getting there, slowly but surly, but way to slow for my taste!
@Dietlind It is such a wonderful feeling when we are gendered correctly and addressed by the correct female pronouns and greetings.... getting rid of the wig and going out and about with your natural hair as long as that makes sense, is so liberating and even if it is shorter than you want, you do know that there are a lot of very feminine short hair styles and a lot of women that prefer their hair like that... it is certainly easier to deal with when getting dressed and ready to go out.
Thanks for posting your good report.
Best wishes as always,
Danielle
Quote from: Dietlind on November 23, 2018, 03:54:38 AM
How long did it take to get that long?
I am awake for another reason, my entire face is itching because my skin is peeling after the microneedeling procedure I had done last Monday. It feels like the peeling of skin after a gigantic sun burn.
I don't know if that is positive or negative, because the new skin should be beautiful (at least I was promised it would be). Currently it just itches like crazy!
For my hair to get as long as it is now I think it took maybe around 8 months or so I think I just started taking the Biotin and it actually seems to help speed it up a little bit
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Dear @Dietlind (http://@dietlind)! I know my new avatar doesn't show it but it has taken me 15 months to grow my hair down about 4 inches past my shoulders. My bangs are still too short as yet. I can't put them behind my ears and no where near long enough to put my bangs in a ponytail. I'm guessing it will take another 15 months for that.
Refilled my HRT prescription today, cashier at Walgreens said she loved my leather leggings.
Quote from: Donica on November 24, 2018, 04:16:07 PM
Dear @Dietlind (http://@dietlind)! I know my new avatar doesn't show it but it has taken me 15 months to grow my hair down about 4 inches past my shoulders. My bangs are still too short as yet. I can't put them behind my ears and no where near long enough to put my bangs in a ponytail. I'm guessing it will take another 15 months for that.
I would be very happy if my hair would be as long as the hair you have on your avatar! I think as soon as your hair covers your ears you can start to have more feminin hair dos! My hair is now just touching the top of my ears, and I have gigantic ears (probably could compete with Jumbo from Disney). To get your avatar length, I would have to wait another 8 months (1/2 inch per month). My son gets married in June 2019, which means I barely would make that length. Now I ave to really think hard, should I attend his wedding as his dad (man), or as his second mom (female)?
My ex feels I should go as his dad to make sure I don't steel the show away from him and his bride.
It is not easy to be a trans parent!
After an early showering and coffee, I decided to enjoy a nice lavender scented bath.
Great choice!
It still smells so good! :)
Chrissy
The heat is higher and I feel it. It beats being cold, so I'm happy about that.
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Quote from: ChrissyRyan on November 25, 2018, 07:58:33 AM
After an early showering and coffee, I decided to enjoy a nice lavender scented bath.
Great choice!
It still smells so good! :)
Chrissy
I have not been I a bath tub for many, many years. In fact, my house has a shower only in the master bath (it is large enough to dance in). The only bath tub I have is in the guest bath, and I never get the idea to use it!
My old house used to have an extra large whirl pool tub, and I enjoyed that with different salts in.
Today was a super first for me! For the first time ever in my entire life I went to the lady's bath room!!!!!!
(drum roll, please). I hate public bathroom like the pest, but I needed to go so bad today that I got all the guts I have into my brain, and just walked into the woman's side. A few ladies were in the hand wash area, but none said a single word! And later, the two ladies who were doing the check out, also gendered me right. My hair must be getting long enough that my do now looks female enough to not be mistaken as a man anymore. I could wear the wig, shown in the avatar, but I hate that thing!
3rd voice lesson longest yet at 1 hr. Moved from e to b- now consistently up to a3. Having the normal trouble spots of H and w words. Oh well it's a marathon not a sprint. Downside-missed a social night with local trans group. Not enough time for both tonight.
I think I might have a girlfriend soon
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 27, 2018, 11:50:06 PM
I think I might have a girlfriend soon
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
I will keep my fingers and my toes crossed!
Good luck! (maybe she has a sister or girlfriend who is looking for a trans-woman, I am available)
Quote from: Dietlind on November 27, 2018, 11:55:22 PM
I will keep my fingers and my toes crossed!
Good luck! (maybe she has a sister or girlfriend who is looking for a trans-woman, I am available)
I will have to find out but she is a trans woman but still don't matter to me she's a great person and really cares about me so here's hoping
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 27, 2018, 11:57:36 PM
I will have to find out but she is a trans woman but still don't matter to me she's a great person and really cares about me so here's hoping
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
I feel that a transperson would be a better partner for us trans girls than would be a cis person. We trans folks have certain things in common, which no cis person can really understand. Cis people never ever even think about if they would be mis-gendered or not, while it is for us a constant point for anxiety! And I have seen some cis women who easily could be mistaken for man, but who are so confident of the femininity that it does not even bother them concerning the aspect of not being gendered correct.
so, I think, another trans person would make a better partner for us trans girls!
Good luck, just keep a look out for her friend or sister!
Quote from: Dietlind on November 27, 2018, 08:26:47 PM
Today was a super first for me! For the first time ever in my entire life I went to the lady's bath room!!!!!!
(drum roll, please). I hate public bathroom like the pest, but I needed to go so bad today that I got all the guts I have into my brain, and just walked into the woman's side. A few ladies were in the hand wash area, but none said a single word! And later, the two ladies who were doing the check out, also gendered me right. My hair must be getting long enough that my do now looks female enough to not be mistaken as a man anymore. I could wear the wig, shown in the avatar, but I hate that thing!
Kudos on facing down your anxiety & taking this step! It's taken me a while to pass that particular milestone but am slowly getting more comfortable using public ladies' rooms. Plus, doesn't it feel SO GOOD when strangers gender you correctly? Shop clerks are becoming my favorite people these days, lol
SOOO with you on the dislike of wigs, much preferring a cute hat with my own hair sticking out from underneath. Though you may hate the wig, you do look great wearing it in your profile pic!
Feel the bathroom anxiety - still haven't conquered a public bathroom :(
However, today, my new Female passport arrived - I have officially been recognized, driving licence next up!
Sophie
I am happy today for the continued weight loss. Since I started about a month ago I have lost 15 pounds and am down to 220.7 pounds.
Waking up next to my girlfriend!
OK, waking up makes me happy at this stage of life. ;) Waking up with
@Laurie next to me is a huge bonus!
Quote from: Dietlind on November 28, 2018, 08:15:18 AM
I feel that a transperson would be a better partner for us trans girls than would be a cis person. We trans folks have certain things in common, which no cis person can really understand. Cis people never ever even think about if they would be mis-gendered or not, while it is for us a constant point for anxiety! And I have seen some cis women who easily could be mistaken for man, but who are so confident of the femininity that it does not even bother them concerning the aspect of not being gendered correct.
so, I think, another trans person would make a better partner for us trans girls!
Good luck, just keep a look out for her friend or sister!
Its funny thats how i usually am I dont mind if i get misgendered it happens don't mean it dont hurt a little but no use being mad about things you can't change
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: RoryL on November 28, 2018, 08:33:07 AM
Kudos on facing down your anxiety & taking this step! It's taken me a while to pass that particular milestone but am slowly getting more comfortable using public ladies' rooms. Plus, doesn't it feel SO GOOD when strangers gender you correctly? Shop clerks are becoming my favorite people these days, lol
SOOO with you on the dislike of wigs, much preferring a cute hat with my own hair sticking out from underneath. Though you may hate the wig, you do look great wearing it in your profile pic!
Thanks for the kudos!
Yes, the wig looks ok, but it is plastic hair and very hot. It has very fine individual stands and they always make their way into my mouth!
Hats would be to warm down here, unless the hat has good ventilation and is as white as possible.
Quote from: Dietlind on November 28, 2018, 12:12:43 PM
Thanks for the kudos!
Yes, the wig looks ok, but it is plastic hair and very hot. It has very fine individual stands and they always make their way into my mouth!
Hats would be to warm down here, unless the hat has good ventilation and is as white as possible.
Have you tried one of the natural hair wigs
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 28, 2018, 12:13:50 PM
Have you tried one of the natural hair wigs
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
I am to cheap to invest that much money! I do not have had any hair loss problems (no receding hairline or bald spots), I just had it cut way to short at the beginning of the year, and now have to allow it to grow out. It is almost long enough to make it into a female looking short hair do.
Quote from: Dietlind on November 28, 2018, 12:21:57 PM
I am to cheap to invest that much money! I do not have had any hair loss problems (no receding hairline or bald spots), I just had it cut way to short at the beginning of the year, and now have to allow it to grow out. It is almost long enough to make it into a female looking short hair do.
I completely understand that I growing my hair out from practically being bald but I'll see if I can find you old picture of me and here's one of now as well I think it took me a total of almost a year I think maybe a little bit less to get the link that it is now biotin actually helps a lot(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181128/2d2550b15eb6bbf752638f9027467a34.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181128/9dea967788ad7dd2a28eacbe8086f4e2.jpg)
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 28, 2018, 12:36:05 PM
I completely understand that I growing my hair out from practically being bald but I'll see if I can find you old picture of me and here's one of now as well I think it took me a total of almost a year I think maybe a little bit less to get the link that it is now biotin actually helps a lot(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181128/2d2550b15eb6bbf752638f9027467a34.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181128/9dea967788ad7dd2a28eacbe8086f4e2.jpg)
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
I am about half in between your pics. Once it is like your current, I feel that this is enough for a pretty OK female hair do. That might be enough to pass me all the time, because my face has that typical intersex feminin shape.
But your second pic looks pretty female to me, too!
Quote from: Dietlind on November 28, 2018, 01:46:52 PM
I am about half in between your pics. Once it is like your current, I feel that this is enough for a pretty OK female hair do. That might be enough to pass me all the time, because my face has that typical intersex feminin shape.
But your second pic looks pretty female to me, too!
Thank you so very much I do want to grow my hair longer though I'm thinking to the middle of my back
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 28, 2018, 02:07:49 PM
Thank you so very much I do want to grow my hair longer though I'm thinking to the middle of my back
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
That would be pretty long and would make a lot of work to keep nice looking!
I want mine to be eventually shoulder length.
My hair is currently a few inches past my shoulders. It's a lot of work. Cleaning, conditioner, keeps the knots out, avoid split ends.
When traveling in a car with the windows or roof down you will need something to keep your hair from flying all over. That said I like my hair and wouldn't want to cut it. The longer the hair the fancier the hair styles that can be picked from.
I don't know about much longer hair though. I could see it being nice in braids.
Oh and it's very erotic to have a guy play with the hair when having intercourse.
Quote from: NatalieRene on November 28, 2018, 03:47:19 PM
My hair is currently a few inches past my shoulders. It's a lot of work. Cleaning, conditioner, keeps the knots out, avoid split ends.
When traveling in a car with the windows or roof down you will need something to keep your hair from flying all over. That said I like my hair and wouldn't want to cut it. The longer the hair the fancier the hair styles that can be picked from.
I don't know about much longer hair though. I could see it being nice in braids.
Oh and it's very erotic to have a guy play with the hair when having intercourse.
I do like my hair bands and such but with the link that my hair is right now it's really tough to find some that stay right I can't use hair ties because it's too short LOL
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on November 28, 2018, 03:48:43 PM
I do like my hair bands and such but with the link that my hair is right now it's really tough to find some that stay right I can't use hair ties because it's too short LOL
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
@Arianna Valentine You will have lots of fun with your hair as it continues to grow out.
Enjoy the moments as you experiment with various hair styles.
For shorter hair there are plenty of feminine appearing hair styles available...
.... perhaps a future visit to a hair salon will assist you in determining what will work for you.
Best wishes to you....
Danielle
I got my lab results after being on hormones for 7 months. My T is at 27 (cut in half from last time), and my E is up to 273. I'm really content, now that my levels are fairly nominal. ^_^
Hi everyone!
I have not changed my legal name yet, as that is something that awaits to be done further down my mtf journey.
However, today I was completing some important paperwork, and although it was not a contract, I signed to attest that all the information was accurate. I was there as me, the woman I am.
I signed it with my new name. That is the first time I have ever signed anything with my new name. I looked at my signature and said wow! That was so affirming to me.
Hugs,
Chrissy
Did you practice it a whole bunch before hand? I sure did. Congrats!
I have wanted to get another set of piercings in my ears. After consulting with my 7 year old daughter, I got a helix piercing in each ear!
The sound of the cartilage being pierced was so much worse than the pain!
I may be in the minority, as earrings are not gender exclusive, but the make me feel so pretty, and I love the many options of jewelry! This kind of piercing takes about 6 months to heal.
I will post a picture once the swelling goes done and they dont look fresh!
Turns out the place I went to is owned by a lesbian couple. They had a bunch of LGBTQ support art and info all around the shop.
Lacy
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on November 28, 2018, 06:15:37 PM
Did you practice it a whole bunch before hand? I sure did. Congrats!
Colleen,
Thank you.
I did not practice. But it turned out just fine. :)
No, I did not write in a little heart to dot an "i". :)
Chrissy
It was my birthday yesterday, I received a card of my parents that read "Some things bring joy for a moment... having you for a daughter brings joy for life".
I'm cried of course
Nicole
Quote from: Nicole70 on November 28, 2018, 08:18:48 PM
It was my birthday yesterday, I received a card of my parents that read "Some things bring joy for a moment... having you for a daughter brings joy for life".
I'm cried of course
Nicole
That's awesome Nicole!
Quote from: Nicole70 on November 28, 2018, 08:18:48 PM
It was my birthday yesterday, I received a card of my parents that read "Some things bring joy for a moment... having you for a daughter brings joy for life".
I'm cried of course
Nicole
I'm happy to hear that Nicole! Talk about a boost to the soul!
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on November 28, 2018, 05:53:44 PM
Hi everyone!
I have not changed my legal name yet, as that is something that awaits to be done further down my mtf journey.
However, today I was completing some important paperwork, and although it was not a contract, I signed to attest that all the information was accurate. I was there as me, the woman I am.
I signed it with my new name. That is the first time I have ever signed anything with my new name. I looked at my signature and said wow! That was so affirming to me.
Hugs,
Chrissy
Wow, I had not the guts to do that yet. But most of the people in the US don't know anyway whether my name is male or female, and my chosen name is very close in looks and spelling to my dead name.
currently, I sign with my very sloppy written dead name (Dietmar), planning to slowly move over to Dietlind
Quote from: Nicole70 on November 28, 2018, 08:18:48 PM
It was my birthday yesterday, I received a card of my parents that read "Some things bring joy for a moment... having you for a daughter brings joy for life".
I'm cried of course
Nicole
Congratulations for your birthday, and for having great parents!
Quote from: Nicole70 on November 28, 2018, 08:18:48 PM
It was my birthday yesterday, I received a card of my parents that read "Some things bring joy for a moment... having you for a daughter brings joy for life".
I'm cried of course
Nicole
Nicole,
Awww, that was so sweet. :) I am happy for you and your parents!
Chrissy
Quote from: Nicole70 on November 28, 2018, 08:18:48 PM
It was my birthday yesterday, I received a card of my parents that read "Some things bring joy for a moment... having you for a daughter brings joy for life".
I'm cried of course
Nicole
Aww, that's lovely! Belated happy birthday.
Thank you all for your birthday wishes, yes I have lovely parents xx
Quote from: Nicole70 on November 28, 2018, 08:18:48 PM
It was my birthday yesterday, I received a card of my parents that read "Some things bring joy for a moment... having you for a daughter brings joy for life".
I'm cried of course
Nicole
@Nicole70 Dear Nicole:Gee whiz... I am crying now reading this extremely wonderful and delightful report from you.
Thank you for sharing this bit of your personal life with all of your friends and followers here.
Wishing you a very
H A P P Y B I R T H D A Y :icon_birthday:
Hugs and more hugs, and as always I am wishing you well.
Danielle
I love that card <3 congratulations!
Today I took my first step into the correct bathroom in a restaurant - sounds small after legal name changes, national publicity, facial surgery but it was incredible.
I'm me and there's no going back :)
Sophie I am so glad to read this!! Really happy for you.
Quote from: sophie1904 on November 29, 2018, 04:07:37 PM
I love that card <3 congratulations!
Today I took my first step into the correct bathroom in a restaurant - sounds small after legal name changes, national publicity, facial surgery but it was incredible.
I'm me and there's no going back :)
I did this two days ago. It was like entering a different world!
Congratulations that you now arrived in this new world!
I went to Walmart and decided to buy a deluxe Foot Spa for $40 massage Jets bubbles heat you know the good stuff and it turns out it rang up for $3 and they gave it to me for that price because that's what it rang up LOL oh I also got a couple of cute shirts for breast cancer awareness for $3 each as well(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181130/1ed60dd9663ce1a263a26faa81497a56.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181130/deebb33f1b2a4c90b97a747e0886b431.jpg)
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
I finally got in the mood to shop again, after purposefully avoiding that crazy sales week! :)
So I went out to see what I could find.
As it turned out, I spent a lot of time in various women's sections. I found a nice coat and shoes that I liked, but both turned out to be the wrong size or color.
I must have looked for an hour and a half altogether, seeing what I liked and what I did not like. I wanted a true additional discount too, not just a sale price that you could get about every few months or so throughout the year. I spent the most time in the women's tops area.
By the way, it seems like a fair number of stores are putting less and less walking room between the clothes displays, have you noticed that too?
I ended up buying a wonderful blouse at an excellent price.
As it turns out, it is the nicest blouse I have ever owned. It just seems to fit so well and this was a very good purchase. So when I wore it out today I felt wonderful, and that made my day!
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on November 30, 2018, 04:21:54 PM
I finally got in the mood to shop again, after purposefully avoiding that crazy sales week! :)
So I went out to see what I could find.
As it turned out, I spent a lot of time in various women's sections. I found a nice coat and shoes that I liked, but both turned out to be the wrong size or color.
I must have looked for an hour and a half altogether, seeing what I liked and what I did not like. I wanted a true additional discount too, not just a sale price that you could get about every few months or so throughout the year. I spent the most time in the women's tops area.
By the way, it seems like a fair number of stores are putting less and less walking room between the clothes displays, have you noticed that too?
I ended up buying a wonderful blouse at an excellent price.
As it turns out, it is the nicest blouse I have ever owned. It just seems to fit so well and this was a very good purchase. So when I wore it out today I felt wonderful, and that made my day!
Chrissy
Yes they do put less and less room it seems like they're trying to cram everything in the store at once instead of changing it out with the seasons they're just getting lazy
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Friends reaching out
@Arianna Valentine (http://@arianna%20valentine)
I so want one of those foot spa's Arianna. I need to fill it with Gold Bond foot care or something. Especially after kicking off the pumps.
My wife asked me this evening to send her some ideas of women clothes to get me for Christmas! She was already looking and need to know sizes!
This is a huge step for her!
Lacy
Quote from: RealLacy on December 01, 2018, 11:04:11 PM
My wife asked me this evening to send her some ideas of women clothes to get me for Christmas! She was already looking and need to know sizes!
This is a huge step for her!
Lacy
That is awesome news congrats
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Nicole70 on November 28, 2018, 08:18:48 PM
It was my birthday yesterday, I received a card of my parents that read "Some things bring joy for a moment... having you for a daughter brings joy for life".
I'm cried of course
Nicole
Hi Nicole, 02 December 2018
Just saw and read your post,
it made my eyes watery too; what a wonderful message from wonderful parents. Albeit belated,
Happy Birthday Nicole, and hope you have many more.
Best Always, Love
Chris
Was at a sing along Christmas Concert today (the second time in my life wearing a skirt!!!). And the lady next to me told me: you have a wonderful mezzo soprano voice!
At least with singing I am there, because I used my natural voice and did not even try to go into base the way I always did!
If I just could keep from dropping into the male speech pattern during talking, nobody would know from my voice that I am not a cis female!
Today, I witnessed a young trans person come out to a group of 15 colleagues. I wasn't totally surprised, since a mutual friend had asked if I would be willing to help her, but she opted to do it without help. What a treat to see such courage on display!
Quote from: KathyLauren on December 02, 2018, 07:00:19 PM
Today, I witnessed a young trans person come out to a group of 15 colleagues. I wasn't totally surprised, since a mutual friend had asked if I would be willing to help her, but she opted to do it without help. What a treat to see such courage on display!
That is truly a wonderful thing to see I would have loved to have been part of that and see something like that
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
So what made me happy today is I started lactating
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
I saw my gf yesterday and I cried because I was so happy to see her. Then, before we ate our food, I hugged her for two minutes straight because I missed her so much. It was so good. UwU
I was made happy TWICE today! My nephew came out as Trans, and my brother accepted her with open arms. Now we have a lot to share! Then, today is my appointment to touch-up my permanent eyebrow makeup. Such things always make me happy.
Quote from: Roberta W on December 03, 2018, 08:29:38 AM
I was made happy TWICE today! My nephew came out as Trans, and my brother accepted her with open arms. Now we have a lot to share! Then, today is my appointment to touch-up my permanent eyebrow makeup. Such things always make me happy.
It is nice with your nephew, because now you can mentor her a little!
I am also interested in that eyebrow thing. My eyebrows are very blond and hardly visible, and I am not got with the marking pens. What had you done to them? And what did it cost?
I had my eyebrows dyed recently, but that grows out again. They told me they would not recommend tattooing because of the fading, but there is something else available, which keeps them natural looking (I forgot the name).
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Quote from: Dietlind on December 03, 2018, 10:20:18 AM
It is nice with your nephew, because now you can mentor him a little!
I am also interested in that eyebrow thing. My eyebrows are very blond and hardly visible, and I am not got with the marking pens. What had you done to them? And what did it cost?
I had my eyebrows dyed recently, but that grows out again. They told me they would not recommend tattooing because of the fading, but there is something else available, which keeps them natural looking (I forgot the name).
Hi Dietlind ... Yes! I plan to keep in close touch with my nephew ... Now niece! I am hoping she will learn from my experiences ...
Yes, I agree with you ... eyebrow marking pencils are difficult to deal with, and then when you finally do a good job, it doesn't last! So I checked into the alternatives and found two options: "Microblading" and "Permanent Makeup". I tried microblading first (you can google that) ... But I was disappointed in that just a few months later it vitually faded away. So the next time I went for "Permanent Makeup". Both involve numbing the eyebrows with a cream and then tattoing the eyebrow pattern you want with a color that matches your natural complexion ... But certainly you can choose a color that is more visible than the blonde you have now. In addition, the eyebrows are shaped to a more feminine curve. It's true that this form of tattooing is not as permanent as a tattoo elsewhere on the body, because the skin is thinner there ... But permanent makeup is good for about a year, then it tends to fade a little. But then you can go in for an hour and have it touched-up for another year. It's still way better than "eybrow pencils".
Incidentally, I also had permanent eyeliner (black) and eye-shadow (blue) done, and that apparently is truly permanent and doesn't need to be touched up. While I was in the neighborhood, I also went for permanent lip liner & lip color. The color is just a little "redder" than my natural lips, so I can still put on lipstick when I want something darker.
Where did I have it done? The microblading was done at my hair salon, but I went to a "medi-spa" for the other things. I'd recommend that, because a "medi-spa" typically has an MD on site and because of that they can use the appropriate numbing agents to make the procedure(s) less painful. I'm not sure where you live, but in my case ... Just so you can see the kind of place I'm talking about, I go to "Renew Medispa"... https://www.renewmedispa.com/
Hopefully I answered your question .... Roberta
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 02, 2018, 11:18:21 PM
So what made me happy today is I started lactating
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
I'm desperate to do the same! Please elaborate.
Stumbled upon this website:
https://turn-me-into-a-girl.com/ (https://turn-me-into-a-girl.com/)
Really cute, made me smile. Seems like a nice site for people who are questioning.
So I went and got my hair trimmed and the girl who does my hair told me I should look at hair straighteners and I needed a new blow-dryer anyways and so I went to Sally's Beauty Supply and didn't know it but they were having a 40% off everything sale today so super lucky Karma so loves me lately I only paid $60 for the whole straightening kit and the hair dryer(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181203/c24ebbb14389ab10a8a100524d80d4d5.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181203/bc59d5a1a021cba285e9bc4e0494fef1.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181203/6b4b7ec82a68bd99091f467043e8e0a2.jpg)
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 03, 2018, 05:56:24 PM
So I went and got my hair trimmed and the girl who does my hair told me I should look at hair straighteners and I needed a new blow-dryer anyways and so I went to Sally's Beauty Supply and didn't know it but they were having a 40% off everything sale today so super lucky Karma so loves me lately I only paid $60 for the whole straightening kit and the hair dryer(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181203/c24ebbb14389ab10a8a100524d80d4d5.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181203/bc59d5a1a021cba285e9bc4e0494fef1.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181203/6b4b7ec82a68bd99091f467043e8e0a2.jpg)
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
They new trim looks very nice!
I was expecting an after straightening picture! But then there was none...
Quote from: RealLacy on December 03, 2018, 05:59:59 PM
They new trim looks very nice!
I was expecting an after straightening picture! But then there was none...
I just got home with the straightener and I haven't eaten all day so after I eat then I will use the straightener and you will definitely get pictures posted on here
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 03, 2018, 06:00:35 PM
I just got home with the straightener and I haven't eaten all day so after I eat then I will use the straightener and you will definitely get pictures posted on here
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Yay! Enjoy your food!
Quote from: Roberta W on December 03, 2018, 03:01:24 PM
"Microblading" and "Permanent Makeup". I tried microblading first (you can google that) ... But I was disappointed in that just a few months later it vitually faded away. So the next time I went for "Permanent Makeup". Both involve numbing the eyebrows with a cream and then tattoing the eyebrow pattern you want with a color that matches your natural complexion ... But certainly you can choose a color that is more visible than the blonde you have now. In addition, the eyebrows are shaped to a more feminine curve. It's true that this form of tattooing is not as permanent as a tattoo elsewhere on the body, because the skin is thinner there ... But permanent makeup is good for about a year, then it tends to fade a little. But then you can go in for an hour and have it touched-up for another year. It's still way better than "eybrow pencils".
Microblding was what they recommended over tattooing. The cosmetic lady, who told me about it, had her eyebrows tattooed and she said she wished she had not done it! Now I have to think it over!
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Incidentally, I also had permanent eyeliner (black) and eye-shadow (blue) done, and that apparently is truly permanent and doesn't need to be touched up. While I was in the neighborhood, I also went for permanent lip liner & lip color. The color is just a little "redder" than my natural lips, so I can still put on lipstick when I want something darker.
That sounds painfull, do they do real tattooing on the eye lids? The skin is so thin there, I would be concerned that they do my eyeball in addition!
Can they make the lips looking a little larger with this process? I have the typical Nordic narrow lips that look like a thin line when pressed together!
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Where did I have it done? The microblading was done at my hair salon, but I went to a "medi-spa" for the other things. I'd recommend that, because a "medi-spa" typically has an MD on site and because of that they can use the appropriate numbing agents to make the procedure(s) less painful. I'm not sure where you live, but in my case ... Just so you can see the kind of place I'm talking about, I go to "Renew Medispa"... https://www.renewmedispa.com/
Hopefully I answered your question .... Roberta
My outfit has an MD on site twice a week for doing botox, etc. I have to check with them if the do the the stuff, too.
I did not even know that those things could be done!
Thank you very much for the info!
Have a wonderful evening!
Linde
Quote from: RealLacy on December 03, 2018, 06:04:25 PM
Yay! Enjoy your food!
Alright so I think before I go straightening my hair because I've never done it before I am going to wait for my friend so her and I can Skype and she can teach me step by step and I don't burn all my hair off LOL
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 03, 2018, 06:34:45 PM
Alright so I think before I go straightening my hair because I've never done it before I am going to wait for my friend so her and I can Skype and she can teach me step by step and I don't burn all my hair off LOL
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
I like the wavy hair you have, why would you want to make it look boring? My hair is so straight, it would straighten out the straighteners! I always wished I had wavy hair!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 03, 2018, 06:48:43 PM
I like the wavy hair you have, why would you want to make it look boring? My hair is so straight, it would straighten out the straighteners! I always wished I had wavy hair!
I'm using the straightener to try to keep the frizz down I hate how frizzy my hair is
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 03, 2018, 06:57:40 PM
I'm using the straightener to try to keep the frizz down I hate how frizzy my hair is
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Have you read about the curly girl method? I am currently using it, and my hair stays less frizzy and the curls are nicer and manageable.
Lacy
Quote from: RealLacy on December 03, 2018, 07:17:39 PM
Have you read about the curly girl method? I am currently using it, and my hair stays less frizzy and the curls are nicer and manageable.
Lacy
I have never heard about that please enlighten me you can private message me so we don't hi jacked up the red if you want or if it's okay
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 03, 2018, 07:18:37 PM
I have never heard about that please enlighten me you can private message me so we don't hi jacked up the red if you want or if it's okay
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I will send you a message!
Well this may sound silly but I tried on this nice dark pink T-shirt (wearing no bra) and it really seemed to snuggle my little round breasts and I felt good about noticing them. Of course I bought the T.
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on December 03, 2018, 07:27:34 PM
Well this may sound silly but I tried on this nice dark pink T-shirt (wearing no bra) and it really seemed to snuggle my little round breasts and I felt good about noticing them. Of course I bought the T.
Chrissy
That is awesome it's always good when you can find a favorite shirt or any favorite piece of clothing I love it when I find a favorite pair of pants that hugs my butt just right LOL
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on December 03, 2018, 07:27:34 PM
Well this may sound silly but I tried on this nice dark pink T-shirt (wearing no bra) and it really seemed to snuggle my little round breasts and I felt good about noticing them. Of course I bought the T.
Chrissy
There is nothing wrong with liking your breasts, I like mine a lot, too. I just wish they would grow a little faster!
I have never gotten into wearing T-shirts, not as male and not as female. Thus, i would not be able to understand what you mean with snuggling!
Quote from: RealLacy on December 03, 2018, 07:19:05 PM
I will send you a message!
Changing plans I had to try the straightener out I love it but I want to try all the curly method I want to do both LOL
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So the one that's more lit up is before hair straightening and the other one is after the one where you can see my black and pink shirt are after straightening(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181204/474c80abdaf9aaaaffbdc8571c86d971.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181204/0c8318200f4485a844694cbda44cf49e.jpg)
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 03, 2018, 08:59:22 PM
So the one that's more lit up is before hair straightening and the other one is after the one where you can see my black and pink shirt are after straightening(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181204/474c80abdaf9aaaaffbdc8571c86d971.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181204/0c8318200f4485a844694cbda44cf49e.jpg)
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Very cute! I like it.
Lacy
Quote from: RealLacy on December 03, 2018, 09:05:30 PM
Very cute! I like it.
Lacy
Thank you very much and I didn't even have my friend on the show me thank goodness for YouTube LOL
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Saw my gender therapist for an hour today and made an appointment for another visit in 2 weeks time.
Quote from: dee82 on December 03, 2018, 09:10:22 PM
Saw my gender therapist for an hour today and made an appointment for another visit in 2 weeks time.
Congratulations I think time with my therapist is probably the best time that I have every other week I only see her twice a month or so but I always have a great time when I'm with her because she is an amazing personality and I love that her personality rubs off on me even a little bit and I like to think makes me a little bit better of a person
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Another thing that made me happy today I found all of my lipsticks it is amazing how many lipsticks one can accumulate without even knowing a picture says a thousand words so I thought I would add and the rest of my makeup for this little get-together of all my stuff LOL
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 03, 2018, 09:12:37 PM
Congratulations I think time with my therapist is probably the best time that I have every other week I only see her twice a month or so but I always have a great time when I'm with her because she is an amazing personality and I love that her personality rubs off on me even a little bit and I like to think makes me a little bit better of a person
Thanks
Arianna. I made a little conceptual breakthrough today. It is okay to go even if you don't have "problems" to fix everytime.
~Dee.
Nice lippy collection.
Quote from: dee82 on December 03, 2018, 09:39:19 PM
Thanks Arianna. I made a little conceptual breakthrough today. It is okay to go even if you don't have "problems" to fix everytime.
~Dee.
Nice lippy collection.
Thank you very much didn't know I had that many lipsticks pretty happy about it anyways but yeah most of the time I go to my therapist I don't have anything to talk about and it's good to just talk with somebody like they're your friend
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 03, 2018, 08:59:22 PM
So the one that's more lit up is before hair straightening and the other one is after the one where you can see my black and pink shirt are after straightening(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181204/474c80abdaf9aaaaffbdc8571c86d971.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181204/0c8318200f4485a844694cbda44cf49e.jpg)
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To be honest, i like the curly, old do better. It looks way more natural. The straightened out looks close to what my hair looks like, boooooring!
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 03, 2018, 09:30:38 PM
Another thing that made me happy today I found all of my lipsticks it is amazing how many lipsticks one can accumulate without even knowing a picture says a thousand words so I thought I would add and the rest of my makeup for this little get-together of all my stuff LOL
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
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I would not even know what to do with most of this!
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 03, 2018, 09:40:24 PM
yeah most of the time I go to my therapist I don't have anything to talk about and it's good to just talk with somebody like they're your friend
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
I never have anything to really talk about, we just chit chat, most of the time in German, because she lived for many years in Austria. I am already so long in this transitioning (like the last 15 or so years) that I don't really need her help anymore, unless I need some kind of letter written!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 03, 2018, 10:19:14 PM
I would not even know what to do with most of this!
I promise I'm not trying to be a clown from The Circus LOL with all that makeup and thank you very much for the compliments on my hair I know you like the wavy curly I like the wavy I didn't like the frizzy so I think the next thing I invest in is a curling iron or maybe one of those Hot Irons that make waves in your hair who would bet that be neat
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 03, 2018, 06:57:40 PM
I'm using the straightener to try to keep the frizz down I hate how frizzy my hair is
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Hijack hell. This thread has gone hither and fro, if it's back on track in 5 who cares. Besides you have nothing to worry about. If I were to grow my patchy mess out, you'd think I planned to audition for bozo the clown's replacement. :D
As far as happy today. Well coworkers are starting to notice I'm in a better mood over all.
Quote from: Jaime320 on December 03, 2018, 10:50:40 PM
Hijack hell. This thread has gone hither and fro, if it's back on track in 5 who cares. Besides you have nothing to worry about. If I were to grow my patchy mess out, you'd think I planned to audition for bozo the clown's replacement. :D
As far as happy today. Well coworkers are starting to notice I'm in a better mood over all.
A better mood is good all-around
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It's been a busy week or so. A good friend visited from Egypt, and we did a bit of make-up shopping. I bought some awesome wedge boots, and a new bra and some lingerie. I hooked up with a friend.
Back in May, I moved out of my girlfriend and her parents' house out of a concern for my safety. It's been tough since then, trying to manage the relationship when her parents have been so awful to us both. Well, she's finally hit her breaking point and left, and our friend floated us a loan to cover moving costs! Also really helpful, the people she's staying with at the moment know I'm transitioning, but when I went over to visit the first time, they nearly didn't believe her! I got a bunch of compliments on how I looked, which certainly made me feel accepted.
Quote from: AoifeB on December 04, 2018, 01:13:37 AM
It's been a busy week or so. A good friend visited from Egypt, and we did a bit of make-up shopping. I bought some awesome wedge boots, and a new bra and some lingerie. I hooked up with a friend.
Back in May, I moved out of my girlfriend and her parents' house out of a concern for my safety. It's been tough since then, trying to manage the relationship when her parents have been so awful to us both. Well, she's finally hit her breaking point and left, and our friend floated us a loan to cover moving costs! Also really helpful, the people she's staying with at the moment know I'm transitioning, but when I went over to visit the first time, they nearly didn't believe her! I got a bunch of compliments on how I looked, which certainly made me feel accepted.
It is so good that you found someone loves you so much that they're willing to leave their parents rather than leaving you that says a lot about her also it's good that you and her are getting great and that her new roommates love you it sounds like
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 03, 2018, 08:59:22 PM
So the one that's more lit up is before hair straightening and the other one is after the one where you can see my black and pink shirt are after straightening
Nice job with straightening!
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on December 04, 2018, 04:38:26 AM
Nice job with straightening!
Chrissy
Thanks that whole sectioning off part is hard LOL
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 04, 2018, 04:40:29 AM
Thanks that whole sectioning off part is hard LOL
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Was it hard to determine where you sectioned?
Did you use more than one mirror? Did you get help?
There are chemical straighteners also, but research those carefully and consider having a pro do it. You may not want to use a formaldehyde based straightener as those can be harsh on the hair.
The advantage of the chemical straightening is that it lasts a long time. The major disadvantages would be you are allergic to the chemicals, hair can get damaged, and the cost to pay someone to do it.
But you can try the do it yourself (DIY) types for about $15 and up. I think there is one called something like Keep it Straight. Those DIY kits will not keep your hair straight for as long as when the pros do it unless you buy pro kits.
I also like to use the Simply Straight brush as you can straighten hair while it is wet and without sectioning, if you so desire. It goes on sale a lot, its list price is about $35-40. It is good for quick straightening. We can get busy at times!
Bring a woman takes a lot of work some times, doesn't it?
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on December 04, 2018, 05:00:07 AM
Was it hard to determine where you sectioned?
Did you use more than one mirror? Did you get help?
There are chemical straighteners also, but research those carefully and consider having a pro do it. You may not want to use a formaldehyde based straightener as those can be harsh on the hair.
The advantage of the chemical straightening is that it lasts a long time. The major disadvantages would be you are allergic to the chemicals, hair can get damaged, and the cost to pay someone to do it.
But you can try the do it yourself (DIY) types for about $15 and up. I think there is one called something like Keep it Straight. Those DIY kits will not keep your hair straight for as long as when the pros do it unless you buy pro kits.
I also like to use the Simply Straight brush as you can straighten hair while it is wet and without sectioning, if you so desire. It goes on sale a lot, its list price is about $35-40. It is good for quick straightening. We can get busy at times!
Bring a woman takes a lot of work some times, doesn't it?
Chrissy
Sectioning off was probably the toughest part I only have one mirror and my friend was going to help me over Skype but she wasn't feeling good today and I just kind of went for it and sat in front of my vanity and did it and turned out good I'm trying to stay away from chemicals that straighten your hair though I should wear chemicals to prevent it from burning bad or anything but I want to stay away from chemical straighteners if possible...
And yes being a woman is so much harder than being a man being a man you get up run your fingers through your hair and you're off on your day LOL it ain't nothing like that being a woman we've got products to help the products to help straightening and style
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 03, 2018, 08:59:22 PM
So the one that's more lit up is before hair straightening and the other one is after the one where you can see my black and pink shirt are after straightening(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181204/474c80abdaf9aaaaffbdc8571c86d971.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181204/0c8318200f4485a844694cbda44cf49e.jpg)
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I know you did not ask for a vote, but my vote is for straight.
It is a bit longer, looks more feminine to me, and again in my opinion, looks much cuter straight.
Kate
OK girls. Here is the deal, you get my straight air (any given ruler is curvy compared to my hair), and I gt some of your wavy stuff! I always wanted to have wavy hair, and here I had to live with this ugly straight stuff, and still have to live with it! I use those round brushes and the hair dryer to get some waves into my hair!
Quote from: KatieP on December 04, 2018, 11:06:49 AM
I know you did not ask for a vote, but my vote is for straight.
It is a bit longer, looks more feminine to me, and again in my opinion, looks much cuter straight.
Kate
Sweetie I'm the kind of girl that appreciates everybody's input because it takes a lot to make some us look beautiful sometimes so some of us can use all the help we can get
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Quote from: Dietlind on December 04, 2018, 11:08:53 AM
OK girls. Here is the deal, you get my straight air (any given ruler is curvy compared to my hair), and I gt some of your wavy stuff! I always wanted to have wavy hair, and here I had to live with this ugly straight stuff, and still have to live with it! I use those round brushes and the hair dryer to get some waves into my hair!
Sweetie I completely understand that me I have the problem that my hair has always been wavy and curly and I've always wanted it straight because straight I felt on me look more feminine
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 04, 2018, 12:04:03 PM
Sweetie I completely understand that me I have the problem that my hair has always been wavy and curly and I've always wanted it straight because straight I felt on me look more feminine
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Don't we all want what we don't have! here I dream of wavy hair, and you dream of straight hair!
Modern technology enables us to change our hair into the hair of our dreams!
Have a wonderful straight hair day!
Linde
Quote from: Dietlind on December 04, 2018, 01:36:42 PM
Don't we all want what we don't have! here I dream of wavy hair, and you dream of straight hair!
Modern technology enables us to change our hair into the hair of our dreams!
Have a wonderful straight hair day!
Linde
Yes it is truly amazing and time consuming straightening last night I think took me an hour
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Another day Sounding like a yeti due to sinus drainage. Yet I feel wonderful, yeah HRT.
Oh yeah another small thing happened this morning. My shirt tail was cut off by my CFI. Woohoo I flew by myself. 3 good landings. Hey I walked away and the plane was 100% for next flight. Two landings I had to recover slightly. Not having 230# in seat next to you definitely makes a difference. I carried more energy than expected and had to bleed it. Sat there in ground effect. Didn't think it was coming down with 17:1 glide ratio. Got on brakes a little and made first turn off.
Quote from: Jaime320 on December 04, 2018, 04:09:02 PM
Another day Sounding like a yeti due to sinus drainage. Yet I feel wonderful, yeah HRT.
Oh yeah another small thing happened this morning. My shirt tail was cut off by my CFI. Woohoo I flew by myself. 3 good landings. Hey I walked away and the plane was 100% for next flight. Two landings I had to recover slightly. Not having 230# in seat next to you definitely makes a difference. I carried more energy than expected and had to bleed it. Sat there in ground effect. Didn't think it was coming down with 17:1 glide ratio. Got on brakes a little and made first turn off.
Going solo does feel good doesnt it? I still remember how good it felt in 1985 in a Cessna 152.
Sounds like you nailed the flare and touch down - as they say- any landing you walk away from is a good one!
Kind regards, Kirsten.
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Quote from: Jaime320 on December 04, 2018, 04:09:02 PM
Another day Sounding like a yeti due to sinus drainage. Yet I feel wonderful, yeah HRT.
Oh yeah another small thing happened this morning. My shirt tail was cut off by my CFI. Woohoo I flew by myself. 3 good landings. Hey I walked away and the plane was 100% for next flight. Two landings I had to recover slightly. Not having 230# in seat next to you definitely makes a difference. I carried more energy than expected and had to bleed it. Sat there in ground effect. Didn't think it was coming down with 17:1 glide ratio. Got on brakes a little and made first turn off.
Congratulations!!!
And, now that you are an official aviator, you should check out the Aviation thread: https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,239966.0.html
;D
Kate
Very simple very easy shopping new outfit pictures coming soon
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Come on Christmas sales. Momma needs a wardrobe.
I bought my first ladies pants. I think that they are super cute!
https://www.kohls.com/product/prd-2982007/juniors-wallflower-luscious-curvy-bootcut-jeans.jsp?skuid=73143105&ci_mcc=ci&utm_campaign=DENIM%20LONGS&utm_medium=CSE&utm_source=google&utm_product=73143105&CID=shopping15&utm_campaignid=196834532&pid=googleadwords_int&af_channel=CSE&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIs63uzp6H3wIVhUoNCh1irAlDEAQYASABEgIJQfD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds
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Come on Christmas sales. Momma needs a wardrobe.
I bought my first ladies pants. I think that they are super cute!
https://www.kohls.com/product/prd-2982007/juniors-wallflower-luscious-curvy-bootcut-jeans.jsp?skuid=73143105&ci_mcc=ci&utm_campaign=DENIM%20LONGS&utm_medium=CSE&utm_source=google&utm_product=73143105&CID=shopping15&utm_campaignid=196834532&pid=googleadwords_int&af_channel=CSE&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIs63uzp6H3wIVhUoNCh1irAlDEAQYASABEgIJQfD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds
Those are very cute I do love Kohl's
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Being told how good and well I looked at Xmas dinner by folks not seen in ages and they loved my dress, some of the lads I have known for 40years did a double take!!
Knowing despite my current discomfort that the evil between my legs is gone [emoji51][emoji51][emoji3][emoji3][emoji2][emoji2][emoji847][emoji847]
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Quote from: GingerVicki on December 04, 2018, 04:45:47 PM
Come on Christmas sales. Momma needs a wardrobe.
I bought my first ladies pants. I think that they are super cute!
https://www.kohls.com/product/prd-2982007/juniors-wallflower-luscious-curvy-bootcut-jeans.jsp?skuid=73143105&ci_mcc=ci&utm_campaign=DENIM%20LONGS&utm_medium=CSE&utm_source=google&utm_product=73143105&CID=shopping15&utm_campaignid=196834532&pid=googleadwords_int&af_channel=CSE&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIs63uzp6H3wIVhUoNCh1irAlDEAQYASABEgIJQfD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds
How tiny are you girls? You fit in a size 5???? I need 13 to 14 long!
As promised here is a pictures of some of my new I was trying to find a plaid skirt but had no luck I did find a plain black one though really cute too
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Knowing despite my current discomfort that the evil between my legs is gone [emoji51][emoji51][emoji3][emoji3][emoji2][emoji2][emoji847][emoji847]
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Congrats I wish my evil was gone as well sooner or later it will be I hope
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Quote from: Dietlind on December 04, 2018, 05:18:24 PM
How tiny are you girls? You fit in a size 5???? I need 13 to 14 long!
I wear 8-10 lol or medium
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Getting the news that my dendrologischst surprisingly retired! That guy was the worst physician I ever ran into. he was so full of himself. Prancing round in his white lab coat and having the most expensive Littmann decorative around his neck (a product of my employer), and did not even listen what I had to say! At least he prescribed estrogen for me without the recommendation letter of my therapist! Oh well!
I will see his replacement on Monday, and have the recommendation letter with me this time.
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 04, 2018, 05:20:59 PM
I wear 8-10 lol or medium
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You girls are as thin as a stick! I thought I was slim, but you girls are tiny!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 04, 2018, 05:33:15 PM
You girls are as thin as a stick! I thought I was slim, but you girls are tiny!
lol...I will find out if I am an 11 or 13 short in about a week. :)
Quote from: Jaime320 on December 04, 2018, 04:09:02 PM
Oh yeah another small thing happened this morning. My shirt tail was cut off by my CFI. Woohoo I flew by myself. 3 good landings. Hey I walked away and the plane was 100% for next flight. Two landings I had to recover slightly. Not having 230# in seat next to you definitely makes a difference. I carried more energy than expected and had to bleed it. Sat there in ground effect. Didn't think it was coming down with 17:1 glide ratio. Got on brakes a little and made first turn off.
Congratulations! I remember mine: 5 Aug 1976. It is something you never forget. (OK, I had to check the date in my logbook. :P )
Definitely come over to the aviation thread and tell us all about it.
@KathyLauren @Kirsteneklund7 @KatieP
Thanks Girls. You know how it goes. One of the greatest moments. I'll do a debrief over in aviation thread.
Quote from: LizK on December 04, 2018, 05:18:00 PM
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Holy Cow, Liz! GCS YESTERDAY, and posting here today?
When I first read, "discomfort" I had lots of thoughts in my head about what that might be. THEN I saw your GCS date. OMG. "Discomfort?" You do have a flair for understatement!
;D
Kate
Foot spa omg so good except it dont heat like it says dying hair at same time lol(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181205/89c74cbab022b221984b97e307fe0b73.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181205/aa99311191c4ab313231e5f5ae7d7a62.jpg)
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So I finished dying my hair I really don't like it it doesn't have enough red for my taste maybe when I see it in the daylight I will feel differently but as of right now I hate it and in case you're wondering why I'm smiling in the picture when you spend 36 years faking a smile it's not very hard to fake another one(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181206/c864940658ff28be1764a8daa5a7dc10.jpg)
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Me oh my how the time flies. Just passed my 3 month mark, yay! Doctor upped my doses on our last visit, so double yay!! And people have been making comments that I just seem much happier lately, and I'm still not out to my friends and family. It's kinda a perpetual thing now.
Such a simple thing as washing and straightening my hair this morning :)
Started wrapping Xmas presents
Quote from: davina61 on December 06, 2018, 08:36:24 AM
Started wrapping Xmas presents
Nice! I swear they move it earlier and earlier every year.
Quote from: Jessicauk on December 06, 2018, 08:21:27 AM
Such a simple thing as washing and straightening my hair this morning :)
Yeah sometimes appreciating daily stuff can help too. :)
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Me oh my how the time flies. Just passed my 3 month mark, yay! Doctor upped my doses on our last visit, so double yay!! And people have been making comments that I just seem much happier lately, and I'm still not out to my friends and family. It's kinda a perpetual thing now.
That's a big milestone I'm glad you are so much happier now!
Had a small growth removed from near my ear/hairline today.
I have wanted it gone for 23 years! but in January I said If I am growing my hair I want it gone so I asked my GP to do it and because it's only cosmetic I had to wait almost a year on the NHS but now it's gone! ;D ;D
So now I don't have to shave up to it and I can have my electrologist give me a more feminine shape to my sideburn area where it meets my hair. ;D ;D ;D
Also, on Tuesday my electrologist really perked me up and said I would be full time this time next year. I said, but! but! but! I'm not ready yet! and she said I've seen it before and you will, so if I am or not it cheered me up! ;D
Oh and also she did the centre of my eyebrows (just plucking and boy was she FAST!). She said she will do them a little bit at a time and gradually give them a more feminine shape, so that made me happy too! ;D ;D
Talked for almost two hours on the phone with my favorite niece in California. She is my best supporter, and she is a Methodist Pastor! Each time I talk with her, my spirits are uplifted all the way into the sky.
I wish all clergy would be like my niece, and acceptance for us "different" people in this world would be like a dream!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 06, 2018, 03:34:43 PM
Talked for almost two hours on the phone with my favorite niece in California. She is my best supporter, and she is a Methodist Pastor! Each time I talk with her, my spirits are uplifted all the way into the sky.
I wish all clergy would be like my niece, and acceptance for us "different" people in this world would be like a dream!
That is great that you have her support my older brother is also a pastor but for Baptist I believe and he is extremely supportive of the LGBT community as well
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Quote from: Dietlind on December 06, 2018, 03:34:43 PM
Talked for almost two hours on the phone with my favorite niece in California. She is my best supporter, and she is a Methodist Pastor! Each time I talk with her, my spirits are uplifted all the way into the sky.
I wish all clergy would be like my niece, and acceptance for us "different" people in this world would be like a dream!
''Tis the one reason amongst all possibilities I consider myself Methodist. Well it's the closest shoe that fits. If I can be enlightened to a more one true spirit so be it.
Some gentlemen held the door open for me at the store and called me darling
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 06, 2018, 11:07:24 PM
Some gentlemen held the door open for me at the store and called me darling
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Congrats! And if you would left that wonderful wavy hair of yours alone, not only some men would have done this, but ALL of them!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 06, 2018, 11:46:23 PM
Congrats! And if you would left that wonderful wavy hair of yours alone, not only some men would have done this, but ALL of them!
Honestly I can say I actually never got called darling when my hair was wavy LOL. Thank you so much you are such a sweetheart
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 07, 2018, 12:06:02 AM
Honestly I can say I actually never got called darling when my hair was wavy LOL. Thank you so much you are such a sweetheart
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You just did not hear them calling you sweetheart. They were so full of wow that they hardly could whisper it!
Did I ever mention that i liked your nice and wavy hair a lot????
Went to dinner with a friend, got "ma'am" and "ladies" from the staff the whole time. Also took a full-body photo and was a bit shocked at the difference. Been feeling a lot better lately.
Quote from: Dietlind on December 07, 2018, 12:39:14 AM
You just did not hear them calling you sweetheart. They were so full of wow that they hardly could whisper it!
Did I ever mention that i liked your nice and wavy hair a lot????
you have sweetie several times lol I will come up with an alternative to where I can keep my wavy curly hair but keep it partly straight to
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Quote from: AoifeB on December 07, 2018, 12:48:42 AM
Went to dinner with a friend, got "ma'am" and "ladies" from the staff the whole time. Also took a full-body photo and was a bit shocked at the difference. Been feeling a lot better lately.
Congratulations on getting ma'am. And ladies all night at your dinner with your friend and I'm noticing the change that you have incurred
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 07, 2018, 12:52:05 AM
you have sweetie several times lol I will come up with an alternative to where I can keep my wavy curly hair but keep it partly straight to
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That-a-girl!
Kind of a minor thing but.. today I took a shower, shaved my arms, and when I went to put on a shirt I happened to touch my arm.
My skin is getting soo soft! I almost cried. I need to feel this all the time.. apparently I need to move up laser on my arms ??? ??? my priority was face, chest, legs.. didn't think arms were really necessary..
Well, I guess the estrogen IS working after all :D
Quote from: Anastasia E on December 07, 2018, 05:25:19 AM
Kind of a minor thing but.. today I took a shower, shaved my arms, and when I went to put on a shirt I happened to touch my arm.
My skin is getting soo soft! I almost cried. I need to feel this all the time.. apparently I need to move up laser on my arms ??? ??? my priority was face, chest, legs.. didn't think arms were really necessary..
Well, I guess the estrogen IS working after all :D
This is interesting! And congratulations on another new female feeling!
I never thought about the fact that many former males would not know how fabric feels on their skin! I never had any hair on my body, and the feeling of fabric on my skin is absolutely normal for me, an will not create any sensation at all.
VERY minor thing but was desperate and went through the McDonalds drive-thru last night (in male mode) and the first comment was 'allright darlin'. Now I know it was dark and I was in a car and he probably had very bad eyesight but I'll take it!!! lol
I was soon deflated when I paid and he called me 'mate'. >:( ::) lol
Vicky that's not a minor accomplishment. Before starting all this I didn't realize voice can require months or years of work to fine tune (even with VFS). If you were initially gendered correctly based on voice you're doing really well.
Quote from: Kendra on December 07, 2018, 10:11:30 AM
Vicky that's not a minor accomplishment. Before starting all this I didn't realize voice can require months or years of work to fine tune (even with VFS). If you were initially gendered correctly based on voice you're doing really well.
Hi Kendra!
Unfortunately, no it was not my voice. I can only guess it was my hair and possibly having long nails (maybe). It did really boost me up for a few seconds. ;D
Well it's still great news and you can look forward to this happening more often. ;)
I really hope so and thank you for the kind words of encouragement! ;D ;D
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 06, 2018, 11:07:24 PM
Some gentlemen held the door open for me at the store and called me darling
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
I love it when guys do that for me. That's great. :)
Realizing in just nine days my first year of HRT will be over and the hardest test of my life complete. Next year I may actually get FFS and this dream might finally end and I'll wake up. So far two straight days of being happy without caffeine and loving it. Also VFS freaking rocks as each day my voice gets more fem. Funny they say all it does it pitch yet I got more than just pitch.
Also super happy I find out if I can get bottom surgery or not March 1st. If not, I simply get scar revision and clean up that area and live life accepting it'll never happen, otherwise I find out I can actually get it! Let's hope Ting can work magic on an experimental patient.
Quote from: VickyS on December 07, 2018, 08:30:41 AM
VERY minor thing but was desperate and went through the McDonalds drive-thru last night (in male mode) and the first comment was 'allright darlin'. Now I know it was dark and I was in a car and he probably had very bad eyesight but I'll take it!!! lol
I was soon deflated when I paid and he called me 'mate'. >:( ::) lol
Overall that sounds like it was a good experience! :)
Maybe he was a sailor.
Chrissy
I got to work for 3 days this week.
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We all too often take things for granted until it happens to you. Thank God I am safe have what I need to continue on!!
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I got to work for 3 days this week.
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God bless you all!
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We all too often take things for granted until it happens to you. Thank God I am safe have what I need to continue on!!
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It may be odd, but I love dressing as me, but more and more it's becoming meh. That's to much of a headache. Pj's and a movie please. I'm me no matter what I wear. I just wish the outside would catch up with the inside.
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It may be odd, but I love dressing as me, but more and more it's becoming meh. That's to much of a headache. Pj's and a movie please. I'm me no matter what I wear. I just wish the outside would catch up with the inside.
YES!!!
I have been thinking for a long time, that looking out on the world, for me, it is no different regardless of the clothes I am wearing. I am the woman I have always been no matter the clothes.
However, the clothes help the OTHER person relate to me in a way I would prefer.
So, the clothes are not as much for you, as they are for others.
That said, I love going all out and dressing up a bit...
Kate
I got my new running shoes for the gym today. They are super comfy.
Yay...They let me out of bed under my own steam...I may not be allowed To go anywhere but I don't care!!
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Yay...They let me out of bed under my own steam...I may not be allowed To go anywhere but I don't care!!
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It is truly wonderful to hear that you are doing well just take it slow take it carefully and relax
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My new driving license arrived :)
I now have all the paperwork (except birth certificate updated which is complicated in the UK) - passport, driving licence, education certificates, employment records and bank accounts.
I'm now ready for the Embassy appointment for relocation to Seattle with no assigned gender on my paperwork - fingers crossed US Immigration recognize me as per my UK ID :)
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My new driving license arrived :)
I now have all the paperwork (except birth certificate updated which is complicated in the UK) - passport, driving licence, education certificates, employment records and bank accounts.
I'm now ready for the Embassy appointment for relocation to Seattle with no assigned gender on my paperwork - fingers crossed US Immigration recognize me as per my UK ID :)
Congratulations!
Chrissy
Quote from: sophie1904 on December 08, 2018, 06:37:14 AM
My new driving license arrived :)
I now have all the paperwork (except birth certificate updated which is complicated in the UK) - passport, driving licence, education certificates, employment records and bank accounts.
I'm now ready for the Embassy appointment for relocation to Seattle with no assigned gender on my paperwork - fingers crossed US Immigration recognize me as per my UK ID :)
Hi Sophie, 08 December 2018
Let me be the first to welcome you to the US, the greatest place on this earth next to Scotland. The weather in Seattle is probably close to Edinburgh so that should make acclimating quite easy. Looking at your avatar tells me you won't have any problem finding someone to help you with your luggage; the problem will be, which one to choose.
Best Always, Love
Christine
Forecast is for snow. Yay! :)
Lisa
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 08, 2018, 02:33:55 AM
It is truly wonderful to hear that you are doing well just take it slow take it carefully and relax
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Thanks for the encouragement Arianna...trying to pace myself
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Quote from: LizK on December 08, 2018, 02:06:13 AM
Yay...They let me out of bed under my own steam...I may not be allowed To go anywhere but I don't care!!
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That's fantastic and I'm glad you're recovering! You'll be running circles around all of us in no time but try to get some rest until then. :)
My oldest nephew made dinner tonight and asked me if I wanted to come over and get some so I didn't have to cook dinner.....
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I went literally shopping until I almost dropped. I bought a lot of clothing items and some fashion jewelry!
Most stores around here have an end of season sale (I don't know why, because we have an almost eternal summer), and some stores gave an additional 30% off! That means, some stuff was 70 to 80% off, of the original price!
I am set now with stuff for a little while! But I need one or two more pairs of shoes!
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I went literally shopping until I almost dropped. I bought a lot of clothing items and some fashion jewelry!
Most stores around here have an end of season sale (I don't know why, because we have an almost eternal summer), and some stores gave an additional 30% off! That means, some stuff was 70 to 80% off, of the original price!
I am set now with stuff for a little while! But I need one or two more pairs of shoes!
If there is eternal Summer there then I need to be there because I need to be modeling a two-piece not pants and a sweatshirt
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Dear Dena, 10 December 2018
I want to thank you for making me happier than I have ever been and for saving my life. Had it not been for you, I may have been on the opposite side of the lawn. Thank You Dena Dear, I Love and Thank You.
All my Love Forever,
Christine
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 09, 2018, 10:13:52 PM
If there is eternal Summer there then I need to be there because I need to be modeling a two-piece not pants and a sweatshirt
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It was 78 yesterday, is that warm enough? You are welcome to visit at any time!
Was at my new endocrinologist today. A very nice person, who admitted that he does not know much about transgender peoples requirements. Nevertheless, he followed the recommendations of my psychologist and prescribed estrogen and spiro. He said that he is cooperating with the probably best endo for trans stuff in the area (I know of him, because there was a big write up in the Fort Myers newspaper about him), and he got me a appointment with him. On January 3rd I will get top notch service from a top notch doctor!
Nobody misgendered me today, as I asked the receptionist for the bathroom, she said the ladies room is down the corridor!
The doc himself did not really know how to address me (he of cause could see that I am still registered as male), he elegantly handled this dilemma, and just called me doctor XXX (last name).
Quote from: Dietlind on December 10, 2018, 09:41:44 AM
Was at my new endocrinologist today. A very nice person, who admitted that he does not know much about transgender peoples requirements. Nevertheless, he followed the recommendations of my psychologist and prescribed estrogen and spiro. He said that he is cooperating with the probably best endo for trans stuff in the area (I know of him, because there was a big write up in the Fort Myers newspaper about him), and he got me a appointment with him. On January 3rd I will get top notch service from a top notch doctor!
Nobody misgendered me today, as I asked the receptionist for the bathroom, she said the ladies room is down the corridor!
The doc himself did not really know how to address me (he of cause could see that I am still registered as male), he elegantly handled this dilemma, and just called me doctor XXX (last name).
He seems like an excellent professional congratulations and next time just correct them they like you can call me ma'am thank you LOL
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1 hr massage so lovely
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I endured an electrolysis session this morning on my upper lip - ouch!!! Dang that hurt. I'm now 85% done with hair removal and can't wait for it all to be done. I never thought I'd get this far and I'm so proud of myself :)
Amie June
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I endured an electrolysis session this morning on my upper lip - ouch!!! Dang that hurt. I'm now 85% done with hair removal and can't wait for it all to be done. I never thought I'd get this far and I'm so proud of myself :)
Amie June
Congraulations for the mile stone!
I can't even think about the pain, and I hope that they can do most of mine with laser!
Did you used to have a heavy beard growth? Mine is wimpy, but it is there!
I'm getting out today
I'm getting out today
I'm getting out today
I'm getting out today
I'm getting out today...of hospital
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Quote from: Dietlind on December 10, 2018, 02:38:13 PM
Congraulations for the mile stone!
I can't even think about the pain, and I hope that they can do most of mine with laser!
Did you used to have a heavy beard growth? Mine is wimpy, but it is there!
I was lucky - very little beard growth! I started out with laser and then moved on to electrolysis to finish. They're both painful, just in different ways. You'll be happy to have though hairs gone though! I think it's a rite of passage for us trans girls :)
Amie
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I'm getting out today
I'm getting out today
I'm getting out today
I'm getting out today
I'm getting out today...of hospital
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Yay congratulations girly just remember still be careful but still awesome days that you're getting out of hospital today be free young one be free
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6 weeks No HRT ....not any more and no one will get me to stop again
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Quote from: Amie June on December 10, 2018, 04:52:59 PM
I was lucky - very little beard growth! I started out with laser and then moved on to electrolysis to finish. They're both painful, just in different ways. You'll be happy to have though hairs gone though! I think it's a rite of passage for us trans girls :)
Amie
I had laser already done, they want to do 4 laser sessions, one is done. After that, I have to see what's left. When I do a nice close wet shave, I can go around for 3 to 4 days before the 5 o'clock shade can be seen on my face. Depending how much laser will take away, I might just stop with it and do my shaving for the rest of the little bit of beard growth I have.
I went to the gym for the first time in 11 years tonight. 30 mins on bike, then my friend Amy came over and drug me to the leg weight machines where she proceeded to abuse me repeatedly with butt, thigh and leg excercises..... we are no longer friends. Haha. Joking. I love her despite her abuse. It felt great to work out again! I'm sure I'll have some words for her in the morning though. [emoji43]
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Quote from: Melinda@heart on December 10, 2018, 06:36:17 PM
I went to the gym for the first time in 11 years tonight. 30 mins on bike, then my friend Amy came over and drug me to the leg weight machines where she proceeded to abuse me repeatedly with butt, thigh and leg excercises..... we are no longer friends. Haha. Joking. I love her despite her abuse. It felt great to work out again! I'm sure I'll have some words for her in the morning though. [emoji43]
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Well apparently leg and butt exercises are supposed to help increase your butt size and hip size so I would be thanking her instead of reprimanding her
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6 weeks No HRT ....not any more and no one will get me to stop again
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 10, 2018, 06:39:29 PM
Well apparently leg and butt exercises are supposed to help increase your butt size and hip size so I would be thanking her instead of reprimanding her
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Yeah, it was a joke. She warned me I was going to be sore tomorrow.
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Quote from: Melinda@heart on December 10, 2018, 07:08:29 PM
Yeah, it was a joke. She warned me I was going to be sore tomorrow.
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Yep I remember when I first started hormones I started jogging and walking and running that lasted all about 2 weeks and I couldn't walk for like 3 months cuz it hurts so bad LOL
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In the locker room at the gym after workout and one of the employees comes in, walks over by the toilets and showers then to other side of lockers. Then she comes over to me (apparently only one in there) to tell me that a male needs to come into the locker room to do some work and asks if I'm ok with that.
Took that to mean that at least they don't think I'm male and that I'm ok to use the womens lockers.
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Quote from: TonyaW on December 11, 2018, 07:53:03 AM
In the locker room at the gym after workout and one of the employees comes in, walks over by the toilets and showers then to other side of lockers. Then she comes over to me (apparently only one in there) to tell me that a male needs to come into the locker room to do some work and asks if I'm ok with that.
Took that to mean that at least they don't think I'm male and that I'm ok to use the womens lockers.
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I would take that gym worker statement the same way! Great!
Chrissy
TonyaW, you were seems as any woman in the women's locker room and they wanted you to know that a male was coming to make some kind of repair. You are definitely passing completely.
Been on HRT exactly 4 weeks! And today I definitely feel the beginnings of breast buds under my nipples - they are BARELY there, but quite sore and i am not imagining it this time :D
Was a bit worried because most people seems to say they felt the beginnings of breast development after 1 month, and I hadn't felt anything at all.. well this isn't much, but it's there - like clockwork ;D
Quote from: TonyaW on December 11, 2018, 07:53:03 AM
In the locker room at the gym after workout and one of the employees comes in, walks over by the toilets and showers then to other side of lockers. Then she comes over to me (apparently only one in there) to tell me that a male needs to come into the locker room to do some work and asks if I'm ok with that.
Took that to mean that at least they don't think I'm male and that I'm ok to use the womens lockers.
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That is always amazing news if you're standing there and work out clothes and you pass then you pass everywhere
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Upper lip electrolysis appointment today - usually I cry my way through these and they're really slow going but not today ....
Today, I enlisted the help of a dentist to use local anasthesia on my upper lip and it was amazing! For a mere £30 / $40 she numbed the entire area and I couldn't feel a thing during the electrolysis which meant 1) we cleared the entire upper lip and 2) we used the maximum current so there should be maximum destruction of the follicles :)
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Upper lip electrolysis appointment today - usually I cry my way through these and they're really slow going but not today ....
Today, I enlisted the help of a dentist to use local anasthesia on my upper lip and it was amazing! For a mere £30 / $40 she numbed the entire area and I couldn't feel a thing during the electrolysis which meant 1) we cleared the entire upper lip and 2) we used the maximum current so there should be maximum destruction of the follicles :)
Hey Sophie, this is the only way I can have them work on my top lip...I had maybe 7 full clearances in the past and still the odd grey keeps popping up...Glad you had such a great result for the minimal cost...
take care.
Liz
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Besides the Christmas holiday, the Marquise de Sade my electrologist is taking most of January off. That means that my face gets a break! :D
Quote from: Anastasia E on December 11, 2018, 12:04:49 PM
Been on HRT exactly 4 weeks! And today I definitely feel the beginnings of breast buds under my nipples - they are BARELY there, but quite sore and i am not imagining it this time :D
Was a bit worried because most people seems to say they felt the beginnings of breast development after 1 month, and I hadn't felt anything at all.. well this isn't much, but it's there - like clockwork ;D
Just relax, I am on the stuff now a few days longer than a month, and I feel nothing, zero, zilch! Any candy would have been better (at least it tastes better, and can make man boobs!)!
Visited two different female restrooms today! One was filled with several women, including me, waiting for an empty stall, nobody seemed to have any doubt that I would not belong there!
And went into a female changing room, no questions asked here either!
My hair is now long enough that I can make it up into a semi female looking do, I think this helps. At one checkout I was called Sweetie, and at another I was called ma'm! 100% passing for this old girl!
Quote from: KathyLauren on December 11, 2018, 02:27:39 PM
Besides the Christmas holiday, the Marquise de Sade my electrologist is taking most of January off. That means that my face gets a break! :D
I had to stop hair removal for six weeks before and six weeks after my FacialTeam procedures. It feels like a mixed blessing. I don't have to do all that driving or endure all the pain, but on the other hand, I miss making progress. It puts me three months behind. Oh well, it's for a good cause...
Stephanie
Quote from: Steph2.0 on December 11, 2018, 05:27:15 PM
I had to stop hair removal for six weeks before and six weeks after my FacialTeam procedures. It feels like a mixed blessing. I don't have to do all that driving or endure all the pain, but on the other hand, I miss making progress. It puts me three months behind. Oh well, it's for a good cause...
Stephanie
@Steph2.0Dear Stephanie:Plain and simple, it is a trade-off .... FFS versus hair removal. You can get hair removal done just about anywhere, but the FFS is a much bigger deal.
You chose wisely.
Hugs,
Danielle
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@Steph2.0
Dear Stephanie:
Plain and simple, it is a trade-off .... FFS versus hair removal. You can get hair removal done just about anywhere, but the FFS is a much bigger deal.
You chose wisely.
I can't help it. Anytime someone uses that phrase, my addled mind goes here:
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Stephanie
@Steph2.0
Dear Stephanie:
I did not carelessly chose to use that famous Indiana Jones phrase when I responded to your posting... considering your recent FFS...
Obviously, based on the movie plot, if you did not chose wisely, your would not be happy with your appearance and your life would come to a quick dusty end.
Hugs,
DanielleQuote from: Steph2.0 on December 11, 2018, 05:39:02 PM
I can't help it. Anytime someone uses that phrase, my addled mind goes here:
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Stephanie
Quote from: Steph2.0 on December 11, 2018, 05:27:15 PM
I had to stop hair removal for six weeks before and six weeks after my FacialTeam procedures. It feels like a mixed blessing. I don't have to do all that driving or endure all the pain, but on the other hand, I miss making progress. It puts me three months behind. Oh well, it's for a good cause...
Stephanie
Umm I'm 2 hours into electrolysis and I don't see the pain. I guess ymmv, or I'm agouten for Punishment. No Myles doesn't shiver randomly during treatment. Whoever told you that is telling a fib.
Quote from: Jaime320 on December 12, 2018, 12:35:45 AM
Umm I'm 2 hours into electrolysis and I don't see the pain. I guess ymmv, or I'm agouten for Punishment. No Myles doesn't shiver randomly during treatment. Whoever told you that is telling a fib.
Wow, if you're truly not feeling it I envy you. It got easier for me when I switched from thermolysis to blend, to the point that I'll even occasionally fall asleep, but it still hurts pretty badly in some areas.
That shivering thing - no, of course I'd never believe it!
What made me happy today... I had my eyebrows done by my electrologist (who is also a beautician) and she said I have really good eyebrows with the arch in the correct place! They made me feel SO good.
I also told her that my new year's resolution was to have 100 hours done in 2019 taking me to 150 total. She said that might be difficult as it might slow down by then as although have only had 50 hours, I am making really good progress.
Sometimes it's the little things! ;D ;D
Today I got my first bona fide ma'am. Went to a restaurant and was asked "How can I help you ma'am?". I smiled broadly, I'm good with that!
And I had someone call out to me at a function "Hi Jessica". I didn't expect it, but I responded immediately, it was my therapist who was at the same picket line at Kaiser protesting Kaisers lack of Mental Health Care resources for its members.
I knew it would happen, I'm so happy!
Hugs and smiles from a California girl
A nice hot bubble bath with extra and realizing that I don't always have to wear makeup or lipstick
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
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Thanks Nicole
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@nicole01 sent me this
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Thanks Nicole
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That's so sweet! 🌸🌸🌸
As it turned out an insurance company owes me a little money so I ordered a bunch of clothes, some of them arrived today and they fit great and it seems that the other orders will also arrive before Christmas.
Quote from: Lynne on December 13, 2018, 05:38:03 PM
As it turned out an insurance company owes me a little money so I ordered a bunch of clothes, some of them arrived today and they fit great and it seems that the other orders will also arrive before Christmas.
That is great! :)
Chrissy
I got my pants
Quote from: GingerVicki on December 13, 2018, 09:10:23 PM
I got my pants
Yay! And it's good to see your picture on your profile finally you are very beautiful
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 13, 2018, 09:17:23 PM
Yay! And it's good to see your picture on your profile finally you are very beautiful
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Thank you
Finally was able to get my rear end out of bed early enough to do a 5 mile walk before breakfast.
Here, where I live, one has to be out at 6 in the morning, earlier in the summer, to make sure it is not to warm for a long walk!
Now I feel great, and on my path to eliminate my muffin top!
I'm very happy for my continued weight loss. I am down to 213.6 pounds. I have lost 6.5 pounds since November 30th.
Quote from: NatalieRene on December 14, 2018, 09:31:07 AM
I'm very happy for my continued weight loss. I am down to 213.6 pounds. I have lost 6.5 pounds since November 30th.
That is wonderful!
Chrissy
Quote from: NatalieRene on December 14, 2018, 09:31:07 AM
I'm very happy for my continued weight loss. I am down to 213.6 pounds. I have lost 6.5 pounds since November 30th.
Here I thought you were this slender girl (because of your avatar pic)! But doing very well, actually way better than I!
I try to loose weight, too I am at 195 lbs, and seem not to loose anything anymore. I hope to loose 15 to 20 pounds, because I bought those nice jeans, and discovered a I have a muffin top! I used to make fun about it with cis women, and now I am sporting my very own! And that has to go, because I do not want others to make fun about MY muffin top!
Good job on the weight loss.
I am currently baking cookies for holiday presents so I'm doing the exact opposite. :D
Today I dressed as "myself" for the first time in around a year and a half, and it felt SO good :icon_cry2:
Quote from: Confetti on December 14, 2018, 01:22:40 PM
Today I dressed as "myself" for the first time in around a year and a half, and it felt SO good :icon_cry2:
Good on you..[emoji847][emoji847]
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Quote from: NatalieRene on December 14, 2018, 09:31:07 AM
I'm very happy for my continued weight loss. I am down to 213.6 pounds. I have lost 6.5 pounds since November 30th.
Weight loss is hard and takes commitment...clearly you are up for the challenge
Congrats on a huge effort.
Liz
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I bought a beautiful fitted blouse today. :)
Gave away more male clothes.
Chrissy
Had my second laser treatment today. The laser tech is of the opinion that this will be it for me for laser, and that electrolysis will be next (next is in 5 weeks from now). They also shot away some sun damage spots on my skin, and two red veins on he side of my nose. They also lasered away all the hair that grew inside my ear.
Pretty soon, the only hair I will have left is that on top of my head and my pubic hair!
I currently need to shave every 2 to 3 days only, but I still hated shaving as a very unproductive operation. Pretty soon I can kiss my shaver and razor goodbye, and that will be the real day to feel joyfull!
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on December 14, 2018, 07:20:50 PM
I bought a beautiful fitted blouse today. :)
Gave away more male clothes.
Chrissy
Wonderful!
I still envy you "normal" trans girls, because you are all so sure that you want to b female and nothing else.
I am still debating what t keep of m guy stuf, because I still switch into guy mode when it is of advantage to me (the last three days I was all guy again). I thought I was over that gender fluid thing, but I am not. I can run around as a guy and have no dysphoria what so ever, but I also can be a woman (my default preferred mode) without dysphoria.
Quote from: Dietlind on December 14, 2018, 10:29:20 AM
Here I thought you were this slender girl (because of your avatar pic)! But doing very well, actually way better than I!
I try to loose weight, too I am at 195 lbs, and seem not to loose anything anymore. I hope to loose 15 to 20 pounds, because I bought those nice jeans, and discovered a I have a muffin top! I used to make fun about it with cis women, and now I am sporting my very own! And that has to go, because I do not want others to make fun about MY muffin top!
I was, but that photo is from 2012. I'm going to get back down to that though.
As of today I'm back into a size large blouse instead of a XL.
The trick is no candy, no pop, no snacks, drink lots of water and eat 1500 calories or less and exercise to burn off 1000+ calories a day from moving plus whatever your resting rate is.
You can still eat full meals.
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on December 14, 2018, 12:51:22 PM
Good job on the weight loss.
I am currently baking cookies for holiday presents so I'm doing the exact opposite. :D
I can still eat a little desert. The finger snack size in moderation to get the taste. But until I get to my target weight of 145 I'm going to forgo most desert. That said I did have a piece of pumpkin pie for thanksgiving.
Quote from: Dietlind on December 14, 2018, 09:24:04 PM
Had my second laser treatment today. The laser tech is of the opinion that this will be it for me for laser, and that electrolysis will be next (next is in 5 weeks from now). They also shot away some sun damage spots on my skin, and two red veins on he side of my nose. They also lasered away all the hair that grew inside my ear.
Pretty soon, the only hair I will have left is that on top of my head and my pubic hair!
I currently need to shave every 2 to 3 days only, but I still hated shaving as a very unproductive operation. Pretty soon I can kiss my shaver and razor goodbye, and that will be the real day to feel joyfull!
Laser is nice but you are going to want to switch to electrolysis. It does a better job in the end.
I may have changed one person's mind about transwomen. Hopefully anyhow
Quote from: GingerVicki on December 14, 2018, 09:47:16 PM
I may have changed one person's mind about transwomen. Hopefully anyhow
Changing even one person is a great achievement and you should be quite rightly proud of yourself [emoji3]
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Quote from: NatalieRene on December 14, 2018, 09:40:07 PM
I was, but that photo is from 2012. I'm going to get back down to that though.
As of today I'm back into a size large blouse instead of a XL.
The trick is no candy, no pop, no snacks, drink lots of water and eat 1500 calories or less and exercise to burn off 1000+ calories a day from moving plus whatever your resting rate is.
You can still eat full meals.
I don't do the sweet stuff, because I have Type II diabetes, but I have to control my food intake a little better (hose darn snacks) and get moving more. My normal food is mostly fish and vegetables, it is he snacks that take m down!
Now that it is a little cooler around here, I can start walking more. Today I burned 559 cal by walking, and that is what I have to do now every day of the week
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I very much second this! It needs o be don one person at a time!!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 14, 2018, 10:06:12 PM
I don't do the sweet stuff, because I have Type II diabetes, but I have to control my food intake a little better (hose darn snacks) and get moving more. My normal food is mostly fish and vegetables, it is he snacks that take m down!
Now that it is a little cooler around here, I can start walking more. Today I burned 559 cal by walking, and that is what I have to do now every day of the week
My movement calories burned today are 1056.
Quote from: Dietlind on December 14, 2018, 10:07:08 PM
I very much second this! It needs o be don one person at a time!!
It's the only way to reach people. As a group most people revert to herd mentality and it's difficult to reach a group at once.
Quote from: NatalieRene on December 14, 2018, 10:08:47 PM
My movement calories burned today are 1056.
Are you living on a treadmill? I needed t walk 11349 steps (5.3 miles) to reach my measly 599 cals, and it took 2 hours out of my day, and keeping me for that long time away from delicious snacks!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 14, 2018, 10:15:13 PM
Are you living on a treadmill? I needed t walk 11349 steps (5.3 miles) to reach my measly 599 cals, and it took 2 hours out of my day, and keeping me for that long time away from delicious snacks!
Heart rate!! ...you need to raise it to a level where you get increased calorie burn...I was doing 5-6ks per workout and burning about 600 per 45 minute session and lost just over 16kgs in about 3-4months....I also ate a sensible diet!
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Quote from: LizK on December 14, 2018, 10:24:57 PM
Heart rate!! ...you need to raise it to a level where you get increased calorie burn...I was doing 5-6ks per workout and burning about 600 per 45 minute session and lost just over 16kgs in about 3-4months....I also ate a sensible diet!
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Yup, exactly this. Although my heart rate is lowering so I push harder to get the same burn.
Quote from: Dietlind on December 14, 2018, 10:15:13 PM
Are you living on a treadmill? I needed t walk 11349 steps (5.3 miles) to reach my measly 599 cals, and it took 2 hours out of my day, and keeping me for that long time away from delicious snacks!
LOL not quite but last weekend I did 8.58 miles on Sunday and yesterday I did a 7.42 miles of walking.
My steps today are 14512 and I just ;) walked 6.62 miles today. Most of that was a jog for 90 minutes. Today I'm total I have burned 3115 calories.
It's funny. This made me think Of Battlestar Galatica in the begginging. It's not ok to get off the treadmill. ;D
Quote from: NatalieRene on December 14, 2018, 10:27:02 PM
Yup, exactly this. Although my heart rate is lowering so I push harder to get the same burn.
LOL not quite but last weekend I did 8.58 miles on Sunday and yesterday I did a 7.42 miles of walking.
My steps today are 14512 and I just ;) walked 6.62 miles today. Most of that was a jog for 90 minutes. Today I'm total I have burned 3115 calories.
I used to jog when I was younger, I ran every day. But had to stop running about 10 yeas ago, because my joints told me it is not good for them. Meniscus is gone in both knees plus chronic sciatica on the left side. Jogging is not really fun anymore!
I am still pretty fit for a person of my age, but age is a determining factor in all f that.
Quote from: Dietlind on December 14, 2018, 10:34:23 PM
I used to jog when I was younger, I ran every day. But had to stop running about 10 yeas ago, because my joints told me it is not good for them. Meniscus is gone in both knees plus chronic sciatica on the left side. Jogging is not really fun anymore!
I am still pretty fit for a person of my age, but age is a determining factor in all f that.
Once I get a little lighter I plan on adding swimming laps in the pool. Right now I would just feel embarrassed. But I used to love running and riding my bike. I'm going to get back into it all.
Right now about a hour from bed I'm down to 213.9 pounds. That's .3 higher then this morning. When I get up tomorrow I'm hoping for a weigh in under 213.
Quote from: NatalieRene on December 14, 2018, 10:39:56 PM
Once I get a little lighter I plan on adding swimming laps in the pool. Right now I would just feel embarrassed. But I used to love running and riding my bike. I'm going to get back into it all.
Right now about a hour from bed I'm down to 213.9 pounds. That's .3 higher then this morning. When I get up tomorrow I'm hoping for a weigh in under 213.
Swimming might be counterproductive, unless it si done in warm water. If you swim in cold water, the body tries to keep the core temperature up to normal. For this purpose fat gets moved as a layer under the skin. You will not loose much fat, just redistribute it with swimming in cold water!
And don't drive yourself nuts with stepping on the sale every day. Health professionals recommend to do this once a week only!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 14, 2018, 10:59:05 PM
Swimming might be counterproductive, unless it si done in warm water. If you swim in cold water, the body tries to keep the core temperature up to normal. For this purpose fat gets moved as a layer under the skin. You will not loose much fat, just redistribute it with swimming in cold water!
And don't drive yourself nuts with stepping on the sale every day. Health professionals recommend to do this once a week only!
I'm goal driven. I can't not check on my progress because what if things are sliding and I need to hit the treadmill more to balance things out?
Oh no I wasn't planning on swimming in cold water. I'm sure there is a indoors pool around here somewhere I can use for a reasonable rate. This is probably closer to a month or so out though.
My prediction is I will be down to roughly 180 by the end of February. That would probably be when I start swimming.
My friend finally signed up for this website to support me and all of us other ladies and gentlemen they're transitioning and why not comment that he made or one phrase that he said really made me happy here is what he said word for word and I do hope that it inspires more of you ladies like it did me...
"In that respect trans women are more of a woman than most cis women who rest on their genetic laurels
Even as cis feller I recognise that trans guys have put in a lot of hard work into being themselves and as a result . . . more of a guy than I am."
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: NatalieRene on December 14, 2018, 11:25:59 PM
I'm goal driven. I can't not check on my progress because what if things are sliding and I need to hit the treadmill more to balance things out?
Oh no I wasn't planning on swimming in cold water. I'm sure there is a indoors pool around here somewhere I can use for a reasonable rate. This is probably closer to a month or so out though.
My prediction is I will be down to roughly 180 by the end of February. That would probably be when I start swimming.
You can drive yourself nuts with checking the weight daily. Your weight fluctuates from day to day due to different amounts of water retention. That is why you should weight in once a week only. Otherwise you drive yourself crazy!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 15, 2018, 12:02:43 PM
You can drive yourself nuts with checking the weight daily. Your weight fluctuates from day to day due to different amounts of water retention. That is why you should weight in once a week only. Otherwise you drive yourself crazy!
Oh yeah I understand the fluctuations. I have them graphed but I don't worry about them. I have actually found if I increase my calories along with my active calorie burn rate my body will burn more calories for longer because it thinks good times are here and cuts on the after burners. In the last two days from my last cycle I have burned 2.5 pounds even eating a combined 2626 calories over the last two days. I also covered 14.11 miles in the last two days.
Quote from: NatalieRene on December 15, 2018, 12:35:17 PM
Oh yeah I understand the fluctuations. I have them graphed but I don't worry about them. I have actually found if I increase my calories along with my active calorie burn rate my body will burn more calories for longer because it thinks good times are here and cuts on the after burners. In the last two days from my last cycle I have burned 2.5 pounds even eating a combined 2626 calories over the last two days. I also covered 14.11 miles in the last two days.
You are a very goal driven girl! I wish I would have such a strong ambition! I did only 2 miles this morning, because I found a million good reasons to not get my rear end out of bed on time! I have to walk early in the morning, because it gets to warm later on!
But you are young and petty, the only thing left for me is the "and" from that sentence!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 15, 2018, 01:59:22 PM
You are a very goal driven girl! I wish I would have such a strong ambition! I did only 2 miles this morning, because I found a million good reasons to not get my rear end out of bed on time! I have to walk early in the morning, because it gets to warm later on!
But you are young and petty, the only thing left for me is the "and" from that sentence!
That I am. I don't understand the word can't. My closest translation is try harder. :D
I just got done painting my nails red and adding on the clear gel coating. I got them today along with a translucent number 7 foundation in a compact with a mirror. I also got a new eyebrow grooming kit but didn't realize that it didn't come with a AAA battery so I have one more walk to go there and buy some AAA batteries so I can get my eyebrows trimmed up.
Quote from: NatalieRene on December 15, 2018, 02:38:33 PM
That I am. I don't understand the word can't. My closest translation is try harder. :D
I just got done painting my nails red and adding on the clear gel coating. I got them today along with a translucent number 7 foundation in a compact with a mirror. I also got a new eyebrow grooming kit but didn't realize that it didn't come with a AAA battery so I have one more walk to go there and buy some AAA batteries so I can get my eyebrows trimmed up.
What is that eyebrow trim kit for a gizmo? Can you please put a link in to see what it is? I am a technology freak, and try to get any interesting looking gizmo there is!
You are lucky that you can walk to a store, the planers here were so considerate, not to put sidewalks in. Walking, why would you do that, don't you have a car s the motto here!
On Friday, hearing my step father talking to my brother and referring to me as his sister.
Saturday at my mom's birthday, having my mom introducing me to her friends as her daughter. She hesitated a bit the first time, but it seemed like it was more natural to her as the day went on.
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On Friday, hearing my step father talking to my brother and referring to me as his sister.
Saturday at my mom's birthday, having my mom introducing me to her friends as her daughter. She hesitated a bit the first time, but it seemed like it was more natural to her as the day went on.
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such wonderful affirmation....It just makes all the bad stuff seem "no as bad" when you have support from those who are close to you
Congrats
Liz
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Quote from: TonyaW on December 16, 2018, 11:12:03 AM
On Friday, hearing my step father talking to my brother and referring to me as his sister.
Saturday at my mom's birthday, having my mom introducing me to her friends as her daughter. She hesitated a bit the first time, but it seemed like it was more natural to her as the day went on.
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That is terrific!
Chrissy
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On Friday, hearing my step father talking to my brother and referring to me as his sister.
Saturday at my mom's birthday, having my mom introducing me to her friends as her daughter. She hesitated a bit the first time, but it seemed like it was more natural to her as the day went on.
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That is amazing news and them both fully accepting you is truly wonderful news congratulations!!!!!!!
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Was at a lovely Christmas concert with the southern Florida Symphonie Orchestra. And nobody male gendered me, and I had even very little small talk in the female bathroom.
I was there with two of my girlfriends, and one of them knew a couple, and introduced me to them as Linde, her friend from Germany!
None of my friends dead name me anymore, not even accidentally!
Quote from: TonyaW on December 16, 2018, 11:12:03 AM
On Friday, hearing my step father talking to my brother and referring to me as his sister.
Saturday at my mom's birthday, having my mom introducing me to her friends as her daughter. She hesitated a bit the first time, but it seemed like it was more natural to her as the day went on.
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Priceless!
I am a member of the karaoke site and I have my picture on my profile as my avatar and I was just finishing singing a song and saw that I had a message in my private mail a gentleman had heard me singing and saw my picture call me beautiful told me I had a lovely smile and to keep it up I am literally going to start crying I really needed to hear something like that today
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 16, 2018, 07:48:10 PM
I am a member of the karaoke site and I have my picture on my profile as my avatar and I was just finishing singing a song and saw that I had a message in my private mail a gentleman had heard me saying and saw my picture call me beautiful told me I had a lovely smile and to keep it up I am literally going to start crying I really needed to hear something like that today
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
That was nice!
Chrissy
I finally got the results of my recent blood work that tested my estrogen and testosterone levels my estrogen has raised from 40 to 83 points my testosterone has dropped from 551 down to 435 I do not know if this is a significant number or not after 8 months on low dose estrogen pills or not but I am pretty happy about it
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
It is nice when even if you are in guy's clothes, as I was today, that someone who knows you are mtf calls you by your correct (female) name in greeting and conversation, and you have a wonderful long conversation. This thoughtfulness applied was no different than when I was dressed in female clothing. (Although I wish I was in a nice outfit today.) This was very respectful, considerate, and affirming. :)
And I am not talking about just a gender therapist doing that, but someone else.
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on December 18, 2018, 06:18:19 PM
It is nice when even if you are in guy's clothes, as I was today, that someone who knows you are mtf calls you by your correct (female) name in greeting and conversation, and you have a wonderful long conversation. This thoughtfulness applied was no different than when I was dressed in female clothing. (Although I wish I was in a nice outfit today.) This was very respectful, considerate, and affirming. :)
And I am not talking about just a gender therapist doing that, but someone else.
Chrissy
As good as that is just wait for the male fail when you're not full time in male clothes and start getting yes mammed by complete strangers. That moment when your man card gets cut up.
Quote from: NatalieRene on December 18, 2018, 09:42:04 PM
As good as that is just wait for the male fail when you're not full time in male clothes and start getting yes mammed by complete strangers. That moment when your man card gets cut up.
Now that will be nice.
I am getting some long looks as male at times, but they seem to go away right after I speak.
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on December 19, 2018, 10:32:18 AM
Now that will be nice.
I am getting some long looks as male at times, but they seem to go away right after I speak.
Chrissy
Voice training time. How deep is your voice?
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on December 19, 2018, 10:32:18 AM
Now that will be nice.
I am getting some long looks as male at times, but they seem to go away right after I speak.
Chrissy
This darn voice! It is not the pitch with me, it is the speech pattern!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 19, 2018, 12:14:51 PM
This darn voice! It is not the pitch with me, it is the speech pattern!
I can honestly say I don't seem to get a lot of looks because of my voice there are times that I do but not often
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 19, 2018, 12:17:53 PM
I can honestly say I don't seem to get a lot of looks because of my voice there are times that I do but not often
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
I don't know if others feel that my voice is not feminin, because I have a rather high pitched voice by nature (in the low female voice range), it is me who feels that it is not the way a female would be speaking.
This voice is the main culprit for any dysphoria I have!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 19, 2018, 01:09:36 PM
I don't know if others feel that my voice is not feminin, because I have a rather high pitched voice by nature (in the low female voice range), it is me who feels that it is not the way a female would be speaking.
This voice is the main culprit for any dysphoria I have!
You know I had voice dysphoria problem as well but one of my dear friends said and I'm going to try to quote this okay so I couldn't find her quote but basically she said that there are so many different women with so many different voice ranges and men as well that we should not worried if our voice does not what other people expect it only matters how we see it and hear it and if we can accept it then everybody else has no choice but to
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 19, 2018, 01:15:36 PM
You know I had voice dysphoria problem as well but one of my dear friends said and I'm going to try to quote this okay so I couldn't find her quote but basically she said that there are so many different women with so many different voice ranges and men as well that we should not worried if our voice does not what other people expect it only matters how we see it and hear it and if we can accept it then everybody else has no choice but to
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
This is true but a good voice is social lubricant for situations where you just have no choice.
That said the voices really do range the spectrum of things like pitch and nasally tone. Just try to use inflection and you should do reasonably well.
I agree! It's not my pitch or pitch range, it's my tone that doesn't sound feminine when I play it back. I still have to work this out.
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Quote from: Donica on December 19, 2018, 02:30:15 PM
I agree! It's not my pitch or pitch range, it's my tone that doesn't sound feminine when I play it back. I still have to work this out.
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I really don't know what it is with me, others say I sound pretty OK, but I feel as if I have the lowest sounding voice in the block. I think it is the way how I am using my voice.
when I sing, which means, when the usage of my voice is dictated by the composer, I can sing in a pretty steady mezzo soprano voice, and going once in a while down into alto, but I never ever go down into a male vocal range (trying to sing baritone hurts my throat quite a bit).
But one I am "freelancing" during a conversation, I have the feeling that I always slip down into the acquired mal speech pattern. It drives me nuts, and i try to avoid saying more than a few words when in a public setting. I can control single words or very small sentences, but I am not able (I think) to hold a conversation without getting that male thing back into my speech! And this causes my a gigantic amount of DYSPHORIA!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 19, 2018, 01:09:36 PM
I don't know if others feel that my voice is not feminin, because I have a rather high pitched voice by nature (in the low female voice range), it is me who feels that it is not the way a female would be speaking.
This voice is the main culprit for any dysphoria I have!
Could be the same problem I'm having. I have pitch and resonance down, but lack inflection and cadence. I infered one reason women speak more words than men is the continuous word joins without a pause between words. This allowing more words in the same breath.
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 19, 2018, 01:15:36 PM
You know I had voice dysphoria problem as well but one of my dear friends said and I'm going to try to quote this okay so I couldn't find her quote but basically she said that there are so many different women with so many different voice ranges and men as well that we should not worried if our voice does not what other people expect it only matters how we see it and hear it and if we can accept it then everybody else has no choice but to
If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?
Funny this is exactly what my voice coach told me yesterday. We'll keep working and tweaking. The main goal is that you are happy with your voice.
Quote from: Jaime320 on December 19, 2018, 08:58:26 PM
Funny this is exactly what my voice coach told me yesterday. We'll keep working and tweaking. The main goal is that you are happy with your voice.
That is exactly correct and why I refused voice coaching
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
After working in yard today. I've realized two things. I don't wreak afterwards, and I now barely sweat. I guess I'm entering glisten territory. Main positive is the smell.
Quote from: Jaime320 on December 19, 2018, 08:58:26 PM
Funny this is exactly what my voice coach told me yesterday. We'll keep working and tweaking. The main goal is that you are happy with your voice.
Everybody tells me that, but it does not help! I still don't feel comfortable to speak longer sentences in public.
And no, I am not happy with the way I use my perfectly feminin sounding voice. Singing is not a problem, but I would sound silly if I would only sing my conversations!
All those voice training programs recommend singing, but that does nothing for me, because I can sing very nicely with my natural voice!
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 19, 2018, 09:04:20 PM
That is exactly correct and why I refused voice coaching
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
I don't mind the cost. It's been very helpful in a short amount of time. Confidence is way up because of it. Besides we usually have a lot of fun during them as well.
Quote from: Jaime320 on December 19, 2018, 09:04:27 PM
After working in yard today. I've realized two things. I don't wreak afterwards, and I now barely sweat. I guess I'm entering glisten territory. Main positive is the smell.
I never used to sweat a lot, and I mostly sweat on the back of my head. What is the difference in the smell between male and female sweat? I might never have had any male sweat, because I can go for days without deodorant (at least nobody tells me I have BO).
Pungent musk/stinky cheese vs a sweeter grapefruit/onion smell
Quote from: Jaime320 on December 19, 2018, 09:09:05 PM
I don't mind the cost. It's been very helpful in a short amount of time. Confidence is way up because of it. Besides we usually have a lot of fun during them as well.
I don't mind the cost as my insurance would cover it if I really wanted it I just don't care what people think
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
Quote from: Jaime320 on December 19, 2018, 10:38:43 PM
Pungent musk/stinky cheese vs a sweeter grapefruit/onion smell
I must have been sweating like a female all my life. My sweat has, and always had, a more fruity smell, and I never had stinky feet either.
There is a lot in the standard male world to which I can't relate to!
My feminin looking watch band for my Samsung smart watch came in, and I installed it right away. Now my watch does not give me away anymore either. I love bling stuff, and this one has a lot of that with fake diamonds all over it!
(https://i.imgur.com/3URcdQM.jpg)
Quote from: Dietlind on December 19, 2018, 11:01:37 PM
My feminin looking watch band for my Samsung smart watch came in, and I installed it right away. Now my watch does not give me away anymore either. I love bling stuff, and this one has a lot of that with fake diamonds all over it!
(https://i.imgur.com/3URcdQM.jpg)
I love that is so pretty and shiny
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 19, 2018, 11:13:47 PM
I love that is so pretty and shiny
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
Thanks. I think they are all little rhinestones, probably man made ones, who knows. I hope it holds up for a while!
My father spontaneously said "your voice sounds different." This is significant as I had VFS in March 2018 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,234768.0.html) and more recently re-started with a speech therapist (found a better one than before).
Quote from: Kendra on December 20, 2018, 12:24:09 PM
My father spontaneously said "your voice sounds different." This is significant as I had VFS in March 2018 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,234768.0.html) and more recently re-started with a speech therapist (found a better one than before).
@Kendra Dear Kendra:That is such a wonderful thing to hear coming unsolicited and unscripted from anyone but especially from your Father.
Obviously "voice" is one of the key gender clues, I am so glad that you are doing well in that department.
Thank you for sharing your good report.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: Kendra on December 20, 2018, 12:24:09 PM
My father spontaneously said "your voice sounds different." This is significant as I had VFS in March 2018 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,234768.0.html) and more recently re-started with a speech therapist (found a better one than before).
This is great!
My voice is my main source of dysphoria, it is not the pitch, I am ok with that, but the speech pattern.
Do voice therapists work on that, or only on the pitch? How would one identify a good one? What do I need to look for?
What did you not like with your former therapist?
I would appreciate it very much, if you could tip me of a little!
Enjoy your new voice!
Linde
I went to see my friends new house yesterday in full Molly mode and I got a text from her today saying she pretty much clocked me as a female :D
I actually went shopping as Molly afterwards as well. Another step forwards!
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Quote from: Kendra on December 20, 2018, 12:24:09 PM
My father spontaneously said "your voice sounds different." This is significant as I had VFS in March 2018 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,234768.0.html) and more recently re-started with a speech therapist (found a better one than before).
Yay!!! And you did it without a reminder from me!
I am still surprised that I pass as a woman, but I am starting to accept that. Today, however, I seem to have passed as a young(-ish) woman! :o Wow!
We were in a grocery store, just getting into the checkout line, when a woman who was having trouble with the coffee-grinding machine asked me for help. She might have been a few years older than me, but not by much. She couldn't read the printing on the selector knob and didn't have her glasses with her.
So I peered at the machine and confessed that I couldn't read the dial either. I did, however, have my glasses in my purse, so I put them on, got the dial selected for her, and carried on to the checkout. She said "Thank you, dear." Calling a stranger dear is a lovely Nova Scotia tradition.
She wouldn't have asked a man for help, so she obviously gendered me correctly. And she obviously assumed that I would be able to read tiny print without glasses.
Wow, gotta love HRT!
Quote from: KathyLauren on December 20, 2018, 03:00:51 PM
I am still surprised that I pass as a woman, but I am starting to accept that. Today, however, I seem to have passed as a young(-ish) woman! :o Wow!
We were in a grocery store, just getting into the checkout line, when a woman who was having trouble with the coffee-grinding machine asked me for help. She might have been a few years older than me, but not by much. She couldn't read the printing on the selector knob and didn't have her glasses with her.
So I peered at the machine and confessed that I couldn't read the dial either. I did, however, have my glasses in my purse, so I put them on, got the dial selected for her, and carried on to the checkout. She said "Thank you, dear." Calling a stranger dear is a lovely Nova Scotia tradition.
She wouldn't have asked a man for help, so she obviously gendered me correctly. And she obviously assumed that I would be able to read tiny print without glasses.
Wow, gotta love HRT!
I'm sorry and I know how some people see it but I think getting id'd is the best feeling in the world and I know it doesn't seem like much because it's probably not I'm 38 years old if I get id'd or asked if I'm old enough to buy alcohol or cigarettes I'm happy
This day had it's fair share of problems with the postal services but in the end everything turned out well.
Got enough sleep, got my insurance money, got the new cables I wanted for my computer and got all the clothes I ordered and they all fit quite well.
I think I need to stop buying clothes, running out of wardrobe space :D
I was talking to my mother about my anger issues she fully accept that I am transgender and loves it because it pisses my dad off quite frankly and I told her about my anger issues and she said that's normal in our family and I should expect it because all the women in my family are bitches so her acknowledging in that I am her daughter not her son made me feel great
Quote from: Lynne on December 20, 2018, 03:06:10 PM
This day had it's fair share of problems with the postal services but in the end everything turned out well.
Got enough sleep, got my insurance money, got the new cables I wanted for my computer and got all the clothes I ordered and they all fit quite well.
I think I need to stop buying clothes, running out of wardrobe space :D
There is no such thing as too much clothes it is very hard to make everything match so we need a lot of clothes so we can make sure that every outfit matches LOL and don't forget shoes shoes are important to
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 20, 2018, 03:10:18 PM
There is no such thing as too much clothes it is very hard to make everything match so we need a lot of clothes so we can make sure that every outfit matches LOL and don't forget shoes shoes are important to
Oh, shoes are not forgotten, in fact I had at least 10 pair of shoes even before I first stepped outside presenting as a female almost a decade ago :D
Now I have more shoes than what I can fit in my shoe cabinet so I think I'll need to buy another shoe cabinet and wardrobe too :D
Approved for my L1 visa - Seattle, here I come :)
Especially satisfying as the US Government is going to gender me correctly on all paperwork - no ambiguity in any official records from their perspective :)
Quote from: sophie1904 on December 20, 2018, 03:21:28 PM
Approved for my L1 visa - Seattle, here I come :)
Especially satisfying as the US Government is going to gender me correctly on all paperwork - no ambiguity in any official records from their perspective :)
It's nice when papers are in order, lot of uncomfortable situations can be avoided.
Quote from: Dietlind on December 20, 2018, 01:00:30 PM
This is great!
My voice is my main source of dysphoria, it is not the pitch, I am ok with that, but the speech pattern.
Do voice therapists work on that, or only on the pitch? How would one identify a good one? What do I need to look for?
What did you not like with your former therapist?
I would appreciate it very much, if you could tip me of a little!
Enjoy your new voice!
Linde
I'll make a more detailed post over in the Voice Therapy and Surgery board (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,346.0.html). The quick answer is a speech therapist should help you work on all aspects of voice, and pitch is just one component (although very important). Some have had good results on their own but I just wasn't able to get there without help.
Quote from: NatalieRene on December 19, 2018, 10:42:48 AM
Voice training time. How deep is your voice?
Well, I do know it is way too much sounding like a man.
I can do the higher falsetto ranges but it does not sound genuinely female.
I have not measured my pitch.
So I still have lots of work to do.
But, I will get there. I hope to at least.
I will also review posts in other Voice threads and look at and listen to more videos.
I am looking at the resources mentioned in this thread.
I will continue to practice and try new practice and voice measurement ideas.
Thank you.
Chrissy
just being me
Quote from: Kendra on December 20, 2018, 03:48:59 PM
I'll make a more detailed post over in the Voice Therapy and Surgery board (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,346.0.html). The quick answer is a speech therapist should help you work on all aspects of voice, and pitch is just one component (although very important). Some have had good results on their own but I just wasn't able to get there without help.
Thank you! My natural voice is rather high pitch (low to middle range of female voice range, my singing voice is mezzo soprano), but I have this stupid male speech pattern that I seem not to be able to loose on my own. I need some help for this!
Quote from: Kendra on December 20, 2018, 03:48:59 PM
I'll make a more detailed post over in the Voice Therapy and Surgery board (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,346.0.html). The quick answer is a speech therapist should help you work on all aspects of voice, and pitch is just one component (although very important). Some have had good results on their own but I just wasn't able to get there without help.
I will be sure to read Kendra's post too!
Chrissy
I think estrogen is doing its job on me, at least with my emotions! I used to b the tough guy, who never did cry (not hen my mother, father, sister or best friend died).
Reading through the following story, I just had lots of tears running, so much that I had to stop reading to dry my eyes!
Did I become a cry baby, or do you girls feel similar reading this?
Beautiful True Story
1.
As she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the very first day of school,
she told the children an untruth.
Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved
them all the same.
However, that was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped
in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard.
Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that he
did not play well with the other children, that his clothes were messy
and that he constantly needed a bath.
In addition, Teddy could be unpleasant.
It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually take delight in
marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X's and then
putting a big "F" at the top of his papers.
At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review
each child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last.
However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.
Teddy's first grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with a ready
laugh. He does his work neatly and has good manners.... he is a joy
to be around.."
His second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well
liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a
terminal illness and life at home must be a struggle."
His third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death has been hard on
him. He tries to do his best, but his father doesn't show much interest
and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."
Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't
show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and he
sometimes sleeps in class."
By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed
of herself. She felt even worse when her students brought her
Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper,
except for Teddy's.
His present was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper that he
got from a grocery bag. Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the
middle of the other presents. Some of the children started to laugh
when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones
missing, and a bottle that was one-quarter full of perfume..
But she stifled the children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty
the bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing some of the perfume on
her wrist.
Teddy Stoddard stayed after school that day just long enough to say,
"Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mom used to."
After the children left, she cried for at least an hour.
On that very day, she quit teaching reading, writing and arithmetic.
Instead, she began to teach children. Mrs. Thompson paid particular
attention to Teddy. As she worked with him, his mind seemed to
come alive.
The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the end
of the year, Teddy had become one of the smartest children in the
class and, despite her lie that she would love all the children the
same, Teddy became one of her "teacher's pets."
A year later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling
her that she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.
Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He
then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class, and
she was still the best teacher he ever had in life.
Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things
had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it,
and would soon graduate from college with the highest of honors.
He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and favorite
teacher he had ever had in his whole life.
Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This
time he explained that after he got his bachelor's degree, he
decided to go a little further. The letter explained that she was still
the best and favorite teacher he ever had. But now his name was a
little longer.... The letter was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, MD.
The story does not end there. You see, there was yet another
letter that Spring. Teddy said he had met this girl and was going
to be married.
He explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and
he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit at the
wedding in the place that was usually reserved for the mother
of the groom.
Of course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She wore that
bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. Moreover,
she made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy
remembered his mother wearing on their last Christmas together.
They hugged each other, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs.
Thompson's ear, "Thank you Mrs. Thompson for believing in me.
Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing
me that I could make a difference."
Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back.
She said, "Teddy, you have it all wrong. You were the one who
taught me that I could make a difference. I didn't know how to
teach until I met you! ."
(For those of you who don't know, Teddy Stoddard is the Dr
at Iowa Methodist in Des Moines that has the Stoddard
Cancer Wing.)
Warm someone's heart today. . . pass this along.
Random acts of kindness, I think they call it?
put my first estrogen patch on today!! Interesting to see my estradot patches are 'made in USA' I was expecting some kind of generic local made stuff like the cyproterone (I'm in NZ)
So exciting!
Sonja.
Quote from: Sonja on December 21, 2018, 03:07:28 AM
put my first estrogen patch on today!! Interesting to see my estradot patches are 'made in USA' I was expecting some kind of generic local made stuff like the cyproterone (I'm in NZ)
So exciting!
Sonja.
The reason for this could be the size of the market! If the market is to small to support local production, it makes sense to source stuff from the outside. Furthermore, most, if not all patch material and skin adhesive is made by a very few US companies only (our labs developed the transdermal delivery systems), and it makes sense to finish the product in the US, and ship it to smaller markets.
Good luck with your HRT regime, and may you have better visible results than I have!
Linde
My younger brother is currently incarcerated and has been for the past four and a half years and I wrote him a month or two ago I haven't talked to him in 20 years and I just got a letter in the mail from him telling me that he loves me and accepts me wants to know about my transitioning wants pictures I was having a really really rough day but that just made my day amazing
My best female friend and I went to the Music Walk in Fort Myers today. We had a good time and listened to some great music. After this we went to Joe's Shrimp Shack , and had a delicious seafood dinner.
I was not misgendered a single time, not even by a pre-teenager girl at the next table who asked me "ma'm, would you mind if I pass through here"!
We had a good time and delicious food!
Life is good!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 20, 2018, 04:52:12 PM
Did I become a cry baby, or do you girls feel similar reading this?
Beautiful True Story
1.
As she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the very first day of school,
she told the children an untruth.
Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved
them all the same.
However, that was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped
in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard.
.
.
.
Warm someone's heart today. . . pass this along.
Random acts of kindness, I think they call it?
Hi Linde, 21 December 2018
Loved the story, and yes I had tears running down my face. The story kind of reminded me of a little boy that was in a school run by Catholic Nuns. They had their favorites and if you weren't one of them you faced the wrath of the devil every day. That little boy was me and I hated every second I had to spend in their institutions of torture. It's amazing what a little kindness can produce. Had Mrs. Thompson ignored Teddy's plight there would be no Doctor Stoddard or a Stoddard Cancer wing. It took years to see the results from her kindness, which makes me believe those small acts are extremely important to humanity.
Thanks for the wonderful story Linde.
Wishing you, your family and friends a Blessed Christmas and New Year.
Best Always, Love
Christine
Quote from: Dietlind on December 20, 2018, 04:52:12 PM
I think estrogen is doing its job on me, at least with my emotions! I used to b the tough guy, who never did cry (not hen my mother, father, sister or best friend died).
Reading through the following story, I just had lots of tears running, so much that I had to stop reading to dry my eyes!
Did I become a cry baby, or do you girls feel similar reading this?
Beautiful True Story
1.
As she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the very first day of school,
she told the children an untruth.
Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved
them all the same.
However, that was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped
in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard.
Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that he
did not play well with the other children, that his clothes were messy
and that he constantly needed a bath.
In addition, Teddy could be unpleasant.
It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually take delight in
marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X's and then
putting a big "F" at the top of his papers.
At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review
each child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last.
However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.
Teddy's first grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with a ready
laugh. He does his work neatly and has good manners.... he is a joy
to be around.."
His second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well
liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a
terminal illness and life at home must be a struggle."
His third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death has been hard on
him. He tries to do his best, but his father doesn't show much interest
and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."
Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't
show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and he
sometimes sleeps in class."
By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed
of herself. She felt even worse when her students brought her
Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper,
except for Teddy's.
His present was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper that he
got from a grocery bag. Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the
middle of the other presents. Some of the children started to laugh
when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones
missing, and a bottle that was one-quarter full of perfume..
But she stifled the children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty
the bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing some of the perfume on
her wrist.
Teddy Stoddard stayed after school that day just long enough to say,
"Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mom used to."
After the children left, she cried for at least an hour.
On that very day, she quit teaching reading, writing and arithmetic.
Instead, she began to teach children. Mrs. Thompson paid particular
attention to Teddy. As she worked with him, his mind seemed to
come alive.
The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the end
of the year, Teddy had become one of the smartest children in the
class and, despite her lie that she would love all the children the
same, Teddy became one of her "teacher's pets."
A year later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling
her that she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.
Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He
then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class, and
she was still the best teacher he ever had in life.
Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things
had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it,
and would soon graduate from college with the highest of honors.
He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and favorite
teacher he had ever had in his whole life.
Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This
time he explained that after he got his bachelor's degree, he
decided to go a little further. The letter explained that she was still
the best and favorite teacher he ever had. But now his name was a
little longer.... The letter was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, MD.
The story does not end there. You see, there was yet another
letter that Spring. Teddy said he had met this girl and was going
to be married.
He explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and
he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit at the
wedding in the place that was usually reserved for the mother
of the groom.
Of course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She wore that
bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. Moreover,
she made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy
remembered his mother wearing on their last Christmas together.
They hugged each other, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs.
Thompson's ear, "Thank you Mrs. Thompson for believing in me.
Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing
me that I could make a difference."
Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back.
She said, "Teddy, you have it all wrong. You were the one who
taught me that I could make a difference. I didn't know how to
teach until I met you! ."
(For those of you who don't know, Teddy Stoddard is the Dr
at Iowa Methodist in Des Moines that has the Stoddard
Cancer Wing.)
Warm someone's heart today. . . pass this along.
Random acts of kindness, I think they call it?
I don't know if it's as much random acts of kindness but yes this story has me crying like a baby
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 19, 2018, 10:49:25 PM
I don't mind the cost as my insurance would cover it if I really wanted it I just don't care what people think
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Guess I need to look into that.
Hello Christine and Arianna, I am glad to hear that I am not the only softy around here. Like many of us, i was raised with the believe that real men don't cry, and I never cried when I was a "real" man, which I, of course never was, and thus overcompensated for my man thing. I never cried!
It is so reliving for me that I am finally able to cry, to let my feelings out to come to the light of the day, respectively, allow my tears to run.
Being able to cry and to show my feelings openly, is for me one of he nicest experiences of being a woman!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 22, 2018, 07:26:03 AM
Hello Christine and Arianna, I am glad to hear that I am not the only softy around here. Like many of us, i was raised with the believe that real men don't cry, and I never cried when I was a "real" man, which I, of course never was, and thus overcompensated for my man thing. I never cried!
It is so reliving for me that I am finally able to cry, to let my feelings out to come to the light of the day, respectively, allow my tears to run.
Being able to cry and to show my feelings openly, is for me one of he nicest experiences of being a woman!
You are definitely not the only softy here :) I could always cry if I let myself but life thought me early that boys don't cry so I learned to control it and I usually cried at home or somewhere others didn't see or hear me. Something that I still have some problems with is letting the control go even when it would be more beneficial to just show my feelings.
Plucking my eyebrows this morning... I would pluck more but it's already thin. It's just so soothing
Quote from: Allison S on December 22, 2018, 08:17:22 AM
Plucking my eyebrows this morning... I would pluck more but it's already thin. It's just so soothing
You can get one of those grooming kits to cut the length of them down to help with it. :)
Why didn't you girl just become intersex, and not worry about all that hair stuff, etc. I don't have to plug my eyebrows, i wish I would have more of them!
As a side question, doesn't it hurt when you are plugging all those different hairs on you poor bodies?
Quote from: NatalieRene on December 22, 2018, 08:34:08 AM
You can get one of those grooming kits to cut the length of them down to help with it. :)
Thanks, yeah I trim my eyebrows with very small scissors that usually come in those kits. I just felt like I could use more of an arch to feminize my face :)
Quote from: Dietlind on December 22, 2018, 08:48:12 AM
Why didn't you girl just become intersex, and not worry about all that hair stuff, etc. I don't have to plug my eyebrows, i wish I would have more of them!
As a side question, doesn't it hurt when you are plugging all those different hairs on you poor bodies?
Oh, how does someone become intersex? I'm okay with estrogen for now, but I definitely do want an orchiectomy. If I'm not already, I'm not sure how I could choose to be intersex. That would be cool though! Sounds nice to now have much body hair your whole life?
Quote from: KathyLauren on December 20, 2018, 03:00:51 PM
I am still surprised that I pass as a woman, but I am starting to accept that. Today, however, I seem to have passed as a young(-ish) woman! :o Wow!
We were in a grocery store, just getting into the checkout line, when a woman who was having trouble with the coffee-grinding machine asked me for help. She might have been a few years older than me, but not by much. She couldn't read the printing on the selector knob and didn't have her glasses with her.
So I peered at the machine and confessed that I couldn't read the dial either. I did, however, have my glasses in my purse, so I put them on, got the dial selected for her, and carried on to the checkout. She said "Thank you, dear." Calling a stranger dear is a lovely Nova Scotia tradition.
She wouldn't have asked a man for help, so she obviously gendered me correctly. And she obviously assumed that I would be able to read tiny print without glasses.
Wow, gotta love HRT!
That's cool.
I get a "miss" rather than "ma'am" every now and then.
Had a similar "did I just pass" the other day.
Ordered my grandson's rather expensive
Christmas present on line with in store pick up. Says you need the confirmation email and your ID to pick it up. Guess I looked enough like a "Tonya" that I was not asked for my ID.
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I just picked my outfit for Christmas Eve, so glad I bought these clothes, I love them. I just need to paint my nails to match the pantyhose I selected. I wonder if my father will recognize me when he visits :D
Quote from: Lynne on December 22, 2018, 02:11:36 PM
I just picked my outfit for Christmas Eve, so glad I bought these clothes, I love them. I just need to paint my nails to match the pantyhose I selected. I wonder if my father will recognize me when he visits :D
Lynne,
I think that when your father visits you, that your father will love seeing and spending time with his daughter. I am hopeful that this the way it will turn out for you.
Chrissy
Quote from: Allison S on December 22, 2018, 10:13:03 AM
Oh, how does someone become intersex? I'm okay with estrogen for now, but I definitely do want an orchiectomy. If I'm not already, I'm not sure how I could choose to be intersex. That would be cool though! Sounds nice to now have much body hair your whole life?
It is rather simple, just get born again by a mother who had hormonal problems during the first three months of pregnancy. :P :angel:
When you are a teenager, who was assigned to be male, and don't look much like your peers, and can't do all those rough things, it stinks to be intersex.
When you are an adult and want to become MtF, it is great to be intersex, because you are already there by more than 2/3!
If you want to remain to be a guy, it still stinks to be that way!
I am just back from a nice outing. I went to a Meetup brunchen for LGBTQIA persons, and had a chance to mingle a little bit with others. I was the only intersex and trans person there, but it was interesting to talk with some rather (according to their statement) radical lesbians. They feel it is stupid to exclude trans women, because women have to stick together, no matter what their history is. At the end the two pretty assertive lesbian women I talked with hugged me really a lot and likes our conversation!
I felt good to be there.
After that I went some shopping and was at three different store and in two ladies rooms, and I was not misgendered the entire morning. No problems with the bath room visits either!
My hair is a little longer now, and I can make a semi female looking hair do with it, I think that helps a lot. And I was able to talk the entire day in my natural voice without slipping into the male pattern that plagues me all the time!
I think I can do it for good with a little more training!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 22, 2018, 03:22:13 PM
I am just back from a nice outing. I went to a Meetup brunchen for LGBTQIA persons, and had a chance to mingle a little bit with others. I was the only intersex and trans person there, but it was interesting to talk with some rather (according to their statement) radical lesbians. They feel it is stupid to exclude trans women, because women have to stick together, no matter what their history is. At the end the two pretty assertive lesbian women I talked with hugged me really a lot and likes our conversation!
I felt good to be there.
After that I went some shopping and was at three different store and in two ladies rooms, and I was not misgendered the entire morning. No problems with the bath room visits either!
My hair is a little longer now, and I can make a semi female looking hair do with it, I think that helps a lot. And I was able to talk the entire day in my natural voice without slipping into the male pattern that plagues me all the time!
I think I can do it for good with a little more training!
Linde,
It sounds as if you had a nice time! Great!
Chrissy
My oldest nephew and niece invited me over to their house for dinner a very nice pork loin that my nephew cooked and my niece said I smelled beautiful talking about the perfume that I am wearing
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 22, 2018, 06:42:45 PM
My oldest nephew and niece invited me over to their house for dinner a very nice pork loin that my nephew cooked and my niece said I smelled beautiful talking about the perfume that I am wearing
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
That sounds as if you had a really nice time with the kids!
I am missing this, I am alone here. My son and his spouse are in Minnesota, and they don't want kids.
Quote from: Dietlind on December 22, 2018, 06:58:55 PM
That sounds as if you had a really nice time with the kids!
I am missing this, I am alone here. My son and his spouse are in Minnesota, and they don't want kids.
Aww well you're always welcome to come up and spend time with my family just steer clear of my father and my youngest nephew and all will be well LOL
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 22, 2018, 07:33:05 PM
Aww well you're always welcome to come up and spend time with my family just steer clear of my father and my youngest nephew and all will be well LOL
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
How about you come down where it is warm. Actually pretty cool currently. I have become a freeze baby! The inside my house is a 70, and I am sitting here with a sweater and a down vest on. I refuse to turn the heat on at 70, it is supposed to warm up to the mid 80 again the net few days. Up north I kept my house at 65 in the winter.!
And I have nobody who is not nice to trans people. All my cis women friends are very supportive and want me to become as female as it gets. Trans heaven here!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 22, 2018, 08:24:28 PM
How about you come down where it is warm. Actually pretty cool currently. I have become a freeze baby! The inside my house is a 70, and I am sitting here with a sweater and a down vest on. I refuse to turn the heat on at 70, it is supposed to warm up to the mid 80 again the net few days. Up north I kept my house at 65 in the winter.!
And I have nobody who is not nice to trans people. All my cis women friends are very supportive and want me to become as female as it gets. Trans heaven here!
You and me have very different ideas of cool weather for me cold is somewhere around 32 degrees you know freezing quite literally 70° it sounds like a spring day here I could walk around in a two-piece bikini in 70 degrees and be perfectly comfortable I might have to take you up on that offer to come down there LOL my place actually the temperature stays in the winter around 68 degrees
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 22, 2018, 08:49:45 PM
You and me have very different ideas of cool weather for me cold is somewhere around 32 degrees you know freezing quite literally 70° it sounds like a spring day here I could walk around in a two-piece bikini in 70 degrees and be perfectly comfortable I might have to take you up on that offer to come down there LOL my place actually the temperature stays in the winter around 68 degrees
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
We got that cold spell down here, and it was only 74 today. People were afraid that the birds may fall out of the sky frozen to death with those extremely low temps! Everybody was running around in knit hats and warm stuff. Each time a person with a t-shirt and shorts, and with Flipflops on, could be seen, was for sure a snowbird from up north!
Quote from: Dietlind on December 22, 2018, 09:27:36 PM
We got that cold spell down here, and it was only 74 today. People were afraid that the birds may fall out of the sky frozen to death with those extremely low temps! Everybody was running around in knit hats and warm stuff. Each time a person with a t-shirt and shorts, and with Flipflops on, could be seen, was for sure a snowbird from up north!
Yes we are used to cold weather up here we do get things like snow ice rain Frost in the morning
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
Quote from: Dietlind on December 22, 2018, 09:27:36 PM
We got that cold spell down here, and it was only 74 today. People were afraid that the birds may fall out of the sky frozen to death with those extremely low temps! Everybody was running around in knit hats and warm stuff. Each time a person with a t-shirt and shorts, and with Flipflops on, could be seen, was for sure a snowbird from up north!
95 degrees today on the thermometer and 75% humidity. Perfect weather for a Christmas roast!
Yours sweatingly, Kirsten
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I just got back today from Buenos Aires. I spent the last couple weeks there for work. For the first time in 35 years of being a consultant, I went, and was, in female mode 24x7. I had been quite worried about my personal safety, about a woman leading a large critical project staffed by a bunch of Latin American men, and about how I would be treated as a transgender woman.
As it turned out, I needn't have worried on any count. I had co-workers with me at all times, and felt very safe. The Latin American men were desperate for my help, and treated me like the expert they had been told was coming. And, on the possible transgender issues, I don't know that I pass at all, but in more than two weeks, not one single person from LatAm mis-gendered me even one time. Every service person, hotel person, restaurant person, customer, everyone called me "madam" and "she/her." It was perhaps the most affirming two weeks of my entire life. Certainly the best two work weeks of my life. (And, perhaps I pass better than I thought. I don't know how to tell the difference between actually passing, and just really polite people. Maybe I don't care... )
Considering my initial trepidation, I am surprised to say that Argentina might be the most woman-friendly, trans-friendly country I have ever been in.
Kate
Quote from: KatieP on December 22, 2018, 11:55:04 PM
I just got back today from Buenos Aires. I spent the last couple weeks there for work. For the first time in 35 years of being a consultant, I went, and was, in female mode 24x7. I had been quite worried about my personal safety, about a woman leading a large critical project staffed by a bunch of Latin American men, and about how I would be treated as a transgender woman.
As it turned out, I needn't have worried on any count. I had co-workers with me at all times, and felt very safe. The Latin American men were desperate for my help, and treated me like the expert they had been told was coming. And, on the possible transgender issues, I don't know that I pass at all, but in more than two weeks, not one single person from LatAm mis-gendered me even one time. Every service person, hotel person, restaurant person, customer, everyone called me "madam" and "she/her." It was perhaps the most affirming two weeks of my entire life. Certainly the best two work weeks of my life. (And, perhaps I pass better than I thought. I don't know how to tell the difference between actually passing, and just really polite people. Maybe I don't care... )
Considering my initial trepidation, I am surprised to say that Argentina might be the most woman-friendly, trans-friendly country I have ever been in.
Kate
That sounds wonderful! These times make all the hassle of transitioning worth it.
Argentina seems quite trans-friendly, from 2012 they can change gender and birth name without the approval of a doctor or a judge. HRT and GCS are provided for free as well.
@KatieP
Hey Kate,
That sounds awesome, great to have such an affirming experience!
Have a Merry Christmas!
Sonja.
Learned grs and related surgeries and all options if deemed medically necessary due to gd are covered by health plan. One catch they follow older gatekeeper wpath standards. Though my hrt has been covered with no issues so far under ic. Unfortunately this gatekeeper precertification can out me to several friends and old colleagues at a former employer. Precert is done by former employer. I see this as a conflict of interest.
Today I visited with my son, took him to services at our Unitarian Universalist Church, where he met the minister and some of my friends, and later went out for brunch.
It was a nice day.
Hi all! I just came out to my sister.. well, except it turns out she already knew and she has been dying to tell me how much she supports me :D
I mean, I should probably be upset that my mother broke and told her before I got the chance (almost 6 months ago, way before I even started on hormones! I can't believe no one told me she knew. It's like a damned Sitcom, everyone knowing and no one saying a word lol), buuut I am just really happy with how wonderful she is.
She told me 'there's so many things that makes sense now', and is there anything more affirming than hearing your loved ones tell you that? I figured she'd probably be supportive, but it's still suuper hard to come out to your loved ones. Anyway, she's amazing and seems genuinely happy for me (and she's always wanted a sister, so yay!).
I love you sis. <3
Quote from: Anastasia E on December 24, 2018, 06:33:08 AM
Hi all! I just came out to my sister.. well, except it turns out she already knew and she has been dying to tell me how much she supports me :D
I mean, I should probably be upset that my mother broke and told her before I got the chance (almost 6 months ago, way before I even started on hormones! I can't believe no one told me she knew. It's like a damned Sitcom, everyone knowing and no one saying a word lol), buuut I am just really happy with how wonderful she is.
She told me 'there's so many things that makes sense now', and is there anything more affirming than hearing your loved ones tell you that? I figured she'd probably be supportive, but it's still suuper hard to come out to your loved ones. Anyway, she's amazing and seems genuinely happy for me (and she's always wanted a sister, so yay!).
I love you sis. <3
Yeah! So happy for you.
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on December 22, 2018, 02:20:38 PM
Lynne,
I think that when your father visits you, that your father will love seeing and spending time with his daughter. I am hopeful that this the way it will turn out for you.
Chrissy
Thank you!
I spent a lot of time preparing my nails, hair and makeup today morning and it was totally worth it, they work great together with the outfit I picked. I need to stop at the mirror every time on my way to the kitchen to check myself out, feeling fabulous :)
My father left a few hours ago and while I still cannot be sure if he thinks of me as her daughter, there wasn't any type of misgendering from him today. He's also seen with his own eyes that I pass in the eyes of others when two beggars approached us in the parking lot.
We had a great time chatting, dining and listening to music together.
Yay!
A great early Christmas gift for you! I hope for your father too.
Chrissy
Quote from: Anastasia E on December 24, 2018, 06:33:08 AM
Hi all! I just came out to my sister.. well, except it turns out she already knew and she has been dying to tell me how much she supports me :D
I mean, I should probably be upset that my mother broke and told her before I got the chance (almost 6 months ago, way before I even started on hormones! I can't believe no one told me she knew. It's like a damned Sitcom, everyone knowing and no one saying a word lol), buuut I am just really happy with how wonderful she is.
She told me 'there's so many things that makes sense now', and is there anything more affirming than hearing your loved ones tell you that? I figured she'd probably be supportive, but it's still suuper hard to come out to your loved ones. Anyway, she's amazing and seems genuinely happy for me (and she's always wanted a sister, so yay!).
I love you sis. <3
Yay, indeed :) Coming out to people who matter to us is probably the hardest thing in the process, I'm really happy you found so much support in your family.
Quote from: Anastasia E on December 24, 2018, 06:33:08 AM
Hi all! I just came out to my sister.. well, except it turns out she already knew and she has been dying to tell me how much she supports me :D
I mean, I should probably be upset that my mother broke and told her before I got the chance (almost 6 months ago, way before I even started on hormones! I can't believe no one told me she knew. It's like a damned Sitcom, everyone knowing and no one saying a word lol), buuut I am just really happy with how wonderful she is.
She told me 'there's so many things that makes sense now', and is there anything more affirming than hearing your loved ones tell you that? I figured she'd probably be supportive, but it's still suuper hard to come out to your loved ones. Anyway, she's amazing and seems genuinely happy for me (and she's always wanted a sister, so yay!).
I love you sis. <3
This is a amazing news congratulations and I know how you feel about everybody else knowing when you just tell one person the same thing happened with my sister-in-law she told my brother my nephew's my niece my great nephews so it it has a snowball effect but it did make my job a whole lot easier when I did tell them so that's one way I look at it I am glad that your sister support you that is truly amazing news congratulations and Merry Christmas
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
I random guy referred to me as miss and proceeded to ask me for a dollar. I only get miss when they want something lol
Quote from: Allison S on December 24, 2018, 03:57:17 PM
I random guy referred to me as miss and proceeded to ask me for a dollar. I only get miss when they want something lol
I think that goes with the sane flattery will get you everywhere LOL
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
Quote from: Allison S on December 24, 2018, 03:57:17 PM
I random guy referred to me as miss and proceeded to ask me for a dollar. I only get miss when they want something lol
At least you get called miss, when they see me they probably would say, old hag!
Merry Christmas!
One of my female friends got me a new Victoria's Secret bra for me for Christmas ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
I hope you like the bra and that it fits.
Quote from: RetroTS on December 25, 2018, 05:51:10 PM
One of my female friends got me a new Victoria's Secret bra for me for Christmas ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
You will never find a better feeling better cloth or softer bra they are an amazing congratulations
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
Being told I would be a GRANNY again by my eldest , but he said GRANNY!!
Quote from: davina61 on December 26, 2018, 09:49:49 AM
Being told I would be a GRANNY again by my eldest , but he said GRANNY!!
That is amazing news congratulations granny LOL
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
Quote from: davina61 on December 26, 2018, 09:49:49 AM
Being told I would be a GRANNY again by my eldest , but he said GRANNY!!
Congratulations Davina!!
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Quote from: davina61 on December 26, 2018, 09:49:49 AM
Being told I would be a GRANNY again by my eldest , but he said GRANNY!!
Congrats! How do you feel about it?
I might never be either a grandpa, nor a granny, because my only son and his spouse do not want to have kids!
It's a couple of days late but I think about it everyday and it makes me feel good so I went to pick up my father from the hospital on Christmas Eve and I walked up to the floor and I talk to his nurse and I said well I'm here to pick up my father and gave his name they said oh I'm sorry we're waiting on his son to come and pick him up I had to tell the guy that I was his son and he actually made me go into my dad's room with him just to verify that I was his son LOL that made me feel so good
§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 26, 2018, 12:45:27 PM
he actually made me go into my dad's room with him just to verify that I was his son LOL that made me feel so good
That is SO cool! ;D
Today, for the first time ever in my life, I put my hair in a ponytail. My hair is about 10 inches long now. Seriously I have NEVER done it and wanted to for as long as I can remember. It's the small things, but it made me happy. ;D pink tie of course! lol
Quote from: VickyS on December 28, 2018, 10:53:39 AM
That is SO cool! ;D
Today, for the first time ever in my life, I put my hair in a ponytail. My hair is about 10 inches long now. Seriously I have NEVER done it and wanted to for as long as I can remember. It's the small things, but it made me happy. ;D pink tie of course! lol
I am waiting really desperately for the moment I can do this!
My first ever was, I bought my first knee high boots with a 3 inch heel on! I am all excited to wear them, and now the stupid weather here is climbing back into the mid 80's. I would look silly wearing those boots with shorts!
Got called MISS at the supermarket checkout, saw my niece and youngest nephew and got big hugs. Sister came to work with me for "interview" as to why on sick leave, gave area manager some stick!!!! Thanks for the back up.
What made me happy? Going of HRT because my GRS is in 2 weeks!
Quote from: Yuusui on December 28, 2018, 02:27:14 PM
What made me happy? Going of HRT because my GRS is in 2 weeks!
HA!
Very fun!! And, CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Kate
I decided to treat myself out to eat today and went to a nice barbecue restaurant was sitting there playing on my phone waiting for my lunch to arrive when I get tapped on the shoulder somebody set a piece of paper down next to me and said this is for you so I'm thinking to myself okay this can't be good so I look at the paper it's a note turns out the person that tapped me on the shoulder was that a trans guy and him and his girlfriend live in the same area I do which is the first that I know of and are interested in hanging out with me and he gave me his phone number on the piece of paper and apologize if the note seemed creepy but he didn't want to out me in case I wasn't already out that made me feel so good finding somebody in my area just like me or with similar experiences but it kind of made me feel bad that I was able to be spotted so easily
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Quote from: VickyS on December 28, 2018, 10:53:39 AM
That is SO cool! ;D
Today, for the first time ever in my life, I put my hair in a ponytail. My hair is about 10 inches long now. Seriously I have NEVER done it and wanted to for as long as I can remember. It's the small things, but it made me happy. ;D pink tie of course! lol
Yeah the tie has to be pink it's like the most important part and you are so lucky that your hair is so long I'm still waiting for my hair to grow out it's only about seven or eight in right now and thank you very much for the wonderful comment
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 30, 2018, 01:40:46 AM
I decided to treat myself out to eat today and went to a nice barbecue restaurant was sitting there playing on my phone waiting for my lunch to arrive when I get tapped on the shoulder somebody set a piece of paper down next to me and said this is for you so I'm thinking to myself okay this can't be good so I look at the paper it's a note turns out the person that tapped me on the shoulder was that a trans guy and him and his girlfriend live in the same area I do which is the first that I know of and are interested in hanging out with me and he gave me his phone number on the piece of paper and apologize if the note seemed creepy but he didn't want to out me in case I wasn't already out that made me feel so good finding somebody in my area just like me or with similar experiences but it kind of made me feel bad that I was able to be spotted so easily
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Finding someone else to talk to is great! Oh and don't worry hun. Unlike the muggles. Who are often oblivious in their own world. I've noticed those in the family have like super spidey sense for other family members.
Quote from: Jaime320 on December 30, 2018, 06:01:46 AM
Finding someone else to talk to is great! Oh and don't worry hun. Unlike the muggles. Who are often oblivious in their own world. I've noticed those in the family have like super spidey sense for other family members.
Well that is actually really good to hear because everybody else was calling me miss that day and now the only person that noticed me pretty much
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 30, 2018, 01:41:46 AM
Yeah the tie has to be pink it's like the most important part and you are so lucky that your hair is so long I'm still waiting for my hair to grow out it's only about seven or eight in right now and thank you very much for the wonderful comment
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If I would try a pony tail, it would be about 1/4 inch longs! I am waiting for the day that my hair covers my ears!
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 30, 2018, 11:35:04 AM
Well that is actually really good to hear because everybody else was calling me miss that day and now the only person that noticed me pretty much
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Arianna,
That is terrific!
How is your father doing?
Chrissy
Quote from: Dietlind on December 30, 2018, 01:35:34 PM
If I would try a pony tail, it would be about 1/4 inch longs! I am waiting for the day that my hair covers my ears!
My hair covers my ears but is way to thick for a pony tail lol
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Quote from: ChrissyRyan on December 30, 2018, 01:55:58 PM
Arianna,
That is terrific!
How is your father doing?
Chrissy
He is good thank you hes at the nursing home doing rehab
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My Ex did send me an email wishing me a Happy New Year.
she continued:
I hope 2019 is good year for you. The path you are on is not an easy one. I will help you with it as much as I can!
Quote from: Dietlind on January 02, 2019, 11:56:32 AM
My Ex did send me an email wishing me a Happy New Year.
she continued:
I hope 2019 is good year for you. The path you are on is not an easy one. I will help you with it as much as I can!
Linde,
It is nice that she is thinking of you.
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on January 02, 2019, 12:06:22 PM
Linde,
It is nice that she is thinking of you.
Chrissy
Yes, this gives me a real boost for my emotions!
Spending my Christmas money (gifts) on clothes!! 2 skirts, a sleeveless top that will be great for summer in the sales and an other top (M&S) in a charity shop
I had an amazing new year's eve. A girl started flirting with me and we ended up kissing at midnight. She kept getting closer to me and then putting her hands on my lap, and finally holding my hand. It was so obvious from the start, but I love watching things unfold. Then, we made plans to see each other more. She's a total cutie. Can't wait to see her again. ^-^
Quote from: Yuusui on December 28, 2018, 02:27:14 PM
What made me happy? Going of HRT because my GRS is in 2 weeks!
So happy for you.
2019 will be a great yr for you.
And i hope all of us as well.
AJ
Quote from: SiobhánF on January 02, 2019, 03:29:39 PM
I had an amazing new year's eve. A girl started flirting with me and we ended up kissing at midnight. She kept getting closer to me and then putting her hands on my lap, and finally holding my hand. It was so obvious from the start, but I love watching things unfold. Then, we made plans to see each other more. She's a total cutie. Can't wait to see her again. ^-^
2019 seem to start on the right foot for you!
Good luck with the girl!
My brother reimburse me for the money I spent to buy my dad a cell phone while he's in the hospital then I had a job interview today was told that I was perfect for the job and I have a second interview tomorrow and I had a little extra money so I was able to go to the Goodwill and pick up a few shirts dresses and pairs of pants
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Sounds like your year is starting out great.
Quote from: SiobhánF on January 02, 2019, 03:29:39 PM
I had an amazing new year's eve. A girl started flirting with me and we ended up kissing at midnight. She kept getting closer to me and then putting her hands on my lap, and finally holding my hand. It was so obvious from the start, but I love watching things unfold. Then, we made plans to see each other more. She's a total cutie. Can't wait to see her again. ^-^
Wonderful!
Chrissy
Hi everyone, my last post was in july. A lot of things happened since then. I've had my name change, found a good job, began estrogen and will have my 2 recommendations for vagino next week. The most important thing is that my children accept me as a woman and they were with me for 1 week during holidays. I am very proud of all the road I've made since my suicide attempt march 2017. I will live my life to the fullest and be myself. Here are some pictures of me [emoji4](https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190105/f91f40ba3c48c840d43154076ff3c031.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190105/90c7345a8b1d02cb45771501a5e59a18.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190105/ea5c3ed009f5c45995f28e0e1fa3ad45.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190105/619c3d7f5e95a0713ca06e6bd5d84212.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190105/b62d4c750d8fb648557ad631a45be3ed.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190105/767631f7395438301b32e6f0db03ab06.jpg)
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Quote from: Sabrina Hope on January 05, 2019, 01:33:14 AM
Great update, sister. You've come a long way in a short amount of time... Keep it up ☺
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You look like a million dollars.
Don't know what you are doing but keep it up.
Glad things are going good with your children.
AJ
Quote from: Sabrina Hope on January 05, 2019, 01:33:14 AM
Hi everyone, my last post was in july. A lot of things happened since then. I've had my name change, found a good job, began estrogen and will have my 2 recommendations for vagino next week. The most important thing is that my children accept me as a woman and they were with me for 1 week during holidays. I am very proud of all the road I've made since my suicide attempt march 2017. I will live my life to the fullest and be myself. Here are some pictures of me [emoji4](https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190105/f91f40ba3c48c840d43154076ff3c031.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190105/90c7345a8b1d02cb45771501a5e59a18.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190105/ea5c3ed009f5c45995f28e0e1fa3ad45.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190105/619c3d7f5e95a0713ca06e6bd5d84212.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190105/b62d4c750d8fb648557ad631a45be3ed.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190105/767631f7395438301b32e6f0db03ab06.jpg)
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Congratulations on all the good fortune you are a beautiful woman
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What made me happy today??
My wife has her smile back......
Had a headache but went out anyway. Sitting at a new piano bar for dinner right now. Just wish some of the girls could've joined.
Well this may sound like a bad thing to be happy about and I was really really depressed about it before but my Dad's getting closer to the end and I'm choosing to be happy for him because he's dealing with COPD and can't even take a bite of food without running out of are & I went out and got a job and showed my dad that I have a job and I will be able to take care of myself and that I will be okay and I ended up making my older brother cry because my job gave me a $20,000 life insurance policy for signing up with them and I named him as a beneficiary and I told him that he was the beneficiary he's ex-military drill sergeant he don't cry but I heard his voice cracking so all in all despite it being a busy day today it was the best day ever
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Congrats Arianna! Let the good times start! What do you sell?
Quote from: Dietlind on January 09, 2019, 09:41:04 PM
Congrats Arianna! Let the good times start! What do you sell?
Pretty much everything except for weapons I work at a Gas Station Circle K(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190110/e1329c7dda73d06b08aba0365ae26034.jpg)
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on January 09, 2019, 09:42:36 PM
Pretty much everything except for weapons I work at a Gas Station Circle K(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190110/e1329c7dda73d06b08aba0365ae26034.jpg)
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Thanks! I don't know that chain. I hope you like your new job, and have fun doing it!
Quote from: Dietlind on January 09, 2019, 09:50:20 PM
Thanks! I don't know that chain. I hope you like your new job, and have fun doing it!
I'm sure I will and I am pushing the try to hit management somewhere down the line
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on January 09, 2019, 09:53:23 PM
I'm sure I will and I am pushing the try to hit management somewhere down the line
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Setting a goal is always good. You have something to work towards!
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on January 09, 2019, 09:42:36 PM
Pretty much everything except for weapons I work at a Gas Station Circle K
Pssst that's the fri/sat night midnight special deals only. You'll learn that after the others get used to you.
I had my first electrolysis session today and...it wasn't as bad as I feared from reading some of the horror stories. Even the upper lip was tolerable. :)
Thanks for all the words of wisdom about cream, ibuprofen, staying hydrated. It seemed to work.
BTW, any post-electrolysis tips for getting the treated area hydrated and treated?
I had the last laser treatment for my face, removing discolored spots on my skin (sun damage), followed by a mircroabbrasion. If I continue with this stuff, i might end up as Miss World in about 100 to 150 years!
Quote from: Dietlind on January 18, 2019, 03:36:07 PM
I had the last laser treatment for my face, removing discolored spots on my skin (sun damage), followed by a mircroabbrasion. If I continue with this stuff, i might end up as Miss World in about 100 to 150 years!
;):laugh: ;D
Ah the joys of modern aesthetics. Maybe soon replicas and body swaps will be possible, or cracking the genetic code for longevity.
Quote from: sarahc on January 18, 2019, 03:32:54 PM
I had my first electrolysis session today and...it wasn't as bad as I feared from reading some of the horror stories. Even the upper lip was tolerable. :)
Thanks for all the words of wisdom about cream, ibuprofen, staying hydrated. It seemed to work.
BTW, any post-electrolysis tips for getting the treated area hydrated and treated?
@sarahc
Yeah it's not so bad. Just had first laser yesterday and it's a bit tougher in a few spots day after. I have a 2-3 hour electrolysis session coming up in two weeks. My longest yet. Considering going for an 8 hr session next month. Recovery is fairly quick for both so far.
I'm at a stage where this last month, I'm always crossdressed whenever I'm at home. This dressing f/t at home is new to my wife. Today, I was out of the house awhile and when I came home I was feeling a bit lazy. I stayed in my male attire a couple hours instead of immediately dressing as myself like I normally do now. My wife just asked me, "How come Susan isn't home yet?" All I could do was smile.
Susan R🌷
Quote from: Susan R on January 19, 2019, 06:55:38 PM
I'm at a stage where this last month, I'm always crossdressed whenever I'm at home. This dressing f/t at home is new to my wife. Today, I was out of the house awhile and when I came home I was feeling a bit lazy. I stayed in my male attire a couple hours instead of immediately dressing as myself like I normally do now. My wife just asked me, "How come Susan isn't home yet?" All I could do was smile.
Susan R🌷
@Susan RDear Susan:Your posting above was for very wonderful for me to read.
There is no doubt in my mind that the questions your wife asked ..."How come Susan isn't home yet?" was music to your ears.
You are very, very fortunate to have such an understanding and accepting wife... be sure to count your blessings.
Thank you for sharing and posting.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
After spin class today the instructor asked if anyone wanted to exercise in the main gym. There were 3 that said yes. I made my way for the door then turned around and joined the group. I am very glad I did. It was the first time I exercised in that gym in the main room.
SUSAN R, I am happy for you. It sounds like your wife is accepting.
Was feeling low today so I treated myself.
Got my eye brows threaded I feel better.
AJ
Quote from: Susan R on January 19, 2019, 06:55:38 PM
I'm at a stage where this last month, I'm always crossdressed whenever I'm at home. This dressing f/t at home is new to my wife. Today, I was out of the house awhile and when I came home I was feeling a bit lazy. I stayed in my male attire a couple hours instead of immediately dressing as myself like I normally do now. My wife just asked me, "How come Susan isn't home yet?" All I could do was smile.
Susan R
Susan,
That sounds wonderful! :)
Chrissy
Went for some spa treatments today and 2 things made me happy:
1) A homeless guy walked up to me and my fiancee on the street asking for change with "Excuse me ladies"
2) At the spa, the reception staff walked me right into the female changing area without so much as a blink.
Going out for dinner tonight at a really fancy restaurant so dressed up super femme - expecting today to be an overall good day for validation :)
Although not today, the last day I was home (3 weeks ago), I filed the paperwork to make "Kate Ann" legal.
OK. So I still have to wait for the judge's orders to come back, and I still have about 10,000 steps to change everything, but it makes me VERY happy to think my legal name is finally "Kate Ann."
Kate
Quote from: KatieP on January 24, 2019, 01:29:21 PM
Although not today, the last day I was home (3 weeks ago), I filed the paperwork to make "Kate Ann" legal.
OK. So I still have to wait for the judge's orders to come back, and I still have about 10,000 steps to change everything, but it makes me VERY happy to think my legal name is finally "Kate Ann."
Kate
It is a bit of a pain in the butt to change your name and all the other stuff you going to change with it but it is an amazing feeling to take the first step to being and you are truly meant to be congratulations and I don't think the wait takes that long either by the way
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Quote from: KatieP on January 24, 2019, 01:29:21 PM
Although not today, the last day I was home (3 weeks ago), I filed the paperwork to make "Kate Ann" legal.
OK. So I still have to wait for the judge's orders to come back, and I still have about 10,000 steps to change everything, but it makes me VERY happy to think my legal name is finally "Kate Ann."
Kate
Congrats Kate Ann!
I wish I would be that far. But for Florida (I want name and gender change), some person has first to cut a little around at my neither parts, and confirm that I am at least without balls!
I am already partially spineless, but that seems not to be enough, they want me to be balles, too!
Quote from: Dietlind on January 24, 2019, 07:49:33 PM
Congrats Kate Ann!
I wish I would be that far. But for Florida (I want name and gender change), some person has first to cut a little around at my neither parts, and confirm that I am at least without balls!
I am already partially spineless, but that seems not to be enough, they want me to be balles, too!
I have done everything backwards. I did all the medical stuff, then changed the gender markers on everything, and now finally, I am working on the name. Totally backwards.
Is there some reason you can't change the name, and then do the gender parts later?
Kate
I bought heels!
Quote from: AoifeB on January 24, 2019, 11:24:54 PM
I bought heels!
@AoifeB It is always exciting for a girl to buy a new pair of shoes....
... are these your first high-heels that have purchased for yourself? ???...
if so, it is then "super exciting" for sure.
Thanks for sharing and posting your happy news.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on January 24, 2019, 11:37:21 PM
@AoifeB
It is always exciting for a girl to buy a new pair of shoes....
... are these your first high-heels that have purchased for yourself? ???...
if so, it is then "super exciting" for sure.
Thanks for sharing and posting your happy news.
Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
First stilettos at least. I have my wedge boots already.
Quote from: AoifeB on January 24, 2019, 11:41:03 PM
First stilettos at least. I have my wedge boots already.
How high are they? I feel mos comfortable with 2" to 3" high ones. I walk on 2" better than on flat loafers.
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3.5-4" inches, somewhere in that range(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190125/449d402a1c253fd34c141e65112d9766.jpg)
@AoifeB Very, very cute shoes for sure.
Thank you for treating us to the picture!!
Hugs,
Danielle
I work in a hotel. Today, I started a new wig; and, instead of tying it back in a ponytail as I always do, I wore my hair down. I don't pass; but a (male) customer just blurted out, "You're beautiful." A first. :)
Quote from: Ann W on January 25, 2019, 12:28:04 AM
I work in a hotel. Today, I started a new wig; and, instead of tying it back in a ponytail as I always do, I wore my hair down. I don't pass; but a (male) customer just blurted out, "You're beautiful." A first. :)
That's awesome!
So what made me smile today... my wife and I sat down and read a bunch of threads on how to hide my transition until it is my decision to reveal it. It looks like lots of lycra sports bras and men's compression shirts but it is doable. I'm not as worried about my face. So we can take this to my therapist on Tuesday and take the next step. As long as I can hide this for a few years then I can start HRT, that makes me smile a great deal. Then my wife says she has looked into cities we can move to if I can't hide it, so that makes me smile as well. I am a happy girl right now. So I how this makes sense.
Quote from: Delilah.Rhyan on January 25, 2019, 01:41:31 AMThen my wife says she has looked into cities we can move to if I can't hide it, so that makes me smile as well.
Hi Delilah,
It's awesome that your wife is onboard and supportive!
I've also been investigating US cities, and even other countries, that might be especially friendly. Could you share the list your wife has come up with?
I have other criteria besides LGBT friendliness, but my current list includes places like Seattle, Portland, Denver, San Francisco, and Austin. There are places in Canada that are interesting, including where @KathyLauren lives in Nova Scotia, but after living over 40 years in Michigan, I'm not a big fan of the climate.
Stephanie
Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 25, 2019, 01:34:29 PM
Hi Delilah,
It's awesome that your wife is onboard and supportive!
I've also been investigating US cities, and even other countries, that might be especially friendly. Could you share the list your wife has come up with?
I have other criteria besides LGBT friendliness, but my current list includes places like Seattle, Portland, Denver, San Francisco, and Austin. There are places in Canada that are interesting, including where @KathyLauren lives in Nova Scotia, but after living over 40 years in Michigan, I'm not a big fan of the climate.
Stephanie
Michigan being out eliminates the friendly Midwest cities from your list. Chicago, Madison, and possibly Duluth.
So this morning a co-worker almost bumped into me at the coffee machine. She said "sorry girl", then looked a bit confused when I turned around.
Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 25, 2019, 01:34:29 PMThere are places in Canada that are interesting, including where @KathyLauren lives in Nova Scotia, but after living over 40 years in Michigan, I'm not a big fan of the climate.
To be fair, our coastal climate in Nova Scotia is a lot milder than the mid-continental climate in Michigan. Though, having lived for several years on the west coast, I must say I prefer the winters out there..
But the social climate is amazing, and not at all what I expected. If people here can't be supportive, they're accepting. If they can't be accepting, they are polite. And if they can't be polite, they are not welcome.
Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 25, 2019, 01:34:29 PM
Hi Delilah,
It's awesome that your wife is onboard and supportive!
I've also been investigating US cities, and even other countries, that might be especially friendly. Could you share the list your wife has come up with?
I have other criteria besides LGBT friendliness, but my current list includes places like Seattle, Portland, Denver, San Francisco, and Austin. There are places in Canada that are interesting, including where @KathyLauren lives in Nova Scotia, but after living over 40 years in Michigan, I'm not a big fan of the climate.
Stephanie
I live Montréal city in the Québec province in Canada. I think this is a very great place. Law on Canada allow to change name and gender easily. My vaginoplasty will be covered by province health care. I fully live as a woman and I work downtown in a big computer programming company. There is the gay village that is very trans/cd friendly. Most bars dont charge cover for trans/cd... I have included pictures of St-Catherine street in the summer.(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190125/720660e23ef697ad9cdc40c59c87b3dc.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190125/6308c79077718d2335d9aadb3614e159.jpg)
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Quote from: KathyLauren on January 25, 2019, 02:00:38 PM
To be fair, our coastal climate in Nova Scotia is a lot milder than the mid-continental climate in Michigan. Though, having lived for several years on the west coast, I must say I prefer the winters out there..
But the social climate is amazing, and not at all what I expected. If people here can't be supportive, they're accepting. If they can't be accepting, they are polite. And if they can't be polite, they are not welcome.
I was just given a full report by Tia and Debi, and it really does sound quite wonderful!
Assuming that Canada doesn't follow in America's footsteps, if for some awful reason the current US administration gets another term, you just may have new neighbors. Welcome to the 1960's.
Stephanie
Quote from: AoifeB on January 25, 2019, 01:52:03 PM
So this morning a co-worker almost bumped into me at the coffee machine. She said "sorry girl", then looked a bit confused when I turned around.
@AoifeB Those types of moments are always interesting to experience. For so that are early in their transition this can be a pleasant gendering experience, and for those further along the confused look can be disappointing.
How were you dressed?
Because you posted this on the "What made you Happy" thread I am assuming you took it as a good experience,
... or did you feel disappointed and upset at the end with the confused look from the co-worker?
Thank you for sharing.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on January 25, 2019, 04:32:10 PM
@AoifeB
Those types of moments are always interesting to experience. For so that are early in their transition this can be a pleasant gendering experience, and for those further along the confused look can be disappointing.
How were you dressed?
Because you posted this on the "What made you Happy" thread I am assuming you took it as a good experience,
... or did you feel disappointed and upset at the end with the confused look from the co-worker?
Thank you for sharing.
Hugs,
Danielle
Just jeans and a t shirt. My women's coat as well. It was cool, a lot of people at work know, but I haven't pushed for anyone to change pronouns yet. So it was nice that someone got it right when I wasn't really trying to pass.
I've moved to Seattle and it's so welcoming it's unbelievable - gendered correctly *every single time*, used restrooms without incident, my partner and I addressed as ladies everywhere we go.
I love it here!
The lovable people who know me that address me as Chrissy even when I am presenting as male. :)
Chrissy
A nice afternoon with three ladies, good cake and coffee, a lot of laughter, and some new fem information for me!
So a few asked me about cities that my wife and I have looked into that are said to be friendly to trans. I think a lot of them are pretty typical. Seattle (we have cousins who would welcome us), Philadelphia (apparently a couple great trans friendly neighborhoods and a great hospital for my wife to work at), just outside Boston on the cape there is a neighborhood that is supposed to be amazing (also my sister-in-law lives in Boston and she will probably be the first person we tell, great woman), other places we have also found a few neighborhoods, Chicago, Sante Fe, Sacramento, Portland, of these I like Chicago the most. We live in Milwaukee there are a couple neighborhoods here but it might end up being too close to home. Although depending on who is accepting my wife thinks that with my education background there might be a job for me at the local hospitals in the gender therapy offices. I would like that a lot after my transition, but time will tell in our case, we are trying to make as many plans as possible.
The hard part for my is that my current job is about AODA education in schools, which is a huge passion of mine, and I'm the front man of the company and our CEO wants to start sending me out to out of state places because we have a real opportunity to spread our company and help prevent and get teenagers away from drugs, alcohol and tobacco. So I have a real dilemma on my hands when it comes to that because I am very passionate about my job.
Quote from: Dietlind on January 27, 2019, 09:12:32 PM
A nice afternoon with three ladies, good cake and coffee, a lot of laughter, and some new fem information for me!
That sounds awesome
Quote from: Delilah.Rhyan on January 27, 2019, 09:28:44 PM
So a few asked me about cities that my wife and I have looked into that are said to be friendly to trans. I think a lot of them are pretty typical. Seattle (we have cousins who would welcome us), Philadelphia (apparently a couple great trans friendly neighborhoods and a great hospital for my wife to work at), just outside Boston on the cape there is a neighborhood that is supposed to be amazing (also my sister-in-law lives in Boston and she will probably be the first person we tell, great woman), other places we have also found a few neighborhoods, Chicago, Sante Fe, Sacramento, Portland, of these I like Chicago the most. We live in Milwaukee there are a couple neighborhoods here but it might end up being too close to home. Although depending on who is accepting my wife thinks that with my education background there might be a job for me at the local hospitals in the gender therapy offices. I would like that a lot after my transition, but time will tell in our case, we are trying to make as many plans as possible.
The hard part for my is that my current job is about AODA education in schools, which is a huge passion of mine, and I'm the front man of the company and our CEO wants to start sending me out to out of state places because we have a real opportunity to spread our company and help prevent and get teenagers away from drugs, alcohol and tobacco. So I have a real dilemma on my hands when it comes to that because I am very passionate about my job.
I wonder why you left Minneapolis out of your city selection? It is hard to find a much more liberal environment that the Twin Cities have. Plus the top medical facilities there and the Mayo in Rochester!
Quote from: Dietlind on January 27, 2019, 10:09:11 PM
I wonder why you left Minneapolis out of your city selection? It is hard to find a much more liberal environment that the Twin Cities have. Plus the top medical facilities there and the Mayo in Rochester!
I honestly didn't mean to, it is one of my favorite cities. I would love to move to Minneapolis. My list isn't perfect by any means, we are just trying to find what works for us. And it is hard because I just want to be accepted and I know as a current 6 foot male who is 230lbs and spent most of his life lifting to play sports in college... well I feel that all that time I spent running away from the woman I am may have cost me. (However, I am so ready for HRT and what it can change my body into.) I may never be passable, but talking to my my therapist I have found it is more about loving myself. There are other cities where I may be accepted, or neighborhoods within cities and I would love to know other womens' opinions on what neighborhoods in what cities are more accepting.
Quote from: Delilah.Rhyan on January 27, 2019, 11:46:17 PM
I honestly didn't mean to, it is one of my favorite cities. I would love to move to Minneapolis. My list isn't perfect by any means, we are just trying to find what works for us. And it is hard because I just want to be accepted and I know as a current 6 foot male who is 230lbs and spent most of his life lifting to play sports in college... well I feel that all that time I spent running away from the woman I am may have cost me. (However, I am so ready for HRT and what it can change my body into.) I may never be passable, but talking to my my therapist I have found it is more about loving myself. There are other cities where I may be accepted, or neighborhoods within cities and I would love to know other womens' opinions on what neighborhoods in what cities are more accepting.
Minnesota in general and the Cities specifically are far less liberal than they used to be, thanks to Jessie Ventura and the current crop of conservatives that have made such inroads there in the last few years. Do thorough research before you look for something there.
Hugs,
Sarah From Chitown
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Quote from: SarahWithin on January 28, 2019, 12:02:34 AM
Minnesota in general and the Cities specifically are far less liberal than they used to be, thanks to Jessie Ventura and the current crop of conservatives that have made such inroads there in the last few years. Do thorough research before you look for something there.
Hugs,
Sarah From Chitown
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Are you sure about this? I lived (until last October) for 40++ years in the Wisconsin suburb (Hudson) of the Twin Cities and worked there in medical research. I do not think that Ventyra did change the general attitude of the people. What is called conservative there would be considered to be radical liberals here in the south!
I think that the Cities, and specifically M-polis are still pretty liberal, and an easy place to live an alternative life style. Outstate, maily up north and south west are definitely more conservative. But south, along the Mississippi Rochester, Redwing, Hastings, etc. is also quite liberal (my son lives in Hastings). A few years ago, the Republicans lost their grip on St. Croix (I was one of the first batch of democratic county supervisors there), and Pierce county in Wisconsin, and they are now solidly in liberal hands, too
Quote from: Dietlind on January 28, 2019, 10:24:28 AM
Are you sure about this? I lived (until last October) for 40++ years in the Wisconsin suburb (Hudson) of the Twin Cities and worked there in medical research. I do not think that Ventyra did change the general attitude of the people. What is called conservative there would be considered to be radical liberals here in the south!
I think that the Cities, and specifically M-polis are still pretty liberal, and an easy place to live an alternative life style. Outstate, maily up north and south west are definitely more conservative. But south, along the Mississippi Rochester, Redwing, Hastings, etc. is also quite liberal (my son lives in Hastings). A few years ago, the Republicans lost their grip on St. Croix (I was one of the first batch of democratic county supervisors there), and Pierce county in Wisconsin, and they are now solidly in liberal hands, too
Well, that's all good to hear. I lived there for several years and I have family there. I wonder if the DFL and IR are still having identity problems like they used to.
Hugs,
Sarah From Chitown
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Quote from: SarahWithin on January 28, 2019, 10:29:30 AM
Well, that's all good to hear. I lived there for several years and I have family there. I wonder if the DFL and IR are still having identity problems like they used to.
Hugs,
Sarah From Chitown
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I think that the DFL found itself again after Welstone (I was one of the little ants to help with his campaign), and now Klobuchar. It will be difficult to fill the shoes of Dayton, now that he does not want to run anymore. His personal wealth (I think Trump is a popper compared to him) made him so very independent (similar to Kohl in Wisconsin).
IR are still trying to find another Arnie Carlson, to have a politician again, who is equally loved by the Republicans and Democrats. Polenty was not really good for them!
I sent a photo of myself amongst a group of 12 women to two friends. Both had to ask which of the women is me :-) Guss, I managed to fully blend in...
;D
Quote from: Dietlind on January 28, 2019, 11:05:37 AM
I think that the DFL found itself again after Welstone (I was one of the little ants to help with his campaign), and now Klobuchar. It will be difficult to fill the shoes of Dayton, now that he does not want to run anymore. His personal wealth (I think Trump is a popper compared to him) made him so very independent (similar to Kohl in Wisconsin).
IR are still trying to find another Arnie Carlson, to have a politician again, who is equally loved by the Republicans and Democrats. Polenty was not really good for them!
Wellstone was wonderful. Klobouchar should do well.
Hugs,
Sarah From Chitown
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Quote from: sarah1972 on January 28, 2019, 12:06:50 PM
I sent a photo of myself amongst a group of 12 women to two friends. Both had to ask which of the women is me :-) Guss, I managed to fully blend in...
;D
@sarah1972 Dear Sarah:Way to go girl. As we have discussed many times, blending-in and fitting-in is very important for passing reliably but also for being treated as a respectful and responsible woman.
As a self-employed full-time woman with a small business that deals with my clients financial affairs and taxes I am very careful to not stand out with over-the-top revealing clothing and appearances. I do not shove my trans-woman status in anyone's faces... many of my friends and clients have no idea about my past... although back last Spring I came-out openly to my entire town... (at the coffee shop and everywhere else) and also with all of my romantic interests.
Fitting in and blending in are essential in my opinion.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and your success with blending in with the ladies in your group activities.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: sarah1972 on January 28, 2019, 12:06:50 PM
I sent a photo of myself amongst a group of 12 women to two friends. Both had to ask which of the women is me :-) Guss, I managed to fully blend in...
;D
Sarah,
That was a nice result!
Chrissy
@Alaskan Danielle - Thanks for your kind reply Danielle, I think you know which photo I am referring to.
And yes, absolutely - blending in as a woman in a lot of different settings is the ultimate goal. So far this group does not know or if they do, they never asked any questions. They are somewhat strict about admitting new members with the biggest rule being "no men allowed". It is all organized through Facebook, so they could see my past if they want to. I have no intention of advertising my history but I will also not hide it if anyone asks. So far so good. But there are more tests to come with several social gatherings coming up.
I am so incredibly happy for your successful transition Danielle, you are such a shining example of what can be accomplished.
Thanks,
@ChrissyRyan for your encouraging response too.
Hugs,
Sarah
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Quote from: sarah1972 on January 28, 2019, 12:06:50 PM
I sent a photo of myself amongst a group of 12 women to two friends. Both had to ask which of the women is me :-) Guss, I managed to fully blend in...
;D
@sarah1972
Dear Sarah:
Way to go girl. As we have discussed many times, blending in and fitting in is very important for not only passing reliably but also for being treated as a respectful and responsible woman.
As a self-employed full-time woman with a small business that deals with my clients financial affairs and taxes I am very careful to not stand out with over-the-top revealing clothing and appearances. I do not shove my trans-woman status in anyone's faces... many of my friends and clients have no idea about my past... although back last Spring I came-out openly to my entire town... (at the coffee shop and everywhere else) and also with all of my romantic interests.
Fitting in and blending in are essential in my opinion.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and your success with blending in with the ladies in your group activities.
Hugs,
Danielle
Was at the urologist today, concerning the pain I have in my testes. He checked and said they are so atrophied that they probably will not produce much or any testosterone at all anymore. He wants me to have a blood test done for male levels of estrogen and male levels of testosterone. If it comes out that the little guys don't do much anymore, he says he will cut them of! I have to go back next week. With a little luck, I might be without balls pretty soon, and the health insurance would pay for it!
Please cross your fingers for me!
He asked why I take estrogen, and I told him because I am XXY it was decided I should take the stuff! I went dressed as male as I was able to, to make sure he would not think that I am trans and would have them gone for this reason. I live in the county of professional gate keepers!
Well I went for an MRI yesterday and my doctor finally got the results today for 13 years I have been having problems with my neck and spine and I finally got a doctor that is willing to listen to me and get an MRI... it turns out that I have a herniated disc that is getting worse pressing against a nerve that's been causing my migraines my back pain my arm pain neck pain so now we know what's wrong and we can go about fixing it that makes me very happy that after 13 years somebody listens to the patient and I know it's not all that bad
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on January 28, 2019, 04:25:31 PM
Well I went for an MRI yesterday and my doctor finally got the results today for 13 years I have been having problems with my neck and spine and I finally got a doctor that is willing to listen to me and get an MRI... it turns out that I have a herniated disc that is getting worse pressing against a nerve that's been causing my migraines my back pain my arm pain neck pain so now we know what's wrong and we can go about fixing it that makes me very happy that after 13 years somebody listens to the patient and I know it's not all that bad
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I am glad you have your neck and spine problem identified.
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on January 28, 2019, 04:27:34 PM
I am glad you have your neck and spine problem identified.
Chrissy
Me to and it explains so much
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on January 28, 2019, 04:28:46 PM
Me to and it explains so much
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Once the source of the problem has been identified, the fix can very often be relatively easy. They may want to start with some long needle injections and see how that goes!
Quote from: Dietlind on January 28, 2019, 04:45:56 PM
Once the source of the problem has been identified, the fix can very often be relatively easy. They may want to start with some long needle injections and see how that goes!
I really hope not hate needles
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on January 28, 2019, 05:24:23 PM
I really hope not hate needles
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Maybe they will use a little needle to numb the area, followed by an insertion of the fluid drawing needle. Maybe that will not be that bad then for you.
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on January 28, 2019, 07:46:12 PM
Maybe they will use a little needle to numb the area, followed by an insertion of the fluid drawing needle. Maybe that will not be that bad then for you.
Chrissy
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on January 28, 2019, 07:47:50 PM
Oh hell no [emoji19][emoji19][emoji19]
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Maybe Linde is unaware of better alternatives for analysis other than using any size needle.
He seems to know a lot about medical things but maybe there are other methods that are better for you. Maybe he was kidding about a "long needle."
Chrissy
Aside from fusing there's Chiro. If any space remains. If little to know space there is a liprscopic gel disc replacement. There was an injectable gel a few years ago, but not sure if ever approved.
I went to walgreens to get me and my ex a drink and got ma'am'd by two ladies at the checkout. Then, the cashier ma'am'd me as I was leaving. :3
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on January 28, 2019, 07:59:03 PM
Maybe Linde is unaware of better alternatives for analysis other than using any size needle.
He seems to know a lot about medical things but maybe there are other methods that are better for you. Maybe he was kidding about a "long needle."
Chrissy
It is actually the treatment, and it is called "long needle injection". It does not hurt at all, because there is local anesthesia when it is done. It is called long needle, because the needle is longer that a standard injection needle, because it has to reach the source of the pain. The entire procedure is don with ultrasound or x-ray control, and the patient is kept slightly sedated (to make sure the patient will not move)
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on January 28, 2019, 07:59:03 PM
Maybe Linde is unaware of better alternatives for analysis other than using any size needle.
He seems to know a lot about medical things but maybe there are other methods that are better for you. Maybe he was kidding about a "long needle."
Chrissy
When did you decide to gender me with
HE?
She made her living in medical research, and did that for 36 years. She has an advanced degree in biomedical sciences.
I think the he was referring to the physician, not you. It could have been worded better but I don't think any malice was meant.
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on January 28, 2019, 10:23:07 PM
I think the he was referring to the physician, not you. It could have been worded better but I don't think any malice was meant.
I am sure, she did not mean anything bad, we have a pretty good relation with each other!
Quote from: SiobhánF on January 28, 2019, 10:10:20 PM
I went to walgreens to get me and my ex a drink and got ma'am'd by two ladies at the checkout. Then, the cashier ma'am'd me as I was leaving. :3
I am constantly surprised that YOU are surprised at these occurrences, Siobhan.
You are just plain beautiful, and even looking for the guy underneath, I just don't see him. Someone else, expecting a woman would never see anything else.
At least, this is what I think...
Kate
Quote from: SiobhánF on January 28, 2019, 10:10:20 PM
I went to walgreens to get me and my ex a drink and got ma'am'd by two ladies at the checkout. Then, the cashier ma'am'd me as I was leaving. :3
As it should be!
Hugs,
Sarah From Chitown
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I got ma'am'd by someone in the shop! No makeup either :)
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Quote from: MollyPants on January 29, 2019, 02:19:29 AM
I got ma'am'd by someone in the shop! No makeup either :)
Ditto @ Walmart! Daughter was
*braiding* my hair last week and getting it ever so much more than in a simple ponytail!
My partner and I were getting hit on while sitting in a hot tub in Key West last evening. They were even younger than us and not that bad looking for red neck Kentuckians. One of them finally realized that we are lesbians but didn't say anything, his partner never caught on. Fun in a yucky sort of way.
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on January 29, 2019, 10:36:43 AM
My partner and I were getting hit on while sitting in a hot tub in Key West last evening. They were even younger than us and not that bad looking for red neck Kentuckians. One of them finally realized that we are lesbians but didn't say anything, his partner never caught on. Fun in a yucky sort of way.
Tia Anne
@Anne BlakeDear Tia Anne:I read about that in your "Wedding" thread.
@Debi had posted a comment about that occasion...
...yes, it can be quite fun and flattering for sure, but as women we certainly have a much different viewpoint on that sort of thing now!!!
Happiness!!! Thank you for sharing your experieince.
Hugs,
Danielle
I'm happy that I have now had a vagina for 3 weeks!
Quote from: Yuusui on January 31, 2019, 04:47:07 PM
I'm happy that I have now had a vagina for 3 weeks!
Now THAT is something worth being happy for!!!
Congratulations!!!
Kate
Quote from: Yuusui on January 31, 2019, 04:47:07 PM
I'm happy that I have now had a vagina for 3 weeks!
@Yuusui Dear Yuusui:Such great and happy news !!!
I think that the big smile on your face on your Avatar Photo is certainly an indication of how pleased your are with your surgery results.
Thank your for posting and sharing,
It is always wonderful for me to read our member's good news and happy posts.
Hugs,
Danielle
I think my hair is now long enough to look female. I was mam'd and honey'd the entire day. I the grocery store another older woman asked :"excuse me ma'm, can i get through please", and she looked me right into the face while asking!
I think this means more than the ma'ms by checkout people, or store clerks, who have to be polite!
This made me happy today
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Quote from: Jenny1969 on January 31, 2019, 07:37:02 PM
This made me happy today
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That red is a fabulous colour! (I'm a sucker for red nail polish...)
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I had a very good day today.
I replaced my microwave and got my nails done; those were nice. And I got to chat with someone accepting whom I had not seen in some time.
But the loveliest thing happened at Hobby Lobby. When I need to visit a craft store, I usually go to JoAnn because I feel more comfortable there. But it's also true that the staff at Hobby Lobby have never been anything but nice to me. Today, I happened to be visiting the store next door, and needed craft stuff; so, I ducked into Hobby Lobby. When I reached the checkout, there was an elderly man standing at the register; his checkout process had been delayed while someone went and picked up a forgotten item, I think. After I came up, he said to the person working the register, "Why don't you go ahead and help her," meaning me.
I don't pass, so it's always lovely being gendered correctly, especially in that environment.
OMG I am so happy I have found love!! She is so pretty and sweet. I want to scream it Everywhere that Sophia is my girlfriend!! Here she is...(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190201/6548b2f212568fa14f401e7d48e7e0cc.jpg)
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OMG I am so happy I have found love!! She is so pretty and sweet. I want to scream it Everywhere that Sophia is my girlfriend!! Here she is...(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190201/6548b2f212568fa14f401e7d48e7e0cc.jpg)
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Two beautiful ladies together make a lovely bouquet. Congratulations! I'm so happy for you both. [emoji304][emoji4]
Hugs x 2,
Sarah From Chitown
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Quote from: Sabrina Hope on February 01, 2019, 08:53:18 AM
OMG I am so happy I have found love!! She is so pretty and sweet. I want to scream it Everywhere that Sophia is my girlfriend!!
That is awesome! I see you two together as a very pretty couple.
Although it happened last night, I'm happy about today for sure. I got a job offer in a new professional area for me. Yes, I'm a smilin. :-)
I decided a long time ago that I would never "Pass" even 20% of the time and if I did I would have to have good make-up, jewellery and clothing. I was convinced I may find some circumstances where I would and decided I would do what I could. This has not stopped me perusing things to help me pass such as hair implants, VFS, nose surgery, electrolysis and facial skin treatments. Even still I have just accepted that in most cases I will get picked as being Trans
Yesterday in recovery after my VFS, wearing a hospital gown, my hair up in a ponytail and none of my jewellery on the recovery nurse wanted to know about my recovery from my previous surgery as my BP was up and I told her it was GCS. She stared at me and asked me to explain what that was. So I grinned at her and wrote down the details. She grinned back at me and said "no really, what was the surgery" So I pointed at what I had written and she said raising her eyebrows disbelievingly "Really" I kept smiling and nodded at her and she exclaimed " Well unless you had told me I would never had known" end of that part of the conversation as I sat there and waited for the change in attitude...it never came. She asked me if my chronic illness had been a result of the "struggle" which shows me she was quite perceptive about some things.
So there you have it Ladies , When I first came on this site nearly 4 years ago I posted in the "Do I pass" thread and there was absolute silence with not one response.It was usually a very vibrant thread, with people who were posting a few hours after me getting immediate responses. I took this very badly becoming quite withdrawn and depressed about it, but in the end I decided to heck with it pass or not I had to keep going, this would not stop my transition. Passing is clearly not about looks only. I am living proof of that ;D Never say Never
Liz
@LizK Dear Liz:I am bubbling over with happiness and just about crying as I read your wonderful report regarding your journey over the 4 years that you have been on the Susan's Place Forums.
As you shared your post surgery conversation with your recovery nurse I was overjoyed to read her responses to you...
I would think that you can not get more affirming and confidence buildiing feelings than that.
Thank your for sharing and posting... I am over-joyed to read your terrific report. I can just about hear the joy in your voice as I read it.
Many Hugs, and I am always wishing you the best.Danielle
Dear Liz,
This was so beautiful to read. The smile on my face was ear to ear. Never underestimate the power of positive thinking! (and a little surgery) I know you can't speak but I'm sure there was a voice inside that was screaming, YES!
Judi
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@LizK
Dear Liz:
I am bubbling over with happiness and just about crying as I read your wonderful report regarding your journey over the 4 years that you have been on the Susan's Place Forums.
As you shared your post surgery conversation with your recovery nurse I was overjoyed to read her responses to you...
I would think that you can not get more affirming and confidence buildiing feelings than that.
Thank your for sharing and posting... I am over-joyed to read your terrific report. I can just about hear the joy in your voice as I read it.
Many Hugs, and I am always wishing you the best.
Danielle
Danielle I was so surprised but once I got over that I began to realise that maybe just maybe I was being way to hard on myself...that in itself was a breakthrough for me.
Take care
Liz
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Quote from: JudiBlueEyes on February 01, 2019, 09:45:59 PM
Dear Liz,
This was so beautiful to read. The smile on my face was ear to ear. Never underestimate the power of positive thinking! (and a little surgery) I know you can't speak but I'm sure there was a voice inside that was screaming, YES!
Judi
Hi Judi
Yes it made me very happy and just what I needed....it was the kind of affirmation that makes your heart squeeze....made me reevaluate many of the more recent things I have noticed with my interactions. I feel so content and I wanted to share this because it was a totally unsolicited and unexpected honest affirmation. [emoji16]
Take care
Liz
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I bought some new socks so I can finally wear my new boots.
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Happy to announce we are the proud grandparents . . .
of five(5) brand new Husky puppies!
Both are the "black & white" variety, daddy around the corner backyard is one handsome devil!
3 year old wants to name them "Marshall, Chase, Yuma, Sky and Rubble"
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Happy to announce we are the proud grandparents . . .
of five(5) brand new Husky puppies!
Both are the "black & white" variety, daddy around the corner backyard is one handsome devil!
3 year old wants to name them "Marshall, Chase, Yuma, Sky and Rubble"
:D gotta love furbaby's. I must admit, we've had those names suggested a few times here as well.
My friend and neighbor did not only do my face stuff the other day, but invited me tonight for a nice rib dinner! Can life be better?
Well it is official today now to change all my stuff now this should be fun
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Congratulations Natalie!
Chrissy
Wow, talking about good news! Congratulations Miss Natalie!
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 03, 2019, 09:13:02 PM
Well it is official today now to change all my stuff now this should be fun
Rumor has it, in NYC, your "word" suffices and now no "documentation" even necessary!
Was born in nearby Nassau County, perhaps this will rub off?
Quote from: Chloe on February 04, 2019, 07:41:30 AM
Rumor has it, in NYC, your "word" suffices and now no "documentation" even necessary!
Was born in nearby Nassau County, perhaps this will rub off?
If only that were true everywhere, or at least a middle ground. Hate my states rules.
@natalie.ashlyne Dear Natalie:I will now use my often used notable word....
"Wow-Whee"This is such exciting, self-affirming, and confidence building for you. Having important government documents in your correct name and gender are a giant step as you reach for your final goals in your journey.
As you so correctly stated:
"Well it is official today now to change all my stuff now this should be fun"Yes indeed, your
BIG, BIG task ahead is to verify and to make similar changes to your Driver's License, Passport, other government documents, school and college diplomas, federal-provincial-local agencies, doctors and clinics offices, employer records, insurance companies, banks, credit cards, library cards, places that you do business with, etc....
.... and just when you think that you have done them all, months and maybe years later something will come in the mail and/or email that will have your dead name and wrong gender on it.... and it seems that forever the junk mail and SPAM email will never end... but of course that stuff is mostly unimportant.... but it is never nice to see your dead name on anything.
ONCE AGAIN...
"Wow-Whee"I am so very, very happy for you...
Thank you for sharing your good news.
Hugs and more hugs and continued well wishes to you.
DanielleQuote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 03, 2019, 09:13:02 PM
Well it is official today now to change all my stuff now this should be fun
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Just got a call. My safe passage letter is on the way. :icon_yikes: :icon_dance: I can have my gender marker changed on some things. squeee but :icon_censored: not sure I'm ready for that in some areas though. Needed letter for international travel with meds.
I am just back from my urologist, and I am sad to say that I will be without balls in the very near future (have to set up the date with the surgery center). What makes me even sadder is the fact that it is a medical necessity, and the health insurance will pay for the cost! It is just a sad fact about old men and their balls! >:-)
Pretty soon I will be not only partially spine less, but also ball less, just a wimpy woman, what shall I say? :angel:
I will now have the green light to start my name and gender change, once I figured out how to go about it! ???
It is all working out great for you to lose your last ball and at no charge to you. I hear there are three ways to do the surgery, do you know which one you might have? Hope you can get the surgery scheduled soon.
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It is all working out great for you to lose your last ball and at no charge to you. I hear there are three ways to do the surgery, do you know which one you might have? Hope you can get the surgery scheduled soon.
Yes, I know. This urologist does only the conventional way (that is what the insurance will pay for. Through an incision in the scrotum. He said he always tries to remove as much of the cords as he can get a hold of. It takes 15 to 30 minutes and is done in a Surgy Center in and out!
The scheduler will contact me tomorrow to set up a date!
204.9.
Haven't seen a number that low in 37 years.
Also had to look around a couple of things to see it.
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Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 03, 2019, 09:13:02 PM
Well it is official today now to change all my stuff now this should be fun
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Congratulations Nathalie!! Just realised we are friends on Facebook too [emoji8]
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Was out in several stores, and at a social lunch function, with lots of volunteers serving food. I was not a singele time misgendered.
I have the feeling that my dyas to be called "sir" are rapidly coming to an end! In fact, I have not been misgendered for at least a week now!
Quote from: Dietlind on February 07, 2019, 02:44:54 PM
Was out in several stores, and at a social lunch function, with lots of volunteers serving food. I was not a singele time misgendered.
I have the feeling that my dyas to be called "sir" are rapidly coming to an end! In fact, I have not been misgendered for at least a week now!
@Dietlind:
Dear Lind:Well, for sure, that is terrific news that you reported.
Being mis-gendered, dead-named, addressed by the incorrect pronouns, etc is so very disconcerting and discouraging to all transgenders no matter where they are in their transition timeline.
It is wonderful to come to a point in your transitioning life to where you are very infrequently mis-gendered or not at all... that is a good place to finally arrive.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and your good news.
Hugs, well wishes, and continued success in not getting mis-gendered!!!
Danielle
I can fit into one of my favorite skirts again, it seems I'm on the right track to reach a healthy weight.
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on February 07, 2019, 02:59:11 PM
@Dietlind:
Dear Lind:
Well, for sure, that is terrific news that you reported.
Being mis-gendered, dead-named, addressed by the incorrect pronouns, etc is so very disconcerting and discouraging to all transgenders no matter where they are in their transition timeline.
It is wonderful to come to a point in your transitioning life to where you are very infrequently mis-gendered or not at all... that is a good place to finally arrive.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and your good news.
Hugs, well wishes, and continued success in not getting mis-gendered!!!
Danielle
Thank you Danielle! It did not bother me that much to be misgendered (at last that is what I thought), but I can happily report that it feels great to be not misgendered anymore!
Quote from: Lynne on February 07, 2019, 03:04:55 PM
I can fit into one of my favorite skirts again, it seems I'm on the right track to reach a healthy weight.
Congratulations! I am working on my looks or the upcoming beach season. I like manatees pretty OK, but I do not want to look like one!
Quote from: Sabrina Hope on February 07, 2019, 11:29:03 AM
Congratulations Nathalie!! Just realised we are friends on Facebook too [emoji8]
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Congratulations, Natalie!
Hugs x 2,
Sarah From Chitown
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I wish that I could take a proper picture to share. Every full body reflection that I have seen as I walked around at work today has been her. I'm making excuses to take extra walking trips just so that I can see her.
I'm trying to curb the excitement that I feel to avoid depression rebound - knowing that tomorrow and the next day and the next will not be so flattering. This one day out of so many dark really lifts my spirits.
Quote from: Faith on February 08, 2019, 12:00:22 PM
I wish that I could take a proper picture to share. Every full body reflection that I have seen as I walked around at work today has been her. I'm making excuses to take extra walking trips just so that I can see her.
I'm trying to curb the excitement that I feel to avoid depression rebound - knowing that tomorrow and the next day and the next will not be so flattering. This one day out of so many dark really lifts my spirits.
@FaithDear Faith:
Thank you for sharing your "happy" report.
It is always exciting to see ourselves when everything is right.
Tomorrow is just another day... be positive about yourself and what you see in the mirror....
Hugs,
Danielle
Just was called by the surgery scheduler. Friday, Feb 22, first surgery in the morning, will be the date and time I have to say goodbye for ever to my testicles. They stayed facefuly with me, over many decades, always in fear that they might be hit, squashed, or pinched. Now they can rest in peace pretty soon!
I hope that i can stop to take that spiro stuff at that time, because it makes me somehow lethargic and pretty listless to do any stuff!
Part of my spine has been taken out, which means, I am basically a pretty spineless person. In the future I will be a spineless person who does not even have any balls!
Feb 22, that was quick everything must have fallen into place quickly. Do you one or two now, either way they are not doing you any good now.
Quote from: mm on February 08, 2019, 02:10:02 PM
Feb 22, that was quick everything must have fallen into place quickly. Do you one or two now, either way they are not doing you any good now.
Bilateral, by conventional method, but with the removal of as much or as possible! The best thing about it, is that my health insurance will pay for it!
It could have been next week, but the scheduler was sick, and so I missed a possible surgery window!
Once this is done, name and gender change is the next project, and after that I will start to look into SRS. Because of the fact that I am pulling some strings now, I might get that done this year, too, and not have to wait the common two years on HRT. I have to find out, how good I am still in pulling strings! >:-)
I did pretty good with the orichi! :angel:
Good luck, Dietlind, for your situation you probably can get srs much faster.
Quote from: mm on February 08, 2019, 02:46:25 PM
Good luck, Dietlind, for your situation you probably can get srs much faster.
Thank you, I will try a least to get it done ASAP
Dietlind, don't get in such a hurry, that you don't do a good job of selecting the best surgeon for you. Do you have enough material for the normal penile inversion procedures?
Quote from: Faith on February 08, 2019, 12:00:22 PM
I wish that I could take a proper picture to share. Every full body reflection that I have seen as I walked around at work today has been her. I'm making excuses to take extra walking trips just so that I can see her.
I'm trying to curb the excitement that I feel to avoid depression rebound - knowing that tomorrow and the next day and the next will not be so flattering. This one day out of so many dark really lifts my spirits.
I am very glad to hear that, Faith! Just enjoy the feeling when it happens. And remember today when the evil mirror lies to you.
Quote from: mm on February 08, 2019, 03:23:53 PM
Dietlind, don't get in such a hurry, that you don't do a good job of selecting the best surgeon for you. Do you have enough material for the normal penile inversion procedures?
I should because I was not circumcised and have all that skin still around. But I am going for minimum depth anyway (probably can donate the extra skin to a tissue bank? >:-)).
I am a little limited in my selection, because Florida Medicare pays only if it is done in Florida. I am retired and on a fixed income, I cannot do thousands of $$ out o my pocket!
Dietlind, do check out the surgeon you go with. You want to happy with the results so check what others think of this surgeon results. You don't want to use a surgeon just because they are located in Florida.
Quote from: mm on February 09, 2019, 09:40:38 AM
Dietlind, do check out the surgeon you go with. You want to happy with the results so check what others think of this surgeon results. You don't want to use a surgeon just because they are located in Florida.
The problem is that the insurance will not pay for outside Florida. I cannot afford to pay that kind of cost out of pocket!
Three ladies from my support group had it done in Florida at a certain doc, and they are happy about their result. It is the same surgeon, who also did the specialised training for my therapist, and she also recommends him.
I have to send out my feelers and see what else I can find out!
Quote from: Dietlind on February 08, 2019, 06:46:58 PM. . . Florida Medicare pays only if it is done in Florida.
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Five shillings for the possessed toy (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmKu9fL16ns)" Linde faceapp keeps incorrectly gendering me as female already so your saying if I fix up, give the house to the kids and come to Florida Medicaid will help me become "
a real boy"?
Have a few years before I can "collect". Why not just skip the orchi and go for the real thing? You said your support group is primarily "gay"? Feel guilty 'bout last surgery I didn't "with hand hold" let me know if someone needed! (ps: orchi no biggie been there watched dat already!)
Quote from: Dietlind on February 07, 2019, 03:55:04 PM
Congratulations! I am working on my looks or the upcoming beach season. I like manatees pretty OK, but I do not want to look like one!
Thanks! I can totally understand that you don' want to look like a manatee at the beach :) I've never been into spending time at beaches, one of the reasons were that I really disliked my body and for that reason I really didn't like showing it publicly but I feel that may change in the future. I think if I can loose another 10 kilos while keeping some muscle I'll be good to start hormones.
Quote from: Chloe on February 10, 2019, 06:53:11 AM
"Five shillings for the possessed toy (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmKu9fL16ns)" Linde faceapp keeps incorrectly gendering me as female already so your saying if I fix up, give the house to the kids and come to Florida Medicaid will help me become "a real boy"?
Have a few years before I can "collect". Why not just skip the orchi and go for the real thing? You said your support group is primarily "gay"? Feel guilty 'bout last surgery I didn't "with hand hold" let me know if someone needed! (ps: orchi no biggie been there watched dat already!)
Chloe, the orchi is really a medical necessity for me. My testes hurt so bad, I have to be careful how I walk or sit down!
Each time I try to sit, I have to spread my legs as wide as I can, to make sure the babies do not get squished a all. They hurt even if I just touch them. Most of my day it feels as if somebody kneed me down there, and I can hardly wait to get them extracted. Waiting for a place in line or a SRS would require a way to long wait with those hurting balls! I have to do it one step in time.
The mainly gay group is the local LGBTQI Meetup group, and I feel like an absolute outsider there. I go to another trans support group, and I feel good there. It helps that my therapist is the facilitator of it!
Well, yes, give the house away, become a real guy, and you can become a room mate of me. I have a rather large house, and it is only about 30 minutes to the most beautiful beaches n the world. While I try to impersonate a manatee in a bathing suit, you could run around in speedos, and look like any other male tourist from Europe!
Think about the almost unlimited possibilities! :angel:
Quote from: Lynne on February 10, 2019, 11:13:14 AM
Thanks! I can totally understand that you don' want to look like a manatee at the beach :) I've never been into spending time at beaches, one of the reasons were that I really disliked my body and for that reason I really didn't like showing it publicly but I feel that may change in the future. I think if I can loose another 10 kilos while keeping some muscle I'll be good to start hormones.
It seems to be very hard to lose weight when on HRT, because estrogen seems to work overtime to deposit fat on new areas of my body that used to be plain muscles only. But yet, I am getting thinner in some areas of my body. My arms are definitely part of tem, because my watch is sliding around on my arm, it used to fit pretty tight few weeks ago. I also feel that my waistline go a little thinner, not nearly to the point i want it to be. But I looked at a lot of cis women of my age, they have no better waist than i have, but sometimes even a bigger one! Whatever I do and loose, I am afraid that I am a little late in the game to ever be able to wear a string bikini, a full body burlap bag would suit me better!
Quote from: Dietlind on February 10, 2019, 11:56:47 AM
It seems to be very hard to lose weight when on HRT, because estrogen seems to work overtime to deposit fat on new areas of my body that used to be plain muscles only. But yet, I am getting thinner in some areas of my body. My arms are definitely part of tem, because my watch is sliding around on my arm, it used to fit pretty tight few weeks ago. I also feel that my waistline go a little thinner, not nearly to the point i want it to be. But I looked at a lot of cis women of my age, they have no better waist than i have, but sometimes even a bigger one! Whatever I do and loose, I am afraid that I am a little late in the game to ever be able to wear a string bikini, a full body burlap bag would suit me better!
@Dietlind Dear Linde:Your experience regarding weight loss/gain with HRT is quite a common report but there are also other reports, and my own experience that I found it "perhaps" easier to lose weight.
I started out as short, skinny, no muscles or body mass, etc.... HRT for me even went further, I have thin arms and wrists and thin legs and at fairly narrow waist and good hips and bust measurements.... I even dropped one or two shoes sizes and lost an inch in my height....
Certainly the saying here on the Forums is at work here....
YMMV Your Mileage May VaryAs you already know, every unique body reacts to HRT in it's own unique way.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on February 10, 2019, 12:14:04 PM
@Dietlind
Dear Linde:
Your experience regarding weight loss/gain with HRT is quite a common report but there are also other reports, and my own experience that I found it "perhaps" easier to lose weight.
I started out as short, skinny, no muscles or body mass, etc.... HRT for me even went further, I have thin arms and wrists and thin legs and at fairly narrow waist and good hips and bust measurements.... I even dropped one or two shoes sizes and lost an inch in my height....
Certainly the saying here on the Forums is at work here.... YMMV
Your Mileage May Vary
As you already know, every unique body reacts to HRT in it's own unique way.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Hugs,
Danielle
Danielle your report sounds so encouraging. I would love to lose a size in my shoes (the selection is so much larger).
But I am afraid that my intersex syndrome (Klinefelter, and other mutations), decided that I have the typical large body (6' in my case) will not allow many changes to my body (except those created by loosing weight), because my by is pretty female in appearance to start what. I think I will just remain to be a tall girl!
Thank you very much to plant a little hop into the mind of a tall old girl!
Linde
Quote from: Dietlind on February 10, 2019, 11:48:56 AM
Well, yes, give the house away, become a real guy, and you can become a room mate of me :angel:
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fcowetasolar.net%2Fimages%2Fmoresmilies%2Fkiss.gif&hash=eaea8338890b7c295c7473915dc3ca980a82c597) While on subject of losing weight (
not as hard 4 real boys?) am food
FASTING today for three reasons: 1) it's easier than cigarettes 2) promised guys at church group I'd pick something for one day before Weds night and, perhaps most importantly, 3) am very nervous have 1st job interview ever coming up where I'm not cutting my hair, presenting
en femme but in appearance only, not "dress".
Am cheating again, of sorts, because daughter works there and, being well liked (runs in family ;) of course) boss asked her first "
should I hire your dad(?)" and she said yes!
Quote from: Chloe on February 10, 2019, 02:29:28 PM
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fcowetasolar.net%2Fimages%2Fmoresmilies%2Fkiss.gif&hash=eaea8338890b7c295c7473915dc3ca980a82c597) While on subject of losing weight (not as hard 4 real boys?) am food FASTING today for three reasons: 1) it's easier than cigarettes 2) promised guys at church group I'd pick something for one day before Weds night and, perhaps most importantly, 3) am very nervous have 1st job interview ever coming up where I'm not cutting my hair, presenting en femme but in appearance only, not "dress".
Am cheating again, of sorts, because daughter works there and, being well liked (runs in family ;) of course) boss asked her first "should I hire your dad(?)" and she said yes!
Well, I wish you good luck there! And i f it is going well, i have something to be happy about tomorrow, because it means that one of my sisters is getting a good job!
Take care and well (and not nervous - no fingernail biting, please!)!
Linde
Quote from: Dietlind on February 10, 2019, 03:33:47 PM- no fingernail biting, please!)!
Briefly spoke to manager yesterday they'll pay what I asked. There's so many things to do "for me" and around house the extra cash will help! Solar system is over due for a maintenance upgrade 8 new deep-cycle batts and another kilo-watt of panels (https://www.wholesalesolar.com/1977435/astronergy/solar-panels/astronergy-chsm6612p-hv-335-silver-poly-solar-panel) would be great!
Quote from: Chloe on February 11, 2019, 01:15:36 PM
Briefly spoke to manager yesterday they'll pay what I asked. There's so many things to do "for me" and around house the extra cash will help! Solar system is over due for a maintenance upgrade 8 new deep-cycle batts and another kilo-watt of panels (https://www.wholesalesolar.com/1977435/astronergy/solar-panels/astronergy-chsm6612p-hv-335-silver-poly-solar-panel) would be great!
Great with the job! Aren't the Tesla batteries available yet? Up north I had a photovoltaic and a medium operated solar setup, and I used already the deep cycle marine batteries.
Interesting enough, I live in the most sunniest area in the US, and by far most people have no solar systems! Some have those primitive black mats to heat their swimming pols!
Quote from: Dietlind on February 11, 2019, 11:52:21 PM
Great with the job! Aren't the Tesla batteries available yet?
Si señora pero mucho dinero! You did solar? Knew you were
SMART (lol too?) I also prefer the group 29 Marine Walmart Everstart Lead Acid specials which are good for 5 years if you don't excessively cycle them. 2 parallel banks of 4 series connected for a total of 48v DC driving an Outback 3.6kw off-grid inverter! Currently have 9 Astronergy 230w panels (2kw total) with roof space for another 1kw (3 more 335's) which will make better use of the 4kw FlexMax 80 MPPT charge controller.
It's a fully automatic system that switches between sun, grid and generator depending on what batt voltage breakpoints are set at.
The things one dreams about! Much residential solar going on in Florida? That would be the ideal JOB for me! I also play with hydrogen generators would love to use that for storage rather than "batts" and run a full-cell instead!
What made me happy today... Well, I realised that I can now grab my hair by putting my arm behind my back and reaching up! Never done that before. ;D It's the little things... ;D ;D
Quote from: VickyS on February 12, 2019, 10:23:07 AM
What made me happy today... Well, I realised that I can now grab my hair by putting my arm behind my back and reaching up! Never done that before. ;D It's the little things... ;D ;D
To me, that is not a little thing at all. Actually, it sounds like a huge milestone...
Congratulations!!!
Kate
Quote from: Chloe on February 12, 2019, 10:21:13 AM
Si señora pero mucho dinero! You did solar? Knew you were SMART (lol too?) I also prefer the group 29 Marine Walmart Everstart Lead Acid specials which are good for 5 years if you don't excessively cycle them. 2 parallel banks of 4 series connected for a total of 48v DC driving an Outback 3.6kw off-grid inverter! Currently have 9 Astronergy 230w panels (2kw total) with roof space for another 1kw (3 more 335's) which will make better use of the 4kw FlexMax 80 MPPT charge controller.
It's a fully automatic system that switches between sun, grid and generator depending on what batt voltage breakpoints are set at.
The things one dreams about! Much residential solar going on in Florida? That would be the ideal JOB for me! I also play with hydrogen generators would love to use that for storage rather than "batts" and run a full-cell instead!
Living up north (way to far north), I found that photovoltaic was not that great (not enough sun hours), but those large, media filled (Propylene Glycol) panels (I had 14 8' x 4' panels), provided enough heat energy that I had constantly 200 gallons of hot use water for my house, and in October and March I had enough surplus heat to run media through an additional A coil in my furnace to heat the entire house with solar. My system had amortized itself after 6 years of use, and I lived in this house for a total of 12 years with the solar system!
Basically nothing is going on with solar here in Florida. Electricity is pretty cheap, and nobody needs heat, except for those cheap swimming pool systems that don't use media, but run the pool water through solar grids.
I wish I would be able to utilized my roof area, but I would not even know where to start here. I envision that I could rent out my roof to a commercial company, and they could feed in into the grid!
But nothing, so this would be a big empty field for you. Some 300 days of pure sun a year, with the sun standing prtty high in the sky all year around!
Start with my house!
Quote from: VickyS on February 12, 2019, 10:23:07 AM
What made me happy today... Well, I realised that I can now grab my hair by putting my arm behind my back and reaching up! Never done that before. ;D It's the little things... ;D ;D
congratulations! I am afraid I will never be able to do this! I have rotator cuff damage in both shoulders, I would need to have my hair down to my butt!
Quote from: Dietlind on February 12, 2019, 11:26:53 AM
congratulations! I am afraid I will never be able to do this! I have rotator cuff damage in both shoulders, I would need to have my hair down to my butt!
Soooo....
It will be an even bigger milestone for you!!!
;D
Quote from: KatieP on February 12, 2019, 04:12:27 PM
Soooo....
It will be an even bigger milestone for you!!!
;D
I think that this one will never come! Just thinking about all the work i would have to wash, dry, brush and do whatever with so much hair! I shoot for shoulder length, I am humble and don't need more!
Quote from: VickyS on February 12, 2019, 10:23:07 AM. . . putting my arm behind my back and reaching up! Never done that before.
Yea for you ;D been there done that . . . until cut for a job interview! Vowed
NEVER MORE! Four years later am almost there again! ;) Ever try Wen shampoo? Very
très cher got a post 'bout it here somewhere!
Quote from: Dietlind on February 12, 2019, 04:21:27 PM. . all the work . . . to wash, dry, brush . . . whatever
Actually no trouble at all! Hakuna Matada!
Quote from: Chloe on February 12, 2019, 04:30:18 PM
Actually no trouble at all! Hakuna Matada!
I also feel that old hags like I, don't look to good with hair down to their butt!
Yesterday, I went to my 2nd Weight Watchers meeting. There was only one other AMAB person in the room, a cis male. At one point, the person running the meeting referred to him as "the only man in the room." :D
Today, I went to the post office, and a man held the door for me.
Then, I went to Target and found a ring I could wear, the first I've seen!
Then, I went grocery shopping, and some older woman called me a "weirdo" behind my back. I was amused; I actually regarded it as a net positive. It affirmed I was making an impression, and that the person making the comment was more insecure about me than I was.
All in all, quite a good day.
Happy = two and a half months until GCS! :)
Quote from: SophiaBleu on February 13, 2019, 11:54:41 AM
Happy = two and a half months until GCS! :)
@SophiaBleu Dear Sophia:Lately it has been wonderful to see a few of your new postings on the various threads after your 2+ month absence from the forums.
By the way, your
AVATAR looks wonderful....
.... your hair and your facial appearance, and that
great big smile makes a very beautiful picture!!!
I am so very happy for you. Please do go away for so long!! [emoji177]
Hugs and continued well wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on February 13, 2019, 12:49:46 PM
@SophiaBleu
Dear Sophia:
Lately it has been wonderful to see a few of your new postings on the various threads after your 2+ month absence from the forums.
By the way, your AVATAR looks wonderful....
.... your hair and your facial appearance, and that
great big smile makes a very beautiful picture!!!
I am so very happy for you. Please do go away for so long!! [emoji177]
Hugs and continued well wishes,
Danielle
Thank you so much for the compliment! It's hard for me to see much progress, but with well wishes like yours, I can keep my confidence levels on an even keel. Now, if only there were a magic pill for my voice, lol!
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Hopefully this qualifies for the standards of this thread:
Today was the first time that I have ever put on tights. And I immediately felt really good- I can not recall ever feeling this way about clothes before. I always really hated going shopping for clothes and really didn't care about my style. My mom once told me I was the worst to go shopping with, and that was at least a fair assessment. And then, today I walked.. only a couple steps, I was honestly overwhelmed by how "right" it felt, it's really hard to put a name to the feeling. It was almost unreal how... at home? I felt. I have a bra that feels great too, but this might be different as there was no equivalent to compare the feel to. I was always very selfconscious without a shirt on. So a bra felt more like "normal" - immediately. The distance that I walked was to a mirror - and the back view actually gave me hope. This might be a little thing to those more experienced, but this tremendous emotional impact was something I did not expect. Especially after already trying on other things before. I must rely on hope that you know what I am trying to describe. That feeling was special.
I hope everyone is doing great.
best wishes
Nikki
Quote from: BeingNikki on February 13, 2019, 03:01:31 PM
Hopefully this qualifies for the standards of this thread:
Today was the first time that I have ever put on tights. And I immediately felt really good- I can not recall ever feeling this way about clothes before. I always really hated going shopping for clothes and really didn't care about my style. My mom once told me I was the worst to go shopping with, and that was at least a fair assessment. And then, today I walked.. only a couple steps, I was honestly overwhelmed by how "right" it felt, it's really hard to put a name to the feeling. It was almost unreal how... at home? I felt. I have a bra that feels great too, but this might be different as there was no equivalent to compare the feel to. I was always very selfconscious without a shirt on. So a bra felt more like "normal" - immediately. The distance that I walked was to a mirror - and the back view actually gave me hope. This might be a little thing to those more experienced, but this tremendous emotional impact was something I did not expect. Especially after already trying on other things before. I must rely on hope that you know what I am trying to describe. That feeling was special.
I hope everyone is doing great.
best wishes
Nikki
@BeingNikki Dear Nikki:Your post is completely appropriate for this "Happy" thread.
I am very glad for you that you are finding joy in your new experience of female clothing and various female clothing styles.
No more sloppy pants and baggy shirts for you!!!!
Thank you for sharing.
Best Wishes to you as you continue your journey.
Danielle
So, even on Weight Watchers, I've figured out how to have M&Ms without going "off-plan." Thus, I stopped into Walgreens Wednesday morning, because they always have them on sale. There was a longish line at the register; but the cashier at the cosmetics counter came up and offered to check me out.
While she was ringing me up, I casually mentioned how surprised I was at the volume of cosmetics Walgreens has for sale and that I would have to return and look them over sometime. The cashier replied by telling me that she gave free makeovers and appointments aren't necessary. I don't usually get made up to go shopping; but on this occasion I had, because I was planning on socializing later in the day. So, since she was an artist, I told her I wanted her honest opinion and asked her what she thought of my look, which I think is incredibly basic.
To my surprise, she responded, "I think you're beautiful." That's not something this old girl is accustomed to hearing, especially from someone whose business it is to know. Definitely made my day. :D
Then, while I was doing my regular walk for exercise, I passed by a women's clothing store that was displaying a number of dresses on sale. I stopped, and there was a very cute purple pattern dress in my size -- or what used to be my size, when I was 20 lbs lighter. It was half-price, so I grabbed it, deciding to wear it on my outing. I got home, pressed for time, put it on ... and the back ripped. Silly me, I'm not an L anymore. Thank goodness, it's sweater weather. I threw on a cardigan and went out anyway. It has been so...long... since I could wear a dress in public. I've been waiting until I get back down to my proper weight range to do some serious clothes shopping, and all my other dresses are L or M (I think I may actually be able to wear an M when I get to my target weight). But I just couldn't resist. I'm really more of a dress-and-skirt girl than slacks-and-jeans; and I was surprised that the level of non-acceptance among strangers increased noticeably today. I suppose I shouldn't have been. But I consider this very much a plus experience, despite the ripped dress and the increased hostility -- because I got to wear a dress again. It was lovely.
Quote from: Dietlind on February 12, 2019, 11:26:53 AM
congratulations! I am afraid I will never be able to do this! I have rotator cuff damage in both shoulders, I would need to have my hair down to my butt!
Oh gosh, I'm sorry to hear that! :(
Quote from: Chloe on February 12, 2019, 04:30:18 PM
Yea for you ;D been there done that . . . until cut for a job interview! Vowed NEVER MORE! Four years later am almost there again! ;) Ever try Wen shampoo? Very très cher got a post 'bout it here somewhere!
No no no! No cutting allowed!! 4 years, that must be an impressive length now! ;D ;D Wen shampoo. No, never tried it. Will have to look it up. Thank you. ;D ;D ;D
My wife bought me tulips!
Also, my kidney doctor said things were good and I didn't have to see him for six months.
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!! I just got a letter from my insurance: they have approved funding for my GRS!!!!!
The next step will be to contact Dr. Brassard's clinic to get my name into that queue. Woo-hoo!
Quote from: KathyLauren on February 15, 2019, 10:04:44 AM
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!! I just got a letter from my insurance: they have approved funding for my GRS!!!!!
The next step will be to contact Dr. Brassard's clinic to get my name into that queue. Woo-hoo!
Awesome news! Most surgeons have quite a wait list, but maybe they will have a cancellation and you can get in sooner that you think!
Quote from: KathyLauren on February 15, 2019, 10:04:44 AM
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!! I just got a letter from my insurance: they have approved funding for my GRS!!!!!
The next step will be to contact Dr. Brassard's clinic to get my name into that queue. Woo-hoo!
Congratulations! I hope your waiting period zooms by.
Hugs x 2,
Sarah From Chitown
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Quote from: KathyLauren on February 15, 2019, 10:04:44 AM
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!! I just got a letter from my insurance: they have approved funding for my GRS!!!!!
The next step will be to contact Dr. Brassard's clinic to get my name into that queue. Woo-hoo!
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!
Quote from: Steph2.0 on February 15, 2019, 01:05:27 PM
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!
Oh wow! Congratulations Stephanie! :)
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on February 15, 2019, 01:24:21 PM
Oh wow! Congratulations Stephanie! :)
Chrissy
Thanks Chrissy, but this one is Kathy's celebration!!
So join us in a group Squeeee for Kathy!!
Quote from: Steph2.0 on February 15, 2019, 01:27:58 PM
Thanks Chrissy, but this one is Kathy's celebration!!
So join us in a group Squeeee for Kathy!!
Stephanie,
Oh I misread that! Ooops!
KathyLauren, that is great news! :)
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on February 15, 2019, 01:36:23 PM
Stephanie,
Oh I misread that! Ooops!
KathyLauren, that is great news! :)
Chrissy
No problem Chrissy. I'll just accept your Squeee for my own GCS appointment on September 25th!
Stephanie
Quote from: Steph2.0 on February 15, 2019, 01:42:20 PM
No problem Chrissy. I'll just accept your Squeee for my own GCS appointment on September 25th!
Stephanie
September will be here quicker than we might think... :)
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on February 15, 2019, 01:44:35 PM
September will be here quicker than we might think... :)
Chrissy
Seven months and ten days, but who's counting? (ME!!)
Got all kinds of dates set up to make me more of a woman. Will have my pre-op for the orchi on Monday, will have the first electrolysis of my life on Tuesday, will have my endo appointment to change meds on Thursday, and will have my orchi on Friday. A pretty busy week for me coming up!
Quote from: Dietlind on February 15, 2019, 03:21:56 PM
Got all kinds of dates set up to make me more of a woman. Will have my pre-op for the orchi on Monday, will have the first electrolysis of my life on Tuesday, will have my endo appointment to change meds on Thursday, and will have my orchi on Friday. A pretty busy week for me coming up!
Busy lady! [emoji846]
Hugs x 2,
Sarah From Chitown
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Quote from: KathyLauren on February 15, 2019, 10:04:44 AM
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!! I just got a letter from my insurance: they have approved funding for my GRS!!!!!
The next step will be to contact Dr. Brassard's clinic to get my name into that queue. Woo-hoo!
Congratulations Kathy, I know that this is a big one for you and one that you have been worried over for some time. So, SQUEEEEEEEEEEEE!! away some more!
Tia Anne
Quote from: KathyLauren on February 15, 2019, 10:04:44 AM
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!! I just got a letter from my insurance: they have approved funding for my GRS!!!!!
The next step will be to contact Dr. Brassard's clinic to get my name into that queue. Woo-hoo!
Congratulations Kathy! Very exciting! Yes you want to get on the list as soon as possible! Look forward to hear how that process goes for you! I found the clinic staff to be very helpful. Once surgery arrived, the doctors and nurses were angels! So wonderful!
Completed one month of Estradiol patch and Spironolactone. Having a tough time with Spironolactone.
Quote from: CelineK on February 15, 2019, 06:10:00 PM
Completed one month of Estradiol patch and Spironolactone. Having a tough time with Spironolactone.
@CelineK Dear Celine: Regarding troubles with Spiro, you are not alone, usually the issues you are experiencing will lessen over time but if not it would be best to check with your doctor... every body reacts differently to HRT.
I am so very glad that you have become a member here and this is
your very first posting. I am happy to see that you found the Susan's Place Forums.
As you post on the forums you will be able to exchange thoughts and comments with others that are experiencing many of the same things that you are. I expect that you will be getting many members offering their thoughts and suggestions as you continue to post here.
This is the right place for you to be to find out what others may have to say that may have been in your circumstances and with your questions and concerns.
There are a lot of members here that will be able to identify with your situation and as you continue to feel free to share with all of us.
I also want to warmly
WELCOME you to Susan's Place.
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As you are certainly aware you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other like-minded members. When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others
and offer support to others. ....
***There is a very good chance that you might find that you will
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Hi, Celine!
Welcome to Susan's Place.
Congratulations on your first month on HRT!
I hear you on the spiro! I take it because it does what it is supposed to do, but I hate the constant dehydration, having to be always drinking water, the constant peeing, the hungover feeling every morning.
But soon, you'll probably begin seeing positive changes in your body, and that makes it all worthwhile.
[edit:] I see the lovely
@Alaskan Danielle has already given you the official greeting.
@CelineK Oh, and another thing Celine...
Please plan to write a post and tell us more about yourself in the Introductions Forum (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,8.0.html) so that other members will be aware of your arrival... therefore you will be able to share your thoughts with more members here.
I see that our lovely member @KathyLauren has just Officially Greeted you too... we want to make you feel welcome here.!!! :)
Thank you again for joining Susan's Place and being involved in the Forums here.
Best wishes to you,
DanielleNOTE: Now after all of this Greeting Stuff I will let everyone have their thread back so you can pursue answers to your questions.
Other members here will certainly be along to give you their comments and suggestions that you may be seeking
@CelineK Quote from: CelineK on February 15, 2019, 06:10:00 PM
Completed one month of Estradiol patch and Spironolactone. Having a tough time with Spironolactone.
One month is a mark to celebrate! It's a very important one, as well as each and every success you achieve in the future.
While taking spiro, make sure you stay hydrated.
Very important that!
I also had a few dizzy spells in the beginning, scary, can't move dizzy spells.
But only a few and I actually attribute it to not staying hydrated.
Yes, you will need to pee often, but it is worth it.
And if you didn't like pickles before....you may now!
Congratulations again on your first month of hrt!
Hugs and smiles, Jessica
I got a sideshave! Woohoo!
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Starting to look wild, aren't you?
Quote from: AoifeB on February 16, 2019, 12:47:49 AM
I got a sideshave! Woohoo!
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The surprising part, to me, is that you look MORE feminine with the new haircut than before. I don't know why that surprises me, but it did...
Maybe wild, but it looks GREAT!!!
Kate
Quote from: KatieP on February 16, 2019, 01:00:59 PM
The surprising part, to me, is that you look MORE feminine with the new haircut than before. I don't know why that surprises me, but it did...
Maybe wild, but it looks GREAT!!!
Kate
Right?! I don't know how shaving half my head did that, I just wanted to look like Tank Girl.
My wife, a friend, and I getting a massage. They went in first, I'm waiting.
A gentleman and his wife, I assume, came in. He asked the person at the counter, who came out of the back, how long. He pointed at me and said, "She's first" then pointed at his wife and said, "she's next".
:) :)
Quote from: Faith on February 16, 2019, 01:14:30 PM
My wife, a friend, and I getting a massage. They went in first, I'm waiting.
A gentleman and his wife, I assume, came in. He asked the person at the counter, who came out of the back, how long. He pointed at me and said, "She's first" then pointed at his wife and said, "she's next".
:) :)
[emoji846]
Hugs x 2,
Sarah From Chitown
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I've not shaved since Wednesday. First sign of larger patches. Woohooo. I just hope there's enough to grab Monday afternoon for electro. I may have to quit shaving entirely for a while. Taking to long to regrow.
Quote from: Jaime320 on February 16, 2019, 07:57:49 PM
I've not shaved since Wednesday. First sign of larger patches. Woohooo. I just hope there's enough to grab Monday afternoon for electro. I may have to quit shaving entirely for a while. Taking to long to regrow.
I have to wait with shaving until Tuesday, I have my first ever electrolysis than! I have not shaved for a week now! I have to go grocery shopping tomorrow, nd to my pre op on Monday. I think those are trips I might want to do in guy mode again!
Picked up my last ever refill for Spiro....
Quote from: sarah1972 on February 17, 2019, 08:31:09 AM
Picked up my last ever refill for Spiro....
@sarah1972 Dear Sarah:Well, this is certainly a big and exciting milepost in your continuing journey... a special notation in your journal would be in order for sure.... and be certain to "save" the pill bottle, or at least the label, as a keepsake of your travels down your journey road.
Please continue to keep us updated as you have been doing... I am rooting for you!!!!!
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Jaime320 on February 16, 2019, 07:57:49 PM
I've not shaved since Wednesday. First sign of larger patches. Woohooo. I just hope there's enough to grab Monday afternoon for electro. I may have to quit shaving entirely for a while. Taking to long to regrow.
How exciting to be noticing the patches and slowing of growth! Soon there will be nothing!
Quote from: Jessica on February 15, 2019, 07:48:02 PM
@CelineK
While taking spiro, make sure you stay hydrated.
Very important that!
I also had a few dizzy spells in the beginning, scary, can't move dizzy spells.
But only a few and I actually attribute it to not staying hydrated.
I started having those dizzy spells after my dosage increase. They can be very scary! I had some major moments of freaking out!
I drank more water and that seemed to help. I can't drink enough water...which means I go to the bathroom multiple times an hour!
It is encouraging to know others have experienced and gotten through that stuff also.
Quote from: RealLacy on February 17, 2019, 08:52:26 AM
I started having those dizzy spells after my dosage increase. They can be very scary! I had some major moments of freaking out!
I drank more water and that seemed to help. I can't drink enough water...which means I go to the bathroom multiple times an hour!
It is encouraging to know others have experienced and gotten through that stuff also.
Same here, also if you are peeing a lot your sodium probably needs help. I was eating pickles like it was the end of the world for a few years.
I'm on my friends hen do!! :D
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Quote from: RealLacy on February 17, 2019, 08:52:26 AM
I started having those dizzy spells after my dosage increase. They can be very scary! I had some major moments of freaking out!
I drank more water and that seemed to help. I can't drink enough water...which means I go to the bathroom multiple times an hour!
It is encouraging to know others have experienced and gotten through that stuff also.
Im starting to think the 150oz of water a day is not enough. Had a few dizzy spells and headaches last week.
Quote from: MollyPants on February 17, 2019, 10:58:34 AM
I'm on my friends hen do!! :D
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????? Hen do?
Bachelorette party for the Americans :)
Quote from: Jaime320 on February 17, 2019, 06:39:39 PM
Im starting to think the 150oz of water a day is not enough. Had a few dizzy spells and headaches last week.
I agree! I have a 44 oz. Cup that I carry with me. I drink 3 to 4 a day, but that doesn't seem to be enough to fight off the dizziness. Only once I hit the 200 oz level do I feel better. I honestly didn't expect to have this side effect at nearly 4 months.
I feel like I am about to spring a leak all day long! Luckily my job allows me frequent toilet breaks. If it didn't I would no doubt be having some issues!
I'm going to try to take my Spiro in 3 portions instead of two and see if that helps. Thankfully the morning sickness left after the first week on the increased dosage.
Lacy
Quote from: RealLacy on February 17, 2019, 10:56:27 PM
I agree! I have a 44 oz. Cup that I carry with me. I drink 3 to 4 a day, but that doesn't seem to be enough to fight off the dizziness. Only once I hit the 200 oz level do I feel better. I honestly didn't expect to have this side effect at nearly 4 months.
I feel like I am about to spring a leak all day long! Luckily my job allows me frequent toilet breaks. If it didn't I would no doubt be having some issues!
I'm going to try to take my Spiro in 3 portions instead of two and see if that helps. Thankfully the morning sickness left after the first week on the increased dosage.
Lacy
How can you stay asleep with all that water and spiro? I can't hold it any longer than 6 hours, and I drink less!
Quote from: Dietlind on February 17, 2019, 11:09:28 PM
How can you stay asleep with all that water and spiro? I can't hold it any longer than 6 hours, and I drink less!
I don't! I am up 2 or 3 times a night about to burst at the seams!
Quote from: RealLacy on February 17, 2019, 11:15:23 PM
I don't! I am up 2 or 3 times a night about to burst at the seams!
I just seem not to have any of those side effects after getting my E doblet about weeks ago. In fact, the only pseudo pregnancy effects I had, were during he very first two weeks on E.
I seem to have real big problems with spiro, and I am very glad that I never need to take it again after the end of this week!
This made me happy.
My brother wrote this in our email thread about setting a date for our fantasy Baseball draft.
Tonya drives in from Wisconsin, so except in rare circumstances, weekends are always better for her.
So my big bro still has my back and gets the pronoun issue. Not that I doubted, but it is nice to see it in print.
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Tonya, it is always nice when our siblings have our backs! A couple of times, I have heard my brother refer to me as his sister. It gives me a goose-bumpy thrill when I hear it.
@TonyaW Dear Tonya:
You are most fortunate to have such an accepting brother... very affirming for you to get a note with those kind and considerate words with your correct name and pronouns too!!!
I am so happy for you... now, if I just got that kind of acceptance from my immediate family members... I am still hoping.
Thank you for sharing your wonderful "happy" news today.
Hugs and continuing best wishes,
Danielle Quote from: TonyaW on February 18, 2019, 10:54:49 AM
This made me happy.
My brother wrote this in our email thread about setting a date for our fantasy Baseball draft.
Tonya drives in from Wisconsin, so except in rare circumstances, weekends are always better for her.
So my big bro still has my back and gets the pronoun issue. Not that I doubted, but it is nice to see it in print.
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I feel like I've made some huge progress presenting in public. I spent the whole weekend as a girl doing all kinds of things including going to a water park in a swimsuit for the first time and dancing the night away!!
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Past my pre op for my orchi with flying colors!
I will have my first facial electrolysis tomorrow, wonder what hurts more, the facial stuff or the orchi?
Quote from: MollyPants on February 18, 2019, 12:34:30 PM
I feel like I've made some huge progress presenting in public. I spent the whole weekend as a girl doing all kinds of things including going to a water park in a swimsuit for the first time and dancing the night away!!
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How awesome to read this! The first few times are both terrifying and wonderful, and I mean that in the original sense, "full of wonder." Congratulations, and here's to many more such weekends, and to the rest of your life lived that way.
Stephanie
I survived my electrolysis today! I seem to have a pretty high level of pain tolerance in my face. The upper lip, the side next to my mouth, and the chin was done today. The pain was pretty bearable, nothing to write home bout as anew hobby, but pretty OK. The technician had to finally stop because everything was to wollen up after a while. But all the swelling and pain is gone now.
Because of my beard growth for the procedure, I decided to run around the world in guy mode the last two days, i just thought that would b more appropriate. After the procedure, I shaved as good as I could att eh studio, and got going again. I stopped by at Walmart to get some stuff, and at the checkout I had........... (drum roll)....... the first male fail every.
The check out lady called me ma'am!
I don't know what did it, my longer hair, the ear pins in my ears, or my female looking watch, or my higher pitched voice or all of it together!
I have the feeling that my days as a guy are slowly coming to an end (as if the "balls" plan to take the entire guy with them! >:-)).
@Dietlind Dear Linde:I really enjoyed your update and the report of your venture being out and about and experiencing your very first male-fail even though you were in guy mode!!! :o :o Congratulations are in order....
Thank you for your "happy" report.
Hugs,
DanielleQuote from: Dietlind on February 19, 2019, 07:56:00 PM
I survived my electrolysis today! I seem to have a pretty high level of pain tolerance in my face. The upper lip, the side next to my mouth, and the chin was done today. The pain was pretty bearable, nothing to write home bout as anew hobby, but pretty OK. The technician had to finally stop because everything was to wollen up after a while. But all the swelling and pain is gone now.
Because of my beard growth for the procedure, I decided to run around the world in guy mode the last two days, i just thought that would b more appropriate. After the procedure, I shaved as good as I could att eh studio, and got going again. I stopped by at Walmart to get some stuff, and at the checkout I had........... (drum roll)....... the first male fail every.
The check out lady called me ma'am!
I don't know what did it, my longer hair, the ear pins in my ears, or my female looking watch, or my higher pitched voice or all of it together!
I have the feeling that my days as a guy are slowly coming to an end (as if the "balls" plan to take the entire guy with them! >:-)).
I saw this in a news feed today and I figured we would appreciate an added benefit for taking female hormones besides breasts, soft skin, hair in the right places and maybe hips and butts:
"Women make up nearly two-thirds of patients with Alzheimer's disease in the U.S., in part because they live
longer than men. But researchers are also exploring whether menopause-related hormonal changes affect the
disease's development.
• Symptoms of menopause—such as night sweats, hot flashes and even memory changes—are caused by declining
levels of estrogen and other hormones.
• Estrogen protects the female brain from aging and stimulates neural activity. It may also help prevent the buildup
of clusters of proteins, or plaques, that are linked to Alzheimer's."
So if it is true that we have female brains then maybe a lifetime on estrogen will help prevent us from getting Alzheimer's. I have wondered what would happen to me if I got Alzheimer's after transitioning.
I know, a little too clinical, but hey, I'll grab what I can.
Hugs,
Emma
Quote from: Dietlind on February 18, 2019, 09:06:57 PM
Past my pre op for my orchi with flying colors!
I will have my first facial electrolysis tomorrow, wonder what hurts more, the facial stuff or the orchi?
Hi Linde, 20 February 2019
If your orchi goes anything like mine, it'll be a breeze and actually feel better. I think you will enjoy leaving the medical facility without those two poison generators. My guess is the facial stuff will hurt more.
Take care Linde, best of luck with your Orchi.
Best always, Love
Christine
Just had my GCS pre-op. The surgeon said she was jealous of my hips!
Great to hear, Jessica_Rose, have someone let us know how you are doing.
My first feminine haircut. I am done with wigs and extensions. [emoji16][emoji16][emoji16](https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190220/4723d6ead901739ed9b82811ea8a6632.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190220/fbfe598961eae3153e3a2abcb7948c49.jpg)
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Quote from: Sabrina Hope on February 20, 2019, 12:13:23 PM
My first feminine haircut. I am done with wigs and extensions. [emoji16][emoji16][emoji16](https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190220/4723d6ead901739ed9b82811ea8a6632.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190220/fbfe598961eae3153e3a2abcb7948c49.jpg)
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Pretty!
Hugs x 2,
Sarah From Chitown
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Finally, slowly, starting to see a she instead of a he. (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190220/080e78d5d9c1c492344fdc380f0f2aee.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190220/af0d17ea4f30322aa70519b3ae37a504.jpg)
Quote from: christinej78 on February 20, 2019, 11:04:36 AM
Hi Linde, 20 February 2019
If your orchi goes anything like mine, it'll be a breeze and actually feel better. I think you will enjoy leaving the medical facility without those two poison generators. My guess is the facial stuff will hurt more.
Take care Linde, best of luck with your Orchi.
Best always, Love
Christine
Thanks for the encouragement and the good wishes Christine!
I don't know whether I have a high tolerance for pain in the face, or whether it is because I am a tough German.
The electrolysis was not all that bad, and they did the stuff around my mouth, including the upper lip area. I would not do this as a hobby, but I did not need any painkillers or anything. At the end, they just smeared some hydrocortisone on the area to help to get the swelling down. I did have hardly any pain either, when they did the lase thing!
If I am so good in handling pain, I could safe some money and do the orchi myself? I have a pretty sharp paring knife, I wonder if that would do it? It is at least good enough for cutting into my finger once in a while!
Hugs
Linde
Got my first letter and hormone levels were good at yesterday's check.
Quote from: jill610 on February 20, 2019, 03:35:13 PM
Finally, slowly, starting to see a she instead of a he. (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190220/080e78d5d9c1c492344fdc380f0f2aee.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190220/af0d17ea4f30322aa70519b3ae37a504.jpg)
Ummm where's the dude?
Quote from: jill610 on February 21, 2019, 09:34:04 AM
Quote from: Jaime320 on February 21, 2019, 09:25:59 AM
Ummm where's the dude?
Thank you :)
I still see guy :(
I know this feeling. Trust others. I don't see any guy in your photos either and I'm pretty good at spotting
him.
I talked to my Dad a few days ago. We had a great conversation. He's 88y, a psychiatrist trained in psychoanalysis, and I mean he is a true Freudian. He is really trying hard to learn more about TGism so he going to psychoanalytic journals for an academic POV. Okay, that is a start.
I suggested he read more first person accounts from TG women and pointed hin to the book, To My Trans Sisters. He went out the next day to the book store and bought the book. I haven't talked to him since to listen to his thoughts.
And, I told him about choosing a name that matches my GI and told him I had chosen Zoey Catherine, Catherine to honour my Mom who passed away 10y ago. Now he is calling Zoey or Z-C.
I wrote to him:
Choosing a name that reflects my identified gender is one step in the process and I have chosen Zoey Catherine, partly to honour Mom. I know this is weird and hard for people whom have known me my entire life. Honestly, it is new for me as well, but i am getting used to it and introduce myself to new friends as Zoey.
It meant much to me to hear you use my chosen name ...
Know that I am happy notwithstanding the separation and divorce. I am happy that you love and support me. All of us are on a new journey, it may be a bit wild at times and we will hang on to each other as we move forward.
With much love, your daughter, Zoey.
Here is what he wrote back to me:
Hi Zoey Catherine : That today was a step forward for us was deeply felt by me as well ! This E-mail to me is special and I know that it will indeed stay that way , and I am downloading it to always reread it as a reminder .
Love is amazing. Thanks, Dad.
Hugs Zoey xoxoxo
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Quote from: Zoey421 on February 21, 2019, 10:02:25 AM
I talked to my Dad a few days ago. We had a great conversation. He's 88y, a psychiatrist trained in psychoanalysis, and I mean he is a true Freudian. He is really trying hard to learn more about TGism so he going to psychoanalytic journals for an academic POV. Okay, that is a start.
I suggested he read more first person accounts from TG women and pointed hin to the book, To My Trans Sisters. He went out the next day to the book store and bought the book. I haven't talked to him since to listen to his thoughts.
And, I told him about choosing a name that matches my GI and told him I had chosen Zoey Catherine, Catherine to honour my Mom who passed away 10y ago. Now he is calling Zoey or Z-C.
I wrote to him:
Choosing a name that reflects my identified gender is one step in the process and I have chosen Zoey Catherine, partly to honour Mom. I know this is weird and hard for people whom have known me my entire life. Honestly, it is new for me as well, but i am getting used to it and introduce myself to new friends as Zoey.
It meant much to me to hear you use my chosen name ...
Know that I am happy notwithstanding the separation and divorce. I am happy that you love and support me. All of us are on a new journey, it may be a bit wild at times and we will hang on to each other as we move forward.
With much love, your daughter, Zoey.
Here is what he wrote back to me:
Hi Zoey Catherine : That today was a step forward for us was deeply felt by me as well ! This E-mail to me is special and I know that it will indeed stay that way , and I am downloading it to always reread it as a reminder .
Love is amazing. Thanks, Dad.
Hugs Zoey xoxoxo
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Okay, that induced a few happy sniffles. Congratulations, Zoey Catherine, and kudos to your dad. Love IS amazing.
Stephanie
Quote from: Jaime320 on February 21, 2019, 09:25:59 AM
Ummm where's the dude?
Jill, I TOTALLY concur with Jaime!!! Great job.
Probably like all of us, I look for gender clues very critically every single time I look at anyone. In my professional ( ;D) opinion, you are way past the tipping point, Jill. Based on the pictures, Jill, I would have clocked you as female.
That said, I literally laughed out loud from your comment, Jaime. "Where's the dude?" HA! I can picture the little old Wendy's lady saying, "Where's the beef?" So fun.
Probably that should be our winning motto, and the indicator to move to the "Fabulous" thread... ;D
Kate
Quote from: KatieP on February 21, 2019, 11:01:04 AM
Jill, I TOTALLY concur with Jaime!!! Great job.
Probably like all of us, I look for gender clues very critically every single time I look at anyone. In my professional ( ;D) opinion, you are way past the tipping point, Jill. Based on the pictures, Jill, I would have clocked you as female.
That said, I literally laughed out loud from your comment, Jaime. "Where's the dude?" HA! I can picture the little old Wendy's lady saying, "Where's the beef?" So fun.
Probably that should be our winning motto, and the indicator to move to the "Fabulous" thread... ;D
Kate
Now you went and put that catch phrase in my brain, evil! They are back to using it again I think.
Quote from: jill610 on February 21, 2019, 09:34:04 AM
Thank you :)
I still see guy :(
Would you please be so kind and point the guy out to me? i did not know that my eyesight was that bad that I mistake a woman for a guy?
Ws at my endo today, and he told me that I should definitely stop spiro, and very likely Finasteride, too, if my urologist agrees with this. That would be great, two less chemicals I have to stuff into my body. The endo even felt that I might be able to get along with estrogen only, now that it does not need to fight the testosterone anymore. We will see in about a month. He said, I might get even a slower beard growth than I have currently already, I hope that this is true, and I would do very limited electrolysis only!
We talked about my desire of losing more weight, and he felt that this may cause my diabetes to go mostly away to being glucose intolerant only (pre diabetes)! I will try very hard to achieve this!
This was a good day for me!
<NO DOSAGES PLEASE>
We booked our hotel for GCS. 10 days away from home and our fur babies. But still, one more cogin the GCS timeline!
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Quote from: SophiaBleu on February 21, 2019, 03:20:44 PM
We booked our hotel for GCS. 10 days away from home and our fur babies. But still, one more cogin the GCS timeline!
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@SophiaBleu Well, yes indeed this is happy news that you reported...
GCS is
not just one more cog in your transition timeline,
it is definitively
one of the very big cogs and a major step.
When it the tentative date for your GCS?
Please keep us all updated so we can be rooting for your success and good recovery.
Hugs and best wishes,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on February 21, 2019, 03:27:30 PM
@SophiaBleu
Well, yes indeed this is happy news that you reported...
GCS is not just one more cog in your transition timeline,
it is definitively one of the very big cogs and a major step.
When it the tentative date for your GCS?
Please keep us all updated so we can be rooting for your success and good recovery.
Hugs and best wishes,
Danielle
GCS is at the end of April. Very close now. And you're right. It is a very big cog! [emoji4]
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Three dentist visits for a crown because the first crown cracked while it was being fitted, 4 cracked teeth with silver mercury fillings drilled out then repaired with dental bonding and a cleaning. I am done with the dentist for 6 more months.
Quote from: KatieP on February 21, 2019, 11:01:04 AM
Jill, I TOTALLY concur with Jaime!!! Great job.
Probably like all of us, I look for gender clues very critically every single time I look at anyone. In my professional ( ;D) opinion, you are way past the tipping point, Jill. Based on the pictures, Jill, I would have clocked you as female.
That said, I literally laughed out loud from your comment, Jaime. "Where's the dude?" HA! I can picture the little old Wendy's lady saying, "Where's the beef?" So fun.
Probably that should be our winning motto, and the indicator to move to the "Fabulous" thread... ;D
Kate
I agree Kate.
In a round about way this makes me happy. To different guys gave me a weird look coming and going from men's room. Both were looking down then up and seemed to focus on chest. Umm excuse me. Just wearing jeans and a button down with ball cap. I think the messenger bag is giving something away, but I've been stuffing jacket under strap to help hide. Time to go shopping. Again.
Well my dad passed away on February 4th that is not what makes me happy obviously what makes me happy is I received a letter from the state representative Speaker of the House of Kentucky honoring my dad and sending his condolences that made me so proud
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on February 21, 2019, 07:12:35 PM
Well my dad passed away on February 4th that is not what makes me happy obviously what makes me happy is I received a letter from the state representative Speaker of the House of Kentucky honoring my dad and sending his condolences that made me so proud
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Wow!! A famous family? We have a celebrity among us!!!
;D
And, my condolences about your dad. The deaths of our parents is super hard no matter the relationship we had with them in life...
Kate
Kate
I found some thongs on a steep discount while shopping and thought, eh, let's see. I was happy surprised that they aren't an impossible dream at the moment.
I'm a barrister and when we start a legal claim for a client we create this document that has our name at the bottom. I started this claim for a client about 18 months ago and it was when I was in my former name.
So fast forward 18 months and the trial comes and Im against a guy who I've been against a good few times over the years, but not since I've transitioned. So he comes over and he's chatting about the case and eventually says "oh, by the way, I was expecting [former name] to be here, where is he" to which I respond "well, erm, this is a bit awkward, but I'm him, or he's me, or at least was" Other guy was cool, not mentioned again, but I liked how he didn't twig it was me.
(https://i.imgur.com/6qlcjfU.jpg)
Em x
Quote from: emma-f on February 23, 2019, 04:38:21 AM
I'm a barrister and when we start a legal claim for a client we create this document that has our name at the bottom. I started this claim for a client about 18 months ago and it was when I was in my former name.
So fast forward 18 months and the trial comes and Im against a guy who I've been against a good few times over the years, but not since I've transitioned. So he comes over and he's chatting about the case and eventually says "oh, by the way, I was expecting [former name] to be here, where is he" to which I respond "well, erm, this is a bit awkward, but I'm him, or he's me, or at least was" Other guy was cool, not mentioned again, but I liked how he didn't twig it was me.
(https://i.imgur.com/6qlcjfU.jpg)
Em x
Looking sharp
Quote from: emma-f on February 23, 2019, 04:38:21 AM
I'm a barrister and when we start a legal claim for a client we create this document that has our name at the bottom. I started this claim for a client about 18 months ago and it was when I was in my former name.
So fast forward 18 months and the trial comes and Im against a guy who I've been against a good few times over the years, but not since I've transitioned. So he comes over and he's chatting about the case and eventually says "oh, by the way, I was expecting [former name] to be here, where is he" to which I respond "well, erm, this is a bit awkward, but I'm him, or he's me, or at least was" Other guy was cool, not mentioned again, but I liked how he didn't twig it was me.
(https://i.imgur.com/6qlcjfU.jpg)
Em x
Hehe, you look great, I'm not surprised at all he didn't twig, but I'm glad he respected you. X
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Quote from: jill610 on February 20, 2019, 03:35:13 PM
Finally, slowly, starting to see a she instead of a he. (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190220/080e78d5d9c1c492344fdc380f0f2aee.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190220/af0d17ea4f30322aa70519b3ae37a504.jpg)
I don't see even the faintest semblance of male... I understand where you're at though. The demons our minds create are bizarre.
You are quite beautiful x
Quote from: emma-f on February 23, 2019, 04:38:21 AM
I'm a barrister and when we start a legal claim for a client we create this document that has our name at the bottom. I started this claim for a client about 18 months ago and it was when I was in my former name.
So fast forward 18 months and the trial comes and Im against a guy who I've been against a good few times over the years, but not since I've transitioned. So he comes over and he's chatting about the case and eventually says "oh, by the way, I was expecting [former name] to be here, where is he" to which I respond "well, erm, this is a bit awkward, but I'm him, or he's me, or at least was" Other guy was cool, not mentioned again, but I liked how he didn't twig it was me.
(https://i.imgur.com/6qlcjfU.jpg)
Em x
This is a vote of confidence and younlook great, Emma.
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Woke up this morning and did not find any blood in my packing and only very minimal pain, more discomfort than pain!
What I don't understand that some of the discomfort, like a dull pain, is in my lower belly, at about he point the inguinal canal would start. I wonder if it is the cords, the surgeon said he would cut very short, and which might have retracted up into there?
Quote from: Dietlind on February 23, 2019, 10:16:22 AM
Woke up this morning and did not find any blood in my packing and only very minimal pain, more discomfort than pain!
What I don't understand that some of the discomfort, like a dull pain, is in my lower belly, at about he point the inguinal canal would start. I wonder if it is the cords, the surgeon said he would cut very short, and which might have retracted up into there?
@Dietlind Dear Linde:I have already posted a happy comment on your Orchi surgery thread but I just want to tell here about you how happy I am for you that your recovery is seemingly going so well...
Please understand that any surgery "down there" can cause all kinds of nerve pains (even removed from the immediate area,) black and blue bruising and other temporary issues down there as your body heals.
Hugs and best wishes to you....... thanks for keeping me and the rest of your followers updated.
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on February 23, 2019, 10:25:12 AM
@Dietlind
Dear Linde:
I have already posted a happy comment on your Orchi surgery thread but I just want to tell here about you how happy I am for you that your recovery is seemingly going so well...
Please understand that any surgery "down there" can cause all kinds of nerve pains (even removed from the immediate area,) black and blue bruising and other temporary issues down there as your body heals.
Hugs and best wishes to you....... thanks for keeping me and the rest of your followers updated.
Danielle
Thank you so much Danielle!
Your wishes and support feel really good to me!
Linde
Linde - I just saw from your ticker that its only one day since the orchi! Just wanted to say congratulations - so happy for you!!
Em x
Quote from: emma-f on February 23, 2019, 04:38:21 AM
I'm a barrister and when we start a legal claim for a client we create this document that has our name at the bottom. I started this claim for a client about 18 months ago and it was when I was in my former name.
So fast forward 18 months and the trial comes and Im against a guy who I've been against a good few times over the years, but not since I've transitioned. So he comes over and he's chatting about the case and eventually says "oh, by the way, I was expecting [former name] to be here, where is he" to which I respond "well, erm, this is a bit awkward, but I'm him, or he's me, or at least was" Other guy was cool, not mentioned again, but I liked how he didn't twig it was me.
(https://i.imgur.com/6qlcjfU.jpg)
Em x
This picture should be cross posted in the Looking Fabulous thread, because, ummmm, you look fabulous!!
Kate
Quote from: Sienna Grace on February 23, 2019, 07:18:45 AM
I don't see even the faintest semblance of male... I understand where you're at though. The demons our minds create are bizarre.
You are quite beautiful x
Very beautiful and you give me hope to become as beautiful as you
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Quote from: emma-f on February 23, 2019, 11:56:01 AM
Linde - I just saw from your ticker that its only one day since the orchi! Just wanted to say congratulations - so happy for you!!
Em x
Thank you! I lost quite a bit of blood because of unpredicted bleeding, but that is over now, I am a little weak, but i hope that will be over shortly, too. I am amazed that I have hardly any pain (I was so concerned about pain). I have not had a pain killer the entire day, and just plan to pop one in for a good sleep!
A couple of good days for me. Friday was my body's birthday with way too many years to admit to. Today is my forth birthday. Four years ago this afternoon I met me and it has been awesome!
Tia Anne
I go for the simple joys, my wound is not bleeding anymore, and I did not need any pain pill today either. In fact, the last pill I took was last night to ensure a good night rest, and I might take one tonight again, just in case. I good 30 of the opioid pills prescribed, and used 2 of them so far.
Opioid epidemy anybody?
Oooohhhh I'm in really big trouble now! I bought a lemon krunch pie today. Normally this wouldn't be a problem but I may have to eat this one all by myself. Oooohhhhh I'm really going to pay for this one ::)
Quote from: Donica on February 26, 2019, 03:26:41 PM
Oooohhhh I'm in really big trouble now! I bought a lemon krunch pie today. Normally this wouldn't be a problem but I may have to eat this one all by myself. Oooohhhhh I'm really going to pay for this one ::)
You'll hate yourself in the morning! [emoji6]
Hugs x 2,
Sarah From Chitown
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I ran out of holes on my belt today. Since I started to take losing weight a little more seriously to reach my ideal weight before I start HRT, I have slowly gone down four holes(1 inch / hole) on my belt.
I reached the last one some time ago and this morning as I was getting dressed I realized that I can easily tighten my belt way past the last hole and I had to add a new hole because it just wouldn't hold my pants up.
And there is another side effect, it seems that I don't have a very manly figure when I'm not overweight, I never realized that when I was younger and thinner.
This is how my waist looks like nowadays when I'm pretending to be male at work and people in the men's restroom seem to look at me with more confusion on their faces than ever:
(https://previews.dropbox.com/p/thumb/AAUTDcEupP_5i1Q8npslCUOpOBaiE5j-5HBMJgiKHNvms1pHh7krq8SWpKshmtjISm8tlo-tVtA9iUyxwwy5L4uCk9uZAywlznhG5UoUIMhCL2ZhfzOv116KS-KbcvagUEO97DiARLEQxyojOy76n0pvw_xFWMKrEtoAOMt72o-iLUEp7IZj3pFJsJBzx8m1gw9MOwfv56by35V8YM5f8p0FEDtajEgQHMeBfG-_5-ZQWQ/p.jpeg?size_mode=5)
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Found this great handbag on sale today!!!!! It goes great with my suit.
(https://i.imgur.com/Fl55tT1.jpg)
Quote from: Jenny1969 on February 26, 2019, 08:43:28 PM
Found this great handbag on sale today!!!!! It goes great with my suit.
(https://i.imgur.com/Fl55tT1.jpg)
@Jenny1969 Dear Jenny:Great looking handbag... it goes perfectly with your black pant and black jacket outfit that you posted a picture of on your transition thread. :) :) :) :)
Hugs and best wishes,
Danielle
I discovered the Kumada coupling reaction. It's chemoselective, enantioselective, and it even adds to alkenes without reducing them to alkanes.
It's one of those rare moments when digging through an otherwise brain numbing book where you hear angels singing.
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 26, 2019, 08:48:21 PM
I discovered the Kumada coupling reaction. It's chemoselective, enantioselective, and it even adds to alkenes without reducing them to alkanes.
It's one of those rare moments when digging through an otherwise brain numbing book where you hear angels singing.
Great, and what does that do for me? Can I cook them into a nice meal?
But in reality, I mean really great! I can remember that feeling when the eureka moment was reached!
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 26, 2019, 08:48:21 PM
I discovered the Kumada coupling reaction. It's chemoselective, enantioselective, and it even adds to alkenes without reducing them to alkanes.
It's one of those rare moments when digging through an otherwise brain numbing book where you hear angels singing.
@Colleen_definitelyDear Colleen:Is this part of your dissertation?
Hmmm, extremely cold sub zero catalytic reactions....
....very mind numbing when it is that cold!!!!
Hugs and warm thoughts,
Danielle
I wish.
Starting my dissertation isn't going to happen for another year or so. I haven't even decided on a research group to join yet. This is for an applications of organic reactions class, in which I have an exam tomorrow. However the professor is on my short list of research groups to join doing hardcore organic synthesis work. It's what I know and enjoy but there's a radiopharmaceutical group that would be really fun too another group working on atomic batteries, and then there's the one doing food analysis work.
I'm a fat kid in a candy store but I can only pick one...
I struggled with organic chemistry. P. Chem was much more fun for me.
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Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 26, 2019, 08:48:21 PM
I discovered the Kumada coupling reaction. It's chemoselective, enantioselective, and it even adds to alkenes without reducing them to alkanes.
It's one of those rare moments when digging through an otherwise brain numbing book where you hear angels singing.
It always makes me happy too when I couple with my Kumada. And, I NEVER reduce my alkenes to alkanes.Those C-H bonds are just too strong and I can never find enough H2...
What's a girl to do...?
;D
Kate
Quote from: anne_indy on February 26, 2019, 09:14:43 PM
I struggled with organic chemistry. P. Chem was much more fun for me.
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Not being able to pass P-chem is just one reason why I did not get my Masters in Geology...
Just one of about 10,000 reasons, actually...
Kate
Hmmm. I am an "earth" scientist, but not a rock head (aka geologist).
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I go with the simple stuff again! Not a drop of blood was found in my underpants (the packing I still use). No pain, just a little discomfort to report!
What is not so nice, all the ahir they shaved off for the procedure, seems to be happy to grow again, and is itching like hell, and I can't shave there! Or is that a good sign, because I have all feeling back down there?
<Warning: A bit long...>
So, I have been keeping up with Jessica Rose's GCS thread, which convinced me to go back through Jessica Rose's personal story thread, which also brought to mind again Jessica Rose's NCOD presentation. Which reminded me...
A couple weeks ago, I was one of 6 people on a panel to share their story of inclusion at our biannual Diversity and Inclusion breakfast at my company. (Here to be known as Duamish Books. All other names besides mine have been changed as well...) You can imagine the general topic of my story. The "presentation" was to about 400 people in a large ballroom, and the video was later sent out to another 4000. I don't have the video (only internal streaming available), but I have the text, or at least the text as I intended to say it. It is unlikely I said exactly this, as there was no teleprompter and no notes. But anyway, I thought I would share the text here, as I don't have any "just me" threads, and it definitely made me happy.
Hello. My name is Kate XXXXX, and as Lucy said, I am a YYYYYYY. I am also a transgender woman. What that means is that although I was assigned male at birth, from the first moment I knew there was a difference between boys and girls, I knew I was a girl. There was no doubt at all in my mind. I didn't know or understand why I didn't look like the other girls, but I didn't.
This wasn't much of a problem for me until Jr High School. I was the only person in the boys locker room who shaved her legs. You can imagine how well that went over – in Jr High School. It was in Jr High School that I realized I had been betrayed by biology. I still had no idea what was happening, but I knew it was quite painful. After a suicide attempt, I did the only thing I could think of to survive: I went into hiding, and put on a mask to separate me ... from you. Because frankly, "you" weren't that nice.
In college I first could do the research and realized there were other people like me, and there were options. But I was afraid of throwing away my life as I knew it then.
Long after college, about 30 years ago, I started taking female hormones and migrating my wardrobe to the feminine side. But I kept the mask on for work.
When I started with Duamish Books 24 years ago, all transgender medical services were specifically excluded from our medical insurance. Today, we do a pretty good, not perfect though, job of covering transgender medical services. [Some Duamish Books specific stuff...]
Based on the changes in Duamish Books' position on transgender employees, and the experiences of others in my division, I decided I was going to show at work who I was when not at work.
The first manager I told was Linus, my skip level manager. I sat there in male clothing, showed him a picture, and said I wanted to come to work dressed a bit differently. I told him I had not yet told my direct manager because he lived across the country and I wanted to have that conversation face to face and that opportunity had not yet occurred. Linus immediately said I should schedule a trip and that he would pay for it. I also told Linus that I probably wasn't going to dress this way in customer situations because I didn't want to cause issues with the good work we do for them. Linus said two things that I will never forget. First, he said, If a customer has issues with you, we are behind you 100%. Then, in classic Linus style, Linus provided wisdom when he said, "Information has an escape velocity. At some point you won't be in control of where it goes."
So two weeks later, at our broader team gathering, I came dressed this way, as Kate. I was very worried that some on my team would reject me in some way. But every single person was beyond acceptance and even loving. My best day at Duamish Books in 24 years? That first day with my team. [More Duamish specific stuff...]
In my first customer engagement after that meeting, I wondered about going as Kate. But it was in Argentina and Latin American men have a reputation, at least in my head, of being filled with machismo and not accepting women in leadership. And was it even safe for me, a lone woman, to wander around Buenos Aires? But I went as Kate. And... The experience was AMAZING again. There was not one Argentinian who said anything but She, Her, Madam. Never once was I misgendered in any way. And, those Latin American men not taking direction from a woman? Nope. They were much more interested in what I had to say than they were about what I wore. So much for my own biases...!
But it wasn't all great. On the team with me was Charlie, who I have worked with for 6 years. Several times, especially during the first 2 weeks, Charlie called me He or Him. Not maliciously. Just by mistake. And each time, I could see Charlie physically deflate. Literally, from my perspective, my actions caused my good friend pain. And there was nothing I could do about it.
So the reason I wanted to speak up here this morning was not to tell you my story. But rather, I wanted to say Thank You to YOU. Thank YOU for letting me be ME.
Katie, what a great presentation! You have every right to be happy about it. Congratulations on getting up in front of your fellow employees and sharing your journey with them!
Oh, I got a new dress today, and it fits just right. Now all I need is some warmer weather to wear it out and about!
(https://i.imgur.com/bLZKllZ.jpg)
I had a job interview yesterday. The position is a mental health tech, with the potential to become a case manager in a short time. It's a foot in the door for the psychological field. I feel the interview went well. She was talking about forwarding my paperwork to HR so I think she liked me too.
Quote from: Artesia on March 01, 2019, 09:06:55 AM
I had a job interview yesterday. The position is a mental health tech, with the potential to become a case manager in a short time. It's a foot in the door for the psychological field. I feel the interview went well. She was talking about forwarding my paperwork to HR so I think she liked me too.
@Artesia Dear Artesia:Definitely this is very encouraging and wonderful NEWS that you have just reported....
... I will be following your postings to find out what the final results are...
Congratulations to you regarding this job and career opportunity and possibility for you.
Hugs and wishing you well,
Danielle
Quote from: Artesia on March 01, 2019, 09:06:55 AM
I had a job interview yesterday. The position is a mental health tech, with the potential to become a case manager in a short time. It's a foot in the door for the psychological field. I feel the interview went well. She was talking about forwarding my paperwork to HR so I think she liked me too.
I hope you are lucky, and everything works the way you hope it will!
Fingers are crossed on my side!
Linde
Quote from: Artesia on March 01, 2019, 09:06:55 AM
I had a job interview yesterday. The position is a mental health tech, with the potential to become a case manager in a short time. It's a foot in the door for the psychological field. I feel the interview went well. She was talking about forwarding my paperwork to HR so I think she liked me too.
The job is great but some of the customers are just plain nuts.
Feel free to groan, I'll be here all week, don't forget to tip the wait staff.
I got to remove the medical bra and gauze to take a shower. And I got to see the results of my breast augmentation (BA) up front and personal, as it were. Um... WOW! 🤩
Quote from: Michelle_P on March 01, 2019, 02:54:34 PM
I got to remove the medical bra and gauze to take a shower. And I got to see the results of my breast augmentation (BA) up front and personal, as it were. Um... WOW! [emoji2956]
[emoji4] enjoy your new girls. X
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My work involves a great deal of interaction with the public. Many of the customers I deal with are "good ol' boy" types; but, to my initial surprise, I am always treated with courtesy and occasionally addressed as a woman, even though I don't pass.
This morning, a man I had never seen before came in quite early. We have coffee for customers, and he asked if I had coffee ready. I told him I did; and he replied, "You're a good lady." I tell you, that kind of thing never gets old! I was grinning from ear to ear.
I don't know how it is with others who realize they are trans later in life; but I seem to be going through stages of opening up to myself. I'm guessing it's the seed of my true self pushing up through the soil under which it was buried for so long. Just yesterday, I realized that the depth with which I instinctively orient myself around female imagery had greatly increased, or perhaps simply become much more noticeable. The thing I found remarkable about this was it's something I don't have to try to do; it's automatic. Early in my therapy, my therapist asked me if I wanted to learn female mannerisms. I did not, and I was definite about it; I wanted my natural femininity to emerge on its own. And it seems to be working out that way. It takes time, that's certain; but a few days ago I discovered that I had acquired a feminine walk without consciously trying to do so. I suppose that, since I see myself as a woman, I am naturally doing the things I see other women do, the way a young girl might imitate her mother.
From time to time, I look at where I am now in my life and am amazed that this is real, that I get to be this person, this woman. I feel so privileged, so honored. It's an unending source of joy.
OMG, another first.
I'm sorry to post about myself again, but I literally have no one else to tell. I met a new customer earlier today, a straight man, ex-military, married forever ... Regardless, we had a good conversation while I was helping him get what he wanted.
An hour or two later, he called to ask for some additional help, which I was able to give him over the phone. When the conversation was over, he said, "Thank you, sweetheart."
I couldn't believe it. It was beyond confirming; it was disorienting. Did I just land in some trans-positive corner of the Twilight Zone? A straight man addressed me casually as "sweetheart." I'm simply stunned.
@Ann WDear Ann:Wowzers.... that is, like you stated,
"It was beyond confirming"It is interesting that some cis-women,
certainly not all, might consider being called sweetheart quite demeaning..
I agree with you however.... I get called honey, hun, darling, sweetie, and sweetheart often in my town and especially at my local coffee shop.... and I love it!!!!
Thank you for sharing your happy moment!!!
Hugs,
DanielleQuote from: Ann W on March 02, 2019, 08:50:45 PM
OMG, another first.
I'm sorry to post about myself again, but I literally have no one else to tell. I met a new customer earlier today, a straight man, ex-military, married forever ... Regardless, we had a good conversation while I was helping him get what he wanted.
An hour or two later, he called to ask for some additional help, which I was able to give him over the phone. When the conversation was over, he said, "Thank you, sweetheart."
I couldn't believe it. It was beyond confirming; it was disorienting. Did I just land in some trans-positive corner of the Twilight Zone? A straight man addressed me casually as "sweetheart." I'm simply stunned.
We, or my girlfriend, got a dog. This is Wikket the maltipom.(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190303/9d20ae8d861fe108000798334883fc22.jpg)
Quote from: AoifeB on March 02, 2019, 09:12:56 PM
We, or my girlfriend, got a dog. This is Wikket the maltipom.(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190303/9d20ae8d861fe108000798334883fc22.jpg)
Cute furbaby!
I went to a friends birthday party at a bar in town. I went in male mode, but was wear full female attire. I straightened my hair and had on some dangly earrings on.
My coworkers best friend hopped out of her vehicle and asked her (my coworker) if I was the female Jordan at work she had heard about! My friend told her I wasn't but that I was transgender. She was super accepting and went out of her way to talk to me all night! To the point of being flirty!
My first male fail and I didn't even try! Yay!
Lacy
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on March 01, 2019, 10:16:54 AM
The job is great but some of the customers are just plain nuts.
Feel free to groan, I'll be here all week, don't forget to tip the wait staff.
Where's the laugh emote? I love it!
Quote from: RealLacy on March 03, 2019, 12:47:18 AM
I went to a friends birthday party at a bar in town. I went in male mode, but was wear full female attire. I straightened my hair and had on some dangly earrings on.
My coworkers best friend hopped out of her vehicle and asked her (my coworker) if I was the female Jordan at work she had heard about! My friend told her I wasn't but that I was transgender. She was super accepting and went out of her way to talk to me all night! To the point of being flirty!
My first male fail and I didn't even try! Yay!
Lacy
Isn't it a great feeling? The question is, did you like the company and flirtation?
My wife bought me a hat for my birthday!(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190303/0339e8d0bef446e1bc209187d4d690ba.jpg)
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Quote from: Artesia on March 03, 2019, 10:54:57 AM
Isn't it a great feeling? The question is, did you like the company and flirtation?
It was an amazing feeling!
The flirting was definitely flattering and appreciated!
Since I'm married the company would have been a little uncomfortable if I had been alone and without a mutual friend.
Ok ok I just saved $400 dollars this week (which still don't have btw) REJUVENATING TIRED, OLD DEAD BATTERIES appears to work! My solar deep cycles were resting at 43 volts for months and now I'm getting a solid 51 with A/C season soon upon us!
Procedure: dump electrolyte, refill with 1cup baking soda/warm water gallon (for good mix) let sit/shake a few days then empty and refill with 1cup Pure Epson Salts/warmed distilled water gallon and slow charge (used 1amp @ 55volts) for 2-3 days and VOILA! All very cheap that's it!
Plan is to add 4 more new deep cycles (3 serial banks of 4 connected in parallel total of 12) plus another KW of panels (3KW total) and my sunny daytime electric bill should be close to zero (0)? Happy Happy Happy! Those 4 new batts will pay for themselves in about 3 months . . .
I don't run off battery power at night ULTIMATE FANTASY is to use green powered water separators to store hydrogen for use in a fuel cell (achm still tres' cher!) that will maintain, via same MPPT Charge Controller, nighttime batts instead!
Quote from: Chloe on March 03, 2019, 09:42:54 PM
Ok ok I just saved $400 dollars this week (which still don't have btw) REJUVENATING TIRED, OLD DEAD BATTERIES appears to work! My solar deep cycles were resting at 43 volts for months and now I'm getting a solid 51 with A/C season soon upon us!
Procedure: dump electrolyte, refill with 1cup baking soda/warm water gallon (for good mix) let sit/shake a few days then empty and refill with 1cup Pure Epson Salts/warmed distilled water gallon and slow charge (used 1amp @ 55volts) for 2-3 days and VOILA! All very cheap that's it!
Plan is to add 4 more new deep cycles (3 serial banks of 4 connected in parallel total of 12) plus another KW of panels (3KW total) and my sunny daytime electric bill should be close to zero (0)? Happy Happy Happy! Those 4 new batts will pay for themselves in about 3 months . . .
I don't run off battery power at night ULTIMATE FANTASY is to use green powered water separators to store hydrogen for use in a fuel cell (achm still tres' cher!) that will maintain, via same MPPT Charge Controller, nighttime batts instead!
We rejuvenated batteries in the lab by reversing polarity with a higher than charging voltage for a very short time. This way plates expanded a little and broke of old oxidation. After that we flushed the batteries well to get the old sludge out that shortens the plates and reduces capacity.
But you can turn it any way you want , lead acid batteries are not the proper storage media for these applications. you have way to many discharge and charge cycles taking place to get a long life form those babies. You should see if you can steal a set of batteries from a Tesla car, they should keep you going!
Ulta shopping spree! Had a blast doing a girls' afternoon with a friend. Cashier ended up being an old co-worker from 2010 or so, and she didn't recognize me.(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20190305/249c1c55a2bfaaef0169fa98a2adf268.jpg)
Was at Costco today, and had my cart sitting n ext to a shelf, and a an started to push it away, his wife barked at him: "John, you took the cart from this lady, bring it back to her", and turning to me, she said, "you know, men!"
Same store, a little later, I had to go to the bathroom, and all stalls were occupied. A few ladies and I were standing there and waiting, and one of them started to do a small talk conversation with me.
I think that was a day of passing as much as anybody could want to pass!
And that on the footstep of my several male fails a few days ago! I think woman , what it needs to be from now on!
This thread is reaching the max number of pages. I hope to have many more happy things to report in the near future. I hope catching up with the new revision pages is easy.
Hugs everyone!
"Hello, God, this is Ann ..."
About two years ago, when I first started with my gender therapist, she asked me if I wanted to learn female mannerisms. I told her No, because I believed my femininity would find its natural expression, given time, and I wanted nothing artificial or contrived about my presentation to the world.
It's been nearly two years since I came out to myself, and it's happening. The shy girl is emerging into the light, and it's glorious! I don't want to catalog specifics; suffice to say, it's real, it's happening and it's wonderful.
One thing more ... and I'd really like to hear from anyone else who has had this experience.
A day or two ago, it suddenly struck me as astonishing that other people don't perceive me as a woman. I don't pass; but it doesn't matter. It's so obvious to me that the fact that it isn't to other people seemed ridiculous to me.
I know this sounds weird. I understand, intellectually, why people don't see me as a woman. But, emotionally, it's perplexing. How can they not see? :)
At about noon I received a telephone call: Hi this is DrXXXX office, can I talk to Dietlind XXXX?
I told the lady that she as talking to her, and she told me that the doc had decided I should double my daily dose of estrogen, and have a blood test done in 6 weeks!
6 weeks at least with double the glorious E, I can't imagine what all would happen to me? Probably the most beautiful to look at girlish cheeks? Or tripple D sized boobs? Or a butt that the Kardashians (sp?) would be dreaming of?
Or just noting really fantastic, just give me a little more boost for my energy?
Anyway, this call made me really happy!
Quote from: Dietlind on March 06, 2019, 07:56:42 PM
Or just noting really fantastic, just give me a little more boost for my energy?
Well
GOOD LUCK with all of that Linde! At our age just gettin' outta bed can be a plus!
We Is All Happy! (http://youtube.com/watch?v=gIF4cZWpRag) ( OMG "
Video unavailable This video has been removed by the user" >:( Nuts to you "NBC Universal"!
Got an interview for a second part-time job tomorrow 8) worked at CB for all of three days in last two weeks but do get the 50% discount . . . for NOT workin' there?
Quote from: Chloe on March 06, 2019, 08:22:49 PM
Well GOOD LUCK with all of that Linde! At our age just gettin' outta bed can be a plus!
We Is All Happy! (http://youtube.com/watch?v=gIF4cZWpRag) ( OMG "Video unavailable This video has been removed by the user" >:( Nuts to you "NBC Universal"!
Got an interview for a second part-time job tomorrow 8) worked at CB for all of three days in last two weeks but do get the 50% discount . . . for NOT workin' there?
Thanks Chloe. You are right, getting out of bed every morning is not all that bad, but it would be way better with real big boobs! (I actually don't need that much more, I am a B cup, and would be happy if I would need a C size boob container!)
I don't know what CB stands for and thus the 50% discount means nothing to me, but it sounds good for not working.
I hope the interview tomorrow goes well, and I hope you'll like the new job!
Good luck!
Quote from: Dietlind on March 06, 2019, 07:56:42 PM
At about noon I received a telephone call: Hi this is DrXXXX office, can I talk to Dietlind XXXX?
I told the lady that she as talking to her, and she told me that the doc had decided I should double my daily dose of estrogen, and have a blood test done in 6 weeks!
6 weeks at least with double the glorious E, I can't imagine what all would happen to me? Probably the most beautiful to look at girlish cheeks? Or tripple D sized boobs? Or a butt that the Kardashians (sp?) would be dreaming of?
!!!
Or just noting really fantastic, just give me a little more boost for my energy?
Anyway, this call made me really happy!
@Dietlind Dear Linde:That kind of a phone call that your received from your doctor's office is a wonderful thing for you to get.
I am all for you being excited about what more E can do for your body... I will agree with the benefits to your energy and your girlish cheeks... but
tripple D boobs and a way too
big bottom? ???.... you might want to be careful what you wish for.!!! ;) :o ::) ::)
Thank you for posting your "happy" news!!!!
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on March 06, 2019, 09:55:58 PM
@Dietlind
Dear Linde:
That kind of a phone call that your received from your doctor's office is a wonderful thing for you to get.
I am all for you being excited about what more E can do for your body... I will agree with the benefits to your energy and your girlish cheeks... but tripple D boobs and a way too big bottom? ???.... you might want to be careful what you wish for.!!! ;) :o ::) ::)
Thank you for posting your "happy" news!!!!
Hugs,
Danielle
Thank you Danielle
As always, your thoughtful comments bring a smile onto my face! I think I will leave the butt for the Kardashians, and will be happy if I get a C size bosom! I probably could donate the not needed D's to some other girl here?
Have a wonderful night!
Linde
I am the happiest I have been in a long time.
In the last few weeks I got a new job - nothing like my former career pay or responsibility wise but the best job I have had in 4 years so YAY !! My poker dealing job is allowing me to stay one day a week on Sunday afternoons so I can make some extra money - another YAY !!
I have been having some severe financial problems but came into enough money to keep my apartment - it was getting scary - another YAY !!!
Today I got my hair colored a great shade of red and went to Ulta and resupplied my beauty supplies - more YAY !!
A cis woman acquaintance of mine invited me to join her and a friend for a girls spa day YAY again !!!
And now that I am working 9 to 5 again I get to start going back to my local transgender group next Saturday YAY !!
Life has been very tough lately but everything is turning around - I am so happy. :D
Sometimes when things are tough if you persevere things eventually go the right way. It's been a tough road but I am so ready for a good stretch. Now it's time to lose some weight and enjoy the summer outdoors.
Wishing everyone else happiness. :)
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on March 06, 2019, 09:55:58 PM... but tripple D boobs and a way too big bottom? ???.... you might want to be careful what you wish for.!!! ;) :o ::) ::)
@Dietlind I'll second that and, if ya don't mind a girl askin', how tall are you and how much weigh? I'd much rather have a thin, teen girl type frame with a "B", at most, to match body shape am almost there -
in breast that is, but not in frame! Could stand to lose 20lbs but easier said than done.
It's Ash Wednesday yesterday, 1'st day of Lent. Pastor tells the bible story of not advertising our fast, of keeping "giving up something" a secret, then turns around and applies a big 'ole forehead mark for
ALL TO SEE? What's that about? Always kept inner thoughts to transition to myself, as a well guarded "secret", so does that mean I'm "
God Approved"? Under His protection? Seems that way but how times have changed! The one time I did open up, see "a therapist", she said "
will ok whatever you want"!
Men's group at church is going well . . . it's AMAZING how guys in general seem very down on themselves and women/wives can seemingly do no wrong? I find it telling the topic of "gay" keeps coming up more than it should don't think they're ready for "
trans" yet . . . and suppose my "secret" goal is to make it more obvious? The Head Pastor knows, due past divorce drama, and I get "hugs" regardless!
I
RAMBLE and vary my "E" three weeks low then forth go HIGH!
Quote from: Chloe on March 07, 2019, 04:15:20 AM
@Dietlind I'll second that and, if ya don't mind a girl askin', how tall are you and how much weigh? I'd much rather have a thin, teen girl type frame with a "B", at most, to match body shape am almost there - in breast that is, but not in frame! Could stand to lose 20lbs but easier said than done.
I am a tallish lady, I am 6' and weight around 195 pounds. I hope to loose 15 to 20 of those. It seems as if I am placing the weight I loose right back into the more female fat distribution areas. I know that my waistline got a little smaller (measured), and my arms seem to have gotten a little thinner, too. But my scale tells me that I did not loose anything. I assume the fat moved to different locations!
I have 40 B sized breasts, but they kind of getting lost on my rather large rib cage.
Quote from: KimOct on March 07, 2019, 02:27:36 AM
I am the happiest I have been in a long time.
In the last few weeks I got a new job - nothing like my former career pay or responsibility wise but the best job I have had in 4 years so YAY !! My poker dealing job is allowing me to stay one day a week on Sunday afternoons so I can make some extra money - another YAY !!
I have been having some severe financial problems but came into enough money to keep my apartment - it was getting scary - another YAY !!!
Today I got my hair colored a great shade of red and went to Ulta and resupplied my beauty supplies - more YAY !!
A cis woman acquaintance of mine invited me to join her and a friend for a girls spa day YAY again !!!
And now that I am working 9 to 5 again I get to start going back to my local transgender group next Saturday YAY !!
Life has been very tough lately but everything is turning around - I am so happy. :D
Sometimes when things are tough if you persevere things eventually go the right way. It's been a tough road but I am so ready for a good stretch. Now it's time to lose some weight and enjoy the summer outdoors.
Wishing everyone else happiness. :)
Love this post - so happy and positive! Awesome girl!
Em x
Quote from: KimOct on March 07, 2019, 02:27:36 AM
I am the happiest I have been in a long time.
In the last few weeks I got a new job - nothing like my former career pay or responsibility wise but the best job I have had in 4 years so YAY !! My poker dealing job is allowing me to stay one day a week on Sunday afternoons so I can make some extra money - another YAY !!
I have been having some severe financial problems but came into enough money to keep my apartment - it was getting scary - another YAY !!!
Today I got my hair colored a great shade of red and went to Ulta and resupplied my beauty supplies - more YAY !!
A cis woman acquaintance of mine invited me to join her and a friend for a girls spa day YAY again !!!
And now that I am working 9 to 5 again I get to start going back to my local transgender group next Saturday YAY !!
Life has been very tough lately but everything is turning around - I am so happy. :D
Sometimes when things are tough if you persevere things eventually go the right way. It's been a tough road but I am so ready for a good stretch. Now it's time to lose some weight and enjoy the summer outdoors.
Wishing everyone else happiness. :)
Hi Kim, this is great news to hear. I am glad to hear positive things are happening now. This is just the start of more good things to come.
Zoey
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Sunday mornings i tend to be less formal, and don't change from my sleep ware (shorts an a gender neutral t-shirt) into any more formal wear until I go out.
This morning, the door bell rang, and I opened the door and two middle aged gentlemen stood there, greeting me cheerfully with : "good morning ma'am, we want to talk with you about your salvation" i told them that i don't want to be saved, and they said "Good bye ma'am, have a nice day"
They really made my day, because after I looked at me in the mirror, poorly combed hair and not really ma'am like, I felt even better. I think, I have not to be afraid not to pass anymore, if I could pass the way I looked like this morning! >:-)
A friend and I attended a "Transitioning gender" conference at CU Boulder, CO this weekend. There were several great sessions but it was also really fun to be rubbing shoulders with 900+ transgender and queer people from all areas of transition and across the full age, race, gender spectrum. We spoke different languages but shared an amazing commonality. There was so much to learn and so much that can help our brothers, sisters .... and others (come on fluid folk, give me a comfortable word that sounds better than "Others") .... yes and me too.
Tia Anne
As long as my background check comes in clean, I've got the job!!!!!
My background check will be fine. I've passed them a dozen times already.
@Artesia Dear Artesia:Yes this is very good news, I am trusting and praying for your clean background check report...
Please keep us all posted. We are your biggest fans and we are all rooting for you.
Hugs,
DanielleQuote from: Artesia on March 10, 2019, 11:11:10 PM
As long as my background check comes in clean, I've got the job!!!!!
My background check will be fine. I've passed them a dozen times already.
Quote from: Artesia on March 10, 2019, 11:11:10 PM
As long as my background check comes in clean, I've got the job!!!!!
My background check will be fine. I've passed them a dozen times already.
Congratulations...fantastic I am sure you are onto a winner
Quote from: Anne Blake on March 10, 2019, 10:38:17 PM
A friend and I attended a "Transitioning gender" conference at CU Boulder, CO this weekend. There were several great sessions but it was also really fun to be rubbing shoulders with 900+ transgender and queer people from all areas of transition and across the full age, race, gender spectrum. We spoke different languages but shared an amazing commonality. There was so much to learn and so much that can help our brothers, sisters .... and others (come on fluid folk, give me a comfortable word that sounds better than "Others") .... yes and me too.
Tia Anne
I'm so glad it was fun and interesting! I heard about it, but my wife and I went to the mountains for some skiing in all this wonderful snow. I'll have to try next year. Would be fun to meet so many cool men, women and special folk (lol how's that instead of "others"?).
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One of my girlfriends and I went shopping today, and I bought some really cool summer shoes with a two inch wedge heal at Penny's . I also bought a cool green shirt with lace to be worn for the upcoming Irish dinner and dance here!
I am an absolut sucker for lace and bling. If it would be up to me, I would cover my entire body in lace and bling stuff only!
Being called Ma'am on the phone by a contractor at work, simple things, simple joys
C -
I've been putting off buying most clothes until I lose all the weight I want to lose; so, I end up in slacks and jeans most of the time.
Today, a friend gifted me a dress from her closet that she said would be perfect for me. She was right! OMG, I love it; I wore it out to lunch, to the post office, to the store ... and I'm going to wear it out tonight. It's the nicest gift anyone has given me in a long time. Whee! :)
Quote from: Ann W on March 12, 2019, 02:48:33 PM
I've been putting off buying most clothes until I lose all the weight I want to lose; so, I end up in slacks and jeans most of the time.
Today, a friend gifted me a dress from her closet that she said would be perfect for me. She was right! OMG, I love it; I wore it out to lunch, to the post office, to the store ... and I'm going to wear it out tonight. It's the nicest gift anyone has given me in a long time. Whee! :)
That's awesome Ann :) Dresses are so much fun :D
My friend did do my hair today, and after it I went to my electrolysis session and some skin stuff. All the ladies at the skin place were ranting and raving about my hair do. They wanted to know if my friend is a professional, and I answered, yes, she is, she is a social worker! :angel:
They could not believe it!
Quote from: Dietlind on March 12, 2019, 08:20:54 PM
My friend did do my hair today, and after it I went to my electrolysis session and some skin stuff. All the ladies at the skin place were ranting and raving about my hair do. They wanted to know if my friend is a professional, and I answered, yes, she is, she is a social worker! :angel:
They could not believe it!
Pics or it didn't happen!
Quote from: Steph2.0 on March 12, 2019, 10:13:09 PM
Pics or it didn't happen!
Don't have one, have one when she did a similar do (my hair was still shorter) about 4 weeks ago
(https://i.imgur.com/uezSl64.jpg)
Hugging my soul mate before she went to work today, it makes me happy.
I am so grateful for her
Have a wonderful day all
C -
Donating to this web site, that made me happy today
Hugs
C -
Quote from: CynthiaAnn on March 14, 2019, 09:56:44 AM
Donating to this web site, that made me happy today
Hugs
C -
@CynthiaAnn Dear Cynthia:
Susan's Place is the best place I know of to meet other like-minded members and to share information, thoughts, issues, discouragements and successes.
It is a great place to receive encouragement and to give encouragement.
Thank you for doing your part in helping to keep it going.
Hugs and best wishes,
Danielle
WHOOHOO!!! I'm feelin happy today. I have now idea why. Well, that's not exactly true. I did get my eyebrows shaped and tinted today :D When your down and out, pamper yourself. So long as it doesn't cost an arm and a leg, you'll feel great.
Quote from: Donica on March 14, 2019, 06:24:35 PM
WHOOHOO!!! I'm feelin happy today. I have now idea why. Well, that's not exactly true. I did get my eyebrows shaped and tinted today :D When your down and out, pamper yourself. So long as it doesn't cost an arm and a leg, you'll feel great.
@Donica Dear Donica:Yes indeed, a trip to a beauty salon or to a spa is a great way to lift one's spirits. Even a simple manicure does the trick for me!!!
Thanks for sharing your happy moment. All of us need more happy moments for sure.
Hugs,
Danielle
This is difficult to describe.
I'm partial to classically feminine attire; but I've put off buying dresses, for the most part, because I haven't met my weight-loss goals. When I do, I'm going to go absolutely nuts; but, until then, it's largely jeans and slacks for me.
A few days ago, a friend gifted me a dress from her closet. It's sleeveless, which I always thought would be a problem for me; but she's something of a style guru, and she knew it would be perfect for me. She was right; it is.
Over the last two days, I've been wearing it at every opportunity; and I've noticed that people respond to me differently than they did previously, even people who know me. Wearing girl's pants and tops, even having breasts, is one thing; but wearing a dress crossed a line. Has anyone else noticed this?
I'm not saying this change is negative; the truth is, it's about the same as people's reaction to my simply wearing makeup and casual girl clothes -- but it's more intense, and at the same time it's more profound: deeper, more foundational. I love it. Someone I used to work for saw me in the dress yesterday, and there was a look on her face I'd never seen before -- very positive, glowing. A male cashier at the grocery store spoke to me in a friendly manner and it was completely friendly, gentle and unforced.
But all that is preface. It was while I was at the grocery store that I realized I was floating as I pushed my cart down the aisle. Not in the sense of euphoria or elation, but in the sense of peace -- I was on another level of contentment, untroubled. I hestitate to call it serenity, because it didn't feel like what I've always felt as serenity; but the word does describe where I was. I was conscious of myself, but I wasn't "self-conscious." I simply was, and I floated down the aisle.
Something wonderful happened today. I have a magic dress. :D
Quote from: Ann W on March 14, 2019, 06:48:59 PM
Something wonderful happened today. I have a magic dress. :D
That definitely qualifies for a loud and sustained "SQUEEEEE!"
Congratulations, girl. What a feeling!
Stephanie
Quote from: Ann W on March 14, 2019, 06:48:59 PM
Something wonderful happened today. I have a magic dress. :D
I want one of those! Congratulations. What an epiphany. I'll have to try this out for myself. Thanks for posting about this!
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Hi Folks, 14 March 2019
This is probably an unusual "Made Me Happy Today" for a girl, but I'm going to give it a shot. Some of you know I had a run in with a tree that jumped out in front of my 99 Blazer. That encounter kind of messed up my mode of transportation. I have a 2000 Ford Crown Victoria that was my cop car when I was a LEO. Back in 2011 I decided to park it and to drive the Blazer exclusively. That lasted until this year. The Blazer looks like S#@& and is an embarrassment to even look at. Essentially, it's a total wreck but drivable ...... weather permitting. When I got into it this morning there were puddles in the center counsel. There's no window in the passenger door, the windscreen on the passenger side has a large hole and is shattered. The outside mirror is missing as a result of that pesky tree.
After that encounter I decided to wakeup the Crown Vic and get her running again. I've spent a good bit of time fixing things that would cause her to fail a safety inspection. The last thing was the fuel pump. Fuel pumps are now inside the fuel tank. Replacing a fuel pump can be (depending upon make and model) an extremely time consuming and expensive project.
I was going to tackle this myself, which I have done several times in the past. I started to do the same for the Vic and eventually came to the conclusion that tackling this project myself would be a major mistake that could end with another disaster ...... a gasoline fire, an explosion. or turning myself into a crispy critter. Yesterday I decided that "Discretion is the better part of valor." Looking at where I am and where I want to be I decided to take Vic to someone I trusted to replace the fuel pump and filter.
I called for a tow truck to arrive at 1200 hrs CDT. They arrived a bit early and hauled Vic to the Repair shop. I stopped into the shop about an hour later to talk with the Owner. He said the car would be ready tomorrow before 1700 CDT. Seemed good to me. I went home and contacted Dena (I'm sure you know Her) and we began to Skype. About 1730 I got a call from the owner of the shop. He asked me if I'd like to come down and take Vic home. I thought he was kidding. He said she'd be ready by the time I got there.
My neighbor buddy drove me there and sure enough she was sitting outside waiting for her mom to take her home. Went in, chatted with the owner for about 20 min and then went out, opened Vic's driver door and sat down in her leather seats, inserted the key in the ignition and turned it to start. She fired up immediately, giving out that long awaited and missed roar of her engine. Just listening to her brought back memories of chases, which she never lost. She could make my adrenalin flow like the mighty Mississippi. Driving Victoria home made me Happy Today. When we got home, Dena was waiting for me on Skype and that made me even happier. Thanks Dena, I Love You.
Best Always, Love
Christine
Quote from: christinej78 on March 14, 2019, 11:45:04 PM
Hi Folks, 14 March 2019
This is probably an unusual "Made Me Happy Today" for a girl, but I'm going to give it a shot. Some of you know I had a run in with a tree that jumped out in front of my 99 Blazer. That encounter kind of messed up my mode of transportation. I have a 2000 Ford Crown Victoria that was my cop car when I was a LEO. Back in 2011 I decided to park it and to drive the Blazer exclusively. That lasted until this year. The Blazer looks like S#@& and is an embarrassment to even look at. Essentially, it's a total wreck but drivable ...... weather permitting. When I got into it this morning there were puddles in the center counsel. There's no window in the passenger door, the windscreen on the passenger side has a large hole and is shattered. The outside mirror is missing as a result of that pesky tree.
After that encounter I decided to wakeup the Crown Vic and get her running again. I've spent a good bit of time fixing things that would cause her to fail a safety inspection. The last thing was the fuel pump. Fuel pumps are now inside the fuel tank. Replacing a fuel pump can be (depending upon make and model) an extremely time consuming and expensive project.
I was going to tackle this myself, which I have done several times in the past. I started to do the same for the Vic and eventually came to the conclusion that tackling this project myself would be a major mistake that could end with another disaster ...... a gasoline fire, an explosion. or turning myself into a crispy critter. Yesterday I decided that "Discretion is the better part of valor." Looking at where I am and where I want to be I decided to take Vic to someone I trusted to replace the fuel pump and filter.
I called for a tow truck to arrive at 1200 hrs CDT. They arrived a bit early and hauled Vic to the Repair shop. I stopped into the shop about an hour later to talk with the Owner. He said the car would be ready tomorrow before 1700 CDT. Seemed good to me. I went home and contacted Dena (I'm sure you know Her) and we began to Skype. About 1730 I got a call from the owner of the shop. He asked me if I'd like to come down and take Vic home. I thought he was kidding. He said she'd be ready by the time I got there.
My neighbor buddy drove me there and sure enough she was sitting outside waiting for her mom to take her home. Went in, chatted with the owner for about 20 min and then went out, opened Vic's driver door and sat down in her leather seats, inserted the key in the ignition and turned it to start. She fired up immediately, giving out that long awaited and missed roar of her engine. Just listening to her brought back memories of chases, which she never lost. She could make my adrenalin flow like the mighty Mississippi. Driving Victoria home made me Happy Today. When we got home, Dena was waiting for me on Skype and that made me even happier. Thanks Dena, I Love You.
Best Always, Love
Christine
Sorry to hear about your blazer. Thankfully you walked away from the accident and were still able to drive it for a while longer.
Congratulations on getting your baby back! My first car was a '85 Crown Vic. I loved that car! I was just telling my wife a few days ago how much I would love to own another one like it! There is nothing quite like driving one of those beautiful, reliable vehicles!
Hooray for quick fixes and good friends!
Lacy
I just got my FFS surgery date for June this year. Yay! I'm feeling TRANSTASTIC!!! :icon_geekdance:
Yay! Congrats on getting your FFS date, Donica!
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