Hi, I had my account removed. I should have never made an account with my real name... I was fine until a few weeks ago and had a creep show up at my work place. He found me from my posts here and wanted to meet in person. He located me on Face Book, which I foolishly listed what I do for a living and used the same photo. Never again will I feel safe to post my image or name in the same combination. The creep is gone, amazing hey can I use your phone when chatting with him and taking down a few numbers can accomplish. Well I am back just not as who I was or would like to be. I will just go back to haunting the forums and donating when I can.
Thanks
-M
Dear -M:( aka: 120716) Thank you for posting.
I look forward to your future postings and replies on the various threads here on the Forums here.
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It is very unfortunate that you had an unexpected visitor at your workplace. This is most likely the main reason many of us are in stealth mode post-op. You never know who is going to show up.
For myself, it took me several years before I could post my real picture. I am out to family for personal reasons and I am out to trans friends because I feel a need to give back to our community, since so many others have helped me.
I should have stayed stealth, now I am paranoid when driving home from the office. My home address is not listed on my State Certification which is online. But no driving home from the office I stop at the store, the gym etc... I know what is 2017 Mustang Gt 350 looks like :) he also knows what my Sig Nightmare .45 Looks like. His poor wife thinks he lost his cell phone and I found it and dropped it by her work. I did not say a word to her, she was a nice sweet person and stunningly beautiful. She offered me money for dropping it by as those darn IPhones are expensive. I wish her the best with her >-bleeped-< of a spouse.
I told him on FB chat was not interested, did not care what he did for a living, told him I was happy with my long time partner. I told him had no need for more friends and if he had questions about transition he could ask (he did not, just stated he found a slang term for transwomen HAWT, his words.)
So we go on with life, I a little more cautious he I hope with a little more sense.
-M
Hi -M :icon_wave:
Welcome to Susan's Place :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Hugs
V M