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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Post operative life => Topic started by: Rachel on November 23, 2020, 05:16:36 pm

Title: Depth
Post by: Rachel on November 23, 2020, 05:16:36 pm
Hi, I wanted to share what I found as, for me, a way to increase depth.

I had a consult with Dr. Rachel Bluebond-Longer via Skype in May. I had two items I wanted her opinion on and potential for surgery.

1) depth, 3.5" / 4.5" stretched. Can it be increased with PPV?
2) Cosmetic lower labia and fat injections in vulva.

The doctor agreed to see me in September if I did 2 a day dilations and did pelvic floor exercise as instructed by a practitioner.

I consulted with a practitioner for pelvic floor rehab. I did the exercises and heavy dilations. I had little depth progress. I had difficulty achieving an orgasm and my vagina was not super connected to my brain. Also my vagina was there but not really connected.

I purchased a Sybian. The small attachment was incredible to achieve an orgasm. I can have an orgasm for a long time using this toy. Next I had the exlarge and ex-long toys. In time I was able to stretch my canal both in depth and diameter. I am 6 inches now in depth and can stretch to a Mr. Hanks medium dildo. The diameter is as important as the depth. I think making diameter and depth are the same.

I have a lot of sensation now. I orgasm every time on the sybian and dildo. My canal is supple now. I think it loosened up scar tissue and hold. I have a lot of feeling in the canal now.

I think this can benefit other woman that are having issues with orgasm, scar tissue, suppleness, connecting the vaginal nerves to the brain and depth.
Title: Re: Depth
Post by: sarahc on November 23, 2020, 07:40:23 pm
Hi, I wanted to share what I found as, for me, a way to increase depth.

I had a consult with Dr. Rachel Bluebond-Longer via Skype in May. I had two items I wanted her opinion on and potential for surgery.

1) depth, 3.5" / 4.5" stretched. Can it be increased with PPV?
2) Cosmetic lower labia and fat injections in vulva.

The doctor agreed to see me in September if I did 2 a day dilations and did pelvic floor exercise as instructed by a practitioner.

I consulted with a practitioner for pelvic floor rehab. I did the exercises and heavy dilations. I had little depth progress. I had difficulty achieving an orgasm and my vagina was not super connected to my brain. Also my vagina was there but not really connected.

I purchased a Sybian. The small attachment was incredible to achieve an orgasm. I can have an orgasm for a long time using this toy. Next I had the exlarge and ex-long toys. In time I was able to stretch my canal both in depth and diameter. I am 6 inches now in depth and can stretch to a Mr. Hanks medium dildo. The diameter is as important as the depth. I think making diameter and depth are the same.

I have a lot of sensation now. I orgasm every time on the sybian and dildo. My canal is supple now. I think it loosened up scar tissue and hold. I have a lot of feeling in the canal now.

I think this can benefit other woman that are having issues with orgasm, scar tissue, suppleness, connecting the vaginal nerves to the brain and depth.

Fascinating...thanks for sharing. Was the sybian your idea or did you hear it about from someone else?

Sarah
Title: Re: Depth
Post by: warlockmaker on November 24, 2020, 03:53:37 am
Wow Rachael, you have had alot of work done and I thought I had alot  >:-)I am glad to hear you have great orgasms. Im thinking of starting a blog for helping older tg on a host of subject. Always very intrested in others experieces and their success story especially. Thank you for sharing.
Title: Re: Depth
Post by: Breeze 57 on November 28, 2020, 03:15:21 pm
I have to say I found this fascinating.  I had never heard of a Sybian before, but from what I've read, it appears to have been around quite awhile now.  Do you know if any other trans women have successfully used this device to aid in dilation?  I'd be curious to hear from others.  I'm about 3 months post-op and dilating is tough, tough, tough.  The Sybian is pretty expensive, but if it works like you say it does, it would be so worth it.  Any information would be appreciated.  Seems extremely noisy too.
Title: Re: Depth
Post by: Rachel on November 29, 2020, 06:33:24 pm
@Breeze 57, yes it is noisy. If I was to get another I would get a new Motor Bunny; it has more power and is 1/2 the price. I got mine used from a Sybian forum. I purchased it from a guy because his wife liked going to SLS events. He thought she would enjoy it. She had no interest.

I would definitely wait until 100% healed, perhaps a year post op to use a Sybian. I would e-mail the GCS doctor. 

I know of no other trans woman that used one.

@warlockmaker, If you wish, on your forum, I can shed some light on alternate lifestyles and the journey to self acceptance, orgasm and guys. I go to events (not now until the Covid vaccine is administered)  that are incredibly body empowering. I had belonged to a dungeon that was 95% female and it was so enlightening. Parties (every week) were an incredible learning experience.  We had the largest Rope room in Philadelphia and we had 2 day rope events.

 I go to SLS events now because the hall closed due to Covid. Being accepted by males is awesome. You enter the hall and undress. You ask guys to play and then the fun starts. I had such apprehension that I would not be accepted. I was accepted and had a lot of fun. Again, a huge learning experience. Having sex in an open environment (always with protection) is unbelievable. I learned so much and can not wait until the Covid vaccine is administered. I hope to have it next month.

Sex is fun, guys are awesome and being accepted is so freeing. I gain so much from going to these events. Going into a rough neighborhood is scary. You can not bring a gun into the hall (everyone is checked at entrance). Females strip down to panties or nude. You go in to the bar room (speakeasy) and socialize and ask a guy if he will play. He says yes and you play. While playing you can signal other guys to join.

One thing I do not understand, what is the fascination with a guy putting their hands around your throat during sex? It definitely gets your attention and stops all wiggling. I guess it is a dominance thing.

I have learned there are positions I never saw before or thought of. I just follow their lead. It is awesome to have dominant guys that lead and are in charge.

Rachel