No, I'm just freer to move within groups. When I was a little kitty Kat I had a long talk with the person who was my spiritual advisor at the time and whined and sniveled that 'I really didn't fit in anywhere' (it wasn't true, but still....) and she told me that if that was true, then I was free to go anywhere as it would all be pretty much the same. She was right.
If I'm at the biker bar (called, The Wagon Wheel) I talk about political stuff, power tools, music and bands, and football, in particular what a jerk Al Davis is. When I'm at tea I talk about politics, music, fashion and what a jerk Al Davis is (Al Davis being a jerk is a universal topic in the Bay Area).
I'm lucky, in that over the years, no matter how bad your taste in music is, I've worked with people you like - so that helps.
And some days I feel like leather and levis, other days, its lavender and lace - I blame sunspots.