Quote from: 904-boy on June 17, 2011, 12:34:31 AM
i just dont want to be a clone of my dad. its already bad enough as a female but i do not want to go bald or have a perpetual potbelly the way he does. dont get me wrong, i think my dad is a great looking guy, but im worried id be uglier than i am female.plus ill never find a bf looking like that....im so shallow. "cries" but i want to be male so badly....
It's alright. Don't work yourself up about it. Everything in life comes with pros and cons. Focus on the Pros and don't let the cons get you down.
If you don't want to have a "potbelly", then work out

Don't wallow in your disappointments, do something about it when you can. because there will be plenty of other times to wallow in your disappoints when you CAN'T do anything about them.
And like someone else said, there are some things that can be done to help prevent hair loss.
But really, don't even think about being ugly. Most people are ugly, that is, no one looks like they do on TV. and people know that. Anyone who gets in a relationship with someone just because they look hot is not going to last. Relationships last when the two like eachother for who they are. And you will find someone who likes you for who you are. there are over 6 billion people on the planet. You will find someone

don't even worry about that part.
plus, you probably don't have to worry about going bald until you're already married/in a committed relationship, in which case, no one's going to not be with you because you're going bald or something.
I mean, your dad's got someone even with his potbelly, lol. My dad started going bald at 25, but he still got married.
People just end up liking someone for who they are, and then their appearances matter less. As it should be. Because appearances really shouldn't matter as much as society makes it out to be.
So yeah, focus on the pros. Focus on the positives. and Focus on what you CAN do about things you don't like about yourself.