I gained the self respect that I rarely have, friends and family knows now that they cannot push me anymore. I still have their love despite that.
I notice that the tunnel vision in the mirror is widening.
I am able to get more things done, despite the dopiness from the spiro.
My skin looks better than most women my age! Oops!
I lost the hyper sex drive to zero. Me and my damaged prostate needed a vacation from that anyway.
I am losing my manhood, bit by tiny bit. SOooo WHAT! With the status of my generation, I will most likely not find a suitable female date, even though my attraction to them has changed and enhanced in a different way!
And the biggest loss: In hindsight, if the docs allowed me to take HRT when I wanted to in the late'70's, I would not repairing the big mess now. I would either be a more attractive woman, OR, take the HRT for only a year or so. I would go to college because my mind would've cleared-up. If off the HRT after a year or so, reverted to manhood and gotten married with children possible. I am seeing a type of set/reset now with me. With my age and status now, I may keep on transitioning anyway. A good part of my 58 years, blown.
Joelene