Wildflower,
You seem to have an 'obsession' with finding someone who will pay and support you through years of therapy and surgery who will want nothing or little in return; except that you will be a beautiful woman.
Life doesn't work like that.
If you do hook up with someone who offers you these things in the USA or overseas (a previous post) you will suffer.
If these posts of yours are fantasy. Fine. State so. If they are reality, you may have problems that you should seek professional help for.
Cindy