I am not posting to convince you one way or another on how to handle your pregnancy. I just want to share my perspective because I have had two very inconvenient pregnancies (and one that was planned), and now have three delightful children. My first daughter was conceived right as my first marriage started to crumble. I was not ready for parenthood, and he for sure was not, but decided to go ahead with the pregnancyWhen she was 1 I left him and upon sowing my wild oats immediately conceived my 2nd daughter with a man I barely knew and was not happy with at all. I was single, broke, and terrified, but somehow I never went under. The universe always provided. Now I am married, happy, and gained a great stepson along the way as well. Both my daughters dads are also fantastic fathers. My partner and I will never be rich money wise (in fact we are borderline poor), but we are the wealthiest people in the world in terms of love and happiness. I am a big believer that things happen when they do for a reason. you and your spouse ultimately need to make the decision, but just wanted to give you some hope that there is more than one option. You two just follow your instincts and do whats right for you. Hugs and best wishes no matter what you decide:)
