Mine finally arrived the other day too. I agree that it is way too flimsy to be of any use. I do not think it is a good shape tho, barely adequate is more like it. It is very sticky like some packys, I have a packy that is not sticky at all and one that is.
I want one that is softer than a med spoon but not like this. If they could make a medspoon one from the same material as a silicone nipple and have it formed to a at least somewhat realistic packer, I would be in a much better frame of mind and maybe stop experimenting with making a better one.