So I know asking for relationship advice on a forum is the most annoying and overrated thing anyone could possibly do ... but I've never initiated a break up before and I'm scared ->-bleeped-<-less. I really don't want to be in a relationship, the spark is gone, and she's still for some reason madly in love with me. So I know it's going to go bad. I just don't want to pussy out and end up dragging on in a relationship I don't want to be in anymore. I don't hate her, I don't dislike her, I don't want to hurt her, I just don't don't want to be WITH her.
Any ideas? How to not chicken out and get it over with? I guess it's not like saying a speech, I can't just imagine her naked or stare at the wall behind her for this...
It's happening at her house next time I'm in town and I extpect the whole explanation as to why, making a strong point that it's over, spending possibly an hour or more discussing it. But I just think I'm gonna chicken out. I've always either had a mutual break-up or waited for her to do it for me...
