One of the things many people like about me is my aura confidence. I have worked hard at it my whole life and it has opened doors for me that would not have opened without it. Some days it is little more than a facade, some days the feeling is spot on, but the key is I present myself with it daily - regardless of how I really feel inside, because it makes me stronger as a woman.
I see women who fidget, always look down - or off to the side, women who walk kinda slumped or dragging their feet, women who don't even try to put themselves together. These are the kinds of women who can become the worlds punching bags whether they are GG's or TG's. It's just the way this messed up world is. There are plenty of people out there just waiting to pass their judgements on any one of us, it is up to us to to leave them with little doubt as to their absurdity.
Holding ones head up high and being able to look people in the eyes is an important part of being a woman. IMO, for a TG, it is an important part of passing. People tend to shy away from confronting a woman of confidence on any issue regardless of any thoughts in their heads.
Being confident, or presenting it even when you don't feel it, will build upon itself. There is a difference between a level of confidence and a marker of arrogance. We all have to be careful to know where the line is, however the added spring in your step matched to the smile in your eyes goes a long long way.
