Dont want to offened any ladies but Why are very slutty mTF called prideful?

[azSam]

Poor lil kitty  She should come back.

Yes.

[tekla]

The top picture is nicely slutty, the second one is just sad and scary.

2 weeks already been warned and smited
Yeah, just take it as a signal that you really are saying something.  And all of life is going to be that way, no one is universally popular all of the time.  Not even me.

[~RoadToTrista~]

How DARE you? I'm a survivor of rape, and I know for a fact I'm not the only one on these boards. You are victim-blaming in the most horrifying way.

When I was raped, I'd just gotten off work, and I was wearing this:
http://www.public.navy.mil/bupers-npc/support/uniforms/uniformregulations/chapter3/FemaleEnlisted/FE_Working/Pages/Coveralls.aspx

Is that too slutty for you? Is it my fault that I was raped? Is it? Should I have been wearing a burkha?

Plz calm down. I understand you're upset, but Zoey didn't mean any harm.

[cynthialee]

Allow Kyril his anger.

Allow any of us who have been raped to express our anger at the offensive post in question.

Rape is never justified and victim blaming is never a good idea.

[Joelene9]

  I think it would be quite difficult for Kyril about this.  When I was in (early 70's), the female enlisted had their own uniform and only a few were attached to reefer and oiler ships by '74.  The younger male enlisted and a certain married E-6 I knew were always hitting on them.  On a base teeming with testosterone, they were the 'Belles of the Ball' despite the lousy dungaree uniforms and the clunky Boondocker boots we all had to wear.  I saw this firsthand.  Rapes were usually not reported.  I only found about the rapes many years later at a hearing in Washington.  I remember two of the women that testified.  This investigation was after the hotshot carrier pilots got it in the wringer from the '91 Tailhook Association Symposium scandal.
  The women were still called WAVES from the old WWII designation back then.  It is not the type of dress, it is the attitude of the male(s) present.  I left all women alone during my tour, a fly on the wall.  Hugs to Kyril.
  Joelene

Tailhook Scandal: http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/navy/tailhook/91.html

[Randi]

Zoey, don't cancel your membership over a disagreement. Learn from it and go on but don't run away. Let's all just try to remember that we are adults, keep a civil tone, and not attack each other verbally-we will never agree on everything.

And you aren't the first person here to be warned or reprimanded in some way. Susan removed my 'rep privileges' because she thought I was using it incorrectly-I totally disagree with her but it's her website and she can do what she wants to-I can't. Sure it hurt my feelings but I let my thoughts be known, posted what I did so everybody would know, and stayed here. This has been my home for almost two years and I am not going anywhere for now. Just refrain from personal verbal attacks and you will be fine.

Everybody else-Zoey is young and learning fast-try not to beat her up for her indiscretions-& she did apologize. Yes there are many here who have been sexually assaulted in some way-myself included but lets move on and let her retain some measure of dignity while we can.

Randi

[iris1469]

the only thing that i laugh at are the mtf's that go WAY overboard with procedures. Example, lips that would keep them af,oat in a flood, or hips as big as a horses, and boobs that are grotesquely way to big. Oh yeah i forgot the cheek implants that will make anyone look like they are related to little chuckie. I have had no surgeries and everything that I have has been developed using hormones (through a drt, not black market) and when a man sees my body unclothed, it never fails, he is mesmerized by its beauty. Other than that, the "act" is also overboard, but it is a free country. Just my opinion

[tekla]

mtf's that go WAY overboard with procedures.

Of course you live in LA.  You don't need to find an mtf for that.  Plenty of all kinds of people in LA doing that.

[cynthialee]

mtf's that go WAY overboard with procedures.

Of course you live in LA.  You don't need to find an mtf for that.  Plenty of all kinds of people in LA doing that.

QFT

I know cis girls that have had more plastic surgery than the average trans person will ever have.

[iris1469]

yeah yeah yeah whatever. cis women usually dont gets lips that make them look like a fish, etc etc etc.

i can tell that yall are going to make this into something it isnt

let me put it this way, over exaggerating is my point here. i dont mind seeing someone enhance, but to over exagerrat is ridiculous, in my opinion

[tekla]

ridiculous, in my opinion

True, unless that's the look you're going for.  And many are, or at least let's give them the benefit of the doubt and hope so.  Like I said earlier, the difference between Sally Slut and Nancy NiceGirl is about 20 minutes.

[Kaelleria]

I dress fairly conservatively at work... it being a business and all.

If I go out to a bar or go out with some friends, you can bet I don't wear the same thing I wear at work. It's designed to 1)Look good 2)  Look hot and 3) to attract guys.

Here's the thing, every other girl in the place will be wearing the same sort of thing.

Do our modes of dress make all of us slutty? No.
If I were to pick up a different guy every night and sleep with them would that make me slutty? Probably.

[NormalGirlHere]

Hmmm surely we can not just assume every girl in a tight dress is a slut but someone who dresses to look slutty is a slut.

[ValerieNelson]

Some nights I wish to look innocent and sweet, and other nights I don't. All depends on how I feel. 

[xxUltraModLadyxx]

i've made many mistakes here, but i ended up deleting accounts and then coming back in a new identity. it was just for alot of immature things. i've been coming here since i was about 14, and i didn't apply myself to anything at the time. during then, i pretty much gave up on myself. i had very narrow horrizons, and i came here as more of just a fun thing to do. looking back, i know i've grown alot since then, and i needed people to be there for me more than anything, but i chose not to admit that. i have a bad habit of looking at alot of things as dented cars that i need to replace for something new. if zoey wants to leave, that is her choice, but i have empathy for her, because i've quit at many things.

[LilKittyCatZoey]

Hello there sorry i know my apology is some what late and may have lost meaning but i am sorry about the rape comment i had a really bad day and wasnt thinking straight. I did end up deleting my account but thanks to Susan i was able to get reinstated. I am sorry i never meant any harm by what i said, i know it was wrong and thats why i deleted it as soon as i  realized. again i am sorry to have hurt or offend any of you.
Sincerely zoey

[AbraCadabra]

Zoey, good girls :-)

Yeah, some lessons may be easier the others, so long we learn and grow (self included).

Put it down to low E if you wish? It REALLY can bring out stuff at times. In all fairness, to be "open" about oneselves thoughts, AND be PC at the same time can be a challenge --- and not just for you alone.

Welcome back girl,
Axelle

[jamie nicole]

there are various choices we can make when it comes to presenting ourselves:

1. a hoochie mama
2. a slutty prostitute
3. business like and professional
4. a little bit of class

I say to each their own but we need to be classy

[LilKittyCatZoey]

Zoey, good girls :-)

Yeah, some lessons may be easier the others, so long we learn and grow (self included).

Put it down to low E if you wish? It REALLY can bring out stuff at times. In all fairness, to be "open" about oneselves thoughts, AND be PC at the same time can be a challenge --- and not just for you alone.

Welcome back girl,
Axelle

No judging but i did cry after being attack for my comment though i have always cried easily thats why generally i am a nice girl  and i did deserve the attack

there are various choices we can make when it comes to presenting ourselves:

1. a hoochie mama
2. a slutty prostitute
3. business like and professional
4. a little bit of class

I say to each their own but we need to be classy

haha love the hoochie mama one lol

[~RoadToTrista~]

*lick*