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Monks teach maleness to Thai 'ladyboys'

Started by Shana A, July 16, 2011, 07:37:00 AM

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spacial

Quote from: tekla on July 18, 2011, 04:26:50 PM
That some religion seems 'cool' or 'hip' at the moment doesn't change that it's a religion, and just like all religions it's about control.

I've looked at quite a few different religious diciplines, though in every case it was for their sociological significance, rather than the details of the faith.

But none are about control.

The problem is, when we take examples as being the norm. More impotantly, when we take examples and assume they are the whole.

If we look at the RCs, the Southern Baptists and others we would be forgiven for assuming that Christian doctrine was all about enforcing some ultra conservative, western lifestyle. Islam appears to be about killing people and destroying, Judaism appears to be about bleating in self pity to excuse behaving like a bunch of thugs.

Budhism can indeed appear to be a restrictive, rigid form of militaristic spiritualism. The reality is, Budhism is about extreme self dicipline and aestheticism. More importantly, most of the example we tend to see are monks. The nature of all of the Indian religious diciplines draws a dramatic distinction between the higher clergy and the layety.

Inparticular, the practice in Thailand is quite different from other areas. That isn't due to denominational differences, in the way, for example, the RCs and the SBU differ. Rather it is a local interpertation of the same ideologies.

Vary rarely will any human admit to not living according to their own choice. Few of us want to admit we need guidelines or that we conform to conventions and norms without personally deciding to do so.

The reality is, as individuals, we all look for norms and rules. The free wheeling lifestyle, as attactive as it may appear to be to think of ourselves as following it, is a myth. We each lack the insight, concentration, self confidence and intelegence.

The current vogue, in western society for apparently rejecting religious leadership is an illusion. Western society remains the same, we have just chosen to reject leaders. Which strangely, is a very Christian precept.
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Anatta

Quote from: tekla on July 19, 2011, 09:07:37 AM
After all it's an "individual" thing !" 

I'm sure glad you used quotes there, because that let's your readers know your really not telling the truth.  Which in this case is that religion, far from being individualistic is the totally collective, there are no individualistic religions, by definition religion is about a group belief.

Kia Ora Tekla,

Full Quote : "Then I can only wish them all the best on their journey of "self" discovery...After all it's an "individual" thing !"


My apologies, for using the term "religion" when describing Buddhism Tekla...On a personal level I've never viewed Buddhism as a religion, but most Western minds can only grasp Buddhism  as a religion, hence why at times I use this term...

Now as far as the "individual" thing goes, it's somewhat paradoxical in Buddhism because the journey of "self" discovery begins with the "individual"  but when one finally discovers that there is no separate "self" that's when it  becomes more of a  "collective" [holistic]  experience...

Happy Mindfulness

Metta Zenda :)
"The most essential method which includes all other methods is beholding the mind. The mind is the root from which all things grow. If you can understand the mind, everything else is included !"   :icon_yes:
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kate durcal

Quote from: Zenda on July 20, 2011, 01:44:16 PM
Kia Ora Tekla,

My apologies, for using the term "religion" when describing Buddhism Tekla...On a personal level I've never viewed Buddhism as a religion, but most Western minds can only grasp Buddhism  as a religion, hence why at times I use this term...

Metta Zenda :)

I remember the Dalail Lama having a "cow" a couple of years aog because the "PopenFuhrer" declared that Bhudism is not a religion.

What is the supreme end goal of Bhudism?
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Amazon D

Quote from: Zenda on July 18, 2011, 03:10:08 PM
Kia Ora Cynthialee,

::) I have no wish to reinvent the wheel so............................................

Quote:

The Buddhist doctrine of egolessness seems to be a bit confusing to westerners. I think this is because there is some confusion as to what is meant by ego. Ego, in the Buddhist sense, is quite different from the Freudian ego. The Buddhist ego is a collection of mental events classified into five categories, called skandhas[aggregates], loosely translated as bundles, or heaps. [ 1 Form – 2 Sensation- 3 Perception- 4 Mental Formation- 5 Consciousness]
If we were to borrow a western expression, we could say that "in the beginning" things were going along quite well. At some point, however, there was a loss of confidence in the way things were going. There was a kind of primordial panic which produced confusion about what was happening. Rather than acknowledging this loss of confidence, there was an identification with the panic and confusion. Ego began to form. This is known as the first skandha, the skandha of form.

After the identification with confusion, ego begins to explore how it feels about the formation of this experience. If we like the experience, we try to draw it in. If we dislike it, we try to push it away, or destroy it. If we feel neutral about it, we just ignore it. The way we feel about the experience is called the skandha of form; what we try to do about it is known as the skandha of impulse/perception.

The next stage is to try to identify, or label the experience. If we can put it into a category, we can manipulate it better. Then we would have a whole bag of tricks to use on it. This is the skandha of concept [mental formation]. The final step in the birth of ego, is called the skandha of consciousness. Ego begins to churn thoughts and emotions around and around. This makes ego feel solid and real. The churning around and around is called samsara. The way ego feels about its situation (skandha of feeling –(sensation) determines which of the six realms of existence it creates for itself.

End of Quote...


How a person chooses to see things is up to them...And if they find comfort and contentment through their beliefs, then I'm truly happy for them..If not then I can only wish them all the best on their journey of "self" discovery...After all it's an "individual" thing ! 

Happy Mindfulness

Metta Zenda :)

Don't these monks use form to apply this maleness they say they are teaching? They must have some real ego's to think they know what male sensation is! Maybe it is their color percetion that is formed from their colorful robes they wear. This mental formation gives them the conscienceness of knowing something about another that they may be totally confused about HUH ? confushus says he who smells tail gets bent neck  ;D
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kate durcal

Quote from: Zenda on July 19, 2011, 01:45:49 AM
Kia Ora Kate,

Quote :

China may be surpassing the U.S. in its tolerance and acceptance of transgender people, TransGriot author Monica Roberts reports for Racialicious.  With an estimated transgender community of 400,000, the Chinese government has adopted policies that grant transgender citizens civil rights under the law, allow them to change their identification cards, and legally recognize their marriages after sex reassignment surgery.  Roberts cites popular Chinese transsexual public figures like Jin Xing and Chen Lili as helping to open up public attitudes.  Jin is a former colonel in the Chinese army who is now an internationally acclaimed ballet dancer, while Chen was the first transgender contestant to win the Miss China Universe pageant in 2004 before being banned from participating in the international competition.

Read more: http://www.utne.com/Politics/Chinas-Progressive-Attitude-Toward-Transgender-Community.aspx#ixzz1SWzJiWEn

Metta Zenda :)

Wow Zenda, I am on your debt for educating me. It seems that atheism is more compassionate and open minded that any religious contries.

Kate D
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Anatta

Quote from: kate durcal on July 20, 2011, 07:51:47 PM
Wow Zenda, I am on your debt for educating me. It seems that atheism is more compassionate and open minded that any religious contries.

Kate D
Kia Ora Kate,

Quote "I wonder what the situation is like in mostly atheist "CHINA" !"

::) Well you did actually ask the question Kate............

Metta Zenda :)

PS Are the fundamental teachings of the Buddha, atheistic, non theistic or theistic ?

::) And in China just because the government is communist doesn't mean the entire population tows the party line Kate...Taoism, Buddhism, Confucius's teaching are still common in China... 

Metta Zenda :)
"The most essential method which includes all other methods is beholding the mind. The mind is the root from which all things grow. If you can understand the mind, everything else is included !"   :icon_yes:
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Anatta

Quote from: M2MtF2FtM on July 20, 2011, 07:38:44 PM
Don't these monks use form to apply this maleness they say they are teaching? They must have some real ego's to think they know what male sensation is! Maybe it is their color percetion that is formed from their colorful robes they wear. This mental formation gives them the conscienceness of knowing something about another that they may be totally confused about HUH ? confushus says he who smells tail gets bent neck  ;D
Kia Ora M2M,

::) I'm afraid I can't help you... You would have to take this up with the "individual" monks.......... ;) "It's an "individual" thing !"  ;)

Metta Zenda :)
"The most essential method which includes all other methods is beholding the mind. The mind is the root from which all things grow. If you can understand the mind, everything else is included !"   :icon_yes:
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Anatta

Quote from: kate durcal on July 20, 2011, 07:51:47 PM
Wow Zenda, I am on your debt for educating me. It seems that atheism is more compassionate and open minded that any religious contries.

Kate D

Kia Ora,

::) Kate just from that little snippet of news item you have come to this conclusion...WOW I'm the one who should be impressed  ;) ;D

Metta Zenda :)
"The most essential method which includes all other methods is beholding the mind. The mind is the root from which all things grow. If you can understand the mind, everything else is included !"   :icon_yes:
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spacial

I understand that the reason the pope, (popenfurer, nice one), claimed Buddhism isn't a religion is because it places little or no emphasis upon a supreme being or an after life.

Now I really don't want to come into any conflict with the lovely Zenda, whose posts I, like so many, do so enjoy, but I fear both she and the popenfurer have misunderstood the nature of religion.

There is absolutely no reason for a religion to include any regard for or even respect of the concept of a supreme being or an after life.

Most political systems are religions.

But it should also be pointed out that while Buddihsm doesn't seem to emphasise supreme beings, as such, or obscess with the nature of an afterlife, that is a different matter from denial. Buddism is, essentially, a philosophical dicipline emphaisising what is here and now.

I recall reading a number of letters and journals, written in the 17th and 18th century, where Europeans would discuss their impressions of India, either in expectation or while there. Many said they expected the religion to be primitive, such as is found in Africa and were surprised and frustrated to discover they didn't understand any of it at all.

But such was the consequence of the Europeans and others, misunderstanding India.

Some groups in India, for example, say that India is the hub of the universe. This was dismissed as a piece of primitive thinking at the time. But while I can't claim to have any indepth understanding of Indian philosophical tradition, having barely scratched the surface, like so many notions coming out of India, I have to confess, that there do appear to be some strong arguments for that view. But only once you can begin to comprehend some of the incredable complexities and beauty of Indian thought.
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Anatta

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Quote from: spacial on July 21, 2011, 08:22:34 AM
I understand that the reason the pope, (popenfurer, nice one), claimed Buddhism isn't a religion is because it places little or no emphasis upon a supreme being or an after life.

Now I really don't want to come into any conflict with the lovely Zenda, whose posts I, like so many, do so enjoy, but I fear both she and the popenfurer have misunderstood the nature of religion.

There is absolutely no reason for a religion to include any regard for or even respect of the concept of a supreme being or an after life.

Most political systems are religions.

But it should also be pointed out that while Buddihsm doesn't seem to emphasise supreme beings, as such, or obscess with the nature of an afterlife, that is a different matter from denial. Buddism is, essentially, a philosophical dicipline emphaisising what is here and now.

I recall reading a number of letters and journals, written in the 17th and 18th century, where Europeans would discuss their impressions of India, either in expectation or while there. Many said they expected the religion to be primitive, such as is found in Africa and were surprised and frustrated to discover they didn't understand any of it at all.

But such was the consequence of the Europeans and others, misunderstanding India.

Some groups in India, for example, say that India is the hub of the universe. This was dismissed as a piece of primitive thinking at the time. But while I can't claim to have any indepth understanding of Indian philosophical tradition, having barely scratched the surface, like so many notions coming out of India, I have to confess, that there do appear to be some strong arguments for that view. But only once you can begin to comprehend some of the incredable complexities and beauty of Indian thought.

Kia Ora Spacial,

::) I've no conflict with your opinions[ what you write], in fact I agree with much of what you have expressed...

Just my personal observations.........................

Religion for most Westerners does however tend to be tethered to a god or gods concept...Buddhism became a religion [in the Westerners eyes] when they had to find a way to match it to what they already knew, and seeing images of Buddhas and what looked like his followers/practitioners  "worshiping" these images, does explain why religion came to their minds...

However these images are there for people to reflex upon[remind us of] the skillful/beneficial qualities that each of us have[a Buddha nature], but have yet to fully put into practice/experience...For the most part what the Westerner sees as religion many Easterners see as a way of life... a philosophy ...

And as always I would like to thank you Spacial for your well thought out comments when responding to this thread....       

Metta Zenda :)
"The most essential method which includes all other methods is beholding the mind. The mind is the root from which all things grow. If you can understand the mind, everything else is included !"   :icon_yes:
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cynthialee

Well if it isn't a religion then it would be ok to discriminate on the grounds it is not a religion...?

You might wanna keep that religous designation here in the states, it will cover your ass.
So it is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you can win a hundred battles without a single loss.
If you only know yourself, but not your opponent, you may win or may lose.
If you know neither yourself nor your enemy, you will always endanger yourself.
Sun Tsu 'The art of War'
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Anatta

Quote from: kate durcal on July 20, 2011, 07:24:03 PM
I remember the Dalail Lama having a "cow" a couple of years aog because the "PopenFuhrer" declared that Bhudism is not a religion.

What is the supreme end goal of Bhudism?

Kia Ora Kate,
::) The supreme end goal  ::) ::)  ::) In a nutshell.....Nirvana = To transcend the cycle of "becoming" [Samsara]...

::) The Dalai Lama Kate has every right to call Buddhism a religion and the Pope also has every right to say it's not a religion, and on a personal level I have to agree with the Pope in this respect...

Mind you I would find it hard to imagine the Dalai Lama getting into a tiff over such a trivial thing...  ::) After all "What's in a name!"  ;)

Metta Zenda :)
"The most essential method which includes all other methods is beholding the mind. The mind is the root from which all things grow. If you can understand the mind, everything else is included !"   :icon_yes:
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justmeinoz

Just realised that monks who are sworn to chastity, poverty and passivity in the face of aggression are going to teach teenagers from a klong how to "Man Up"?
Think I missed something there. :laugh:

Karen.
"Don't ask me, it was on fire when I lay down on it"
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cynthialee

Quote from: justmeinoz on July 22, 2011, 03:35:14 AM
Just realised that monks who are sworn to chastity, poverty and passivity in the face of aggression are going to teach teenagers from a klong how to "Man Up"?
Think I missed something there. :laugh:

Karen.
LMAO (for real!)
So it is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you can win a hundred battles without a single loss.
If you only know yourself, but not your opponent, you may win or may lose.
If you know neither yourself nor your enemy, you will always endanger yourself.
Sun Tsu 'The art of War'
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spacial

Quote from: justmeinoz on July 22, 2011, 03:35:14 AM
Just realised that monks who are sworn to chastity, poverty and passivity in the face of aggression are going to teach teenagers from a klong how to "Man Up"?
Think I missed something there. :laugh:

Karen.

Can't be certain, but those principals may not apply to these monks.

I know that many practice forms of martial arts for example. I seem to recall, the main moral principal is humility.
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kate durcal

Quote from: Zenda on July 22, 2011, 12:41:14 AM
Kia Ora Kate,
::) The supreme end goal  ::) ::)  ::) In a nutshell.....Nirvana = To transcend the cycle of "becoming" [Samsara]...

::) The Dalai Lama Kate has every right to call Buddhism a religion and the Pope also has every right to say it's not a religion, and on a personal level I have to agree with the Pope in this respect...

Mind you I would find it hard to imagine the Dalai Lama getting into a tiff over such a trivial thing...  ::) After all "What's in a name!"  ;)

Metta Zenda :)


This Nirvana bussiness reminds me of Spok's brother, who goes around taking everybody "pain" from them. Well, I am with Kirk on this one, keep your Nirvana, I need my pain and my thirst and my dreams, is what makes me push forward, be human.

Kate D
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Anatta

Quote from: kate durcal on July 22, 2011, 05:22:11 PM

This Nirvana bussiness reminds me of Spok's brother, who goes around taking everybody "pain" from them. Well, I am with Kirk on this one, keep your Nirvana, I need my pain and my thirst and my dreams, is what makes me push forward, be human.

Kate D

Kia Ora Kate,

::) Remind me on how a scientist's mind works again...Trained to think logically and lots of research  ;) ...Have you read up on the "Four Noble Truths" Kate ?

Metta Zenda :)
"The most essential method which includes all other methods is beholding the mind. The mind is the root from which all things grow. If you can understand the mind, everything else is included !"   :icon_yes:
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kate durcal

Quote from: Zenda on July 22, 2011, 06:38:36 PM
Kia Ora Kate,

::) Remind me on how a scientist's mind works again...Trained to think logically and lots of research  ;) ...Have you read up on the "Four Noble Truths" Kate ?

Metta Zenda :)

It is all about be consciousness about suffering and then following a path to eliminate the causes of suffering. My point -and I repeat myself- is that I do not want to end my suffering; it is my suffering that forces me to continue the fight, it it the suffering that makes me human.

Let me see if I can convey what I have been trying to tell you in all the threads were we have been debating. "Different stroke for different folks" I am glad your Buddhisms works for you and other, I respect that, like I respect Jesus is the Savior for others, but it is not for me.

You express you opinion in a way that lives no room for the beliefs of people who disagree with you. I have only find such a tactics in the radical Christians. You may not even be aware of it.

Kate D
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Anatta

Quote from: kate durcal on July 22, 2011, 11:30:34 PM
It is all about be consciousness about suffering and then following a path to eliminate the causes of suffering. My point -and I repeat myself- is that I do not want to end my suffering; it is my suffering that forces me to continue the fight, it it the suffering that makes me human.

Let me see if I can convey what I have been trying to tell you in all the threads were we have been debating. "Different stroke for different folks" I am glad your Buddhisms works for you and other, I respect that, like I respect Jesus is the Savior for others, but it is not for me.

You express you opinion in a way that lives no room for the beliefs of people who disagree with you. I have only find such a tactics in the radical Christians. You may not even be aware of it.

Kate D

Kia Ora Kate,

::) Now I'm really at a loss...
Kate I can't get angry with you,[even if you wanted me to] I can only have compassion towards you for whatever it is you are going through...And I mean this....... 

Metta Zenda :)
"The most essential method which includes all other methods is beholding the mind. The mind is the root from which all things grow. If you can understand the mind, everything else is included !"   :icon_yes:
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spacial

With respect, I'm sorry to say that you are both enguaged in a completely different conversation about a completely different topic.

Kate. The purpose of the notion of Nirvania is a perspective upon the cycle of death and rebirth.

Buddihsm is rooted in Indian philosophy which essentially takes the life force as being eternal. (To put it crudely for brevity). The entire philosophy is based upon that singular notion. Most of the principal traditions see the individual life forces as eminating from a singular. Thatb the objective is to break the cycle and not to be reborn. (Most Eastern philosophers will shudder at that summary. But it is, essentially accurate).

ME philosophy takes the individual as being eternaly individual. That each individual is personally culpable. That individual retribution and reward is the consequence of existance.

Traditional, pre-modern European philosophical tradition, (if we take the modern European philosophical era as starting around the time of the revolution of the 10th century, which introduced Roman Christianity and feudalism), takes the physical form as being an obstacal to the spiritual, which is etrnal. In this life, we individually struggle to establish and cement our reputations. Each of us has a path, in some traditions we select it, in others it is allocated. Once we trancend beyond the physical we will exist for all time with the reputation we had at death.

Can you see a pattern here?


Zenda.

Kate is a little stuck in a contemporary intellectual dichotomy, created by the conflicting claims of a small number of essentially politically motivated scientists who preach scientific absolutism.

The principal of scientific absolutism is its assumption that everything can be explained, absolutely, through science. That includes behaviour, feelings, emotions, even those experiences which we all have and which none of us, as humans, have the intellectual capacity to explain in words. That we don't have the answers is because we haven't found them yet, not that they don't exist.

It also works, strictly, with a principal of acedemic tradition. I can suggest an explaination, but unless I can demonstrate a sequence of intellectual steps, each made with regard for what came before, citing each as an acedemic, peer reviewed work, then my explaination is at best, a notion, at worst, a guess.

In itself, it is a good idea.

Scientific absolutism rejects, for example, aestheticism. Beauty, every aspect, can be explained by science. Unless it has, what there is is nothing more than a guess or a notion. The intuitive feelings of the artist or the designer can be demonstrated to have been accurate. But intuition is just an intelegent guess, or perhaps, a notion.

Scientific absolutism rejects as distractions, any such notions. That which is not known exists. But until it has been scientifically documented, even thinking about it, is a distraction

Now people like Kate and many others, actually find the implications of scientific absolutism a tab horrifying. But equally, they are reluctant to reject. So, they tend to reject what they feel safe to.

It's a sort of cultural fence sitting. And if you think about it, it probably the most sensible approach of all.

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