I want to chime in and say that I personally love your look so far.
With your facial appearance, I believe you have a harmony that indeed helps with your identity. Just according to laws of measurement, you do have a subtly prominent brow bone that is extended from the measurement of your chin and cheek bones, which can sometimes be seen as an instantly masculine trait to some people; however, with your looks in particular, especially combined with your beautifully healthy skin and otherwise androgynous features, I do not believe it diminishes your look at all and I've always been jealous of your looks in particular. You're very pretty!
The reason I say this is I sort of see you as what I would look like with subtle surgical improvements. My forhead is much, much more amplified than yours, and with the extent of mine, it really causes a problem with my transition. I also have extremely oily, red, unhealthy skin that would, if cured, have a chance of matching the type of soft, accessible skin you showcase. I'm thinking about also doing botox to the jaw muscles (my jaws are very thick-tissued, like a husky Scottish man, but my actual jaw and cheek bones are thin and slender like yours!) and botox to the jaw is designed to relieve the masculine, bloated appearance in that region. The final change would be a rhinoplasty; to put it frank, I have the large, bloated, round nose of a drunken Scottish man, and I wish so much for a nose more like yours!
Sorry if this is plain out jealousy or strange talk, but I've always looked up to your appearance as one that I believe is realistically possible for me; I do have to say my facial structure favors yours a bit, especially from the side angle, but I just have all the extreme features that put me into so much a masculine, cave-man place opposite to the accessible, very admiring look you are able to pass with.
Btw, you seem very worried about your family - if someone gets violent, get outta there!
