I agree that you can't judge a book by its cover but given the choice to be beautiful, average or unattractive I'd choose beautiful handsdown. On a realistic note, however, I will never be what is considered beautiful. I was a nice looking guy and though I passed in my younger days as female I have since put on the middleage spread, gotten the usual bags and sags and though I don't frighten old ladies or little children I'm not a ''stunner'' either. I currently care for someone who needs me 24/7 so for me ffs is in the future followed by a facelift and whatever cosmetic procedures I can get to help me attain the look of a nice looking lady who appears younger than her true age. I'm not vain. My goal is to simply fit into society.