Absolutely no offence taken at all.
In any of these areas I think it is very important to be careful, it is our only skin after all. And yes it is a lot of money so we need to be careful of that too. I do know that there were reports in the Australian press about people being severely burned and disfigured by untrained laser techs.
I hope the Tria works for you, and with fair skin and dark hair you are in a good category. But do be careful of making sure you don't overdo it. My techs have been very informative in teaching me skin care and applying sunscreen and moisturiser to protect my skin, particularly after laser.
If you go for a hand held laser do let us know how it went, as you said lots of girls here are very interested in the outcome.
I went into the clinic in person and made an appointment, it was the second I went to, I didn't feel comfortable in the first place, something felt odd and I sort of take notice of those intuition type of feelings. The place I go to, as I said, have been great, very friendly, totally confidential and I feel that I'm being treated by skilled people who care for me.
Good luck and let me know how you go
Hugs
Cindy