There are a lot of good arguments in there.
No solutions are offered. It's just a complaint.
"Not all trans folks want to be part of our community." - A good percentage of trans-people live stealth. Speaking for myself personally: I am straight, I am stealth at work; once I get my surgery and I'm finished with my transition, I plan to never say I'm transsexual ever again.
Some people commented and said, "Male to Female, attracted to men, you're straight. What's the problem?" - The problem is it costs lots of money to get our sex marker changed from M to F (or F to M respectively), and that if I do want to get married to a male, I'll have to pay buttloads of money to get my marker changed.
Like it or not, while being trans has a lot to do with gender identity, it has a lot to do with sexual orientation too. If your MtF and attracted to males, society will view you as a gay male dressed in women's clothes. If you're MtF and attracted to females, then society can view you as lesbian. There is really no win-win.
Trans-people make up less than 1% of the population. We don't have the numbers or financial backing to support a huge, expensive movement. We need to be part of a larger group. Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transsexual; We're all fighting for equal rights and non-discrimination. There is no reason to segregate the groups and the cause.
