Body envy....

[Darrin Scott]

I'm attracted to women and have no desire to be with a man, but I'm finding I do like gay porn or watching men get off. I think it's because I wish I could do that too. Like I wish I had the proper equipment. Does anyone else feel this way?

No offense to those who are gay. I have no disrespect for you guys. And no, I'm not denying my feelings towards men. I am a little bi, but prefer women. I'm also not sure if this should be in the sexuality section or not...  If so, please move it.

[cindianna_jones]

I perfectly understand the way that you feel. I think that most of us feel similar feelings in one way or the other. Personally, I've always been offended by porn. However, with that said, there was a time in my life when I was so curious about female anatomy that I was more than a little interested in it.

[Silas]

Not really abnormal. Plenty of people enjoy porn that "contradicts" their sexualities. I think generally because it's the act they like watching, not really one they like participating in. Who knows, I'm not sure how sexual arousal works, but if someone can have a fetish for feet, then straight guys can like gay porn.

I consider myself pansexual but leaning heavily gay; straight porn weirds me out. I've tried reading yuri, and all I can muster up is a morbid sort of fascination, or, I'll be extremely into it and have no idea why, especially since my sexual attraction for women stops just at the waist. o_0;;;

I'm not sure if I like because I wish I could be in a queer relationship with a girl (I'd never be able to consider it heteronormative/straight), or just because it's an interesting look at sex from an angle I'm not overly familiar with. (Although I'm most likely to enjoy it and gag at the same time.) Some people just write well enough to make someone come buckets over a sex/gender pairing they normally wouldn't like, so. -shrug-

[Wil Najera]

i totally see where ur coming from there. i enjoy gay porn just because i'm jealous of their bodies. i also watch hetero porn and picture myself as the guy. it's a sad issue between me and my wife too... cuz i cant get off if i cant get my head in the game. i have to thoroughly see myself as a male or it just doesnt work for me. it's extremely frustrating. :/

[cindianna_jones]

You know, I've always wondered how "straight men" enjoy the standard fare of porn because it focuses so squarely on the man's ...  well, you know.  I don't get it.  Is there a gay streak in all men or what?

Just askin'. I don't really want to offend anyone.