de-sensitized to the female body (for straight guys mostly)

[vandalrivera]

mmmm girls

[PixieBoy]

I don't find movie stars attractive, there needs to be a certain amount of "grit" that those Photoshopped makeup-covered billboard godesses don't have. I like women with freckles, with scars, with tattoos, with crazy coloured hair, with really long hair, with shaved head, with glasses, chubbier women... The "traditionally" beautiful types (the girls all the boys in class drool over) never really appealed to me.
I like small breasts, big breasts, small butts, big butts, it all depends on the person. I'm a sucker for tall girls, though. And I find a woman with a shaved head/really short buzzcut who couples that with traditionally feminine accessories incredibly attractive.

[Padma]

Freckles make my heart horny .

[Squirrel698]

I can relate to what you are saying Ryan.  At first when I looked at a girl I would just feel sorry for her.  All those curves and breasts and everything.  Awful.

Then I began to realize they enjoyed looking like that.  What's more they know how to work it.  There is motion in that ocean, while there was never any in mine.  They enjoy being feminine and so I can enjoy their femininity. 

It also helped when I watched my body changing.  I'm a lot more muscular then I use to be.  Not only that my downstairs area has quadrupled in size.  This might sound crude, but a women's sexual parts are so much smaller and dainty.   At this point I'm nothing like that so it really helps me make the distinction.  Plus my breasts are basically flattened and so a women's rounded breasts are also a whole new world to me.  Personally I think more than a mouthful is a waste but that's just me. 

I'm nothing at all like a girl.  Physically, mentally or emotionally but I adore them for the mysterious wonderful creatures they are.   

[RyGuy]

I can relate to what you are saying Ryan.  At first when I looked at a girl I would just feel sorry for her.  All those curves and breasts and everything.  Awful.

Then I began to realize they enjoyed looking like that.  What's more they know how to work it.  There is motion in that ocean, while there was never any in mine.  They enjoy being feminine and so I can enjoy their femininity. 

It also helped when I watched my body changing.  I'm a lot more muscular then I use to be.  Not only that my downstairs area has quadrupled in size.  This might sound crude, but a women's sexual parts are so much smaller and dainty.   At this point I'm nothing like that so it really helps me make the distinction.  Plus my breasts are basically flattened and so a women's rounded breasts are also a whole new world to me.  Personally I think more than a mouthful is a waste but that's just me. 

I'm nothing at all like a girl.  Physically, mentally or emotionally but I adore them for the mysterious wonderful creatures they are.

i think this hit it spot on, especially the bit about "feeling sorry for them". as i see myself changing i'm able to distance myself more from women in the way that "we are not the same", but i'm still/have always been quite guarded in romantic relationships and encounters so i'm getting used to it slowly.

[Mr.Rainey]

I like femine bodies but I am not really attracted to femine girls. I like tomboys because the girly ones bore me because we have nothing in common.

[Wil Najera]

Sorry, I don't. ): While I may loathe my own body for not matching up, I adore a physically female body on.. not me. Nothing stops my libido, I'm afraid. xD;

i agree with this. i've always hated my body, despite others telling me i'm hot. but that doesnt make a difference when its not "me" i'm looking at.

[N.Chaos]

Ryan, I know I'm mostly gay, but I can totally relate because up until recently, I at least thought other girls were attractive. At this point, I'm either just bored or flat out annoyed/repulsed by most of them. No clue how I still stay with my girlfriend.

She gets pissed at me because I almost flat-out refuse to touch her boobs at all, because it makes me think of mine, and then makes me miserable.