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Is monogamy natural?
Theoretically speaking, anything is "Monogamistically" natural... [New word of the day, Monogamistically]. Say it with me, Mono-ga-mis-ti-cal-ly"
However, because one is monogamous in "their" relationship, does not mean that they are monogamous sexually...[and that is important] because social-monogamous [marriage/ co-habitation
et.al.] is different from sexual monogamous.
Which brings me to this point, aside from the "birds", [NOT ALL] animals are socially monogamous, and the same holds true for humans, some [NOT ALL], are socially monogamous, but, NOT sexually monogamous [there is a difference]!
It is [NOT], as some may deem, a natural "thing" for every human-being, to want to be married, but it is a natural "thing" for human-beings [to include some animals, as well], to want to be sexually promiscuous [uninhibited, unrestrained]. This is NOT to be confused, with being classified, as a loose whore !
Between animals [humans included], pro-creation is to be considered, the main staple of the Entrée, whereas sex, is [just] the Appetizer.
There are those who might confuse sexual appetite, as being the main staple of the Entrée, but realistically it is not, planting one's "seed" is!
Being in a monogamous relationship, "Socially" might be satisfying, but "Sexually" it may not...and this is the cause for many beautiful relationships ending...it's "NOT" that there is a difference in opinion "Socially", but rather there is a difference in opinion "Sexually".
And this is why; the Sexual Appetizer is normally confused with the Social Entrée!
To have a balanced relationship, one must first "NOT" confuse the two...Appetizer with the Entrée. Remember the Appetizer comes before the meal always...and if one fills up on nothing but Appetizers, then there is no "room" left for the main course...the Entrée!
So, in conclusion, Monogamy IS NOT a naturalistic act...!
We may want it to be...but, in actual reality, how many times have we passed over something that was "morally good for us", just to have a taste of the sweet "apple, cherry, peach" pie?
I for one, have passed over many "morally" good-for-me Entrées, just to taste the Appetizer of said meal...only to ask later, "What's for dinner?"