A third for the Yahoo groups. I found the ftmmetoidioplasty group the most helpful.
I can't say I agree with FtM bottom surgery being a 'rapidly developing/changing area' though, unfortunately. That is not to disparage the work of surgeons who are indeed working on improvements (it is appreciated and needed), it's just that those improvements are incremental. I still see a 'fully-functional, adult-size, indistinguishable-from-cis' penis as being a long way off. Just make sure you're fully aware of the benefits and limitations of both meta and phallo (a frequent topic of discussion on the Yahoo groups), and make sure you are OK with those limitations, as well as any complications that can occur.