how to tell transwomen from crossdressers

[jamie nicole]

Let me ask a question Jamie, suppose you have your 3 or 4 year old grandson with you, are you going to send him into the men's restroom alone or bring him with you into the women's restroom? I think the safe bet would be that you would bring him with you. A smart parent or grandparent would never send a girl or boy into a restroom unescorted alone until they are old enough. Every thing happens in a stall behind a close door so who cares if they bring them in. Safety for the child should be your number one concern.

Chloe

As written, it's a hypothetical question since I dont have (too young) a grandson, but I'll answer your question anyway.  The only places where I shop either have single toilet restrooms or family restrooms so I wouldnt be in a situation where I had a choice of multiple toilet restrooms........but, if I was in that situation of only having a multiple toilet restroom, he would be sent into the mens room and I would stand guard outside the door. (as I have for a female friend using the mens room at the high school sports stadium because the womens room was locked)

[azSam]

This thread got waaaaaaaaaaaaay off topic.

[Stephe]

but, if I was in that situation of only having a multiple toilet restroom, he would be sent into the mens room and I would stand guard outside the door.

This is classic.. You are worried that your daughter would be exposed to a cross dresser masturbating in the women's room while you are in there with her, using this as the reason ONLY people such as yourself that are post op or natal females should EVER be allowed. But have no issue sending a little boy unescorted into a mens restroom? Do you have any idea how much more likely it would be for then to have a problem in the mens room alone (like you standing guard does what?) vs this dreamed up -cross dressers jack off in the restroom- nonsense you dreamed up? I need to link your posts to the thread about "I see no elitism from post-ops on this forum"...

[tekla]

I would stand guard outside the door

Guarding what exactly?  You can't keep anyone out, there is no authority for that.

[RyGuy]

This thread got waaaaaaaaaaaaay off topic.

yes can you guys please start a new thread if you have more to discuss?? i keep getting notifications for the new posts in this thread and as the op, my question has been answered and i'm asking you to please stop.

[Shana A]

yes can you guys please start a new thread if you have more to discuss?? i keep getting notifications for the new posts in this thread and as the op, my question has been answered and i'm asking you to please stop.

I believe you can shut off the notifications if you don't wish to follow the topic.

Z