made myself asexual now bored :( warning i have opinions be ware

[LilKittyCatZoey]

hi there right i post it well because i wanna if my psychotic behavior is shared with anyone ?


ok so like hmmm a year or so ago i went crazy about sex as in tried everything to remove its possibility from my mind so i well made myself asexual ...

its not that hard just have the same level of disgust about men as i do my opinion don't don't get offended now. i don't know its just well all my life i have seen only 1 good act done by a guy and the rest horrible stuff ! any who wasn't hard to go um yea no thank you


now for girls see now what i did here was also simple i just thought of the pain of being the guy in the relationship and that's hurtful enough to over time also remove attraction


ok so what i didn't mention was i was bi
ok so now i am bored of feeling no attractions its so annoying ! and its my fault for brain washing myself

haha any advice ?


ps: i still don't care about sex !

[Jenny_B_Good]

I believe that sexuality is about expression- how you feel and who you are.
Sexuality = communication.
That's why alot of religions try to make you feel guilty over your sexuality, as a means to control you.
But it sounds to me as if you gave an issue with your own expression. I don't believe you can become asexual -some work aholics do eg.Alfred Hitchcock, because it will come out in other ways. For instance Hitchcock was notorious for being demanding, controlling and demeaning to his female stars. Maybe if he let loose once in awhile his communication with females would gave been more true.

Here's a exercise for you- IF you had to choose one gender to have sex with which one would you choose-and why? Is it really an attraction to your chosen gender or a repulsion of your attraction to another?  Interesting?

[justmeinoz]

It's your body, so you can do what you like with it.

It sounds like you are afraid that your commitment won't be returned.  Seeing as you have said you are bi, do you feel the same way about women as men, right now?
Have your relationships with women turned out the same as with guys? Might be a clue there as to what is keeping you from expressing yourself, and letting you form a good, caring relationship.

Just my own suggestions. I hate to be asked for, or give, direct advice as I am having enough trouble running my own chunk of the Universe most of the time.

Karen.

[Alexmakenoise]

When you meet someone you have a real, soul-stirring connection with, the sexual arousal will follow. 

Until then, if you don't have the desire for sex, you could consider it one less thing to have to worry about.  If you're bored, there are plenty of ways to have fun.  Let your imagination wander.  Get out and explore.

[Metroland]

Hey,

Maybe you haven't found what you liked about sex yet.  There are infinite possibilities and you might have not yet found what you wanted.  It isn't a bad idea to try it, safely, and find what you like, but keep your options open.

Are you sure you are asexual? An asexual person wouldn't have experimented so much IMHO.

[LilKittyCatZoey]

i have had 2 relationship before 1 with a boy the other with a girl i never felt much passion either way but yea tried it lol thanks girls i know its a random just well silly thread but thank you

[versuchsanordnung]

Hey,
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Are you sure you are asexual? An asexual person wouldn't have experimented so much IMHO.

i'm not so shure about that. I am pretty much asexual and did quite a LOT experimenting in my early to mid twenties. Having sex has not in every case something to do with your sexuality, imho.

[LilKittyCatZoey]

i don't experiment but thank you girls   for all the posts