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I'm a woman.

Started by Wild Flower, September 11, 2011, 11:32:21 PM

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Wild Flower

I'm a woman. There's nothing that going to tell me otherwise, even if I don't look like a woman.

A guy opened a door for me at the gas station, waited for me too, and I was kind of happy. I wasn't even trying to appear like a woman, but it just felt good regardless. Also a customer, said, "Ma'am... sir".  I don't get it... I don't really, because I don't look like woman.

I'm not on hormones. My hair is short. I dress like a man. I look like a man. But people see a woman in me?? I don't act feminine... weird isn't it. Guys are talking to me??? Women are friendly...

Any transsexual experience this (before hormones, and all that)? I would find this insulting if I wasn't like this.
"Anyone who believes what a cat tells him deserves all he gets."
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Nygeel

Negative. 10 months on hormones and I still don't lol
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Rabbit

I dunno, people have always been polite to me? Whoever is at the door holds it open, or stuff like that.

Never been ma'amed though (only thing close is a guy thinking I was a girl from my picture online haha).

Though, when I date, my boyfriends always treated me very gently and "like a lady" (which, considering I was still a guy, I found kind of funny but sweet). I doubt they saw me as a girl, just not a "manly man" :P
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Wild Flower

Gawd, lol

Either I make guys confuse, or what... but I saw this guy talking to this guy, and then they looked at me... (same guy kept on saying hi to me). One guy implied to me today I should become a stripper. Lmao.... guys are so strange.

don't understand it, don't care too.
"Anyone who believes what a cat tells him deserves all he gets."
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RhinoP

If someone's saying you need to be a stripper and everyone is confused on what gender you are, I guarantee you look more female or androgynous than many folks, even if it's just facial structure or body size.
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Rabbit

I would be offended if they said I should be a stripper o.O
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Anatta

Kia Ora,

[I forgot to add this] "I don't act feminine!"

::) It's possible when one is not 'self conscious' ones behaviour is more 'natural'... It's hard to know how one acts when ones defenses are down[not feeling 'self' conscious]...

Metta Zenda :) 
"The most essential method which includes all other methods is beholding the mind. The mind is the root from which all things grow. If you can understand the mind, everything else is included !"   :icon_yes:
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