I would have to sound sort of weird here on this subject.. but here I go;
I consider myself "gay" and "male" ....I think a lot of FTM dudes are hot... I'd totally consider being with a post op trans man... for sure. THis, being hypocritical on my part, since I haven't even been on T or anything yet... I am totally not what I'd want physcially.. SO it'd be sort of unfair for me to target that.. This being, I'd think about another trans dude as a friend, and maybe more, but it'd be difficult to sustain a relationship unless there was only a penis down there. (being as I am not attracted to girl parts whatsoever-- including my own) As far as men who were born male, I am instinctively attracted to feminine men, gay or bi or hetero(whether born as, or completely transitioned)... just like a gay man would be. I really like anal play, and I am not ashamed to say so... Of course vaginal sex is good, but when a guy is going down, I always get sort of uncomfortable no matter how good it feels... because I feel that its not my body. If it were a perfect world, I'd be able to get surgery and date the kind of men I really want to, and have the kind of sex I desire...but money is of course the one thing that will always hold me back. That being, I am hypocritically (in my opinion) stating, if a trans guy has gone thru with surgery and wanted me, I'd do it... just as likely as if a male born male wanted me...