Yup, I have found that being trans is a good springing point for relationships too
When people find out, the first reaction is curiosity. Some are more shy about their curiosity, but with most they are just so curious they gotta ask a little.
I think trans people might be at risk of coming off as a bit cold or distant from those around them before coming out. It seems just natural... even if it isn't conscious and you are struggling with all the things as you get started.
Opening up to people a little and letting them know something so personal about you in turn seems to open them up. They share troubles they are having or whatever is bugging them. And, at the end of the chat, you both have a better understanding of eachother... and the relationship grows a little stronger.
So, I am finding that I am becoming closer to family... and friends... and pretty much everyone that knows. There is the rare "i can't handle this" reaction, but that is probably only with people with stronger attachments to you already (like family).
I think curiosity is a GREAT thing. I don't shut people down when they want to get to know more and start asking about hormones or transition or why I am doing it (even if it is personal). I am happy to make more relationships with people, let them get to know ME... help them realize trans isn't anything that strange... I'm not a pervert or whatever else... just a little different (but still quite normal).
I have read some threads where trans girls are veryyy defensive when they are approached. I don't see how pushing people away or being hostile can do anything other than make things harder ...
