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Started by Bridal Wish, September 11, 2011, 08:26:55 PM

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Bridal Wish

umm... hello i just joined this site! (it feels like an oiasis in the sea i've been in recently <<")
but i had a question i feel uncomfertable asking, does sex feel any different for a MTF?
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LordKAT

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Bridal Wish

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Quote from: LordKAT on September 11, 2011, 08:32:01 PM
different from?
from normal male having sex >.< im scared about this so please help me.
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Lily

I'm 4 months in and my orgasms don't feel any different. It's diminished my sex drive a bit, but the actual sensation has not changed.

I would imagine it feels very different for a post-op though.
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Bridal Wish

then (since males can only ejaculate once during intercourse) can you have multiple orgasms during intercourse?
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Sandy

The short answer is: Yes and no.

No it is not "different" from the standpoint of "Is it something that I cannot recognize as orgasm?"  It is different in a couple of different ways.  After having SRS, you no longer have testicles and all of the plumbing that goes along with that.  As a result your ejaculatory response is physically gone.  The feeling of orgasm is more of an all over tingle, than a response that is centered in the groin.  Multiple orgasms are possible, but that varies from person to person.

And,another, of course, is having a vagina.  There is the (in)-famous G-spot, that is actually your prostate.  With proper stimulation it can provide a rather satisfying sensation which is not like a clitoral orgasm in nature.  The feeling of penetration, per-se, does not contribute to orgasm, but the massaging of your prostate/g-spot is what becomes orgasmic (at least for me).

That is a rather mechanical explanation, of course, and does not take into account any situational eroticism.  The brain, after all, is the biggest sexual organ and is where the seat of orgasm lay.  Part of your post-operative recovery will be to re-train your brain to understand the changes and what contributes to fulfillment.

-Sandy
Out of the darkness, into the light.
Following my bliss.
I am complete...
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Adabelle

You have to remember that a lot of genetic women don't experience multiple orgasms, and many men can experience them. But the decision to transition for me really isn't about quality of orgasm, or about "sex", but about finding peace in having things feel right and everything that goes with living in the right role (which of course includes sexuality too, but it's not the only, nor the most important thing).

If someone was considering transition for the sex I would just let them know that starting testosterone blockers and adding estrogen completely killed libido for me. This being said, I'm only 5 months on HRT and the feeling has changed a little bit. But it's not in a bad way, and it's not really "better" by any universal measure. It's just a little different, and it feels nice, and natural. Certainly HRT does not take away your ability to orgasm, but it might make you less interested in pursuing one in the first place.
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Adabelle

Quote from: Bridal Wish on September 11, 2011, 09:06:38 PM
then (since males can only ejaculate once during intercourse) can you have multiple orgasms during intercourse?

You can have multiple orgasms during intercourse as a guy too - male orgasms are not dependent upon ejaculation, that's a myth. It's also not sex dependent.

If it's orgasms you're after, you might want to learn about how to have multiple orgasms as a boy - since this is entirely possible with practice (and MUCH less work that transitioning!) Transitioning for the orgasms is not really a good idea in my opinion.
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