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What could it be?

Started by Elsa.G, September 15, 2011, 07:26:54 PM

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Elsa.G

Me and my cousin r very close, ive written about her before in some posts here on Susan's. Me and her always attend family dinners together because we are almost always together. She is 21 and im 22. We have a cousin who is 19 years old and she has a older sister who is 23 years old and we only really see them at family dinners about once a month. They are nice to me and they say hello and stuff every time and they are fine with me being transgender and stuff but they seem to deeply dislike my cousin Gaby who im close with. I am positive that it is not a personal problem since they are not close and rarely see each other and i even asked Gaby if this is a personal problem and she said no they arent close enough to even argue about anything.  The other cousin im speaking of her name is Abigail and she has always been kinda a stuck up girl but she has never acted so rudely to anyone except for Gaby. I was thinking of what it could be and it occured to me that maybe it has to do with her apperance she is a bit "gothy" but not too exaggerated but Gaby has been this was since we were really young and our other cousin Abigail and her sister Janet didnt start being so mean to her until maybe 2 years ago. I dont understand what it could be they even accept me being transgender. I wanted your opinions if you think it could possibly be jealousy? Gaby is a very pretty woman and the other 2 girls are pretty ok looking. Abigail especially seems to almost hate her, we went over to her mothers house and she greeted me but her mother had to tell abigail to say hello to Gaby. I dont understand how family can be so rude and mean like that. Gaby has never done anything bad to them yet they act so rude with her. I really want to just figure out what the issue is. Do you think it could be jealousy? i know this is not so much a TG issue but i just want your opinions on what it could possibly be. Let me know your opinions plz  :)
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SarahLynn

Could be jealousy but there are too many questions. The most important one is :
What happened 2 years ago?
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Elsa.G

Quote from: SarahLynn on September 15, 2011, 08:11:55 PM
Could be jealousy but there are too many questions. The most important one is :
What happened 2 years ago?

Nothing at all, they have never been too close at all. So that's why im left wondering if its just jealousy
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SarahLynn

Maybe it wasn't an actual "event" but perhaps a perceived one. Unfortunately there will be no way to tell unless someone can talk to her about it.
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