I have bright red hair that touches half-way down my neck that I am not allowed to cut.
I have D sized breasts, and nothing to bind my breasts with, but plenty of layers, luckily it's still cold out!
I have a bit of muscle on me, but not enough to sculpt my arms and abs into a more masculine shape. I'm still working on it.
I live in a really hard situation right now where the people I live with are extremely prejudiced about my gender identity and expression.
If I want to be seen and identified as a male, just when I go out and meet new people, how should I achieve this without doing anything that would show up on my folks' "gaydar"?