Myself i was put in haverford state mental hospital in the late 60's for wearing womens clothes. I never had any attraction to men and the many times i went to the GID clinic in downtown Phila they wouldn't let me transition because i didn't date men. I eventually ran away to N. Calif where in Eureka Calif i met a transsexual who lived on H street in a house full of lesbians. She was from conneticut and was going thru electro at the time. She didn't help much but she let me know what i was is real. I then lived at Hokahey a LG commune in southern humboldt up millers creek and met a lesbian woman who treated me as a female. She never forced me to use my penis. That was my first lesbian relationship. I eventually did transition in the 90's after going through recovery and realizing that my GID was the bigger issue than my addiction to drugs / alcohol. Well thats just my life. I am not sure how it relates to your story but its my life. I am open to hearing others views. It won't bother me because i am a long time post op living a very butch life. I still am not at all attracted to men.
actually to get the order right i ran away first to N. Calif and then went to the GID clinic later.