Ask Matt: Coming Home to One's True Nature
September 22, 2011 by Matt Kailey
http://tranifesto.com/2011/09/22/ask-matt-coming-home-to-ones-true-nature/A reader writes: "How does one who generally has presented as femme find their male identity? How does one 'come home' to their true nature? I – and everyone else I know – have always presented as masculine or butch, so we always saw our maleness for the most part."
This is a tough question, and the answer will be different for every guy who had a more "traditionally feminine" presentation prior to transition. For me, because I was so very feminine, the external process of transition seemed to trigger and support the internal, rather than the other way around.
