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I love this girl?

Started by Cody Jensen, September 26, 2011, 01:55:48 AM

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Cody Jensen

Here`s the story. A year ago me and my family were waiting in the airport for our flight. I walked into a bookstore and heard the most beautiful singing voice. After buying a book, I asked the cashier "was that you? You have a really pretty voice!" Turns out it was her, and we went into this conversation about singing and how I was looking for voice lessons. She ended up giving me her business card because she was actually an opera singer and after I came back from my vacation we started lessons together. She`s been coaching me since then. I have also come out to her, and she said that she was also bisexual. I am presenting myself as female even though I want to be male. The big problem is: she has two girlfriends already. She is in a long distance relationship with one, and they came up with a rule that they could both have boyfriends.girlfriends in their own countries. So now she also has another girlfriend. She's in Europe right now and wonèt be back for another month. I KNOW I am in love with her. She's all I think about and I have fantasies of me and her together. She already has two girlfriends though. What should I do? I can't take my mind off her!!

PS If this helps at all we're both the same age.

PPS I didn't know where to put this so I put this here. I apologize if it's in the wrong section.
Derp

"I just don't know what went wrong!"
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Sharky

I would just let it stay a fantasy and move on. The infatuation will pass.
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Harbor

I agree with Sharky. It sounds way more complicated than it is probably worth. And it'll probably get more complicated once her gf is back from Europe.
I am a son of Hades...
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Cody Jensen

You're both probably right. I guess I was hoping for someone to tell me to hold onto my feelings but it's probably for the better.
Derp

"I just don't know what went wrong!"
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Kentrie

I would tell her how I felt first.
Push it baby, push it baby, out of control, I got my gun cocked tight and I'm ready to blow. ;)
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Sharky

Quote from: Kentrie on September 27, 2011, 12:25:41 AM
I would tell her how I felt first.
I think that would make things awkward.
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Kentrie

How would it make things awkward? He might actually have a chance....Unless I misread what he said. Sorry if I sound like a dick....I'm not trying to get an attitude or anything.
Push it baby, push it baby, out of control, I got my gun cocked tight and I'm ready to blow. ;)
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Cody Jensen

I don't know what to think or do seeing as I've never been in a relationship before and I have only had feelings like this for one other person in my entire life.
Derp

"I just don't know what went wrong!"
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Hayzer12

Why would you even want to get into a relationship with someone whom had two relationships going simultaneously? Am I the only person that actually believes in monogamy? O_O
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Zac

Quote from: stiltsk on September 27, 2011, 01:46:01 AM
Why would you even want to get into a relationship with someone whom had two relationships going simultaneously? Am I the only person that actually believes in monogamy? O_O

Nope, I'm in a monogamous relationship with my fiancee and do not intend on sharing. Back on topic, I say it's best to just let it go. Like others have said, it's too complicated and just blurting out your feelings will make this a bit.. strange and awkward.
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