So after seeing yet another FB post from an aunt who's conservative who knows I'm trans* (and has a gay son), I asked my cousin how he deals with it when someone close to him goes into a tirade about how awful the politicians and candidates who support our rights are, when they even extol the virtues of those pols who are against us.
Some of the things I hear from various relatives make my blood boil, and I'm uncertain how I should proceed. Part of me things I should read them the riot act. I've been silent for too long, and it's wearing on me. I feel like my silence is a betrayal of sorts.
My cousin replied, somewhat thusly:
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How do I deal and how should you? My advice is.... get a reputation. When something or someone conservative pisses me off, I get so vitriolic at the incredible dumb-___ b______t these ____ers have to say that everyone who knows me knows not to watch Fox News or listen to talk radio anywhere near me. I am very open and vocal about how ____ing stupid they are, and rather than listen to me foam at the mouth, people simply avoid anything political. Let your opinions be well known, because obviously you have a right to say them, since you ARE right, and closed minded, sexist anti gay ____ers should all be rounded up and shot.
I'm beginning to think he might have a good idea, although I never said anyone should "be rounded up and shot." That's what my dad says about people like me. And people like my ex-wife. And people like our kids. In fact, that's what he says about most of those whom I love.
I've tried the "still small voice," but that's seem to get very far.
What do you, my boardmates, do in these situations?