A good therapist helps you to find your own answers from a good, balanced, strong place. Such answers are the ones you can ultimately live with.
There's a reason one can't walk in, say, "I want SRS," and walk out with a surgery date. One needs to spend a fair amount of time learning - learning who he or she is, learning what he/she truly wants, learning the costs, and learning how to get there. Answers rarely appear overnight. They rarely appear written large across the sky. Most often, they arrive with that still, quiet voice that speaks somewhere within us.
Dia dhuit, Alice.
