Does anyone else get this? (Warning: graphic xD)

[Jude]

I was just wondering if any other guys get this. Hope this isnt too graphic but when you guys get... a hard on do you find it frustrating that you don't have anything to.. grasp xD if you catch my drift?

[Sharky]

I was just wondering if any other guys get this. Hope this isnt too graphic but when you guys get... a hard on do you find it frustrating that you don't have anything to.. grasp xD if you catch my drift?

I find it frustrating that i dont have the standard issue anatomy for a man. It bothers me alot. I'm looking forward to T giving me more to grasp.

[Dane]

Yes. It annoys me to no end. Not just not having male parts, but with this I have no idea what to do once I get aroused. Like I do, but it doesn't do anything for me really, because it doesn't feel correct.

[Leek]

T helps.

And so does learning to look at your anatomy in a male way instead of the way one is originally taught. That's at least half of it, I think.

[Nygeel]

What Leek said.

I've recently found that not directly touching myself (ex: humping) helps my brain.

[GentlemanRDP]

I completely agree with everything that's been said so far.

I find it extremely frustrating, and I'm also frustrated by the way that I 'have' to get off, and I find that getting off usually does me more harm than good in the end and I usually end up pissed off at my lack of traditional male anatomy - however, it's true that T does help (Though I'm not far along enough to have a lot of growth down there, a little is better than nothing)

[Logan1986]

this is part of the reason I started pumping. I've found it helps a lot. I've also modified some cheap adult toys to better suit my anatomy. It can be frustrating though

[anibioman]

i agree i hate that i cant grab my dick. i pack and i found that any touch through my packer feels so much better also i can grab it and/or feel it through my pants.

I'd have to agree with this. Humping or even just simply fantasizing is a much higher turn on for me than touching myself down there.

[Natkat]

T helps, so you got something to grap, still you need a little practice first.

[Tad]

Depends, T has given me a lot... considering that I had essentially nothing to start with, but it's still barely anthing, nothing much to grasp. Makes me jealous when I think about the growth other people get... haha.

[Jude]

Thanks for all your replies guys. I'm glad im not alone in that xD

Also I thought this was really interesting Leek. I'm always interested in finding newways of thinking and whatnot

T helps.

And so does learning to look at your anatomy in a male way instead of the way one is originally taught. That's at least half of it, I think.

[Superrad]

I know what you mean. I didn't really try hard (heh) to get off because the mental benefits of it weren't great therefore the physical ones were dull and equally fulfilling. What helped was thinking about it in a male way--this was natural and I'd be buggered if I'd let any anatomy discrepancies ruin it for me. I began to see my anatomy in a more male way and explored and it was much nicer.

Still, I feel like I have to work for it a bit more than bio-guys. I'm a bit jealous but I suppose you work with the cards you're dealt.

[Felix]

Oh wow. This really explains some stuff I never thought about.

I'm wildly and overly sexual, and I've always been a little nonplussed at the fact that I don't get off the way other people with clits do. I don't generally masturbate naked, and if I do it's still not usually direct touch. I use my fist, and just kind of manipulate the whole pelvis. The pressure and feeling of thrust is what I go for.

When I have sex with others it's kinda similar. I'm not super comfortable with the way guys have sex with girls (I sleep with guys, mostly), and I tend to favor positions and rhythms that allow for more weight and certain kinds of motion than any direct stimulation.

Lol I think I just validated and confirmed your graphic warning in the title. xD

[mm]

I am pre-t and getting the "feeling" and having nothing really to get a hold of gets to me every time and that ends the moment.  I realize again that I don't have those external parts that I dream of so much.

[Devyn]

Yes. It annoys me to no end. Not just not having male parts, but with this I have no idea what to do once I get aroused. Like I do, but it doesn't do anything for me really, because it doesn't feel correct.

This.