Hello there
Let's do it... I am Emma. And Jerome. Let me explain.
Personally, I've literally suffered my gynecomastia (almost a B cup... some would say I'm lucky...) since I was a child (hormone injections for my pregnant mother so she could have me, delayed puberty, late T), until recently when I finally realized that the little voice in my head that's been talking to me since I was a child when I wonder and think, was a girl... Looking back, it's all very clear from my experience. Yes, I'm 2 in my head, I consider myself two-gendered, two-spirited, whatever you like, but for me, it's neither madness nor a dissociative personality disorder.
Following this realization, I lost a lot of weight, and of course my breasts partly lost weight too... And what I considered to be something that absolutely had to be hidden in my life as a young teenager, a young man, then a mature man, married with 2 children, is now at the center of my preoccupations: yes, I love my breasts, yes, I'm a girl in my head too! So, I'm lucky that my wife has always known me with this gynecomastia, and I hope to be able to hide the fact that I'm starting a transition to find myself, to exist, to find my breasts again, even if it's incomplete, without losing those I love... I could get fatter again, but no, I don't want to and I can't... it's become a health problem, it's just not possible.
My feminine side, my little voice, needs to live, alongside my masculine side. So yes, I have work to do on myself, but above all, I need to live and blossom... So I hope that I will find the advice and help I need to fulfill myself.