Broken Down as far as We Can Go

[qUiRkY qUeEn]

I accept my spouse being female but she is confused by my reactions. We go out and I get negative, complain, and she does not trust me. I feel it is not all of the time and i am usually pretty happy with her. I am not used to my spouse looking at all of her body changes and asking about them and all the other appearance questions she has been throwing at me lately. I do my best to answer them, but my body language basically is telling her otherwise. This is all strange to me. It is like she wants my actions to change from 0 to 60 NOW.... I feel that I am going to be kinda weirded out and not know how to act sometimes. She is a female now, not a man. She does not understand nor I feel wants to wait for me to adapt!! Or understand when I tell everyone that I do accept her, why am I acting differently toward her. Well I am learning to adapt to being married to a women. It is only fair I get the benefit of the doubt here.

When she ask me if there is a bump on her face, she has a freaked out tone to her voice, I freeze, then state my response. 0 to 60 mpr again. Why does she not understand that I do accept her BUT I need time to adapt WTH??? I AM FRIGGIN CONFUSED!!!!!

[LilDevilOfPrada]

I accept my spouse being female but she is confused by my reactions. We go out and I get negative, complain, and she does not trust me. I feel it is not all of the time and i am usually pretty happy with her. I am not used to my spouse looking at all of her body changes and asking about them and all the other appearance questions she has been throwing at me lately. I do my best to answer them, but my body language basically is telling her otherwise. This is all strange to me. It is like she wants my actions to change from 0 to 60 NOW.... I feel that I am going to be kinda weirded out and not know how to act sometimes. She is a female now, not a man. She does not understand nor I feel wants to wait for me to adapt!! Or understand when I tell everyone that I do accept her, why am I acting differently toward her. Well I am learning to adapt to being married to a women. It is only fair I get the benefit of the doubt here.

When she ask me if there is a bump on her face, she has a freaked out tone to her voice, I freeze, then state my response. 0 to 60 mpr again. Why does she not understand that I do accept her BUT I need time to adapt WTH??? I AM FRIGGIN CONFUSED!!!!!

Jills well is in what i call the paranoia stage. i am still in it but not as bad as her. she is in a stage where she wants to be really beautiful but she can't see her beauty. she is being very very impatient we should be grateful because we develop much quicker than normal girls but because we missed out on so much time as womyn we get like really upset about how long things take. eventually she will see that shes being silly may i suggest ask her therapist to explain how you are facing things just as hard as she is i think that could help and if doesn't well tell her i suggest and she can come scream at me for it because i don't want you anymore hurt than you already are. to be honest i am very surprised how she acts because your being amazing