Is my lady friend bi? Infact are all women bi?

[PrettyFlowingGown]

I've always wondered if all women are bisexual or have lesbian tendancys. It just seems that 2 women can come together so easily, and men dont. I'm not saying by just reading mags, books, tv shows and movies. I'm talking from experience.
My best friend who has told me and denys to be bisexual had a moment recently which makes me ask the question again. She has a friend whos openly bisexual, but my friends not. Recently she told me not to come around for a few hours cause she had to have private time with this lady to discuss strictly private matters. It got me baffled and a little intrigued what they might be talking about or what they were talking about.
I arrived that afternoon and my best friend seemed ok. I said how'd your friend go with her problems and she said "Why you ask" as if she was kinda hiding something. It just seemed weird. This was coming from a woman who denied to dabble in such territory.

But more recently she made my jaw drop. I was at her house oneday and this ladie came over unexpectadly without ringing, and obviously had problems and wanted to see my friend.
She came in shaking, fell in to my friends arms, they embraced, cuddled and my friend kissed her atleast 5 times to ease her down.
It kinda bothered me cause when I'm down my friend does'nt give me that sought of affection. She just stands there and lets me cry without a cuddle or comfort or anything.
I have brought it up, and its caused us a little "tiff" but we're still friends. She still denies her bisexuality or whatever, and said that women can confide in each other where a woman and man cant do it in certain areas.
I sought of feel like, I wish I was a woman totally so I can get same affection.
Am I paranoid in this matter!!!
My friend has had sex with ->-bleeped-<-s while dressed and has had a transexual too.
Is she leading me up garden path? What am I supposed to beleive? It just seems that, that day when they had private time together, my friend was very quiet after and hardly spoke, and when I walked past her bedroom she ran in, kicked something under the bed and shut the door quickly so I would'nt look in.
Any advice?

[Brianna]

I've been researching this for my thesis. Statistically women are much more liketly to be bisexual, yes. It's close to 50 percent by some measures.

Interestingly the Dominionists are likely to SAY they are not bissexual but they consistently score higher for bisexual and homosexual feelings than their non-Dominionist counterparts.

Brilala

[tinkerbell]

Well, I am the exception then; there is absolutely no way on this earth that I could ever be with a woman, absolutely no way!


tinkerbell

[Brianna]

My lesbian friends say all women are gay after a bottle of wine, Tink. Watch out!

Bri

Ps- So will I. I think kissing women is gross.

[tinkerbell]

My lesbian friends say all women are gay after a bottle of wine

Your friends don't know Tink Tink only has eyes for guys, cute guys that is! LOL


tinkerbell

[Melissa]

PFG, I think you are confusing sexual attraction and lack of discomfort with showing affection.  Personally I am bi, but it seems to change.  Lately my attraction has bene more towards men than women, but I also don't find the thought of kissing a woman (and other things) gross.  It's probably why I was able to be comfortable being married to a woman.

Melissa

[PrettyFlowingGown]

Yes, but do you think my friend is bisexual. I think she is, and she dont know it. She puts people in categorys too. We recently got back together after a 2 month split cause she labelled me "just a cd" and put all her transexual friends first. But shes seemed to have come around and respected my views.
But this is different entirely. If a woman and transexual get together are they considered lesbian. If not, whats the attraction. The kisses my friend gave to this woman were'nt just friendly kisses either

[Melissa]

Without actually knowing your friend, I cannot say.  If she tells you she's not bi, then I would respect that.

Melissa

[LostInTime]

Women are typically emotionally closer than men.  Showing emotion is okay for a female individual but not for someone who is male.  I have some huggy male friends while all of my female friends are huggers.

I also dated someone who did not like the label of lesbian even though she is primarily attracted to women.  mention the word bi to her though and she would hit the roof.  I would say that she was a lesbian with erratic sexual attraction to a person, male or female.  I think it was more of the act rather than anything else.

In the club scene I have seen women make out with one another and bask in the glow of free drinks for most of the night.  However, they did not sleep with one another and did not consider themselves bi.

YMMV and everyone is different.