Would you date a M2F...

[Nygeel]

I will say that I don't tolerate cissexism too well, and usually trans people are a bit better with that stuff.

Really my only requirement with dating is finding somebody with a similar understanding of gender as me.

[Annah]

I know like 70% of tguys are straight...but if you're gay then...would you date another F2M

your title is confusing....it asks if one would date a M2F but then in the OP you ask if one would date a F2M

[Anon]

I'm bi, so I would go out with a transwoman or a transman if the opportunity ever presented itself and I found them attractive.

TBH, I may even be more comfortable with them than I would be with a cis person, simply because of the similar experiences we would have had - and I wouldn't have any worries about their reaction to my own transsexualism.

[JohnAlex]

your title is confusing....it asks if one would date a M2F but then in the OP you ask if one would date a F2M

I think what the OP means to say is...
If you are FTM and you are straight, would you date a transwoman.
If you are FTM and you are gay, would you date a transguy.

[Aussie Jay]

FWIW I too am a straight guy and as such obviously, yes I would date a (trans)woman! Trans or cis still a woman..!

I will go a little against the grain though in saying I would have some hesitation with a pre op MtF - but it would depend a lot on the connection we had etc.

I'm not saying it's a deal breaker, but for me at least it is definitely something I would have to work at to overcome.

[dmx]

Yes.
I see transsexualism as a physical medical condition. That is like asking "would you date someone with diabetes?".

[Kentrie]

I like women but if I were to date a pre-op MTF then I wouldn't be able to emotionally handle my dysphoria and hers, especially if I loved the person because I wouldn't be able to bear to see them hurt or anything. So I think I'll stick to cis because it would be a lot easier for me. I would definitely consider dating a post-op MTF though if I ever met one. 

[wheat thins are delicious]

I feel if she were early in her transition, like had just come out and was figuring herself out it might be harder than if she were further into her transition.  Same goes for a trans man.  I am basically bisexual but prefer women.

I like women but if I were to date a pre-op MTF then I wouldn't be able to emotionally handle my dysphoria and hers, especially if I loved the person because I wouldn't be able to bear to see them hurt or anything. So I think I'll stick to cis because it would be a lot easier for me. I would definitely consider dating a post-op MTF though if I ever met one.

Post op trans men and women can still have and do still have dysphoria at times.

[Elijah3291]

my boyfriend is a FTM

[Wolfsnake]

I'm attracted to feminine and genderqueer males. I definitely prefer cis males, from a purely physical perspective, in the same way that I prefer red or black hair, dark eyes, and Asian features. They aren't essential, but they are very nice as frosting on the cake. The cake is more important, though. I can't be in a relationship with someone if I can't be really good friends with them. If I fell in love with a trans guy, so be it. I'm not real turned on by trans-male anatomy, probably because I have Issues related to my own body, but I'd figure out a way to make it work.

I would not date an MtF, though. That's not because I'm a cissexist jerk. It's because I'm gay, and I'm particularly attracted to feminine men. I'd be attracted to her male features, and that would be completely unfair to her.

[Sharky]

70% of trans men are straight? Its always seemed to me that 70% are gay or something.

I would date a transwoman, but she would have to be post op. I don't see how it would work out if she wasn't. I don't think I could ever reciprocate. If i was really attracted to her and she only had a boob job I would be willing to work something out and try having a relationship.


And this is my 1k post. I feel like I've spent way to much time on the Internet.

[dmx]

70% of trans men are straight? Its always seemed to me that 70% are gay or something.

Word. It really seems like that.

[Joeyboo~ :3]

I only like guys so yesss, I'd date a transd00d.

He has to be uber cute though   
(Which isn't a problem since most of you guys are)

[Da Monkey]

I would date anyone that I liked for who they are not what they have. Otherwise how the hell would I expect anyone to do the same for me?

[Ryno]

The only kind of person I could never see myself with is a heterosexual, cisgender male (and I suppose I wouldn't end up dating a straight guy now, anyway). And that's probably because of the three men I dated - two of whom I had sex with, all three of whom I sucked off - before coming out as anything queer. I wasn't attracted to their personalities, and I'm not completely sure how I feel about male genitalia. But if I were with a pre-op MtF I'd be comfortable with her genitals and would treat them the same as I would any woman's nether regions, and obviously respect her boundaries the same as I would any woman's.

I would not have any second thoughts if I met a wonderful woman who digged me back and happened to be a transsexual as well. It wouldn't even phase me when she tells me. I wouldn't get excited about it, I wouldn't ask any sexual or genital questions, just like I wouldn't if I were dating a cisfemale. As a transman I wouldn't feel comfortable having someone I just met ask me questions like that so I'd never put someone else in that situation, even if they didn't mind. As far as dating an FtM goes, well, I've never been out as a gay man so the same would apply if I were with a cisguy. I'd probably be very conservative and not open about the relationship.

TL;DR: Yes, I would date an MtF.

[jossef-ftm]

i am a straight guy i like womens only womens and yes i would date a trans women.

[Derek]

70% of trans men are straight? Its always seemed to me that 70% are gay or something.

It might seem that way due to what social circles you run in, but it's really pretty much the same spread as is it in the cissexual population. Some people are straight and some people are gay and some are bi and some are pansexual and some are asexual. It just depends on the person.

I've also heard that HRT can uh, 'adjust' your sexual preferences. Or simply the fact that once you start passing and are cool with yourself you can find yourself attracted to people you weren't attracted to before, for all sorts of reasons. Maybe because your brain chemistry is finally in line with itself or because, psychologically, you can finally see yourself in a relationship with someone as your *real* gender. Like if you were FtM and you didn't want to be with guys because you didn't want to be 'the girlfriend'.

Sexuality is fluid and strange and shifting genders kind of makes everything feel really complicated.

[vik2ray]

My answer would be. I'm bi. and currently undecided. ftm yes i would date and mtf...ha vent met any in person i dint know how i would feel.

Generally i like bio girls. but not having met a transwoman in person and had the time to get to know her as a person beyond a text message or an email. i will say sure why not id give it a shot after all transwomen are sexy.

And if Ive learnt anything about my sexual preferences its that i can always find some way of seeing the person underneath whatever guise it make take at the time. female male intersex or asexual or even something yet to be discovered i am willing to take time to get to know a person.

Despite having a main preference for ladies and being occasionally called a Casanova i can treat men as well as women to a romantic dinner. flowers and a back massage and curl up on the couch watching their favourite movie even if the genre bores me to tears. I'm still a romantic goth at heart.

[Jude]

As someone who likes the ladies, and the ladies only, I would definitely date a trans lady.

A trans lady is still a lady DUH!

[bojangles]

70% of trans men are straight? Its always seemed to me that 70% are gay or something.

I was thinking the same thing.


I'm attracted to women only, which definitely includes transwomen. But to echo what a couple guys have said, it would be difficult to deal with body parts that I want for myself being attached to my lover. Maybe we could get a two for one deal at the surgeon's office and celebrate heartily later.