No dick, no deal.

[Jeatyn]

I don't remember who now...I must have cut them out at some point someone was consistently using my old name and pronouns and I asked how long of an adjustment period they were going to take before they switched; and the answer was "when you have a penis"

I don't think these people quite understand the MAGNITUDE of bottom surgery. Like they just have a stockpile of willys lying around to superglue on to us.

[Natkat]

also something I hate is when people ask me "so when do you become a boy?"
like "when do you get a penis?"

I mean, I always been me? and I always been the same person so it seams pretty stupid to say, when do you become this person I am?
just like it would chance so much for me to have a pee pee,
it wouldnt,

[GnomeKid]

ah man, I know it sucks for you, but I almost wish my family was the same.  Mostly because then I could say "well then you pay for it"  and if they cared that much they would.   Unfortunately they could care less if I had a dick or not, and sometimes seem to not understand why its absence would matter. [though I can't hate on them they're the most accepting family there is]

[Jeatyn]

also something I hate is when people ask me "so when do you become a boy?"
like "when do you get a penis?"

I mean, I always been me? and I always been the same person so it seams pretty stupid to say, when do you become this person I am?
just like it would chance so much for me to have a pee pee,
it wouldnt,

THIS times a billion, even a doctor I went to once immediately tried to refer me to a urologist because he assumed that all I was asking for was bottom surgery.

Right so if I still look all girly and have boobs and hips and a high voice, strapping a dick on is going to make me insta-pass

[Darrin Scott]

I agree with both of you. I get sick of peoples obsession with shlongs.

[Sharky]

 

I agree with both of you. I get sick of peoples obsession with shlongs.

So am I.
My mother and grandmother keep saying I want to get a dick sewn on and that I want to make myself a Chaz Bono freak.

[Clay]

I agree with both of you. I get sick of peoples obsession with shlongs.

yeah. i don't quite understand it, either. i didn't use to have a real concept of boy/girl until recently. i just saw people. now dealing with all sorts of people regarding transition, i get constantly bumped into it and i don't like it.