This is more for my wife than me, I am not super concerned with what to start with first when it comes to beginning my transition, but my wife is always worrying about what she should do, and in what order.
Like, just the other night she was asking me if she should start the electrolysis or start working to fix her hair, including getting hair plugs to fill in the balding areas near her bangs, she calls them her devil horns.
I have noticed alot can change, in big and little ways once you start hormones, like lightning of most hair areas, minor bone adjustments, even (not always) voice changes. So alot of my thoughts go to telling her that perhaps waiting to see what the hormones will start doing for her, to see what she may choose to work on. But she still frets constantly. I feel so bad for her, but I am unable to reassure most of the time because for us the results are still fairly unknown to us.
Can anyone give her any suggestions so she doesn't worry about it so much?
